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| 105 | What “Just be yourself” actually means | Inner Game | gazija762 | /r/seduction | 04/01/21 04:17 AM |
| 51 | Dating advice for begginers(men only) | gazija762 | /r/seduction | 14/10/19 04:57 AM | |
| 26 | I am a dating coach/mentor and I will give away advice | gazija762 | /r/seduction | 11/10/19 11:36 AM |
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| 2 | Had my first kiss and blowjob today and this happened...Kegels and edging. Basically if 1 is youre just hard and 10 is over the point of no return you want to get to about 8ish to 9 ish, so right before youre going to cum and then stop, relax, do proper breathing(about 25 breaths work for me to get down to 5) and then you go again. You repeat this 5 or 6 times in a session, only then can you cum. | /r/seduction | 18/03/21 11:59 AM |
| 8 | Had my first kiss and blowjob today and this happened...So what I am guessing is combination of porn with anxeity. Dont bust nuts so often, maybe every 5 ish days, and stop with porn since it will mess you up all sorts of ways. I got PE from porn and its a bitch to fix. | /r/seduction | 18/03/21 04:52 AM |
| 1 | What “Just be yourself” actually meansWhen you are a nice guy you put other people infront of you and try to please everyone. On paper that is a good trait but in real life everyone uses you like a door mat. | /r/seduction | 05/01/21 08:41 PM |
| 2 | What “Just be yourself” actually meansYeesss thank you. My brain doesnt have that many wrinkles to explain it very simply. This is it chief | /r/seduction | 05/01/21 12:36 AM |
| 1 | What “Just be yourself” actually meansI aint going to read all that but thanks for sharing your opinion with others | /r/seduction | 05/01/21 12:31 AM |
| 2 | What “Just be yourself” actually meansGood stuff, keep it up. I found out that just not having anything you wouldnt like to eat in your house goes a long way. Having some sweets here and there kinda suprises your body so that the metabolism keeps working fast and also they say you are what you eat hahah. I mean if someone feels sexy being overweight good for them I guess, but thats kinda rare. I bet all of “fat acceptance” movement would love to be slim but addicts protect their addiction so yea. | /r/seduction | 05/01/21 12:27 AM |
| 1 | What “Just be yourself” actually meansYes. I was also very overweight at one point in my life and that was not me being my best self. So I took action. You can do it too, I belive in you. Makes a world of difference when people stop making BS excuses and get to work. | /r/seduction | 05/01/21 12:06 AM |
| 1 | What “Just be yourself” actually meansThere is no contradiction what so ever. Everyone has flaws and we all need to work on them, not keep them. I guess being your best self is not common knwoledge for people or something. I explained it in my post. Also I know what you mean about being nice. 99% of "nice" guys are the needy ones. There is very little genuenly nice guys out there. | /r/seduction | 04/01/21 05:53 PM |
| 1 | What “Just be yourself” actually meansYou just dont get it man. Just be someone else if it works for you. | /r/seduction | 04/01/21 05:50 PM |
| 1 | What “Just be yourself” actually meansAs I said in my post, flaws need to be recognized and worked on. I see alot of you people just say what I said with a twist. Being nice is widely considered a good trait. I think otherwise. Being nice to people will make them mistake it for a weakness and try and use you. Thats why I stopped being nice cuz it just fails with everyone except older people that cannot use you to their benefit. Be yourself and work on fixing your bad traits. Authenticity is veeerry important, its what makes you stan… | /r/seduction | 04/01/21 05:45 PM |
| 0 | What “Just be yourself” actually meansExactly my dude | /r/seduction | 04/01/21 02:00 PM |
| -1 | What “Just be yourself” actually meansI litteraly said that in my fucking post dude. Yes he should own the flaw, but he should also work on fixing it, I said that in my post. Read it again. Own your flaws until you fix them, or be insecure about them. See wich one gets you further eith girls. | /r/seduction | 04/01/21 01:54 PM |
| 2 | What “Just be yourself” actually meansNo, be yourself, but work on your flaws. Being weak and lazy are bad traits,so itsyour job to take care of those. Also be yourself means dont change your interests, or hobbies for someone else | /r/seduction | 04/01/21 01:51 PM |
| -8 | What “Just be yourself” actually meansNo it isnt. Self improvement is common knwoledge in this community. If I say just be yourself it doesnt mean stop improving on yourself youre fine the way you are. Thats why I made this post for people like you | /r/seduction | 04/01/21 01:48 PM |
| 4 | What “Just be yourself” actually meansYup, I see too many men cry over how they are boring and wierd and blah blah excuses ontop of excuses. But it can be misinterpreted so I wanted to clear it up for people that dont get it. | /r/seduction | 04/01/21 05:36 AM |
| 1 | Hey there, girls always say that “they don’t see me in that way” whenever I’m trying to date or fall in love, how do I make them see me that way?Do you think a high value woman that takes care of herself to stay a 10 is going to be in a relationship with some shmuck that has a beer belly. I dont think so. You have to be a good catch to attract 9’s and 10’s. You can always find a relationship if you are willing to go low enough. Relationship will work out as long as the man wants it to do so. I know from personal experience. In a relationship the man holds all the ropes, if its not like that you will never reach the full potential of the … | /r/seduction | 15/12/20 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Hey there, girls always say that “they don’t see me in that way” whenever I’m trying to date or fall in love, how do I make them see me that way?Just go back and read your comments. The way you type is beta. The mindset. Ew | /r/seduction | 15/12/20 04:14 PM |
| 1 | Hey there, girls always say that “they don’t see me in that way” whenever I’m trying to date or fall in love, how do I make them see me that way?Dude you are soo rightt omgg. Yeesss stay a beta and own who you aree. You are slayinggg it my dude, good job. Youre going places | /r/seduction | 15/12/20 03:43 PM |
| 2 | Hey there, girls always say that “they don’t see me in that way” whenever I’m trying to date or fall in love, how do I make them see me that way?You sound so much like a troll but nowdays I am not suprised with the shit that comes out of peoples mouths. The sub is for self-improvement, do everyone a favour and leave, we dont need trolls like you. I hope one day you come to your senses. | /r/seduction | 14/12/20 11:59 PM |
| 1 | Hey there, girls always say that “they don’t see me in that way” whenever I’m trying to date or fall in love, how do I make them see me that way?So what point are you trying to make? Improving yourself and expanding your knowledge about relationships is a waste of time? That having a drama-free life where you are in love with a partner is pure BS? | /r/seduction | 14/12/20 11:21 PM |
| 1 | Hey there, girls always say that “they don’t see me in that way” whenever I’m trying to date or fall in love, how do I make them see me that way?Yes of course, but isnt 50% a little too much for a divorce rate. Imagine how many are in unhappy marriages and cant afford to divorce for whatever reason. Very few people grow up in a loving household where parents love eachother and dont fight. I am no exception to that. | /r/seduction | 14/12/20 09:52 PM |
| 1 | Hey there, girls always say that “they don’t see me in that way” whenever I’m trying to date or fall in love, how do I make them see me that way?Apply cold water to the burnt area | /r/seduction | 14/12/20 02:33 PM |
| 2 | Hey there, girls always say that “they don’t see me in that way” whenever I’m trying to date or fall in love, how do I make them see me that way?Yesss | /r/seduction | 14/12/20 08:24 AM |
| 3 | Hey there, girls always say that “they don’t see me in that way” whenever I’m trying to date or fall in love, how do I make them see me that way?Yes there is, but only 3% men understand relationships and what women want. Ever wondered why divorce rate is is close to 50%? | /r/seduction | 14/12/20 08:23 AM |
| 45 | Hey there, girls always say that “they don’t see me in that way” whenever I’m trying to date or fall in love, how do I make them see me that way?Its not that you cant find anyone attracted to you, its just that you talk with them like they are your friend, so you give off a friendly vibe hence the reason they dont see you as a potential sexual partner. I reccomend reading a book “How to be a 3% man by corey wayne” its free on his website and is really good groundwork. | /r/seduction | 13/12/20 06:08 AM |
| 4 | You don't need others, you don't need a woman's approvalWell yea if you think about it, confidence is just a concept that we have in our brains. Then the brain signals the body how to behave. This is why affirmations work | /r/seduction | 13/12/20 02:09 AM |
| 1 | Any tips/resources on having better text game?I like this Youtube video. I have found out the hard way texting is about not saying the wrong thing. At least for me. | /r/seduction | 12/12/20 07:24 PM |
| 2 | What to text girl between dates?I would say stay off the phone, no need to text anything. Just wait till the next date. On the next date, don't set up another date, just let her wonder. If she likes your presence she will contact you seeking your attention. After 10 ish minutes of conversation set up the next date and get off the phone. | /r/seduction | 12/12/20 07:21 PM |
| 13 | You don't need others, you don't need a woman's approvalWhen you truly believe that you're entitled to a woman, your subconscious communicates to your whole body that message, thus you have an easier time convincing a woman. If you think you can do a thing or think you can't do a thing, you're right. -Henry Ford | /r/seduction | 12/12/20 07:16 PM |
| 3 | Fallen for this one girlI would say just approach. If she rejecte you so what there is an abundance of women on this world. Dont get stuck on “the one” since it just sabotages you. Abundance mindset | /r/seduction | 08/11/20 06:47 PM |
| 1 | I have trouble making friends; rebuilding my inner gameThanks 😊 | /r/seduction | 06/11/20 01:01 PM |
| 2 | I’m lonely asl, I wanna stop that but Idk howThanks for making me laugh | /r/seduction | 05/11/20 11:51 PM |
| 2 | Where can I meet women? I need ideas and I don't like alcoholAnywhere bro. Whenever you see a good looking chick just approach her and strike up small talk and get a phone number | /r/seduction | 16/06/20 03:24 AM |
| 1 | Went To The Bookstore For Practice!!Great stuff dude youre going in the right direction. Before I tried to help guys and they all tought that I had some magical words that will make them get laid instantly, but when I tell them that all they need is practice they flake. Keep up the good work and hmu if you need some help | /r/seduction | 11/02/20 02:30 AM |
| 4 | What do you do if a girl asks “can I bring a friend” when you ask her to come out on a date ?Thats right, stand up for yourself and show that you are a man and tell her no unless shes planning a threesome or something along those lines | /r/seduction | 11/02/20 02:19 AM |
| 4 | Im so fucking stupidYou sound like you want to yoink that watch from her 😂. Use your situarion as an opener. Walk up to a girl and ask her what is a good opener and than use it on her. Be silly and it works all the time | /r/seduction | 11/02/20 02:13 AM |
| 11 | What do you do if a girl asks “can I bring a friend” when you ask her to come out on a date ?Nouuu dont be okay with her bringing a friend unless youre planning a threesome. Her friend will at best cockblock you. | /r/seduction | 11/02/20 02:08 AM |
| 1 | Does she like me or what? Need answers please!Honestly if she flakes as much as you say I would just move on. Set up a date that is convenient for both of you and try it out last time, if she flakes just break contact and sooner or later she will probably come back | /r/seduction | 11/02/20 02:06 AM |
| 1 | I am a dating coach/mentor and I will give away adviceNo dont message her give her time to miss you. Until then fuck other girls | /r/seduction | 14/10/19 10:48 AM |
| 2 | Should I bother asking her out if I may not see her ever again soon?Yes, have fun while youre there | /r/seduction | 14/10/19 04:26 AM |
| 2 | Girl at a bar. What does it mean if/when they bring up an ex or tell you why they are recently single, like a breakup?and began telling me how she just broke up with a boyfriend of 4 years 2 weeks ago as she found out he was cheating. You didnt show intent so she just assumed youre a friend. Thats why she was talking about that. You need to talk to girls like a lover. If you showed intent she would flirt with you I didn't divulge into the details, as to avoid being a 'friend' You presented yourself as a friend from the start so yea. I wondered if missed an opportunity. Thoughts? Nope, she saw you as a friend. B… | /r/seduction | 14/10/19 04:20 AM |
| 1 | How should I follow up?Long story short had 3 dates. She had asked me out on the 3rd date. Nothing seriously physical. Arms around each other, no kissing. You needed to step outside of your comfort zone and make moves. Like this you just wasted your time. It was here where I intended to make the first real move on this date. I had been nervous about rejection since she’s a coworker, and not wanting to lose my job. Why would you lose your job for making moves on a coworker, thats silly. She initially said yes, but then… | /r/seduction | 14/10/19 04:13 AM |
| 1 | How to approach girls on groups in clubs?These clubs are not good places, atleast for me. Girls are with their friends and the music is loud af. You need to isolate her from the group, but how are you going to do that when theyre all dancing and you can barely hear someone scream into your ear. Meet them outside, and then take it away from there. And you approach shy girls like any other | /r/seduction | 14/10/19 04:03 AM |
| 2 | Smooth alternatives to "let's go to my bed and have sex" and ways to segway into it with girls you've slept with or you haven't yet.You can talk about anything as long as you lead into a more intimate convo and more touching. You need to build up tension with her, then release it, then do that again multiple times and you are going to have a fountain my friend | /r/seduction | 14/10/19 01:41 AM |
| 0 | can we talk about the hidden reason some of us on paper should be attractive but somehow aren't?can a bad attitude be spotted in someone by their appearance? do girls avoid us because they know we have a bad attitude, do they know before we approach or is it while we are talking? No it cannot be spotted, but a douche can be spotted by his clothes and body language. Its mostly when youre talking. Now "bad attitude" is a wide term and not its not same from peraon to person. I would need to talk to you alot more and get info to tell you anything. what does good attitude look like? how can we … | /r/seduction | 14/10/19 01:36 AM |
| 1 | I feel like people think I’m weak, and sometimes i do be feeling like a pussyDM me | /r/seduction | 14/10/19 01:12 AM |
| 1 | Is this a shit test or somethingJust break contact and move on. She will be contacting you soon, but till then fuck other girls | /r/seduction | 14/10/19 12:47 AM |
| 1 | give me some great one liners to slide in the dms on instaLook dude, I am not here to insult you or anything. I just wanted to tell you the honest truth so you dont get hurt. How old are you btw? Also look, you just cant take criticism, beta behaviour | /r/seduction | 14/10/19 12:45 AM |
| 1 | give me some great one liners to slide in the dms on instaI told you. Youre a beta. | /r/seduction | 14/10/19 12:41 AM |
| 5 | Wife troublesI have had a problem similar to this and here is how to fix it. Just sit her down and tell her look, I am not happy with sex. Youre just lazy and dont want to initiate anything. If I am making a mistake somewhere tell me, if its something about me, tell me. I am just not happy with the way things are going and even tough I have talked to you about this it hasnt changed. If it doesnt change soon I want a divorce since I as a man am not satisfied. I am a dating mentor so if you need proper help co… | /r/seduction | 14/10/19 12:40 AM |
| 1 | give me some great one liners to slide in the dms on instaIll tell you the honest truth as a dating mentor. With your way of thinking you are beta and you will fail with this girl | /r/seduction | 14/10/19 12:36 AM |
| 2 | Look like a fuckboy/player, girls are nervous around me, advice?You need to gain their trust. Whilst talking tell her something personal about yourself but nothing too personal so she can see you trust her so she can open up to you. Just work your way up the trust ladder | /r/seduction | 14/10/19 12:34 AM |
| 1 | I am a dating coach/mentor and I will give away adviceJust like I told you. Like this: look dont take me the wrong way but in the future we should pay for ourselfes. You dont want her milking you fro free meals | /r/seduction | 13/10/19 12:05 AM |
| 2 | Potential dateShes confused as to do you like her or not Because at parties youre acting one way and ehen on uni tootaly different. You sparked something in her since she came and asked you. Now its up to you to decide do what you want. Either forget about her Or man up and ask her on a date, only two of you and make sure that its in a night setting. Then you escalate from there | /r/seduction | 12/10/19 03:10 PM |
| 2 | How to I get over this girlI didnt read everything but the most effective way is to just move on and get more girls | /r/seduction | 12/10/19 03:06 PM |
| 1 | I am a dating coach/mentor and I will give away adviceIf she pulls back you pull back a little bit more | /r/seduction | 12/10/19 03:04 PM |
| 1 | I am a dating coach/mentor and I will give away adviceYou pull back, as if shes losing you. When you feel like you have it balanced out you slowly stop chasing | /r/seduction | 12/10/19 03:03 PM |
| 1 | I am a dating coach/mentor and I will give away adviceIts simple. I always pay for the first date and tell her that in the future we need to pay for ourselfes . Dont split the bill. Lets say you have a steak and she has a salad and she ends up paying half of your meal. Also you dont want to be milked for meals from girls thats why you need to point out that you should play for yourselfs. You are both out to have a great time | /r/seduction | 12/10/19 03:01 PM |
| 1 | I am a dating coach/mentor and I will give away adviceI dont drink so can you suggest an alternative to bars? This has alot more sense. You can still go to bars and drink something else than alcohol. Basically any public place, you will spot cute women | /r/seduction | 11/10/19 10:40 PM |
| 1 | I am a dating coach/mentor and I will give away adviceFirst time hearing for a term concrete. You just need more practice to be able to keep her hooked | /r/seduction | 11/10/19 10:21 PM |
| 1 | I am a dating coach/mentor and I will give away adviceBecause its so stupid mand just go outside and meet people like for real | /r/seduction | 11/10/19 10:19 PM |
| 1 | I am a dating coach/mentor and I will give away adviceNo worries bro I tried to help, now you can keep on living in denial, sorry I disturbed you | /r/seduction | 11/10/19 09:38 PM |
| -1 | I am a dating coach/mentor and I will give away adviceI had quite alot of good times on mars, beatifull girls out there Also moon isnt bad but its always night game and the lack of athmosphere makes it hard to breath but overall 10/10 would pickup again | /r/seduction | 11/10/19 09:34 PM |
| 1 | I am a dating coach/mentor and I will give away adviceI'm in my mid 20's and I've never had a dating life. So nothing unfixable, just a wrong mindset. My last girlfriend I met online and she was everything I wanted but she broke up because she had options lol. Of course, she has options, but you do as well, you probably came out too jealous and needy, then she lost her feeling for you and it all broke into million pieces. I just don't understand why I can't get a coffee date with an attractive girl with so many positive traits. Because you are acti… | /r/seduction | 11/10/19 09:32 PM |
| 0 | I am a dating coach/mentor and I will give away adviceLike what? After you go outside of your house you take a walk down the street? | /r/seduction | 11/10/19 09:25 PM |
| 1 | I am a dating coach/mentor and I will give away advicePlay with her emotions. One minute youre really interested and second your eyes are everywhere but on her. Talk about something funny then transition it to something sad, cringey etc. Dont be monotone and be unpredictable | /r/seduction | 11/10/19 09:25 PM |
| 1 | I am a dating coach/mentor and I will give away adviceFrom start you need to act like a lover. You cannot be friends then lovers it just doesnt fucking work and will get you friendzoned 10/10 times. From the start talk to her like a potential partner would, send mixed signals, get her on a date, escalate and there you go | /r/seduction | 11/10/19 09:23 PM |
| -1 | I am a dating coach/mentor and I will give away adviceYou go outside of your house | /r/seduction | 11/10/19 09:21 PM |
| 1 | I am a dating coach/mentor and I will give away adviceMeet em, take them out on a date, build up tension, take her to your place, fuck her brains out and either tell her to leave or drive her home next morning | /r/seduction | 11/10/19 09:19 PM |
| 1 | I am a dating coach/mentor and I will give away adviceYour game is weak. I offer mentoring hmu in DMs | /r/seduction | 11/10/19 09:18 PM |
| 1 | I am a dating coach/mentor and I will give away adviceI offer mentoring, hmu in DMs | /r/seduction | 11/10/19 09:18 PM |
| 1 | I am a dating coach/mentor and I will give away adviceYour game is weak. I offer mentoring. | /r/seduction | 11/10/19 09:17 PM |
| 1 | I am a dating coach/mentor and I will give away adviceLearn to be independent, learn to be alone | /r/seduction | 11/10/19 09:13 PM |
| 1 | I am a dating coach/mentor and I will give away adviceYou have your life and noones going to tell you how youre going to live it. Dont care what people think, just dont. Step outside of your comfort zone | /r/seduction | 11/10/19 09:11 PM |
| 1 | I am a dating coach/mentor and I will give away adviceDo something fun in your life for fuck sakes. Man up and grow some balls is all I can tell you. | /r/seduction | 11/10/19 04:32 PM |
| -1 | I am a dating coach/mentor and I will give away adviceNo worries bro keep up the positive vibes | /r/seduction | 11/10/19 04:22 PM |
| 0 | I am a dating coach/mentor and I will give away adviceWell youre missing out in life | /r/seduction | 11/10/19 04:20 PM |
| 1 | I am a dating coach/mentor and I will give away adviceYes | /r/seduction | 11/10/19 04:19 PM |
| 1 | I am a dating coach/mentor and I will give away adviceDrugs and hookers | /r/seduction | 11/10/19 04:19 PM |
| 2 | I am a dating coach/mentor and I will give away adviceShes not the only one, if you get stuck on her guess what, no progress for you my man. Just move on and forget about her and save yourself a lot of trouble | /r/seduction | 11/10/19 04:17 PM |
| 3 | I am a dating coach/mentor and I will give away adviceYou got this shit | /r/seduction | 11/10/19 04:15 PM |
| 0 | I am a dating coach/mentor and I will give away adviceYou scream into their ear | /r/seduction | 11/10/19 04:09 PM |
| 4 | I am a dating coach/mentor and I will give away adviceNever directly tell a girl you like her, its just not fun for them anymore since the know the outcome. You got friendzoned bro and she found someone that is behaving like a lover not like a friend. I would suggest that you move on | /r/seduction | 11/10/19 04:07 PM |
| 1 | I am a dating coach/mentor and I will give away adviceexactly, just keep it on a normal level like any other coworker | /r/seduction | 11/10/19 03:59 PM |
| 1 | I am a dating coach/mentor and I will give away adviceI told you its natural, I just talk about what amuses me. You like swords? Talk about swords, this is authenticity that women want. | /r/seduction | 11/10/19 03:58 PM |
| -1 | I am a dating coach/mentor and I will give away adviceCan you repeat that in english? | /r/seduction | 11/10/19 03:57 PM |
| 3 | I am a dating coach/mentor and I will give away adviceLike you would any other person, dont be mad at her because she rejected you, just keep it at a normal. Its simple | /r/seduction | 11/10/19 03:52 PM |
| 1 | I am a dating coach/mentor and I will give away adviceStart reading books on this topic and watch youtube videos, go out and practice your game until it becomes natural. Or you can pay a mentor like me and I will save you at least a year of frustration | /r/seduction | 11/10/19 03:47 PM |
| 1 | I am a dating coach/mentor and I will give away adviceYes I did this, this is the most basic shit and It will give you the most growth in a short period of time. You just get used to talking to other girls and its like brushing your teeth. Becomes easy but each time you wash differently | /r/seduction | 11/10/19 03:45 PM |
| 1 | I am a dating coach/mentor and I will give away adviceLike what hahahahahha | /r/seduction | 11/10/19 03:41 PM |
| 0 | I am a dating coach/mentor and I will give away advicePractice on the street first so you get used to talking to random people and dont go blank | /r/seduction | 11/10/19 03:40 PM |
| 3 | I am a dating coach/mentor and I will give away adviceYou walk up to them and you talk | /r/seduction | 11/10/19 03:38 PM |
| -6 | I am a dating coach/mentor and I will give away adviceJust DM me and we will work it out | /r/seduction | 11/10/19 03:38 PM |
| 5 | I am a dating coach/mentor and I will give away adviceSaturday everything was fine and usual. Sunday comes and she tells me she's gave it some thought and she doesn't feel she's ready for a relationship yet, and that she needs time to heal from her previous relationship that ended in June. Bullshit. You did something that turned her off and now she is not really sure are you that masculine. I told her no hard feelings, and that I'll give her the time she needs to heal from it, but I'm not going to put my life on hold and wait. This is the right… | /r/seduction | 11/10/19 03:26 PM |
| 9 | I am a dating coach/mentor and I will give away adviceMan the fuck up. What is that cute little creature going to do to you? Is it going to maul you? The worst that can happen she will say no and end of the story. Step outside of your comfort zone | /r/seduction | 11/10/19 03:18 PM |
| 1 | I am a dating coach/mentor and I will give away adviceStep outside of your comfort zone, you have nothing to lose | /r/seduction | 11/10/19 03:16 PM |
| 5 | I am a dating coach/mentor and I will give away adviceWhat are you going to lose by looking like a weirdo? I am fairly sure you will not see that girl ever again | /r/seduction | 11/10/19 03:16 PM |
| 4 | I am a dating coach/mentor and I will give away adviceIt's fear, anxiety and all sorts of things that pressure you not to make a move. Step outside of your comfort zone and be uncomfortable and only then will you grow | /r/seduction | 11/10/19 03:15 PM |
| 2 | I am a dating coach/mentor and I will give away adviceWho is going to humiliate you? Come one dude step outside of your comfort zone and you will be surprised by how much you can achieve | /r/seduction | 11/10/19 03:13 PM |
| 1 | I am a dating coach/mentor and I will give away adviceIt comes down to discipline and how devoted are you to learn the language of women. Ive spent 1.5 years learning and I am still learning | /r/seduction | 11/10/19 03:12 PM |
| -10 | I am a dating coach/mentor and I will give away adviceTake my mentoring program | /r/seduction | 11/10/19 03:10 PM |
| 3 | I am a dating coach/mentor and I will give away adviceI would need more time to cover this but basics are: approach in confident body language get a hug in talk to her a bit and isolate her from her friends. A simple "come here" and you pull her by her hand away from her friends and a nice place to talk. Start flirting touching and eacalating. Then from there take her wherever you want 😂 There is a good chance you will not sucseed since you say you got "lucky" the last time but you wont lose anything if you try | /r/seduction | 11/10/19 01:36 PM |
| 6 | I am a dating coach/mentor and I will give away adviceYou really have nothing to lose so its win win even if she rejects you, you got some practice. Have a strong and masculine body posture/language and dont be needy. Your mind will probbably race so try to be present in the moment and listen to her. Then get her number text for a short while and get a date going | /r/seduction | 11/10/19 01:31 PM |
| 9 | I am a dating coach/mentor and I will give away adviceA transition from chasing to being chased needs to be a smooth process. First you chase her a little bit, send mixed signals so you hook her on and the trough the course of a month you slowly stop chasing her and it needs to be smooth. You cant chase her one week and second think she will chase you. Very important to send mixed signals. | /r/seduction | 11/10/19 12:14 PM |
| 9 | I am a dating coach/mentor and I will give away adviceI personally would reject her phone number because I specificaly picked her. I choose, I dont settle for the next best thing | /r/seduction | 11/10/19 12:08 PM |
| 1 | How to put tips and advice from books and videos into practice?When you watch a video or read a book, dont just watch it once but instead watch it at least 10 times because you will always miss something. Same applies for books. For me it kind of became second nature when interacting with women because after 10 times you kind of remember it. Also constantly game, very important to learn from your own mistakes | /r/seduction | 11/10/19 10:58 AM |
| 2 | She said yes to a movie night but..I will tell her to meet at a bar to have some drinks, and after the movie we should go somewhere to eat or something Sure meet before the movies but if you already made a deal to go to that shitty resturant go with it. Next time you will know how to react. shit why dating is so complicated I tought that as well when I started to learn the material and having a mentor will sagnificantly reduce the time it takes you to get a full grasp | /r/seduction | 11/10/19 10:27 AM |
| 1 | She said yes to a movie night but..So you seem to be very friendly to her which doesnt spark her emotions and that equals to no attraction she mentioned 'a boyfriend' back at her home country If its friendly talk doesnt seem much I invited her to the movies this weekend to watch the joker Movies for dates are not the best because you cannot get a connection going since youre both staring at a wall. And then tomorrow she tells me that two of our classmates are also going to see the same movie and also to a restaurant and told me i… | /r/seduction | 11/10/19 10:11 AM |
| 2 | Do books, guides and courses actually work?No I dont. I also dont know how to use google or any other search engine to find what I need I just make stuff up. Yup | /r/seduction | 11/10/19 05:44 AM |
| 0 | Do books, guides and courses actually work?Hmmmm. Dig it up yourself its not that hard | /r/seduction | 11/10/19 04:30 AM |
| 1 | Do books, guides and courses actually work?You never knew this shit could happen bro. There is still alot of good material out there | /r/seduction | 11/10/19 04:11 AM |
| 1 | Do books, guides and courses actually work?I see like people are going crazy for that stuff. I have most of it in my head though | /r/seduction | 11/10/19 04:06 AM |
| 5 | Do books, guides and courses actually work?Right here. Grew up without a dad with a single mother. Newer knew what being a man meant, never had a girlfriend never kissed a girl while my friends where kicking ass. Then I start watching youtube video from a guy Corey Wayne and then I read his book How to be a 3% man and the first girl I DM-ed after readinf the book was my first girlfriend and I havent stopped learning since. This was 1.5 years ago. Now I am really confident and on my purpose which is to be a full time Dating/pickup mentor | /r/seduction | 11/10/19 03:26 AM |
| 1 | She agreed to plans, I asked her if she was still up to go, no response.I don’t want her thinking I’m a fuck boy anymore Well you have shown yourself and thats all she sees. Shouldn’t I the day before message her to see if she’s interested? NO. Dont be needy for fucks sake. Its simple she either likes you or she doesnt like you. If she did she would probbably respond because a text message doesnt take more than 2 minutes. So the best course of action is just maybe ask her out again a week from now if she doesn’t respond and see if she’s interested again? I would jus… | /r/seduction | 11/10/19 01:43 AM |
| 3 | Girl I met at restaurantA month of talk and nothing came out of it? Just leave her and move on. | /r/seduction | 11/10/19 01:22 AM |
| 1 | Girl I met at restaurantNaaaah dudeee this is as feminine behaviour as it gets. | /r/seduction | 11/10/19 01:21 AM |
| 2 | Is this all just sales?Yes, only you are selling yourself to her as the best mating partner out there. | /r/seduction | 11/10/19 01:19 AM |
| 7 | Solo nightgameGo out there and kick some ass bro. GG | /r/seduction | 11/10/19 01:17 AM |
| 1 | She agreed to plans, I asked her if she was still up to go, no response.I wish I didn’t give her advice on her ex for real. What I have discovered when learning pickup and dating is you learn best from your mistakes because they know to hurt But you know she seemed interested and I don’t know why she isn’t responding now. Simple, I tould you that already. You acted needy and insecure and she knows from before youre a fuckboy that will mess with her feelings. Or she has someone else giving away more masculine vibes. | /r/seduction | 11/10/19 01:16 AM |
| 1 | Should I make a move?She came over and hang out almost every night last week. And you did what? Come on dude. I’m really bad about letting my fear get in the way of what I want but I also don’t want to creep this girl out. What did you say? Fear? Listen to my advice carefully. You need to be more masculine. How about you step outside of your little bubble and get uncomftrable. Make a move, flirt with her, hold strong eye contact until she looks away first with a little smirk on your face, touch her arms shoulders, p… | /r/seduction | 11/10/19 01:12 AM |
| 3 | She agreed to plans, I asked her if she was still up to go, no response.I dont think so, he already came off too needy and if she was interested she would respond to the first message. Doing this can only worsen the situation | /r/seduction | 11/10/19 12:50 AM |
| 1 | She agreed to plans, I asked her if she was still up to go, no response.I give her advice to no longer be friends with her ex as that will only make moving on for her more difficult( This right here is needy behaviour. Why do you talk to her about her ex bro youre not her girl friend and also you come off needy by telling her that she should not talk to him aka youre being insecure. Fast forward a few days later I text her on Wednesday asking if she’s clear for Saturday Again needy behaviour, youre being insecure by texting her on saturday about sunday. You need to … | /r/seduction | 11/10/19 12:47 AM |
| 1 | [Male 26] I have never had a sexual relationship (virgin). I do not smoke, drink, eat out, or attend places with loud music. Where can I meet women?Yes | /r/seduction | 10/10/19 02:14 PM |
| 1 | [Male 26] I have never had a sexual relationship (virgin). I do not smoke, drink, eat out, or attend places with loud music. Where can I meet women?Sure. What do you need help with? | /r/seduction | 10/10/19 02:13 PM |
| 7 | [Male 26] I have never had a sexual relationship (virgin). I do not smoke, drink, eat out, or attend places with loud music. Where can I meet women?I can only give you so much information here but if you want I can mentor you about dating/pickup/relationships. | /r/seduction | 10/10/19 02:03 PM |
| 1 | How am is supposed to move on?Give it some time it will be better. And great choice those 2 books are where I learned from | /r/seduction | 10/10/19 01:38 PM |
| 9 | How am is supposed to move on?Just talk to other girls and fall in love with other girls | /r/seduction | 10/10/19 01:26 PM |
| 0 | Potential girl has much hotter ex boyfriend - should I bother?Looks dont mean shit when you pull a girl in and get her attracted to you. Especially when she develops a bond with you whitch will happen in about 2 months. Then she feels a connection with you and better looking guys dont mean shit because women are emotional creatures. Keep up the confidence and never be jelaous. Put it in your head that you are the best guy out there. | /r/seduction | 10/10/19 12:36 PM |
| 1 | How do I get close to this girl without coming off as a creep.You need to get outside of your comfort zone and talk to more girls. | /r/seduction | 10/10/19 10:56 AM |
| 1 | How do I get close to this girl without coming off as a creep.I am going to be honest. From what Ive read with your mindset you wont get far with this girl or any girl. Probbably get friendzoned. You need to talk to alot more girls and get outside of your comfort zone. If you want I can mentor you and help you with dating since Ive been trash with girls. | /r/seduction | 10/10/19 10:48 AM |
| 9 | I managed to have a conversation with a girl todayYou guys clearly dont know what teasing means and you probbably suck at it | /r/seduction | 10/10/19 10:24 AM |
| 0 | I managed to have a conversation with a girl todayThere is a clear difference between criticising and teasing. | /r/seduction | 10/10/19 09:37 AM |
| -1 | I managed to have a conversation with a girl todayAnd why do you think so? | /r/seduction | 10/10/19 08:21 AM |
| 1 | What are some ways that you could subtle tell a girl that your interested in them?( I mean something you could actually say, or possibly do)Dont worry bro learn from your mistakes and grow. There are plenty of girls out there | /r/seduction | 10/10/19 08:21 AM |
| -4 | What happened to my natural gameThe mindset? Well either spend a couple of months learning about pickup or pay a coach like me and I evaluate your problems and we fix them in like 15-20 days | /r/seduction | 10/10/19 12:57 AM |
| 2 | What happened to my natural gameYou need some help? | /r/seduction | 10/10/19 12:31 AM |
| 2 | What happened to my natural gameAs you grow up and become mature you change alot the way you think. Its your mindset thats holding you back | /r/seduction | 10/10/19 12:27 AM |
| 1 | What are some ways that you could subtle tell a girl that your interested in them?( I mean something you could actually say, or possibly do)No worries bro I hope I helped. Btw If you need further advice I can coach you | /r/seduction | 10/10/19 12:24 AM |
| 3 | Back and forth with this girl is getting annoying.You need to show a girl that you are serious. When you tell her to leave mean it. Dont try to say it subtly go directly and tell her to leave, she needs to listen to you be more masculine and assertive. I hope I helped | /r/seduction | 10/10/19 12:23 AM |
| 4 | Back and forth with this girl is getting annoying.Well you can see that she is avoiding sex and shes just having fun with you. What you should have done when she didnt want to escalate further is just give her the boot tell her that this is a waste of your time and if she doesnt wanna fuck that she should leave because you want to relax or spend some time alone play games whatever and just tell her to leave your place. Yea she will be mad but probbably be running back to you in like a couple hours or days. Any solutions Yea if you want to fuck … | /r/seduction | 10/10/19 12:11 AM |
| 3 | eye contactIts same for guys. When you catch eye contact with a girl and adrenaline just rushes trouhh your body and then you smile. Then your heart beat goes trough the roof. Yea it feels good | /r/seduction | 09/10/19 11:54 PM |
| 5 | Can a fat man be attractive?Look at it like this. Would you be attracted to a girl that was fat and had a manly voice. I dont think so. Yea you can be somewhat attractive but get some discipline and lose that fat. I was same as you, fat and was wondering why I dknt have a girlfriend cuz I am such a sweet caring and loving guy. Got some discipline lost 18 kg of fat and boom I lose my virginity. It helps being in shape but its not the most important thing | /r/seduction | 09/10/19 11:38 PM |
| 3 | How are hookup dates supposed to go?Women are not like men. Show man some boobs and he is ready and erect to go. Women need alot more to make them horny and actually want to have sex with you. You are looking at this like you got a hooker. If you want I can help you with this possibly coach you if you are interested. | /r/seduction | 09/10/19 11:20 PM |
| 71 | I managed to have a conversation with a girl todayLook what you said, "comfortable". You will not sucseed in life if you wait till you are comfortable. Get outside of your bubble and be uncomfotable get that rush of adrenaline when you smile back to a girl when you approach her and learn to like it because those situations will make you really grow. Man go and just tease her, you have nothing to lose. There are milions of women out there and I talk from experience. There is nothing comfortable with pushing your boundries. Go and be uncomftrable… | /r/seduction | 09/10/19 11:16 PM |
| 6 | What are some ways that you could subtle tell a girl that your interested in them?( I mean something you could actually say, or possibly do)If you straight up tell her you like her you are ruining your chances because it just knocks the fun out of it. She wont be thinking abou you because she knows you like her and thats just boring for women. A way you tell someone you like them subtly is by teasing them. Tease her about something call her funny names mimick her while exagerating do subtle touches and stuff like that do what is fun for you and she will probbably follow along. Send her mixed signals like one minute you are intereste… | /r/seduction | 09/10/19 11:06 PM |
| 133 | I managed to have a conversation with a girl todayThats all good bro keep it going. But of course room for improvement. Try to tease her a bit for being clumsy or something that you find interesting. Also hold eye contact until she looks away while smiling or making a funny face just be free and do what is fun for you. Keep up the good work and if you need more advice hmu | /r/seduction | 09/10/19 11:00 PM |
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