In most cases when your approaching the girl you will say whatever comes to mind without filters and awareness of the social context. In a few cases ive seen RSD Tyler approach completely silent and extending his hand followed by a hug or high five. When your having a basic introduction conversation and you ask a question or make a statement about something or her she should equally contribute back. All of you know what its like when your started out bonding with girls if there was a silence she would nod and look around. I used to fill the silence saying something thats mildly funny buts subconsciously says BETA! The fucking KEY is to let her fill the silence. Look into her eyes and raise your eyebrows giving the vibe that its her turn to contribute back. If she doesnt. Big deal. If she does great. Remember to smile when she does as shel feel more at ease to open up with you. If your doing most of the talking your trying to validate yourself to her standards like a bitch.