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garciast/r/askMRP14/11/23 07:43 PM
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Hormone replacement therapy exist for women as well, its well documented that helps the quality of life of both genders. You are in your 40s, you both should get your homones checked.
/r/askMRP20/05/25 07:42 PM
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Thank you
/r/askMRP20/05/25 07:27 PM
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Did you resist the changes? I'm going through that moment right now, my inner voice speaks to me, giuves me signs everywhere of things I should do, but I am very afraid, its been years and years of doing the same, love, work, friends, life in general. Its like I am a different person, my behavoirs changed, the way I talk, how I walk, how I see my career. I just don't even try caring anymore. Did that happened to you too? Its like a i just don't care anymore about anything in way of say fvck it. …
/r/askMRP20/05/25 06:58 PM
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can be posting a picture that's almost too provocative You have a hot wife and she posts provocative pictures, why does that bother you? Are you that insecure that you think others can take her away from you?
/r/askMRP16/04/25 04:12 PM
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Not really. Women are not the same as men. From time to time is good to make her dread, ignore her, not telling her where you are. Even if that means to have a small fight. That's the difference between coasting in a relationship where comfort is the norm vs creating a little anxiety in a wife where you know she is fighting for you the price. If you tell your wife things for her not to be mad at you, you're a stupid dancing monkey with a big covert contract. Are you scared of her not giving you …
/r/askMRP28/03/25 05:59 PM
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Do you tell your wife everything like a well behave boy? What about if it was last minute? Do you still tell your wife like a scared boy? What are you scared of?
/r/askMRP28/03/25 05:51 PM
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You are a child with dynamite. Fool
/r/askMRP27/03/25 11:21 AM
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That was a $hit test and you failed. She's obviously jealous and having anxiety for you being with another female, I would have done it differently. I kinda joke these off but go up to her for a playful cuddle. You mean you DEERed jokingly, then wanted mommy to not be mad again and wanted to cuddle with her for validation that she still loves you. She jokes "should I message so and so to see if he was there!?" "Its a free country baby, go ahead" She feins the whole caring thing again with a adde…
/r/askMRP26/03/25 11:30 PM
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so my genuine answer at this point is to tell her the truth - yes, I do care about you, or love, or whatever it is that was asked If that's what you want, then fvcking do that, why are you scared? but I'm wondering if that's me failing a simple test here. This is paranoia, the mere thinking of failing a test, its what you will end up doing and will fvck everything up.
/r/askMRP13/02/25 08:20 PM
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You think making yourself better your goal, is shameful?
/r/askMRP09/02/25 04:31 AM
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The issue is, since you're the captain of your ship, and your acquaintances and friends, or someone you've just met, are not part of your crew, you need to treat them differently from your partner. So you're basically saying, I'm a chameleon and this sub taught me how to treat my wife, not how to treat other people. I need to become whatever I think others want me to treat them. How about just recognize who you are, and if you're a piece a shit, change it for yourself. Your covert contract is th…
/r/askMRP28/01/25 05:42 PM
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Have you noticed she getting bitchy more often? How is sex? Very enthusiastic? Anal? That says a lot on how she sees you
/r/askMRP28/12/24 11:46 AM
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Why would you go shopping for that shit? You've never gotten your pants wet or your shoes? You don't have a washer in your house? And then you hamstered to go shopping cause her appearance is a reflection on you hahaha
/r/askMRP27/12/24 08:52 PM
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Tools tools tools!!! Hey guys look, I'm using the tools to keep the peace!! I'm doing great. Except you're not, who the fvck gets so emotional after getting some water on their pants? Also, why are you apologizing over and over for that shit? She doesn't respect you btw. *Steps on a puddle - Ah shit my bad, I didn't see that, I got a great washer in my house for those specific occasions ;) -Her: Step away don't touch me -You: Are you really gonna be like that cause of a puddle? -Her: Yes, leave …
/r/askMRP27/12/24 08:47 PM
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Red pill fixes the man, not as a covert contract from a nice guy beta loser that "my wife will be more attracted to me therefore I will have a problem free life" If you wanna cheat on your wife, go do it, who's stopping you? You can't have your cake and eat it too buddy, that's for women.
/r/askMRP06/12/24 04:07 PM
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Nah bruh, you have always been the beta, do you think she will do that shit to Brad Pitt? Nope
/r/askMRP03/12/24 05:33 PM
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Yeah guys who don't see themselves as a prize think that. You're pretty much saying she is a goddess and I'm a servant who she allows to fuck her. She has the same holes as any other woman.
/r/askMRP02/12/24 01:40 PM
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You went Rambo two years ago, had all that time to get your mental shit together, but instead you are here asking about rookie stuff. She's a 9/10 and it sometimes honestly blows my mind how we're together. Her SMV is higher than mine, even while mine is now the highest it has ever been. Does this sound like a confident man who knows he's the prize? Thing is sometimes I want to show her more affection and just be nice with a suprise gift or just nice gestures and I refrain from it to not be a "b…
/r/askMRP25/11/24 11:04 PM
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Yep, happened to me, she definitely does know.
/r/askMRP25/11/24 10:41 PM
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“omg thank god I decided to get dressed like you suggested” I bet you said something along the lines of "I know baby, you look hot as fuck, I wanna rip those clothes apart" and then pulling her towards you and kissing her, while smacking her ass.
/r/askMRP11/11/24 07:17 PM
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First of all, you should have known what type of date you wanted to take her, if it was something nice, then you should have said with a smirk "You are way underdressed for this date, why don't you wear that skirt and put that red lipstick that makes your lips pop?" If she didn't want to change, then you take her to the place you wanted to go dressing the way you wanted to dress (nicely I'm assuming), she will look like a hobo and you'll be a nice dressed man.
/r/askMRP11/11/24 07:13 PM
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When she came out wearing those pants, I would’ve ignored them. Said nothing. I would’ve driven to the store, done the shopping, and then driven straight home without mentioning the date. She’s not dressed for the date so I’m not taking her. I'm mad at mommy cause she didn't wear what I expected for her to wear, therefore, I will forget my plans, I will not go to the date I had planned cause since "she did X and not what I had my mind, I won't do Y" Now fuck you bitch, no date for you, we will s…
/r/askMRP11/11/24 07:09 PM
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Cause he wants to show dominance bro, don't you get it. He's been in the journey for some time and he wants to show dominance, after all, if I do the work she should respect me and do exactly as I say, right?
/r/askMRP11/11/24 07:02 PM
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Better option. Say nothing about the pants. Show her with your with actions. Take her somewhere she is dressed for, somewhere less nice, (fast food). Still say NOTHING! The mood she chose for this date was not dressy, but casual so you are doing casualBetter option. Say nothing about the pants. Show her with your with actions. Take her somewhere she is dressed for, somewhere less nice, (fast food). Still say NOTHING! The mood she chose for this date was not dressy, but casual so you are doing ca…
/r/askMRP11/11/24 06:58 PM
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OYS #2 Stats: 35yo, 5'6", 160lb, 15%bf. Single, were engaged 2 years together Lifts: SQ 225lb for 8, injury recovery OP 80lb for 6 DL 225lb 8 BP 100lb dumbbells for 8 Read: Sidebar, Models, Frame, dread, NMMNG, WISNIFG Health & Fitness: lifted 3x last week. Sleeping a little bit better which has helped with lifting and weight gain. Sex and Validation: No sex after breaking up after 3 weeks, not in the mood to get girls right now. I've seen two cute neighbors that I can approach, but I don't want…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/10/24 01:49 PM
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I desire to let her go. Maybe fucking new girls will help me, but I'm just respecting the relationship we had for now and try to heal.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/24 11:44 AM
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I didn't come here for you to confirm I am a HVM, I am a HVM when I compare myself with men my age. I came here cause of the emotional fog I'm having and for people to kick me in the ass, not to babysit me, however, I agree with your post
/r/askMRP13/10/24 11:42 AM
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Thank you and fuck you too
/r/askMRP11/10/24 12:28 PM
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I know I have to do that, crazy how emotions blur logic
/r/askMRP11/10/24 12:27 PM
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When you fail a set, do you go online and watch Youtube videos of other guys doing it successfully, or do you regroup and hit it on your next workout? If you hit a plateau, do you read 11 books about it? Or do you make the necessary adjustments, get back to the gym and push past it? I do, I go online and search for answers to things I don't know, and I follow successful guys who have overcome their plateau. So yes, I do. Go fuck ten other women and then see how much you really care about losing …
/r/askMRP11/10/24 12:26 PM
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OYS #1 Stats: 35yo, 5'6", 160lb, 15%bf. Single, were 2 years together Lifts: SQ 225lb for 8, injury recovery OP 80lb for 6 DL 225lb 8 BP 100lb dumbbells for 8 Read: Sidebar, Models, Frame, dread, NMMNG, WISNIFG Health & Fitness: lifted 2x last week. Sleeping a little bit better better which has helped with lifting and weight gain. Sex and Validation: No sex after breaking up after 3 weeks, not in the mood to get girls right now. I've seen two cute neighbors that I can approach, but I don't want …
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/24 01:37 PM
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Well for you being a retired ER doctor, don't really know shit. Males have those same hormones, if you add too much test then you can get E2 too high causing other problems, then you have DHT, and Progesterone, also Prolactin that plays with libido. Have you ever talked to a guy on TRT how difficult is it to dial in the dose? I think not.
/r/askMRP07/06/24 01:04 AM
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That's what I'm gonna eat really high tonight on gummies, you should try to fuck while high, its the best. But not, it has nothing to do with me, just trying to understand.
/r/askMRP05/06/24 10:02 PM
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Okay, explain this to me and I'd like others to do the same. How come if a girl sends "amicable" messages to another guy you should be stoic but if she has a night out with her girlfriends or travelling for a weekend in vegas the guy should leave her? What is the guy afraid of? Cheating? How does he know she will cheat? Isn't that mate guarding? If she cheats is her loss right? Then why for one thing is okay but for the one is not?
/r/askMRP05/06/24 08:31 PM
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So you think falling in love in a relationship is weak and gives the power to her? Imagine not. I have had all of that before the RP, not liking the girl, more or less liking, really liking the girl. Out of those relationships (1+ year), the ones I've enjoyed the most are when she feels the same for me and I'm all in, enjoying every moment of it, travelling together, doing things together, it doesn't mean she's the center of my life cause I have other things to do, but man, if you've never had t…
/r/askMRP05/06/24 07:31 PM
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you file for divorce with a smile This is the bullshit that new guys practicing after reading get. If you are invested in a woman that you like, why would I be with a woman that I don't like, just to have sex, that's mutual masturbation and it sucks, I've had it many times, but once you file a woman that thicks a lot of boxes, you invest emotionally naturally, and if she cheats for whatever reason my fault or hers, you don't fucking divorce with a smile. You divorce with your hearts ripped apart…
/r/askMRP05/06/24 06:54 PM
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Agree.
/r/askMRP05/06/24 06:44 PM
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Got it thanks
/r/askMRP05/06/24 05:17 PM
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Ok
/r/askMRP05/06/24 05:13 PM
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3rd example, there was a FR here, where a woman had a crush on her daughters swimming coach, the husband told her that she should do it and go for it. What kind of men would do that? What happens if she cheats and says "well you told me to fo for it"
/r/askMRP05/06/24 04:20 PM
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3rd example, there was a FR here, where a woman had a crush on her daughters swimming coach, the husband told her that she should do it and go for it. What kind of men would do that? What happens if she cheats and says "well you told me to fo for it"
/r/askMRP05/06/24 04:19 PM
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Of course I am fucking mad, but not to people online, I'm mad at me, at society, at people who say the old saying "work hard and have a great life" to get women. That was what my dad did and yes he is very happy. Like I said maybe times changed, that's why I'm here. Imagine how committed I am to this, that 2 years when I found the RP I knew I was gonna get women, and got the vasectomy done to not get anyone pregnant while in the learning process. Where you lost in the beginning learning all of t…
/r/askMRP05/06/24 03:59 PM
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I lift since I was 16 years old, and have read multiple times the materials. Maybe I am an autist idk, maybe I "wasted" my years studying and working with no focus on women to have the great life that I have now. Excuse me if I didn't learn this instead bro, my bad.
/r/askMRP05/06/24 03:47 PM
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I'm sure new guys will learn a lot from people like you.
/r/askMRP05/06/24 03:39 PM
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You have 50% to blame so own it. You are a post wall woman with 3 kids, do you think it will go well in the dating market for you? Think long and hard before making a decision you will regret in the future.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/24 08:19 PM
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Did you really make this comparison thinking is the same? And you're one of the guys giving advice? Imagine your wife coming to you, "Hey honey, my male friend gave me this hoodie with his name and his business, I'm gonna wear it to promote him, even though I don't get paid, but I'm gonna wear it anyways" LOL
/r/askMRP19/03/24 01:23 AM
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Exactly, boundaries require no explanation, also boundaries change with time. Men have to experience it by themselves
/r/askMRP18/03/24 08:41 PM
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People here allow disrespect from their women cause most of them are married, it will be hard for them to leave cause of their kids, that's why they call it "just let it go, you're insecure" If you don't like it, then enforce it, you can always find another woman who doesn't wear a jacket with another man's name. If a guy does that, they will call a guy a clown for doing that, but men tend to side with women most of the time.
/r/askMRP18/03/24 08:39 PM
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Imagine having your girlfriend when you're out wearing another man's hoodie, is it just a hoodie? Or is it outright disrespectful? Would you be okay with that? Not everything should be ignored.
/r/askMRP18/03/24 08:34 PM
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Cause the single moms I've seen being married, are with obese guys.
/r/askMRP20/11/23 12:03 AM
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Update: After 4 days of no contact, I sent her a message to go out to dance. We did, fvcked and everything like normal, she said in 1 year to make a decision to marry, I just STFU. I have oneitis, I'll follow my MAP to get over this oneitis, that's my only objective now and I will.
/r/askMRP18/11/23 05:23 PM
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Yeah, top 1% of males of my age. Slowly but surely my friend the mindset changes.
/r/askMRP17/11/23 03:16 PM
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While its true that I have issues. The money is to do what I want, I buy what I want without looking at the receipt, my physique to look good naked, those things make me confident (not to the degree I want of course) and attractive to the opposite sex; money, muscles & game (which I'm lacking right now, but will learn eventually)
/r/askMRP15/11/23 09:37 PM
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Well if you were smarter you would have asked, what ethnicity are you? At this point you're nitpicking shit. Me being new is good to know which people to ignore.
/r/askMRP15/11/23 06:08 PM
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If we count high school then no, but as an adult, having my own things, my own money, my own career, then yes.
/r/askMRP15/11/23 04:42 PM
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I mean I've felt all the emotions, I didn't suppressed anything. Reading in here has lifted some of the fog, but still feeling in it. I've been reading in here what guys post to have my mind occupied when work is slow and to learn from other people's experiences. ​ One good things that I've been resting a lot to not think, I've been going to bed around 7pm when coming back from work, and waking up at 2-3am, then been hitting gym really hard. I'm been trying to get my body fat around 12% and I've…
/r/askMRP15/11/23 04:37 PM
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I did stop, and I'm trying to come to terms that is over, its been only 4 days.
/r/askMRP15/11/23 04:18 PM
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Thanks for the contribution
/r/askMRP15/11/23 04:15 PM
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No, just the reasons I posted there.
/r/askMRP15/11/23 04:15 PM
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The only thing I think is that I was the emotional tampon to my mom, I was the helper, the one who was there to keep the piece, the one who was afraid of conflict, the one who never wanted mommy to be mad at me, mommy knew everything, mommy was smart, mommy ran the household, the finance, the fearless leader who took all the challenges, mommy was the one giving rewards for a good boi (according to her). I was more than happy to make mommy proud of me, proud of how happy she was with me. I rememb…
/r/askMRP15/11/23 01:13 PM
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I'm not getting married, just wanted to vent in here and for guys tell me how puzzy I was being.
/r/askMRP15/11/23 10:35 AM
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I'm not that ignorant, I've been working on my MAP for almost 2 years now. Went from 130 to 160lb I took PEDs, moved to another state and got my income where it is now, even got a vasectomy cause I knew I needed to fix my life before getting someone pregnant by accident. Not deering right now, just giving you my road. TRP is easier when you read it than putting it in praccy. On paper I am the prize, but internalizing is the hardest. I'm here to learn like all of you. But yes you're right, I stil…
/r/askMRP15/11/23 10:30 AM
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I know
/r/askMRP15/11/23 08:21 AM
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I know, I'm very broken, beta dad, controlling manipulative mom, but its on me to fix it
/r/askMRP15/11/23 06:52 AM
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I will, thanks
/r/askMRP15/11/23 06:49 AM
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Latina
/r/askMRP15/11/23 06:49 AM
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I was describing me for you all, as a description of the man I have become. But that's attractive to any girl anyways, maybe a convert contract too.
/r/askMRP14/11/23 10:27 PM
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I understand, thanks for that
/r/askMRP14/11/23 10:21 PM
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Thank you
/r/askMRP14/11/23 10:12 PM
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Cause I'm a pussy
/r/askMRP14/11/23 10:11 PM
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Tell me what are my covert contracts? I can't see them I wanna, notice them and get rid of them.
/r/askMRP14/11/23 10:11 PM
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Okay so, I failed to mention I have a vasectomy, I don't have kid and don't plan to have, so baby trapping me is not possible.
/r/askMRP14/11/23 10:10 PM
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But her next meal ticket will be an obese beta.
/r/askMRP14/11/23 09:54 PM
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I still have oneitis, I'm a recovering nice guy, what else can I do than fucking fight my programing since childhood?
/r/askMRP14/11/23 09:52 PM
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I understand, I know she will be very unhappy with an obese beta ready to take all of that, fucking disgusting. Thank you
/r/askMRP14/11/23 09:49 PM
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Idk if I can right now, I need some time to get my emotions under control
/r/askMRP14/11/23 09:26 PM
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Okay
/r/askMRP14/11/23 09:24 PM
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I understand.
/r/askMRP14/11/23 09:23 PM
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Yeah I know if I cave she will lose more respect that she has done so far. Thank you
/r/askMRP14/11/23 08:46 PM
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Ok I've never had an ultimatum about marriage before, thank you
/r/askMRP14/11/23 08:45 PM
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Yeah I know, it was my first LTR of more than 1 year. Thanks
/r/askMRP14/11/23 08:31 PM
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Yeah I think its a fitness test and I know I'm failing, fuck!
/r/askMRP14/11/23 08:04 PM
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LOL yeah I know a made a full of myself, but Idk what gotten into me.
/r/askMRP14/11/23 08:02 PM
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I have read a lot of books, she read "Love is not enough" by Mark Mason and she told me that she needed more than love from me.
/r/askMRP14/11/23 08:01 PM
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Well everything started as fun, but with she treated me very well and that hooked me up.
/r/askMRP14/11/23 07:59 PM
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OYS 1 Purpose Being the best version of a man I can be Reading reading: NMMNG, Rollo, Rian Stone's book, Pook, Pract Female psychology, Models read: sidebar ​ Relationship: LTR 1.5 yeas, no kids, no marriage Physical 34s / 5'6 / 165 lbs / 14% bf bench press, dumbbells: 105 lbs each arm deadlift: 225 squat: 210 ohp dumbells: 70 lbs each arm Started TRT 2 years ago, then went into cycles, have made big gainz, everyone notices it Weaknesses: Was a typical nice guy, body was out of shape, still look…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/11/23 10:24 PM
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