| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1339 | Had a hard week so i made a charcuterie board with champagne, a lavender candle and a vase full of fresh flowers. Don't wait for a guy to treat you right when you can skip men and do that for yourself. | REMINDER 👑 | i_h8_m3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/21 06:44 AM |
| 372 | On a popular sub not even an incel sub, i used to enjoy that sub but good lord it's a circle jerk of misogyny. But men have great senses of humor right. As long as no one jokes about them. | MALE DEPRAVITY | i_h8_m3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 02:36 AM |
| 291 | Quitting sex work | LESSON LEARNED | i_h8_m3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 07:10 PM |
| 231 | Distancing myself from my boyfriend. How to keep that strength when you love him? | #HeAin'tTheOne2021 | i_h8_m3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 09:27 AM |
| 1 | Dealing with the temptation for sex? | SEX STRATEGY | i_h8_m3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 03:17 AM |
| 1 | Self care suggestions | i_h8_m3 | /r/askFDS | 21/06/21 11:38 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 17 | Anyone else thinks advices from tradwives are terribleI feel bad for tradwife ppl. Have you never been taught to do taxes? Drive? Build a resume? Anything other than chores???? You're stuck having to depend on a man. Thats not high value. And thats a great way to have to bend and break to your husbands bullshit. Its a damn trap. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 02:34 AM |
| 6 | Please do not use race as sign someone is a HVM, VET EVERYONE.When it comes to that. Men are men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 03:42 AM |
| 15 | Scrote wants to start secret “poly “relationship with gfs sisterAs a sister myself i can not even imagine letting my sister unknowingly date someone like that. Good lord id rather every bit of evidence and spill the beanz to her asap and be there for her if i could. Im so disgusted by that post and that she had a doubt :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 07:41 PM |
| 3 | It was too good to be true.OF is a horrible site for sexworkers (barely can call women who exclusively cam or use OF a sexworker but for lack of a better word). They will throw those women away the momebt they stop profitting off of them. When I was in that I heard from so manynother how OF just took all their earnings and banned them with no explanation. Yet these same women will tirelessly defend OF. Sad | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 02:07 AM |
| 4 | 18 year old man from Maine looking for a wife in 1865. Better than most OLD profiles.Mens profiles on old half the time are more requirements for a woman than informatiom about themselves. That or creepy rape/sex "jokes".... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 01:48 AM |
| 23 | This is the translation of the article from a very famous greek newspaper. Another woman was killed by her boyfriend and this is what he has to write about it. (Whole article translation in the comments)One more reason I am fucking terrified to date men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 01:46 AM |
| 9 | I had some scrotes ask why women ghost on dates and rather than listen to the why I was told I shouldn’t date.I ghost if they dont take no for an answer. The ammount of guys I have been forced to ghost after they will not accept rejection is stupid. And then im the immature one for cutting contact???? If i kept talking and stayed polite I'd be torn apart for "leading him on" you can NEVER WIN. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 01:43 AM |
| 1 | Do not be around a man intimidated by your successLife>men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/21 01:34 AM |
| 4 | this is the wayIn b4 men call this oppression | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/21 10:38 PM |
| 5 | Male neighbor invited me to his daughter's birthday--red flag?Our own intuition is often correct. We need to stop suppressing and ignoring it to spare the feelings of men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/21 11:43 PM |
| 260 | Male neighbor invited me to his daughter's birthday--red flag?Your gut is telling you something is fishy. Listen to it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/21 01:54 AM |
| 6 | I don’t know anything about this family. But this video is absolutely heartwarming.? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 05:36 AM |
| 9 | I don’t know anything about this family. But this video is absolutely heartwarming.That is truely beautiful. <3 it's lovely to see a father so dedicated to his family | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 05:35 AM |
| 47 | Ah yes, how could you turn down an awkward marriage proposal in the middle of the street? 😩👏🏻👌🏻If a guy is willing to spent upwards of 5k on a computer that he does nothin but play video games and watch porn on, but is unwilling to invest in you or your relationship...thats just... uh. Bye | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/21 07:55 PM |
| 4 | And then everyone clapped! Do they seriously spend time and energy roleplaying and making accounts so they make us look bad?? 😂I have never seen anyone talk like that here. So obviously his own larping. He needs a life | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/21 06:53 PM |
| 18 | The guy is 55!!! 🤢What a fucking asshole. Abandons his family because he is a creep | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 05:22 PM |
| 1 | Had a hard week so i made a charcuterie board with champagne, a lavender candle and a vase full of fresh flowers. Don't wait for a guy to treat you right when you can skip men and do that for yourself.Yes Maam! Do something special for yourself | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 02:46 PM |
| 7 | Women just need to lower their standards 🙄I would rather just be single forever than ever get into another relationship without having standards. Never ever ever again haha. If the only thing men can offer you is sex and the chance to be his mommy and his therapist then RUN | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/21 06:06 AM |
| 140 | if he wanted to he wouldI hope he cleaned up after lmao. Ive worked in many positions in hotels, i can tell you from experience fresh petals and flowers can stain areas, clog drains, and are just a hastle over all to clean. Super beautiful though | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/21 12:59 AM |
| 3 | Had a hard week so i made a charcuterie board with champagne, a lavender candle and a vase full of fresh flowers. Don't wait for a guy to treat you right when you can skip men and do that for yourself.Oh ofc! Grapes, pitted dates, cherry tomatoes, roasted salted cashews, honey roasted pecans. For meats there are prosciutto, goppa di parma and mild genoa salami. For cheeses there is good ol jalapeño harvadi, an aged harvadi with caramel notes, and notre dame brie. A few flowers scattered on for looks. Unpictured I put 3 different types of cracker. There is an olive oil and basil soft cracker, cranberry and poppy seed crisps, and brosecetto flavoured crackers. I love these boards bc it gives yo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/21 12:45 AM |
| 4 | Had a hard week so i made a charcuterie board with champagne, a lavender candle and a vase full of fresh flowers. Don't wait for a guy to treat you right when you can skip men and do that for yourself.An fds get together would be so great fr haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/21 12:35 AM |
| 3 | Had a hard week so i made a charcuterie board with champagne, a lavender candle and a vase full of fresh flowers. Don't wait for a guy to treat you right when you can skip men and do that for yourself.Omg i loved dates since i was a little girl! Very very sweet. Chewy and sticky. The closest to natural candy you will find. Its incredible with dark chocolates, nuts, cheeses or just on their own. Even just with some cashew butter or plain peanut butter it is a treat! And very high in fiber too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/21 12:33 AM |
| 30 | Had a hard week so i made a charcuterie board with champagne, a lavender candle and a vase full of fresh flowers. Don't wait for a guy to treat you right when you can skip men and do that for yourself.Honey roasted pecans too :3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/21 08:05 AM |
| 23 | Had a hard week so i made a charcuterie board with champagne, a lavender candle and a vase full of fresh flowers. Don't wait for a guy to treat you right when you can skip men and do that for yourself.Thank you! Its great self care and another step in my recovery from my eating disorder. Pushing myself to try new foods and learn to relax :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/21 08:04 AM |
| 11 | The Incels are DeCLaRiNg WaR on Us Again 🙄😒Pro male vendetta....the mask... everything... please tell me this is satire. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/21 09:55 PM |
| 7 | Apparently Reddit does not think that ADVOCATING CHILD MURDER violates their Terms of Service. This is from our "satire" sub (basically just a bunch of incels pretending to be us and saying outrageous shit to try and get us banned)I don't think any of us want to murder men? I think incels are projecting their own views of women onto us and how we see men? We literally just want to stay safe from abusive men, have a good partner and most importantly focus on our own health, career, wellbeing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/21 05:44 PM |
| 3 | Planning to end things with LVM tomorrowThe faster and sooner you do it the better. Last sunday I texted my ex not.to contact me or my family then blocked him and deleted his number, threw out any thing that reminded me of him. I was with him for 3 years but I already feel so much better. The first two days I cried..alot. its ok to cry you have to get it out. Ive just been keeping myself busy with work, learning new skills at work, going out, treating myself. It'll get better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/21 08:41 PM |
| 8 | A woman got sued by her Tinder match for not hooking up with himTheir entitlement will never end. They are so wrapped up in their own selffish wants that they don't comprehend that we are more than just objects for them to toy with. It's so small minded | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/21 07:18 PM |
| 9 | Beware of Male PostersFr so stupid they can't just let us be. They go on how they don't want women like us, so why not give us peace. Why constantly bother us? Go outside | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/21 08:04 PM |
| 63 | I’m home free!I would show his messages to law enforcement and record/document anything he says for evidence. He sounds really dangerous. Proud of you. Stay safe | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/21 01:52 AM |
| 1 | Just bought myself diamonds for the first timeI dumped mine yesterday as well! Whwn i can afford it instead of diamonds im buying myself a kitten | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/21 10:28 PM |
| 9 | 🚨Vetting Strategy: Watch how a man drivesBreak checking a semi. What...the...fuck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/21 10:24 PM |
| 5 | Reddit hates women who say size matters.Why do we keep shpwing men empathy that we know they will never return. :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/21 06:50 PM |
| 3 | Distancing myself from my boyfriend. How to keep that strength when you love him?Thank u. Im excited for freedom :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 08:55 PM |
| 8 | Distancing myself from my boyfriend. How to keep that strength when you love him?Havent unblocked and today i threw anything that reminded me of him into the trash. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 08:54 PM |
| 163 | Distancing myself from my boyfriend. How to keep that strength when you love him?Sent my last text. Asked him not to try to contact me or my family. Blocked him... idk how i feel. But its for the best | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 10:29 AM |
| 102 | Distancing myself from my boyfriend. How to keep that strength when you love him?Screenshotting these replies to read when I feel like I'm going to give in to him again 😭❤ Been with him for 3+years now so its just hard. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 10:03 AM |
| 1 | I’m struggling to see what’s funny about this. Disrespectful and self-centered, definitely. Imagine thinking this was a cute or funny gift!I know this is a super old post but...imagine leaving the house wearing a clash of clans t shirt 🥴 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 03:04 AM |
| 44 | I'm appalled by some of the comments on Jammies' latest post. If you want to participate here, you have to respect our community. If being expected to follow subreddit rules makes you "feel unwelcome", then leave.Never been in any femcel community, didnt eben know that was a thing. I want to have a man who respects me and holds himself to a high standard. As i hold myself to a high standard. This community has helped me escape horrible things in my life and I hope it doesnt became a place to shame woman for even wanting a good partner. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/21 10:18 PM |
| 7 | A scrote blocked the sidewalk with his car in order to flirt.One time i was on a fieldtrip to an art museum. Underage ofc. Walking downtown with my school group when this 40 yr old looking, balding, over weight asshole pulls up to the sidewalk right next to me and starts shouting and whistling at me, literally in front of my mates and teachers. I was HUMILIATED and scared. No one in their right mind thinks its flattering. A strange man pulling his car up to you is absolutely terrifying. Everytime I see this im bracing myself to run away because it could b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 12:51 AM |
| 1 | Imposed ideas of femininity harm and oppress women - Change my mind. 🥰It's weak men who want this type of "trad wife". They are SO insecure in themselves that they need a sort of safe space with a person who has no opinions, never disagrees or challenges them at all. They think woman are supposed to be that to men. It's pathetic really | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/21 09:26 PM |
| 1 | On a popular sub not even an incel sub, i used to enjoy that sub but good lord it's a circle jerk of misogyny. But men have great senses of humor right. As long as no one jokes about them.When we do it we risk being killed so... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/21 02:19 AM |
| 6 | Dear Snapchat, why? (This was on my new recommended filters, have 0 idea why)So annoying. It's such a shit company too. Ever since I quit OF I just want to get away from it yet I constanrly see their misleading ads about people using that platform to post music, cooking, or exercise training. Like no. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 10:54 PM |
| 37 | "HURR DURR I FEEL CONFIDENT IN MY APPERANCE I ACCEPT MYSELF" a tale of mediocre life copingFr I will never undeestand men who give up on basic hygiene and how they present themselves to people. I spend extra money on skin care, quality soaps, body scrubs, lotions facemasks. Eat healthy stay active. Use sunscreen. Watch my posture speak clear and loud. Dress appropriately and in CLEAN clothes. Every day. But some fat dude who hasnt showered, doesnt clean his ass, covered in grease om stained clothes feels it is his place to mumble snarky comments at me and then turn around and they he … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 10:52 PM |
| 4 | On a popular sub not even an incel sub, i used to enjoy that sub but good lord it's a circle jerk of misogyny. But men have great senses of humor right. As long as no one jokes about them.Unfortunately I don't think I can say the sub here. Its crazy though when I commented on it the OP didn't even see how it was rape. Which is disturbing an another level | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 10:40 PM |
| 28 | Is it work if you can’t put it on your resume as experience? If ‘sex work is work’, would they encourage their mothers, sisters, or daughters to pursue it?Been there. 100 bucks a month is not even close to enough to make up for the absolute nonsense I had to deal with. People harrassing me, pedos trying to get me to tell them about my own childhood abuse, stalking, doxing, being exposed to my family, people constantly trying to demean me so i lower my price. It was so messed up in so many ways. Not only that. When a man pays even a little bit to yoy he feels entitled so all the time and attention he can get from you it is horrible horrible drainin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 09:40 PM |
| 1 | Imagine if for 1 Day women all acted like stereotypical scrotes, what would happen?The world would fall apart jesus | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/21 10:53 PM |
| 17 | Stop worrying about 🍆, invest in yourself and the sisterhood. The Queendom will follow, sis 👸🏻Great work! Wishing you the best onward. Thank you for this message! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/21 03:01 PM |
| 2 | Quitting sex workThank you so much this was such a sweet message. Your daughter is very lucky to have a woman like you in her life ❤ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 06:39 PM |
| 2 | Quitting sex workIn a perfect world maybe however reality is not like that. Prostitutes are vulnerable and always degraded. Maling it legal will only pull in more sick depraved men and get younger and younger girls interested | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 05:12 PM |
| 1 | Quitting sex workIts not all its hyped up to be I also had an OF account. It's hard work. You have to spam advertisements. Get abusive messages all the time. The payout is very low. You're competeing with celebrities who made OF accounts for a quick buck bc they are already well known and have tons of men who will pay alot to just see their body. For me and you its not like that. OF also takes 20% of everything you earn and alot of the women I knew had OF just boot them off and take all their money with no expla… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 05:11 PM |
| 11 | Today on Manslators of FDS: Words Weaponized Against WomenA few from my experiences. Scary- you didn't stay silent when je said something stupid. Ugly- you rejected him. Mentally Ill- he disagreed with you. Annoying-you dare talk Cold- you're too drained to keep being his therapist. Whore- you slept with someone who wasnt him. If you slept with him then its ok. Judgmental- you dare question anything about him. Unfair- you didn't lessen yourself to make him feel better | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 08:18 PM |
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