Their idea of being a high value women is being subservient housewives to their husbands and that having a career is irrelevant, pursuing higher education is unnecessary. They think being ambitious and having high paying jobs takes women’s femininity away and it’s not going to attract a HVM. They think as long they marry the right men, they are somehow immune to financial hardships because husband will provide and take care of them and they can just pray their problems away.

This mindset has several problems because finding a man that provide everything for you and never leaving you depends on luck and you don’t always have control over it no matter how great of a wife you become. Although plenty women choose to temporarily leave work to raise children and there’s nothing wrong with that but many of these women have job experiences and education to fall back on if their marriage doesn’t work out.

Many of these tradwives complains that society don’t value femininity and complains there are not enough tradwives in real life and somehow blames feminism and modern career women for taking their choices away when reality most feminist and career women don’t even care. Most modern women don’t want to give up their independence and knows that the other route is huge financial gamble.

The huge irony is that many of these internet tradwives make passive income by preaching their outdated ideas online and many of them went to college. They made it seem that they are not doing anything to earn income when in reality earning cash while preaching women shouldn’t work. Most people can sense the nonsense miles away but there will be young impressionable girls that will fall for this trap. A lot of these internet tradwives are young women who been married less than 10 years and even if your life is ideal now you can’t always predict the future. What are your opinions on these.