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Über testen haben wir auch nicht geredet es ging für ihn eher über die Angst das Virus wieder zu bekommen. (Ich weiß nicht wie oft er eigentlich raus geht). Er ist 2x geimpft aber bekommt die 3. Morgen. Ja mache ich das lieber als frustriert zu sein. Danke für die Antwort.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 09:32 PM
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Also es hat mit einem Spiel angefangen dass wir geratet haben und dann je mehr Fehler desto mehr shots wir trinken. dann meinte er heute dass er einen Tisch Bucht aber ca 30 Minuten danach meinte er dass er den Booster shot morgen bekommt und er will nicht unbedingt für trinken. da habe ich gesagt okay man muss gar nicht so viel trinken und ein bisschen Alkohol schadet wahrscheinlich nicht aber dann hat er gesagt dass er vielleicht ein bisschen Angst hat irgendwo zu gehen weil die Inzidenz gerad…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 09:14 PM
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Yeah absolutely confusing to me as well. I'm double vaxxed and will try to get the third tomorrow like him as well. Tonight we're both free and no test needed yet. I'm not afraid to go to places as long as I'm vaxxed. And you're right we could do it Sunday with a test. I also told him as of Monday I have holidays and will be likely gone with the week after traveling away again. That's why he really wanted to meet me today, even said he'd book us a table, but then got extra concerned out of nowhe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 08:27 PM
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I love the idea but unfortunately it's freezing cold so the picnic is not ideal but certainly better than coffee and walk 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 07:08 PM
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Thanks for the answer. Yes all within an hour. Strange because I understand him not wanting to get the virus again which he said was no fun... But why suggest something then back out so fast. This is the last night of less restrictions and we could've gone to a place that is not busy. Oh welp
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 06:56 PM
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This hit hard because I know better and yet did it recently with someone I really liked mind you known online for 10 months (another issue). I think I have serious issues I get feelings so fast and I also have a higher libido and end up stupid each time. In my case see the came with the in not ready line after the first date. I cut it off. He came back. Had 3 dates overall and now we unfollowed each other because he moved away. Like some kindergarten. When will I ever be normal...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 08:45 PM
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I'm near Nürnberg 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 09:54 PM
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Oops I do ask guys this from some guys on ODS because I'm genuinely curious what do they value in women. But I also realise they'll likely say whatever I want to hear
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 11:48 PM
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I confronted him about almost sleeping with her after "spending" 5 days with her (language school from work). And he admitted it almost☝🏻happened but didn't (with the exact hand gesture). Like he deserves a fucking medal. So I asked him again, was anything wrong with me/us? No. How does this make sense at all... 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 09:59 PM
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Does a rich, successful, sporty, healthy, supportive, kind, affectionate 30 year old man in a relationship for over 4 years texting with a 17/18 year old virgin girl and later sleeping with her count? Yeah he dumped me before the actual act because I looked at their chats and I broke the trust.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 06:13 PM
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I stopped reading at texting with the guy with a gf. She might have said she's cool with it, which is her fault, but honestly I'm pretty sure she just didn't want to look controlling. I think that was wrong and deep down everyone knew it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 03:24 PM
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I really think I did because he treated me very well, always showed me how much he loved me, even in front of others (not this macho bs), he supported me in my new business, he paid for most things because he earned way more, he has a good relationship with his family and was good to mine, he was organised and tidy (maybe even more than me), he has a great job, he always said he enjoys being with me whatever we do, he takes care of his body and he's sporty, he has 0 addiction (except porn but we…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 10:59 AM
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Well I regret I didn't dump him and waited for him to do it and get uglier by letting him humiliate/disrespect me for a month longer which honestly set me into a crazy stalking mode but it was hard to navigate in that fog of gaslight. all I was searching for was the truth because if the silent treatment... But im good now. He lost a person who really loved him I lost a cheating liar/lying cheater. And I got an amazing job this Friday 🤗 after 2 years and giving up my career/jobs for him I'll be f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 12:50 AM
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I wish I did this but trapped 3 weeks in Asia with him and his family hoping he'll stop... I was absolutely confused because he was my dream man for years, literally not a bad word I could say about him and we adored each other. Suddenly he goes full throttle with these chicks and I'm shocked, hurt, confused... But since he's always been a sweetheart I'm probably insecure/jealous and that's why he's mad at me when I question him. I question why he's touching her hair in that picture - she was hi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 04:27 PM
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We were on the bus the first day of our holiday in the middle of a traffic jam in manila. He was texting this barely legal chick that was annoying me because he told me how much she's hitting on him but it's just friendly for him. He showed me the texts, he wanted to look transparent. I told him it's hurtful. He asked back this is hurtful to you? And I said yes. He turned around and continued texting. I should've known then and there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 09:28 AM
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I was the insecure one but I was at least right in the end 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 07:49 AM
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When the 17 year old teen hitting on my 29 yo ex asked him what do I look like (she was so curious) he told her: she's young and without wrinkles and unlike him, without grey hair (sums me up as a gf of 4 years ha). And as spotless he is, he needs someone young, rich and without wrinkles (she's from a rich family unlike me). He lost his goddamn mind in 5 days in Spain. Teens told him he looks 22 and flirted with him. So when this girl asked him if we're engaged he said no, he's too young, he's o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 11:43 PM
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You asked how to filter them out I answered but it seems like we're not talking about the same thing and i respectfully decline to argue. Like I said they're not off the hook but I don't see anything wrong with a teenager being into another teenager (within some age limits and legalities etc). They have stuff in common not just the physical so that's already a better basis. Maybe seeing this will help you understand what we're dealing with https://www.google.com/search?q=what+she+age+women+men+f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 12:20 AM
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Because you're 20 and it doesn't make sense they'd have a teenage fetish since teenage girls are their dating pool. Look most men will always be attracted to younger girls, that's just how it is. Women usually are attracted to men their age. Now you have a good chance to find someone good and grow together and be in love, they should love you for who you are, not how young your skin/breasts are. It's not sure you'd marry this person, but at least you'll experience love. Later it'll be much harde…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 06:06 PM
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You don't ask, you dare people your age, that's all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 12:55 PM
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Whole article https://www.thelily.com/i-had-to-choose-being-a-mother-with-no-child-care-or-summer-camps-women-are-being-edged-out-of-the-workforce/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 10:57 AM
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So those marrying a bitch will end up as a happy marriage?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 09:12 AM
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Sometimes I still think i was an asshole too. I looked in his phone and he found out and that's why he left me. He even showed me the texts I think he really thought its okay... So when I say cheating i meant emotional cheating by texting her everyday, now he's sleeping with her so there's that. But i should have just walked away...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 08:40 PM
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I know. But sometimes I still think i lost a good person. I basically looked in his phone (after asking him multiple times to stop and telling him its hurtful) and that's why we broke up. People say i was an asshole for doing it. I should have had more self respect and just leave (it was difficult we were on a holiday), maybe he'd have realised what he's been doing and regret or try to fix it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 08:38 PM
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I know but after 2.5 years of long distance it was time... Actually he wanted me to move in a year earlier but i wanted ti improve my resume... But in the end he cheated with a barely legal 12 years younger girl :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 07:29 PM
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That's horrible. I'm glad you left him. We were together 4.5 years and stupid me waited until a 17 year old came by. His family thought we're getting married. Just before we broke up when everything was already broken because he kept texting her and another girl his brother in law asked him when are we getting married I don't even remember what he answered but nothing positive just some brush off. He's 30.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 06:30 PM
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I have certainly lost part of me in the relationship. I wasn't too clingy imo actually he kept saying he loves staying with me home and cuddling. I gave up jobs for him and moved to him so I spent the majority of that time home with our dog (language barrier and our location made it really hard to work at a decent job, at some point i worked temporarily as a cashier with an MA degree) so I worked on my own business which was taking off and he seemed proud and supportive. Still, i neglected my ow…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 01:07 PM
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Yeah well good luck on both sides. He found someone on his mental level but both of them will get bored eventually. It's disgusting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 01:00 PM
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Oh is this about my ex? He's 30 sleeping with a girl that recently turned 18 (met when she was 17) and nobody bats an eye and I'm actually shocked by it. When I told his mother the only thing she said "what does he want with an 18 yo old?"... But turns out he's hiding it from the people he meets daily and brags about his sugarbabe (yeah you heard right, he's the sugar daddy too) to those he doesn't see often. Mind you I had baby names discussed with this man. But once he told me I'm too childish…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 01:33 AM
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I'm not sure, i had the same approach, never believed in holding someone on a tight leash but it basically translated to him as having blurred boundaries. And we disagreed on him having suddenly 3 new girls rotating around him. I think new female friends can very quickly spill over into cheating even if it's not meant. If these new girls are around then i would like to know them too and them know me. Needless to say the one I should worry about the least because she's 12 years younger is the one…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 08:30 PM
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Same thing happened to be though no marriage she only 4 years together and he was discussing me with 2 girls at the same time. He was hiding me from the third one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 06:59 PM
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As to emotional cheating I'd add chatting up other females extensively (hours, or short chit chat everyday). I don't even care if its work or friendship related.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 05:25 PM
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Oh mine was literally none of these 🙈
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 10:52 PM
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