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| 3 | 4 months in and struggling.It’s normal and it is temporary, just keep going and you will get through it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/06/20 04:46 PM |
| 4 | Considering it, but need some adviceFrom your post, you’d probably be divorcing for all the wrong reasons, and you’ll likely end up regretting it if you go through with it. You need to CHANGE the relationship with your loved ones, not sever it. Trying to console yourself by saying your wife will be able to remarry quickly is absurd, maybe think whether she would even want to at all? She’s married to YOU, and probably by choice. You are overwhelmed by your current situation, but if you do actually love your wife and child like you … | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/06/20 02:54 PM |
| 5 | My brother's wife took their child across state lines and is moving their with their child.What does his LAWYER say? | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/04/20 12:40 PM |
| 5 | Getting past the (possible) cheating..“I own my own home, have a good job and I’m getting my dream motorcycle tomorrow. I’m happy again for the first time in a while and I’m also in the best shape of my life.” Control what you can control, just got to let the other stuff slide. You’re doing well. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/04/20 10:12 AM |
| 5 | Advice on dating after divorceLike he said. Keep it simple, especially at the beginning. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/03/20 05:31 PM |
| 3 | What was the point in your divorce that you realised 'actually, I'm going to be ok'When I moved into my new home. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/01/20 10:31 PM |
| 1 | Business Debt LiabilityAsk your lawyer | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/12/19 03:24 AM |
| 9 | Advice and people with similar experiences with alimony? (FL)Listen to your attorney, not the internet. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/12/19 10:43 PM |
| 3 | Warning sign?Then avoid, but be nice about it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/12/19 02:56 PM |
| 3 | Help. Her and her lawyer filled the papers. Everytime I say well maybe I need a lawyer to she caves and changes the paperwork. Is she hiding something?money? What are my rights? What am I entitled to?Lawyer, no exception | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/12/19 12:11 AM |
| 2 | Went on an amazing date... and totally fucked it up!Not sure there was any “good” way to say it. If she is still texting with her as you describe then you didn’t F up as badly as you think you did. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/12/19 04:21 PM |
| 3 | Went on an amazing date... and totally fucked it up!You didn’t fuck it up, you were honest. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/12/19 04:13 PM |
| 3 | Wife wants a divorce due to no connection.Do you love her? Then tell her, without expectation of reply. Be the best version of yourself, but make sure you are still being yourself, otherwise you’ll just lapse into bad habits. If you want to be better, see a therapist whether she goes with you or not. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/12/19 02:05 AM |
| 2 | What to say if a girl "brags" about guys hitting on herThis^ | /r/seduction | 12/12/19 06:04 PM |
| 3 | Approaching girls with parents aroundHonestly, if she’s with them not really | /r/seduction | 11/12/19 11:00 PM |
| 3 | Could use a bit of adviceI mean, ask “Is it advisable the kids should continue to take these? Or should they be disposed of?” Hey ex, Dr Soandso told me to throw them out. Don’t blame me, the person with the medical degree told me to. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/12/19 06:05 PM |
| 2 | Could use a bit of adviceYou also have custody, go to kids’ pediatrician and ask about the meds | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/12/19 05:24 PM |
| 1 | Can women be seducers?Flattered. No. None. | /r/seduction | 09/12/19 11:29 PM |
| 1 | Is it okay to be sexual with a girl at 15 years of age when she is 15 too and both are dating each other?You choose to. You need to choose, repeatedly, to not look at porn. | /r/seduction | 08/12/19 10:38 PM |
| 0 | I have really bad anxiety about getting cheating onMost men don’t cheat, he probably won’t regardless of what your dad or anyone else did. | /r/seduction | 08/12/19 09:35 PM |
| 2 | Is it okay to be sexual with a girl at 15 years of age when she is 15 too and both are dating each other?Real life is better than imagination, why go with plan b if plan a is working fine? | /r/seduction | 08/12/19 09:34 PM |
| 1 | Confusing body language and eye contact!You don’t break eye contact with someone you are trying to intimidate. It will show interest without creeping her out. Lots of women will not respond positively to being stared at. | /r/seduction | 08/12/19 09:29 PM |
| 6 | Confusing body language and eye contact!Predators stare. Prolonged eye contact with someone you know is not normal. Look briefly, look away, then like 5 seconds later look back. If she’s looking at you smile. If not move on. | /r/seduction | 08/12/19 09:20 PM |
| 3 | When a girl says " you have nice/long eye lashes"Bat them at her | /r/seduction | 08/12/19 01:17 PM |
| 2 | Is anyone paying child support for children over 18?Canadian here, I have friends who have to pay beyond 18. Get a legal opinion for your circumstances. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/12/19 04:37 PM |
| 1 | Is it true that self improvement gives you confidence and makes social situations easier?Yes. When you feel better about yourself it radiates. | /r/seduction | 05/12/19 03:30 PM |
| 3 | What age range should a man in his 30s be targetting?I didn’t think I said anything about that? | /r/seduction | 04/12/19 03:55 PM |
| 3 | What age range should a man in his 30s be targetting?Dude... take a woman with some experience any day of the week, it will be far more enjoyable. Why the hell would you want someone inexperienced? Clumsy awkward sex is not good sex. Being with someone that is comfortable with it will also improve your sexual ability far more. | /r/seduction | 04/12/19 02:47 PM |
| 1 | Separated but still living together?In my case, the attraction between us died (there were other issues also but not relevant here). I truly want her to be happy, and I accept that it can’t be from me. The real key is true acceptance- it is what it is, nothing more and nothing less. We can’t change the past, so look forward. In time it will get easier. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/12/19 12:54 AM |
| 4 | Separated but still living together?My wife and I separated while we still respected each other. There is no reason it has to be a battle. I want her to be okay, we can’t stay married but she isn’t my enemy either, and doesn’t need to be. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/12/19 12:40 AM |
| 1 | If you run a good game on someone to manipulate them into becoming obsessed with/dependent you, do you have a right to complain if you decide it's annoying?No, it is not. | /r/seduction | 29/11/19 07:43 PM |
| 1 | Should I message her whilst away?Don’t message as much, especially if on a vacation. 1) too much messaging could make you look clingy and 2) you’ll have a reason to go out after work to tell her all about it. | /r/seduction | 28/11/19 08:35 AM |
| 1 | That girl you decided not to approach could very well have been your wifeAgree. You never know when you’re about to meet someone great. | /r/seduction | 28/11/19 08:33 AM |
| 12 | That girl you decided not to approach could very well have been your wifeTrue, but most likely not so don’t lose sleep over it. | /r/seduction | 28/11/19 08:30 AM |
| 1 | Best Body Language When Sitting Opposite Someone?Leaning in shows interest | /r/seduction | 27/11/19 09:28 PM |
| 2 | Is "hi, how are you" an good instagram opener?Bad opener, doesn’t lead anywhere | /r/seduction | 27/11/19 08:04 PM |
| 1 | Question to men...There is a difference between being cautious and playing hard to get. Being cautious? Totally fine. Making me jump through hoops? Nope. | /r/seduction | 27/11/19 06:35 PM |
| 2 | Approach anxiety when soberUnderstand something really important: They are just girls. As in maybe they are shy too, or not sure what to say, etc... If you are interested in them then ask questions about them. If you are interested in her replies proceed, if not you can cut it off. If you go right to asking them out it can send the wrong message to them. Show them you are interested in who they are and what they have to say and what they think. Get to know them more, and let them learn about you more before suggesting mee… | /r/seduction | 27/11/19 02:43 PM |
| 1 | How do you steer conversation from dating potential to FWB or ONS?Don’t get ahead of yourself, the way the date goes may decide which way it goes. Don’t make up your mind ahead of time, it will change how you interpret everything she says or does. | /r/seduction | 27/11/19 02:33 PM |
| 1 | Question to men...Is she playing hard to get? Or just not as interested as you want? Important to find out which one it is. For very good reasons women tend to be less direct in communicating they aren’t looking to progress a possible romantic relationship. | /r/seduction | 27/11/19 02:23 PM |
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