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I moved from the PNW to the Midwest. Huge transition from sexy hipster/hippie/punk type girls to dyed blonde bimbo type girls. In PNW, it's about how nonmisogynistic and open minded you are, in the Midwest it's about what vehicle you drive. I really like the hippie chicks better tho cause I'm not that into makeup and conformity.
/r/seduction29/07/25 12:45 AM
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midwest?
/r/seduction28/07/25 09:39 PM
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exactly this. There are a bunch of dyed-blonde bimbo-types (Karoline Leavitt lookalikes) in the midwest for right-wing dudes to fuck, but if you want to fuck those hot rebel type girls you see in IG, you're going to have to express open and accepting political views (and also be good looking, obviously).
/r/seduction28/07/25 09:38 PM
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depends where you live. In some cities, there are a lot of super political women. It depends if you like dating punks and rebels or hippie-type girls. imo those types are not always the best girlfriends, but they always have the best sex.
/r/seduction28/07/25 09:35 PM
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Often true. Open and accepting men tend to be way more appreciated by women, who usually feel the same. Also, a lot of left-adjacent personality traits like kindness and gentleness and treating women with respect are appreciated by women. Woman like a guy who is kind and caring, and sometimes they might be inspired by a man who stands up for his beliefs. I have a buddy who is a very tall and handsome long-haired dude who goes out waving a Palestine flag on the street every day. He's big enough t…
/r/seduction28/07/25 09:33 PM
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no people find it cringe now and the internet has moved on
/r/seduction17/01/25 07:05 AM
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be good at cooking
/r/seduction16/09/24 06:27 AM
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So do men!
/r/seduction15/06/24 03:52 PM
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This is BS. I met at least half the women I dated by approaching them in a friendly manner somewhere in public, and I think they enjoyed and appreciated it, otherwise I can't imagine why they would have gone on to date me. Why would we want to live in a society where making a connection is only sanctioned if one has overpaid for alcohol or funded a dating app?
/r/seduction08/08/22 09:26 PM
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Hottest girl I ever dated, I met with my wingman who is more handsome/confident than me. He approached her and her sister and I followed his lead. Her sister is a bit more of a confident popular girl type, and she is shyer and more reserved, so I matched her energy better. We ended up dating for two years. I definitely don't think going out with a friend who is better looking than you is a negative. What's important is that your personalities mesh in a way that makes you entertaining.
/r/seduction08/08/22 09:10 PM
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This is a good comment. Main point is that the pleasant co versatile should be just a break from the flirtation, and not the main thing you do on a date. Also, these are good practical examples. Somehow I find it really hard to actually overtly comment on a girl sexually unless we've already had sex, but I've noticed black guys always do that. Maybe I should channel that mentality.
/r/seduction24/06/22 06:18 AM
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These are both good points. I'm sure going everywhere 30 minutes early would be good for me anyways.
/r/seduction13/06/22 05:01 PM
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I really miss living in Europe. If anything, it was also just easier to go to a bar quickly without having to make a whole night of it, because you didn't have to somehow transport yourself kilometers away and take taxis and stuff. When I lived in Germany, one time I was walking down a street near where I lived, and a girl standing outside the bar actually grabbed me from my walk and pulled me into the bar, bought me a beer, and introduced me to her friends.
/r/seduction13/06/22 04:57 PM
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Yeah I don't get any matches. I don't think I'm too bad looking, but I'm 27 and it seems that tinder here is mostly 18-21 year olds. Also, I find the concept of OLD depressing.
/r/seduction13/06/22 04:51 PM
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This was the only truely good advice in this thread. I know where I'm going when I wake up tomorrow morning.
/r/seduction13/06/22 08:56 AM
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This was a great post. I think it identifies an important psychologal mistake a lot of guys make. And, judging by the other comments, it seems to have really struck a nerve with the sub's resident incels, so that means it must be a step in the right direction!
/r/seduction13/06/22 08:51 AM
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Dude, this is a subreddit about obtaining sexual relationships. And what the fuck is a cynosure?
/r/seduction13/06/22 08:49 AM
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What a stupid response wtf He didn't say that looks don't matter. He said that rationalizing your failures based on things over which you have no control, like looks, is pointless and detrimental. And it's obviously true that ugly people can at least sometimes get laid cause your parents must have copulated at least once to produce you.
/r/seduction13/06/22 08:48 AM
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That actually sounds like it would be pretty effective
/r/seduction17/05/22 06:50 AM
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Aaand that's how you get a blown transmission
/r/seduction17/05/22 06:50 AM
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This is how I feel about it. Even if we don't end up dating, I would always rather get to know a girl and fuck enough times to develop some rapport. I'm not interested in late night tired drunk sex. I'm also just too fucking busy. Where do all these guys work that they have time to go out to bars and stay up late fucking random girls? I need to wake up early, do 100 things, work out, and make sure I eat my veggies.
/r/seduction10/04/22 08:17 AM
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This is solid advice
/r/seduction07/04/22 06:30 AM
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Man you sound so fucking corporate
/r/seduction07/04/22 06:21 AM
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If you do it, please make it open source.
/r/seduction05/04/22 07:37 AM
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well I'm a grad student, so I'm sort of a student.
/r/seduction02/04/22 03:08 AM
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This is interesting to me because I work at the university, but I'm visibly older than most people on campus (27M). I spend so much time on campus every day and there are just so many girls everywhere, but I don't really feel comfortable simply approaching them. In part, this is because I work there, and I shouldn't shit where I eat, but I also feel that there is a bit of a distance between me and the undergrads due to the ~5 year age gap. This feeling is pretty frustrating, though, there are ju…
/r/seduction01/04/22 04:12 PM
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It's understudied and it's slightly taboo, but there's no reason to believe humans don't emit VOCs as a function of hormonal states. Almost all animals communicate in part by smell, so there's no reason humans should be any different, and there are plenty of studies that show that humans can predict genetic compatibility by smelling potential mates clothes. I'm pretty convinced that ovulating women (maximum [estrogen] in cycle) smell like I want fuck them, so I wouldn't be aurprised if women res…
/r/seduction01/04/22 03:45 PM
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I have a 6 pack, but what am I supposed to do, go around shirtless all day?
/r/seduction27/03/22 05:08 AM
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Breakdancing and calisthenics
/r/seduction25/03/22 05:26 AM
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Twerking tik toks? Wal Mart? I don't think I want to live in this century anymore. I just want a gf I can take to the symphony.
/r/seduction11/03/22 04:23 PM
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Another important point:What women will find attractive varies a lot from country to country. I am very masculine-looking, but not very pretty. I have a receding hairline, a very thick beard, my eyes are permanently sunken, and I'm ripped. I look about 5-10 years older than I am (I look a lot like my grandpas and not a lot like my dad, who is more 'classically attractive'). This look is not very popular in the North American country I live in (women here seem to prefer 'pretty boys'), but it wor…
/r/seduction09/03/22 11:07 PM
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Once you've got things to that comfortable level of touch with a girl, you've got to lock that shit down. Suggest to get out of there. You have a narrow window of opportunity. If a woman from a bar is acting dtf, it means she's dtf, and all the other guys in the bar can pick up on it and are jealous of you. If you don't take initiative quickly, a more dominant guy will come cockblock you quickly. If it ends up happening, you have to subtyl insult the guy in front of the girl until he goes away, …
/r/seduction02/01/22 01:34 AM
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Honestly I spend 3 hours a day, 5 days a week in the gym, so I've been doing the same thing, but I get much better responses. I think if you pull off your shirt after only 1 minute and they don't respond well then you probably need to work on your last. We all know biceps are important, but a lot of women these days are over biceps. 2021 is all about lats. I would say, you should increase your meet-to-shirtpull time to around 90 seconds, and then turn around and show her your lats from the back.
/r/seduction18/12/21 06:04 PM
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We're living in a full on dystopia at this point.
/r/seduction18/12/21 08:13 AM
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I don't want to waste time or brain power building a "Friendship" first.I'm kind of like a, I want to meet you, I don't want to talk to youover text for 1 week, lets do x,y,z at this time agree, give me acounter suggestion, or lets stop talking. This is exactly how I feel about it all the time. I don't have time for some bullshit. I could be working out, I could be studying, I could be doing something useful. I can focus on what's right there in front of me--if I go out to dinner with someone, I…
/r/seduction13/12/21 01:27 AM
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Man I'm in grad school and this describes me too well. I think you just have to make some sacrifices at some point and force yourself to take the blinders off from time to time, even if you're highly motivated.
/r/seduction13/12/21 01:23 AM
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lmao that's what my therapist says
/r/seduction12/12/21 12:18 AM
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I 100% agree
/r/seduction11/12/21 11:40 PM
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seems reasonable.
/r/seduction11/12/21 10:00 PM
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yes, but I think what you're describing would be really challenging to set up. What if group photos of unattractive women share subtle common properties? With enough human input data from users who've checked the secondary and tertiary profile pics, maybe you could train an NN to identify fat chicks in group photos based off of only the first picture based on secondary correlations like 'number of humans in photo' or something. For example, maybe it identifies that 'photos with 3 humans, 1 high …
/r/seduction11/12/21 09:57 PM
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exactly. Thus it would stand to reason that I would benefit from outsourcing the process to an algo or to a country with cheap labour costs.
/r/seduction11/12/21 09:49 PM
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I assume it would be easy to write one. You could probably make like a feminist startup that way or something. But idk if the target market will be as big or as spendy as thirsty young men. You can never underestimate the sheer economic leverage of sexual frustration.
/r/seduction11/12/21 09:43 PM
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I'm straight shredded bro ;- )
/r/seduction11/12/21 09:36 PM
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If you learn tensorflow, you can write one! That's the beauty of ML. All you need is a large training set of my posts. You can easily download that by looking at my comment history and then train the NN to recognize posts written with my specific syntactic and semantic mannerisms. Idk how high accuracy you can get, but maybe you can also filter posts by others who share similar syntactic/semantic mannerisms, which might also be beneficial for your use case. If it's just my account, I'm pretty su…
/r/seduction11/12/21 09:32 PM
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very logical observation u/iluvreddit
/r/seduction11/12/21 09:21 PM
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I was talking about the probably psychological effects of the swiping process. Obviously flirting with cute grills irl is healthy and positive.
/r/seduction11/12/21 01:22 AM
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Yes this is due to sexually dimorphic sexual selection preferences, which makes sense based on the individual "selfish genes". The OKcupid study shows that mens' rating of women is roughly Gaussian, whereas womens' rating of men is highly skewed. https://www.reddit.com/r/OkCupid/comments/5i6m5y/women_have_unrealistic_views_of_how_men_look/ This makes sense for evolutionary reasons, but it probably has some negative effects on a societal level, hence cultures have evolved mechanisms to attenuate …
/r/seduction11/12/21 01:18 AM
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Thanks bro. You're savage bro.
/r/seduction10/12/21 06:19 PM
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It doesn't have to be perfect. If I could have an algorithm that has up to 75% agreement with my actual preferences, without having to spend time every day physically swiping, it would be fine. Of course the apps themselves already use your swipes to train an algorithm, so they could just do it for you, but they want to keep you swiping to continue to farm that free data and use it as a reinforcement mechanism to cause psychological dependence. It's good for their profits, but clearly bad for ou…
/r/seduction10/12/21 06:19 PM
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Thank you for your legitimately useful suggestion. I will look into this over the holidays.
/r/seduction10/12/21 06:15 PM
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The algorithm has identified this post as having an 85% probability of "fat chick".
/r/seduction10/12/21 06:14 PM
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Man there have been major advances with many hidden layers and reinforcement learning and stuff. I'm sure with a DLNN and a sufficient training set, you could identify fat chicks from one photo, with multiple red flag factors no problem.
/r/seduction10/12/21 06:13 PM
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Yeah but I feel bad unmatching ppl. I just want an app where I can install it and I just get a notification when I have to go on a date. I don't want to do any swiping, unmatching, texting, or any of that other garbage
/r/seduction10/12/21 06:10 PM
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Yes I noticed it's a profile category on bumble now. So weight should clearly be a mandatory profile category for women. Again, double standards. Always with the double standards.
/r/seduction10/12/21 06:08 PM
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How much does that service cost? Can you get it done by people in cheap labour cost countries? It would be hilarious to meet up with a girl at Starbucks and have to explain why the company you outsourced your tinder to texted her "I love you baby please show me bobs and and vagene"
/r/seduction10/12/21 06:07 PM
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Online Dating is full blown dystopian and has clearly ruined society. What I'm saying is we should just dystopia the dystopia.
/r/seduction10/12/21 06:05 PM
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Yes, but the mental effects of having to identify fat chicks at rapid pace 15-30 minutes per day every day must be deleterious.
/r/seduction10/12/21 06:04 PM
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No.
/r/seduction10/12/21 06:03 PM
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Yeah I can for sure do it, but I think it's just mentally healthier to avoid the swiping experience alltogether. Like others have suggested, it would probably be better to avoid the "texting women" experience as well. If you could outsource both of those parts of the equation to and just have some small subset of random women from the internet show up at your door and/or receive a simple email with a time/date/location of a meetup, then you could get the benefits of app dating without all the de…
/r/seduction10/12/21 06:02 PM
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Yes, but what if we just bot them like RuneScape? Nobody actually played RuneScape.
/r/seduction10/12/21 05:58 PM
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Honestly that might be the fucking way. I am usually not too bad with women irl, but I can't handle the texting thing. How do I "display value" through 1 word text messages while simultaneously selecting just the right amount of punctuation that I'm showing I'm serious but not soo much that I'm coming off as "creepy"? How do I know whether to choose 2000s era emojis or modern emojis? This texting shit breaks my brain worse than quantum physics, plus it's just generally infuriating so it's probab…
/r/seduction10/12/21 05:57 PM
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Lmao "the rock"
/r/seduction10/12/21 05:51 PM
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What I mean is it sucks to be a man with a shaved head. always gotta shave it, cold in the winter, sunburns in the summer, always gotta wear a hat, etc. Supposedly some women like it... Although I can't imagine many young women like it tbqh.
/r/seduction10/12/21 11:05 AM
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nobody actually likes that shit. Plus, sunburnt head, cold in the winter, etc., etc.
/r/seduction09/12/21 10:24 AM
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So long as you don't go bald, this seems to be true
/r/seduction09/12/21 07:26 AM
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Lol yes inevitably some guys are gonna push through the horrible texting. But it's just so fucking unpleasant. I talked to a 27 year old girlfriend on the phone the other day and it was just such a relief. She actually told me some interesting stuff about her life and the conversation actually went somewhere. But if you talk to 20-23 year old girls, you just have to carry the whole fucking conversation. And you get judged on any interesting direction you try to take it. It's terrible.
/r/seduction06/12/21 07:53 PM
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Yeah I can't stand it. It seems especially bad with girls in their early 20s. They will continually send you 1 or 2 word answers that don't drive the conversation in any direction and you have to be there doing quantum physics trying to figure out how to be flirtatious but not too needy while not using any punctuation and using the right amount of emojis but not too many emojis or something. It's absolutely fucking retarded. I hope evolution kicks in and these zoomer girls just get cut out of th…
/r/seduction06/12/21 05:58 PM
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Daygame is by far the best way to meet women. Apps mean you are going for the bottom 30% of women, and night game means you are going for women with unhealthy habits/bad lifestyle choices, but daygame is just all women. The only problem is some cities are garbage for daygame. In Europe, for example, there are great, comfortable outdoor spaces all around the cities, and people regularly walk to small shops to pick up some groceries or something. There are countless opportunities. But I recently m…
/r/seduction19/11/21 07:14 PM
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Yeah that's exactly it. I was just at work, and I was wheeling a big Smart board around and a woman jokingly asked me if she could have it. Normally, I would just awkwardly say "no..." and have it fall flat, but I did what you said instead and went left. "Yes, but only if you give me [similarly ridiculous item]" or "no, but you can have our broken photocopier...". Whatever. So long as you go left.
/r/seduction17/11/21 11:23 PM
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So I've been applying this in my daily life and this is by far the best advice in the thread. It works so well.
/r/seduction17/11/21 07:16 PM
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Lmao that looks like my buddy James. Like I said, I used to dress like this when I was a teenager and it worked for me, but it's not really me anymore--even though I still have that sort of dark side, I'm too old to be emo at this point
/r/seduction17/11/21 02:05 AM
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Lmao that looks like my buddy James. Like I said, I used to dress like this when I was a teenager and it worked for me, but it's not really me anymore--even though I still have that sort of dark side, I'm too old to be emo
/r/seduction17/11/21 02:04 AM
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Good advice. Unfortunately, my sister was much younger than me, so I never really built that rapport with her
/r/seduction17/11/21 02:02 AM
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Goddamn I hope not lol
/r/seduction17/11/21 02:02 AM
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That's also an interesting was to think of it lol. Just doing that consciously as an exercise could probably get me out of this serious headspace I've gotten myself into.
/r/seduction17/11/21 02:01 AM
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This is an interesting post. Thanks.
/r/seduction16/11/21 06:15 PM
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Yeah it is forme too. The other thing is--i know this is weird--my glasses. I recently had to get glasses because my vision is getting worse. And I think they give the serious vibe, both in how I look and how I feel.
/r/seduction16/11/21 06:06 PM
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I already had a healthy relationship with alcohol. I quit drinking for health reasons. This is why I wish alcohol was less important of a social institution. It seems like the whole culture is just built around alcohol consumption. It shouldn't be impossible to meet the opposite sex without being forced to pay a corporation to consume a poison. The fact that it's such a widespread ritual is a sign of how profoundly sick our society really is.
/r/seduction16/11/21 10:55 AM
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Lol I am not looking to be preached to about drugs. I just mentioned it as an example of a hobby I used to engage in more a few years back, during a time when I feel I was more in touch with myself. Humour is inherently a part of the psychedelic experience.
/r/seduction16/11/21 05:14 AM
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well, for one thing, I think spending a lot of time with my old friends was important. I am very lonely these days, now that I've moved cities several times. I also used to do way more drugs than I do now. I should definitely take some drugs. And I need to get a piano.
/r/seduction16/11/21 04:12 AM
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very good point. I also just moved to a new city. I used to live in a city that was much better for daygame, so I would always just do it while I was on public transportation/going about my day/out for a run, but now I live in a very spread out, car-oriented city, so I've actually just got to go to a location. I haven't been going to bars because I quit drinking alcohol about a year ago, but I recently decided to go to a bar and just order ginger ales, and I actually had quite a good time. It st…
/r/seduction16/11/21 03:41 AM
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Are you seriously recommending changing your job to be around more girls? You want this guy to go work in HR or get a psychology degree just for pussy? Goddamn. Just go to a yoga class or something. Don't change your career.
/r/seduction21/10/21 06:11 AM
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Also a really good point. If you see a girl and you just can't take your eyes off her, you've pretty much got to talk to her to break the tension. If you don't, she will notice you looking at her and think you're a creep.
/r/seduction30/09/21 05:26 AM
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This
/r/seduction30/09/21 05:24 AM
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I love how every video makes the women seem nice in their own way, but then you get to "you know you're dating a Canadian girl when" and it's just horrible
/r/seduction05/05/21 02:56 AM
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Our culture doesn't value femininity in women, whereas most of the other cultures across the word place a high value on it. I think this is something that's unique about north america. It might actually not be due to feminism but rather a hypermasculinity in the culture. Another difference is north American men way more worried about looking unmasculine in any way compared to men in many other countries.
/r/seduction05/05/21 02:51 AM
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Interesting observations but I would disagree that most Western women are super feminist, at least not in the radical sense. I don't think it's about your personal politics, it's just our culture
/r/seduction04/05/21 07:41 AM
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This is undebiably true. The first time I dated a woman who didn't grow up in USA/Canada, I just thought "oh this is what life is supposed to be like". You should watch the rest of this series of videos on youtube and then watch this one: https://youtu.be/Rs1y_ncJAaA
/r/seduction04/05/21 07:25 AM
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Masks dude
/r/seduction28/04/21 07:10 AM
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Hindu squats hindu squats hindu squats
/r/seduction06/04/21 05:43 PM
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that's awesome dude! congratulations. I'm 6'0", and I never got as fat as you did, but I've weighed up to 185-190 lbs or so, and since I started IF, I've never been heavier than 165 lbs (I find I can be lean muscle up to 170-175 lbs, so I'm actually a bit on the skinny side). I originally started IF because I had a swollen, slightly fatty liver due to alcohol consumption and occupational exposure to a potent hepatotoxin, and I found that most of my liver-related symptoms started to go away only …
/r/seduction21/11/20 12:45 AM
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check out UGLY BOYS by DIE ANTWOORD https://youtu.be/uMK0prafzw0 it's hot to be ugly. And Yolandi digs it apparently.
/r/seduction20/11/20 07:05 PM
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no, you're fucking fat. You need to lose weight or you'll die of diabetes and heart disease. Look into fasting. It sounds bad, but it feels oh so good. If you get hungry, drink some green tea.
/r/seduction20/11/20 07:05 PM
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I feel like the right move is to try to be like #2 but then pivot to the way #1 is acting if she shows signs of not being comfortable. The really honourable thing to do would be to empathetically notice the lack of comfort and actually make the offer. Personally, I wouldn't even talk about sleeping arrangements before inviting a girl over. I'd just see how things felt when she got to my place and offer her a couch or another bed if it seemed like that would make her more comfortable.
/r/seduction17/11/20 11:55 PM
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Man I'll go on 10 dates a day. , Just you watch :- )) I already drink 10 coffees a day anywsyd.
/r/seduction20/09/20 04:28 AM
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dude, I don't even get numbers to fuck girls. I just ask them for their number to brighten their day :- ) It's just a game man
/r/seduction20/09/20 02:54 AM
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agreed regarding the pussy and ass
/r/seduction13/09/20 09:15 AM
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OK, why don't you give me your MLM PUA elevator pitch then? Maybe I'll throw you a shekel or two if you can coach me into some bimbo's pants.
/r/seduction03/09/20 07:23 PM
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idk can you make me a sandwich? I'll PM you my address.
/r/seduction03/09/20 05:35 PM
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Man my life is very exciting and many girls still don't want to date me. Don't make your life be exciting for girls. Make your life exciting for yourself. Don't lead a boring life man.
/r/seduction02/09/20 04:43 PM
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who said anything about shutting your brain off? And what does "shut on your dick mean"? Did you misspell "shit on your dick"? I hope your boyfriend shits on your dick. Go chemically castrate yourself.
/r/seduction17/08/20 05:30 AM
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you're the one on a "seduction" forum on an anonymous basket weaving website for confused normies, so clearly you are not the ultimate master of game and it is very likely that you do not get every woman you want to suck your dick. So why not give it a try? Listening to women can be hard sometimes, but I swear, it makes them feel comfortable with you, and their pussy is not going to get wet until they feel comfy and cozy with you.
/r/seduction16/08/20 07:10 PM
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Main thing is just let them do the talking. Women just want to talk. If you are having trouble listening and want to interject, just picture yourself undressing her.
/r/seduction15/08/20 05:19 PM
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I was thinking more online dating.
/r/seduction20/03/20 08:01 AM
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this is just from daygame?
/r/seduction18/03/20 05:03 AM
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month this seems insane to me.
/r/seduction18/03/20 12:20 AM
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this. It's a huge cultural problem and sadly there's no way to put the cat back into the box.
/r/seduction01/03/20 10:24 PM
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I think ugly girls are totally ignored, but it's not as bad as with guys. I think it's about twice as hard not to be totally ignored for guys, i.e., girls under 4 are totally ignored, and guys under 8 are totally ignored. The oft-shared OKcupid graph pretty much sums it up http://i.imgur.com/L9Vu4Zo.png
/r/seduction01/03/20 10:16 PM
2

Well, it's objectively true that women from Western countries are more likely to be fat, and I suspect assume that it's objectively true that they're less likely to be 'feminine', but of course it would be more difficult to come up with objective metrics to measure that. blasé stereotypes These are accurate generalizations, i.e., they are not going to be true of every individual in these different societies, but they are likely to be true, on average. Also, I don't think you know what "blasé" me…
/r/seduction01/03/20 10:06 PM
7

All these things are definitely true. But the flipside is that more feminine women also demand more masculine men. In the same sense that women brought up in the West have become fatter and more domineering, we have become massive pussies. I noticed this difference a lot travelling in Eastern Europe. Local men in these countries are much more likely to be dominant with women, and the women come to expect it, and are turned off by men who act the way that men from the West typically would act wit…
/r/seduction01/03/20 08:23 PM
4

Sounds like you’re selling a product how so lol? It sounds to me like he's objectively breaking down the pros and cons. For example, the obesity statistic. It's pretty hard to argue with that.
/r/seduction01/03/20 08:17 PM
3

I disagree with "if you got interesting shit to say than say it". Actually I agreed with your original comment in the first place. It is definitely best to try to withhold the interesting stuff one has to say, at least until somebody starts asking some personal questions. Let's say, I have a bunch of interesting stories because I just go back from a trip, where I went hiking through the Andes for three months or something. Would it be better to meet a girl and say, "hey I just got back from hiki…
/r/seduction01/03/20 07:58 PM
7

ouf. I have a huge problem with this. My life just seems so fucking interesting to me that I tend to spew it all out, especially when meeting new people. And yet I know that every one of those interesting details would be ten times more interesting if it came up as a response to a question or something.
/r/seduction01/03/20 05:42 AM
2

I feel like dancing would really help with 'the act before you get a chance to hesitate' part. I find that dancing is like a microcosm of that. You can dance for a long time while eyeing a particular girl on the dancefloor, and the longer you go without taking her hand, the worse it gets.
/r/seduction01/03/20 05:39 AM
2

Yeah, kinda, eh?
/r/seduction28/09/18 12:19 AM
2

Having a girlfriend really helps. Being married is worse. Women really do not have a 'bro code'.
/r/seduction24/03/18 03:51 PM
11

yeah she was diagnosed with borderline. She managed to have a Dr. change the diagnosis to high functioning autism for the sympathy, but I found out about the original BPD diagnosis from her former psychologist, whom I befriended. The psychologist told me that she actually considered her to be a sociopath and had warned several professors and administrators about her behaviour at my school. My mom isn't emotionally unavailable though. She's more on and off angry/overly nice. We did have a pretty …
/r/TheRedPill15/06/16 07:09 PM
1

this isn't a fat-shaming thing. It's a Muslim thing.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/16 06:08 PM
17

This is really really good advice. Two years ago I was involved in an extremely bad relationship with an emotionally and physically abusive woman. Unfortunately, I was really attached to her. She was the first girl I'd dated that I connected with both intellectually and sexually to a satisfying degree. I was very attracted to her, and I felt like I could talk with her 'like a friend'. The only problem was she liked to treat me extremely cruelly from time to time. She was the kind of person that …
/r/TheRedPill15/06/16 06:01 PM
1

The secondary effects are just a necessary consequence of the primary mechanism of action. The question is not whether they will happen, it's to what extent they will happen. For many people, it seems, the extent is minor enough that they don't notice it. As for my personal decision, I'm down to take drugs for balding purposes, but I just don't want to mess with my sex hormone profile. I've already had worries about my sexual health without taking any steroids, and I feel that any perturbation t…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/16 08:54 PM
1

it's definitely going to do something to you. This is a major chemical change in your body. Maybe you don't 'feel' it, but it will certainly have an effect on you, possibly health consequences in the long term, or maybe just minor effect on your sexual health, the kind of thing that you can brush under the psychological rug, so to speak.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/16 01:12 PM
1

I don't really understand how the desired effect is supposed to occur without at least some sort of side effect being experienced. If you turn of your 5-aR and you get less T->DHT turnover then you have significantly affected your sexual hormone profile, and you're certainly going to feel this in some way. Whether it causes profound sexual dysfunction or just minimal sexual dysfunction (as the OP said "sensitivity") is a matter of individual differences in peoples' biology, but it's certainly go…
/r/TheRedPill31/05/16 09:22 PM
2

Yeah man I'd take Camille Paglia out to the best basement jazz bar and we'd talk about art & aesthetics at a mile a minute. I'd need cocaine to keep up with her of course, but it certainly wouldn't be in short supply.
/r/MensRights09/05/16 05:48 AM
1

Camille Paglia is such a babe. I've read a few of her books and I always find myself fantasizing about her. It's more like a fantasy of going on a date with her though. She's such a classy lady. She'd take my mind to some interesting places.
/r/MensRights09/05/16 05:10 AM
6

"When Marge put the cat out"--Possibly because it was HARASSED! We JUST. DON'T. KNOW. and the most disturbing quote from the episode: "You know the courts might not work anymore, but so long as everybody is videotaping everybody else, Justice will be done!" - Marge (in 1994!!)
/r/MensRights05/04/16 01:53 AM
1

I love how the host is a bear with a microphone strapped to his head XD
/r/MensRights05/04/16 01:51 AM
4

This is one of the best episodes I've seen in a while. I'm glad I watched it :)
/r/MensRights05/04/16 01:51 AM
1

"the vast majority of REAL rape victims detest attention and run away from it, by the way" this may seem true, but I don't think it's actually true. I think that the way people respond to trauma seriously varies depending on their personal situation. This reminds me of a recent TAL episode: http://www.thisamericanlife.org/radio-archives/episode/581/anatomy-of-doubt This is the story of someone who undeniably was a real rape victim. I totally agree with you about mattress girl. It's a story of so…
/r/MensRights26/03/16 04:51 PM
1

I got the impression that it was more like she shot his car. Not trying to be an apologist. I just thought that doing stupid shit with guns was kind of routine in America.
/r/MensRights24/03/16 03:04 PM
3

while I doubt there is any truth to mattress girl's claim, I think it's important to point out that people respond to rape in plenty of different ways. There are real victims out there who might not act the part in the ways that people expect. I think a key part of promoting awareness of the rising prevalence of false accusations is that sympathy should be shifted towards real rape victims (not that mattress girl is one). The point is that someone can smile and still have been raped. The thing t…
/r/MensRights24/03/16 05:49 AM
1

the wording of the headline is obviously problematic.
/r/MensRights24/03/16 05:43 AM
-5

Well I'm doing two things: I'm pointing out that the title is misleading, and I'm joking. I think that this article says a lot more about America's wacky attitude about guns than it does about mens rights issues really. Sorry, this is my first time disagreeing with the prevailing opinion on this sub. I'll make sure not to do that next time.
/r/MensRights24/03/16 05:38 AM
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OK she didn't "shoot at him". She shot his car. She fucked with his Rolls Royce. Pretty big difference. I mean don't people use guns to do light cigarettes and turn on the TV and shit in the US? I bet this is like the equivalent of her keying her exes car down there. A misdemeanour at worst.
/r/MensRights24/03/16 02:31 AM
2

yeah. That's what I was saying. I posted an article with a bad title add13 pointed this out, so I was saying it wouldn't have made sence if she was part of Trudeau's cabinet.
/r/MensRights02/03/16 05:04 PM
2

yeah that's what I noticed. An ideology isn't really the kind of thing that has an obvious, agreed-upon "definition". It's also something that changes over time. Saying that you're not a feminist, but an egalitarian obviously means that you don't think that feminism truly stands for equality. It means you're questioning the "definition", not that you don't know what it is. I found the article very condescending.
/r/MensRights02/03/16 05:03 PM
2

QUEBEC Minister for the status of women, not canadian minister. My bad.
/r/MensRights02/03/16 06:28 AM
2

Thanks homie.
/r/MensRights02/03/16 06:28 AM
1

You can remove the unconfirmed too. The subtitle says: my bad. I can't edit this can I? I read the article but somehow this slipped past me. It did seem weird that anybody hired by the Trudeau government would say something like this.
/r/MensRights02/03/16 06:21 AM
1

Well we really can't be saying he's innocent at this point. I'm just saying that, in my personal experience, the beginning of the gomeshi thing was coincide with the beginning of the continually increasing relevance of gender issues in my world.
/r/MensRights09/02/16 05:09 AM
1

Is Gian Ghomeshi ground zero for the whole gender wars thing in Canada? I was completely unaware of this issue before the story broke, but since then, then it's invaded my life in an increasingly big way every day since. Were any of you aware of these issues at the current scale before this?
/r/MensRights09/02/16 12:58 AM
1

I'm pretty sure the whole thing with RoK meetups is just a sham to get people to no-platform them for attention and publicity. I'm sure if they actually wanted to have meetups for the sake of meetups, the info wouldn't be so thoroughly leaked on tumblr. They're not that dumb.
/r/MensRights04/02/16 07:36 AM
4

I feel like maybe this didn't actually happen. Did this actually happen?
/r/MensRights04/02/16 05:03 AM
1

I totally agree with you. I think that the only failure of that debate was that he didn't argue the point that it's not just about straight, white men. Also, I don't think feminism helps out gay men very much.
/r/MensRights10/11/15 03:39 PM
0

I think CBC is about as left-leaning as Canadians are. The average person in Canada has pretty liberal politics so it makes sense that our national broadcaster parallels that to a certain extent. It's usually relatively unbiased.
/r/MensRights09/11/15 10:54 PM
2

I thought it was funny how he called them trolls then denied what was literally his opening statement like 5 minutes later.
/r/MensRights09/11/15 10:52 PM
0

well the argument was that they should be allowed to assemble as groups at universities and receive funding like feminist campus organizations do. The constitutional right to assemble isn't in question. Also; in Canada, we usually talk about the Charter of Rights and Freedoms when addressing these questions-- not the Constitution.
/r/MensRights09/11/15 05:35 PM
2

I think he did a decently good job, but I felt that he should've argued the point that MRA is not only for defending the rights of white, straight men. I think there are a lot of good examples of how standing up for the rights of men of other races or sexual orientations is an important part of the MRA community
/r/MensRights09/11/15 05:25 PM
1

Honestly were a hell of a lot better off with Trudeau than we were with Harper feminist or no.
/r/MensRights23/10/15 04:13 AM
1

If you want to find real life sjws, you just need to go to university. University is awful for male students these days and I'm not even in an arts program.
/r/MensRights23/10/15 04:00 AM
0

This comic isn't especially funny
/r/MensRights23/10/15 03:55 AM
4

I feel like he should've gotten a lot of money out of the university for this.
/r/MensRights16/09/15 05:18 AM
1

it's a really great book. I've been reading Robert Bly and Camille Paglia lately and their mythologically and historically informed systems of understanding gender are fantastic. I find myself nodding my head every other page and going YESS! Another great book to check out: Camille Paglia's "Sex, Art, and American Culture"
/r/MensRights16/07/15 01:46 AM
1

I guess that's true. The argument was that there would be a greater degree of social cohesion in a small, matriarchal tribal community, and that everybody would look after everybody else's children. I'm not saying it would've been better. Those were just the grounds for my comparison.I actually think it would be worse.
/r/MensRights15/04/15 04:23 AM
1

I think that a patriarchal social organization is more beneficial in Western culture.
/r/MensRights14/04/15 04:02 AM
1

I was also arrested for texting an apology to my ex girlfriend after we got in an argument. It really really hurt.
/r/MensRights14/04/15 03:45 AM
2

I really really fucking hope Hilary Clinton isn't elected. Rand Paul FTW!!!
/r/MensRights12/04/15 05:51 PM
1

People with shirtless selfies as their profile pic are the worst dude
/r/MensRights11/04/15 06:11 PM
2

stanley kubrick took lots of selfies http://www.seattlestar.net/wp-content/uploads/2013/09/stanley-kubrick-selfie.jpg?1be112
/r/MensRights11/04/15 05:58 PM
2

I don't really see this as that discriminatory. Obviously people who post lots of edited selfies are more narcissistic. The thing I find offensive is that some asshole with a social studies degree probably got money to write up another one of these crock of shit personality studies with social media buzz words. Personally though, I can see myself having issues with this thing. I am a little insecure about my appearance and I do take lots of webcam selfies for my profile pics on various websites.
/r/MensRights11/04/15 05:57 PM
1

I'm a Ukrainian Canadian living in Quebec
/r/MensRights11/04/15 07:11 AM
1

what I'm trying to say is that its a lot less fair to make fun of people with a genetic condition than people who choose to be fat
/r/MensRights29/03/15 04:49 AM
1

I'm not bald actually
/r/MensRights29/03/15 04:47 AM
3

she's not that hot really
/r/MensRights29/03/15 03:39 AM
1

my sister reads like one fantasy novel per day. That shit's pretty impressive. I mostly read nonfiction, but I can only get through like one or two books a month.
/r/MensRights29/03/15 03:33 AM
2

that's what I'm saying. The bathroom itself is not that much of an affront to equality, but it is a really good visual representation of the problem.
/r/MensRights27/03/15 04:41 PM
7

this is Canada
/r/MensRights27/03/15 02:35 AM
1

no it just says it's for everybody
/r/MensRights27/03/15 02:33 AM
3

I'm pretty sure it's 2D....So you know what school I went to? I guess if you've been to that school you know that SJW issues are a serious problem there (moreso than any universities I've ever been to).
/r/MensRights27/03/15 02:32 AM
3

should've put Elizabeth Holmes as #1. Founding a multi-billion dollar biotech corp? Now "that is power".
/r/MensRights27/03/15 01:29 AM
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lolololol
/r/MensRights27/03/15 12:05 AM
1

You should have sex, just not with university students -- or if you do, you should make sure that they sign your contract before doing any touching. The worst thing that can happen is that you risk turning them off, but I think the pros definitely outweigh the cons.
/r/MensRights26/03/15 09:04 PM
1

you could just sign a prenup. I don't know why so many men don't use prenups.
/r/MensRights26/03/15 09:03 PM
1

Oh I actually thought she was on our side. I thought she was making a joke about rape hysteria.
/r/MensRights26/03/15 08:46 PM
2

your argument ended way before it got into any biology.
/r/MensRights26/03/15 07:36 PM
1

I've always suspected that to be the case. I figure that sexuality is entirely fluid (possibly to different degrees in different individuals), and can be influenced by both cultural (media, socialization) and chemical factors (endocrine disruptors, hormones, etc.).
/r/MensRights26/03/15 07:34 PM
2

But it covers HRT for men and it will cover birth control for men, when it is approved. I don't know if this comparison is that apt.
/r/MensRights26/03/15 07:04 PM
1

what's the 60-40 ratio? Every school I've ever been to beyond high school has had more girls than guys (granted I'm only 20).
/r/MensRights26/03/15 06:53 PM
3

I was not "raped" but I've certainly been blackmailed into having sex with someone I did not want to. I had an ex charge me with assault and she basically would tell me that if I didn't have sex with her or give her money she would press for conviction, otherwise she would drop the charges. I stopped having sex with her, and she's pressing for conviction. I could lose my whole career. This reminds me of stories of women having sex with their boss because they're worried they'd lose their career.…
/r/MensRights26/03/15 03:19 PM
12

man this is fucked. The girl was snooping her bfs emails and it wasn't even addressed.
/r/MensRights26/03/15 03:14 PM
8

to whom?
/r/MensRights26/03/15 03:11 PM
17

not on that floor. There are men's rooms on other floors.
/r/MensRights26/03/15 02:43 PM
10

isn't the whole point that transexuals want to go to the women's bathroom? The unisex bathroom is used by 99.99% men, so the trans people wouldn't even get what they want -- which is access to the ladie's room.
/r/MensRights26/03/15 02:43 PM
13

it's not.
/r/MensRights26/03/15 02:42 PM
2

sue the magazine man
/r/MensRights26/03/15 02:39 PM
1

I agree, but I also spend a lot of time with people who work for CBC, and they are largely left-leaning in politics and social issues (as am I).
/r/MensRights26/03/15 02:26 PM
2

I currently have two psychologists, a psychiatrist, and a social worker. I'm trying to be mindful and focus on my exams. Every time thoughts about my ex and what she's trying to do to me make their way into my head, I close my eyes, take a deep breath, and get back to work. It's not easy though :(
/r/MensRights26/03/15 02:20 PM
5

honestly it scares me more than real court. They can ruin your education and your reputation and make you inadmissible to other universities. You can still get an education with a criminal record -- it just limits your job opportunities. But these people can actually stop you from getting an education.
/r/MensRights25/03/15 04:40 AM
3

I remember my ex throwing a wine bottle at me, then breaking glass all over the bathroom and breaking down and crying, and I actually went to comfort her and try to calm her down. I should've just ran and left her alone to think about what she had done.
/r/MensRights25/03/15 01:01 AM
0

Two, it covers feminists push to teach men not to rape. It's not in the way they would like it but that doesn't matter. They don't know the problems we deal with and in no way can relate to our situation. is it really that bad? I go to university in Canada and I've had sex with some people and I've never really heard of this being an issue. My ex girlfriend (who I met outside of the university) filed a harassment claim with my university but they didn't really grant it any credence.
/r/MensRights21/03/15 06:32 AM
1

in fact, the current canadian government has been decimating the CBC. They are prett liberal as an institution and the conservatives hate them.
/r/MensRights21/03/15 05:33 AM
1

The whole premise of the discussion was still that Men's Groups are suspect people and need to interrogated about their intentions. Also implicit in the whole discussion was that AvFM, and by association, both their Conference and Dan Perrin are suspect. Tremonti and the gals at CBC seem to have read the GQ article and then descended in to a grotesque festival of confirmation bias, without any further inquiry. me too :P
/r/MensRights21/03/15 05:32 AM
1

I think there is a degree of truth to the statement, as we do not notice it if we agree with the interviewer. New interviewers are great but then over time they become CBC'ised. The reporting of the Rob Ford incident for instance, has to be the most biased reporting I have ever seen, regardless of ones views on Ford. There is also bias apparent in the actual subjects they choose to cover, My stepdad does ideas. he's a pretty cool guy
/r/MensRights21/03/15 05:30 AM
1

I think that its a very extreme response. Every woman could stab you to death while you're sleeping too, but not very many of them would actually do it.
/r/MensRights02/03/15 04:37 AM
1

All my classes are chemistry or biology, but I have a minor in philosophy of science, which involves a year-long class (which I am currently taking) in which we have skipped that particular unit.
/r/MensRights02/03/15 04:35 AM
1

definitely true. My ex has had me arrested 4 times over the last year. It was horrible, but I don't really think that it makes sense to shun women from your life entirely. Personally, I just started dating a much more bashful, traditional girl. I couldn't possibly imagine her trying to ruin my life. Its really borderline personality disorder chicks that cause the problem, when it comes to the law.
/r/MensRights02/03/15 12:27 AM
2

I generally label myself as egalitarian, not MRA, but the problem is that I am very anti-feminist, so people assume that I am a misogynist, PUA/MRA/etc.
/r/MensRights02/03/15 12:21 AM
1

all my classes are 100% objective, except for one philosophy of science class, but we always skip the feminism & science unit because everybody argues too much.
/r/MensRights02/03/15 12:18 AM
1

OH is that why some men say they buy lube to masturbate?? I always wondered about that. I'm uncircumsized and I tried it, and I find that masturbation is easier without lube.
/r/MensRights01/03/15 09:44 PM
5

also transgender people is quite normal, it affects 1-2% of the population(having some degree of gender dysphoria). Thats 1 in 50 to 1 in 100 people. Its really more common than you think. You have probably met a few of us without ever realizing it. I really feel like it is a function of endocrine disrupting chemicals in the environment.
/r/MensRights01/03/15 08:55 PM
2

What about real woodsmen? I work in forestry for 3-4 months a year and I grow a beard and wear a straw hat. It really sucks that people are going to identify me as part of this "lumbersexual" thing, which I'm pretty sure is an appropriation of gay subculture.
/r/MensRights01/03/15 08:50 PM
0

If you can't take a brilliant comedian making a joke about your sex, you're basically being a feminist.
/r/MensRights01/03/15 08:33 PM
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