I wrote a little about a technique to get back to a girls place. Here are a few other simple techniques to get her back to your place. They are simple, and that is on purpose, because the key mistake most men make is not asking in the first place!

Trick #1: Just ask her! This isn’t even a trick but you would be surprised how often the answer to the following question: “Do you want to come up [over] and hang out for a bit?” is “Sure!” A lot of times all it takes is asking. Some women want to physically escalate but will just not make the first move. Make the first move.

Trick #2: “Want to come up to hear me play guitar/see my artwork/etc.” This is my go to method and one of the most successful approaches to getting a woman back to your place. Many women may be completely comfortable going back to your place just to hook up but they do not want to be judged as so many men. Coming up to hear you play guitar (if you do) or for you to show her something interesting that only exists at your place gives her a great excuse to “save face”.

Trick #3: Setting the stage pre-date. This is a technique that works best if you are meeting extremely close to your place (mostly useful for those who live and date in a city). The idea here is to come up with some excuse to go back to your place (or at least your building) before the date even starts. “I forgot my wallet” is a good one to use; or if she is coming with a big work bag, offer her to drop it off with your doorman or at your apartment. You still have to go on the date, of course, but in the first scenario your date is subconsciously more comfortable with your place making it more likely she will agree to go back there later and in the latter scenario, she has no choice but to at least go back to your building to get her stuff! You can also try to ask her (if you are near her place) if you can drop something off there.

These techniques and a few more + some background originally appeared on: http://www.joshsway.com