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is there a link where i can read about this system? never heard of it before.
/r/seduction18/09/13 09:28 PM
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Sure that works also. Nowadays I have been quite busy so I mostly do drinks dates at places that also serve food so it is an option which work really well also and are much easier. I think the bigger point is that coming up with a creative exciting date is usually not all that important; what is more important is how you perform on the date and having a date with good logistics (for example, meeting near your home)
/r/seduction18/09/13 07:41 PM
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This is all true; and I agree sitting next to your date (which btw is pretty easy to accomplish on a dinner date, or at least sitting perpendicular) is even better. Anyways, my point is more that dinner is a good date, not necessarily the best possible date ever. You need to spark sexual interest regardless on any date, but what is nice about a 'boring' date like dinner (or drinks, maybe even better!) is that any spark or good feelings must be due to you and not the date activity.
/r/seduction18/09/13 07:38 PM
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I posted one technique here: http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/1mfv2q/outer_game_getting_back_to_her_place/ You can adapt 2 + 3 to go back to her place. On the full article on my website there's also the very simple but effective: "Can I just use the bathroom real quick?" technique to get back to her place.
/r/seduction18/09/13 07:35 PM
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Benefits include: ability to talk easily, ability to use eye contact, as far as tables, its easy to touch across the table when applicable but I agree it is harder to kino. Also, the time of dinner is usually perfect; it usually ends at a time where you can go somewhere else/ideally back to your place. That is the key. It's only pressure filled if you can't hold a conversation. It may be a difficult date for some, but I just know from my experience, it is one of the most successful (out of hundr…
/r/seduction18/09/13 06:54 PM
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I actually disagree with the dinner part. Movie I agree. I realize I am in the minority, but I think dinner is a great date and have had tremendous success with dinner dates in terms of 1st date f-closes. You have to be good at conversation, but I think there is so much about how you shouldn't take a girl to dinner that most guys actually DON'T do dinner dates anymore. The creative date is a fallacy nowadays, it HAS become the safe play: "Do something fun so that you don't have to be a fun/inter…
/r/seduction18/09/13 06:08 PM
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Stop hanging out in the snow... No but seriously, it sounds like maybe you are coming off as needy. You seem to be calling and texting a lot. I made a post earlier about how text game should be more or less for logistics. Try keeping it to that and see if that impacts your game. Also, are you escalating enough on dates? A good night kiss isn't much after a good date. Maybe you are misreading some of the interest level? Try to escalate further on the dates to get a better feel for how the date is…
/r/seduction18/09/13 06:05 PM
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I just play. I suck at singing. Usually I play flamenco guitar or piano, but some girls dig it when I go crazy on the electric haha.
/r/seduction18/09/13 02:35 PM
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Thanks. The guitar line is amazingly successful for me. I also like to bring up music/guitar during the date and then again near the end of the date to easily segue into suggesting they come up and listen to a 'live performance' or something of the sort.
/r/seduction18/09/13 01:51 PM
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That is one approach for sure, and for some situations it makes sense; though I will say I find I have a very high probability of a first date f-close from women off online dating (I don't game random girls on facebook often if at all, given I find it much more inefficient than online dating apps/sites) even if I just text for logistics.
/r/seduction18/09/13 12:05 PM
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While there are different details for each one of these questions, the general answer to "Does X matter for getting girls" is "yes, but not as much as you think"
/r/seduction17/09/13 05:05 PM
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I disagree unless it is an extremely absurd amount that it looks like you have a health issue. I am pretty restless and move around a lot and it has had zero impact on my game. Even those who comment on it I just play it up like a DHV that I'm always active etc.
/r/seduction17/09/13 01:31 PM
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This is impossible to answer in a good way without knowing her. Don't worry too much about complimenting her to be honest; just let the conversation flow.
/r/seduction17/09/13 01:16 PM
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An article that covers three critical concepts of pick-up everyone should know, at least in my opinion!
/r/seduction17/09/13 01:04 PM
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is this a joke? There are tons of people everywhere in NYC and some nightclubs that allow 18+
/r/seduction16/09/13 08:26 PM
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It is not an unknown art, there just isn't much published about it, but that will change, at least I know I am working on a comprehensive wing man guide. Some basic tips are (some of these are not applicable for him since he isn't also looking to close) physical positioning (make sure you aren't blocking each other off from talking to the friend etc.) careful with deprecating humor re: your wing it's never too late to switch girls (if it's clear switching is a better match up, switch!) be positi…
/r/seduction16/09/13 06:57 PM
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You don't need to see if she likes you before making a move. The more you delay the more it hurts your chances. Simply make a move and find out. Worst case she says no.
/r/seduction16/09/13 06:02 PM
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"What's wrong, you can't handle competition?"
/r/seduction16/09/13 02:27 PM
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The advice here is strong and you should always strive to be better in bed, but one point I would like to make is that good sex is much more important in a relationship and to keep a woman than to see a woman again. Women are naturally inclined to want to see you again after you sleep with them, even if the sex was bad. SO, for you guys who need to work on your technique/etc., don't be afraid to go for it anyway: sleeping with a girl, even bad sex, is the BEST way to get her to see you again.
/r/seduction16/09/13 01:28 PM
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It's both I think, but your point is still a good one. I actually made this exact point in an article 7 reasons why you should workout: http://www.joshsway.com/articles/view/7-reasons-why-you-should-workout .. point #3: "(3) It will make you look better—virtually any body type you want can be attained with the proper exercise regimen. While looks matter much less than you think in terms of seducing women, looking better will make you feel better about yourself, and confidence most definitely mat…
/r/seduction16/09/13 12:38 PM
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yep, it's very hard for people to do it, even my friends who have personally seen me do it successfully multiple times. This is quite specific to club game in my experience, but it does work. And for those thinking I must be really good looking + tall etc.. I'm actually averaging looking and about 5'8"
/r/seduction16/09/13 12:27 PM
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nice post. my favorite club opener is "the point" .. I use it regularly with considerable success. It is simple. I look the girl I am interested in straight in the eye and point at her and hold the point right at her until she acknowledges me, then i motion for her to come over to me. If you have some social proof and confidence this opener works remarkably well.
/r/seduction16/09/13 11:27 AM
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Interesting. I'll make it a note to contribute some outer game stuff..
/r/seduction15/09/13 03:24 PM
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I notice a lot of outer game stuff gets crappy votes versus inner game.. maybe that is why?
/r/seduction14/09/13 07:36 PM
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What are you interested in? What are they interested in? Is there anything funny or unique going on where you are? Where do you live? How do you know each other? What brings you to this party? The list is endless!
/r/seduction14/09/13 04:02 PM
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A lot of advice generally suggests "I have a boyfriend" is usually a shit test or that it shouldn't matter; but, I disagree with this. If a girl says "I have a boyfriend" your odds are much lower whether or not you she actually has one. Doesn't mean you can't get her anyway, but eh, I prefer to go for a cute girl who doesn't say she has a boyfriend; plenty of them out there.
/r/seduction14/09/13 03:58 PM
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Sorry for your loss. If it were me, I would think about this date as a welcome break from the recent tragedies in your life and try to steer the topics to that direction. End of the day though, if it comes up, you can talk about it. Often times, delivery is much more important when it comes to being successful on a date than the actual topic of conversation.
/r/seduction13/09/13 03:00 PM
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Great. When she comes over, you need to make a move. And don't just settle for a kiss, go for more (being respectful of course!!!)
/r/seduction13/09/13 01:55 PM
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The question is why? If it is because you did not go for it, then you have lowered your chances. If you went for it and she turned you down but still wants to hang out... who knows? it depends. In general though, these situations usually occur because you did not escalate when you had an opportunity. I just posted a link about this actually...
/r/seduction13/09/13 01:49 PM
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To deal with cumming too fast, try to bring yourself as close as you can to the brink without cumming and then relax and repeat. Do this on a regular basis and you will notice a significant improvement in your staying power.
/r/seduction13/09/13 01:48 PM
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absolutely agree. I was mostly trying to emphasize the point that many people overlook which is that women have no experience dating women.
/r/seduction12/09/13 03:35 PM
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A 7'2 version of lebron... e.g. the best potential player imaginable...
/r/seduction12/09/13 02:39 PM
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(1) You may be reading her attraction signals wrong (2) You may have escalated too early (3) Don't worry about it necessarily, sometimes it is better to actually not kiss until you two are isolated in a potential sex location
/r/seduction12/09/13 01:13 PM
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Woman or man? Very big difference.
/r/seduction12/09/13 01:09 PM
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Agree this is a very common mistake in many areas of life, not just pick up, but as others said it depends on your utility function which is not always maximum EV.
/r/seduction12/09/13 12:46 PM
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Well, you could just use the same game you would use on a busted chick on an attractive chick and see what happens. However, I think your issue is a little bit deeper: For example, you suggest bagging a busted chick would only throw you deeper into your "hole". I disagree. It seems you are quite rusty, getting some of the rust off with some successful "seductions" will help boost your confidence not to mention as they say, sex is like pizza, even bad sex is good!
/r/seduction12/09/13 12:43 PM
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Whatever, guys learning from here should not be waiting anywhere close to 5+ dates to get a KISS!!
/r/seduction11/09/13 08:14 PM
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As others have mentioned, comment about things going out wherever you are at the moment. Other tips are talking about a hobby or interest of yours, or one of hers. Always be sure you are calibrating appropriately (i.e. if you see she is bored shitless with the current topic, switch to a new one) etc.
/r/seduction11/09/13 07:35 PM
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Highly doubt this is a relevant shit test that warrants any special action. Respond however you feel like, I doubt it will matter much.
/r/seduction11/09/13 07:33 PM
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Rejection does have consequences and we should fear it, at least a little, because otherwise we will never learn. Subconscious learning is very powerful and even works w/pick up
/r/seduction11/09/13 07:01 PM
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Outcome independence is a very misused term in seduction. How it SHOULD be used is as follows: "Just because you didn't succeed doesn't mean you made a mistake" It should NOT be used as: "Who cares if you didn't succeed, be outcome independent!" Rejection needs to hurt some so that we subconsciously learn from it. Not caring about outcomes is idiotic. We should care about outcomes, but know not to judge our actions by their result.
/r/seduction11/09/13 06:37 PM
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This was a hard thing for me to deal with when I started out many years ago. However, the cure is simple, just force yourself to do it and not worry about being creepy. If you have trouble with eye contact, you should be erring on the side of being creepy with your eye contact, not the reverse!
/r/seduction11/09/13 06:30 PM
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nofap is pointless, but if it makes you feel better (i.e. placebo effect) then do it. To fix approach anxiety you simply need to approach more. There is no other fix. Try situational or indirect openers to start, or simply going up to a girl and saying hi. The worst thing that can happen is what? she tells you to f off? Who cares!
/r/seduction11/09/13 06:28 PM
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I linked an article on whether or not looks matter in the r/dating reddit... They matter, they help, but you can get women without it. Just like you can have good looks and still suck with women.
/r/seduction11/09/13 06:00 PM
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First of all, it is not important to intentionally bring up sexual topics. This is a common myth which is simply wrong. KINO is VERY important, but you do NOT have to bring up sexual topics. I actually rarely do, I make my sexual intent clear with eye contact and kino. You CAN bring up sexual topics, but not necessary. In your situation, just plead the 5th! For example answer: "Slow down there, what do you think you can just start talking about sex and I'm going to give it up?" or something like…
/r/seduction11/09/13 04:07 PM
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