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gaburba/r/askTRP10/08/17 07:03 PM
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gaburba/r/askTRP12/09/17 09:25 PM
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gaburba/r/askTRP14/09/17 12:10 PM
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I think you read what you wanted to read friend haha
/r/TheRedPill08/03/19 02:05 PM
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I dunno imagine the power reversal here. Now if she wants sex she has to ask, will she want a guy she can just lay with effortlessly. He's making her chase and it sounds like it's working
/r/MGTOW08/03/19 08:20 AM
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This is the only thing here you need to pay attention to. Nothing wrong with knowing what you like just don't let women peg you as a BB for not nailing them after 5 minutes, establish you're still the prize and she has to work to get into bed with you.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/19 07:59 AM
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The problem is that women would like to claim that men can behave in a non "masculine" way but then we are still judged for our behaviour when we act out of the frame they want to put us in. It's rare for a woman to be accepting of a man who has any kind of baggage or emotional flaws and God forbid you cry in front of them because they naturally see it as weakness no matter how "woke" they claim to be, they are not able to deny their own instincts.
/r/MensRights27/02/19 07:13 AM
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I'm no expert, but could this potentially help if word got out. If the hamster worked to your advantage, a hotter girl could think "why doesn't he want me? I'm prettier than her" if nothing else you get laid and get practice sexually/socially.
/r/askTRP27/02/18 09:31 PM
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A lot of girls claim to use dominant sex as a way of taking power back. So it's not a given correlation. If their story is genuine then there is going to be some baggage possibly too. You probably should weigh the benefits of any interaction with a girl like that.
/r/askTRP10/01/18 06:11 PM
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You should only keep her around as a friend if she adds value to your life. If she continues to help with projects or cook or whatever then there's no harm but if the relationship reverts back to what it was before then do as you have before and cut ties.
/r/askTRP10/01/18 12:34 PM
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Sorry you had to experience that. Just pat yourself on the back for getting through it, earning a living and going to school anyway. You've achieved a lot and with your mindset you know better than to fall into the trap like so many others do. Well done for overcoming so much and carry on because you deserve every success you get from here on. Good for you man, well done doesn't even come close.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/17 04:42 PM
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So no one has mentioned it yet but I'm sure they will. Read the sex God method, that will help you so much. Don't fixate on the size of your dick, you're more than just a penis.
/r/askTRP27/11/17 07:33 AM
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Haha just cos something is easy doesn't mean it's a good idea
/r/askTRP09/10/17 11:20 AM
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I have a friend who is now in an LTR with our other friends sister. To start with it was awkward and strange for all of us in our circle especially the brother of the girl. We all told him it fell to him to say something but we all also knew that on some level a line was crossed. I wouldn't say I recommend it but it's more down to your friend to say something if it will be a problem since you have no issue otherwise you wouldn't be asking. That being said if you plan on just fucking this girl an…
/r/askTRP09/10/17 06:39 AM
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Haha fair, well I'm high enough value to her that I don't need to worry but that doesn't mean I don't want to improve in this area. Thanks for the advice
/r/askTRP14/09/17 06:13 PM
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Ok so try and think more about what I say so I don't dig myself in deeper lol
/r/askTRP14/09/17 05:42 PM
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Honestly it's not an often occurrence I just don't want every time to be a screw up for my frame because then I have to work to rebuild it. I'd rather it stay in tact to avoid having to reclaim my value
/r/askTRP14/09/17 04:43 PM
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Ok that's helpful so just removing myself from the picture while something which upsets me is happening. I need to stay more conscious during discussions otherwise I become very reactionary. I'm hoping that just being conscious of my behavior will help to improve slowly.
/r/askTRP14/09/17 04:11 PM
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So are you referring to viewpoints or cases she may make to argue her point?
/r/askTRP14/09/17 04:08 PM
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This is my intention avoid the argument by being that wall which is unmoved by the point she is trying to make. Just get too defensive so looking for tips to avoid taking that stance
/r/askTRP14/09/17 04:08 PM
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That's how I try to look at it but I do get wound up easier than I should, trying to improve on this but struggling to at the moment
/r/askTRP14/09/17 04:06 PM
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Not to discredit your point, because you are right that will count for a lot, but how much is going to vary across the board. For example I'm British so it matters a lot less, I find Americans are obsessed with good teeth but compared to Europe I think a lot of people could care less. And I'm sure that's true for other countries as well, I'm sure others can attest to this. This is a very subjective thing as with all looks but you may just suffer because of the market you live in.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/17 11:57 AM
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That's the plan just not always very good at involving others in my plans I've become selfish with my time but in a guilt free way but that has made me blind to when my partner needs/deserves a reward
/r/askTRP13/09/17 05:39 PM
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They aren't her favourite but I'm sure they won't go unappreciated
/r/askTRP13/09/17 06:11 AM
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So you think I'm not rewarding her for nothing, quite happy to lead and just learn to get comfy doing so. Already do I'd say 65% of the time
/r/askTRP12/09/17 10:15 PM
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You need to replace your habit with a hobby. Find something you enjoy, something new if necessary, and use that to pull you out of depression. Learn a skill or create something, feel productive. Replace your fast dopamine high with a prolonged and healthy one.
/r/askTRP12/09/17 09:14 PM
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Some good suggestions thanks dunno why that's so hard for me to think of just is
/r/askTRP10/08/17 07:53 PM
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Thanks yeah I guess I just need to put some thought into what I want and then her comfort will be built by the company itself not the activity.
/r/askTRP10/08/17 07:24 PM
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I like your point about the job hopping on your resume. My past experience has been quite erratic and I feel doesn't look as good to an employer and while I don't plan on staying in the job I'm in forever, right now I want to build that long term experience so I have a better chance of being able to move on when the time comes. Edit: also when I'm writing my resume I tend to group my experience for example "2 years collectively in customer service" this way it doesn't look quite as all over the …
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