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| 1 | Many "intersectional feminists" have a very shallow understanding of intersectionalityI have a theory in life that most people have a very superficial understanding of academic things and how that applies to real life. I have a graduate degree related to my field of employment and there is such a giant gap of what should be done and what is actually done. Or between how a business says it operated and how it actually operates. People crack jokes about mandatory compliance training and how incredible stupid some of the harassment stuff is, for example. But the reason those questio… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/05/26 05:52 PM |
| 63 | Stop saying "by other men!"When that stupid “man vs bear” thing came around I would challenge people with “would you rather run into a white man or a black man” which was (rightfully) called out as racist. But they don’t see the inherent sexism in specifying “man” instead of person. In fact now many people are using the analogy “would you rather have a random woman or random man babysit your kids” to prove that “everyone knows men are bad.” It really always comes down to a matter of agency - men are considered to have age… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 30/04/26 03:06 PM |
| 6 | Why is it assumed that the same content that young men are getting rage baited by has no effect on women?Many years ago the NYT did an article about foreign influence campaigns creating division in America through fake Facebook pages. One of the examples was a feminist page designed to create extremism. So yes, 100% there is a problem with indoctrination and propaganda within “feminist” rhetoric online (like the bear vs man debate). | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/04/26 06:00 PM |
| 18 | The Men Are Not AlrightThe neoliberal subreddit is full of idiots pretending to be smart people pretending to be idiots. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 15/04/26 06:44 PM |
| 3 | Feminism & LiberalismThat’s just an extreme form of classical liberalism. Look at neoliberalism and people like Margarette thatcher or Ronald Reagan. They advocated for the removal of government (just you opposing authority). | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/02/26 04:08 PM |
| 2 | Feminism & LiberalismWhat do you believe in as an “anarchist”? That’s kind of a meaningless term. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/02/26 03:39 PM |
| 3 | The narrative around "male/mens mental health" is so oversimplified to the point of caricatureWhen it comes to mental health issues men are simply treated as defective women. The blame is placed on them and not the issues around them. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/02/26 07:58 PM |
| 2 | Feminism & LiberalismMany (if not most) feminist will readily admit they believe in Marxism, socialist type policies, and the dismantling of capitalism. This is inherently anti-liberal. Of course I doubt many of them understand that or care about the distinction. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/02/26 07:41 PM |
| 5 | Personal advice in optics: Do NOT let them call you 'anti-feminist'I think we agree with each other on most issues, there’s not really anything to reconcile. On the topic of feminism itself I don’t think feminism is going anywhere, so there’s not really that much to discuss there either. It’s not like either of us has the power to change anything at a high level, you know? So it doesn’t really matter. She works in education and we regularly discuss how boys and girls are treated both in the school system and by parents who have low expectations for their boys a… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/01/26 01:58 AM |
| 8 | Opinion: Men are terrible at advocating for themselves. We have to change this.Why not point out the equally serious problems men face, many of which are very much systemic? Eg. the draft, the education gap, violent crime, homelessness, sexist domestic abuse and rape laws, harsher criminal sentences, police brutality, male genital mutilation, workplace deaths, suicide etc. In online spaces you’re going to encounter people who want to argue just to argue. Make your case and don’t worry about pushback. You’re going to get it. But in my experience if you bring these things up… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/01/26 12:12 AM |
| 9 | Personal advice in optics: Do NOT let them call you 'anti-feminist'it also tells women to reject even the positive aspects of "patriarchy" and heavily critiques women and feminists who basically wants to adopt positive aspects of patriarchy and still want to enforce gender roles on men. This was basically the argument I used with my wife when we discussed why I don’t agree with feminism way back when. We talked about how men are always expected to be the breadwinners in a family, it’s only women who get the benefit of choice when it comes to being a stay at hom… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/01/26 11:30 PM |
| 5 | Thank you note from a womanIt’s not a conspiracy theory at all. There’s a NYT article from right after the 2016 election about foreign influence campaigns designed to create division between people, and all of them targeted traditional leftist ideals like black rights, indigenous people rights, and most relevant here - feminism. Basically the pages were designed to create extremism. Which is exactly what you see happening in online spaces when leftists constantly criticize democrats for not being left enough. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 21/11/25 07:58 PM |
| 10 | Thank you note from a womanI’m assuming they mean occupy Wall Street. And I believe the implication is that the gender wars are a psyop campaign meant to create division between liberals and leftists, giving more power to right wingers who favor the wealthy elite. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 21/11/25 07:54 PM |
| 46 | Real men dont do xyzI’ve learned to ignore any “real man” comments because it’s always followed by some way that men are supposed to conform. You notice there’s never any “real women do xyz” discussion? Or if there is (generally related to trans discussion) it turns back to “but these women don’t do that thing, so that definition doesn’t fit.” Women get to be women just for turning a certain age and existing. Some people say a woman gets to be a woman for just saying she’s a woman. Men on the other hand have to ear… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 21/11/25 07:11 PM |
| 4 | The New Yorker's Article on the "Centrist Manosphere"But Emanuel does not see such promise in New York City’s mayor-elect, the Democratic Socialist Zohran Mamdani, even though Mamdani’s campaign focussed relentlessly on affordability and, according to early exit polling, he won male voters between the ages of eighteen to twenty-nine by an astonishing forty points. This reminds me of the 2016 election democratic primaries. Bernie sanders was more popular with men than Clinton. But it couldn’t be because of his economic policies like universal healt… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/11/25 08:15 PM |
| 11 | Is feminisms subverting whole identify of Man?Try to impose a “real woman” definition and you’ll get called a right wing goon pronto. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/11/25 08:01 PM |
| 47 | Toxic masculinity and patriarchy being only enforced by men is a myth. It is ingrained in our psyche, we need to collectively oppose it.Women love to weaponize masculinity against men. They readily call them virgins or incels as an insult, implying their inability to get a woman is a knock against them as a person. They’ll say a man has little dick energy. They’ll say a man has short man syndrome. Even someone like AOC, who I have no doubt calls herself a feminist, will weaponize masculinity to insult men she doesn’t like. And then when called out on it she tried to backtrack saying there’s nothing wrong with being short, or tha… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/11/25 09:40 PM |
| 1 | We need a bill to abolish the draft. Tell your senators and representatives.Democrats tried to do this. Republicans fought it hard. https://thehill.com/policy/defense/4730560-senate-democrats-require-women-draft/amp/ | /r/MensRights | 27/08/25 09:03 PM |
| 1 | The i-word is extremely overusedWomen, and feminists, will openly call boys losers and blame their life circumstances on them (because male privilege or whatever). But not give them any kind of support or help because only girls deserve help. Then guys like Andrew Tate come along with the exact same message of “you’re a loser” but then tell them they know the secret to fixing it. And boys fall for it because that’s the message they’ve been hearing from feminists their entire lives, but now here’s a guy offering to help them ch… | /r/MensRights | 20/08/25 07:49 PM |
| 1 | Feminists have, sadly, gotten good at counter messagingAh so now we’ve switched to “you didn’t say that” to “she’s mistaken or lying.” You sound exactly like the feminists who write off men’s issues they haven’t experienced themselves. | /r/MensRights | 08/07/25 04:16 PM |
| 1 | Feminists have, sadly, gotten good at counter messagingSo also the same question to you as the other poster - at what age do you think it’s “ok” to catcall and follow a girl in your car? | /r/MensRights | 07/07/25 08:30 PM |
| -1 | Feminists have, sadly, gotten good at counter messagingSame question to you - you don’t think it’s a problem that dudes are catcalling a 12 year old girl and following her in their car? | /r/MensRights | 07/07/25 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Feminists have, sadly, gotten good at counter messagingI did actually: one of the girls came back telling me some guys in a truck were catcalling her and following her. You apparently have problems reading though. | /r/MensRights | 07/07/25 07:26 PM |
| -1 | Feminists have, sadly, gotten good at counter messagingShe’s 12, she was definitely shaken up by some grown men following her in their car. You’re doing the exact same thing feminist do - you refuse to believe that other people have different lived experiences than you do. And you judge women based on how you’ve experienced life. | /r/MensRights | 07/07/25 07:17 PM |
| -5 | Feminists have, sadly, gotten good at counter messagingYes if she's that old that's weird. So you acknowledge catcalling a 12 year old girl is wrong? But she may of looked older, ALOT of them do. First off, this is a disgusting comment. People like you give this subreddit a bad name. Second, suppose that was a relevant argument - at what age do you think it’s ok to catcall a girl? At what age should I tell the girls I coach that it’s not a big deal and they should just get over it? I've been whilsted at many times by females and couldn't care less W… | /r/MensRights | 07/07/25 06:50 PM |
| -4 | Feminists have, sadly, gotten good at counter messagingI coach one of my kid’s middle school sports teams. They were out on a run one day and one of the girls came back telling me some guys in a truck were catcalling her and following her. She’s 12. She was visibly uncomfortable and ended up quitting the team. I think cat calling is a problem for women, and I think anyone who doesn’t acknowledge that is a tool. I’m on this sub because I have a son and I see ways the world is unfair to him. But I also have a daughter and I see the ways the world is s… | /r/MensRights | 07/07/25 04:31 PM |
| 10 | President Trump - National Men’s HealthThis National Men’s Health Week, I make a solemn pledge to honor the men in America: we will always have your back—and we will never waver in our promise to embolden you to lead long, healthy, and safe lives. Unless there’s a war and we have to draft you of course. Then we don’t care about you leading long, healthy, and safe lives. | /r/MensRights | 02/07/25 04:17 PM |
| 1 | Why are very many Reddit feminists christianophobic?The passage pretty clearly blames women. I vaugely remember the church I went to as a kd used that Timothy 1 passage being used to support why the husband was the head of the household. That is a patriarchal household, the thing OP insists the Bible does not do. Romans 12 does not mention Adam, feel free to prove me wrong with a source though. | /r/MensRights | 01/07/25 10:35 PM |
| 3 | The contempt that Reddit has for "tech bros" is oddbut a total lack of understanding how soul sucking the job can actually be. Kind of along those lines, Reddit will openly talk about how much work sucks and they hate their job, but then openly mock the main characters of movies like the matrix, fight club, or American beauty for hating their jobs and being depressed. It’s like if you’re just a normal dude living your life you’re not allowed to be depressed. | /r/MensRights | 01/07/25 07:57 PM |
| 4 | Men Rights MattersSo what's the point of giving Jobs to women if u can't take care of an unemployed man whereas men can do that?? Honestly comments like this are at least part of the reason why men’s rights isn’t taken seriously. I have a daughter. I want her to grow up and be able to work whatever kind of job she wants. I don’t care if she doesn’t want to support an unemployed man. That’s not my problem and it’s not her problem. Your argument seems to rest on the idea that men are supposed to take care of women.… | /r/MensRights | 01/07/25 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Why are very many Reddit feminists christianophobic?I forget where but in the New Testament, Paul blames Adam for original sin and makes no mention of Eve It’s the opposite. Eve is blamed for original sin. A woman[a] should learn in quietness and full submission. 12 I do not permit a woman to teach or to assume authority over a man;[b] she must be quiet. 13 For Adam was formed first, then Eve.14 And Adam was not the one deceived; it was the woman who was deceived and became a sinner.15 But women[c] will be saved through childbearing—if they conti… | /r/MensRights | 01/07/25 06:56 PM |
| 2 | Why are very many Reddit feminists christianophobic?Feminism doesn't like that at all because it involves being part of a male-headed family So you agree with me that the Bible promotes patriarchy and OP is wrong. Thanks. | /r/MensRights | 01/07/25 01:17 PM |
| 25 | Why is the manosphere on the rise? UN Women sounds the alarm over online misogynyFeminism in its current form is a major cause of the “manosphere.” Go into any feminist space and see how they view problems men face. They’ll say it’s not their problem, it’s up to men to fix. Boys falling behind in school? Their fault, those boys should work harder. Can’t get a date? Don’t be a loser. Feeling lonely? Talk to other men and don’t expect women to shoulder your emotional burden. So now you have a guy like Andrew Tate come along and tell a boy he should work harder and not be a los… | /r/MensRights | 30/06/25 09:05 PM |
| 39 | Why are very many Reddit feminists christianophobic?Nowhere in the Bible is there any misogyny or support for patriarchy Timothy 2:12: “ I do not permit a woman to teach or to assume authority over a man; she must be quiet.” Deuteronomy 22:28-29. If a man happens to meet a virgin who is not pledged to be married and rapes her and they are discovered, 29 he shall pay her father fifty shekels[a] of silver. He must marry the young woman, for he has violated her. He can never divorce her as long as he lives. Does the woman get a say in this? Honestly… | /r/MensRights | 30/06/25 07:28 PM |
| 3 | Apparently i'm worse than a rapist for saying rape is bad🤷♂️I wouldn’t be surprised. That still doesn’t change my statement. | /r/MensRights | 27/06/25 08:33 PM |
| 23 | Perceived victimhood is power in society so feminists will never give it upFeminism is like a religion - people use it to maintain power for themselves. They use it to generate money. There’s always going to be some problem that has to be solved, and it’s really not in the interest of the people in charge or major feminist organizations to ever actually “solve” systemic problems that cause inequality. | /r/MensRights | 27/06/25 08:32 PM |
| -1 | Apparently i'm worse than a rapist for saying rape is bad🤷♂️I wouldn’t be surprised. But that doesn’t mean this person is a leftist or a feminist. | /r/MensRights | 27/06/25 08:27 PM |
| 0 | Apparently i'm worse than a rapist for saying rape is bad🤷♂️Nothing about this post indicates “feminist ideology.” If anything the whole “don’t police what other people find funny” is a common talking point of the right. | /r/MensRights | 27/06/25 08:14 PM |
| 10 | Apparently i'm worse than a rapist for saying rape is bad🤷♂️Literally nothing in that post indicates the person is a leftist. Let’s also not pretend like the Republican Party isn’t full of hypocrites. | /r/MensRights | 27/06/25 06:52 PM |
| 20 | "Benevolent Sexism"It’s a motte and bailey argument. Female privilege does tend to stem from benevolent sexism. Society does tend to treat women like children who have no agency in life and need to be protected from the world. That argument is easy to defend. But feminism does nothing to address that or change it. Because it benefits women. That is hard to defend. So when you press them on the second part, they fall back to the first part. | /r/MensRights | 27/06/25 06:20 PM |
| 9 | Misandry Exposed: Reddit Study Reveals Intense Anti-Male HateI’m legit surprised it hasn’t been locked or removed yet. It will be. Edit: and there it goes. | /r/MensRights | 26/06/25 08:18 PM |
| 8 | Misandry Exposed: Reddit Study Reveals Intense Anti-Male HateYeah I noticed that too. My charitable take is they’re not clued in to what subreddits are the worst with man-hating. Like they chose gender critical as a feminist subreddit, but if I remember correctly that was more of an anti-trans sub that used the guise of “protecting women” | /r/MensRights | 26/06/25 06:35 PM |
| 17 | Misandry Exposed: Reddit Study Reveals Intense Anti-Male HateStart calling the feminism subreddit toxic in other communities and see how well that works out for you. That’s the problem - a lot of people in this world refuse to believe that feminism (or feminists) can be toxic. | /r/MensRights | 26/06/25 06:32 PM |
| 27 | Misandry Exposed: Reddit Study Reveals Intense Anti-Male HateCheck out the replies on psychology. Half the people are tripping over themselves to invalidate the study while the others are saying hatred toward men is justified. | /r/MensRights | 26/06/25 06:30 PM |
| 4 | So called "paper abortion" for men is not a viable parallel to abortion and is a terrible idea.So, assuming the worst possible motivation for Abortion…. when a woman aborts she eliminates the responsibility for selfish reasons It’s not selfish to realize you don’t want to be or can’t be a parent. I’m sure we all know shitty parents who shouldn’t have had kids. Hypothetical for you: Suppose an 18 year old boy gets a girl pregnant, and he doesn’t want to be a father. He has to worry about getting through college and starting his life. He doesn’t want to be on the hook for child support unti… | /r/MensRights | 25/06/25 04:41 PM |
| 5 | Some women weaponise their sexuality to manipulate men for financial gain using seduction, emotional leverage, or suggestive content to extract money, gifts, or lifestyle perks. A power dynamic rarely discussed, but it’s real and often ignored in gender equality debates. This negatively affects menThere’s also the victim blaming, which you even see here with guys saying “victims are willing” or “men love it.” Feminists readily push that same narrative that men should know better. It’s their fault bad things happened to them. | /r/MensRights | 24/06/25 07:06 PM |
| 16 | I’m tired of pretending misandry doesn’t exist. So I wrote the truth about it.And yet, where are the feminists fighting for equality here? Modern feminism isn’t about equality. It’s about power. It’s like a religion, people pretend to “believe” but they only believe just enough to fit in. Most don’t actually care about (or understand ) the underlying ideas of the cause they’re supporting. They just want to fit in. | /r/MensRights | 23/06/25 06:48 PM |
| 29 | I’m tired of pretending misandry doesn’t exist. So I wrote the truth about it.The title (and the article) criticizes feminism. You can’t do that there, even if it’s meant to be constructive. The first paragraph: If you reversed the genders in over half the conversations happening in modern feminist circles today, people would be protesting oppression in the streets. We all know that’s true. But feminists (and thus men’s lib) don’t want to hear that. | /r/MensRights | 23/06/25 06:38 PM |
| 43 | The reason women are mean to each other is because of men. Why can't women just be accountable?Women in society are seen as having no agency. Anything bad that happens to them is because of outside forces that shape their lives. So when women do something bad, like be mean to other women, it has to be blamed on some outside force. In this case “the patriarchy” is a classic boogie man Men, on the other hand, do have agency in their lives. So when men are shitty, it’s because of their own personal shortcomings. | /r/MensRights | 23/06/25 06:32 PM |
| 9 | Democrats Have Spent 20 Million Dollars Trying To Figure Out How To Talk To MenI hope they’re analyzing it seriously. I have a feeling their results are just going to push them further down the “patriarchy hurts men” path. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/05/25 11:22 PM |
| 15 | Democrats Have Spent 20 Million Dollars Trying To Figure Out How To Talk To MenLook at their “who we serve” page. https://democrats.org/who-we-are/who-we-serve/ They explicitly mention women. But not men. It seems like such a stupid oversight to just flat out acknowledge that. I get the point that they’re trying to imply they support rural men, or union men, or young men, or whatever else they have on there. But there’s plenty of men who don’t fall into one of those buckets. I will readily defend democrats as far superior to republicans and admonish anyone who choose not t… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/05/25 09:39 PM |
| 16 | Democrats Have Spent 20 Million Dollars Trying To Figure Out How To Talk To MenIt’s hard to advocate for men’s issues while also trying to appease women and feminist thought. Look at how dead the menslib subreddit is. What’s ironic is that even though women are one of the core targets of democrats, women are still willing to vote for someone like Trump because he at least pretends to care about men’s jobs and ability to support their wives and family. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 28/05/25 09:34 PM |
| 9 | Looking for opinions on resolving Men's Rights issues (Misandry, Misogyny, and the role of Feminism)Women have and do promote male gender roles just as much as men if not MORE. This right here. Women will readily conform to gender roles (and expect men to do so as well) when it suits them. If they want to be stay at home moms, feminism thinks they should have the choice. But men rarely get the same option. Men rarely get to make the choices women do. Women talk about “having it all.” Men don’t get that choice. They get the career. That’s it. If a man can’t support a family he’s not likely to h… | /r/MensRights | 23/05/25 08:34 PM |
| 1 | Redefining Masculinity: Navigating Identity in the Digital AgeIt’s a bit ironic that OP included this in their manifesto isn’t it? And with that come hashtags, heart emojis, and a horde of self-styled gurus offering unsolicited advice on how to "be a real man," | /r/MensRights | 19/05/25 10:46 PM |
| 0 | Redefining Masculinity: Navigating Identity in the Digital AgeAs for “toxic masculinity,” it’s not an attack on men, it’s a cheeky little label for the worst parts of man-behavior. Is there such a thing as “toxic femininity” to describe the worst parts of woman behavior? And if not, why do you think that is? | /r/MensRights | 19/05/25 08:07 PM |
| 28 | This is why boys are continuously lagging behind in education than girlsDon't mothers want their boys to succeed in school? Anecdotally, many of them don’t care. Looking at my son’s friend group, many of their moms are more interested in travel baseball than they are with grades. They complain about their sons failing classes, but are unwilling to do anything to actually change the situation. They’ll pull their kids out of school for baseball weekends. They’re unwilling to take expensive sports away from their kids as a punishment for grades because the parents are … | /r/MensRights | 14/05/25 06:11 PM |
| 2 | Why is the majority Reddit opinion overwhelmingly feminist?Because “liberal” is a meaningless word used by the right to disparage the left, and used by “leftists” to disparage those that believe in personal freedom and free markets. And on a tangent I’m fairly certain that second group is fueled heavily by foreign operations to make literally everyone wary of calling themselves liberal. | /r/MensRights | 06/05/25 04:56 PM |
| -5 | What do you think of democrats engaging the "manospgere"?Why did you put “service” in quotes, as if serving 20+ years in the national guard isn’t serving? Why did you put “fix” in quotes? Can the guy not actually fix a truck? | /r/MensRights | 01/05/25 05:43 PM |
| 5 | What little things you appreciate when a woman does?I get it if they had started the conversation in a combative manner. That’s different It’s pretty clear from their comments that they were intending to be combative. | /r/MensRights | 30/04/25 06:45 PM |
| 7 | What little things you appreciate when a woman does?Whether this person is or isn’t a troll isn’t the point. By creating a forum where productive discussions can occur Hard to have a productive conversation when OP is calling people hysterical or accusing them of crying or attacking her. | /r/MensRights | 30/04/25 06:15 PM |
| 12 | What little things you appreciate when a woman does?Look at OPs post history. She’s simultaneously a 22 year old woman, a 19 year old woman, but also has an 11 year old daughter who wants to wear heels. OP is a troll. | /r/MensRights | 30/04/25 05:46 PM |
| 13 | What little things you appreciate when a woman does?It really doesn’t take much, does it? | /r/MensRights | 30/04/25 05:39 PM |
| 7 | What little things you appreciate when a woman does?incel has many meanings now It doesn’t though. It’s kind of funny that you come on here looking for a bridge but refuse to listen to anything that doesn’t fit your narrative. | /r/MensRights | 30/04/25 05:30 PM |
| 9 | What little things you appreciate when a woman does?Incel means “involuntary celibate”. You’re using a man’s lack of ability to have sex or find a mate as a derogatory term. When I was younger “virgin” was the slur of choice women used against men they didn’t like. This is just a variation on that. I’m not a feminist, but that sure sounds like “toxic masculinity” to me. Doesn’t that sound like it to you? And that’s one of my many problems with so-called “feminists” like you. Just like you, they have no problem weaponizing masculinity against men.… | /r/MensRights | 30/04/25 05:24 PM |
| 2 | A certain sub removed my comment because I pointed out their hypocrisy.This is good rationale, but I’d throw a question in here: there is a second party that "knows" this person is incapacitated and "vulnerable". What if the other party is also drunk and unable to tell if someone is vulnerable? Is that a mitigating factor? And if it is not a mitigating factor, is the woman also responsible for having sex with a drunk man? Or does responsibility only go one way? | /r/MensRights | 30/04/25 04:58 PM |
| -7 | Gender neutral draft/conscription or complete abolition?You sound exactly like all the leftist tankies. | /r/MensRights | 22/01/25 08:38 PM |
| 3 | Gender neutral draft/conscription or complete abolition?Democrats do something positive. Republicans oppose it. Blame democrats for not trying hard enough. Classic. | /r/MensRights | 22/01/25 08:16 PM |
| 9 | Gender neutral draft/conscription or complete abolition?Well they’re 100% wrong. Just because conservatives are opposed to feminism doesn’t mean they give a shit about the average dude. | /r/MensRights | 22/01/25 07:28 PM |
| 4 | Good blog about misandry from the perspective of a transman experiencing it.but I don’t enjoy the authors suggestion that it plays a useful role in the discussion. It’s basically required for someone to say that “feminism is important” in attempt to not be dismissed as a misogynistic MRA. They think if they acknowledge feminism they can be seen as “one of the good ones.” Honestly it reminds me of LGBT conservatives who are openly willing to shit on themselves and their own community in an attempt to be accepted into a group that openly hates them. | /r/MensRights | 22/01/25 06:29 PM |
| 14 | Gender neutral draft/conscription or complete abolition?Just a reminder to everyone here that democrats added language in the 2024 defense bill to add gender equality to selective service, meaning both men and women would be required to register. It was fiercely opposed by republicans. https://thehill.com/policy/defense/4730560-senate-democrats-require-women-draft/amp/ If you ever want to see selective service abolished in the U.S., force women to sign up for it first. One party is trying, the other is opposed to that. Try and remember that next time… | /r/MensRights | 22/01/25 06:24 PM |
| 11 | Male primary school teachersI would love to see more men at the elementary school level. When my son and daughter went through school there wasn’t a single male teacher there. Now there’s one. When my son hit middle school and started interacting with more male teachers I feel like it was a positive influence on him. Increasing the number of male elementary school teachers, particularly in early years is not an effective strategy for improving educational and life outcomes comes for fatherless boys. Do you have anything to… | /r/MensRights | 17/01/25 11:20 PM |
| 14 | The misandry on TikTok is insane.Many, many years ago the NYT did an article on misinformation campaigns on Facebook driven by foreign governments. One of the pages examined was a feminist page, with the whole goal to push extremism. Leftists think that foreign intel primarily affects the right, but they’re definitely pushing for extremism in the left as well. You can see it in the constant “democrats are not the left” and “genodice joe” type comments. | /r/MensRights | 17/01/25 11:16 PM |
| 3 | Where Have All the Young Democrats Gone? (OP: article heavily discusses the gender gap in the vote)If you think making it harder to get a gun makes violent crime go down, I suggest you visit Chicago This is the city that’s a 30 minute drive from Indiana, a state without strict gun laws? | /r/MensRights | 17/01/25 11:13 PM |
| 8 | Can anybody respond to this paper?So am I understanding this right - a paper was published saying that both men and women commited sexual violence at roughly equal rates, but this other paper thought that wasn’t fair to women so they had to find reasons why it’s misrepresenting women’s actions? | /r/MensRights | 18/12/24 08:22 PM |
| 2 | who is responsible for gender based selective service/conscription/draft?When democrats proposed including the women into the draft right wing groups were upset at the proposal and were running ads saying democrats want to draft our daughters This happened fairly recently too if I recall. The best way to end selective service is to have women be forced into it just like men are. But one side prevented that from happening. Wish people talked about more on here. | /r/MensRights | 03/12/24 01:20 AM |
| 12 | "Women expressed envy towards men in...salary, prestige, physical strength, and the absence of menstruation, childbirth, and menopause. Men, on the other hand, envied women for their physical attractiveness, ease of seduction, ability to perform traditionally female tasks, and motherhood."This really seems like a “grass is greener”’study Women expressed envy towards men in domains linked to biological conditions and social advantages, such as salary, prestige, physical strength, and the absence of menstruation, childbirth, and menopause. Not every man has a great salary, or prestige. Not every man is physically strong. The lack of menstruation is certainly nice, and so is not going through menopause (watching my wife go through it now). But I will say my hormones aren’t necessari… | /r/MensRights | 02/12/24 10:04 PM |
| 6 | Why do you agree/disagree with feminism?Yeah I thought that was pretty funny. They’re simultaneously telling us we’re wrong but then also wondering why they’re being downvoted. | /r/MensRights | 20/11/24 08:02 PM |
| 3 | Why do you agree/disagree with feminism?The definition literally says the advocacy of women's rights You bringing in men’s rights is your own definition. Which again, feminism means 100 things to 100 people. | /r/MensRights | 20/11/24 07:49 PM |
| 4 | Why do you agree/disagree with feminism?I never disagreed with that.. Then it seems to me your problem should be with feminists, who only push to end violence against women (according to a major feminist organization). | /r/MensRights | 20/11/24 07:48 PM |
| 4 | Why do you agree/disagree with feminism?the advocacy of women's rights They advocate for women’s rights based on the assumption that men have all the rights. | /r/MensRights | 20/11/24 07:45 PM |
| 4 | Why do you agree/disagree with feminism?And when you look at violence/crimes against a gender it’s more than just that, because men are also committing those crimes against other men. We need to get to the issue of WHY people are committing those crimes, and if it is targeted attacks WHY they are the targets. Ok then let’s get back to your original train of thought. Why focus on violence against women, and not just violence against people? | /r/MensRights | 20/11/24 07:44 PM |
| 4 | Why do you agree/disagree with feminism?Which definition? Because when I look online I see this: the advocacy of women's rights on the basis of the equality of the sexes. But you’re telling me that includes men’s rights, when clearly the definition focuses on women. I’d also argue the definition doesn’t matter as much as the policies of people who run major feminist organizations like NOW. | /r/MensRights | 20/11/24 07:41 PM |
| 9 | Why do you agree/disagree with feminism?men are also committing those crimes against other men Why bring this up? Is it my fault as a man that other men commit violence? That’s why I said integrate both! I noticed your post on the femism subreddit got deleted. So let me know how that goes. | /r/MensRights | 20/11/24 07:38 PM |
| 8 | Why do you agree/disagree with feminism?Only if you listen to the extreme “feminists”. and there’s the no true Scotsman rhetoric I mentioned in another comment. Feminism if used correctly Correctly according to who? | /r/MensRights | 20/11/24 07:32 PM |
| 4 | Why do you agree/disagree with feminism?Let me guess - MRAs should just join feminism? My mistake, you did say that! Why can’t feminism join men’s rights? | /r/MensRights | 20/11/24 07:24 PM |
| 8 | Why do you agree/disagree with feminism?Why can’t men’s rights be part of feminism? And that’s the motte and Bailey argument i already mentioned. Because feminists will readily claim that they support equality for women and men but when it comes down to it, their resources go to supporting women. From my point of view they already are Men are more likely to experience violence than women, yet feminist organizations are dedicated to ending violence against women. Not both. They clearly are not concerned with everyone equally. https://n… | /r/MensRights | 20/11/24 07:23 PM |
| 9 | Why do you agree/disagree with feminism?“Feminism” is a meaningless term that means 100 different things to 100 different people. “Feminists” will readily call JK Rowling a TERF with no awareness that they’re calling her a feminist and that that’s a bad thing. The modern feminist movement is full of motte and bailey arguments as well as no-true Scotsman arguments (see the JK Rowling point above). Arguing whether feminism is bad or not is a complete waste of time. “Feminism” in men’s rights circles is like “the patriarchy” in feminist … | /r/MensRights | 20/11/24 07:05 PM |
| 5 | “Patriarchy hurts men too”So no empathy from you for men on those issues? Also, how funny that this was the top recommendation for me right under your comment: https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/1gnbzrx/20yearold_oxford_student_found_dead_by_suicide/?chainedPosts=t3_1grwekf | /r/MensRights | 16/11/24 02:22 AM |
| 10 | Does anybody else enjoy watching transwomen expose some of the BS around women's sports?Yeah they’re out there. Two examples off the top of my head: https://www.runnersworld.com/runners-stories/a34701669/trans-running-community/ https://www.courier-journal.com/story/entertainment/television/2023/02/03/cat-runner-a-transgender-louisville-athlete-wins-hbos-the-climb/69869988007/ The big thing you’re going to see with trans men in sports though is that they’re taking testosterone, which is a banned substance in most sports. | /r/MensRights | 15/11/24 06:37 PM |
| 55 | Another attempt by The Guardian to demonize schoolboysYou will see all over Reddit people complaining about voters not voting for their own interests. LGBT and minorities voting for republicans, for instance. But the moment it comes to white males all of a sudden they’re supposed to vote for other people’s interests. Now they’re supposed to vote for women’s rights and lgbt rights, and not for the guy who appeals directly to them. | /r/MensRights | 15/11/24 06:24 PM |
| 19 | “Patriarchy hurts men too”It makes me sad that you assume that an oppressed group would immediately return the same oppression. Go into the feminist subreddit and talk about how men commit suicide at higher rates than women. That they’re more likely to be homeless. That they’re less likely to finish high school, less likely to go to college, and less likely to finish college. Let us know how that goes and how much empathy the “oppressed group” has for the men who are not the in the top rungs of society. | /r/MensRights | 15/11/24 06:18 PM |
| 5 | Do you hate feminism to its core?Depends on what you mean by feminism. Yeah at this point feminism is a meaningless term that means 100 different things to 100 different people. Even feminists use the term TERF (trans exclusionary radical FEMINIST) as an insult. Try to nail down a feminist on what feminism is and isn’t will be met with “no true Scotsman”’rebuttals. | /r/MensRights | 22/10/24 10:09 PM |
| 3 | This describes my upbringing perfectly. Why’d she have to go and ruin it by blaming the “patriarchy”?Or he may have "opted out" and let "Mother" take over-Mother, who was also shaped by patriarchy. I love how even if the father is absent, even if the mother is the head of the household, it’s still the fault of “patriarchy.” Mother, whose judgment was more severe than Dad's, her eyes soul-blind, her ears soul-deaf; or Mother, who in her essential hatred for men, sucked her son's life out. Literally right there she says women can hate men so much that they’re shitty to their sons. But that’s the … | /r/MensRights | 12/09/24 06:33 PM |
| 27 | Our sub is seeing a LOT of "What do you think" posts, usually relating to pro fem lies. Often from accounts who've never posted in the Mens Rights sub/femtrolls, with new/rarely used accounts, or are bots being trained in AI that are scraping our data. Neither are good-see how to catch them...Another tip for new (and long time) Reddit users - looking at someone’s post history is good media-literacy. Don’t let anyone convince you it’s “not cool” to judge if someone is a troll based on what else they’ve posted. | /r/MensRights | 11/09/24 07:03 PM |
| 34 | Just got the prove that they do not fight for rights and respect, they fight for retaliation and revengeYeah that whole thread is annoying AF. So many people saying the rest of us “don’t get it.” We get the point, it’s just a dumbass point. come on, this is nothing compared to what we went trough That’s the mentality there. A bunch of fucking children on Reddit acting like they personally lived through the suffragette movement. | /r/MensRights | 24/06/24 09:19 PM |
| -1 | Why is Menslib about femininity?The Patriarchy benefits the women far more than the men Agreed. And this is something I’ve said to my wife - rarely will feminists try to “fix” the parts of society that benefit women. You don’t see them encouraging women to be plumbers or trash collectors. You don’t see them trying to ensure men have fair treatment in child custody cases despite complaining that women are seen as the default parent. I could go on, but I’m sure you know. The part of OPs statement I disagreed with was this: Men a… | /r/MensRights | 13/06/24 02:56 AM |
| -3 | Why is Menslib about femininity?Men make up 66% of parliament. I know it’s unpopular here to mention the word “patriarchy,” but the people in power tend to be men. That’s a fact. That doesn’t mean all men have power though. The men in power are more than happy to send other men off to die in wars. And I’m not saying women in power won’t do the same thing. But I’ll say it again, it’s silly to blame women exclusively for the problems men face. | /r/MensRights | 13/06/24 01:49 AM |
| 1 | Why is Menslib about femininity?A “gynocentric government” that’s run primarily by men. Certainly some men are the problem when it comes to men’s issues. Trying to blame all of societies issues on one group of people is silly and not productive. | /r/MensRights | 13/06/24 12:04 AM |
| 230 | Why is Menslib about femininity?Menslib attempts to talk about men’s issues under the umbrella of feminism. Because not kowtowing to feminism is seen as being hostile to women. But feminism is about women, even if they try to pretend it’s about equal rights for men too. A simple glance at the r/ askfeminists faq will confirm this. | /r/MensRights | 12/06/24 08:31 PM |
| 3 | Man vs. Bear is a divisive talking point and it just hit me in a vulnerable place.It comes back to a baby experiment I read about. Let a baby crawl towards its mother. Put an obstacle in the way. Boy babies will try to crawl over/around or push it out of the way. Girl babies will stop and cry. Do you have a source for that? All I can find are TikTok videos which I will not watch. | /r/MensRights | 12/06/24 08:21 PM |
| 14 | Lawmakers move to automate Selective Service registration for all menFeminists will fall back to “well no one should get drafted, so we don’t support adding women to selective service.” And then call you an idiot for wanting equality. And then do literally nothing to stop men from being forced to sign up for selective service. | /r/MensRights | 11/06/24 01:07 AM |
| 10 | The privilege of being a male:Society treats women as if they have no agency. No ability to make their own decisions, no ability to handle their own problems, and no ability to affect change in their own lives. Men on the other hand are seen as having agency. They’re expected to figure it out, solve problems, and deal with the consequences of those decisions. It’s the foundation of modern feminist thought, and the worst part is it just reinforces the problems women are facing in society. | /r/MensRights | 29/05/24 06:45 PM |
| 1 | NY Senator Who Passed "Trump Assault Law" Now Calls It Unconstitutional After He's Accused!I saw this yesterday in another subreddit and I can’t find anything where he’s claiming this law is unconstitutional. In this video there’s two quotes, both of which were in the right wing NY Post. “I voted in favor of the act to ensure all New Yorkers can seek justice and be heard.” As well as “these allegations are absolutely untrue. My work and advocacy will continue.” Literally nothing about the law being unconstitutional. | /r/MensRights | 08/05/24 10:29 PM |
| 1 | Feminism: it's always rights for women and responsibilities for men.So instead of that specific man paying the cost of raising the child, all of society pays? That's my problem with the whole argument. I agree that men should have rights, but I don't want to be financially responsible for someone else's choice. I know guys don't want to hear "keep it in your pants", but unfortunately freedom comes with responsibility. | /r/MensRights | 31/08/16 03:51 PM |
| 5 | Ask this of any person the next time they say men were privileged in the past.So look, I get what you're saying, but I think the real world dynamics are a lot more complex then you seem to think. Would any woman see that as a privilege for her I'm sure plenty would. and would not most men see their new position as an upgrade? I would not. I think most of my friends would not. I'm sure a large majority of men would be uncomfortable with not being able to work and provide for themselves and having to be dependent on a woman for support. I'm sure many men would be uncomforta… | /r/MensRights | 11/08/16 07:54 PM |
| 28 | Dr Helen Smith Explains Why Men Need To Boycott MarriageThe woman in pink's argument (and the other guy, I think that's Tucker Carlson), which I think Dr. Smith gave back to them in simple terms, is that being married to a woman is a reward in itself. She also does a good job in pointing out to them that their experience as high level men and women and the experience of their friends is much different than the average person. | /r/MensRights | 01/04/16 06:44 PM |
| 37 | Dr Helen Smith Explains Why Men Need To Boycott MarriageTL;DR: Men are opting out of marriage because the costs far outweigh the benefits. | /r/MensRights | 01/04/16 06:41 PM |
| 1 | "Don't put your hands on me"I understood that reference! | /r/MensRights | 30/03/16 06:13 PM |
| 1 | What an awesome idea!see: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Vyq61qQF9ik and also the follow up: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SWhhPWyWCv0 | /r/MensRights | 09/03/16 06:34 PM |
| – | Getting tired of being constantly glared at for being out with my daughter in publicyeah I've never had the problem either. If anything I get lots of smiles when I'm out with my daughter. My wife used to watch Grey's Anatomy, and there was an episode where one of the doctor's (the main character's husband) took his daughter to daycare and was getting dirty looks from one of the women that worked there. He thought it was a race thing, his daughter was a different color them him (I think she was adopted, not sure, I only partially paid attention. I'm probably butchering this stor… | /r/MensRights | 18/02/16 12:15 AM |
| – | Viral video shows girl beating up boy at school, some people actually commend her for itNo context I think that's kind of the point the principle makes when she says "Some of the Facebook comments applaud the girl for beating up the boy, suggesting he was a bully who got what he deserved..... People are commenting on Facebook without any knowledge of the incident, and it's just unfortunate that those are the things we deal with". You can even look at the comments here on this page. "fucking good on her. I hope it really fucking hurt" "Wasn't she getting bullied? So she defended her… | /r/MensRights | 17/02/16 07:39 PM |
| – | When a father takes care of their child it's "babysitting"You (thats hypothetical not specifically you) cant in one breath complain that men need to "step up" when it comes to child care but then in the next deem it to be lesser care than what moms give. I'd almost argue that it's the opposite though - that the supervisor was making a joke that 'babysitting' is beneath the guy doing it since babysitting is a job typically reserved for teenage girls. I don't think he means the man is doing a lesser job than the mother. I wouldn't be offended by this per… | /r/MensRights | 15/12/15 04:56 PM |
| – | Action Opportunity: End Misandry and Gender Discrimination Against Kindergarten Boys in Violation of Title IXhttp://www.washingtonexaminer.com/kindergarten-teacher-denies-legos-to-boys-in-name-of-gender-equity/article/2576760 The school district, Keller and the Blakely Elementary principal have each released statements regarding the report. Keller claimed she only instituted the "girls only" Lego play for the first month of school to get them interested in the toys. She also said her "hell freezing over" remark was "a casual, off-record aside meant to convey my frustration with the marketing to girls i… | /r/MensRights | 19/11/15 11:33 PM |
| 6 | The Navy is now teaching that "male privilege" is domestic violence against women and that violent movies, tv shows and books turn men into abusershttp://articles.dailypress.com/1995-11-30/news/9511300054_1_arabian-sea-mayo-s-mother-uss-america The floatation shit is legit. This happened only a few years before I joined the Marine Corps, and it was still on people's minds at the time I went on deployment. Mayo, of the Norfolk-based aircraft carrier USS America, had been given up for dead after rescue crews combing the giant ship's path failed to find a trace of him after two days of searching, Navy officials said Wednesday. Mayo, however, … | /r/MensRights | 08/10/15 07:03 PM |
| – | Paul Nungesser & Mattress Girl Case - Now That It’s Being Sued, ‘Red Light’ Columbia Cozies Up to Free Speechyou know there's a 'save' button right? | /r/MensRights | 02/09/15 05:53 PM |
| 5 | Mother hits my car this morning, won't exchange insurance, I call cops, who treat me like abuser. I find out later the woman told them I was threatening her.interesting, I didn't know that was a thing. Seems pretty stupid that they can raise your rates just because you're unlucky and had to use your insurance. | /r/MensRights | 01/09/15 11:53 PM |
| – | Mother hits my car this morning, won't exchange insurance, I call cops, who treat me like abuser. I find out later the woman told them I was threatening her.my rates going up even assuming the accident is ruled her fault. Your insurance company won't raise your rates if you're not at fault. | /r/MensRights | 01/09/15 09:51 PM |
| 21 | "Women are disproportionately murdered in the workplace" - Here's a nice rebuttal in simple graph form!Statistics don't lie, but statisticians (and the general public) do. That's exactly the point. You can use a very real number to tell a completely deceiving story (as was done here). It creates a "super lie" because you have a whole lot of truth with the lie. And I'd argue there's also the ability of statistics to lie to the analyst as well when they interpret them wrong or don't do follow up analysis. I'd give this guy the benefit of the doubt and say he didn't lie on purpose to prove a point. … | /r/MensRights | 28/08/15 06:54 PM |
| 3 | Women unknowingly confirms core RP themes, article blows up with agreement from women all over Facebook and my feed.Men can't simply be classified as either being like Biff Tannen or George McFly. Even in the article, it assumed that the alpha stud was necessarily a bona fide asshole, which need not be the case; or that the beta was necessarily the type to call several times and bring flowers on the first date. I have somewhat of a theory about that. I think there's two general types of people out there, monogamists and the daters. I think there's a lot of very successful and "alpha" type men out there who ar… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/08/15 05:56 PM |
| 4 | Gabbi Reece describes how to keep an alpha male happyOne of the comments on that article says that applies to all men, not just the alpha males. But here's the thing, she says this because she knows her dude will handle his shit. 1.Respect his masculinity and give him space. Men know what they need to do when you give them the space to do it and allow them to step into their power. The implicit understanding here is that when she gives her husband space, he gets shit done. When she gives him space there's no lack of leadership in the marriage, he … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/08/15 08:26 PM |
| 54 | Woman thinks her guy friend is being an 'asshole' because he's no longer doing nice things for her after she rejected him.She asked if I could help her move out of her ex husbands house and into her new house (1st red flag, shes only 24 and divorced), Bro that's not a red flag. That's like a highway barricade with giant flashing lights on top telling you there's a cliff up ahead. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/08/15 05:40 PM |
| 3 | If you're gonna commit to anyone, commit to your own biological children; never the mother.Keep in mind that Gustavo was manipulating Walt to work for him by attacking his greatest insecurity in that scene. So I've been thinking about OPs post for the past day, and I really think this is a main thing he missed. Gus really doesn't give a fuck about providing for his family, he cares about the power of his position. Wealth is just a side effect. And to a certain extent I would say Walter White is the same way. He is torn between the prestige of being the great Heisenberg and being a dad… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/15 05:36 PM |
| 2 | If you're gonna commit to anyone, commit to your own biological children; never the mother.80% of the drama in that show could have been eliminated by walter white having a set of balls, being honest with his wife, then telling her to shut the fuck up or leave. there's like 30 hours of boring conversation saved. So I'm with you, I made it to season 4, which was a chore, and I kind of gave up. Eventually I'll pick it up again just to say I watched it. I think what you're saying is kind of the point of the show. You have this guy who's a complete loser that's given up on life. He's a gr… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/15 05:24 PM |
| 2 | Is T.H.T. a good workout program?8-12 is best for strength + size 8-12 reps is ideal for non-functional hypertrophy. You'll gain size faster then you would lifting for 5 reps, but you're strength gains will be limited. It sounds like you're a beginner when it comes to lifting? You'll probably see results on almost any program. And honestly anyone saying their program is "better" than another is full of shit. Some programs are going to be better at building strength, others size, and others building explosive power. If you have … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/08/15 08:30 PM |
| 15 | I wore shorts to the office and nothing will ever be the sameWhy is this even on this sub? It's about an idiot and shorts. Not about men's rights I agree the guy comes off as kind of an idiot, especially him giving fashion advice when it appears he doesn't even own an iron. But I don't think it's unreasonable to have a discussion of workplace attire. Women have the freedom to wear dresses or skirts without stockings when it's hot out, not to mention open toed shoes. Why can't men have the freedom to wear knee length shorts when it's hot out? | /r/MensRights | 05/08/15 08:12 PM |
| 1 | Major bank gives free money to female employees to correct the gender wage gap - Chaos ensuesHere's a basic question for someone starting a bank - how do they make money? In today's interest rate environment small banks simply can't function | /r/TheRedPill | 01/08/15 02:42 PM |
| 8 | Major bank gives free money to female employees to correct the gender wage gap - Chaos ensuesIt's kind of hard to explain in a short post on mobile. Banks lend out money based on their deposits. But they only keep a certain amount of capital free and available to pay back those deposits. Capital (as it relates to capital ratios) can be lots of things like tbills, but in general let's call it cash. Banks are expected to have a certain amount of capital on hand at all times, I think teir 1 is 4%. A bank that's undercapitalized doesn't have enough cash free to pay their depositors if a bun… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/08/15 02:29 PM |
| 2 | Veteran comes home, catches wife cheating with 3 year old daughter was home.And the best feeling is when you're in college and probably won't ever do that shit again. Absolutely. Sometimes I would think "man, I should go back in, that shit was awesome." Then I'd remember all of the bad stuff that came along with it and think "nah, fuck that". | /r/TheRedPill | 31/07/15 05:34 PM |
| 3 | Veteran comes home, catches wife cheating with 3 year old daughter was home.And being capable of walking around in 100+ degree heat with 70lbs of nylon and bullets strapped to your balls makes you feel big too. I don't know, that shit just made me question the decisions I had made in life leading me to that point. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/07/15 05:16 PM |
| 4 | 30-Day Sleep Challenge over at the main subI usually get between 8-9 hours of sleep a night, assuming the kids don't wake up in the middle of the night. People are always surprised I sleep so much, but I think it's one of the main reasons I can be as productive as I am during the day. I also notice that I'm way better at controlling my eating habits when I'm getting regular sleep, and when I sleep less I go off the rails with candy and shit. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 31/07/15 05:08 PM |
| 1 | Anniversary coming up: Ideas neededNot sure how much money you want to spend. Have you been to the House of Prime Rib? It's awesome. They only serve prime rib for a main course, and you order based on thickness. They roll out a cart with slabs of prime rib and cut the meat for you on the spot. You could get a hotel close by for a home base and spend some time either exploring SF or go across the bridge to the Marin Headlands. Battery Spencer is pretty cool if you don't go out that way often. There's a ton of other WW2 bunkers out… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 30/07/15 05:26 PM |
| 2 | Lift and/or Cardio?Do you like cardio? If so do some cardio. If not just start lifting regularly and start eating better/count calories. That will easily get you where you need to be. If you enjoy doing cardio or HIIT then incorporate it in. Something that worked well for me to cut down was doing chest/shoulders Monday and Friday, lower body/back on Wednesday, and 8x200m runs on Tuesday and Saturday with a 1 mile warm up and a 1 mile cool. That provided a good mix of weights and some cardio. Rest on Wednesday and … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/07/15 12:06 AM |
| 1 | Any given day you can go into female spaces like TwoX or Relationshits and find RP truths everywhere...a beta husband finds his wife's sex tape with ChadThere's an askmen post with almost exactly that. I can't link to it but it exists. Man I'm trying to find that post but I can't, it's been a while. I think I know which one you're talking about, where the girlfriend find's her college boyfriend's scrapbook showing her all of the romantic stuff he used to do for his high school girlfriends, but she's basically in a friends with benefit kind of situation. She wants him to commit more to her, but he says he doesn't want to now because he can get ho… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/07/15 08:50 PM |
| 5 | Where have all the good men gone?Western military strength is at an all time high and no one is trying to invade. The two situations aren't comparable. I would be very interested in understanding just how well the United States could stand up against a coordinated attack between China and Russia if those countries decide Western 'democracy' has run its course. | /r/MensRights | 22/07/15 08:22 PM |
| 2 | You Are What You EatSo what should you eat? My advice is to pick your favorite foods, because you’ll find that you eat the same things over and over, mainly because they hit your numbers. One thing that's helped me a ton in losing weight is to try to get at least 4-6 servings of fruit and vegetables a day. A serving being either 1/2 a cup of veggies/fruit or 1 cup of leafy vegetables like lettuce or kale. It's a lot easier to feel full after eating 4 cups of lettuce than it is to eat 1/2 cup of rice, and the lettuc… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/07/15 07:40 PM |
| 1 | Man faces 6 months in prison for disagreeing with feminist on twitter (No joke..)Right, I assumed it was a biased article, which tends to be common. But nope. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/07/15 01:51 AM |
| 5 | Man faces 6 months in prison for disagreeing with feminist on twitter (No joke..)When I clicked on the article I expected to see the guy had said some nasty things on Twitter I thought the same. I clicked through thinking that surely this guy did something that he was actually arrested and went to court (and has been on bail, banned from using the internet for 2 years). Nothing. I did a Google search and even looked at Jezebel. Not a thing. You would think if this guy was harassing people on twitter there would be screen caps of some of the things he said. You'd think Jezebe… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/07/15 05:06 PM |
| 2 | The Feminist Case For Paternity LeaveWhen my second kid was born I wanted to take a couple extra weeks of paternity leave. But I felt like it was subtly discouraged at work, and while my wife would have loved to have me home there was the issue of who was going to pay the bills if I was only getting 60% pay and my wife was off work too. So I took the standard week off. It'd be awesome if more companies encouraged fathers to take time off so they can bond with their children and actually be active participants in their kids' lives. … | /r/MensRights | 10/07/15 05:38 PM |
| 5 | How to stop being a loser in life.yeah that's something I've been trying to do the past few years - don't focus on the end goal so much as focus on the process. So like you said, instead of saying "I'm going to have a great body", you can instead break it down into a process. "I will workout 1 hour a day 6 days a week, for the next 6 months. I will track my calories every day. I will only have a cheat meal once a week." And one of the good things about the process is that if you fall off the wagon one day you just get right back… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/15 06:41 PM |
| 1 | Why Kids Need Their DadsBut I'm wondering if the intent there is to encourage fathers by making it clear you don't have to be "super-dad" to be effective? Yeah, I know that's what they were trying to say. But they really did a poor job of wording it, I thought it was funny. It really plays into that "daddy does everything wrong" stereotype that seems to be so common. | /r/MensRights | 02/07/15 06:39 PM |
| – | Why Kids Need Their DadsHaha, holy shit: Even dads with average parenting skills can make a real impact on their children's lives Thanks? I would love to see the reaction to an article in a mainstream magazine that started off with "Even mothers with average parenting skills can make a real impact on their children's lives". | /r/MensRights | 02/07/15 12:20 AM |
| – | I am a former mod of tumblrinaction who has been around SJ activists for over three years and this microaggressions list is easily in the top 10 most ridiculous instances of this ideology I've ever seenCan I say that I think most of these are legitimate in one way or another without getting downvoted? Some of the examples are stupid, but then I find some of the others kind of offensive. Now on the flip side I believe people should develop thick skin to insensitive comments, but I also think we should teach people to show some tact around others. For example: “When I look at you, I don’t see color.” Well the thing is people do have color and cultural heritage, and many of them are proud to be b… | /r/MensRights | 25/06/15 07:27 PM |
| 6 | Male to male shit testingThat was kind of my thought too. The other day I read something about bodybuilding.coms misc board's "toxic masculinity" and how they were surprised they show empathy and helped someone out. Oh, it was in fat logic, about a fat guy they helped lose weight. I think what a lot of people, including men, don't realize about other men is we might give people shit and call them names, but we don't mean anything by it. It's just friendly, and sometimes not so friendly, banter. If the shit hit the fan t… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/15 01:32 PM |
| 8 | Yes, AWALT: Famous Photo of POW Coming Home Doesn't Show Entire Storyhttp://terminallance.com/2010/11/16/terminal-lance-81-myths-and-legends-iii/ | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/15 09:11 PM |
| 34 | TIL that 8.2% of males in juvenile facilities report staff sexual misconduct, as opposed to 2.8% of females. 89% of the misconduct is perpetrated solely by women.God those poor women, locked up with those juvenile delinquents who just take advantage of them. | /r/MensRights | 19/06/15 09:24 PM |
| 1 | [BP Example] Why a Mother Doesn't Want to Be TouchedSometimes I dream that Mel has left me, so I sit up for a few hours realizing that I can’t keep a budget, cook worth a damn, decorate a home, grow a garden, manage my emotions, sleep alone, care for the kids, or organize anything from my files to my dresser. I would be lost without her. There's the crux right there. He's basically the dreaded man child. Helpless without his wife. He's just another child his wife has to take care of. He even confirms this: While Mel is assertive with me, outside … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/06/15 06:34 PM |
| 42 | Someone on r/GetMotivated posts an inspirational quote about becoming a better man. Bluepill weenies and women start throwing a tantrum in the comments.Kind of reminds me of that Ronnie Coleman quote: "everyone wants to be a bodybuilder but nobody wants to lift heavy weights." People love the idea of "getting motivated". Getting motivated is a state. If I'm a fat ass just sitting there playing video games all day with no desire to do anything then I'm a loser. But if I'm getting motivated to work out then I'm something. Tomorrow I'll lift. Tomorrow I'll run. It's okay for me to play these games now, because I'm just getting motivated for what's… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/06/15 02:21 PM |
| 3 | Women dresses up as a man for 18 months to experience what men go through. Amazing videohaha, yes. How dare you ask questions and try to gain any understanding. | /r/MensRights | 10/06/15 12:31 AM |
| – | Women dresses up as a man for 18 months to experience what men go through. Amazing videoIn actuality, she just wanted me to listen, agree and sympathize rather than try to solve the issue at hand, something I feel is part of who I am. Lesson learned I suppose despite knowing that I'll never get the same understanding concerning where I'm coming from. Everyone says the dude is the one who has to compromise on this. Someone else linked the "it's not about the nail" video (which I hate). And to a certain extent you should learn that a woman will want to vent a bit and doesn't want you… | /r/MensRights | 09/06/15 06:22 PM |
| 1 | I'll repost in askTRP if necessary, but I'd rather ask this here: Are you guys happy?Drawing out my entire life would be a challenge. Well I shouldn't say entire life, I think we went back to like high school or something. I'm not planning on stopping any of the progress, but I don't think I'm successful. This line in your OP made me think of another exercise we had to do. We had to envision ourselves looking on at our funeral. We had to describe what kind of people were there and what we hoped they said about us when they spoke. And how did that jive with what we wanted them to… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/06/15 06:26 PM |
| 1 | I'll repost in askTRP if necessary, but I'd rather ask this here: Are you guys happy?We did an exercise a while back in my MBA program where we had to draw a timeline of our life, and we had to plot how we felt during that time, from 'really happy' to 'really miserable'. So time was on the x axis, happiness on the y axis. It turned out to be a really good exercise because it gave me an overall idea of times I felt content or happy, and times I did not. I remember one of the big realizations for me was that I was actually pretty happy during the time I was in the Marine Corps, wh… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/06/15 08:39 PM |
| – | Isn't it nice to have over 73% of your six-figure income taken care of by your ex-husband?I think the second situation is fair because that was the choice made by the family and by person who took time off of work for a child. He/she could have hired a nanny, or put the children in daycare. They could have told their spouse they wanted to split time more equitably. They could have simply chosen not to have children. But instead they chose to take time off of work to spend with the children. They got to enjoy the perks of taking time off, they got to spend more time with their kids wh… | /r/MensRights | 02/06/15 12:04 AM |
| 2 | Manhood: The Economist weighs in on what happens to inadequately educated men in rich countries.Women have been poaching the best men for thousands of years, you're a fool if you believe this is something new caused by feminine primacy. that's the one thing you picked out? | /r/TheRedPill | 29/05/15 11:37 PM |
| 1 | Manhood: The Economist weighs in on what happens to inadequately educated men in rich countries.I read the first article, and I think it's quite good. There really isn't any economical talk or discussion on how this trend has affected economies of the societies in which this phenomenon is happening except it did. The author mentions how single mothers end up "married to the taxpayer", creating a burden to everyone. It talked about how a lack of available men creates instability in marriages overall as women attempt to poach good men from stable marriages. It also says that disenfranchised … | /r/TheRedPill | 29/05/15 06:55 PM |
| 2 | Best full body workout.for aspiring AlphasI like the original New Rules of Lifting. Lots of good plans depending on your goals including strength, hypertrophy, and fat loss. And I believe it was written with the idea of helping the average person out who needed work in mobility and small stabilizer muscles. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/05/15 07:08 PM |
| – | Make forced conscription gender neutral or abandon it.'Forced conscription' is a redundant term. Conscription by definition means forced or compulsory. To take it a step further conscription tends to be a blanket program where everyone of a certain bracket, say 18 year old men for instance, is enlisted into the military. The US draft on the other hand only picks a certain number of people, in this case still men, to fill the ranks the military feels it needs. Not every man who turns 18 in the US is necessarily going to end up in the military under … | /r/MensRights | 05/03/15 10:35 PM |
| – | Make forced conscription gender neutral or abandon it.I'm not splitting hairs here I get what you're saying. I think people think you are splitting hairs and don't realize that conscription is the actual act of forcing people to join the military. The selective service, on the other hand, is an agency that maintains the names and contact information of young men in case the country decides to implement a conscription program. | /r/MensRights | 05/03/15 08:26 PM |
| 24 | Guy dates fat chick. Fat chick loses weight and finds a better man.As soon as the girl knew she had better options, she stopped caring about the guy's personality and left him. Briffault's law dude. It is what it is. Let's look at this guy's winning personality that she talked about in her blog post: You have to remind him how much you love him, constantly He will be a child forever. He makes mistakes, but he apologizes when he knows he messed up. He’s wrong. A lot. He will shower you with affection. His favorite days will consist of doing absolutely nothing… w… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/01/15 11:37 PM |
| – | Science Has Finally Shown That Girls Are Smarter At School Than Boys: Could you imagine if the sexes were reversed there would be all out hysteria throwing all available resources to address the problem...but because its boys we just jeer and turn a blind eyehttp://opinionator.blogs.nytimes.com/2013/02/02/the-boys-at-the-back/ The study’s authors analyzed data from more than 5,800 students from kindergarten through fifth grade and found that boys across all racial groups and in all major subject areas received lower grades than their test scores would have predicted. The scholars attributed this “misalignment” to differences in “noncognitive skills”: attentiveness, persistence, eagerness to learn, the ability to sit still and work independently. As … | /r/MensRights | 29/01/15 12:15 AM |
| 7 | Askreddit thread gives us an unfiltered glance into the mind of an "average" woman.that reminds me of a post I saw yesterday in relationships: There are a lot of guys who have seen plenty of escorts in the past, but realized that they can pay less and get more from naïve girls on sugar dating websites. A lot of pretty hardcore manipulation goes on- these guys will push that they "don't want a hooker" because they are trying to make these girls feel good. They aren't looking for a hooker. They are trying to create a cheap hooker for themselves. Call it grooming. There's some pr… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/01/15 07:23 PM |
| 5 | Need Red Pill advice on marriageevery single time you feel rage drop down and do some pushups. Hit the gym hard and get all of that aggression out every single day. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/09/14 09:36 PM |
| 17 | Never EVER Fill the silence!If the person counters that they can only do $50k then it's on you to take it or leave it. Or ask for another concession such as extra time off, a bonus, or a guaranteed performance review at 6 months with a potential salary increase if they like your work. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/08/14 11:30 PM |
| 9 | TRP for job interviews, outside the plating zoneWhenever you interview treat it as a joint interview - you're interviewing them to see if they're worth working for just as much as you're being interviewed for the position. Think of how you'd act trying to pick up a girl. If she's the only one doing the qualifying then you probably don't qualify. Ask questions about the position, the industry, the group. What kind of skills are the most necessary? Can you relate yourself to those skills? If you got hired, what would the first 90 days look like… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/08/14 10:03 PM |
| 27 | Never EVER Fill the silence!There's tons of stuff out there. Sales and negotiation literature especially will have a lot written on the topic. Here's something I found on another website on overcoming common negotiation tactics: (I don't think I can link to it) In the negotiation process, silence can be your strongest tool. If you don’t like what your counterpart has said, or if you’ve made an offer and you’re waiting for a response, just sit back and wait. Most people feel uncomfortable when conversation ceases, and they … | /r/TheRedPill | 18/08/14 07:57 PM |
| 3 | Never EVER Fill the silence!Yeah silence is huge in sales. Look at movies like Boiler Room or Wolf of Wall Street where sales culture is on display and you almost always see silence used at some point, usually to close out the sale. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/08/14 07:51 PM |
| 137 | Never EVER Fill the silence!This goes for so much more then just approaching. Negotiations, work place conversations, arguments with your LTR. There are so many times where you can shoot yourself in the foot by saying something stupid just because you're afraid of a little awkward silence. Let's say you're negotiating for a pay raise. You're offered a salary of $50k, but you ask for $55k in response. The other person sits there quietly for a minute. Just a minute, not a long time at all. But it feels like eternity. So you … | /r/TheRedPill | 18/08/14 04:35 PM |
| 5 | Epic feminist rant on how masculinity should be literally destroyedFeminists love individual men ferociously This is like the racists who says to their black friend "you're so much better than all of those other black guys. When I make black jokes I don't actually mean you, you're cool. It's all those other black guys and black culture that should be killed off." | /r/TheRedPill | 11/08/14 08:12 PM |
| 2 | What crushes the spirit of a man?Why doesn't he quit? He can't. He has a mortgage. And car payments. And credit card debt. And he his kids have student loan debts to pay. And if he quits his job, he'll lose his health insurance which he needs to pay for the high-blood-pressure medication he needs. High blood pressure he got from working a job he hates for so many years. One of my old bosses said that everyone is an indentured servant with no time limit on their contract. You basically work until you either have enough money to … | /r/TheRedPill | 11/08/14 05:01 PM |
| 1 | LTR - Agree (don't amplify) experiences (Fogging)Maybe I'm waaaay over analyzing the situation and response but all I know is that it immediately shut her up and had her treating me with respect again. Maybe you're over thinking it, but if it works you've made a step in the right direction. I definitely think there's something to be said for tone of voice as well. Two people might say the same thing and one is going to come off like the Fresh Prince and another might come off sounding like Steve Urkel. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/08/14 09:55 PM |
| 1 | LTR - Agree (don't amplify) experiences (Fogging)Does she normally take a bath at night? If not why would you in any way imply that you should not have run the dishwasher. I don't think "sorry but I'm not a mind reader" is a beta response, and its really not an apology for running the dishwasher. I really can't see how that would lead to a big fight with personal attacks unless you are both extremely bad at communication. On another note, how small is your water heater and/or how inefficient is your dishwasher that you can't run it and still d… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/08/14 08:50 PM |
| 1 | 18, very confused? I'd love to have a family and stay at home, but I know I need an education? Help?What are you doing now? Going to high school? Have you looked into college at all? Are you accepted anywhere? I feel like this is a troll post for some reason based on how vague you are and the fact that you have no other posts. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/08/14 10:58 PM |
| – | it's not okay to rape or decide for women, but if you are a man, you should agree to marriage...Her focus is on kids, not him. I would venture the guess that is his issue. yeah exactly. All of the comments are saying "he doesn't trust you", which is probably true. But based on what we have here, why should he trust her? I wouldn't say that puts him in the wrong, he probably just realizes that she only wants him for the children. I posted this over on TRP: My boyfriend compared to other guys I dated had the best clean up habits, and we never argued about chores or any of that stuff. Of all … | /r/MensRights | 06/08/14 06:08 PM |
| 24 | Woman's bf doesn't want to get married because he's read TRP - Reddit can't accept a man not wanting marriage.My boyfriend compared to other guys I dated had the best clean up habits, and we never argued about chores or any of that stuff. Of all the things she could have said that she liked about her BF, that's what she went with. That's the hurdle. That's what she is using to define the guy she wants to spend the rest of her life with - he has good clean up habits and they don't argue about chores. This is the kind of marriage that is going to end up exactly like spreadsheet husband because there's no … | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/14 04:51 PM |
| 2 | Redditor has a dead bedroom, wife goes away for a work trip, gets back and starts fucking him again. Guy gets suspicious, and is totally justified.I loved the original thread, where everyone was telling him she was probably just really turned on by being around other men that were interested in her. That he should be thankful for her wanting to get on him at all and that he was being paranoid for no reason. No concern that this woman basically forced him to go bareback. No concern that she didn't want to take the morning after pill the next day. She was quite obviously trying to trap him into thinking he got her pregnant. Contrast that wit… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/08/14 04:46 PM |
| 36 | Reading to my 7 year old: Lets play spot the misandry and submissive pedastalization training for our male youth.....It's kind of interesting though, because a book is something you read to the child (at least early on). So a parent can ask the kid what they think about it and offer their own thoughts on the behavior of the characters in the book. Another book that comes to mind is "The Giving Tree." The book offers up two completely different messages depending on how you look at it. One is the story of the tree, who gives a young boy unconditional love and asks for nothing in return. The other is the story o… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/07/14 06:59 PM |
| 16 | Reading to my 7 year old: Lets play spot the misandry and submissive pedastalization training for our male youth.....Holy shit I hate "The Best Nest". I was reading it the other day and I asked my 3yo son what he thought of Mrs. Bird. "She's not very nice" was his reply. My wife laughs when I read it because I like to add commentary to the two bird's decisions. In particular after the bell is rung and Mrs. Bird flees she just gets out of town and doesn't let Mr. Bird know where she's going. How f'd up is that? Letting him fly around in a rain storm thinking she got eaten by a cat. Way to just leave the guy han… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/07/14 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Sydney shopper leaves abusive note on father's car parked in 'parents-with-prams' spaceI'm not totally sure, but I think it's what they call a stroller. | /r/MensRights | 02/07/14 04:51 PM |
| 2 | Woman's Marriage/Man's Marriage: Two Different WorldsGreat article, and interesting comments as well. It's interesting to see how people view something like this and whether they agree or think men are just grown babies who demand too much attention. One women even went so far as to say she denied her husband sex because he wasn't "persistent enough", but was incredulous that he left her for another woman that was sexually interested in him. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/06/14 09:34 PM |
| 2 | Showerthought: Disney's 'Brave' is sexist in that all male characters fill the "men are laughable, comical, buffoons" media stereotype.Right, he was the one who bought her a bow and tought her how to be more 'manly' then the boys who were trying to be the suitors. | /r/MensRights | 18/06/14 04:16 PM |
| 7 | Men Owe Women NothingMost prominently, "real women have curves". The funny thing is that it's women who throw that around too. I watched a video a few weeks ago talking about how women shame men, but it's nothing compared to the shaming that women save for each other. Saying they're too fat, too skinny, too slutty, too prudish. It's pretty amazing to me how much hate and anger is out there tbh. | /r/MensRights | 17/06/14 04:35 PM |
| 11 | What Is So Wrong With Being Anti-Feminist?I like how the male news anchor starts to get into it, like "man this guy's got a point". | /r/MensRights | 10/06/14 08:32 PM |
| 1 | Boy become men when... they put up with abuse?..Why do I feel like watching Mulan now? | /r/MensRights | 05/06/14 05:01 PM |
| 2 | A Conversation IS Needed - Elliot Rodgers & Male ViolenceI think your question is the premise of the post - feminsts claim to want a discussion regarding male violence, but they really only want to blame men for violence against women. They don't want to discuss that men are also much more likely to be the victims of violence (4 of the 6 people killed by Elliot Rodgers were men) and that men are much more likely to take their own lives despite their "privilege". As is the problem with many feminists, Ms. Decker feels men shouldn’t be having this conve… | /r/MensRights | 02/06/14 07:02 PM |
| 13 | Things have changed. Took the red pill a month ago - married with 2 kidsJust want to second (or third) this thought. Focus on building yourself up and bringing your wife up with you. Resist the temptation to tear her down just to make yourself feel bigger, that's the wrong approach and will only lead to a downward spiral. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/14 05:41 PM |
| 1 | Men can't hit a woman, even if she's attacking your daughter.That quote is so perfect. I love that whole storyline of Jaime. You first think he's this horrible guy that killed the king. Then you start to hear the backstory and you realize you're wrong, even if he's still the guy that pushed a little kid out of a window. | /r/MensRights | 29/05/14 06:21 PM |
| 1 | "Do the right thing!"http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Equal_Rights_Amendment | /r/MensRights | 09/05/14 06:56 PM |
| 2 | Local yoga studio offering mens only classI heard this gymnastics coach talking on a podcast a few weeks ago (Barbell Shrugged) that sounded really knowledgable on strength for gymnastics. He runs a website called [gymnastic bodies] (http://www.gymnasticbodies.com/) . Maybe there's something useful in there? It looks like they have an online program available. It's relatively expensive though. | /r/MensRights | 08/05/14 05:47 PM |
| 2 | Local yoga studio offering mens only classWhat was the gymnastics class for? because there's a ton of different areas from tumbling/mat work (which I believe is primarily focused on women) to ring work or the pommel horse which I think is primarily male dominated. | /r/MensRights | 08/05/14 04:47 PM |
| 105 | What do YOU say right after you kiss a HB?ITT: r/shittyadvice | /r/seduction | 24/09/13 03:08 PM |
| 12 | A simple, effective opener for the women you have class withminor in psychology? | /r/seduction | 13/09/13 03:44 PM |
| 8 | When in doubt, Don't do anything.keep it succinct. I would say this is key to most things in life. Unless you're a lawyer being able to cut out the crap will make everyone like you more. | /r/seduction | 23/06/11 09:55 PM |
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