Warning sign?

LonelyNC123 · 2019-12-25T16:16:15+00:00

Dude. GO FOR IT! It will be such an ego boost, it will help you heal from the emotional damage of the divorce. But, be HONEST with her, tell her are too emotionally damaged right now for a serious relationship. If she is still interested after that, go for it!

NO_PRND · 2019-12-25T20:36:49+00:00

It's a trap

gapdaddy72 · 2019-12-25T14:56:27+00:00

Then avoid, but be nice about it.

EedwardGreyRedPen · 2019-12-25T15:07:27+00:00

You’re sure she doesn’t feel the same way about you?

TryToHelpPeople · 2019-12-25T17:51:10+00:00

Your instincts are talking to you - listen to them.

NohoTwoPointOh · 2019-12-25T17:26:21+00:00

Most are there for hookups and free food. Wear protection and hit or flee.

4agreements · 2019-12-26T00:40:59+00:00

Don’t. Just don’t. You’re just going to get your rocks off and feel like shit an hour later. Don’t mess with someone you don’t want to have to face in the morning. Meeting anyone online going straight for sex to me, means they are messed up in the head and feels this is the only way for validation. Meet her, date a bit, then get physical if you’re both feeling it. But for gods sake wear 4 condoms. She said she doesn’t want a fling, but thinks her only worth is sex. This is how bad relationships start.

This is why prostitution should be legal everywhere.

SpacemanLost · 2019-12-26T04:13:06+00:00

If you are not in a mental place to be comfortable with One night stands or short term FWBs, then Don't do it.

If you aren't comfortable breaking things off if she becomes 'too attached, too fast', then don't do it.

If you are going to not like the person you would be if you 'just used her for sex', then don't do it.

I encountered more than very sexually forward woman when I was divorced in my early 40s. Think the female equivalent of sending unsolicited dick pics. I pass on most of those so that I could be comfortable looking at myself in the mirror. The ones I didn't pass on were one where we were both clear on what the deal was, wanting the same thing, and generally good for each other at that moment in time and treated each other honorably.

Cave_Creeker · 2019-12-26T23:32:58+00:00

I suggest avoiding her

Title	Warning sign?
Author	Particular_Band
Upvotes	3
Comments	13
Date	December 25, 2019 2:53 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/Divorce_Men
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/Divorce_Men/comments/efhbry/warning_sign/
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