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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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16	CMV: "Make lots of platonic friends with women" is generally terrible as dating advice Those that have a lot of friends (that actually like them) do so because they have excellent social skills which translates to finding a partner. The life of the party will have more opportunities than the wall flower constantly complaining that nobody talks to them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/22 01:39 AM
12	There is not a shortage of single men who have their life in order Using it demonstrates the opposite of its meaning since 1) it's an awkward term 2) people don't know what it means. "Calibration" is often used in the pickup community.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/22 04:35 AM
1	Personality does not matter to women as much as everyone tells you. Half Americans are not married simply googling disproves this. 329 millions people in America https://www.google.com/search?q=american+population&oq=&aqs=chrome.2.69i59i450l15.-1j0j7&client=ms-android-xiaomi-rvo3&sourceid=chrome-mobile&ie=UTF-8 You should not include children, tweens, etc in marriage stats which is what your total American population number shows. A simple google search shows 51% in 2011: https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2011/12/14/barely-half-of-u-s-adults-are-married-…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/22 06:22 AM
18	Personality does not matter to women as much as everyone tells you. Looks don't matter nearly as much as OP thinks. The stats don't bear out OP's claim. Nearly half of americans are married. Most married couples are average looking (several tens of millions of people). And a ton of ugly guys are married. if you're a 5, stay in your lane and hit on 5s or lower and you're more likely to find someone If you're a 5 that wants 8+, work smarter and harder and see a lot of rejection, with the occasional success If you're a 5 that thinks you're an 8 and wants 8+, you're…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/22 06:46 PM
4	Unironically claiming to be an “alpha male” is pathetic how many toxic and unhappy people are here. Toxic, unhappy people are everywhere. In real life, people fake they're happy, even when they're not. It took me forever to realize this. The online personas are more real than the superficial personas I see in real life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/22 06:21 PM
1	For people who are childless and unmarried in their 30/40s, do you feel regretful when you see young people starting families? You can't regret, what you don't desire. I also don't buy that parents are any happier than couples that choose to not have children. The studies I've seen indicate having children reduces happiness. Having or not having children is an incredibly personal decision and not my place to say what others should do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/22 11:29 PM
2	Why men experience on dating apps is so binary? if you are in a specific top percentile of attractiveness/photo selection, you are literally flooded with matches, below a certain threshold (that seems really high, i.e. 70/80% of the profiles) you literally beg for one or two matches every week with women who put zero effort in their profiles and look absolutely below average. re An attractive man is in high demand. A lot of attractive men will fuck anyone. The result is the average woman can fuck chad, then she has little incentive to fuck th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/22 05:35 PM
2	Women who claim there are no good men on dating apps or that all men want on there is sex are showing that they are low value. If the man or woman selects one hundred partners to date and all one hundred partners are not relationship material, the problem isn't the partners. 1) The person simply doesn't know how to pick the person with the right attributes or 2) The person is not compatible with anyone. ie they are not ready for a relationship. This isn't necessarily a knock on the person - relationships are difficult and take a level of maturity that may not have been developed yet. Finally, the people complaining are …	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/21 08:47 PM
7	Can Average Men Date and Have Sex Just Like Average Women? What do you want to do about it? Men are frustrated they can't fuck (amateur or pro) porn stars regularly. The analogue is women consuming Harlequin romance novels/Disney princess movies/Romcoms and being disappointed when men are dipshits, instead of the strong, charming, confident man that falls in love with her and only her. Both are fantasies and set unrealistic expectations. There's nothing to be done, except be more realistic which is difficult for many.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/21 01:50 AM
1	Do you think that being single will be the new norm and dating/marriage will become rare in the future? Traditional marriage will be less common. It will decline with the decline in organized religion. Common law marriage and other forms of legal unions to establish rights will become more common. Marriage is a traditional institution promoted primarily by religious organizations. Millennials and the younger generation are less interested in both religion and marriage as they develop their own ideas of what it means to be in a long term relationship. We should see a decline in children, which, I t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/21 10:43 PM
1	Have you learned anything valuable from this subreddit? r/TheRedPill and r/FemaleDatingStrategy are different sides of the same coin. Angry, hurt people, that are unable to see any value in the other side. I'm not certain they're necessarily wrong in how they feel. r/PurplePillDebate is somewhere in the middle. It's good to see all sides, I think.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/21 01:16 AM
1	Q4M: what is your personal happiness level, and why has there been a decline in male happiness? I can only say that it seems incongruous to live such a bad-ass life with maxed out happiness and post so prolifically on a subject that generally draws … well, not the happiness people on earth. Then ignore the post and move on. Many of the posts on reddit are complete works of fiction. Don't waste time on them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/21 03:23 AM
2	CMV watch what women do not what they say is true… and is equally true for men. Very large majority of people present themselves in the bet possible light. Often they will never say anything negative about themselves, even though they are entirely shitty people. Actions do not reflect what they preach/say. "Actions speak louder than words" has been around forever because it's true. I don't care what people say, instead I watch what they do (eg "I want to lose weight", then their next meal is an entire tub of ice cream). It's easy to say you're going to do something, that ta…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/21 04:42 AM
7	Why don’t straight women like bisexual men? i recognize that this is probably an unpopular and very conservative opinion; Nothing wrong with this. I had similar disgust with gay/bisexual/transexual folks when I was younger. Reflecting on this, it's likely rooted in cultural messaging than anything biological. I found this messaging difficult to overcome because it's pervasive and there's enormous social pressure to conform. I've gotten more comfortable with gay, transgender, bisexual people as I became more comfortable with my own sexuali…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/21 09:10 PM
5	When do you think it's "too late" to find a good partner? Good habits like eating healthy, exercising, sleeping enough, managing stress and your emotions, managing finances all compound over the years. If you take care of yourself, then you have a big advantage over people in your age group. This becomes more true the older you get. If you have your act together, you will do fine.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/21 07:50 PM
4	We are headed for a huge population cliff mainly because men and women have been conditioned to hate each other. Thing is, they don't directly need us anymore so they don't bother "putting up with" an ugly partner for money/resources/protection/whatever because they can get it through other means. This. Women don't need men anymore because they can afford to be single Women have higher standards since they are better off economically Men and women are both more open to a relationship without being married Even just a few decades ago women as a population didn't have the agency they have today.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/21 11:18 PM
4	To the highest value men, a woman's status and intelligence are equally important as her looks her intelligence and life goals are not nearly as important as her physical beauty. Attractiveness fades. If you're in a LTR purely based on looks, and you're not emotionally and mentally compatible it won't go well. These married ultra high net worth people can get laid anytime they want (google Bill Gates and his philandering).	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/21 07:32 PM
5	Sex is higher pressure for men Sex is higher pressure for men (self.PurplePillDebate) I'd much rather be a guy than a girl having sex. Less consequences, less responsibility (if you get pregnant). Sex for a guy is much lower stakes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/21 11:41 PM
2	Why is nagging considered an issue? Nagging occurs when one person wants something done, and the other does not want to do it. Repeating something incessantly (ie nagging) is not the solution and can make the situation worse. This is a poor, lazy way to solve the problem. If the two people are reasonable (often one or both are not!), there can be a middle ground or an agreement reached where nagging is no longer necessary. If you’re doing what you’re suppose to, would nagging really be a problem? People have different standards fo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/04/20 08:57 PM
1	"Women don't care about your struggles. They wait at the finish line and pick the winners." Do you agree with this? Women don't care, and they should not care. Men don't care what a woman does (apparently a huge amount of grooming) to make herself more attractive. Street goes both ways. Neither wants to know the tedium involved to make themselves attractive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/20 04:34 PM
1	Reasonably attrattive men in their early 30s with their sh*t together are better off casual dating than being in a LTR? Men should have enough sex to figure out what they want. Most guys that have a ton of sex eventually settle down, but some never do. In my case, part of it was wanting to find out if others found me attractive. In particular if someone I was attracted to, could find me attractive. It's an ego thing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/20 10:41 PM
5	CMV: Wealth/money just doesn't attract Western women in the way it used to (unless you're mega rich) I believe women need to find you sexually attractive to actively pursue (trying lifting more, better clothes/shoes, hairstyle, strong eye contact, be the life of the party, etc). Money doesn't change the "initial attraction" much. A luxury car doesn't make you more physically attractive. It does enhance your "provider" role but this may not be enough for women to pursue.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/20 09:09 PM
6	Men do not want to LTR nice, chill, low maintenance girls. But I have consistently seen high maintenance women have a far easier time getting a handsome boyfriend who treats her nicely. You sure they just aren't more attractive (not from your perspective but from a man's perspective)? Hot women (8+) can and do get away with more than more average looking women (under 8).	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/20 03:28 AM
1	Do you believe that there is "someone out there for everyone"? Do you believe that there is "someone out there for everyone"? there are legitimate, horrible bottom-of-the-barrel losers out there, these people will never find anyone even for regular people it isn't a guarantee although the odds are much better paper on human matin strategies.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/20 08:06 PM
1	If you’re struggling attract high value people it’s because the circles you frequent and subsequently you are not in fact high value Judging people as higher or lower value does not appeal to me at all. It's too close to classism and puts people on a pedestal. I've never thought of myself as higher value or lower value than someone else. It's more about finding compatibility. Generally speaking, not just dating, but you can find compatible people anywhere in all shapes and sizes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/01/20 07:07 PM
13	[Q4M] how many of you can honestly say that you would date yourself if you were a woman? Yes, but I have low standards.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/20 03:26 PM
10	What do you think of the Jesus of Red Pill, Roosh V, disavowing all of his past work and unpublishing his red pill pick up books? Is he forgivable? He's evolved from preachy slut to preachy Christian, it's the standard lifecycle of the greasy manwhore Description in this thread sounds like he's a classic narcissist; which is a personality disorder. Have an exaggerated sense of self-importance Have a sense of entitlement and require constant, excessive admiration Expect to be recognized as superior even without achievements that warrant it Exaggerate achievements and talents Be preoccupied with fantasies about success, power, brilliance, bea…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/20 12:10 AM
6	CMV: the women having lots of casual sex before settling down are only a small subset of the female population and more likely than not they have equal status to the guys they have casual sex with. A hundred partners is considered a slightly above n count in Brazil by 25 years old. Assume there are 120 different partners from 15 to 25 years old over 10 years/120 months. That's one new partner, every single month over 10 years (this includes weeks when you're sick, when you're on vacation, when you're busy with work/school, when you're not in the mood, when you don't have money to go out especially when you're a younger and poorer high school student). If you haven't found a single medium t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/20 04:10 PM
1	are women uninteresting? i saw a lot of posts and comments about how women are so completely vapid and uninteresting The least interesting people I know call everyone else and everything boring. My theory is that they have a short attention span, need constant stimulation and have difficulty stringing together a coherent train of thought. Sort of like a toddler but without any curiosity. A lot of times they just want to talk about themselves(a mild form of narcissism).	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/19 06:37 PM
1	CMV: Most men should rate their own attractiveness as binary instead of 1-10 Most men should rate their own attractiveness as binary instead of 1-10 It's not even binary for a single person. A woman may not want to get with you on first glance. But even then, you can turn a no into a yes if you have other qualities; effectively raising your attractiveness. Second, there are a large number of women and your attractiveness will be different for each of them. You will be a 2/10 for some, an 8/10 for others and everything in between. Attractiveness is far from binary in my o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/19 04:31 PM
1	Being a young women isnt as fun as people on here make out. As a guy, is it seems women have a harder time. women were granted the right to vote in 1919 (U.S), only one hundred years ago there is discrimination by both men and women against women in the work place this discrimination translates (arguably) to lower compensation. most women I know do not walk alone at night for fear of being attacked White men have historically (in America) held the majority of power demonstrated by the very large majority of male CEOs, billionaires, business and political…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/19 03:52 PM
2	For all, what do you expect to happen to the landscape (marriage, relationships and dating) over the next few decades? Because of social networks, non-standard norms will become more acceptable. Things we do as a tradition (via religious, cultural or other traditions) will weaken. It will be more acceptable to stay single, raise children out of wedlock. People will still live together to form families but not see the need to formalize it with a marriage license. More inter-racial relationships, more acceptable for same sex relationships, more acceptable to be LGBT. In particular more acceptance of transgender pe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/19 06:46 PM
19	A Red Pill Warning (for the fuglies on here) Ask anyone who’s wealthy in pussy how much it’s worth to them. “Nothing” is the answer to that question. This is a great point. We all pursue dreams (more women, money, fame, etc) and once we reach them it's never fulfilling. Too much of anything just devalues it. Dan Bilzerian talks in this video about how it's hard for him to enjoy fast cars, the best food, the hottest women since he has so much. These are life's pleasures but do not equate to real happiness.	/r/TheRedPill	15/09/19 03:23 PM
4	N-Count Cannot Be Meaningless A high number of sexual partners indicates they enjoy sex they have the ability to have a larger number of partners Everything else is just assumptions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/19 05:40 PM
43	Comedian Bobby Lee Realises That His Girlfriend Is A Golddigger - Why people get laid to those bitches ? I'm a big TigerBelly fan which is Bobby and Khalyla's podcast. Khalyla is not a gold digger; she financially downgraded her lifestyle to be with Bobby. She made more money in a higher paying job before she met him and started the podcast. She's expressing how Bobby shows his love, which is to buy her things. If Bobby was broke, he would not be able to show her any love. And without love that would lead to divorce. Watch the TigerBelly podcast to form your own opinion. They seem to have a healthy…	/r/TheRedPill	10/07/19 04:30 PM
28	Between 22-33% of women go on dates purely for free food How should men watch out or defend themselves against this type of behavior? Don't go out for food on a first date. If you do go out for food and she's a moocher, just pay your half. It'll be clear if she's there for a free meal. In other words, don't be a doormat.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/19 11:00 PM
11	This is what happened when I posed as a semi-attractive girl on tinder for a little over 8 hours, I give up on life lol This is exactly why Tinder and most dating apps are garbage. They have intentionally set it up so that guys have to spend a ton of time on the app swiping, and girls have to spend a ton of time on the app trying to go through all their likes/matches. Sounds like a business opportunity. The new app should more efficiently match people.	/r/seduction	27/06/19 05:16 PM
4	Sleeping with 500 men is feminist, not slutty. It surely defines her as a slut otherwise the term is pretty meaningless. https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/slut Definition of slut 1 disparaging + offensive : a promiscuous woman : a woman who has many sexual partners 2 dated a chiefly British, disparaging : an unclean or slovenly woman : SLATTERN b : an impudent girl : MINX	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/19 10:47 PM
9	Why do you think men find attractive a larger pool of people? Sex is riskier for women than men. The consequence of having a baby is much higher for women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/19 07:35 PM
6	CMV: Your sexual success is entirely based on looks. Your sexual success is entirely based on looks. Mick Jagger (75) and his wife(35)	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/06/19 04:16 PM
0	How can a low status woman improve herself? have your shit together. be healthy, emotionally available, financially independent, smart don't carry baggage have empathy be fun, interesting, positive, supportive	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/19 10:07 PM
5	(discussion) Sex as a reward RE: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/8da2oh/q4bp_is_rp_and_the_men_who_find_themselves_there/dxltyrm/ Reward in this case means, the male has a certain (eg toxic) behavior and this behavior leads to receiving sex (the reward). Which further incentivizes the behavior. The woman does not think she is giving him a reward since she is genuinely attracted to him. But the man does feel like he is rewarded. In other words, he is given recognition for being a bad boy. Sort of like givi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/19 10:19 PM
3	Mixed vibes. Assume attraction and go for it? Or shes just being friendly Just a note Im currently in a conservative region not sure if that is a factor. She lets me escalate touch but sometimes laughs and ask what trying to do I'm wondering if you're being (slightly) clumsy about this and setting off alarms. If the area is conservative, she can not be a slut so sex has to "happen accidentally." Don't talk about sex, be smooth, escalate, let your actions do the talking. Best place was at her place. Put on a romantic movie or anything that puts her in the mood, have a …	/r/seduction	03/06/19 01:06 PM
6	Becoming impatient with women and no longer putting up with their shit has improved my game a lot Truth is, real value is not being bothered by these moments and instead letting things unfold as they will. I know a lot of flaky people (male and female) and if "I moved on", they would not be in my life. Shit happens, people are late (some chronically), schedules change, people are busy and can't reply to texts, etc. It's more trying to figure out if they are playing games which I have zero tolerance for.	/r/seduction	14/05/19 07:41 PM
20	How do I lose feelings for my FWB? This seems like a good middle ground. Stop girlfriend activities. These activities are probably the reason you have feelings. You're still fucking It's not a complete cut-the-cord situation so you get some benefit (ie sex) Another option is to date but be in an open relationship; this works in some situations as long as expectations are clear. It requires strong communication and a higher degree of maturity.	/r/seduction	09/05/19 06:56 PM
1	1000+ approaches, lots of instant rejections, how to stay motivated? I know the basics, I can bull-shit, I know what to say, I can verbally and non-verbally escalate, I can handle shit-tests, girls who actually get to know me think I'm attractive and charming and 'would date me if they would not have a boyfriend'. Yet. Zero results. Your results don't match what you say you know. I'm guessing you're coming on way too hard (desperate).	/r/seduction	05/05/19 02:37 AM
25	How to reply to "you probably have a small dick" probably have a small member Sigh. Unzips.	/r/seduction	19/04/19 10:48 PM
2	I'm done trying to game girls. You figured out how to get laid, seems like you are looking for a strong relationship (which is harder in some ways). I imagine this is what attractive women go through (they can find sex easier than strong relationships).	/r/seduction	06/04/19 12:14 PM
1	Q4W & ,M : Do you think it would be fair on a man to end a serious relationship if he found out he was beta bucks i.e safety reliable kinda a guy Turn the situation around. Guy fucks everything that moves. Realizes one night stands are empty and settles down with a nice girl. Should the nice girl leave him if she learns of his past 5 years into the relationship? She could, but that would be entirely due to her own insecurities.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/19 12:16 AM
5	Women Say Looks Don't Matter That Much. Is this true? Looks matter to everyone (except the blind and maybe some weirdos). It's a question of how much do they matter? On a scale of 0 to 10, 0 are the blind that don't care, and 10 is 100% dating based on looks. This will vary depending on the person. I'm guessing the distribution is a bell curve with most people around the middle; I'd expect most people to fall between 4/10 to 7/10.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/19 07:33 PM
3	LTRs and Marriage The question boils down to: Is your life better with or without an significant other? From a strictly analytic point of view, everything has a cost. Being single has a cost, as does frequently switching partners, and so does staying with the same person long term. For many, being single isn't ideal and neither is swinging from vine to vine. Settling down is the best option. Arsenio Hall said a long time ago that after banging a ton of women all the time, it starts to feel the same. While the sex…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/19 11:52 PM
31	If a woman writes “I’m tired of fuck boys” or “I want to date men, not boys” on the dating profile it shows their Relationship value. I’ve noticed continuously a trend where women say “no more fuck boys” On dating sites, most men are looking to get laid (ie they'd love to be "fuck boys"), not necessarily build a relationship. If she's attractive, she'll get hundreds of messages. "no more fuck boys" is her way of preemptively disqualifying the players to reduce the noise in her mailbox. When I used to sell stuff on craigslist, I'd say I was firm on price, to provide a phone number and date/time to meet. The items I was selling …	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/02/19 09:29 PM
6	Q4ALL: Have you known a 'red-pilled' person before and after? Can you describe the changes? I imagine anyone that goes full RP in real life would end up being a caricature.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/19 09:55 PM
1	When dating a man, take maybe 5% of what he says seriously. Men lie, so do women. I'm betting it's in roughly equal proportion since I don't see a huge reason that one gender would lie significantly more than another. Assuming men/women lie is not a great approach to life, in my opinion. You're going to get rejected by good men and good woman that don't want to be over scrutinized and made to feel untrustworthy. It's better to simply improve your radar to root out the liars faster. It's usually not that hard to see someone is a bullshitter and someone is…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/19 07:49 PM
6	How to get over redpill rage? Anger is poisoning you, not them. Best thing for you (and the best revenge), is to let it go, and live a happy, successful life. There is nothing to be gained by holding onto that hurt. It makes you weaker, not stronger.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/19 05:32 PM
1	From afraid to look a girl in the eye to getting laid frequently I mimic my walk after McGregor https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5maKdRq_V3E&t=3s	/r/seduction	28/01/19 01:46 AM
2	Studies found 50% success rate in day game Whatever the odds, they are still better than using a dating app.	/r/seduction	09/01/19 08:29 PM
30	How to get over a girl I like at work? Jerk off before work. See if you're less infatuated with her	/r/seduction	31/12/18 07:03 PM
2	Men's innate horniness is what put them at a disadvantage therefore technology should be created to allow them to regulate it. I'm all for guys controlling/eliminating their sexual urges but only because it would decrease population. There's already too many people. It's questionable/unlikely whether this would increase productivity. My procrastination is primarily caused by things other than sex. If there was technology to control this, it would be a trillion dollar industry (which is equal to Apple's market cap).	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/18 08:05 PM
7	CMV: Men waste women’s time a lot more than women do. So it’s her fault for being a good partner and not being able to mind read? It's her fault for not having sufficient communication skills to figure out they were on different pages with incompatible goals. They’re just time wasters You let him waste your time. If someone is stringing me along, I drop them. If I'm gullible enough to be stringed along for years and years, that's completely my fault.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/18 10:21 PM
2	Is there a female equivalent to that disappointed feeling men have when they see an innocent girl get into porn? Is there a female equivalent to that disappointed feeling men have when they see an innocent girl get into porn? Do you mean "arousal"?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/18 05:08 AM
32	I have a 95% success rate when I don’t really care about the girl I’m going for. This drops significantly as soon as I find the girl to be somewhat special. How can I work on this? The only way to deal with this, IMO, is having more abundance of women and taking more action Get with a lot of high quality women and that neediness disappears because you know there are other opportunities around the corner. It'll build your confidence.	/r/seduction	02/12/18 03:37 AM
3	Why do men like wasting money on women. The guy gets companionship, the woman gets alcohol. Fair trade. The woman has decided the free alcohol is worth the time spent with him. She's providing this guy a service in exchange for alcohol. The guy is getting it cheap if you ask me. The guy probably also has a lottery-player mentality. For a few bucks he has a chance (in his mind) of fucking her. But like most lottery players he doesn't realize that chance is effectively zero.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/18 05:52 PM
4	I went out solo last night. It sucked. But I thought of you guys. Less is more. Not directly hitting on girls, but making eye contact is nice and subtle.	/r/seduction	04/11/18 02:07 AM
6	X-year-old still a virgin This articulates the male experience pretty well. Man looks to fuck Man fucks Man looks for a better fuck Man starts fucking more Man realizes fucking isn't such a big deal (tells other male redditors to stop worrying about it so much) Fucking takes a back seat to other things	/r/seduction	14/10/18 08:44 PM
7	X-year-old still a virgin People are always angry. Not in a raging, screaming way, but a slow constant simmer where they hate everyone including themselves. They just don't show it. So yeah you're normal. p.s. after you've had sex, I suspect you'll still be in a bad mood but over something else.	/r/seduction	14/10/18 08:39 PM
6	X-year-old still a virgin People are naturally monogamous. Mostly, but not strictly monogamous. It's typical for people to stray outside a relationship.	/r/seduction	14/10/18 08:27 PM
20	Do women always lose attraction? How many times do you rewatch the same porn video? Even your most favorite fantasy porn in the world will get old eventually. Sexual attraction decreases with every exposure (regardless of whether it's porn or a person); that's how we're wired.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/18 12:15 AM
15	A Man's Dating Pool is Global Is it all even worth it? No. It's a bad idea. If you don't have any game here, you won't have game elsewhere. If you want to fuck a 9, just pay a high-end prostitute (assuming you can't get it any other way). If you want to date a 9, you'll need to be a 9 yourself. If you're a 5 and want to date a 9 and moving to a third world country is the only way; this is fraught with problems. Whether you bring her back home or leave her there she'll be fucking Chad Thundercock (the domestic or foreign vers…	/r/TheRedPill	17/09/18 08:29 AM
1	If your woman's sex drive was way higher than yours, would you allow her different partners to fulfill her sexual needs? would you allow her different partners to fulfill her sexual needs? lol. You're not her pimp, she's going to do what she needs to do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/18 07:46 PM
1	How to start Friends-with-benefits (FWB) relationship with one of my friends? It depends on her mood (sometimes she'll just want to fuck and the direct approach works), but I agree the sly approach is better. Don't tell her you're going to fuck her, don't break the sexual tension and keep testing her (non-verbally and verbally) to see where she's at. Keep escalating.	/r/seduction	27/08/18 05:18 PM
17	Here's the Top 20% But why should we want the hottest girl in the room? What guys want: Sex with a harem of perfect 10s (think Leonardo DiCaprio and his entourage of Victoria's Secret models). If we could live this lifesystyle, most of us would. Why would we not be satisfied with a top 20% female? Guys want both quality and quantity but almost everyone settles on one or both of these dimensions. Eventually all guys settle realizing the time and effort isn't worth the reward or simply isn't achievable.	/r/TheRedPill	27/08/18 05:09 PM
3	Q4RP: How can a woman be more "rational"? Men and women are both more irrational than rational in my experience.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/18 04:45 PM
1	On the “incel” phenomenon, why is same-sex sexual interaction never suggested? There's too much stigma around two guys getting together for this to happen.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/18 03:25 AM
6	The real reason girls don't sleep with you (and what to change to spark intense, sexual attraction INSTANTLY) Basically, don't be boring	/r/seduction	11/08/18 07:54 PM
1	The "Real" Red Pill: If we're not getting them pregnant, is sex just a fancy way to jerk off? Existential crisis We all die eventually and the only way to "win" is if your particular combination of DNA is out there somewhere.. Unless you're an atheist and don't believe in an afterlife. In that case we're all just dead. Life isn't a race or a contest, nobody "wins". At least not from my perspective. We just carve out our own little niche and enjoy life the best way we know how.	/r/TheRedPill	08/08/18 09:17 PM
2	Would you get dick-enhancement surgery if it would improve your odds with women? Read Models by Mark Manson Here's (someone else's) notes from Chapter 9 - How to be Attractive Not everybody is born good-looking. But any man, with some time and effort, can become attractive. And in the end, what women want is a man who is attractive. Fashion. Fitness. Body Language. Speak from the chest. Read more. Assume everything has a form of value; it’s your job to find it. Nothing is stupider than to be prejudice against a genre of music or type of movie for no other reason than because…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/18 06:35 PM
4	Would you get dick-enhancement surgery if it would improve your odds with women? No. Dick size is the last thing I'd worry about. There's other things that can be improved, more easily, with greater impact.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/18 01:56 AM
39	Women need to ask men out more Attractive women are hit on multiple times every day. They have zero need to ask men out. And if they do initiate, they can afford to be selective. It's a supply and demand game and attractive women are in higher demand/lower supply.	/r/seduction	26/07/18 11:37 PM
12	Mentioning my country completely kills the conversation. What should I do? "I'm from South Asia." Most people are clueless about geography. Edit: This might be better: "I'm from South Asia. Where are you from?" Once you answer, you can quickly ask her where she's from to remove focus from yourself. In some cases (but not all cases) this redirection will avoid probing questions about Pakistan. If it was myself, I'd own it and use Pakistan as a filter to avoid people that hold strong stereotypes (they are generally not people I want to be associated with). It's not a bad…	/r/seduction	23/07/18 01:28 AM
1	[Discussion] Why we are getting married Pros Marriage is a legally binding contract which gives partners' rights (e.g. allows making certain legal decisions about your partner's property, finance and health in emergencies) For some, it gives the perception of stability. This is perceived stability is important when children are involved. Cons While getting married does signal a desire for commitment; it does not guarantee commitment, stability or happiness (evidence is that roughly half of marriages end in divorce). People can and do …	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/06/18 01:44 AM
1	Q4RP Men in an ltr who have some type of emotional attachment/investment in their woman. How can you still have an emotional connection with your woman even after acknowledging the unflattering truths about women in general? so for those who still manage to have some sort of emotional attachment to your women how are you able to do so? What does she do for you that makes you wanna stay and invest your emotions / time into her? It takes a lot of patience and effort to develop a mature, stable relationship. Once a couple goes through good times and bad, and comes out the other end mostly happy, it's hard to throw those experiences and effort away. Living life alone without a witness seems sad.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/18 03:24 AM
1	Q4RP: What happens when all the men in the world are practicing TRP advice? Can all men be alphas? Don't think so. There will always be a relative ranking system. If the range of guys was 0/10 to 10/10 and everyone worked on themselves and that range shrunk from 5/10 to 10/10. Women would still find a way to relatively rank the men so that 5/10 is the new 0/10. In other words, the best women would still prefer the best men, but the gap between best and worst would decrease.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/18 08:22 PM
1	I'm 33 and I've never dated anyone: is this a problem that actually anyone ever solved? This thread is making it fairly clear why you haven't dated anyone.	/r/seduction	25/03/18 06:31 AM
15	How do I get laid or get a girlfriend? Nothing I do works. You smell desperate. Most girls don't like desperate.	/r/seduction	14/02/18 05:32 AM
1	15 Things I've Learned Over the Last 53 Years This is mostly terrible advice.	/r/TheRedPill	13/11/17 09:32 AM
1	Should I be ashamed of having sex with a chubby girl Your friends are insecure. When two people get together and both enjoy themselves that's a great outcome. No shame. On a slightly different note, a wise person once said about one night stands: "When you have a sure thing but are thinking of pursing someone better, always take the sure thing." Because right after you finish, you won't care if she's a 1 or a 10.	/r/seduction	01/11/17 07:37 PM
1	Why are hot girls so hard to get? Out of the dozens of guys hitting on her every week, what is special about you? How do you stand out? Telling her she's pretty is dull. Every knuckle dragging mouth breather does that.	/r/seduction	12/10/17 12:27 AM
10	Google Fires Ph.D Biologist/Engineer For Claiming -- "On average, men and women biologically differ in many ways. " Google is being accused of extreme gender discrimination by the U.S. Labor department. Not firing the employee could provide support for this discrimination case and may be expensive (e.g. half their highly paid work force suing and/or getting a raise). Termination is the safer bet. The downsides (massive lawsuit, alienating employees) far outweigh any benefits of letting him stay. They're just covering their ass and spinning it as a gender equality decision. TL;DR U.S Labor Department: Google i…	/r/TheRedPill	08/08/17 04:38 PM
23	What I Learned From Not Reading The RedPill for A Year Nobody, not even Warren Buffett, consistently makes 10% a month (he averaged around 20%/year which is 2% a month and he's worth over $70 billion).	/r/TheRedPill	10/07/17 06:31 PM