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First off don't introduce yourself with "I have Aspergers". If you make that your identity you aren't going to get very far. If you are feeling lonely with a negative outlook on life this can be fixed. It may seem daunting, and you may have to make yourself very uncomfortable in the process but it can be done! Who are you, what are you good at, what are your hobbies, who are your friends? Do you participate in exercise? Belong to any societies? Support any sports teams? You say you've had drunke…
/r/seduction31/01/21 01:28 PM
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Hey its me your buddy
/r/seduction30/01/21 02:54 PM
1

You're welcome. Good luck!
/r/seduction30/01/21 11:04 AM
1

This guy sounds far more tedious than Tinder or Bumble haha. Just go on, get a few guys numbers and uninstall again. This time next weekend you could be having brunch with a sexy man rather than asking advice on Reddit.
/r/seduction30/01/21 10:44 AM
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You've probably let this go on a little too long if he isn't interested in meeting. I understand the lockdown thing, but I think most men would be willing to break the rules for a single one on one meet with a girl they had been talking to for months. I personally wouldn't be interested in a socially distanced or zoom date, I turned down a few last year. If I'm on a date. with a girl and it's going well, I'm going to want to kiss her. He's still talking to you though so I'm leaning towards shyne…
/r/seduction30/01/21 10:33 AM
47

Approach 3 more the day after. Good luck!
/r/seduction30/01/21 08:48 AM
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This is normal, and this is why it works. The vast majority of guys are paralysed by fear. Those who find a way to overcome it may succeed. As the other comment says, if you fail you will never see these girls again. You need to try, and know that you will be awful at this to begin with. When you get rejected and fail catastrophically, you need to laugh about how badly it went. Then you will be a little less scared, then you can repeat the process until you don't care and it feels natural.
/r/seduction30/01/21 08:39 AM
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You seem to care about the interaction far more than she does which is not a recipe for success. Before and after the call it seems like she was in control, but given the chance while you were talking it sounds like you were charming her. Why not try this with a few other girls? Then you won't care so much if one doesn't want to talk again.
/r/seduction30/01/21 08:36 AM
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Who gives a fuck? You don't want to see them again. A girl doing this would try to friendzone you, keep you around for validation and make you miserable. Ghost them, block them, send them a nice message, it doesn't matter as long as you do it fast and move on.
/r/askTRP18/11/20 07:40 AM
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Yes it is normal. Someone died and you are grieving. Time will pass and eventually you won't think about this.
/r/askTRP18/11/20 07:36 AM
25

Sell the video games you don't need them
/r/askTRP20/10/20 05:30 AM
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DO NOT TELL HER DIRECTLY THAT YOU LIKE HER It does not work Have a look around the sub Learn how to ask her out on a date and use the date to get closer to her
/r/seduction07/10/20 08:46 PM
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Do you really think nobody is fucking new people right now?
/r/seduction07/10/20 12:43 PM
1

You didn't, but you're still here
/r/seduction06/10/20 05:59 PM
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You can't just take Zoloft for a month and then stop, it would do nothing to fix your problem. You ramp up the dose slowly over many months, maintain, and then ramp it down again over many months. Combine this with therapy and you can succeed. They are not magical happy pills.
/r/askTRP06/10/20 05:37 PM
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She ignored you in public on purpose, ignore her too. You have no reason "walk confident" in front of this girl to try and impress her. A woman who ignored you should be dead to you.
/r/seduction06/10/20 04:25 PM
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If you have accepted that then why are you still interested in seduction?
/r/seduction06/10/20 04:22 PM
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She saw you with your friends in public and came to say hello, why is this a problem?
/r/askTRP06/10/20 10:52 AM
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Keep fucking my friend, eventually you will find one that makes you feel even better about life than that one did.
/r/askTRP04/10/20 01:15 PM
1

You know what you need to do then :) it's a numbers game so message an opening to 5 at once. No need to overthink the opening, you can use the same one for all 5.
/r/seduction04/10/20 11:18 AM
1

Sounds like you almost got one. How long have you been trying for?
/r/seduction04/10/20 11:11 AM
2

You don't need to care about this until you are having a kid
/r/askTRP04/10/20 10:55 AM
18

Take some wine. She will probably already have wine too. You might drink her wine, or you might drink your wine. There is no need to overthink this.
/r/askTRP04/10/20 07:57 AM
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You personally sound like you are doing fine. People around you not so much though, and that may not be an environment you can thrive in. Good news is, you can focus on just one goal to fix it. Save another $2500. Work hard to do this faster, it will also help you ignore the chaos around you and avoid becoming depressed. Pick up extra hours if possible or maybe a second job until you reach your goal? Sell things you don't need on eBay too! Good luck!
/r/askTRP04/10/20 06:03 AM
6

Why the fuck would you put "BJJ Practitioner" when you know only 1% of girls will know what this means?
/r/askTRP03/10/20 09:51 PM
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Yes. Until she does you should also be dating other women.
/r/askTRP03/10/20 09:01 PM
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This is oneitis, someone with abundance would not post this. It takes longer than a week to become red pilled. Keep trying. Good luck.
/r/askTRP03/10/20 09:00 PM
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If you need to ask us about this you aren't doing as well as you think Add her and don't give a fuck if she adds you back or not
/r/askTRP03/10/20 08:58 PM
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I did it recently and had a very positive reaction from females My theory is it was less about how I look and more about having the balls to go through with it If you're curious, try it, it will grow back if you don't like it. Seems like a huge deal before you do it, but a few days after you won't give a fuck
/r/askTRP30/09/20 02:08 PM
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Get jacked and then say "wanna get out of here?". Might as well close the sub down everyone, this guy solved seduction.
/r/seduction28/09/20 07:07 PM
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Once they are laughing say something to make fun of them and gague their reaction
/r/seduction28/09/20 07:04 PM
4

Why would you care? Are you trying to get some passive aggressive revenge on her by unfollowing?
/r/askTRP28/09/20 07:03 PM
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If you can feel it now just wait until you start sleeping with them. Don't tell them you are new at dating. This is a rare occasion where it is better to lie. Say you had some cool dates pre covid but nothing serious yet.
/r/seduction27/09/20 09:46 PM
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Be playful! Show that she can't get to you. Don't give her some awkward long-winded explanation about all the girls you've fingered this year.
/r/seduction26/09/20 07:40 PM
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"I do ok." then cheeky smile and take a sip of your drink
/r/seduction26/09/20 07:37 PM
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I've seen this before but I just want to tell you that you have an absolutely fantastic channel that has helped me a lot this year. It helped me choose quite a few different audiobooks that have in turn changed my life for the better. You deserve this passive income stream and I hope it allows you to follow your dreams. Please keep the videos coming.
/r/seduction20/09/20 10:25 AM
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Exactly how many girls have you fucked since you broke up with her?
/r/askTRP19/09/20 02:25 PM
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Perfect excuse you have found yourself there, enjoy staying home with gran.
/r/seduction18/09/20 12:28 PM
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You should be doing cardio anyway
/r/askTRP18/09/20 07:07 AM
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Just say no worries take all the time you need then back off and stop initiating contact with her
/r/seduction12/09/20 03:15 PM
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I'm starting to believe most men who take Finasteride only take it so they can blame Finasteride for behaving like a little bitch
/r/askTRP11/09/20 09:00 PM
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You're obviously nervous this might not happen. Personally I wouldn't, if she texts you then great, text back. My favourite is when she then texts something completely irrelevant, but you can totally tell she's trying to say "Are we still on? Do you still like me?"
/r/seduction10/09/20 08:52 PM
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You need to back off very very far. For many months you must go no contact, and only speak if spoken to, and keep the conversation brief. If they ask you to do them a favour DO NOT FUCKING DO IT. Do not be afraid to ignore their messages. During this time you need to work unbelievably hard on yourself. You need to come out the other end fucking ripped, a monster of a man who genuinely does not give a fuck if she likes you or not. Either you will succeed with her, or you will not care and succeed…
/r/seduction10/09/20 08:38 PM
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The problems you have created inside your own head will follow you wherever you go.
/r/askTRP10/09/20 12:35 PM
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Right now you do nothing. Do not send anything else until she sends you something.
/r/seduction08/09/20 08:29 PM
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The point of the date is to find out if she is up to your standards. If she is good enough for you, then you can go in for the kiss. The speed at which she texts not the way to judge her personality.
/r/seduction25/08/20 08:35 PM
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You are a kissless virgin, and you are complaining a girl responds to your messages too quickly. Stop making excuses and go on a date with her. A date doesn't mean you have to do anything with her, so ask her on one, and use it to decide if you like her or not.
/r/seduction25/08/20 08:24 PM
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Almost all attractive adult women have dyed hair at all times. If you want to do it then do it, don't look for excuses. If it doesn't look good then don't do it again.
/r/seduction23/08/20 09:40 PM
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Laugh at her again for the "toxic behaviour" comment and then walk away not giving a fuck.
/r/askTRP20/08/20 05:45 PM
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You've not waited too long. You don't have to be edgy or wacky just say something. Most matches go nowhere, and you're just starting out at this so have nothing to lose. You will get more matches so if you mess these up its fine, just make sure you learn from your mistakes.
/r/askTRP16/08/20 10:51 AM
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No more needy posting on insta for attention. Mute her stories and posts - don't be an orbiter. As far as she is concerned you have fallen off the face of the earth. Now work so hard on yourself you bleed through your eyeballs. Good luck.
/r/askTRP16/08/20 07:41 AM
5

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/r/askTRP16/08/20 07:31 AM
0

If this is important to you, you should have arranged a party or invited everyone out for a dinner to celebrate.
/r/askTRP16/08/20 07:22 AM
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I understand you are trying, but if the weights are not doing what you want then get help Online dating didn't work for you - why did it not work? It can be difficult but a lot of men are succeeding so you can too. Check out r/tinder for advice on making a great profile. Go out and try any new hobby. Jogging group, cooking classes, foreign language class, dancing lessons, tennis coaching, book group - you like books! - women enjoy all these things. Or go on Airbnb or Expedia and book a local exp…
/r/seduction15/08/20 11:25 PM
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Hate having this victim mentality but don't know what to improve? - you need to lose the victim mentality, successful men don't have this. If you can't figure out how to shake this see a psychologist. You work out a lot but your arms and legs are very skinny - if you do not like this you should work on it. If you don't know how to, read books on bodybuilding and book a session with a personal trainer. How would you describe your fashion sense? Reading, spirituality and being a pretty social guy …
/r/seduction15/08/20 11:07 PM
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Yes, as above read the book. Personally I also recommend Corey Wayne: How to be a 3% man. Also you need to know that when you start doing this you will be terrible at it. You say you have been in several relationships before, those count for nothing at this stage. You will make mistakes, and may feel stupid and embarrassed at times. You need to keep trying, keep reading, relentlessly work on yourself and stop at nothing to achieve your mission in life. This will take a very long time and be psyc…
/r/seduction15/08/20 06:26 PM
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Popular dating platforms vary by location, but Tinder is everywhere. /r/Tinder can offer a lot of help too when building a profile.
/r/seduction13/08/20 05:43 AM
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Ah makes sense, you have a psychological barrier to overcome due to a conservative culture. Are your friends of the same culture? This may influence what they have been saying to you. Well, if you think you will be doing it soon, you might as well do it now. Online dating is a skill that takes time to learn. You will not know what you are doing to begin with, and will make lots of mistakes. Once you start, you may wish you had started sooner, so no time like the present!
/r/seduction12/08/20 09:17 PM
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Cold approach takes guts so well done! Any reason you're not on Tinder? Is online dating something you might be interested in?
/r/seduction12/08/20 09:08 PM
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Not fussy then! What have you tried so far? You on any dating apps?
/r/seduction12/08/20 08:55 PM
2

Living an attractive lifestyle should bring you more options with women. What sort of woman are you looking to attract?
/r/seduction12/08/20 08:46 PM
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I'm not seeing any problems with your lifestyle. Sometimes people can attack your positive traits because they feel insecure about themselves - e.g. a fat guy saying "omg why would you bother torturing yourself in the gym?". Amy chance this is what is going on? Either way if you are truly happy, and believe you are employing the correct life strategy for yourself then you should stick to it
/r/seduction12/08/20 08:17 PM
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Ok deep breath! It's ok man this stuff is hard to begin with. Really hard. Sometimes it can seem like you have the worst luck in the world, you're trying super hard and all the people around you are just falling into relationships. First off, download Tinder and keep it. I see girls in my area who delete and recreate their profile every couple of weeks and it's not a sign of a stable person! Download Tinder, buy 6 months Tinder gold for the discount and keep it! Will stop you being tempted to de…
/r/seduction12/08/20 07:07 PM
0

Keep it simple. Hey how are you, been up to much today? So what kind of stuff do you like to do for fun? You have many hobbies? Once they've told you what they like, ask them questions - they'll want to talk about it! If they at they like dancing ask if they do it through their school or a club. If they say they like video games ask what ones, which console they think is best? If they say 'just hanging out with friends lol' ask what kind of music are you and your friends into? Do you guys do any…
/r/seduction12/08/20 06:58 PM
2

Awesome! Hope you meet some super cool people out there.
/r/seduction12/08/20 05:58 PM
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Come on man it's not hard If you've not tried any of the following pick one and spend just ONE HOUR a week on it Jogging group Tennis lessons Dancing lessons Foreign language class Cooking class Yoga class Book club Or go on Airbnb, view local experiences and try one - act like a tourist in your own town and try new things If things aren't running because of lockdown there will be online versions you can join until lockdown is over Try things you think you'll hate. It's just an hour. You'd spend…
/r/seduction12/08/20 05:55 PM
2

Just to be clear, you are afraid she might catch covid from another guy in bed?
/r/askTRP12/08/20 05:38 PM
1

I assume you're not trying to fuck these people or climb the corporate ladder so why not try to make it a nice place to work? Turn up early, dress well and feed people. They might just end up liking you. Act like an acoustic fuck and they'll hate you.
/r/askTRP10/08/20 05:54 PM
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It's not normal no, it's better than normal.
/r/askTRP10/08/20 10:15 AM
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I work really fucking hard on myself every single day. I will never stop trying to improve. Women seem to find this aspect of my personality attractive.
/r/seduction08/08/20 07:57 PM
92

Maybe get help with your irrational fear of girls?
/r/askTRP06/08/20 05:34 PM
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Spend $300 to get it out of your system then spend the other $1200 on therapy because that's what's important
/r/askTRP06/08/20 05:24 PM
1

Peeing the same as before as far as I know!
/r/askTRP05/08/20 04:19 AM
6

I’m 5 months in, waiting a year to judge the results. Absolutely no side effects. Some men want to blame their problems on a hair loss pill.
/r/askTRP04/08/20 08:27 PM
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The ideal women doesn't care, and never talks about politics
/r/askTRP03/08/20 01:49 AM
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I don't think there's any need to overthink this initial response. No harm in thanking her. If she sends another message after that you may have a decision on your hands.
/r/askTRP02/08/20 04:21 PM
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If she was completely turned off by it she wouldn't have even responded. It's a test so deal with it.
/r/askTRP01/08/20 05:09 AM
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Don't be too clingy towards her. Get to know the friends, talk to them without looking to her for validation. If she wanders away from you to speak to other people for a while, let her, don't follow her. Have lots of fun, don't get too drunk, and don't treat her like a princess. Good luck!
/r/seduction30/07/20 06:17 PM
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Just ignore her. Your relationship with her is all business now. Make sure you always act super professional around her though, as she may look for ways to get you in trouble.
/r/askTRP30/07/20 11:18 AM
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I think you don't understand how much the average wedding costs - have a Google and see. I've definitely never been to one that cost less that $6000.
/r/askTRP29/07/20 09:43 AM
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Look at it this way. Let's say you're a fat slob with no hobbies. You want to meet women, so you make an online dating profile, and no women are interested. Instead, delete the profile and stop trying to get women completely. Spend every day for the next two years getting in shape and trying new things. In 2 years you make a new profile. You look absolutely ripped and you have 5 cool hobbies you are passionate about, with interesting photos of you doing them. Now women are sending you messages.
/r/seduction27/07/20 01:12 PM
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Ask her out on a date just you and her, and go from there. Set the activity, date and time. If it goes well, wait a few days and then ask her on another date. If all you do is confess how much much you like her, you may come off needy and desperate.
/r/seduction27/07/20 01:02 PM
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They are most likely looking for insta followers. If a girl is attracted to you, she won't care how she gets your message.
/r/seduction27/07/20 12:54 PM
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Approach anyway. Even if you fail you will learn. Sounds like you are looking for excuses to not approach.
/r/askTRP27/07/20 12:53 PM
2

Oh this is a cool idea. Knock on his door with brownies and ask if he would like one. Keep it short and sweet. Then next time you see him ask how the brownie was. When he says yes say "I'm planning on making <other baked good> tomorrow, would you like to come in for a coffee and try one?"
/r/seduction27/07/20 12:44 PM
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It's ok if it didn't work on one girl. Since your friend gave you the advice you've only tried it once. So keep trying. If one girl doesn't want to date you, don't take it personally and move on to the next one. You don't want to meet up with girls who aren't interested in you anyway.
/r/seduction27/07/20 12:39 PM
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Ask her, but don't be vague this time. Say it's a date, set a specific activity, when and where you are meeting her.
/r/seduction27/07/20 12:36 PM
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Your friend is right. Why are you worried? She hasn't cancelled has she? A confident man wouldn't worry about this, you need to appear confident to her. Also there's no need to keep checking up on her before the date happens. You don't want to look like you are worried she might cancel.
/r/seduction27/07/20 12:32 PM
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Your physique isn’t relevant here. You obviously know how to get in shape. Stop hiding behind that and work on what you need to improve, none of this post needed to be about working out. You say you need a social/friend group - what have you done to try and achieve this? Try new hobbies, a team sport maybe? Arrange drinks or dinner with colleagues. You can be the one to make this happen, send an email out saying if anyone would like to hang out in X bar on Y day you’ve reserved a table. See who …
/r/askTRP24/07/20 08:14 PM
1

If you can grow a good beard then go for it - some women have to have them, some women don't like them. If you're chasing a particular woman you will need a bit of luck, unless you already know what she likes. This is anecdotal, but I've found I get more attention with a beard than without.
/r/seduction20/07/20 06:07 AM
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Don't be discouraged! If you use Tinder, /r/tinder can help with your profile. Remember that this is a skill you are trying to learn, and you will get better at it. If I think back to my first Tinder profile vs what I have now. . .my current one is so much better!
/r/seduction20/07/20 06:06 AM
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Hey, I think you just keep trying, it sounds like you are almost getting dates! One thing I can thing of, are your online dating pictures all accurate. . .or do you use a lot of filters / angles? If I was to match with someone, and then find via their social media they looked quite a bit different I might behave like those men did
/r/seduction20/07/20 05:55 AM
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