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Yep, mindfulness is a huge one when dealing with BPD. I've also been trying to teach my wife mindfulness in a subtle way. "Hey, I've reading up on this idea of mindfulness, and it's pretty interesting stuff" etc... I think the other main thing that the BPD literature teaches that's not a part of RP, but still crucial when dealing with BPD is mirroring. Learning to be an active listener and mirroring her state really helps. Just knowing that you "understand" is huge. TRP teaches that "communicati…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/15 07:46 PM
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Did you think your wife had it? Has, and yes, I'm pretty positive. The funny thing is though, reading a lot of the BPD literature, most of it just sounds like AWALT type stuff you read on TRP, but the difference is BPD behaviors are pervasive and extreme, instead of occasional and provoked (for varying definitions of 'provoke').
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/15 06:24 AM
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Are there many other men here with possibly BPD wives? Honestly, I have two thoughts about this. On the one hand, I believe BPD is nothing more than emotionally stunted women with abandonment issues. In other words, "AWALT++". On the other hand, I think borderlines drive more men to go scouring the internet looking for answers about why their gf/wife is crazy and/or why their relationships are so fucked up, leading to a large number of men with BPD women coming to TRP.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/15 01:40 PM
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Honestly, I would get out. Things might be looking better, but it's probably just her being on "good behavior" so she can win points to spend later on more bullshit. This sounds like classic borderline personality to me. The violent outbursts, the attention seeking from other men, the childish temper tantrums, push/pull/push/pull, the guilt tripping you for her own bullshit... all are serious red flags for BPD. If so, it'll never really change. People with BPD require 5-10 years in therapy befor…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/01/15 02:39 PM
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Worst part is that an entire generation of men grew up thinking "as you wish" and "she's the ONLY ONE FOR ME" are things that actually work in the real world. The interesting thing is, the "as you wish" gets him nowhere when he's a lowly peasant, but once he's upped his status, learned to fight, got toughened up in general as a man, started holding frame, it suddenly started working. Granted, the second half of the movie, there is a definite sense of irony when he uses it that wasn't there in th…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/14 09:31 PM
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Start here: Male Dominance: A Beginner's Guide
/r/MarriedRedPill28/12/14 11:48 AM
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I saw this going around a while ago. Definitely a great video series. I was a bit disappointed in the end when they tried to pass off some bullshit about being "nice" or something. I don't remember, but there was some serious nonsense in the last 1/4 of the series... Also, I just noticed, OP posted the second episode of the series. Here are all the episodes, which are all pretty relevant: The Alpha Male (S01E01) Hooking Up (S01E02) Social Climbers (S01E03) Actually, I think that's it... I don't …
/r/seduction27/12/14 03:49 AM
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Again, not going to debate it, but maybe post a question about this on /r/atheism. Also google "good without god" to get some reference points from the other perspective.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/12/14 06:21 PM
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I don't think anyone in the RP community would say self-improvement operates in a vacuum, or intentionally limit the "positive externality" (to borrow an economics term) of male self-improvement. But the point is to just focus on self-improvement, and any side-effects that has on society is entirely incidental. In other words, do self-improvement for yourself, and the rest will follow naturally, so there's really no point in discussing the external side-effects. If you focus too much on the side…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/12/14 06:06 PM
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I don't want to get in to a religious debate, but I do want to clear up the notion that atheists are inherently more selfish, or even that evolution promotes such a narrow view of only looking out for your immediate family. It's simply not true, and is a simplistic view of both. The reason TRP doesn't promote "changing the world" is because it's purpose is to survive within the world as it is. Nothing about TRP discourages being an activist, it merely discourages using excuses about how fucked u…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/12/14 02:23 PM
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Maybe illustrating the opposite will help: The typical BP/beta thing to do when your wife refuses sex is to try things like more cuddling, bargaining, buy her flowers, etc, etc. The RP way is to shrug, walk away, play CoD, go get a few beers with friends, etc. Basically, if she's refusing sex, you temporarily refuse to give her your attention. Also, sex isn't non-negotiable. Obviously it is "negotiable". It's just not good to let it get that way. A good RP marriage to a loving, respectful wife w…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/12/14 03:41 AM
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Rollo has a good post on why men are the true romantics.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/12/14 03:44 PM
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Alright ladies, take it outside. I won't have you all getting blood all over the carpet.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/12/14 08:51 PM
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Why are you going shopping with her at all? Let her do it herself. You should have better things to do.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/12/14 08:43 PM
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I would avoid dread game right now. She's obviously already very insecure and confused. If anything, maybe in a very lighthearted way. Otherwise, spot on.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/12/14 07:26 AM
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T levels might a good point, but sexual tension might also be lacking. I think both comments (yours and rpsigma's) attack the problem from different angles, and both are worth pursuing. OP: It sounds like you're on a great path, just need to stick with it and focus on the sexual side of her, emotionally and (possibly) medically. You've got a great woman, just need to keep working on her.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/12/14 07:23 AM
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A non PC truth that even TRP wants to ignore is girls mature faster then boys. Actually, this is a very PC truth, blathered on and on about by SJWs and feminists. The reality is, women start puberty earlier than men, and physiologically mature earlier than men. However, the TRP truth, is the men psychologically mature beyond women. Most women won't mature emotionally or psychologically beyond their teenage/early-twenties years but men will mature their whole life as they face more adversity and …
/r/MarriedRedPill24/12/14 03:44 AM
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Buy him a copy of The Way of the Superior Man and frame it to him like "someone recommended this book and the things they said about it reminded me of you, I thought you'd find it interesting." That way you don't come off like "you need to be a better man!" or some shit, and hopefully he'll read it with the same voracity as most people read descriptions of their own personality types, etc.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/12/14 03:39 AM
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As long as you're genuinely having fun with it and not just hamstering around it.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/12/14 01:33 AM
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Honestly, sounds like it's time to lawyer up and prepare for the divorce. She has zero respect for you and has no intention of ever being a decent wife. We're usually pretty pro staying married around here, but this is some nuclear shit she's spewing. I'd even imagine she already has someone else lined up and is just hoping to bait you in to giving her a good reason to divorce her. My 2 cents.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/12/14 12:00 AM
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Sounds good, bro, keep it up. One point I would question is this: In hindsight, I should have given her a "If you choose to lash out at me like a child, I'm going to respond to you as I would a child." Don't explain it. I can't find it now (maybe someone else can link it) but there was a good comment thread about how you should delay "the talk" about your redpill transformation. Several veteran posters all lamented how having "the talk" either didn't work at all, or made things worse. Demonstrat…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/14 09:17 PM
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There's definitely a balance. TRP has always said "fake it til you make it", and I think there's going to be an element of that here. Sometimes you need to use the "canned" shit test responses before you can really understand how well they work, and start to form the mental connections in order to internalize it. At the same time, I agree that we need to encourage people to adopt the frame and overall mentality of TRP instead of looking to be hand-held the whole time. With the said, what's one t…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/14 06:19 PM
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I'm of two minds on this. On the one hand, I see exactly what you're saying, but if we take it to it's logical conclusion we can say there are no unique situations, and everyone's question can be answered with "read the sidebar". Taken a step further, why have forums and subreddits at all? If no question can't be answered by the sidebar, we should just decommission all of the TRP related subs. On the other hand, there's a natural phenomenon of being an armchair quarterback. It's easy to read som…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/14 05:11 PM
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Where on this sub has anyone suggested negotiating attraction? If you can't be bothered to substantiate your argument why are you even here?
/r/MarriedRedPill22/12/14 07:51 PM
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Then come back when you're prepared to make substantive point.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/12/14 07:46 PM
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Just checked the top comments on several of the recent advice/question posts, and none of them said anything about "more communication" or whatever. There was advice on soft dread, one specifically saying not to talk about it but to just act, etc. Care to give an example? Or better yet, maybe just participate in those threads offering your opinion instead of bitching about it here.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/12/14 07:39 PM
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Yep. Once you start treating it like a game, internalize amused mastery, it kind of becomes like the "Emotion Game". In fact, women treat it that way by default. They use their emotions to try to manipulate your emotions. The win condition here is to be the one that's least emotionally impacted by the other. If you can trigger strong emotions in her without letting her get to you, you win, and she'll (eventually, once she's satisfied that it's legit) reward you with respect, adoration, and hot, …
/r/MarriedRedPill20/12/14 07:58 PM
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How long have you been with her, and how long have you been exclusive with her (or, have you even had the exclusivity talk)? If you've been with her for less than 3-6 months and haven't clearly established exclusivity, I would just start picking up another plate or two to spin and just leave little clues and hints around about it, or subtly and casually imply it in conversation. If you've been together longer, and/or have clearly established exclusivity, I would say start spending more time with…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/14 11:35 PM
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There you go. That's how you know it's working. Break her in, she'll relent eventually and melt in your arms, and it'll be the happiest she's ever been.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/14 01:04 PM
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Honestly, sometimes I think it's a good idea to do exactly that. Give her something bigger to argue about. Then, just don't argue. I don't mean to do it in a petty, butthurt way, but if you're really going full red pill in a previously blue pill marriage, and the only thing she can shit test you about is one dish left unwashed, you aren't doing red pill right. At least at first she should usually be flipping out about you going out with your friends, dressing nicer when you go out, your sudden s…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/14 05:18 AM
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This. Helpful, nit-picky suggestions and corrections are shit tests. It's one thing to be like "oh, that load in wash needs to be done on delicate because my bras are in there", but the examples given are her way of displaying dominance by "having a better idea" all the time. Listen to girls talk to each other, they do this to each other all the time. It's the crab-bucket mentality where they all one-up each other by being even more "helpful" and "polite". The "one-up to absurdity" with the park…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/14 12:32 AM
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Maybe it's because you're just a bitch. Seriously, what's with the shitpost? No context or details, not even married, baseless accusations that it's our fault somehow, and then you just complain about the advice you're given and insult us? How about you post tits or GTFO.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/14 12:22 AM
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Did you cum?
/r/seduction08/10/14 11:06 AM
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Find something fun and interesting to do and invite her to join you. You can't teleport your dick over text.
/r/seduction08/10/14 01:59 AM
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You're texting her too much. By merely giving her someone to talk to you're being "sweet". Text her back with: "it's a date and you're buying." Regardless of her response, agree and amplify. If she agrees to go, don't actually make her buy, just throw down a fair split of the bill plus tip.
/r/askTRP01/10/14 11:24 PM
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Some bars have some kind of event or special on Wednesdays. Ie, tonight I'm going to a local pool hall that has karaoke on Wednesdays.
/r/seduction01/10/14 11:04 PM
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Don't try to prove it to her. She's just being modest/coy. You paid her a compliment, don't belabor it, that's just awkward and needy.
/r/seduction01/10/14 11:02 PM
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http://www.girlschase.com/content/secrets-getting-girls-nicknames-and-callback
/r/seduction01/10/14 10:57 PM
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She's going to get away with whatever she wants. Accept it. Stop caring.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 10:42 PM
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I'm sure she's banging a dozen alphas a month. The hamster doesn't care.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 10:39 PM
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So maybe be a really bad beta? Spill shit out of her purse all the time. Offer to pay for things but you "forgot your wallet" or you're "broke". Constantly apologize for the dumbest shit to the point of being obnoxiously annoying. Lol, it sounds so retarded typing it out, but it just might work. :P
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 10:05 PM
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Read more sidebar. The red pill can't be swallowed in a day. Read, absorb, apply, repeat. Come back in at least a few weeks.
/r/askTRP01/10/14 09:57 PM
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I'm not going to say which is safer, I'm just saying i think a lot of times the dangers of riding are at least somewhat overblown. But obviously there are risks.
/r/askTRP01/10/14 08:50 PM
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http://ridingsafely.com/ridingsafely1.html
/r/askTRP01/10/14 05:31 PM
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"just laid on the couch" = "we made out all night and [probably] gave him a bj."
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 12:43 PM
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Seriously, are the mods asleep?
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 04:15 AM
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Not here to "hammer" and i don't even ride, but motorcycles are relatively safe as long as you don't ride like an ass. Sure they're more dangerous than a car, but only moderately.
/r/askTRP30/09/14 11:43 PM
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If you aren't going to be helpful, don't come here to feel superior. Seriously, there are no natural born Alpha Supremes here, they don't need this place. So trying to act like you have it all figured out and being a snarky ass just comes of as pretentious.
/r/trpGAME30/09/14 11:35 PM
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Kind of what i was trying to get at, but you explained it better.
/r/trpGAME30/09/14 11:34 PM
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Once a week on average maybe... But if she's asking to see you no reason not to. I don't really like the hard and fast rules a lot of people recommend. I get the idea, just seems a bit rigid sometimes. As for dread, simply ignoring a chick isn't really dread. It can be a great way to get the hamster spinning, but real dread game is something like going out to dinner with her and getting hit on by the hot waitress in front of her, and you lightly flirting back.
/r/trpGAME30/09/14 11:33 PM
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This has nothing to do with dread game. Dread game is invoking the fear of loss. Right now you don't even have her, and you haven't said anything here about demonstrating your desirability to other women. Both of these things are essential to dread game. Any way, to answer your question, if you're sure she'll come over and blow/fuck you, why pass that up? Are you going for non-needy or something? Inviting a willing chick to your place for fun sexy time isn't needy. If she declines, that's when y…
/r/trpGAME30/09/14 09:52 PM
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Missing my point. Of course it wouldn't work. Only hapless betas would use it. That's the point.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 08:03 PM
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Having good friends is important. It boosts confidence, gives you a social network for "infield game", provides social proof, develops social skills. You can't just rule it out of being an important part of TRP.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 07:59 PM
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It's a massive shit test. Another prong in the feminine imperative to enable women to identify betas more easily. Any man who follows this asinine law to the letter is a hapless eunuch.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 07:47 PM
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The real mystery is why the mods are sleeping...
/r/askTRP30/09/14 07:42 PM
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"Real men wash dishes and let her control the remote" type bullshit.
/r/askTRP30/09/14 07:40 PM
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Completely. But she doesn't see other men very often, she doesn't have much interest any more since i started applying TRP in my life and upping my SMV. My marriage basically confirms the "women are hypergamous, men are polygamous" theory.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/14 06:41 PM
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You should write this up in an article and submit it to one of the red pill blogs. I would love to have a link to send to feminists that proves TRP/PUA is like this. Sending feminists in to hamster coniption fits is a pastime of mine too.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 01:45 PM
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Did you get that from the random Deepak Chopra quote generator?
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 12:18 PM
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But don't do it because "it will kill her", do it because YOU'RE FREE AND FUCK IT.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/14 02:22 AM
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She might be even more interested. Yep
/r/askTRP29/09/14 11:44 PM
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He said not TRP just other men's stuff.
/r/askTRP29/09/14 05:46 PM
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Go for the date. Trying to be friends first is a bad idea.
/r/seduction29/09/14 05:44 PM
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It's better to start a sexual relationship and make it romantic than to go the other way. Trying to start of romantic and then make it sexual is a great way to get the "lets just be friends" rejection.
/r/seduction29/09/14 04:33 PM
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"Can't make it, something came up." Then ignore anything she says the rest of the day. If you want to meet her later, text to set up a new date a few days later.
/r/askTRP29/09/14 03:46 PM
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Waitresses fuck customers on a regular basis. If you have any game or frame control at all, you'll be fine.
/r/askTRP29/09/14 05:07 AM
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Nit pick: it's "crime of passion" Yeah, the retribution from the frustrated, at his wits-end, beta is a real concern too. But I'd be more worried about her reaction. A woman scorned, etc.
/r/askTRP29/09/14 05:01 AM
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She will ruin you. Think: false rape charges nails in your tires stalking you stealing your mail for identity theft sperm-jacking to con you in to child support. etc etc etc Not worth it man. Especially since he's such a beta he'll probably just forgive her, but you'll be stuck dealing with a crazy bitch trying to get vengeance on you. I've seen it happen. Bitches be crazy, etc. Edit: to be clear, I'm not even making a moral judgment here. Like i said, I've been there, and would probably do it a…
/r/askTRP29/09/14 04:55 AM
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You are the worst possible person to try and fix their marriage. I've been in your shoes (widowed mother with live-in BB boyfriend, me being AF) and i can tell you she will never admit or confess anything. In fact she will really try to ruin you long before she lets you ruin her marriage. She'll throw you under the bus faster than you could imagine. Walk away. You stuck your dick in crazy.
/r/askTRP29/09/14 04:38 AM
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I hate to say it, but it's over. She has someone else, you've already separated. Call a divorce lawyer tomorrow. Then go out and pick up other chicks, get a few plates. Life is short. I know you want to do what's right for the kids, but at this point I bet you can have a better impact on them without her. Just make sure to get a decent custody/visitation schedule. Edit: as for the affair, leave it be. Exposing it buys you nothing, and can only make things worse for you and her. Maybe bring it up…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/14 04:05 AM
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"Don't shit where you eat" applies with your non-pick up spots; work, etc. If you pick up from a bar you're a regular in, it only adds to your social proof. Unless you plan on making the bartender your gf, nothing wrong with ONSing her, as long as you're both on the same page about that and you don't make it awkward after.
/r/askTRP29/09/14 03:59 AM
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http://redpillgame.com/how-to-stalk-bang-lose-your-local-bartender/
/r/askTRP29/09/14 03:52 AM
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Around here we just call it a field report.
/r/askTRP29/09/14 03:26 AM
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Exactly. To them, even your logic probably has some other meaning or they just take it personally that you think you're more logical than them and it's just not fair!
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 03:20 AM
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This.
/r/trpGAME29/09/14 03:15 AM
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There's actually a decent set of articles on girlschase.com about how to do CBT on yourself part 1 part 2
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 01:29 AM
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No, no, no... I believe the shaming tactic you're looking for is Peter Pan Syndrome. He needs to "grow up" and "learn how to treat a lady".
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 01:20 AM
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She takes dicks, I promise you. Pull the trigger. Literally LOLed.
/r/askTRP29/09/14 01:16 AM
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Next time it comes up, give the correct answer as if it's the first time it's come up. If she points out the inconsistency, act like you don't know what she's talking about and change the subject.
/r/trpGAME28/09/14 07:34 PM
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Sounds like you answered your own question then.
/r/seduction28/09/14 03:33 PM
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Get involved in some groups/sports that women do. 5k runs, rock climbing, book clubs, etc. Browse around meetup.com and find something interesting.
/r/seduction28/09/14 02:22 PM
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To expand on the candy analogy, you can say no this time, and stick with it, but next time buy the candy because your a cool guy. Thus is basically the equivalent of a soft next. You next for now, hold frame, then come back later like everything's cool and it never happened.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 01:49 PM
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I think this Rational Male post does a good job of explaining dread. The point of (soft) dread is to satisfy her hypergamy. No woman wants to be with a man who can't, in principle, attract and seduce other woman of her status or higher. As soon as she thinks you can't, game over. So maintaining a subtle and constant state of soft dread will make her happier in the relationship. Basically, your argument amounts to a concern troll in the form of "TRP is manipulative", and like always, our answer i…
/r/askTRP28/09/14 01:37 PM
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hey babe, the "I'm still thinking about it" thing(which I totally respect) feels like an axe looming over my head, so I'm just going to call it us, "being on a break" Brilliant. A dread game master move if I've ever seen one. ♂
/r/askTRP28/09/14 01:23 PM
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Body language isn't that hard in principe, it just takes practice to get it right. Stand tall. Chest out. Chin up. Shoulders relaxed and rolled back. Look down with your eyes, not your head. If you can't hear someone, don't lean in to them, just turn your ear toward them and let them lean in to you. Move closer, "close the gap". Never cover or guard your crotch. In fact, you can even lean back a bit a walk like you're being lead around by your dick.
/r/seduction28/09/14 01:14 PM
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_Dog- has a point. Women have a tendency to take things very personally. Remember, women use subtle backhanded maneuvers with each other all the time and usually they don't realize men don't do that, so they're very quick to "pick up on" some kind of underlying meaning. Combine that with their innate insecurities and BOOM. You can argue that that's not what you meant, but the point is that's probably what she felt. Edit: words
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 12:44 PM
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Read "No More Mr Nice Guy".
/r/seduction28/09/14 04:27 AM
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one of the main articles on dread: http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2008/03/27/dread/ a great post from the rational male on dread: http://therationalmale.com/2012/03/27/dread-games/ A good discussion about dread game: http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2c1sm3/why_isnt_dread_game_working_for_my_friend/ Also, on a related note, this is relevant: http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1mqhhn/the_two_most_powerful_weapons_in_a_mans/ Edit: posted the wrong link for the first point, dupli…
/r/askTRP28/09/14 02:46 AM
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Keep reading. There's definitely a lot of lingo that can make it feel like you can't keep up, but there are a lot of concepts that once you start reading about them you'll see why we have so many terms. In most cases there just isn't a better word and no glossary can contain all of it. TRP is a lifestyle. I've been swallowing the pill for almost 8 months now and I'm still learning. Just keep reading.
/r/askTRP28/09/14 02:33 AM
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She also likes to note I have no formal degree either. Rubs it in me any chance she gets. Fuck that shit. Tell her to stop being a bitch. Seriously, next time she does this, especially if it's in front of other people, look her sternly in the eye and say "stop being a bitch". Then hold the stare, maintain frame, and watch her hamster spin.
/r/askTRP28/09/14 12:40 AM
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This. A man's SMV doesn't peak until at least 40. I know 35-40 year old dudes who pull 18-25 year old chicks, and most of them don't even lift (just lots of tats, badass attitude, high income, etc).
/r/askTRP28/09/14 12:38 AM
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I prefer to shout "booooooo-jangles!" when I cum... Seriously though, nothing wrong with laughing. Have fun with it. (Backstory: I had a friend who's GF I knew pretty well, and I dared him one day to shout that when he finished next time. He did. Much hilarity ensued.)
/r/askTRP28/09/14 12:35 AM
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One of the first "epiphanies" I had was one day, after a few weeks of reading and applying TRP, I was gaming some chick at a bar who was surrounded by beta/gamma orbiters, all trying to impress her and get her attention. She was brushing them off like flies, so I played the uninterested AMOG, shutting down all the orbiters. Then I walked away a few steps to sit down at a table, and she followed me and sat down. Almost like clockwork, all the orbiters tried to subtly move closer to where we were.…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/14 12:25 AM
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When you call it "cuddling" instead of fucking, and give plausible deniability for their subconscious, great things happen. You should join us over at /r/TheRedPill... sounds like you already have the basics, maybe you could learn more.
/r/seduction27/09/14 11:26 PM
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I don't remember if he ever specifically references red pill, but it's basically the married red pill bible. It's a great starting place for applying RP to an existing BP marriage. A lot of people here consider it kind of watered down, but the point is that you don't want to jump in to the deep end all of the sudden. It outlines a basic male action plan with short term and long term goals.
/r/askTRP27/09/14 11:00 PM
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This is a serious situation, I'm not sure if I can do it justice right now. I'm sure some others will have great advice. In the meantime, I recommend xposting this on /r/marriedredpill, and getting a copy of the Married Man Sex Life Primer if you're interested in saving the marriage. If not, call a divorce lawyer tomorrow and start moving fast before she has time to screw you over.
/r/askTRP27/09/14 10:22 PM
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Most of the other advice here is good. One thing I want to add is something a lot of virgins worry about. If you're having a hard time getting it up at first, don't freak out. This happens even to the most experienced and a girl with any experience will know this. She can't expect a guy to be fully hard right away. Just tell her to suck on it and lean back with your eyes closed, taking in every sensation. Girls know oral is a great way to get it up and most actually enjoy feeling a guy get harde…
/r/askTRP27/09/14 09:49 PM
6

This is risky. Depending on how old they both are this could back fire. If he's 15 and she's around the same, then sure, this could work. But if he's around 18 or older, this will only work to drop his SMV and make her feel awkward.
/r/askTRP27/09/14 09:45 PM
-1

Update: just did this last night, got an f-close. Chick paid for the hotel. It's all about being attractive and setting the right frame.
/r/seduction27/09/14 09:32 PM
23

I think this is a good point. Failing to approach or escalate comes off as weak and incongruent, which is usually interpreted as being creepy.
/r/seduction27/09/14 07:06 PM
2

I think this belongs in /r/fPUA?
/r/seduction27/09/14 03:13 PM
4

Teach by example. When asks how you do it, give him little nuggets of truth. If he seems receptive, keep it up. Eventually you'll know when he's ready.
/r/askTRP27/09/14 12:52 AM
18

Sometimes I feel like there's a sort of AFBB dynamic for men too. Like maybe men want a "beta" (soft, caring, gentle) woman who would be good at raising kids, and an "alpha" (dirty, raunchy, sexy) woman to fuck. Kind of explains why through out history men were known to have mistresses while still loving their wife. When I first started applying TRP/SGM in my marriage, she loved it, but sometimes she would say she was worried about our new sex life because she was afraid I would "lose respect fo…
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 09:31 PM
2

http://www.girlschase.com/content/get-rock-solid-frame-control-women-you-guaranteed
/r/seduction26/09/14 07:00 PM
2

He said they made out, but that she wasn't very aggressive.
/r/askTRP26/09/14 05:11 PM
1

Yeah agreed the park thing was the wrong move but I didn't really have many options with the time constraint and her being under 21. Park game is easy. Don't hold her hand, put your arm around her waist and pull her close, but don't hold it for long at a time. Find a secluded bench or a spot without a lot of people around, then start kino escalating up to making out quickly. If possible, find a spot of woods you can sneak in to with her that's deep/thick enough to have sex in and move in for the…
/r/askTRP26/09/14 05:06 PM
1

Classic girl game: make him wait, invest, chase, etc. It's the whole "why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free" line of reasoning. Hell, go read /r/RedPillWomen, they advise the same kind of stuff for getting a bf.
/r/askTRP26/09/14 05:00 PM
1

Lots of boyfriends but few sexual partners? Either she's counting childhood "boyfriends" or she's the kind of girl to date boys and not put out. Well, what do you want? If you want a girlfriend who may or may not put out, then it sounds like you're on the right track. If not, then maybe the problem is that you're willing to put up with that and she knows it. It sounds like your frame is incongruent with your intentions and she's probably picking up on that. edit: I mean, seriously... You took he…
/r/askTRP26/09/14 04:19 PM
5

I do it when I'm first flirting with the chick, usually within the first 10 minutes or so. If the approach is going well and you've established a highly sexual and flirty frame, you can easily play it off as just being silly and playful.
/r/seduction26/09/14 04:08 PM
1

Sounds like typical insecure/confused teenage girl stuff. She might be trying to bf you or maybe she just doesn't know what she wants. The fact that she makes out with you means she wants you, but is probably just shy about sex. Do you know her sexual history? Her partner count? If it's low that would explain it, just push through the LMR, tell her it's ok, etc. If it's high, then she's definitely just trying to bf you or she's getting validation from making you wait. In that case I'd either nex…
/r/askTRP26/09/14 03:18 PM
2

I agree with americanpegasus but wanted to add that an alternative is to find chicks who are in to being dominant and plate them. Don't expect to LTR them because it just won't work, and make sure to keep it discreet. Ie, don't let other chicks, plates, potential LTRs, etc know about it. In other words, have fun, but keep it to yourself if you ever want more than a strictly sexual relationship or expect anything to last. Edit: also, a good place to find chicks in to that stuff who understand the…
/r/askTRP26/09/14 11:42 AM
2

Not sure why this is downvoted, this is a serious concern any time you find yourself "falling for" some chick. It's a slippery slope, and even the most RP of men will have to constantly fight the lulling comfort a woman can evoke to drag you down.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 11:59 PM
2

I agree this can be pretty powerful, but only if she doesn't already think you're a complete "loyalty chump". I.e., she has to, at least at some level, fear the possibility that you might step out. Edit: In other words, if she can brush off your jokes about imaginary girlfriends as the "wishful thinking of a pathetic loser" who would never "have the balls to cheat" then it will have zero effect.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/14 11:27 PM
3

Really dependent on her "feels" for you. The trick is to have a higher SMV than her, combined with the implicit threat of you revoking your commitment. Remember, women are the gatekeepers of sex, men are the gatekeepers of commitment. The corollary to this is that women need the commitment of men, and crave it as long as your status is high enough.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/14 11:25 PM
3

we both are opposed to cheating or divorce. Then you have no real power. As soon as I made it vary clear to my wife that I am more than willing to walk away is the moment she really started giving a shit about shaping up.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/14 08:40 PM
2

The point is that recognizing the reality is not the same thing as endorsing a behavior. We can discuss the "is" without stating an "ought".
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 08:18 PM
4

It's generally unattractive to be upset, depressed, moping around, etc. Instead, go out and do something fun. Be positive and upbeat. Be a man of energy who is tackling life and winning. I get that. This advice is usually given to single men, plate spinners, and virgins looking to get laid. "Be fun, invite her in to your life", etc. The first part of this is very useful in a marriage, the second part takes more work. But how do you then deal with unhappiness with a wife in that frame? The proble…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/14 06:57 PM
16

Beta shaming is for women. Bros before hoes, bro.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 12:36 PM
2

Good questions, I'll do my best to answer. Hold frame and persist without being whiney or needy. Any tips on this? In general, here is one of the best articles I've seen on holding frame. More specifically in this situation, I would say to just keep the mentality that you are the prize and you deserve and expect blowjobs in a relationship. You're entitled to it. That doesn't mean you demand it. It's hard to describe the difference. I guess the difference is abundance mentality. Remind yourself t…
/r/askTRP25/09/14 12:22 PM
1

I applied TRP principles plus my own knowledge and experience and those were the two most likely explanations. A priori.
/r/askTRP25/09/14 11:14 AM
5

Girls can get off mentally. She's cumming at the thought of you, not the mere fact of having a dick in her mouth.
/r/askTRP25/09/14 11:09 AM
-4

Your frame is wrong, or you were a pathetic nerd before (no offense, I've been a pathetic nerd most my life).
/r/askTRP24/09/14 11:40 PM
31

First off, a girl who would blow guys just to "get them out" is a slut. A girl who expects hours of oral and complains about spending 5 minutes giving it is a selfish bitch. I recommend nexting. But, if you want BJs from her, keep this in mind, something I read on here a while ago: no woman genuinely enjoys sucking dick, but there are men she would love to give head to. It's all about SMV and attraction. If she's attracted enough to you, all you have to do is tell her. If she resists or feels li…
/r/askTRP24/09/14 11:32 PM
0

Don't you feel pathetic concern trolling on reddit?
/r/seduction24/09/14 07:22 PM
2

As for the time/place, just tell her when and where, don't ask. Maybe she just wants you to make it happen. Women...
/r/seduction24/09/14 06:42 PM
2

Sounds like an attention whore. She's probably trying to bait you into begging and pleading for her. I'd say go on the date, but have a backup plan on case she flakes. If she does flake, go NC for at least a week or two (soft next), then when you text her after that if she agrees to another date, say "whoever's late buys the first round." If she's late, don't actually make her pay for the first round, but say "seriously though, don't be late next time." She'll either insist on buying the first r…
/r/seduction24/09/14 06:27 PM
4

I have read the book, it's one of my favorites.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/14 05:38 PM
7

Using metaphors to complain about a metaphorical writing style...? The point is to use the story to illustrate the concepts. This is not the same thing as theorizing about conspiracies or assuming literal connections between sex and cigars because of encircling. Your reading comprehension sucks.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/14 05:07 PM
1

It means OP is a troll.
/r/askTRP24/09/14 02:56 PM
1

Just go in dry, ignore the screams, kick her out.
/r/seduction24/09/14 02:40 PM
4

As someone who's in a "don't ask, don't tell" open marriage, what I do when I'm first talking with a chick is say, with a fun/mischievous grin, "can you keep a secret?" or "let's keep this between you and me." Most chicks are happy to, and in fact usually they love the excitement of a discreet rendezvous. It's like a forbidden fruit kind of thing.
/r/seduction24/09/14 12:37 PM
1

"I'm starting to feel guilty" Ignore it and keep escalating.
/r/seduction24/09/14 12:21 AM
4

Come up with funny/teasing nicknames like "shorty", "squinty", "bubble butt", etc. Chicks love that shit.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 06:46 PM
2

You either live in a shitty area, or you're making excuses.
/r/seduction22/09/14 11:58 PM
0

I'll hook you up. I think this is an important point that gets lost in all the specific "tactics" like "agree and amplify", etc. These things are good shortcuts to get the idea, but ultimately they're just that. Well said. ♂
/r/askTRP22/09/14 10:43 PM
2

You want to break up with her because she wanted to end a phone call first? Dude, if that's your only problem you need to get some perspective.
/r/askTRP22/09/14 10:28 PM
2

You sound like an ignorant "thug".
/r/TheRedPill22/09/14 06:58 PM
4

Not sure if troll, or missing the point? Acting like you're about to hit someone to not have to pay for something isn't very alpha in my mind.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/14 06:13 PM
-3

"yes! furious even! you left the toilet seat up and buttered your bread on the wrong side for the last time!"
/r/askTRP22/09/14 05:24 PM
3

Without much context it's hard to know, but in general I would go with "are you flirting with me?" or change the subject.
/r/askTRP22/09/14 04:49 PM
3

I recommend focusing on your SMV first and foremost before going hardcore on the shit test responses and frame holding stuff. The reason is its going to be much easier if she's highly attracted to you. She'll be less willing to blow up at you and you can pull the "don't argue with your wife - dicker" maneuver when she gets mad. Once you're fucking her like a porn star on a regular basis, then she'll be more receptive to you exerting your frame and taking your power back. Edit: also, increasing y…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/09/14 11:47 AM
0

Bingo. And in fact, if you aren't trying to fuck them they'll hamster an excuse to not feel rejected like "oh, he's not my type anyway..." Or "that's ok, I don't fuck players."
/r/askTRP21/09/14 10:42 PM
1

Does having a nice hair style mean you're insecure about your hair? Does working out mean you're insecure about your build? Does brushing your teeth mean you're insecure about your about your breath? There's nothing inherently insecure about improving your appearance or being mindful of what's attractive and what's not. Maybe you're insecure about being seen as insecure.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/14 10:10 PM
1

Doesn't that come off as an insecurity? Only if you feel insecure about it.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/14 06:58 PM
12

Your frame is your principles, beliefs, expectations of others, intentions, values, etc. Maintaining frame is not letting others impose their frame on you. You stick to your guns, so to speak. You don't give in to peer pressure trying to get you to go against your frame. You hold people to a strict set of boundaries, keep people accountable. You don't let outside influences affect your self-image or emotional state. BPers will "go with the flow". They'll agree to statements for the sake of fitti…
/r/TheRedPill21/09/14 05:47 PM
1

Why not? If you're afraid of being "fake" stop that. It's an excuse. Women wear heels, makeup, "slimming" clothing, etc. It's not fake, it's just applied knowledge. If you want RP advice, listen and heed. Why do this but have a problem with the shoes? Start now. I put off lifting for a while when I first started swallowing the pill, and I shouldn't have. It really is a central part of it all, and not just because muscles are attractive. The self-esteem boost, the higher T levels, the increased e…
/r/TheRedPill21/09/14 05:31 PM
3

We don't know if he's tried or if so how he did. All we know is he's heard rumors about what she said. Edit: in other words, assuming he's tried to game her and failed, I would say it's more likely simply a failure to frame it right, and has little to nothing to do with what she said.
/r/askTRP21/09/14 05:16 PM
4

I think this is very important. When I first started swallowing the pill it created a lot of strife in my friendships until I eventually just cut them out of my life. Best decision I ever made. I've spent a lot of time since then reevaluating how much they held me back in the past even before taking the pill. Now I refuse to associate with people who don't challenge me or themselves to be better people.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/14 05:08 PM
6

She's hamstering to her friend to keep up the appearance that she's not a slut. Like we always say, ignore what women say, watch their behavior.
/r/askTRP21/09/14 04:26 PM
5

Also as a pro-tip. Make your second safeword as funny as fucking possible. Yelling a word angrily that isn't funny or non-sensical may not always cause an immediate reaction, a word that causes you to double in laughter will have you both stopping pretty much right away. CHICKEN NIPPLES! Or something which is an immediate turn off. My favorite is "Secretary of Defense Donald Rumsfeld". If that doesn't immediately make you go limp, there may be something wrong with you. :P
/r/TheRedPill21/09/14 04:13 PM
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That's a common shit test. She probably says that to all the guys too. In fact that would be a good pressure flip: "and I bet you say that to any other guy" then just grin sarcastically.
/r/askTRP21/09/14 04:01 PM
1

There are no perfect answers and there are just some chicks who would cheat on Brad Pitt if given the opportunity. I know how you feel man, good luck with it. Maybe post your situation with more detail to the sub.
/r/askTRP21/09/14 03:45 PM
1

... And still probably didn't get laid.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/14 10:20 PM
2

It probably makes more difference to lie about your height in dating sites than it does to actually be taller. That being said, 2 inches can add about 0.5 to your SMV. Being 6'3" myself has definitely helped. But working out has made more of a difference than anything.
/r/askTRP20/09/14 10:15 PM
2

Beta orbiter theme song: Jessie's Girl - Rick Springfield In fact this Cracked.com video sums up the shallow, desperate, and manipulative view of a gamma orbiter pretty well.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/14 09:36 PM
1

Watched the whole video. No closing tips, but it was an awesome video. Very motivational, thanks.
/r/seduction20/09/14 09:24 PM
1

Can you give more detail about this? I Googled it, but all I see is stuff about Julian Assange. Or is that the joke?
/r/seduction20/09/14 08:08 PM
1

I suspect she's not being completely forthcoming about her relationship situation. She's probably either cheating, or looking to branch swing (setting up an exit plan to leave her current SO for a better man). Her waffling is probably her trying to lure you in to investing a lot in her so she can hook you. With that said, you probably could have escalated faster and got laid. You should have gone for the kiss. It's almost always better to move too fast than not fast enough. Escalation shows asse…
/r/askTRP20/09/14 01:23 PM
1

There are a lot of "Internet alphas" here, don't take it personally.
/r/askTRP20/09/14 01:13 PM
4

Ha! That'll just make her want to marry you, cheat on you, then divorce rape you.
/r/askTRP20/09/14 12:00 PM
13

Google around for an ebook called "The Tao of Badass - Never Get Cheated On". Basically the premise is to always be a better man tomorrow than you are today. No woman in her right mind would risk losing a man like that. But the book goes in to a lot of good detail.
/r/askTRP20/09/14 12:40 AM
1

Glad to see more RPers who don't insist that marriages must be monogamous. So much conservatism in here.
/r/askTRP19/09/14 09:43 PM
18

Here is the best description I've seen of the female social matrix. It also has a pretty good summary of the male hierarchy at the beginning too.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 12:38 PM
1

TRP is not PUA. There are no routines. Women aren't a puzzle to be solved with some cheat sheet. Read more sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 11:55 PM
10

"I left it ajar for you..." rimshot
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 11:52 PM
3

Whey, creatine and a full glass of water first thing in the morning. Sit and drink coffee while assuming a comfortable power pose, reading whatever book I'm on (currently Models by Mark Manson) or reddit. On Monday, Wednesday and Friday I eat a protein bar and go the the gym. Tuesday and Thursday I stretch and maybe get a BJ from my wife (or GF if I stayed over last night). Go to work, listening to metal, industrial, punk music. Kick ass at work.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 11:48 PM
9

The links and posts on this site give plenty of examples. Look around. You can recognize a shit test by anything she says or does that makes you feel uneasy, threatened, defensive, caught off guard, or hurt. The point is to see if she can rattle you emotionally. Your goal is to not be rattled. This is missing the point. Women aren't a puzzle to be solved with some cheat sheet. Keep reading the material. There are no shortcuts. Swallow the pill whole.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 11:32 PM
7

Look in to Married Man Sex Life and /r/marriedredpill. Also there's a LTR flair in the main TRP sub.
/r/askTRP18/09/14 11:24 PM
11

Don't deflect it, it's a legitimate question. If you don't want to be exclusive, tell her. If she's not OK with that, be OK with not being with her. You have options, right?
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 09:03 PM
2

You're putting too much pressure on yourself to carry the conversation. Teach her how to have a conversation.
/r/askTRP18/09/14 08:50 PM
10

This. If you really want to argue with women, it's all about the rhetoric and emotions.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 05:58 PM
-3

Can we get a "vague direct link with no text" bot?
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 05:35 PM
1

Take care of it yourself. "Get your shit together" so to speak. The best thing for any relationship is male self-improvement. If one of the things you need to improve on is your self-esteem and your ability to handle your own emotional shit, start working on that and let it show naturally in your demeanor and attitude. In other words, don't try to "go back and fix it" or "undo it", just move forward and don't bring it up again. If she brings it up again later, just let her know you've got it und…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 05:10 PM
12

No woman really wants to know everything about a man they're with, unless it's to use it against you. Most well-adjusted women will be understanding and compassionate toward an otherwise high-value man if they've been with him for a long enough time to develop a strong sense of attachment, but you need to build that first. But the problem isn't so much the details of your past, but your vulnerability and insecurities about it. If you confess negative things in your past in an insecure, validatio…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 04:50 PM
1

Yes, and yes please.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/14 01:43 PM
7

Amused mastery. Treat it like it's cute.
/r/askTRP18/09/14 01:58 AM
3

Haha! I think you're right. My bad.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 01:39 AM
17

Good point. I guess I over explained in the example quote, but you're right.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 12:30 AM
3

True, but ignoring doesn't necessarily create dread, even in that broader sense. It would if she knows you get attention from other hot women, but in that case the "dread game" isn't so much the ignoring, it's the getting attention from other chicks.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 12:29 AM
1

Default dread? By "seeing other people" you constantly have dread going on (as long as you actually are seeing other people and she knows it, ie social proof, etc). My original comment assumed she was your only girl, in which case igniting wouldn't give dread necessarily.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 12:26 AM
2

OK, so in that case you have default dread. That works.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 11:44 PM
71

Ignoring a chick isn't dread game, but it is an effective way to handle a shit test. Dread game would be saying something like "that's ok, Lindsey just called and wants to hang out." Or going out to a party and have friends post pics of you with other chicks to your Facebook.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 10:39 PM
0

Fair enough.
/r/askTRP17/09/14 06:05 PM
1

I think you're drawing a lot of conclusions from very little information given by OP. The fact that she occasionally doesn't want to give blow jobs because they upset her stomach doesn't necessarily mean she's pulling a dead bedroom on him. As for the "bully" part, maybe I just misinterpreted your last comment. Anyway, I'll just let Athol Kay make my point. Maybe we agree and are getting caught up in interpretations, but this is basically all I'm trying to say: "your solution isn’t to throw a fi…
/r/askTRP17/09/14 05:50 PM
3

He doesn't have to stomp his feet to get what he wants, Obviously I was exaggerating to illustrate the point. and she shouldn't be using any excuses unless she is legitimately "I cannot go into work today because I feel like a pile of bricks" sick. I disagree with this. There are times I don't feel like having sex even if I'm not too sick to call out of work. Establishing a consistent dynamic where the man is clear about his needs and priorities should be enough to keep the woman actively seekin…
/r/askTRP17/09/14 05:11 PM
6

I think it's only a problem if it's recurrent. In an LTR you can't just demand that she never has any problems that prevent sexy time. Sometimes she genuinely has a headache or upset stomach, and stomping your feet every time demanding sex/BJs, it just seems needy. I would recommend brushing it off like no big deal if it's just every now and then. If it becomes a recurrent problem then it's time to assert your needs.
/r/askTRP17/09/14 01:55 PM
1

Escalation is the key to staying out of the friendzone.
/r/seduction17/09/14 12:06 PM
1

Maybe, but there are other differences. I'm not really interested in debating the finer points here, you can read all about it in the internet.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 11:42 AM
1

I'll PM you, no point in arguing this here.
/r/askTRP17/09/14 11:39 AM
2

Basic, but true.
/r/seduction17/09/14 04:16 AM
2

They've been conditioned to expect favors and trophies of "love". They want you to show more commitment and devotion. If you don't feel it, treat it like any other shit test. You don't owe then commitment and devotion. If they can't accept that, next. Until you find a woman worth committing to, then you respond with genuine signs of commitment and devotion. But only when they deserve it.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 04:14 AM
1

It takes a lot of self awareness to acknowledge this. Bravo.
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/14 04:08 AM
3

Oh, like I said, I think there is a lot of overlap. He wouldn't use those terms. He would say "boy" vs "man" or something. But there are definitely things about TRP I think he would disagree with. I'm not dissing Bly at all. I think he has a very enlightening view of masculinity.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 04:05 AM
1

Then what the actual fuck did your last comment mean? I found you pimping some (curiously highly ranked) new age religiosity as a "classic" along the lines of: Letters from a Stoic by Seneca Meditations by Marcus Aurelius The Art of War by Sun Tzu I decided to see what other nonsense you were dispensing. The irony was to great for me not to comment. Perhaps childishly. The only one of these books I've ever even read is The Art Of War, and honestly, I wouldn't recommend it.
/r/askTRP17/09/14 03:41 AM
2

Good.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/14 02:01 AM
2

I agree. But, neither TRP or MPMM are MRM. There may be overlap in ideas and even membership, but, for example, most MPMMers (Bly, et al) would probably take issue with ideas such as "sexual strategy", female hypergamy, AFBB, and other core TRP principles. The mytho-poetic men's movement is all about men discovering a list sense of masculinity, but not for the sake of getting laid. Most would object to the notion of "alpha" and "beta". I love Bly and think Iron John is a great book for men's stu…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 02:01 AM
2

To bring balance to the force.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/14 01:55 AM
1

Maybe you should check again, because I've never "pimped" any of those books...
/r/askTRP17/09/14 01:54 AM
2

Either way, we're not going to resolve this by comparing anecdotes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/14 01:45 AM
2

Not every question is pointed or loaded. I was just asking. Personally I don't think this debate can be won with lists of anecdotes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/14 06:50 PM
1

I was just pointing out the other side of the coin. I wasn't saying men don't have emotional outbursts. But in my experience, I've seen more from women than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/14 06:04 PM
2

I didn't say rage isn't emotional behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/14 06:02 PM
2

To be fair, Bly isn't really an MRM. He and his book are central to the "mytho-poetic men's movement" which isn't the same thing as the men's rights movement, despite similarities. There's a lot of overlap between the MPMM and TRP, but I'm betting most of the former would take issue with a lot of points from the latter. Either way, Iron John is still a great book for finding one's masculinity.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 05:56 PM
3

You didn't set up enough plausible deniability before going for the number. "... Yeah, I know this great place to go hiking. Give me your number and I'll show you some time." Edit: obviously hiking is just one example. Pick your hobby.
/r/askTRP16/09/14 05:48 PM
2

How many times have you seen men storm out of a meeting in tears?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/14 05:44 PM
1

Your point? You still mad or something?
/r/askTRP16/09/14 05:25 PM
1

Don't respond to the "friend" text. Wait a day or two and invite her out somewhere. Don't find out if she's single. Most chicks worth fucking are rarely ever really single. They almost always have some guy in their life. Just find out if she's available, and you do that by seducing her and fucking her. To answer your general question about avoiding the friendzone, you do that by seducing and fucking. Don't do things for her to be nice, don't listen to her gripe and complain. Don't be an emotiona…
/r/seduction16/09/14 03:05 PM
20

In other words "I was afraid they would make sexual advances I wouldn't be able to turn down, then I would regret having sex with a man I wasn't attracted to."
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/14 02:55 PM
0

True. And it does depend on your frame too. As long as it's congruent with your frame I guess.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 02:15 PM
-1

Meh, a little too direct. I would just chuckle and move on like she never said it.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 02:07 PM
17

We all have a long way to go because TRP is a life style, not a destination. Some of us are further along the path, but none of us are "there". Just keep going.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 02:03 PM
10

I'm not sure if there's anything TRP can do about this. I might just recommend therapy/counseling. Not even necessarily to "cure" it, but at least resolve the obvious inner conflict you're feeling about it, either way.
/r/askTRP16/09/14 01:42 PM
3

Yes! I've been trying to pimp this book around here for a while but it doesn't get enough credit. Glad to see someone else talking about it.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 10:14 AM
3

I'm so tired of direct link posts with no text. Why should I read this? What's the TRP lesson here? Can you even be bothered to type anything useful here?
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 10:08 AM
1

Things are worse here than elsewhere. Maybe we need stricter moderation...
/r/askTRP16/09/14 09:51 AM
3

Dunning-Kruger effect
/r/askTRP16/09/14 09:47 AM
10

I'm just here to join the rabble. Press charges.
/r/askTRP16/09/14 09:42 AM
1

I doesn't matter what you feel. All that matters is what she feels about it.
/r/seduction15/09/14 08:56 PM
2

Basically, if you've been flirty with a girl, and sex has come up in the conversation, just find an excuse to get her in your room, then go in for a kiss and escalate from there. Most guys over think it and make it awkward and that's why they get LMR, etc. But if you want to read some about it too put your mind at rest, just Google "PUA escalation". There's a lot of good links and videos. A few I've like are http://www.justfourguys.com/sexual-escalation-whats-a-guy-supposed-to-do/ http://www.ret…
/r/askTRP15/09/14 06:50 PM
10

I know the "text only to set up meets" thing is the standard TRP answer, but I've found that hitting her up blind side with just "I'll be at X around Ypm" without at least a few banter texts first often times gets you no answer.
/r/askTRP15/09/14 02:43 PM
1

if I ever actually got back in the game Maybe this is the problem...
/r/askTRP15/09/14 02:26 PM
4

How is it beta to text a girl the day after?
/r/askTRP15/09/14 02:24 PM
25

Try to close chicks you approach as early as possible. Give her the best sex you can muster (Sex God Method) then leave or make her leave shortly after. Text her the next day something casual, ie not "I had fun", but something like "make it home safe?" and make sure you get a response. The day after text does 2 things: a) serves as "you didn't rape me" text, and b) established that it was more than a ONS. Exchange some light text banter for a couple of days, no more than a few texts a day, and a…
/r/askTRP15/09/14 10:58 AM
8

Has anything else changed recently? Has her attitude or demeanor changed toward you at all? How long have you been with her? In the mean time a few things you could do. Next time you're with her, leave your phone in the other room and casually ask to use her phone. Find a plausible excuse, like you want to look something up online. Carefully assess her reaction. If she seems reluctant or refuses, she's probably got something to hide. Ask her directly but casually what her emergency was about. In…
/r/askTRP15/09/14 10:36 AM
1

As someone who used to always pride himself as being the kind of guy who always sent grammatically correct texts, it was a hard "pill" for me to swallow too. But my experience has very much changed my mind. Even with intellectual chicks, being grammatically correct, and avoiding common acronyms and abbreviations just comes off as pretentious. The only exception I've found was a chick who would completely mirror me. She started off with txting shorthand but the longer and more correct I made my t…
/r/askTRP15/09/14 10:10 AM
3

Another tip. Turn off auto-capitalization on your phone, and don't use punctuation. You might think it makes you sound uneducated, but it'll make her feel like you're only kind of interested and/or really busy texting a hundred chicks or doing something fun. Like you just pulled your phone out of your pocket, noticed a text and sent a quick reply without really thinking about it.
/r/askTRP14/09/14 11:36 PM
2

Eliminate these words/phases from your vocabulary: "please", "thanks", "thank you", "happy ", "had fun", "perhaps", "maybe". Write shorter texts. Your texts should never be longer than hers, and usually no more than 2-3 words for banter, or the minimum number of words required to say "going to X at Ypm. Meet me." Always text like you're driving or busy about to bang some other chick. Ie short, abbreviated, dismissive. Read more sidebar. Edit: "gtg", "ok", "wtf", "idk", "sure", "haha", "...", "la…
/r/askTRP14/09/14 11:08 PM
3

The paradox is the truth. The very fact that you want her makes you unattractive to her. Women smell neediness and desperation like a shark smells blood in the water. Turn that shit off. Game all chicks, close only the ones that pass the boner test.
/r/seduction14/09/14 10:57 PM
1

I find most chicks don't make very good friends. They give shit advice, usually aren't very interesting people (why bother being interesting when you have a pussy?) and will still expect you to do more for them than they'll ever do for you. With that said, I do have a few female friends that I've known for years who are actually pretty cool. One is an RPW. We go hiking every now and then, etc. So yeah... Do what you want, just be very clear with yourself about whether or not she's actually a goo…
/r/TheRedPill13/09/14 06:23 PM
5

You're giving women too much credit. They all already think they're the hot shit and will believe all men swipe right all the time anyway regardless of if you do. They aren't going to know or even notice that you're doing this. This is pointless.
/r/trpGAME13/09/14 06:02 PM
4

Have you read the book Married Man Sex Life? If not, I recommend starting there. Then get No More Mr Nice Guy and read that.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/09/14 01:00 PM
17

Man here. I don't comment in RPW very often because I respect that this is the "lady's locker room", but I think the women here are being a little too gentle with you right now, so I'm going to jump in with a reality check. If I'm completely off base, let me know. With that said here's my analysis: You're not here for advice, you're here for validation. How do I know that? Because you went out of your way to not tell us what he was asking you to do. We're expected to just take your word that it …
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/14 12:07 PM
2

Yawn, you're seeking validation from this "sexiest girl I ever had" cause of your scarcity mentality, and more validation from this subreddit. People share field reports on here all the time. In fact, it's encouraged. Did you fuck her? Nope. Your sexual strategy sucks. Actually, he did. You must didn't see it because he didn't use the word "fuck" and you can't pick up on subtlety.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 07:52 PM
2

I'm with you on this. I don't know where all this "gentleman's honor" shit came from recently.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 07:50 PM
6

I was mostly being facetious, but depending on how you pull it off and how well you've read her, being a crass dick can and often will drop panties.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 07:41 PM
3

Not sure if you're just clarifying or if you think I was suggesting otherwise...
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 07:37 PM
-18

Next time, add "bitch". She might just blow you in the bathroom.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 07:07 PM
5

Sometimes this approach can work, but you have to be with a highly self-aware woman, and even then a lot of times trying to handle shit tests by rationally "calling her out" will just agitate the hamster. If you really want to try this, find a woman who's an INTP or similar "systematizer" type. Also look for women who openly criticize feminism and have a strong awareness of her own "woman nature". Best of luck. Report back here with results. Edit: also, you will have to have iron-clad frame cont…
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 03:22 PM
8

I think the point is that you don't handle the content of the shit test rationally (ie argue with her using logic) but that you deflect it by pointing out that it's a shit test and that you aren't going to pay in to it. At least, that's how I interpreted OP. Not sure how it'll work, usually in the heat of a shit test she'll just hamster her way around when you try to "call her out" on it directly. The closest I think you can get to that without agitating the hamster is the old "command respect" …
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 03:19 PM
3

Doesn't make sense, Facebook is much more personal than a phone number. I personally don't add chicks on fb until I've known them a while. Too much information that can work against you and dissolves any mystery or aloofness, etc. The few times I've tried it were complete duds, and most of the time they just unfriend me the next day. With phone numbers you have more control over the interaction.
/r/seduction12/09/14 03:13 PM
2

They say being married is red pill on hard mode. Bring married to a borderline is hell mode. And not to strain the analogy, but it's like the xp and item drops are that much better. :P Or maybe I'm gerbiliing, but she makes it worth it. Eventually you learn when to expect the blow outs and shit tests and you can glide through them. And if you held frame well, you get the best make-up blow jobs you've ever had.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/09/14 02:19 PM
3

Let her go. Be proud to have known a woman like that. Mourn her loss. Next.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 12:55 PM
1

It's complicated. I went through a horrible depression after cheating on her. My gamma white-knight friend knew about it and told her, convinced (manipulated) her in to thinking I wanted an open relationship (not entirely untrue, but I would have wanted to talk with her about it). She started sleeping with him while giving me trickle truth and subtle hints. Still not sure if she did it as revenge, or if she just saw it as a free pass, or what. But now we have an actual open relationship and it's…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/09/14 12:41 PM
2

What turns women on in a man? Not caring about women. Seriously. Find your mission in life, pursue it passionately. Relentlessly improve yourself. The women will come to you. http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2bmrtf/focus_on_you_first_and_second_and_third_andblah/
/r/askTRP12/09/14 12:17 PM
4

GTFO
/r/askTRP12/09/14 12:14 PM
1

The other comments are great. All I can add is women want to feel like they're seeing the real you. They have to feel like it's genuine. They want to see a strong, authentic character. For some men, that character is a funny, witty guy. For some it's a deep, dark and mysterious guy. When women say "just be yourself" it's kind of true, not in the cheesy sense, but in the sense that that's what they want to feel about you. If you think you're having a hard time making fun, engaging conversation, l…
/r/seduction12/09/14 11:57 AM
3

My story is similar but with a twist. Living together 10 years (married 3),tried to have kids about a year ago with no luck. She went in to crazy mode (common outcome when a couple fail to get pregnant) slept around for a while. Then I found TRP and started fixing shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/09/14 11:36 AM
1

Maybe he found a unicorn. Or, at least a chick familiar enough with his views that she was able to wear a convincing enough unicorn costume.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 10:51 AM
1

True. But a lot of TRP is kind of geared toward "modern western women", especially in cultures strongly influenced by feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/14 10:49 AM
1

Yeah, TRP has nothing to do with being a douche. It's about not letting women put your balls in her purse just because she has a vagina. Big difference. Read this very carefully: http://therationalmale.com/2014/05/18/the-real-nice/
/r/askTRP12/09/14 12:47 AM
9

Ah, the conniptions of a borderline not getting her way...
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 12:38 AM
2

The cause for your beta-ness is definitely much deeper than your desire to help people in need. Have you read No More Mr Nice Guy yet? If not, you should.
/r/askTRP12/09/14 12:00 AM
2

Do whatever you want, but if you want to attract women, don't let them know about your "good deeds" (unless they involve trouncing some dickhead). TRP is not about being a callous ass, but we do recognize that women are less attracted to kind, gentle, empathetic men. Edit: to clarify, standing up to others is very alpha. If you see some dickheads bullying someone smaller, sarging in at putting them in their place as insecure meatheads is the proper response. Just be sure to frame it that way whe…
/r/askTRP11/09/14 10:45 PM
1

You know what we say about generalizations... Smart, sexy girls get away with a lot more insanity. Unsexy, sane girls usually have to put more effort in to academics and developing mental skills. I'm not saying you can't find all three, it's just probably pretty rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/14 10:29 PM
2

If I had society kissing my ass and avoid making me feel bad my whole life, I probably wouldn't be too humble either. Yeop... In fact, Bill has a great clip on why women are assholes that basically makes this same point. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pPOe2ypB5Qc
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 08:42 PM
2

Physical looks still supersede all when it comes to women Maybe if you're just looking for plates... Mrs O'Neal (not my real last name, obviously) is maybe a 6.5-7 on the 10-scale, but she's damn smart, and relatively sane. As the saying goes, smart, sane or sexy, pick 2. For a wife, I'll go with smart and sane any day. My ONS/plates (we're open) are usually sexy and sane. Any longer-term GFs are usually sexy and smart.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/14 08:38 PM
13

You're clearly upset about something, but I think it's clouding your thinking. All drok007 said was that TRP doesn't care about a woman's career, and puts a higher relevance on a woman's intelligence as it relates to being a good wife and mother. No one is saying a woman needs to be solely motherhood-focused. Your frustration is palpable, but I would like to suggest that you step away from the computer for a second, maybe go for a walk, and come back to this with a fresh perspective. Edit: never…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/14 08:29 PM
2

One post describing one woman's experience with online dating, complaining that all the men want is sex, and then rationalizing her lack of success with "it must be because I'm too smart", and you take that as if it's a universally accepted RP truth? Also, read the top comment in that thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/14 08:19 PM
2

Recognizing that this is how society views it doesn't mean I need to adopt that view myself. That would be BP.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 08:16 PM
3

I can't decide if this is so RP that it's BP, or if it's so BP that it's RP...
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 07:54 PM
4

Who said men don't like smart women? In the past 6 months of reading TRP stuff I don't think I've ever seen any one suggest that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/14 07:49 PM
1

Sounds like a great way to get a lot of fakes and flakes.
/r/trpGAME11/09/14 06:12 PM
1

I always think of the line from The Mask where he's talking about the article he wrote.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 04:32 AM
1

Google. Phone book. Sheesh are you really that helpless?
/r/askTRP11/09/14 04:31 AM
1

Ugh I was thinking about the book no more mister nice guy That's the book. Unless the other guy is referencing something completely random, that's probably what he meant.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 04:23 AM
11

Stop trying to bond over text. Get her in person. As far as she's concerned, you're just text on a screen, validating her by responding with funny jokes. Invite her in to your life.
/r/trpGAME11/09/14 04:17 AM
2

You should talk to a lawyer, one with experience in prenuptial and divorce.
/r/askTRP11/09/14 04:14 AM
1

Go back and reread the comment and count the number of times she says "i", "me" and "my". Then go look at her comment history. Her first post is to an alcoholic's sub congratulating herself on being sober for a year. Go through her comment threads and say "cha-ching" every time someone gives her a "good job" or a "your such a good person" comment. The oneitis this sub gets for internet RP unicorns is an easy target for attention/validation seekers. Edit: in fact, one of my ex-plates was just lik…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 03:28 AM
1

Doesn't matter. Even if she suspects it's a ploy, her hamster will still obsess over the possibility that it's not. Edit: either way it's a nuclear option anyway. She's already flaked on him enough times to next, might as well try it. If she doesn't buy it, next anyway.
/r/askTRP11/09/14 01:08 AM
3

This is precisely what's bothering me. Verbal provocation can mean whatever the guy who's itching for violence wants. No, in the cases of fighting words, the court decides, based on the argumentation of the defense and prosecution from a "reasonable person test". The law is not "whatever the person feels" or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/14 11:24 PM
1

First off, I never said I endorsed the law, just pointing out that it existed. Secondly, asserting that a person must accept all or nothing regarding a country's laws is pretty shitty reasoning.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/14 11:19 PM
1

http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fighting_words
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/14 11:13 PM
2

Really depends. On the one hand, even if she's looking for BB daddy, she'll not want to expose her kid to every random guy she dates right off the bat. The trap is to be easy and sexual, not mommy dearest. On the other hand, if she's getting a good alimony and/or state bennies, there's a good chance she's taking the opportunity to ride the carousel just a bit longer. I think you're giving single moms too much credit. I've dated a few, and none of them wanted me meeting their kid until after at l…
/r/trpGAME10/09/14 11:03 PM
2

Please do.
/r/trpGAME10/09/14 10:59 PM
1

Yeah, you definitely have to have a solidly sexual frame established already.
/r/askTRP10/09/14 10:58 PM
20

No, don't play in to the kid. That's her frame and, especially since she's moving, she probably doesn't want random guys meeting her son. Most single mom's don't want guys they date to meet the kid until they've been dating for a while anyway. Edit: this is basically "fake beta game", which might fly over in seddit, but it's not RP at all.
/r/trpGAME10/09/14 10:30 PM
5

Sounds like a legit excuse. Options: "another time then" "when does he go to bed" (follow up by inviting yourself over for a beer, or come up with a better reason to come over (ie, if she has a stamp collection say you want to see it)) "lock him up in his room" (then again invite yourself over. Only use this one if she has a good sense of humor about it) "ok" (wait for her to offer an alternative, if not, text her again in a week)
/r/trpGAME10/09/14 10:28 PM
6

Personal morality aside, there is a standing legal doctrine of "fighting words" wherein physical retaliation for threatening, abusive or wonton disrespectful language can be legally justified.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/14 08:24 PM
2

I prefer "wear something slutty".
/r/askTRP10/09/14 08:11 PM
3

Women like this kind of stuff because it allows that hamster to spin without questioning. It keeps them "mysterious". Exactly. Gives great excuses for all the stupid shit tests and emotional manipulation women do. "I'm not manipulative, I'm just complex!"
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 08:06 PM
8

Dread game. Flake on her, go out to a club/bar/party and meet other chicks. If she's on your social media, post pics of you with other chicks. If not, you can try a reverse eavesdrop and text her pics of you with chicks and then say "wrong person". Edit: you should also consider the possibility that she's not single and just isn't telling you. That could explain the flakes despite the good sex. In that case, that would make you her "mad at hubby" booty call.
/r/askTRP10/09/14 08:01 PM
1

I've never cared what people thought about it, but there have been a lot of posts and comments talking about how the only value women have is their ability to reproduce and how that value diminishes with age, yadda yadda... I never bought it but a lot of people here seem to agree with it.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 07:54 PM
2

For girls, I just keep calling them by different wrong names. Make it a running gag, tease them for getting offended by it.
/r/seduction10/09/14 06:07 PM
5

And then after they finish, they look up at you with a chin full of baby batter and say "OMG, I never do this!" I love when they say that. Makes me hard all over again.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 03:07 PM
2

Good point, and I completely agree. Maybe it's just the noobs and wannabes that are spouting off that kind of crap.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 03:07 PM
2

The proper response to all three is "ok", laugh, or dismiss/ignore.
/r/seduction10/09/14 02:40 PM
2

No, what you describe is the outward effect of holding frame. But frame itself is the set of rules, expectations, goals and value that you hold yourself and others to. Frame represents the world view you hold as it relates to your actions and reactions with others. Effectively holding a masculine, alpha frame results in solid composure and gives you reliance in the face of those who would try to rattle you and make you submit to their frame. This is an important distinction. Edit: formatting.
/r/askTRP10/09/14 02:30 PM
-1

Isn't it contrary to RP gospel to fuck older women? I mean, I do, but it seems everyone around here wants the fresh, nubile 18yo.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 02:21 PM
4

I thought half the point of 4chan was trolling. That's all I ever do there.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 12:23 AM
2

Glad to see at least someone has some perspective here. So many of the replies to this are the TRP version of "you go girl".
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 12:04 AM
23

Looking for beta bux on tinder is so lady like... Personally I wouldn't even bother. She sounds like an entitled princess. But if you really want to go for it here are some options: "lol" "wow" "great idea! then after dinner you can meet my parents and we'll start shopping for wedding dresses."
/r/askTRP09/09/14 08:33 PM
12

"You don't have to explain yourself to me. You shouldn't have to." Enlightened words. Don't explain yourself.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 08:21 PM
2

I go back and reread this article every couple of weeks. It's a fundamental concept of TRP, but very hard to fully integrate in to your mindset. Read the article, apply it to your life, fail, read it again, apply again, etc. Each time you'll find something new.
/r/trpGAME09/09/14 06:46 PM
6

I'm not saying it would easy. I've never done it. But I know dudes who have (and I have no reason to doubt them). Quick and skillful escalation, high energy, hamster mastery. If you work a girls hamster just right, you can get them to do just about anything.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 06:14 PM
3

"Often I’ll see forum posts lamenting some loss of frame – “Lost the frame, how do I get it back?” A lot of times guys believe that because a woman initially gave them IOIs or was ‘really into them’ in the beginning that they had ‘frame’. This is another unfortunate misconception about frame – and I partly blame the PUA culture for it – but frame is not interest level (IL)." http://therationalmale.com/2011/10/12/frame/
/r/trpGAME09/09/14 06:09 PM
3

Indeed. I always hate seeing legitimate questions and requests down voted. Too many internet alphas with inflated egos.
/r/trpGAME09/09/14 06:06 PM
12

There's nothing "frame" about this. It's just a conversation about jobs... A boring, typical conversation. Read more sidebar, keep swallowing that pill.
/r/trpGAME09/09/14 04:03 PM
1

Not sure how that was either butthurt or a conspiracy theory...
/r/seduction09/09/14 03:50 PM
5

Man here. I think you're doing it right so far. Offer to pay occasionally, and genuinely be prepared to (ie, no token gestures), but graciously accept his generosity when he declines. The worst insult to a man is to be seen as a cheapskate, so he takes pride in being able to pay. It shows his investment in the relationship, so cherish it and show him that you appreciate it; never take it for granted.
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/14 03:19 PM
36

Banging chicks in his car that he pick up from the grocery store? I just can't believe that. It happens. All. The. Time.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 02:25 PM
1

Saw that, thanks bro. Makes for a much nicer reference.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 08:13 PM
1

Yeah, doctor is BB material.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 07:11 PM
1

Damn dude... Umm, good luck?
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 06:51 PM
2

My understanding about lambdas is that there are (at least) two things going on. There is a correlation between families with a higher rate of homosexuality and higher fertility among women. The homosexuality might just be a side-effect of whatever genetic/epigenetic factors give higher fertility in women. Some anthropologists have found that in many older cultures, some men who were uninterested in mating served a useful function as care takers for orphans, widows, etc. On mobile, I'll try to c…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 03:55 PM
2

Everything is relative. One person's idea of "beta" could be another person's idea of "alpha." I disagree with this. There are deeply seeded biological/evolutionary desires for specific alpha traits. Without every detail about a relationship and the girl, there is no way of answering this question. A guy who appears "beta" could be dominant at home or in the bedroom. This, however, could very well be true. But the problem with this is these men will have a much harder time getting women in their…
/r/askTRP08/09/14 02:35 PM
1

mike her Did you mean "mic" as in plant a bug, or is this some lingo I haven't come across yet?
/r/TheRedPill07/09/14 10:05 PM
1

I've already read most of them, I just like having the quick reference, and having to click through all of them is annoying. Besides, OP already went back and added the titles, so why argue about it now except to be that guy?
/r/TheRedPill07/09/14 09:21 PM
8

I think you jumped the gun. She sent a sexy pic and then you get all defensive and insecure over nothing. Then you try arguing over text. Don't argue with women. Especially don't argue with women over text. If a chick doesn't get back to you right away, never assume she's ignoring you. Maybe she's busy. Maybe she doesn't know what to say. Even if she is ignoring you, never act like you feel ignored. Don't try to "call her out" on her shit tests. Most of the time women aren't even consciously awa…
/r/askTRP07/09/14 06:06 PM
13

Sleep with her friend, she'll tell you. Other than that, there's really no way to know.
/r/askTRP07/09/14 05:58 PM
31

How about sentence or two about each or at least the title of the post so people know which ones might be relevant to what they want to read about?
/r/TheRedPill07/09/14 04:34 PM
4

"Respond." is better. That sounds like a great way to be demanding and insecure. "He's so insecure about his manliness he has to pretend to be 'in charge' by barking orders." You're more likely to evoke the "you can't tell me what to do!" shit test this way. If she's already ignoring him, being demanding is only going to make it worse. The trick to frame is to make it look like you aren't trying. Don't beg, but don't over-compensate by "sarging harder". Not to mention the fact that capitalizatio…
/r/askTRP07/09/14 02:10 PM
5

Also, why would you ever say "pls respond"? That just sounds needy. It's worked for me before. Not every text needs to be totally dominant and assertive. In fact, I think sometimes being too overly assertive and direct comes off as try-hard. Barking orders over text doesn't always work and sometimes back fires.
/r/askTRP07/09/14 01:54 PM
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When people come to white night some bitch with the whole "never hit a woman" bs, I just remind them how many women fought for equality throughout history. Woman pulls a knife on you, knock the bitch out! Feminism!
/r/TheRedPill07/09/14 12:32 PM
1

There's a really good TED series on how to tell stories.
/r/seduction07/09/14 12:13 PM
1

Usually you just gotta wait, but sometimes you can go with something direct like "pls respond" or shame/dread her about it "alright slowpoke, I'll take that as a no. later." I've had some success with these, but only do it if a) you're about to next her anyway because it might back fire, or b) if you have an established relationship with her (ie, you've already fucked her a few times and she's pretty in to you). Edit: just noticed you said gf. In that case we might need more context. Is she "out…
/r/askTRP07/09/14 11:59 AM
16

I don't know if overtly mentioning "hook up" is a good option. Might engage her anti-slut defenses.
/r/seduction07/09/14 11:54 AM
1

Tell us all how much you know, o wise one
/r/TheRedPill07/09/14 11:38 AM
2

She is always a woman, not your "partner" or "friend". I think this was the biggest realization to me. I had let myself start thinking of her as a friend, one who could be understanding and patient. Big mistake. Oh, but of course, she'll let you think that as long as you want, as she silently starts to resent you for it.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/14 11:05 AM
1

This. It was a compulsion and it was causing real problems in my life. I don't see how it's really any different from any other addiction in that way.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/14 11:01 AM
1

Expand your friend circle. I'm not being facetious. Being able to get along with men and even women you aren't trying to sleep with will do wonders to your game. But even if you can't do that, or just want the quick and easy solution, hire a professional photographer. It's really not that expensive and well worth it.
/r/seduction07/09/14 10:57 AM
-1

I'm trying to sort through your defensive rhetoric to find specific points, but I don't really see any. The only point I can really see in all of that is that the Rothbardian school of libertarianism is some kind of minority or something? Firstly, it's irrelevant, because the point is both Rand and the ARI have explicitly stated irreconcilable objections to libertarianism and the Libertarian Party. The FAQ basically says they will align themselves with groups who identify as libertarian only ins…
/r/TheRedPill07/09/14 01:34 AM
1

The trick is recognize that anxiety is just suppressed excitement. Let the excitement out. Or, as courage wolf says: when there are butterflies in your stomach, digest them.
/r/seduction07/09/14 12:27 AM
1

Ditch the selfies and get other people to take pics of you having fun and being social. Preferably with a real camera, ideally a DSLR.
/r/seduction06/09/14 11:53 PM
1

I second the book recommendation. It's a much needed slap in the face for socially awkward nice guys everywhere.
/r/askTRP06/09/14 11:41 PM
-1

he followed her work for 10ish years and gave it great praise, then they basically had a tiff over his obsession with anarchy and he decided to leave. Source? Also just because he's called Mr. Libertarian doesn't mean he speaks for all Libertarians. I wasn't trying to make an argument from authority, I only point it out because even a lot of libertarians don't know who he is and I wanted to make sure no one thought he was just some random schmuck or a liberal or something. Politics isn't about p…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/14 11:27 PM
1

I dropped frame and SMV for about 6 months (depression, porn addiction, complaining about job stress all the time, etc) only to catch my wife cheating on me with my (former) best friend. As far as I can tell it had been going on for several months when I found out. It's taken me over a year to deal with it both emotionally and in terms of fixing the marriage. TRP was a life-saver in this regard. (inb4 "get a divorce". I know that's the standard TRP line, but right now things are better then ever…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/14 11:15 PM
2

I have a friend who has a very "successful" FFM poly relationship, and they've been together over 3 years. The reason I put "successful" in quotes though is this: while he's very handsome, he's a complete liberal pussy. The relationship would more accurately be described as a lesbian couple with a captive live-in boytoy.
/r/askTRP06/09/14 11:06 PM
0

No point in trying to argue with objectivists. After all, their philosophy is objective therefore correct, obviously... A IS A! A IS A! A IS A!
/r/TheRedPill06/09/14 10:42 PM
0

Rand was not a libertarian. In fact she explicitly rejected libertarianism. Check out what Murray Rothbard (aka "Mr. Libertarian") had to say about her. In fact, he felt so strongly about it, he even wrote a one act play just to mock her called "Mozart Was A Red".
/r/TheRedPill06/09/14 10:39 PM
0

Ayn Rand was a pretentious hypocritical bitch. And a mediocre novelist at best.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/14 10:32 PM
7

Stop rationalizing your lack of motivation with all this bullshit. You came here for advice. These guys know what they're talking about. If you're just here for a pity party, then get lost. If you actually want to fix your situation, listen to the advice you asked for. Edit: if it helps, I've always been skinny and always thought what you did, that bulking up looked like "compensation" or whatever. But since I started lifting a month ago and getting results, I can tell you the women notice! I'm …
/r/TheRedPill06/09/14 10:19 PM
3

Walk up to badass bitch. Extend arms forward, hands open. Close arms around badass bitch. Contract arm muscle things. Lift with legs. Drop badass bitch, find another. Repeat. Or read the sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/14 07:18 PM
18

But then it wouldn't feel like a secret club anymore!
/r/seduction06/09/14 07:13 PM
3

Look up voice warm-up techniques for public speakers and singers. One I use specifically is to make a low humming sound like you're impersonating a demented cow, but make it really breathy and relaxed, like you're putting very little effort in to making it. It's hard to describe, but there's a muscle group that actually pulls your vocal chords downward and this humming sound helps you find them and warm them up. Edit: found the page I learned this from here.
/r/seduction06/09/14 05:35 PM
8

Also, added torso and arm muscle naturally forces you to walk with your arms swinging just slightly away from your body and leg muscles makes your gait just a bit wider.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/14 05:30 PM
13

6'3" here and I know what you mean. The other problem is constantly worrying about hitting your head on something that I think causes tall people to slouch.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/14 05:23 PM
1

I want an 18/10! The "easiest" way to get that is to massively up your SMV. Learn an instrument and join a band, make lots of money, get a job as some kind of authority figure (local political office, CEO of a small but successful company, etc)... Good luck out there.
/r/askTRP06/09/14 04:54 PM
1

I can think of a few things you could try: Get in to the fetish/kink scene. Any chick with a fetlife account is a good bet. Downside is a lot of these chicks tend to be sluts and/or a little on the crazy side. But if you can tame them, you're gold. Date women 2 or more points down from your SMV. If you're an 8, date 6's. Might not seem ideal, but if she sees you as almost out of her league she'll be much more open to trying harder to make you happy. If you aren't really picky about looks, less "…
/r/askTRP06/09/14 03:37 PM
3

I think the article that had the biggest effect on me in my marriage was the Rational Male article on frame. Edit: also, any articles on hypergamy are essential to good LTR/marriage game.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/09/14 02:41 PM
1

Aww, I thought we were trolling each other... OK, fine.
/r/askTRP06/09/14 12:20 AM
0

Nuh-uh, you!
/r/askTRP05/09/14 11:58 PM
0

Go back to 4chan
/r/askTRP05/09/14 10:35 PM
1

Mostly neither, but since they're coworkers you should keep it discreet anyway. Besides, chicks love guys who can keep secrets.
/r/askTRP05/09/14 10:35 PM
1

Any port in a storm...
/r/askTRP05/09/14 10:33 PM
1

So bring one. :P
/r/askTRP05/09/14 05:11 PM
3

What's wrong with hooking up before going out? Hell, maybe she doesn't even really want to go out and is just using the "I'm going to his place before we go out" as her hamster narrative to justify going straight to your apartment. Either way, don't over think it. Just have her over, flirt, have conversation, kino, and feel out her mood/receptivity. If you aren't getting go vibes, then go out and have fun. Otherwise, bang her on your couch.
/r/askTRP05/09/14 02:48 PM
1

I hate how less education is being conflated with being "dumb".
/r/seduction05/09/14 02:43 PM
1

Go to the show, walk straight to the bar to get a drink, don't even look around for her. Find some other hot chick to flirt with. If the first chick is in to you, she'll find you. Act casual/nonchalant when she does.
/r/askTRP05/09/14 02:21 PM
1

Didn't see the other post, so not sure if this has already been said, but there's a TRP sub for LGBT over at /r/altTRP.
/r/askTRP05/09/14 12:02 PM
1

I don't know... Sneaky/shady PUA stuff like this kind of bothers me. Not even for any kind of moral reason, just seems weak. It also sounds like a great way to get a bunch of dead-end numbers of girls who won't answer...
/r/seduction05/09/14 11:29 AM
4

Anything she says or does that: Gives you butterflies. Makes you feel angry or hurt. Puts you on the defensive. Makes you feel small, unimportant or weak. Gives you that sinking feeling in your gut that makes you want to go sulk in a corner. Basically anything that rattles you. Don't be rattled. If she can control your emotions or override your dominance, you lose.
/r/askTRP05/09/14 11:22 AM
8

I understand this is a place for "real talk", but this shit is annoying. To much "fckn troll, wtf, moron. Lrn2game!" posts are pointless. I think you're the troll. There's some good advice in this comment, but the put downs are unnecessary. Edit: basically this amounts to beta shaming, in a place that's supposed to be welcoming to (former) betas and to help all men learn and grow.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 01:21 AM
2

Hell, even a friend who nags you over and over. It's just annoying overall.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 01:17 AM
5

Hit enter twice.
/r/askTRP04/09/14 11:59 PM
4

Indeed. Always wait for a response, at least a day or two. If you don't get a response after that, start a fresh conversation without trying to continue where you left off.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 11:06 PM
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She made you wait all day before responding and you responded within minutes. This sends the signal that you're available and eager. Later you tell her you're so eager that you let a tinder message interrupt your workout. Your time should be more valuable than that, and you send that message through your actions, i.e., not responding to her right away. So that first page of texts should have never happened. Instead, an hour later message her "np, we all get busy" or something. The disqualificati…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 09:31 PM
2

Are you looking for validation for wanting to fuck them, or for rationalization for not fucking them? Seriously, what kind of question is this? If you want to fuck them, do it. If not, don't.
/r/askTRP04/09/14 07:33 PM
2

You'll get a lot of downvotes and naysayers here just for mentioning marriage, but as a married 31 year old, I'm with you on this. Since swallowing the pill 6 months ago, marriage and quality of life has significantly improved and my only regret is not doing what you're saying here when I was your age.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 05:56 PM
2

Well done OP, work that hamster. Girls will admit anything if you make it OK.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 05:32 PM
7

I'm pretty sure FatStig is a troll or at least just some highschooler trying to play tough guy on the internet.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 05:29 PM
1

Fair enough. I just think that can be true of most of TRP. But you might be right.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 01:15 AM
2

Maybe it's because LTR game is my focus, but I thought dread game was one of the basics. Edit: I'm also old, that might be another difference?
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 11:21 PM
7

You: "let's go to Outback." Her: "meh, I don't feel like it, let's do oysters." You: "OK, you go out for oysters, I'll go to Outback." or You: [playful sarcasm] "listen here Mrs Goldilocks. We're getting steak. You look like you could use the iron anyway." Then just start getting ready to go without waiting for her response. Edit: if she pouts, complains or throws a temper tantrum, ignore it. Keep getting ready to go and walk out the door to your car. She'll either pout at home while you dine on…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/09/14 11:15 PM
2

Anyone have a link/quote of that one femnazi saying how it should be required for women to work because if given the choice they wouldn't?
/r/askTRP03/09/14 11:08 PM
6

Sounds like you need to employ some dread game.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 10:52 PM
0

Isn't that what most of RP is though? Become a man, be masculine, etc? It's not like I'm saying "man up and do the dishes", or "man up and pay that child support", that would be how feminists use the phrase.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 09:23 PM
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I always thought it was "hot babe"...
/r/askTRP03/09/14 08:04 PM
1

Tap in the middle of the header on the main page for the post, looks like a link at the top. A menu will come up and there should be a flair option.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 04:06 PM
3

From xkcd: "... But Einstein said it was the most powerful force in the universe, and I take all my investment advice from flippant remarks by theoretical physicists making small talk at parties."
/r/askTRP03/09/14 03:32 PM
1

Ugh... The sentiment was fairly RP. I wasn't saying the bumper sticker would get you laid.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 11:11 AM
3

I highly recommend No More Mr Nice Guy as an intro to redpill-ish philosophy. MMSL is a close second, but I think in the case of ultra-betas like you describe, kicking the nice guy habit needs to happen before worrying about the sex life.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 02:01 AM
-13

Oh good. Finally a Real Man is here to show us how it's done. Please enlighten us as to how you manage to pick up so many chicks in yesterday's stained clothes from your mom's basement with no car or money.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 12:44 AM
-4

Like I said, substitute any symbol of masculinity. I have no particular attachment to Harley in this example. I just thought it gave a palpable contrast.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 12:33 AM
-5

Who cares? Chicks dig motorcycles. They don't care if you race them professionally. Just be fun and exciting. To put it another way, compare the Sunday Harley rider to the crotch-covering beta driving a VW bug with a flower in the vase. You don't have to be alpha-supreme above all others. Just alpha above your average AFC.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 12:23 AM
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You're either a troll, or you're way over thinking this. Just kneel down on one knee and tie your fucking shoes like a boss. Stand up and be like "so, anyway, what was I saying? Oh yeah..." Edit: or learn this.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 12:11 AM
2

10s are the nicest though. I think it's because nobody daygames them .... This is actually a great point, and something which is often overlooked in the TRP/PUA communities. Most of the really hot chicks are actually more approachable than a lot of guys realize for this very reason.
/r/trpGAME03/09/14 12:05 AM
-5

I wonder if its an innate biological thing that girls like things that are associated with danger, or if its implanted in their heads by society as they grow up. The former. Women love danger and dangerous, bold, fearless men.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 12:00 AM
3

Looks can be a big issue, but they can be overcome to a point. There are three ways I can think of this: "Fix" your looks. Shades can hide the eyes. Hat or shaved head can help with the baldness. Not sure what to do about the ears or jaw... Go another route with your game. Sounds like you're trying to go with the "cool guy" approach. Maybe twist it up and add some DT/mysterious/renegade to your game. Piercings, tats, studded leather, etc, can help with that and might distract from or compensate …
/r/trpGAME02/09/14 11:21 PM
6

I've had girls say "you make me feel uncomfortable" and then screw my brains out that night. They love it. If you intimidate her, that means you can intimidate others, and that makes you powerful. Own it. Next time a girl says that, just flash her an evil grin and keep talking about whatever you were saying before.
/r/askTRP02/09/14 08:35 PM
3

A perfect summary. This needs to go on the sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/14 08:26 PM
2

Stress causes gray hair, but so does genetics. And besides, maybe she has legitimate reasons to be stressed other than BPD. Either way, I would look for more reliable indicators.
/r/askTRP02/09/14 01:38 PM
4

I don't think it works like that. Two completely unrelated things.
/r/askTRP02/09/14 01:27 PM
1

You give her too much credit. She wears it because it's hot and you'll like it, and she wants you to be attracted to her. Sure, some of the things you mentioned are probable outcomes of her wearing it, and if she sat and thought about it she might recognize that those are likely outcomes, but she's not consciously plotting all these different effects.
/r/askTRP02/09/14 12:51 PM
19

She wants to look good for you. This. Don't over think it.
/r/askTRP02/09/14 01:45 AM
5

Exactly. Everyone else is obviously turned on by ignorance and stupidity...
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/14 11:57 PM
1

I feel like I've been recommending this a lot recently, but in Iron John by Robert Bly, he talks about how a boy gets his first sword (symbolic of manhood) from his father, but that sword is a boy's toy and that in the path to manhood, a second man needs to bestow a man's sword. The symbolism here is a lot like what you're saying. He needs to find a new make role model that will guide him from being a boy in to being a man. This could be an older brother, and uncle, a friend or a teacher.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/14 09:29 PM
9

You're trying too hard. Also, over thinking this. Agreeing to get coffee with her in a way that clearly sends the signal that it's just friends will probably nullify the whole thing anyway.
/r/askTRP01/09/14 09:22 PM
4

How old are you?
/r/askTRP01/09/14 09:12 PM
8

Sounds like you give too many fucks about what other people think. Edit: besides, if you're in a group, most of them 5+, having a 2 on the group isn't going to kill your SMV. I mean, you aren't making out with her, she's just some tag along of one of the other chicks.
/r/askTRP01/09/14 09:08 PM
2

Leave out that last part. It puts pressure on her anti-slut defenses.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/14 05:56 PM
42

"That sounds fun, we can all get together. I'll bring some of my friends, it'll be fun." Basically friend zone yourself with her.
/r/askTRP01/09/14 05:52 PM
0

Uncircumcised women. First world problems...
/r/askTRP01/09/14 04:31 PM
5

I came across this gem "... But I'm not going to tell you what it was." So, basically you came here with a book recommendation and a vague teaser?
/r/TheRedPill01/09/14 04:29 PM
1

Yes, it's a bit of an edge case, but happens more often than you might realize. And yes, teh feelz. But that's also one of the reasons they might intentionally give bad advice. Women speak for effect, not to communicate truth. Most of what they say is calibrated to achieve some outcome, or to affect some kind of emotional response from you.
/r/askTRP01/09/14 04:25 PM
3

Check out /r/becomeaman, read "The Way Of The Superior Man" and "Iron John, A Book About Men". Edit: the becomeaman sub can be a bit confusing at first. Sort the posts by "new" and go to the last page with the "day 1" post. Work "backwards" from there.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/14 02:39 PM
1

and if she pretends to care you can bet she will give crap advice. Yep. Sometimes they'll intentionally give bad advice, especially if it's about another girl because they don't want to "lose" you to her, even if she doesn't want you. Women like to collect men and want them all to themselves.
/r/askTRP01/09/14 02:37 PM
1

I think what's missing from my life is a real bro I can count on. It's hard to find. One thing I recommend is to find bros who have no problem getting laid. Reduces the chances they'll be tempted to cock block you or try to steal your girl(s). Trust me, even the longest/closest friends will not hesitate to shiv you over a girl if they're thirsty enough. I've experienced this first hand.
/r/askTRP01/09/14 02:32 PM
5

I have a married woman fetish. Works for me. :)
/r/TheRedPill01/09/14 01:52 PM
3

maybe their brains are not fully developed until their mid 20's so they have less control over the stupid stuff they do. Most never grow up past this stage.
/r/askTRP01/09/14 01:48 PM
-1

Sounds like she has issues or is trying to get you to orbit or something. I would next.
/r/askTRP01/09/14 01:34 PM
9

Stop discussing video games on reddit and read more sidebar on the main sub. Get out of the anger phase. Your bickering over simplistic metaphors is unbecoming of a man. I'll let you have the last word. Peace.
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/14 01:04 AM
7

This is just hampstering about how haaard it us to be a woman. Umm, what? First off, as an RP man, you'll be hard pressed to find anywhere where I've expressed anything about how "hard" or is to be a woman. Secondly, I'm talking about the three female archetypes men seek from the women in their lives, not groaning about how hard it is to fill them. You take care if him and his children. That's it. Right, but what all goes into "taking care of him and his children"? The point is to elucidate, not…
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/14 12:50 AM
10

Nothing wrong with taking a day off every now and then. Just don't let it last longer than a day or two or you'll start backsliding.
/r/askTRP01/09/14 12:33 AM
6

We could just as well say AF and BB are both just aspects being a good man. But if you fold everything in to one it becomes simplistic and meaningless. Edit: I mean, you still have to break it out in to the three types and all you've done is overload the word "caretaking". The result is the same and you're just arguing semantics.
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/14 12:26 AM
1

I prefer "OK well, get your shit together and let me know. Until then, peace."
/r/trpGAME31/08/14 05:19 PM
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I'm not really sure what your point is. That there are qualities men look for other than the three I listed? Obviously having a compatible, or at least complimentary personality, interests, etc, are important. But they aren't really a "female role" that men want filled by the woman/women in their life. It's more of an androgynous role that people seek, sort of a "friend" or "someone I get along with" role. This is prior/basal to the gendered roles, and is sort of a prerequisite for any social as…
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/14 04:21 PM
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Like everything else, it's an analogy. Whatever model works for you I guess. The way I see it though, cheerleading is more than caretaking. A woman can clean, cook, do laundry, pack lunches, and still fail to make her man feel admired and encouraged. I think it's important to remember that distinction. Edit: my phone is an asshole.
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/14 04:12 PM
5

A silly part of me was thinking of This Hey, if that's what he's in to, I won't judge... :P
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/14 03:47 PM
6

Encourage, support, make him feel like the star quarterback. For example when you're with him in a social situation tell positive stories about him, make him feel admired. Or listen to him tell you about some minor victory or achievement at work and make him feel like you're proud of him. It fills my heart with pride and confidence when my wife responds to something I tell her about my day and she says something like "well, that's because you kick ass and they know it" or something like that.
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/14 03:40 PM
1

I'm not really interested in bickering about what scale is best. It's not just a matter of asking people hypothetical questions and getting hypothetical answers. Kinsey's research looked in to people's actual behavior. He found that a lot people have actually has some kind of homoerotic encounter before, or have had homoerotic thoughts or fantasies before. On top of that there have been numerous studies where quantifiable physiological arousal responses were measured in participants while they w…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/14 02:16 PM
2

Over the top with masculinity. Because it comes off as try-hard and qualifying yourself. I have no idea how you got this idea. I don't give a shit about that lol. Fair enough, just wanted to preempt that in case that's where you were going with it. Whatever works for you. I am not saying you're wrong just throwing my 2 cents out there. I hear guys say this shit all the time when nervous/deflecting shit test, its so easy for her to just say "yeah you are". That's why you maintain frame and DGAF w…
/r/askTRP31/08/14 01:07 PM
3

I laugh at all the "dark triad" nonsense, for sure. But this guy is confusing alpha with DT, but who can blame him? A lot of guys here on TRP make the same mistake.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/14 01:04 PM
1

How did that amplify anything? It amplified the implication that their choice of drink says something about their masculinity. Joking about being gay amplifies that. And no, I'm not going to get derailed in to a debate about whether homosexuality has anything to do with masculinity in some theoretical sense. It's just a joke that pays on the vulgar stereotype. I also hate when people use the "im so gay/fag" line. It sounds weak even when said with the right frame. Obviously we disagree. It's nev…
/r/askTRP31/08/14 12:45 PM
2

The fact that most people will engage in homoerotic activities under the right circumstances with the right person is not only supported by rigorous scientific research, it's also easily demonstrated by looking through history and across cultures. Look at ancient Greece or Rome. Most men in those cultures were very RP but many had male lovers or homosexual encounters. The idea that most people are fully hetero is a product of Western puritanism. Kinsey did most of his work well before second-wav…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/14 12:27 PM
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Man here. Over in TRP there's a lot of talk about women's dual mating strategy (AF/BB), but we need to recognize that men actually have a triple mating strategy. Men want three "women" (or, at least 3 female roles filled) Caretaker Cheerleader Vixen And just like how men should strive to fill both the AF and BB roles to make a woman happy, women should fill all three roles to keep a man happy.
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/14 11:58 AM
3

I think the problem is that while some women are naturally homosexual, a lot of women, especially college hipster liberals, like to use their sexuality to make political/fashion statements or just to be "cool". Also, another factor I think it's that most people are naturally a 2 on the 1-5 hetero/homo Kinsey scale. Combine this with the fact that it's more socially acceptable for women to be bi/lesbian, and you'll see why more of them openly express it.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/14 11:46 AM
4

Well, the thing is, you only have to appear to display some DT traits for it to work. People who are truly DT are rare and suffer from genuine mental illness.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/14 11:42 AM
8

And he plays pretty sweet guitar. I think you're underestimating how far this gets you with chicks. Also, is it possible he just has enough DT traits to send out the gina tingles?
/r/TheRedPill31/08/14 11:10 AM
1

Fair enough. I didn't realize from your past that she thought she almost had the exclusivity. And to give the benefit of the doubt, maybe she didn't realize it either and this was her last ditch effort to get it. But obviously I don't know all the details, and if course it's entirely your call. I, personally, have forgiven much worse, but that's a personal choice. Best luck to you bro.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 11:48 PM
0

Sounds a lot like my wife, except that mine has slight high-functioning BPD traits and was manipulated by an orbiter / former best friend of mine. Her cheating I blame almost entirely on myself and my ex-friend. Not that it excuses it, but she's a people pleaser. Anyway, keep on keepin on bro.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 11:44 PM
-5

I can barely read your post, the sentences are so broken and scattered. But whatever, you obviously have more of this figured out than me. Best of luck to you.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 11:39 PM
3

What is the point of /r/asktrp if the answer to every question is "you failed by coming here to ask about it"? Are you just here to feel superior or something?
/r/askTRP30/08/14 09:54 PM
8

She tried to run dread game because she wanted him exclusive. It back fired on her massively. She's learned her lesson. Why ditch an otherwise great plate / possibly great LTR over it? Edit: After all the watch what she does ignore what she says topics, how the hell do you guys still fall for something as inane as an apology with crocodile tears. What about all the AWALT threads? How do you still think you're going to find a chick who never slips up? Or how about all the "plate is talking about …
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 09:44 PM
0

(can't bring myself to end my current LTR with a 32 year old 4. I know, sue me I'm sentimental) Inb4 highschoolers from 4chan jumping in with "such beta", "much BP", etc. Honestly, I hear you man. I'm still with my cheating wife of 10 years who's a solid 5-6 aesthetically. Fuck it, she's smart, great in bed, and now let's me fuck whoever I want while she does my laundry, cooks, cleans, etc. I'm living like a king, but most people here would call me beta for it.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 09:37 PM
9

This is actually pretty close to what happened. Again, I actually do plan on writing up the full story, but it's long and complicated, and I'm still not at the "happily ever after" part yet, although TRP has been a life saver. I might write up an abridged version for thanktrp this weekend. I'll link it here when I do.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 09:30 PM
0

Or find one who's been groomed by another man and/or father. Hard to find but not impossible.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 08:53 PM
18

It's a long story and I've been planning to write it up for a while now. One of these days.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 08:48 PM
2

If only everyone was born a natural alpha like you...
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 08:47 PM
19

I was being pretty beta at the time. Does that make you feel superior? I hope so.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 08:45 PM
46

This right here. You can't expect a woman to never shit test. The most RP of women are going to pull one every now and then. Dropping a great woman every time she slips up is going to leave you with no good women.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 04:09 PM
11

Agree and amplify. "I know, right? I'm such a fag." Don't give a fuck, laugh about it with them. They can't laugh at you if you're laughing too.
/r/askTRP30/08/14 03:59 PM
79

You may have decades of close friendship but they often won't hesitate to slide a blade into your back if it will benefit them in some way or even over some pussy. This is the truth. I've had this exact situation happen. Thirsty as hell gamma friend used information about me to manipulate my wife in to sleeping with him. It's a reality shattering experience.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 03:57 PM
15

Who cares what "counts"? What do you want? Do you want younger women? There are pros and cons to younger women. If you just want to stare at young, fresh ass while you pump and dump, then game young women. If you want mature, experienced women, stick with 25+. TRP isn't here to judge your tastes. Do what you want. Edit: unless your implied question is "I want young women but don't have much luck with them. What do?" in that case, start posting field reports on here to get feedback on your game a…
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 02:55 PM
2

Women don't learn from turn around like that. She acts on her emotions. She shit tests because of her emotions, and if you try the sane shit it'll trigger emotions. Women are emotionally solipsistic, meaning only their emotions matter.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 02:02 PM
4

Coming here to ask about it isn't a fail. Wtf?
/r/askTRP30/08/14 01:59 PM
15

You have no legal obligation to him and it's not illegal to message a married woman online. Hell, it's not even illegal to sleep with a married woman. That said though, drop this shit now, sounds like a hornets nest of drama. Last thing you want is this guy flying off the handle and kicking your door in.
/r/askTRP30/08/14 12:23 AM
6

Porn addiction can be a serious problem. It took catching my wife cheating on me to break me out of it. I'm not a big fan of 12-step programs. They tend to be questionable in their efficacy. If it's a real problem for you, perhaps look in to finding a therapist. Preferably one trained in addiction recovery and practices CBT/DBT (cognitive/dialectic behavioral therapy). In the mean time, something you could try: next time you feel the urge to watch porn/fap, force yourself to just leave the house…
/r/askTRP29/08/14 10:53 PM
2

To all the people saying "just don't", stop. It really depends. For example where I work there are over 2,000 people in half a dozen buildings. I don't game chicks I work with but if I pass a chick in the hall or on an elevator who works in a completely different part of the company, it's no different than if I met her in the mall. Edit: some of the other advice in here is good. Nothing explicit over corporate email or IM, don't treat her sexually at work (or, at least not where others can see),…
/r/askTRP29/08/14 06:02 PM
1

They may indeed be bad people, at least in the sense that their behavior is usually unacceptable and causes great harm to others, but there is a reason they're that way. They were severely abused emotionally and often physically as children and really don't know any better. It's like an abused dog which is aggressive and untameable. Even if it's bad enough that the only solution is to put the dog down, you can still understand it's plight and have compassion for it. You wouldn't beat an abused d…
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 04:10 PM
1

This isn't the right way to handle a BPD ex. Complete NC, otherwise leading her on can lead to disastrous consequences. She could decide that she utterly hates you for toying with her, or sending her in to emotional spirals. Some borderlines are capable of serious havoc and can cause damage to your person or property, or sometimes if they're more passive aggressive, try to sabotage your social life. Best thing to do with borderline exes, it's too never talk to them again. Change your number if y…
/r/askTRP29/08/14 02:52 PM
2

Plates will come and go. Eventually their hamster gets tired of trying to rationalize why she's sleeping with a guy she knows she won't get an LTR out of. When she goes NC, just drop her. If she can't find anyone else with your SMV and/or skills in bed, she'll come back. Sometimes you'll even get a text out of the blue by some ex-plate you haven't heard from in months. It's the price of spinning plates. Edit: my phone's an asshole.
/r/askTRP29/08/14 02:42 PM
2

Ugh, let's try this again. Yes. All of this. A very good summary of. (More text for the bot, etc) ♂
/r/askTRP29/08/14 02:36 PM
1

Let me give you an example. I have a female friend who has a bf. She tells me that sometimes they refer to each other by monkey names in the third person when talking about difficult or awkward relationship stuff. Talking in the third person is an old psychological device to help people work out things they other wise have a hard time expressing. On the other hand, sometimes girls just like to indulge in silly role playing for the fun of it. Edit: removed the actual monkey names in case someone …
/r/askTRP29/08/14 02:29 PM
3

Iron John, A Book About Men The Way Of The Superior Man
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 11:49 AM
1

The beginnings of a cheesy novel?
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 11:43 AM
1

She's probably role playing with you. The "guy who looks just like you" is you. Sometimes girls like to depersonalize things to get around their cognitive dissonance or form plausible deniability. Or sometimes just for fun.
/r/askTRP29/08/14 11:00 AM
2

I'm sure there are some women with such poor impulse control and poor instincts that they would overlook certain danger for sex. I think it's far more than you realize. But then again, there are men who... Aaannndd there it is. "But men do it too!!" Yeah, so? My argument is this cant possbly be the norm because if it were, all the married men I knew would be serial killers and muggers, not lawyers and salesmen. You must have really misread something. I never said being a violent criminal is what…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/14 01:21 AM
3

I don't think women (at least not the majority) consciously say, "I'm going to pick this drug dealer over this lawyer bc he's cool." kwim? I don't think it's that obviously "conscious". That's like arguing that no one smokes because no one would consciously say "I'm going to slowly kill myself". People smoke because they're tempted by it, either because they think it'll make them seem cool, or because they tell themselves they can "quit any time" (presumably before any negative effects kick in).…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/14 01:02 AM
1

Obviously our experiences differ. Look, you asked the question, I gave you an answer. If your observations don't line up with that, then please tell me where you live because I would love to be the only attractive and high-quality male in an area full of women who would "jump" at the opportunity to be with me and who have no interested in riding the CC for "the fun of it". :D
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/14 12:50 AM
1

No one actually cares about this. Maybe some chicks who hear about it will shit test you for it, but they'll just find something else to shit test you for either way. Same tune, different words.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 12:46 AM
3

Fat chicks give great head.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 12:44 AM
1

Coincidentally, this is the correct frame of mind for dating all women. I guess this is why I was confused. I thought you were recommending doing something specifically different than normal. I agree that you should treat all women as if they're fat and ugly, and thus have to chase you.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 12:43 AM
1

I don't usually pull a grammar-nazi on here, but you seem confused about the difference between advice and advise.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 12:41 AM
1

1.) So what are the traits that women overlook deliberately while on the CC? Stability, emotional maturity, loyalty, ambition, etc, etc, etc... 2.) Do physically unattractive (below average) dark triad men pull women because of their behavior? Or is it that better-looking men can get away with bad behavior because women are so drawn to them? Both.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/14 12:38 AM
-1

No, obviously losery-ness isn't what attracts them, but plenty of women do regularly sleep with dark triad men who happen to be losers. Not because they're losers, but because their DT traits give them the gina tingles. I've seen it a thousand times. I used to have a few friends who were obvious losers, but they would regularly pull 8s and 9s because they acted like cocky douchebags and knew how to dominate a situation. that most women are incapable of seeing when they're riding the CC? It's not…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/14 12:30 AM
2

Right, I get that. Just wondering how that translates in to more specific actions/behavior. Are you suggesting that he throw out harsh negs, blow her off regularly, and make it obvious that he's just using her for sex? Or something more like just being more direct and assertive about meets, leading the date, etc? Those are just examples, but I think you get what I'm asking.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 12:21 AM
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Who has ever said women should settle for unattractive men? Who said women shouldn't have high standards? Not riding the CC doesn't require lowering of standards, it just means different standards. Women who ride the CC are sluts because they'll sleep with any asshole/DT/loser who gives them the tingles, as opposed to seeking attractive, high-quality LTR men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/14 12:16 AM
3

Read "Iron John, A Book About Men". It talks a lot about why it's important to defy your mother and break free of her control and support.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 11:08 PM
1

You reward her by being above her league. I think I see what you're saying here, but can you elaborate a bit to be sure?
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 11:04 PM
3

Cortisol and testosterone.
/r/askTRP28/08/14 07:59 PM
24

Exaggerate their conquests on reddit. :P
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 07:57 PM
1

I guess it depends on what kind of frame you've already set with the girl. If you're setting a highly sexual "player" frame you might be able to get away with this. But it's dicey. You're just as likely to trigger her anti-slut defenses.
/r/askTRP28/08/14 07:22 PM
8

Remember when they used to say the legalization of gay marriage will not lead to polygamy? I always hoped it would. Why not legalize both?
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 06:40 PM
1

I've seen people suggest using a pic of someone else on tinder... But what do you do when you meet them and it's obvious you're not the person in the pic?
/r/askTRP28/08/14 05:38 PM
1

What area do you live in? I don't usually see a lot of road rage where I'm at...
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 02:59 PM
1

Holy shit...
/r/askTRP28/08/14 01:55 PM
3

Hamster: "Why isn't he responding? Why won't he cave to my demands like all the other loser guys I talk to? Is there something wrong with me? Does he have a bunch of other girls talking to him? Should I text him again? What's going on?" Edit: in response to your edit... She didn't give a reason or an alternate date. She wants you to beg and validate. Commence simmering. Then in a few days find something fun to do, something you would do even if she wasn't going to be with you like a party or clu…
/r/askTRP28/08/14 01:35 PM
1

"sec, lemme finish this girl" No.
/r/askTRP28/08/14 01:02 PM
2

Hahaha! Perfect.
/r/askTRP28/08/14 12:55 PM
3

"Exactly. Get your ass over here." If she still refuses, then no response. Let her simmer for a few days.
/r/askTRP28/08/14 12:48 PM
3

Take none of it seriously. Always be joking and making fun of the whole thing. Act like you're only there as a gag. Most guys there will be trying way too hard to sell themselves and qualifying themselves to no end. Dodge, evade and A&A to absurdity in response to any questions they ask seeking to get you to qualify yourself. Find silly/lame excuses to kino. Have fun with it. Edit: another thing, with each chick, act slightly distracted by another chick. Like you're just waiting for your turn to…
/r/askTRP28/08/14 02:31 AM
10

"OK, come over."
/r/askTRP28/08/14 02:19 AM
1

Ah. Yeah, that makes a lot more sense.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 12:32 AM
6

Work out routine: stronglifts 5x5 /r/becomeaman Iron John, A Book About Men power poses general body language stuff
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 11:52 PM
1

You obviously read neither my comment nor the links. Who said anything about damaging anyone? What are you even talking about?
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 11:41 PM
2

Might help if you posted the actual conversation.
/r/askTRP27/08/14 10:26 PM
16

The point of dread game is to send her hamster a'spinning. Even if she thinks it's most likely a ploy, she'll still have that nagging "what if" in the back of her mind.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 09:07 PM
7

Sounds like borderline personality disorder. Take a look here and see if it lines up. If it does, he also has a good article on how to break up with a borderline. If you're curious about it in general, this guy has a lot of other good articles here.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 06:52 PM
1

Frame shattered. Unless your frame is "I don't put up with crazy bitches."
/r/askTRP27/08/14 02:25 PM
1

Maybe. But as I said to the other comment: Always actively rule out another man.
/r/askTRP27/08/14 02:19 PM
2

Always actively rule out another man. Have you ever been cheated on? If you have you would know the warning signs a mile away and wouldn't hesitate to at least look into it.
/r/askTRP27/08/14 02:11 PM
-1

The sudden change of plans plus getting defensive and assuming you're upset when you aren't, to me, just screams "I'm about to cheat on you with some guy I just met."
/r/askTRP27/08/14 11:28 AM
0

Some options: Disagree and amplify. "That crazy bitch? Oh hell no!" or "Who?" Pressure flip: "No. You?" (Watch her eyes carefully. Look for hints of lying/denial) Evade and tease: "Why? Don't like competition?" (Brace for hamstering, shit tests)
/r/askTRP27/08/14 11:25 AM
36

I love how all the women are laughing and cheering. They know it's for them but are simultaneously hamstering that it's true for "other" women.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 11:17 AM
0

It's best to show her that you "get it" by skillfully passing her shit tests and gliding through her mind like a ghost. Act like you can read her mind, don't tell her you can. Your words are meaningless to her, only your actions will prove your skill with women.
/r/askTRP27/08/14 11:08 AM
46

Be a beta with some chick for 10 years, believe she's The One, trust her implicitly. Then catch her cheating on you with your best friend, watch her lie, bold faced, looking you in the eye. Cry like a little bitch. Spend months in a panic, trying to figure out if you're going insane or if your life really is falling apart around you. Get really bad advice from your mother and your friends only to eventually realize they all probably knew all along and never told you. Contemplate suicide. Then co…
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 01:48 AM
2

Proceed as if it was a great date. No shame. No insecurities.
/r/askTRP27/08/14 01:36 AM
3

A lot of the other examples give are really sigmas, not alphas. Clint Eastwood's movie persona is definitely sigma.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 12:17 AM
1

If your friend doesn't care (or if you don't care if he does) then go for it. "Use" her, fuck her good, don't lead her on emotionally at all, and keep it discreet. She'll talk to her friends about how you were so good in bed. Even if she says she felt used, it'll be in a "good" way (by the way women actually do like being used for sex, as long as it's good sex with a high status man) and, bam, instant social proof. All her friends will suddenly find you to be mysterious and sexy. Next time you m…
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 12:05 AM
2

Are you looking to rub it in her face or something? Why do you care?
/r/askTRP26/08/14 11:52 PM
3

Mad Men is full of RP examples. Don Draper is a true alpha. Most of the men are RP, even if not true alphas.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/14 10:44 PM
5

If you don't care if she touches your dick again, what's the question? Just do whatever you would do as if she never existed. If you secretly do want to bang her again, do something to piss her off, then just grin as she flips out. When she's done say "feel better?" then step up to her looking her in the eye with a passion, grab her by the hips, and pull her in for a kiss. Then lead her back to your room. Edit: basically if a chick wants drama, give her some. Give her an excuse to see your unsha…
/r/askTRP26/08/14 10:30 PM
6

Bullshit. I maintain frame over cops on a regular basis. Most cops are true betas, on the alpha-beta-delta-omega scale. Ie they're followers with a spine. But they fold to an alpha/sigma.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/14 10:22 PM
3

If that doesn't work, stomp your feet and beat your chest.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/14 10:12 PM
1

I never made any judgement either way about any of that. Whether or not she can forgive, or if she thinks her relationship is worth trying to resolve, is a deeply personal matter between OP and her SO. I will say this though: considering the fact that about 80% of committed relationships involve at least one party's infidelity at some point, it always seems a bit hasty to me how some people will throw away years worth of otherwise happy relationships over single issues. The odds are someone is g…
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/14 07:05 PM
3

https://i.chzbgr.com/maxW500/8281092864/h7C96164A/
/r/askTRP26/08/14 06:57 PM
9

What, no growling or panting?
/r/TheRedPill26/08/14 06:39 PM
11

Being short is a point against you in the SMP, but it's not a death sentence. I've seen some people say they wear boots with tall heels or thick soles to add a few inches. But good game can help a lot. Remember, most men have horrible game, so even though chicks might have more initial attraction to taller dudes, they'll usually fuck it up.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/14 06:02 PM
1

I AM GROOT.
/r/askTRP26/08/14 05:56 PM
1

I have my flaws. How cute. I bet you're "a little too honest" sometimes and maybe even suffer from a terrible case of neck-down alopecia, right?
/r/askTRP26/08/14 05:43 PM
6

Check out /r/redpillwomen. Ask a fisherwoman how to catch a fish.
/r/askTRP26/08/14 04:28 PM
2

If it seems like either of you are having a hard time coping with this, it might not be a bad idea to try to find a red pill-friendly therapist. Therapy definitely helped me. Either way best wishes for you both and enjoy the vacation.
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/14 12:48 PM
1

trying to improve can make her focus on something different. Good point. As long as you do it with the mentality of moving forward and learning from it instead of dwelling in self-doubt and insecurities.
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/14 12:33 PM
2

Depends on how much "fooling around" there was, and how long they've been seeing each other. If this was a chick you just met a few weeks ago and hung out with a few times, then yeah. If it was a FB/FWB that's been going on longer, this would just look like you're trying too hard to act like you don't care. Edit: in general I'm not a big fan of the "absent-minded/impatient player" frame. I usually like the "busy man with options" frame. So usually when a plate re-initiates contact after a soft n…
/r/askTRP26/08/14 12:24 PM
5

My philosophy has always been that I don't believe in male monogamy so as long as I don't get to know, you use protection and nobody gets to know it's fine. The fact that it was at a house party is really icky. I'd feel hurt by imagining people see him flirt and act silly with her before going to bed. I think this is a very enlightened perspective. It's basically what my wife told me after she found out about my indiscretions (pre-RP). It was very eye opening to hear her tell me that it wasn't t…
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/14 12:21 PM
7

Man, and cheater, here. I'm not going to try to tell you this shouldn't hurt. It will. But maybe I can give a little perspective that can hopefully make it hurt less. I can tell you that when a man has a fling with another woman and says "it didn't mean anything" it really didn't mean anything to him. I'm not going to tell you that it shouldn't hurt when he does, but remember that men cheat for different reasons than women. Usually when a woman cheats it's because there's something wrong, or at …
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/14 12:08 PM
6

She means you got needy/pushy. Or at least felt like it. Or went NC hoping you would qualify/validate her by texting non-stop. Response: "np slowpoke. What are you doing this weekend?" Or this.
/r/askTRP26/08/14 03:15 AM
2

Yeah, mine is a pro at gaslighting, trickle truth, then gaslighting the trickled truth, and gaslighting the gaslighting. Sometimes it makes my head spin. Whenever she pulls that shit I just put on my best "subtly amused but trying to hide it" grin and say "is that so?" or a distracted/disinterested "uh-huh..."
/r/MarriedRedPill26/08/14 01:15 AM
16

It's either a shit test or she's just lost interest in you. Either way, the correct response is "k" or something equally dismissive like "gay" or "later". The real cop out is pining over this one chick when you should have several.
/r/trpGAME26/08/14 12:38 AM
14

"k" Pick up more plates.
/r/trpGAME25/08/14 11:33 PM
0

If you have your own place, throw your own parties. If not, get one. Being the guy throwing the parties goes a long way. Also, get in to the sport crowd if that's where the girls are. Get ripped.
/r/askTRP25/08/14 11:30 PM
0

I would ignore the text. You can't build attraction over text anyway. Once you meet for dinner, make a sarcastic joke about the whole "friends thing". Proceed with game, flirting, kino, etc, as normal. Edit: expect a bit more LMR than usual. Treat it like any LMR.
/r/askTRP25/08/14 11:25 PM
5

Give him BJs every other day. ;P
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/14 11:20 PM
1

Maybe you should talk to a travel agent instead of asking here. Not sure why you would think this would be a good place to ask this...
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 11:18 PM
2

Ah. I'm actually very familiar with BPD, having been with a (high functioning) borderline for 10 years. Yes, mirroring is good with borderline, or even most women with emotional issues. Just make sure you explain that better next time, most people will read it the wrong way.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/14 11:15 PM
2

No link, but video has been posted a hundred times already. Can someone find one of the previous posts of this video and sticky it? At least until it's done the full round in social media?
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 11:01 PM
5

If she throws emotion at you, you reflect the emotion like a mirror (you can even verbally recognize it) but don't absorb or take on it. I don't recommend this. I find it's better to just be stoic and calm, or use amused mastery to defuse it if possible. Reflecting emotions back shows that she can perturb you, which fails that shit test.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/14 10:35 PM
1

Although I don't think people will fall in love with what I have to say in general as I am a pretty direct person i'll give it my best, thanks for the help. Stop worrying about what other people will think. Being direct and unapologetic is very masculine and people will respect you for it, especially women. You should learn to say no to women, to correct women, and to lead them to your point of view. We've been taught from a young age to fear the reprisal of women, but this fear is actually a hu…
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 06:28 PM
1

short Height, for your purposes, is irrelevant. You can't really do anything about it. You could wear boots with thick soles to help some, but as for finding a role model, the height difference isn't relevant. Game will be the same. young The only significant difference here would be that it's actually easier to pick up young chicks. They're less experienced with men, less jaded, and more slutty. quiet This is the one you should work on. While being laconic is good and it's important to be a goo…
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 06:00 PM
2

Sounds to me like your game is lacking. The self-improvement part of TRP is great, and it's a prerequisite for effective game, but it's not all of it. Post field reports here or on /r/trpgame to get feedback on your attempts/approaches. We can't really help unless you give us specifics. Also, watch daygame videos on YouTube. I'm a pretty big fan of Sasha Daygame but the are others. Just search for daygame, PUA, etc.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 05:40 PM
6

Generally. The overall mentality is called amused mastery. But it depends. If she's blatantly disrespecting you or being cruel, sometimes you just have to command respect or soft next or something.
/r/askTRP24/08/14 10:49 PM
15

It's amoral in the sense that we can state that certain actions will produce certain results. Whether or not you should perform those actions is another thing. For example: TRP recognizes that women are attracted to dark triad traits (something which is actually confirmed by mainstream science). But it doesn't mean you should actually be DT. Merely that it will work.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/14 10:11 PM
2

Forewarning: Do not do this too much, or too creatively, or it'll turn into some dancing monkey trick she gets you to do. After a while, if she doesn't get the message, find another way to handle it. I think this is an important thing to remember with this kind of A&A. Don't let it become "the thing you do".
/r/askTRP24/08/14 10:07 PM
5

Perfect.
/r/askTRP24/08/14 09:55 PM
12

It's just a silly role play thing. Girls do that. Sheesh... You must be a boring date.
/r/askTRP24/08/14 09:51 PM
5

She's joking about not "loving" him any more after one date and a makeout session. She's playing out a silly fantasy wherein they have an established loving relationship (like "playing house"). Implying that "the children" should be considered is basically agree and amplify.
/r/askTRP24/08/14 09:43 PM
8

The earth is round, the sun rises in the east, and men are less willing to marry women with high partner count. These are all amoral facts of reality. What you choose to do with that information may or may not be moral, but the facts themselves are neither moral or immoral.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/14 09:37 PM
26

Get a job. Then get a cell phone. You're 20 years old, grow up.
/r/askTRP24/08/14 09:33 PM
22

It's a joke. Just say something like "but what about the children?!" Edit: never take anything seriously with women. They joke, tease, talk shit. It's called flirting.
/r/askTRP24/08/14 09:30 PM
6

This man knows what he's talking about.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/14 01:26 AM
6

Just quit while you're behind. Digging your heels in and getting defensive just makes you look butthurt. Flashing your degree around makes for excellent beta bux material, but if that's what you're going for you're in the wrong sub.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/14 01:10 AM
11

Not to mention qualifying yourself. Watch Don Draper handle the "what do you do?" question.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/14 11:19 PM
1

Girls who can't keep female friends, and use males for companionship, are the worst of the worst. Usually pretty slutty too.
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/14 12:13 AM
1

An introverted alpha is basically a sigma.
/r/askTRP22/08/14 08:43 PM
1

Teach her self-respect and critical thinking skills. Lead with your actions. Don't indulge her every emotional outburst so she learns self-soothing without feeling like she needs a man to constantly validate her emotions. Just like with most women, learn to tell the difference between the times when she needs genuine emotional support and the times when she's employing emotional blackmail. Get her in to hobbies/sports/etc that build self-esteem. Also, maybe post in RPW to see if the ladies can g…
/r/askTRP21/08/14 12:00 PM
19

Man here. Not to butt in, but I just had to post this. I read over on TRP a line I think perfectly sums this up: To men, equality means treating everyone the same. To women, equality means men treating women the way women treat each other.
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/14 11:38 AM
1

I never say i want to become a doctor with the intent to impress someone It doesn't matter. All that matters is whether or not they feel like that's what you're doing. Remember the 6th commandment of poon. i just take great pride in the fact that ive set a goal for myself and am succeeding in reaching it (the same sense of pride appears when people ask me my GPA). In my mind its just a huge ego boost. Let's this show through your confident attitude. No need to tell. Show, don't tell. Edit: I was…
/r/askTRP21/08/14 12:18 AM
0

Just get her to hang out with you and your girl, go out for drinks, game both of them. Then get them both back to your place and kino escalate both, encourage them to touch each other. Make it fun and exciting, put on fun party music, get them dancing, etc. Porn star mentality.
/r/askTRP20/08/14 05:55 PM
0

Eat the recommended number of calories of a person who weighs what you want to weigh.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 05:48 PM
-1

So don't read those posts. Unsub and go over to /r/Alreadyred.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 05:46 PM
1

I doubt it's the major/career itself that's turning them off. It's more likely a matter of how you say it or how the conversation got there. Are you saying it in a way that comes off as trying to "impress" them? If so, stop that. Women are turned off by men who try to impress them. Are you answering a question they ask in conversation that should actually be treated like a shit test? Maybe next time a girl asks what you're majoring in tell them "underwater freestyle hip-hop with a minor in beat-…
/r/askTRP20/08/14 03:21 PM
26

It's probably some kind of rape.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 12:49 AM
17

I'm thinking this bitch is a grade A borderline. Probably has a whole network of sniveling orbiters doing her bidding.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 10:03 PM
47

The top comment is some pretty serious hamstering. She wants to know he's going to test before she gets pregnant. You know, because of respect, and stuff. It couldn't be because she wants to know if she can get away with AFBB or anything...
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 12:18 PM
1

"Iron John, A Book About Men" by Robert Bly This is a book that's basically about deep inner game and how to become a man.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 12:08 PM
2

"Your nose is interesting." I personally steer clear of anything physical that they can't help. I usually go after their fashion, lifestyle, etc. For example I have one girl who's a total hippie so I tease her about that. Whenever she brings up something hippie-ish, like some new granola or something, I playfully call it "hippie shit" or roll my eyes and say "fuckin' hippies, I swear..." then give her a grin and a wink. Edit: then again, those aren't really negs per se, just teasing I guess... A…
/r/askTRP19/08/14 11:17 AM
10

"well I am" Edit: about your last update... That's not really a fail. She laughed, and gave a legit reason why she can't make it. I think the only mistake you made was to give a specific time. Usually that's what you want to do, but since you're basically waiting for her date to go bad at some point, you can't really expect her at some specific time. I might have just said "text me when he strikes out." after the "worst person" comment. Edit 2: also, I might not have added the "red or white wine…
/r/trpGAME18/08/14 09:49 PM
1

long distance girlfriend There's your problem...
/r/askTRP18/08/14 07:19 PM
4

This post is perfect timing for me. I've been thinking about this a lot recently. I've definitely been coming to the conclusion that stretching for something, anything, to say comes off as desperate and try-hard. It seems to me the best course is to feel and act comfortable with silence. I do really like the advice to look in to her eyes like you're waiting for her to say something, it's a great way to get her to qualify herself. Great post
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 04:14 PM
13

I think you're confused about what frame means. It doesn't mean being constantly non-reactive. Your frame is the overall set of rules, standards and boundaries you set for others in their relationship with you. "Holding frame" means unapologetically enforcing this with others. Most of the time that means acting like you don't give a fuck what they think, because it has no effect on how you think of yourself. But if someone is acting in a way that's blatantly disrespectful or harmful to you, you …
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 02:37 PM
1

Yeah, sometimes I think there's too many noobs trying to up their karma by parroting standard mantras. Maintaining a constant level of soft dread is important to maintaining attraction, but too much and it could make her feel insecure in the relationship. And trying to up the dread game when you think she's at risk of cheating might push her over the edge.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 01:10 PM
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Not someone that requires constant "experiences". Indeed. All the women I know who talk about needing "experiences" were total sluts. They would cheat, branch swing, string along as many orbiters as possible, etc. They're easily bored, and they'll eventually get bored with you. Probably because they're bored with themselves and need constant validation and distractions to feel good about themselves.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 11:41 AM
6

I don't think dread game helps to prevent cheating. Sometimes it can encourage it. If you play it too hard she might cheat to set up an exit plan in case you leave her. The best way to prevent cheating is: Always be improving yourself. No woman will risk losing a man who they know will be a better man tomorrow than he is today. Always be on the look out for signs of a budding emotional affair. Follow the two week rule. Always be preempting and disqualifying potential competition. Ie, if she's be…
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 11:28 AM
2

I highly recommend "History of Western Philosophy" by Bertrand Russell. It's a tome, but well worth it.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 02:03 AM
1

It's one thing to not expect to be aroused, it's another thing entirely to not be oblivious to the fact that you are aroused.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/14 01:51 AM
25

I say approach anyway. You don't have to fuck her, just make conversation. Not only is it good overall social practice, you never know if she has got friends. Use the FSM to your advantage.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 01:29 AM
2

Where does any red pill literature say women aren't aware of their own arousal?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/14 12:39 AM
1

Read everything in the sidebar twice. Read the rational male year 1. Go to /r/becomeaman, sort by "new" and go to the last page with the "day 1" post and go from there.
/r/askTRP18/08/14 12:32 AM
7

Of course they're just examples. The point is to let her bitchiness roll off your back and come back with a cocky/funny retort. As for her friends, she needs them for courage to approach you. In fact, in the 10 minutes they were gone she was probably gabbing with them about you and they egged her on to "confront" you (cue giggles and blushing). Plus, there's two ways it could have gone in their mind (yes, singular - women in groups have a hive-mind): You fold to her womyn-power and she gets prop…
/r/askTRP18/08/14 12:00 AM
4

The pants should [...] not be much longer than the top of your shoes I disagree with this. Depending on your height, build and style, this could just look like you're wearing highwaters or pants you've owned since you were younger that don't fit any more. For example, I'm 6'2" and relatively thin, pants that short look ridiculously short on me, so I wear jeans that are just long enough to barely brush the ground in the back. But my style is kind of rock/industrial, so wide-leg long jeans work be…
/r/TheRedPill17/08/14 11:51 PM
74

would NEVER cheat Translation: seriously thinking about cheating.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/14 11:44 PM
4

I think /u/Redpillington is pretty spot on here. I would only add this: When she mentioned already being wet, and noticed that someone else other than her slut-enabling friends overheard it, her anti-slut-defenses kicked in, especially if she thought you were attractive. That's why she thought you were rolling your eyes. So she threw up her bitch-shield. What she wanted out of the confrontation was for you to disarm her bitchiness and diffuse her feelings of being judged as a slut. Some good exa…
/r/askTRP17/08/14 11:24 PM
2

Well, going to a movie isn't a great first date. Hard to game and generate attraction, unless you think she's the kind of chick who'll be easy to kino in to making out in a theater. This usually only works with younger chicks and/or sluts. However, in general, if she's bringing party favors or is covering some other part of the cost of the date, then that's fine. Edit: ultimately, the point is you need to make it clear to her that she needs to be adding value to the experience with more than jus…
/r/TheRedPill17/08/14 10:56 PM
1

DBT is part of CBT.
/r/askTRP17/08/14 10:52 PM
6

I recommend finding a therapist who specializes in CBT (cognitive behavioral therapy), which puts a lot of emphasis on being accepting and non-judgmental, while also helping you to carefully and thoroughly assess your behaviors. Might be a good way to help you learn how to maintain frame under stress, prevent being reactionary (good for handling unexpected shit tests), etc.
/r/askTRP17/08/14 07:17 PM
1

Lol... Oh, I'm sure we've all got stories like that. :p
/r/askTRP17/08/14 07:11 PM
1

Indeed... That many winky smileys, hints about laying in bed... Not sure how this was missed...
/r/askTRP17/08/14 05:33 PM
10

You're insecure about 6 inches? If a girl isn't satisfied with that, it's not your size, it's you. Learn how to fuck. A good starting place is The Sex God Method.
/r/askTRP17/08/14 03:27 PM
7

Wow, you can hear the hamster hard at work in that one. "You don't even, like, take care of me, like, umm, like emotionally, like, err..." How he can't recognize the obviously contrived and made-up guilt tripping is beyond me.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/14 10:38 AM
1

I think the other commenters have a point, but I also do think what you're describing is possible. Just don't forget where you came from, and don't get too comfortable. Odds are you'll be back. In the meantime, check out /r/alreadyred.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/14 10:20 AM
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I highly recommend splitting on the first date for several reasons: You should be going on as many first dates with as many women as possible and paying for all of them will get expensive. Read the sidebar material on plate theory. Paying for the first date shows too much provider investment and sets that as the tone of your relationship with her. Splitting is a good test to help weed out the needy, the gold-diggers, and the self-entitled bitches. It displays abundance mentality and overall high…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/14 09:56 AM
4

Start with the basics. Working out and getting in to shape will help a lot, more than you realize. Learn game, game women. You don't have to cheat, but watching your game with women improve, especially as you start to get in shape, will boost your self-esteem and confidence. Buy a copy of No More Mr Nice Guy and read it twice. This is great intro material that was meant for exactly your situation. Also, the monk mode suggestion in another comment is great advice. Focus on you. Treat your wife li…
/r/askTRP15/08/14 10:53 PM
2

Obviously you don't do this every time forever. It's just something to practice ejaculation control. I read it somewhere else (not that book) years ago and it helped me.
/r/askTRP15/08/14 10:38 PM
4

Varying the speed does help a lot. Do 7 reps fast, 3 slow. Do 5 sets of that. Then 8 slow and deep (all the way in, almost all the way out) then a hard plunge, pushing as hard and deep as you can and hold for 5 seconds. 4 sets. Go back and forth between those a couple of times then pull out and slap your dick against her clit a few times and start fingering her until she cums. Rinse, repeat. When she's getting worn out, pull out and cum on her face. Just say "close your eyes" and do it.
/r/askTRP15/08/14 09:53 PM
9

Read The Sex God Method
/r/askTRP15/08/14 09:41 PM
2

I have long hair and I wear jeans and a (usually black or dark red) t-shirt. Sometimes I wear a green shamrock pendant. But I listen to metal and industrial music and go for goth-ish chicks with a dirty mind. So that's me. Some guys dress like pimps, successful business men, golfers, etc, etc... The point is it doesn't matter. If you want fashion advice there are plenty of other subs for that. Wear what suits your personality and style.
/r/askTRP15/08/14 09:39 PM
1

3 feet tall with a flat head so I have somewhere to rest my beer while she's blowing me.
/r/askTRP15/08/14 09:19 PM
2

A "red pill image"? Whatever that means, don't. Keep your sexual exploits discreet. Especially if you bang chicks in the industry.
/r/askTRP15/08/14 09:08 PM
5

There very well may not be any logical reason. Stop over thinking it and next!
/r/askTRP15/08/14 06:42 PM
1

I read somewhere recently that women do actually remember penises to be bigger than they are after having sex with you. Their mind inflates the memory based on the positive feelings they have about you from sex.
/r/askTRP15/08/14 02:32 PM
3

I especially like the "no, I'm good" response. It's a great way to decline while being slightly non sequitur and making it clear that it's about you.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/14 02:29 PM
1

She's being a petty brat. Trust me, she'll get the idea, and as a bonus, it'll turn her on.
/r/askTRP14/08/14 06:29 PM
0

As soon as she started getting all upset I would have just gotten up and left. Not in a pouty way, just calmly and without explanation. Go get a beer with friends or something. Then come home and act like nothing happened.
/r/askTRP14/08/14 05:14 PM
1

http://youtu.be/68OVHoZ8KaA
/r/TheRedPill14/08/14 02:27 PM
2

Get more plates. When one turns you down, call another.
/r/askTRP14/08/14 01:07 PM
3

I wish all the girls reading that and fantasizing about it the best of luck.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 11:11 PM
12

Then he goes his own way, dismantles a major drug cartel and builds his own. Kills any mfer who gets in his way. Turns his wife in to his secretary / money launderer.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 08:12 PM
5

Have you seen /r/becomeaman? Sort by "new" then go to the last page and start reading from the "day 1" post on.
/r/askTRP13/08/14 06:34 PM
1

Yeah... I've thought about it a lot recently and I think I agree with you. The boy scout sincere "thank you" I think works great in a man-to-man or more casual setting, but yeah, when picking up chicks, I think cocky/funny, etc could work really well in the right context.
/r/askTRP13/08/14 01:18 AM
1

Our way produces measurable, repeatable results. Go look at /r/thanktrp or search for the thank TRP flair in the main /r/TheRedPill sub. It saved my marriage. The difference is like night and day. I went from a dead bedroom with a cheating wife to happy fulfilling marriage with a wife that begs me to screw her brains out, sometimes several times a day, and happily does most of the household chores.
/r/askTRP13/08/14 12:43 AM
4

First off, welcome. The general advice is going to be "read the sidebar, then read it again" which is a good advice. Most of your questions will be answered there. However, to briefly address some of your questions/concerns: it's not something that would personally suit me While you're obviously free to ignore any or all of TRP, realize that it's not a matter of what "suits" anyone. TRP is about the raw, unadulterated reality of men, women, sex, relationships, etc, and with that knowledge, how t…
/r/askTRP12/08/14 09:08 PM
6

Holy shit, a red pill -ish counselor that's also female?! Unicorn counselor?
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/14 08:33 PM
0

Missing the point.
/r/askTRP12/08/14 11:26 AM
2

Everything, this. Plus the cultural issues. Ever noticed how even when you find a woman who is in a high-paying tech field, they're usually either very obese or otherwise unattractive? It's because attractive women have been given evening their whole life and never had to work for anything. Also, I'm reminded of that story recently about the all-female TV production company that went bankrupt over petty in-fighting, fashion showdowns, and plain old bickering. Can't be bothered to find the link n…
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 04:27 AM
10

Freelancing requires self-motivation self-discipline novel ideas Web design requires The patience to work with inanimate objects that look nothing like babies or human faces Rational, abstract thinking Genuine creativity
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 11:28 PM
2

Find something fun to do, something that doesn't require her to be there, and invite her to join you. If she doesn't show, have fun anyway. Then try again next week. Increase the interval exponentially each time she doesn't show. In the mean time, find other chicks.
/r/trpGAME11/08/14 11:17 PM
3

But, but, but... There's got to be some woman that had some (however small) contribution to those things, right?! Besides! Behind every great man is a great woman, right?! Emilia Earhart! Emilia Earhart! Emilia Earhart!
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 11:09 PM
1

Not to mention the fact that even your "true friends" might not see you the same way. I've had a number of very close friends who I'd known for almost a decade stab me in the back the first chance they got.
/r/askTRP11/08/14 09:56 PM
5

Fuck these guys, I got your back bro. Hell, I'll tag team her with you. Then after she's done licking our cum off her face, we can kick her to the curb and go get a beer.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 09:47 PM
1

Talk about it anyway. Stop being so reserved. She's probably reserved about it because you are. She'll pick up on your level of comfort and mirror it. If you treat her like an innocent, naive girl, that's how she'll act. After all, if she opens up about it you might think she's a dirty slut. But if you make it OK to be open and talk dirty about sex, by doing it yourself, she will. Go watch the guys on BangBus, see how they talk to women. Then talk to her like that.
/r/askTRP11/08/14 09:23 PM
6

I'm thinking maybe I should just me more selfish in bed but I don't know, I did what I want in one night stands because I didn't give a fuck if they came back or not but I wanna keep this girl satisfied for a long time. That's the thing though. Women genuinely want to be used like a throw away sex toy. All women want to be kissed like you love them and fucked like you hate them. Obviously she isn't going to tell you that though, you're expected to "just get it".
/r/askTRP11/08/14 09:05 PM
0

Low energy, loss of interest in hobbies... Sounds like depression. I would recommend taking a good hard look at your life, and maybe talk to a therapist. Do you have friends? Do you enjoy hanging out with them?
/r/askTRP11/08/14 04:33 PM
2

The point of spinning plates, at least for a lot of people, is to optimize the search pattern for a LTR quality woman, while avoiding the tunnel-vision of oneitis and keeping your abundance mentality going. If you've found an LTR quality chick (the fun to talk to one) it's important to keep at least a plate or two around so you don't end up fucking it up by getting clingy or losing your abundance frame. At least at first as you ease in to an LTR... If months go by and she turns out to be (relati…
/r/askTRP11/08/14 12:56 AM
1

A benevolent dictator might be able to hold it all together... Obviously in a polygamist society most of the men with wives would be alphas and sigmas anyway, so this shouldn't be too much of a problem.
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/14 09:48 PM
1

I'm wondering that too. Since it would mostly be delta males left being single, they tend to just mope along with whatever society gives them anyway. On the other hand, most omegas and many low-betas might be left in the cold too, so they might be a problem.
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/14 09:44 PM
1

Actually toilet seats are pretty safe.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/14 04:18 PM
-1

Right, because that's exactly what I said to him...
/r/TheRedPill09/08/14 03:53 PM
3

I'm not a polygamist, at least not in the strict sense, and don't really care to defend it here. Google turns up quite a few links about it if you're really interested. Either way, I'm not going to say there aren't downsides or that the pros outweigh the cons. Just saying it's a bit simplistic to deny that there aren't any benefits or that it necessarily will, singlehandedly, cause the downfall of civilization.
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/14 03:49 PM
3

I agree. This is manipulative behavior and it shows that she doesn't really care about being respectful of even having a conscious thought about the situation. She's just parroting hoping you'll back down so she doesn't have to.
/r/askTRP09/08/14 03:14 PM
4

From what I can tell the research goes both ways on this. I think it probably depends more on other cultural factors. There are pros and cons.
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/14 03:08 PM
11

Recipe for polygamy. 80/20 rule.
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/14 02:43 PM
1

I had spent several months trying to get him to do stuff like go to the gym, talk to chicks, read self-improvement books, etc. He's totally uninterested. If I was a bit too "prodding" (very possible) it was because I was already frustrated by his completely defeatist attitude and his obvious desire to just wallow in misery. He was starting to become a real drag on my mood. People like him are an anchor who just want to latch on to anyone they can to drag them down with him. Maybe I should have e…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/14 01:44 PM
2

Isn't it often said around here that the red pill is bitter and jagged? So many times I've seen people posting looking for soft/gentle introductions to TRP only to be told that such a thing would be contrary to the point because it's supposed to be the harsh, unadulterated truth, and trying to soften it would just water down the message. So. Since you seem to disagree with that assessment, tell me: where do I find resources that would better serve the function of introducing people to the red pi…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/14 01:25 PM
0

I get that, and I've said as much in my other comments. I've admitted that I might not have handled it the best. I'm just frustrated that so many people want to jump on the "OP is an asshole" bandwagon. Sure, maybe I laughed when I shouldn't have, but clearly his reaction was disproportionate and overly sensitive, right? Isn't that something that's often ridiculed and exposed around here? Overly sensitive men who's ego-fueled angst and insecurities cause them to react violently to harsh truths a…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/14 01:19 PM
6

This.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/14 11:43 AM
3

Upvoted for the lulz.
/r/askTRP09/08/14 11:38 AM
0

FFS... A bunch of cynical pussies in this thread... Do you always get so butthurt whenever someone says "haha" or "lol" in a conversation? Jesus...
/r/TheRedPill09/08/14 11:19 AM
1

And people wonder why so many white women date black men. Hint: it's not the penis size.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/14 12:16 AM
2

You probably have a higher count than I do, but I don't keep track. I prefer quality over quantity, personally. As for a specific answer to your question, I don't know. I was monogamous through most of my 20's with the same chick, and just started dating/gaming again a few months ago. Even then, I don't go for ONS/hook-ups straight from the bar to their place. I have my wife, 2 girls I see fairly regularly, and a few plates I see here and there. They keep me busy enough that I don't have to worr…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/14 12:00 AM
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I never said I handled this the best, but the point is he was highly offended from the get-go. An "lol" here and there shouldn't send a grown man in to a hissy-fit. This is a guy who likes to sit around and "talk shit" with the guys. He curses, gets in people's faces, "doesn't give a fuck", etc. But you think he's justified in getting all butthurt over a link and a few "lol"s? Edit: I get that you're trying to give me helpful feedback on how I handled this. And I appreciate it. But it's long ove…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 11:37 PM
2

Yeah. And ironically, even being married, I get more pussy than him, and he knows it. He's even jokingly complained about it before...
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 11:19 PM
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Well... First off, he's had girlfriends on and off, but can never manage to keep one around for more than a month, so the "already in a relationship" advice was relevant. I should have explained that better in the post. And secondly, I never said "yolo" once, I don't even know where you're getting that. Our previous conversations have been full of lighthearted "lol"s, etc.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 11:17 PM
2

His ex-wife is a psycho bitch and did some serious damage to him both before and during the divorce.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 11:13 PM
0

Here it is.
/r/askTRP08/08/14 11:00 PM
7

I'm actually about to type it up here in a few. Where do you think it belongs? In the main TRP sub? Tag it blue pill example?
/r/askTRP08/08/14 10:09 PM
16

I dumped most of my friends after swallowing the pill. I realized they were all pathetic losers a long time ago, but they were comfortable. Fuck that. Especially when they all started talking about me behind my back and even trying to manipulate me and my wife. One friend even tried to convince my wife that I'm starting to hate women and started hitting on her, trying to make himself her little white knight. The funny thing is, my wife was becoming so attracted to me and happy with me she told m…
/r/askTRP08/08/14 09:50 PM
2

going outside, stop being socially awkward from isolating yourself on the internet, and actually interact with human beings. Look, I understand that you all are used to hopelessly awkward high schoolers who spend all day on their computer, but that's not me. I'm not going to spell out my social life or try to prove it to you, but suffice it to say that your assumptions about me and the reasoning behind my question are simply wrong. I'll give you the last word to berate me more if you like.
/r/askTRP08/08/14 02:56 PM
1

Right because everything else red pill teaches us is just as intuitive...
/r/askTRP08/08/14 12:40 PM
1

Yeah... I usually send out a bunch of messages in the morning, ignore okc entirely until the evening, then check. Positive responses receive a reply that night, neutral ones the next morning. Negative ones get ignored, or if I'm feeling snarky, I'll make fun of them for living with too many cats or give then some really harsh feedback (not that I expect then to listen, but it's kind of like whack-a-bitch.)
/r/askTRP08/08/14 04:00 AM
1

I've dumped most of my friends after swallowing the pill. You'll miss then sometimes, but then you'll remember what losers they were and how much better you are without them.
/r/askTRP08/08/14 03:48 AM
2

I've met chicks who are aware of and even agree with some red pill stuff. They'll talk about shit tests, alpha/beta/etc, and even frame. But they'll still do the same shit themselves. AWALT. Edit: I've read somewhere before that the best game works even if they recognize it as game. They still want it even if they're aware that you're aware that they want it. Edit 2: a lot of people on TRP have an abstract "unicorn" oneitis. Even if most of them proclaim "AWALT" they'll still pedestalize "red pi…
/r/askTRP08/08/14 03:37 AM
-2

I know! Makes my vagina hurt. Teh feelz.
/r/askTRP08/08/14 02:24 AM
1

Noted. Thanks.
/r/askTRP07/08/14 08:54 PM
3

That's perfect actually. I love it. That book has been on my reading list too long now and this just bumped it up to the top. Thanks. ♂
/r/askTRP07/08/14 06:33 PM
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Lol... Who the hell downvotes a relevant question on a sub meant for asking questions?
/r/askTRP07/08/14 06:29 PM
4

My wife has always said that if she had a penis for a day, all she would want would be to get a blow job "just to see what all the fuss is about."
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 04:06 PM
1

I like the idea of boots. Being 6'2" myself I know my height is a huge advantage but I can see why being 6'5" would be exponentially better. Thanks for the tip.
/r/askTRP07/08/14 12:12 PM
21

My now-wife tried to impose the toilet seat thing when we first started living together. I squashed it immediately. I told her she's a big girl and can learn how to operate a toilet. She put up a token fight about it but I was firm and unwavering, and she's never brought it up since.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 11:09 AM
-1

Get laid.
/r/askTRP06/08/14 07:35 PM
4

Posted a dozen times already.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 05:26 PM
2

Well, women are smarter than men in the areas that matter to women, namely social intelligence. Look at it from a woman's perspective: all her life she's been surrounded by men who turn in to bumbling buffoons whenever they talk to women, can't pick up on a woman's trickle truth and subtlety, and have no idea what women actually want.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 04:33 PM
2

Great beer selection, best pub fries/chips in town... Etc. Or find a time/place that has live music or something.
/r/trpGAME06/08/14 03:43 PM
2

Ignore it, wait until after the date you set passes, go ahead and do whatever it was you invited her out to, preferably with another chick. Then a day or two after just invite her out again to something else. You have a few months, don't rush it. Edit: make whatever it is you invite her to sound really fun. It'll reduce the chances of a flake.
/r/trpGAME06/08/14 01:15 PM
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"Hi! Yeh that sounds fab! I'm gonna be working a lot over the next few weeks so let me know when you're free and I'll try and fit you in.. ;)Xxx" There's an incongruity here. She wants to seem busy, but implies that she can see you "when you're free". This is a shit test. Pick a date, time and place of your choosing and invite her to join you. She'll be there.
/r/trpGAME06/08/14 01:04 PM
2

If your getting the boyfriend line constantly your probably communicating something with your body language or voice town that lowers your value. I would start analyzing there. Not necessarily. When a woman is attracted to you and you're being alpha with her, sometimes they shit test even harder. She's challenging the legitimacy of your frame and wants to play with your strength. Besides, most chicks who are worth dating are almost never really single. They'll usually have at least some beta orb…
/r/trpGAME06/08/14 12:55 PM
1

I've done this before, it's pretty amazing how uncomfortable some people get. And how hard they'll try to keep the conversation going for you.
/r/askTRP06/08/14 11:08 AM
1

This is the face of cognitive dissonance. You say you're happy, but complain about being mad about your situation. I highly recommend some serious introspection and meditation. Not in the cheesy new age sense, but it sounds to me like you need to reintegrate your world view. Edit: that last part still sounded kind of cheesy, but I think you get the idea.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 04:06 AM
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Recognize that most people will wait for your response and use that to your advantage. Talk more slowly. Pause to think before you speak. I used to blurt out whatever was on my mind because I was so afraid of being ignored or not having the chance to respond. Fuck that in the ass. If people want your response they'll wait while you spend half a second thinking about it. Speaking slowly and pausing before you respond is actually very alpha. Could you imagine Clint Eastwood or Han Solo being so ea…
/r/askTRP06/08/14 03:57 AM
1

Seriously. You need to stop giving a fuck about women for a bit. You're in the depression stage, let it run its course, work on yourself. You're in the process of tearing out that part of your psyche which still wants to pedestalize women. Sounds ironic, but your depression is being caused by a cognitive dissonance. You still really want to want women, but you're feeling disillusioned. You need to take some time to chill and stop thinking about it so much.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 03:44 AM
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Ignore. Treat it like a fart. Pretend you didn't hear it and keep going. If she doesn't bring it up again, smooth sailing. If she insists on bringing it up again, A&A to absurdity. He must be perfect, a great guy, never says the wrong thing, always showers her with attention. She'll start being like "well... He's not all perfect." Then just pay along, let her rant about him. Act sympathetic to his side: "haha, sounds like me in my last relationship." Your instinct will be to prove that you're no…
/r/trpGAME06/08/14 03:36 AM
2

I feel like I've been recommending this a lot recently but maybe you should consider monk mode for a while. Maybe the problem is you're putting too much pressure on yourself to get laid and not spending enough time having fun doing hobbies, hanging with friends and just generally being cool with yourself.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 03:25 AM
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"No, babe... You also give really good head. Would it make you feel better if you did my laundry every now and then?"
/r/askTRP06/08/14 03:21 AM
1

Well, I met one of my plates on okc, but she's on the geeky side of the spectrum so I don't know how well she would serve as an example. All I can say is she claims she doesn't meet up with many guys on there. shrug Edit: as for messages, like they say, the first rule of online dating is "be attractive". Not saying you aren't, but you need to have really hot pics and a fun profile. The first message only has to be good enough for them to think about looking at your profile.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 03:16 AM
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Go set up a fake female account and see for yourself. It's very eye opening.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 01:17 AM
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I'm personally a pretty big fan of enforcing the "blow job week" rule. I think, at least some times, period sex is a shit test. Or, at a minimum letting her know that her pussy isn't magical by turning down PIV and insisting on a BJTC establishes your SMV and abundance mentality. Anal also works the same way.
/r/askTRP05/08/14 10:51 PM
0

I've been lurking for months... I'll guess we'll just have to agree to disagree.
/r/askTRP05/08/14 10:31 PM
2

Your money, your vacation. Not going because your ex is would be a butthurt thing to do. Don't let your ex implicitly decide where you go or what you do.
/r/askTRP05/08/14 09:33 PM
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I don't see how my tone is shitty. I'm just being direct, making honest statements and asking direct questions. What's your problem?
/r/askTRP05/08/14 08:40 PM
1

I get what you're saying, but it's kind of vague. Think you can expand on it a little? Maybe give some examples of times when your "defense" was down and what it would look like when it's up?
/r/TheRedPill05/08/14 07:08 PM
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A man and his dog is a powerful and very manly connection. Nothing to be ashamed about.
/r/askTRP05/08/14 06:33 PM
3

I prefer to say "I love your pussy" in that situation. Followed by "you dirty slut." They like that.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/14 06:28 PM
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Rules #1 and #5 of the 16 commandments of poon.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/14 01:05 PM
1

You're* (this is filler content in case auto bot removes this comment)
/r/TheRedPill05/08/14 12:54 PM
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Hah, you beat me to it. Well said. ♂ Edit: not sure why the bot isn't giving points. Did I do this wrong?
/r/askTRP05/08/14 12:41 PM
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Don't argue with your wife/GF - dicker If you got in an argument, you already fucked up. Not necessarily because of what she's starting an argument about but simply because you let her drag you in to an argument. You don't win arguments with women. You state your position, establish frame, and drop it. Then you screw her brains out. However if she wants to apologize, accept her apology, but don't let her turn sex in to a relationship maintenance tool. If she wants to do something for you to soli…
/r/askTRP05/08/14 12:32 PM
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Yes. You just want to make sure you aren't the first one to say it in a new relationship, and you don't want to say it all the time or just because she wants you to. If you're in an LTR and genuinely love her, tell her.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/14 12:24 PM
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You were just chewing me out on the other thread about not explaining my point clearly, but here you just assert that something is "bad" and even when I ask you why it's bad, you just get all snarky. Just sayin...
/r/askTRP05/08/14 12:12 PM
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I gave an example. Open with a statement not a question is pretty fucking broad dude. You're trying to connect my advice with canned pua shit, and that's a big stretch man. Especially when you yourself gave the guy a specific line. Fair enough. you come across as looking for some help. I'll move the meta-discussion to PM. YOu never mentioned body posture or anything in your first post. I think you would have left it at 'what's up" if I hadn't called you out on it. If you wanna give the guy the a…
/r/askTRP05/08/14 12:10 PM
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I might now that the formatting is better.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/14 12:03 PM
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Bad Why is it bad? I once scored with a chick sitting in a Quiznos by walking up saying something similar like "hey, I hate eating alone, mind if I join you?"
/r/askTRP05/08/14 04:26 AM
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When did I say memorize a line? It's a template. You're giving specific words to use. Dude, you asked me specifically in pm to tell you why your advice sucks a lot, why you were getting downvoted. I asked you to chime in when you disagreed with me. I never said I wouldn't defend and debate things with you. If you convince me that my approach is wrong, I'll have learned something. If not, maybe you'll learn something. Why can't we just discuss it? This is it. Not only does your advice for this gu…
/r/askTRP05/08/14 04:13 AM
0

Are you going to coach him through every contingency and conversation branch? I think this PUA approach of memorizing lines, rules and heuristics is antithetical to TRP. Practice "hey, what's up?" and learn to exude confidence instead of tripping up 5 sentences in to the conversation because you didn't rehearse a reactions to x, y or z. Edit: besides, "what's up" is only a question rhetorically. In reality it is a statement.
/r/askTRP05/08/14 03:52 AM
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She knew he was a week beta deep down inside, but this is when it dawned on her consciously.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/14 03:36 AM
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Where's the read the sidebar bot?
/r/askTRP05/08/14 03:34 AM
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Edit your post, it looks like shit. Also, tl;dr.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/14 03:31 AM
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This is all good advice but it's a "fake it" approach. If you have the right attitude and body language most people respond very well to "hey, what's up?" Establish the right frame. Take on a porn star / life of the party / stoic badass / etc mentality. Build your self confidence and establish a role for yourself, and people will respond.
/r/askTRP05/08/14 03:19 AM
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"Hey, what's up?"
/r/askTRP05/08/14 02:11 AM
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This This
/r/TheRedPill05/08/14 01:40 AM
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I <3 borderlines. I'm in a 10 year long LTR/marriage with a high functioning borderline myself and most of my plates/FWBs are also. They're a lot of fun if you can hold on for the ride. Usually fuck like porn stars to boot. Red pill stuff actually works really well on them. Just up the intensity of everything. Nuclear dread, harsh negs, iron clad frame. Treat her like a bitch in heat and she'll gobble up your D. Edit: forgot to answer your question. Firstly, don't initiate contact until at least…
/r/askTRP04/08/14 09:23 PM
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Perhaps you should learn to feel fulfilled in yourself instead of from your relationships with women. Then turn women in to a fun hobby. Stop thinking about it in terms of needing to "put energy in to it." Maybe what you need is some solid monk mode time to truly find fulfillment in yourself. When you come out of it, you'll have more fun in general.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/14 12:54 PM
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Well, arguably the point of most shit test responses is to reframe. The point of A&A is this case is to flip her fear of being a slut in to fear of being a prude.
/r/trpGAME04/08/14 12:51 PM
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One of those is definitely an A&A in the same vein I'm talking about. "OK fine you're right let's keep this strictly at a friend level" It works, I've had quite a bit of success with it.
/r/trpGAME04/08/14 11:58 AM
1

Creepiness is a function of attractiveness.
/r/askTRP04/08/14 11:45 AM
1

I disagree with the premise. She might not give it up easily, but this time, with you, she does. Because you're just that fucking hot. Like a lot of other comments say, you need to get down to her history.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/14 11:42 AM
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I'm inclined to think you didn't AA enough. Yep. The point of A&A is to amplify to absurdity. I might have said "good call, never know if I might be some kind of axe murdering stalker! Lol"
/r/trpGAME04/08/14 11:36 AM
1

I was talking about your comment which I thought was sarcastic and funny. But whatever.
/r/askTRP04/08/14 11:29 AM
2

I guess the question is how do girls respond to or interact with your wing? Do they seem put off by him? Do they think he's a fun friend? Does your wing add to or subtract from the conversation? Does he sit there awkwardly while you hit on chicks? Or just do your own experiment. Try going out alone and see how you do without him. Track your results in a spreadsheet.
/r/askTRP04/08/14 11:08 AM
1

I would take her advice: Go ask a cuter girl to buy u a drink hahaha
/r/askTRP04/08/14 11:03 AM
1

Lol! No, the base mode of operation of you "shut the brain down" is to rot in a grave. You can't separate man from brain.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/14 10:07 PM
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I wouldn't have even brought it up the next day. You got your point across and she tried to reinitiate contact peacefully. Don't bring up the past with women. Women do that. Just move on. If it happens again, just firmly state that you won't tolerate it and hang up. If it's a recurring problem maybe you aren't providing enough relationship comfort for her and you need to balance that out.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/14 08:52 PM
2

What utter crap. The idea that men don't have morals and are just naturally rapists and murders is complete bullshit. Gtfo, troll.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/14 06:54 PM
2

Metalheads are funny...they are either an absolute alphas or a nerdy betas. I usually find either stoic badass sigmas or nerdy omegas.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/14 06:06 PM
1

Fear Factory - Power Shifter KMFDM - Superpower Machinae Supremacy - Player One
/r/TheRedPill03/08/14 06:04 PM
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Spinning plates has nothing to do with them being "bad" and everything to do with you having options and not whoring out your commitment to the first nice girl you meet.
/r/askTRP03/08/14 03:12 PM
0

You wouldn't happen to live in central NC, would you? ;P
/r/askTRP03/08/14 02:26 PM
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Humorless neckbeards gonna downvote...
/r/askTRP03/08/14 02:01 PM
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He admitted he saw someone and because she was "so disappointing" and was in my part of town, he messaged to see if I was free. This is a good sign. His honesty shows respect, and the fact that despite being RP he chose to "qualify" you (basically meaning he gave you positive feedback, something that's distinctly "un-game") by implying that you're better than her means that he values you pretty highly. Just don't let it go to your head and start slacking off. ;P So it's not exactly that I feel l…
/r/askTRP03/08/14 01:49 PM
1

Firstly, I see no evidence here that he actually was with another woman. He could have seen something you said as a shit test and just employed agree and amplify with a touch of dread game. The condoms could just be condoms he keeps on him anyway. But let's assume you're right. I think you're conflating fidelity with respect. This is a common trope in our culture. It sounds to me like you didn't have an exclusivity agreement with him, so to him seeing other women is allowed. Since he didn't viol…
/r/askTRP03/08/14 01:00 PM
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Instead of worrying that you're disposable to him, accept that you are. Then make yourself his best option. You can't expect him to see you as indispensable just because you like him a lot, and you wouldn't want to because you would feel like he was too easy or that you didn't really earn him.
/r/askTRP03/08/14 12:48 PM
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http://misterinfinite.com/2013/10/09/detached/
/r/askTRP03/08/14 12:41 PM
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Both of those options are about integrity. The question is whether he values his word over his standards for others. Edit: Personally I think paying her would be a white knight thing to do. She was disloyal to him and broke her word to him so he owes her nothing.
/r/askTRP03/08/14 12:19 PM
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wow dude you must get so much tang. Good thing you came home and posted on reddit about it.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/14 12:00 PM
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That's some hamsterized equivocation. You chimed in to defend the people down-voting this. Proclaiming your "objectivity" with an "I'm just sayin..." comment is a cop out. So tell me, all those FRs about "I've been working out, maintaining frame, approaching chicks, and last night I got a girls number, but we haven't fucked (yet)" should be down-voted too just because they didn't fuck her (yet)?
/r/TheRedPill03/08/14 12:58 AM
1

Because our culture has fuzzy, conflicting, confusing, and ever shifting definitions of rape, and it's understandable to to be concerned...? Edit: because this.
/r/askTRP03/08/14 12:25 AM
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"Are you single" might not be a shit test, but others definitely have wrong answers. I prefer to think that almost everything a woman says is a potential shit test. You can give the wrong response to anything and she'll lose attraction, hence: retroactive shit test. As for taking girls home, this is kind of irrelevant. I don't know why people insist that the only benefit of TRP is PIV. He's generating attraction, he's being respected, he's boosting his SMV. Basically he's employing TRP principle…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/14 12:15 AM
2

Isn't socializing about displaying who one actually is not using social theory to manipulate others? Everything you think you know about how other people see you is probably wrong. You could be highly intelligent, try to "be yourself" and people could still perceive you as a bumbling idiot. All communication is "manipulation" in some way. You are trying to evoke thoughts in someone else's mind through your words and actions. The difference is whether or not you're actually effective in doing so.…
/r/askTRP03/08/14 12:03 AM
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I don't know why this is being down voted, this is gold. opisaprettycoolguy.jpg
/r/TheRedPill02/08/14 11:44 PM
1

Watch out for two-itis next!
/r/TheRedPill02/08/14 11:34 PM
2

Sounds a lot like my story. I discovered TRP after I went through an almost year long depression induced beta-ized period that started almost 2 years ago and then discovered that my wife had started having an affair with my best friend. The more I read about TRP the more I realized a lot of it was stuff I had sort of naturally figured out long ago but never really codified. Anyway, you should join us over at /r/SigmaMales. We could use more people.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/14 11:31 PM
2

Jamie, I often find myself disagreeing with about 80% of what you say So reply to my comments. I'd appreciate the feedback.
/r/askTRP02/08/14 08:44 PM
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Have you seen our court system? If you're being defensive because you think I'm accusing you of raping her, don't be. I don't know if you raped her, there's no way I can make that judgement based on your abridged story. But either way it's basically irrelevant. All that matters is that she doesn't think she was raped.
/r/askTRP02/08/14 08:22 PM
0

I'm not really the “Alpha” type because I could give less of a shit about calling attention to myself. I'm clever and intelligent and pretty good looking, but I love nothing more than being in a social setting and just observing. You might be a Sigma. This summer I took the time to be a hermit and work on some personal projects. I had to take a breather and rediscover myself without distraction. I would spend so much time being girl crazy and fretting over other people in general that I lost foc…
/r/TheRedPill02/08/14 08:19 PM
2

Get the text. You can't prove in court that she woke up in a good mood in your bed or anything.
/r/askTRP02/08/14 08:12 PM
2

Did you get a I didn't rape you text?
/r/askTRP02/08/14 08:05 PM
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Female escorts make way more than that. SEXISM!!1
/r/TheRedPill02/08/14 07:54 PM
7

I wonder how much it pays... :P
/r/TheRedPill02/08/14 04:24 PM
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Her: "not much of a texter" You: "well, welcome to the 21st century." "not much of a texter" sounds like an excuse. She blew off your text to see if you'd eagerly keep texting her, then realized you weren't going to and needed an excuse to reply so late but couldn't come up with a better one. Unless she has a dumb phone that's hard to text with, she shouldn't have any problems texting with you. Anyway, what I would do is text her anyway. If she likes you, she'll "become" a texter, or at least de…
/r/trpGAME02/08/14 03:58 PM
-1

One of my plates was a single mom. Husband committed suicide after losing his job and catching her cheating on him. Now she has a total beta provider boyfriend who just recently moved in with her. She's always complaining about him. I've met him a few times, he thinks I'm just a good friend of hers. He compliments, qualifies and apologizes to her constantly. She fucks me like a porn star. Edit: clarification, I met her years after her husband died, so no, it wasn't me he killed himself over. And…
/r/askTRP02/08/14 01:06 PM
1

Women are like blank slates. FTFY
/r/askTRP02/08/14 12:56 PM
2

Never listen to what a woman says. She'll tell every guy that she wants to get married, etc, etc, then go home with and fuck the first asshole alpha that gives her the tingles.
/r/askTRP02/08/14 12:51 PM
2

Stop texting her to chat, just keep inviting her out to the awesome shit you're doing in your life. Ignore her responses. Eventually she'll either realize that you have a lot of fun in your life and join you, or she'll tell you to stop texting her, at which point you next her. In the mean time keep gaming other chicks and don't invest anything in this one.
/r/askTRP02/08/14 12:37 PM
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Everything I've read on here seems to be about being the perfect mate to produce the perfect offspring in a stable environment. Then you haven't read enough. TRP is amoral and does not proscribe any given goal or life plan. It's just a theoretical framework combined with practical advice for how men can be better men and how to interact with women to get what you want out of life. The TRP community consists of men across the spectrum. From players looking to score with as many women as possible,…
/r/askTRP02/08/14 11:50 AM
1

Just tell her to come to you. If she says she wants sex let her ride your cock. Just don't go out of your way for it and you'll be fine.
/r/askTRP01/08/14 05:01 PM
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She got turned on by some alpha dude at the party and was hoping some exciting sex at home would satiate her so she wouldn't feel tempted to cheat. Either that or she cheated on him at or before the party, and is now feeling a combination of guilt and hornyness.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 03:51 PM
2

A&A examples: "my dick isn't THAT long" "can't, too busy fucking your mom" "already did that twice today" Etc... Pressure flip examples: "you first" "go fist yourself. send pics" "did your period start today or something?" Note, some of these seem kind of "harsh" but she was being harsh with her teasing, so you mirror her level. The point here is that you're not just being defensive, you're dishing it back in a cocky funny way. Edit: chicks like this love a good verbal joust. It's fun and they g…
/r/trpGAME01/08/14 02:14 PM
2

Tone and context makes all the difference. If she was being a bitch, calling her out on it and making it clear that you won't tolerate it is the right thing to do. If she's just being flirty or playfully "talking shit" then respond in kind with A&A, pressure flip, etc, or brush it off by changing the subject or ignoring it.
/r/trpGAME01/08/14 11:53 AM
1

You just need a bigger frame that encompasses all of you.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 11:35 AM
2

All of the shit test advice, like A&A, pressure flip, etc, are really just ways to teach socially awkward men little tricks to make it look like they know how to flirt. Don't take this personally, it's just a "fake it till you make it" strategy. Once you start applying, practicing and experimenting with these techniques you'll start to develop a subconscious heuristic and mental framework that's functionally equivalent to social intelligence while simultaneously helping you to overcome your irra…
/r/askTRP01/08/14 11:25 AM
2

You might not feel butthurt, but that reply sounds butthurt. Edit: basically you're trying to go for dismissive "command respect", but that's a nuclear option. Better to go with amused mastery wherever possible, especially over text where the lack of tone and body language can ruin any subtlety.
/r/askTRP01/08/14 12:42 AM
3

Don't do this. She's flirting, don't get all butthurt.
/r/askTRP31/07/14 11:36 PM
0

I'd go with your first response. It's funny and brushes of the shit test.
/r/askTRP31/07/14 11:36 PM
2

Also, check out /r/marriedredpill. You'll get more LTR/married-specific advice, and we need more people/content :)
/r/askTRP31/07/14 03:33 PM
2

The trick is to not "silent treat" her and pout in your room. Instead you calmly bit firmly say "I see that you're upset about something so I'm going to let you work that out" and just leave. Don't storm out or sulk away. Just strut out and go have a beer with friends, a plate, or whatever. When you come home act like nothing happened. Edit: the point is her emotional problems are just that: her problems. If she wanted to talk to you about it she should do it without being passive aggressive. So…
/r/askTRP31/07/14 12:57 PM
3

Copy it all you want.
/r/trpGAME31/07/14 03:22 AM
1

This is never the proper response. Hold frame.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/14 03:18 AM
-1

Are you sure she's not a tranny?
/r/askTRP30/07/14 01:08 PM
5

I smell a troll. Was probably hoping for TRP to give dickish/manipulative advice to post on /r/thebluepill.
/r/trpGAME30/07/14 01:00 PM
3

I disagree with #1. Muscle mass burns calories even at rest. Building muscle will simultaneously help you lose weight. Edit: however I do agree with the fact that at your weight there is a higher risk of injury. Just do workouts that you can do sitting or laying on a bench.
/r/askTRP30/07/14 12:47 PM
2

There are times when it's completely legitimate to expect your girl to take care of you. Just think about medieval times when the warriors were injured in battle, and the women would nurse them back to health. Don't be pathetic, but also expect her to take care of you by doing things like cooking soup, going to the store to get cough syrup, etc. She'll feel more invested in the relationship. But then when you're better bounce back with a vengeance and go right back to your self-improvement plan.
/r/askTRP30/07/14 12:42 PM
2

Come off as cheap. You have plenty of chicks waiting in line for you anyway, right?
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 12:45 AM
2

Those 4 years have already been a waste. Sunk costs fallacy. Move on, bang 10 other chicks.
/r/askTRP30/07/14 12:35 AM
4

LMR is a sign you did something wrong earlier. You failed some minor shit test, aren't being assertive enough or aren't displaying abundance mentality. But it's always going to happen even to the best (which I'm not, but I know some who are really good and they get it every now and then). So, with that in mind, there are a few tactics: Push/pull. This is one equivalent of going the "ignore" shit test response. She shows LMR, play CoD, get up to leave, offer to take her home, etc. Basically initi…
/r/askTRP29/07/14 11:05 PM
3

Don't worry about it. At the end of the day your game is what makes things happen. As for looks, go with what looks good on you.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 06:10 PM
4

I made the mistake of leaving up an article about maintaining frame on my computer and my wife read it. Now she asks me sassily sometimes "is this that 'frame' nonsense you were reading about?" Of course it's just a shit test like any other but at first it would actually catch me off guard. Now I just say "no, and you're changing the subject" or something like that.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/14 06:50 PM
1

All I'm saying is that it's not necessarily true that she's not interested. Could mean anything. Maybe she's shy or doesn't know how to refuse her friend. Maybe she's playing hard to get. I'm not saying it's worth it, just saying it's not so cut and dry.
/r/askTRP28/07/14 04:03 PM
8

Me: Hey Her: You know hey is a terrible way to start a conversation Me: wrong person. or Me: I'm going to [club] around 9. See you there.
/r/trpGAME28/07/14 03:48 PM
2

I didn't say you should chase her.
/r/askTRP28/07/14 01:50 PM
1

Maybe "stay clean" means what it says: he showers and doesn't stink. Sheesh...
/r/TheRedPill28/07/14 12:14 PM
8

Preempt. As soon as the friend is within ear shot start gaming her too. With an energetic/excited tone "What's up?! You must be [so-and-so's] friend? How long have you two known each other? Blah blah blah..." Edit: sex god/porn star mentality: go for the threesome.
/r/askTRP28/07/14 11:48 AM
5

Or she's interested and wants you to chase her or hold her there.
/r/askTRP28/07/14 11:45 AM
2

I see three options: Set boundaries and stick to them. If you don't want an open relationship tell her in no uncertain terms that this is unacceptable and that if she cheats on you it's over immediately. Mean it. Be firm. If she can't accept that, end it right then and there and walk away. Agree and amplify. Tell her that's awesome because you have a few hot chicks you've been wanting to fuck too. Offer to gang bang her with the other guy, video tape it and sell it to porn sites. Dump her right …
/r/TheRedPill28/07/14 11:39 AM
1

She's probably just as confused as you are. Suddenly the future is taking shape and her days of idly fantasizing are over. She feels trepidation and anxiety. Accepting the commitment of a quality man is a big deal for women. Can she remain faithful? What if you end up being a loser later in life? What if she ends up divorced past her prime and has to spend the rest of her life alone? What if you leave her for a hotter chick when she's old and used up? People on TRP often joke about the hamster a…
/r/askTRP27/07/14 09:10 PM
12

Men and women cheat for different reasons. Men cheat for sex, variety, and because they can. Women cheat because they're unhaaaappppyy and looking to upgrade.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/14 08:39 PM
5

Approach the men first. In fact, as a general rule, when approaching a mixed set you need to make peace with and establish a friendly dominance over the men in the group before ever going after one of the girls. If you don't, the guys will take offense and try to run you out of the group. Inb4 "fuck them, I'm alpha! I'll barge through them and shut them down if they question me". If you think that's alpha, you might need to drink more water to make sure that pill isn't just lodged in your throat…
/r/trpGAME27/07/14 06:50 PM
1

More people working means more products being created while simultaneously more income being generated. Production creates demand, demand causes production. It balances out so it's not a zero sum game like that. Check out lump of labor fallacy.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/14 02:25 PM
1

Coffee dates are great, and aren't necessarily friend dates. It's possible she really just has other things going on or maybe just found some more attractive guy on tinder that she puts a higher priority on. I say go on the coffee date and sarge/escalate. Venue change after the first cup or two if she's giving IOIs.
/r/askTRP27/07/14 01:18 PM
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And your comments identify you as a neckbeard. Have fun.
/r/askTRP27/07/14 12:55 PM
1

Yes. Anyone who knows how to Internet is an aspie.
/r/askTRP27/07/14 11:48 AM
1

http://lmgtfy.com/?q=sigma+vs+alpha
/r/askTRP27/07/14 11:31 AM
1

she's not into ONS. Plate her: "me either. Let's do this again some time."
/r/TheRedPill27/07/14 12:48 AM
1

Bitchiness, claims to have a boyfriend, claims to not be in to you, claims she needs to "get to know you better" before having sex... all of these things should be treated like farts: pretend you didn't hear it and keep going.
/r/askTRP27/07/14 12:46 AM
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Ignoring a shit test is one way of passing them, as long as you do it in a calm, unfazed way. If you react in any way, even with a hurt or surprised facial expression you fail. It's like ignoring the whining of a bratty kid.
/r/askTRP26/07/14 08:08 PM
2

I've always loved that link but this comment is probably the best summary I've seen of the subject. Well done, sir.
/r/askTRP26/07/14 08:02 PM
2

both of us feel bad Either the hamster is strong with this one, or that is one broken dude.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/14 05:26 PM
1

If so that's his fault not hers. He either didn't generate enough attraction or failed a shit test. Taking it out on her would just be petty. Passing the "I'm going with someone else" shit test regained his frame and changed her mind. Why next her if she's crawling back to him?
/r/askTRP26/07/14 02:39 PM
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no woman would run away from their friends to go fuck a stranger just cause he cut her in line You have much to learn, young grasshopper... Edit: this
/r/TheRedPill26/07/14 07:03 AM
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Yes! I always wonder about that too! Her (hamster) story (as told after-the-fact to friends and/or her diary): So, I met this guy at the bar. He was tall, handsome and kind of scruffy.... anyway, there was just something about the way he looked at me. I knew there was something about him. I smiled at him coyly but he pretended to not notice, even though I just knew he wanted me. I could feel it! He even bought me a drink! (teehee) But he had obligations to his loyal friends (one of them was kind…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/14 06:56 AM
5

She's seeing someone else [edit: or has someone else in mind]. If you were her best option (in her mind) she would cross oceans for you. Either up the attraction or next her.
/r/askTRP26/07/14 06:08 AM
2

Exactly
/r/askTRP26/07/14 05:59 AM
2

Do your cats like peanut butter?
/r/askTRP26/07/14 05:56 AM
2

So don't. The hardest part.
/r/askTRP26/07/14 05:45 AM
1

Do something extra foolish with your hands. Learn to talk with your hands. Stick your fingers in your nose and don't give a fuck. Once you can do that with confidence you'll never think about where your hands are again.
/r/askTRP26/07/14 05:44 AM
0

Why give them a crutch? I get that you want to teach a proper A&A, but why reinforce a bad habit? It's like teaching someone proper batting form while they're standing on the pitcher's mound. Edit: I guess I'm saying teach in a well-rounded wholistic way instead of just correcting on technicality. Basically you've assumed his frame by conceding that he needs a better A&A response instead of recognizing that he needs to reframe his whole perspective of this.
/r/askTRP26/07/14 05:24 AM
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You're still playing in to her frame. Your cock size is irrelevant and both of you know it. Ignore, non-sequitur, flip it (her tits are too small or something), etc. Anything but A&A with this one.
/r/askTRP26/07/14 03:41 AM
0

Her: Your dick is huge, right? You: [amused chuckle] You want another one of those girlie-whatever-things you're drinking? (Not A&A, but you don't A&A to a false compliment shit test.) Edit: Better: "Whatever, go get us another round." Best: [amused chuckle] "Excuse me..." [walk away, go get yourself another drink, and instead of coming back to her, approach and flirt with another chick, because chicks who play the penis size game are shallow, needy sluts.]
/r/askTRP26/07/14 03:27 AM
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Sounds like you take things women say a bit too personally...
/r/askTRP26/07/14 03:17 AM
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Missing my point. Obviously stereotypes exist, and differ between cultures. I was referring to the idea that gender differences are purely a product of cultural stereotypes.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 07:29 PM
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Of course with the requisite nod to feminism: Gender-based stereotypes may play a role in the men's preference for responsive women, Birnbaum said. During a first date, people tend to rely on gender stereotypes for how they think a person should act. Men may find women more attractive if they fit the female stereotype of showing care and concern, she added. It's all societal stereotypes folks! Didn't you know?
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 05:08 PM
1

Unlikely considering women on dating sites get bombarded with messages.
/r/trpGAME25/07/14 03:26 PM
2

This is exactly what I was looking for. Thanks for the analysis. I do have a tendency to be a little too aggressive, it's something I try to work on. Any general tips for how to avoid that?
/r/trpGAME25/07/14 02:41 PM
2

Hmm. You think it's possible that missing a pop culture reference could have killed it?
/r/trpGAME25/07/14 01:01 PM
2

This guy's a pretty cool dude.
/r/trpGAME25/07/14 12:59 PM
2

Yes.
/r/trpGAME25/07/14 12:55 PM
2

I love everything about this post except the part about sending pics with other girls. Sounds a little too "obvious" and try-hard to get her jealous. I would say if you both have facebook/twitter/etc have friends take pics of you with other girls and have them tag you in the pics. She'll be checking her social media for sure, and will see them on your wall/feed/whatevertheycallyyourtwitterthing/etc.
/r/askTRP24/07/14 10:43 PM
2

I'm a minority in that I don't really believe in "text game" or "online game." No, I agree with you and I don't think it's a very minority position. But starting off with a little bit of frame helps before going for the meet. Maybe I should have gone for the meet earlier though. Anyway, yeah... Unless you own a magic phone or computer that lets you insert your dick, you can't fuck a woman through your electronic device. I don't get this logic. You can't fuck a girl at the coffee shop either, doe…
/r/trpGAME24/07/14 08:51 PM
2

Preaching to the choir on nexting her, was just looking for a critique on my game.
/r/trpGAME24/07/14 07:54 PM
2

Don't bother trying to understand or analyze when a girl flakes on you in the context of online dating messaging -- it's a waste of time because you will never really know why. I get that, was just looking for analysis on my game. Better to just forget and move on without taking it personally. Online dating can kill your confidence if you cannot come to grips with these micro-rejections. Yeah, I've let it get to me before but now I just treat it like a lottery ticket. Lose? Whatever, trash it. W…
/r/trpGAME24/07/14 07:53 PM
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Nope. Passes the Google Image litmus test. Doesn't mean you're wrong, but it's definitely a legit pic of someone. Maybe the neckbeard's sister. :P
/r/trpGAME24/07/14 07:49 PM
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While the standard TRP advice is to wait for her to reply, then take at least as long as she did before replying to her, (and I think this is generally good advice) I have also tried what you're saying a few times and never really had it backfire on me. Some texts that worked out well were "ok, whatever", or if I'm waiting to hear back to a proposed meet up and she's taking her sweet ass time I've said things like "nevermind, rachel just got back to me. maybe next time." (I think her response wa…
/r/trpGAME24/07/14 07:05 PM
1

LTR is not frowned upon. There is nothing wrong with LTRs. We caution against rushing into an LTR with the first woman who gives you the time of day, or getting your hopes up about a particular woman being The One. Edit: we also caution against agreeing to exclusivity early on in a relationship. That's why we recommend spinning plates. If one woman turns out to be psycho, a slut, a gold digger, etc, you can more easily drop her from your harem rotation because you have other women anyway.
/r/askTRP24/07/14 06:32 PM
2

Baby steps. And be prepared to be there for them when they get burned.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 06:29 PM
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Wow... OK as for your concerns: Bring your own condoms. Bring your own condoms. Get evidence that it was consensual. I don't know the laws or courts in your country, but the advice for Americans/westerners is here and here.
/r/askTRP24/07/14 03:31 PM
2

Good point. I guess that's pretty much how I've always seem it, so it's good to get some feedback. Thanks.
/r/askTRP24/07/14 02:24 PM
2

I'm not a big fan of the really harsh negs, and darling is cheesy. The point is to neutralize any sense that you give a fuck about her legs, not to make her mad. Depends on your intent I guess. If you're looking for an ONS or FB it can work, but it's harder to pull off. In the end it's a question of personal style.
/r/askTRP24/07/14 02:22 PM
1

Good point. Thanks.
/r/askTRP24/07/14 01:41 PM
2

Maybe some think that but I've definitely had some who don't mind and really just want to fuck.
/r/askTRP24/07/14 01:30 PM
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Either way treat it like a shit test. Tell her she has something crawling up her leg, or ask her if she usually wears shoes like that, with a concerned look on your face.
/r/askTRP24/07/14 01:19 PM
2

Ask them what their sexual strategy is. Then ask them how well that's working out for them. Then drop the subject and (as Subtletorious said) lead by example. If they start asking for advice or express amazement at your success, start spoon feeding them little RP-ish tips. They'll either start to get it or not. Either way, there's nothing wrong with having BP friends. The only downside is having to put up with their whining about not getting laid or having stupid relationship drama.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 11:22 AM
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I'm still new to this sub, but I have definitely noticed a lot of bitter whining. Which I understand, most men, including myself, came to red pill after getting burned, and the angry bitter phase is well documented. What I find ironic though is that despite this being an awesome post, it's being down voted. Presumably by whiners who feel shamed for being whiners. Edit: whiners gonna downvote.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 01:00 AM
2

Next time send silly pics (feet, knees, etc) or no pics. Sending pics of your chest, dick, abs, etc, immediately fails an implicit shit test. And selfies of your face always look worse than you actually look. Besides, let her wonder what you look like until you meet.
/r/askTRP23/07/14 07:02 PM
3

This. Never cheat on your LTR with someone in her social circle. Stacy will wake up one day feeling guilty and tell someone about it. Then the rumor mill will churn.
/r/askTRP23/07/14 02:35 PM
2

Sounds like you're on the right track. You're gonna do just fine.
/r/askTRP23/07/14 01:02 PM
4

Sounds good but maybe a bit too neutral. I might have gone with agree and amplify. "Which one has a bigger dick? You should make them sword fight for a chance to lick your nips!"
/r/askTRP23/07/14 12:49 PM
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That's a good point. Obviously telling him she's hanging out with guy friends would be red flag. I was thinking more like: Him: come over to watch a movie tonight. Her: I wish I could but I have homework/family stuff/work/etc. How about tomorrow/next Friday/etc? Edit: As for future plans, something like: Him: sweet! [Band] is playing in town next week! Her: I love [band]! How much are the tickets? We should totally go! The idea is to plant a sense of anticipation about seeing her in the future. …
/r/askTRP23/07/14 12:11 PM
1

A good resource for dealing with asinine "sexual harassment" policies on university campuses is FIRE. They have a lot of good articles and literature on how to handle frivolous harassment charges and you might even be able to contact them to ask for legal advice or to refer you to a lawyer in your area if needed.
/r/askTRP23/07/14 12:03 PM
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Avoid oneitis at all costs. Don't let some hot babe suck you in to an LTR. Spin plates, bang lots of bitches, socialize, get off your computer, take over the world. Also, school comes first, apply for college. Don't let gaming chicks stunt your academic/career growth. You've got 30+ years ahead of you to fuck chicks and the more successful you are in life the more successful you'll be with women.
/r/askTRP23/07/14 11:46 AM
1

Oh! Lol... Got my hopes up... :P Edit: I'd say just run normal game like with any other chick. I'm not sure how her being your tutor makes much difference.
/r/trpGAME23/07/14 11:36 AM
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Read/lurk/post in /r/RedPillWomen. Think "time frame". Approach your relationship with a long term mentality. Don't rush to meet him every time he calls. This isn't quite the same thing as playing "hard to get" just don't be an always-available booty call. Talk about the future. Not marriage and babies, just plan for future events weeks/months in advance. Display "wify" values. If he's kind of traditional, cook, clean, etc. If not, figure out what he considers wify values. Ask about his mother's…
/r/askTRP23/07/14 11:34 AM
1

How does one find a female TRP tutor?
/r/trpGAME23/07/14 11:20 AM
1

Honesty is great, but keep calling yourself a pussy and a pussy you will be. Try calling yourself a badass instead. In fact, it sounds to me like you came here out of some kind of morbid, masochistic need for self-shame.
/r/askTRP22/07/14 10:43 PM
2

No, the key is amused mastery. Imply your high value, don't imply her low value. Unless you want insecure bitches.
/r/trpGAME22/07/14 07:49 PM
1

"I like whipped cream on lots of things." [dead stare]
/r/askTRP22/07/14 07:45 PM
4

I agree. The settlement isn't just about "market rate" compensation for pictures of anatomy. It's intended to be punitive, to punish the hospital for letting this happen. Sure the settlement will be paid by insurance, but you can bet your ass this is going to affect their premiums, or at least the insurance company is going to do it's own investigation and enforce tighter oversight and security to make sure this doesn't happen again.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/14 03:44 PM
4

Take a look at this faggot.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/14 03:41 PM
2

Yep. OK... Step 1: Next time she flies off the handle, be completely stoic. You need to be the cliff her emotional waves crash against but never moves or flinches. Secondly, validate her emotions. That doesn't mean you let her "win", you merely acknowledge that that's what she's feeling and that you understand HOW she feels, even if you disagree with WHY. Don't tell her you disagree though, keep that to your self. Just mentally make that distinction. Things like "I understand that you're upset."…
/r/TheRedPill21/07/14 11:53 PM
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Don't listen to girls' advice about girls. They don't know what they want, they only feel it when it happens. They usually can't even really explain why it happens, they can only rationalize it after the fact. Also that pick up line sucks. Edit: as for pickup lines, watch approach videos by Sasha Daygame on YouTube.
/r/askTRP21/07/14 10:37 PM
1

Give up the gimmicks. TRP is not PUA.
/r/askTRP21/07/14 08:50 PM
5

What are your opinions on /r/friendzone? "Why should I care?"
/r/TheRedPill21/07/14 04:04 PM
1

I agree, it depends on what you want and how you say it, but reading the OP it seems to me he's not turning down sex because it's what he wants, he's doing it purely for effect, which is transparent. As Pook says, listen to your gut. http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2b9rwi/15_lessons/cj36hpm
/r/askTRP21/07/14 12:30 PM
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This actually annoys a lot of gay men too. In fact a lot of gay men prefer partners who are "straight acting". Go browse the M4M ads on CL (with thumbnails off, lol) and you'll see a lot of gay men looking for straight acting men.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/14 12:00 PM
2

Have you looked in to borderline personality disorder? I recommend googling it and, if she seems to meet most of the signs and symptoms, read up on how to deal with it. There are a lot of great resources for people who have borderline loved ones, including techniques and tactics for getting them in to therapy. Spoiler: setting boundaries and dread game work wonders on borderlines. If she's not borderline, maybe you just aren't fucking her good enough. I'm not saying this to be an ass, but women …
/r/TheRedPill21/07/14 02:44 AM
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Trying to become DT is for frustrated and hurt gammas. (In before I'm a maggot or whatever.)
/r/TheRedPill21/07/14 02:32 AM
4

Next time turn down the lunch. People who owe you something will avoid you and resent you. If you want to be nice, just be nice. Or don't.
/r/askTRP21/07/14 12:26 AM
1

then felt bad. Stop. Bang 10 other chicks. That's what she's doing, guaranteed.
/r/askTRP21/07/14 12:13 AM
1

what do you do after having sex with a woman? Make a sandwich and play CoD.
/r/askTRP20/07/14 11:54 PM
2

Push/pull, mild disinterest, aloofness, etc, are all good ways to generate initial attraction, but once you got her in bed, those games become increasingly transparent, and worse, unnecessary. I mean, the goal is to get her in bed and fuck her, right? :P
/r/askTRP20/07/14 11:15 PM
2

If you have a naked chick in your bed that wants to fuck JUST FOCK HER. The best way to enhance and maintain desire is to fuck her good. Seriously, any half-witted chick over 21 is going to see right through your little mind game and next you without hesitation.
/r/askTRP20/07/14 11:04 PM
2

The latter. Seems like it's trying to play in to the "look how much I respect women and/or aren't using you for sex! Can I have a cookie now?" But I guess it really depends on how you pull it off. shrug
/r/askTRP20/07/14 10:33 PM
1

Sounds kind of gamma to me. Not that there's anything wrong with that, gammas get laid. But it only appeals for so long and only for certain chicks (usually jaded and/or emotionally needy chicks).
/r/askTRP20/07/14 08:04 PM
1

Don't be so sure about that. I've seen it happen time and again. Talkative guy seems to be getting all the attention. Strong silent guy in the group chiming in only occasionally with wit, charm and amused mastery, even toward the (apparent) AMOG. Silent guy walks off with the hot chick who just a few minutes ago was laughing and talking to said "AMOG".
/r/askTRP20/07/14 07:53 PM
1

You can use this to your advantage. One of the big mistakes a lot of people make is talking too much anyway. Use fewer words. Short, concise sentences sound more authoritative. Listen more, jump in when you actually have something important, insightful or witty to say. You'll actually appear more mysterious and it'll be easier to achieve amused mastery. Edit: another useful tip would be to just laugh or chuckle at things people say. As if you you're slightly amused but don't feel like sharing yo…
/r/askTRP20/07/14 07:37 PM
3

This is probably a pretty dumb and obvious question... But if your woman is all of this, would a younger, hotter girl still appeal more (I understand that attractive people are always appealing to women and men alike) than his good ol' trusty, kind and loving wife? Men value more than just looks and youth. Sure those are at the top of the list for what makes a man initially attracted to a woman, but what keeps him attracted to and loving her becomes more about his sense of connection, shared his…
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/14 06:31 PM
1

Women want to receive commitment from a quality man. That doesn't mean they want to remain committed unconditionally. Women usually initiate divorce because they're hypergamous and less willing/conditioned to tolerate an unhappy relationship to someone they aren't attracted to or feel comfortable with.
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/14 05:36 PM
1

Being more sigma than alpha, I tend to go out alone a lot. Not even necessarily to pick up, a lot of times just to people watch. I tend to give off a mysterious/intriguing aura, and being tall (6'3) and having a fairly handsome face (8-ish) I often have women approaching me. Sometimes they just position themselves near me and give hints. I ignore them, maybe even move away (I have a well practiced swagger) and see if they follow or watch me. Sometimes they come right up to ask some benign questi…
/r/askTRP20/07/14 01:55 PM
-1

Get out while you can before she gets your bank info, fucks all your friends, installs key loggers on your phone and generally ruins your life. I personally love borderlines because having been in an LTR/marriage with one for 10 years (my purple pill days) I know how to handle them and they can be crazy in bed, but unless you're a complete master of frame you'll get fucked.
/r/askTRP19/07/14 05:13 PM
0

Likely just being playful, but keep an eye out for other signs of borderline personality disorder. Seriously bro, that shit is no joke. Also, remember borderlines often operate in sleeper mode until they think the have you locked in, then go full psycho-bitch.
/r/askTRP19/07/14 05:01 PM
8

I try to imagine what a person was like as a kid. Every mannerism, idiom, facial expression, etc, picture a 5-10 year old version of them doing it. Give yourself a lighthearted laugh at the cute kid in your head, then become friends with their inner child.
/r/askTRP17/07/14 08:10 PM
2

You apparently care enough to make sure people know how much you don't care.
/r/askTRP17/07/14 07:05 PM
4

I think you forgot to include what your response actually was...
/r/askTRP16/07/14 08:57 PM
2

I'm not a red pill expert, but the way I see it is the point isn't whether or not you're chasing her, it's whether or not she FEELS like you're chasing her. Obviously you want to pursue her, you even said as much in your post. The trick is to get her to feel like she has to chase you a bit. The goal of the fifth commandment is attain the right balance between conveying your slight interest while also making her feel like she has to keep your interest. Just my 2¢
/r/trpGAME08/07/14 12:56 PM
1

The vagdestroyer42 profile is an experiment. My "main" profile is jamieoneal82 of you want to look at that and tell me if it's the work of a blue pill troll.
/r/askTRP07/07/14 11:59 AM
1

I really don't understand all the hostility here. Maybe I'm missing something. I admit I'm still pretty new to red pill, but from what I understand if it, defaulting to hostility, judgement, and arguing in bad faith seems kind of beta to me. I don't mean that as a insult, but I thought the alpha mentality would be to exude self security instead of hostility. I mean, I understand you all get a lot of trolls and it can be frustrating, and Poe's law makes it hard to tell, especially if someone take…
/r/askTRP07/07/14 11:52 AM
0

My feels
/r/askTRP07/07/14 11:46 AM
-1

No. I think she was your mom.
/r/askTRP06/07/14 04:54 PM
0

Well, just got an f-close. Account's only been up for 2 days. I'd call that successful.
/r/askTRP06/07/14 03:46 AM
0

Well, I get more responses on this account than on my main one, so I consider it more successful in that sense.
/r/askTRP05/07/14 04:39 PM
-2

Yeah, but I like to have fun with the radfems.
/r/askTRP05/07/14 02:00 PM
0

If you think I'm trolling or something, look here: http://share.pho.to/6FDdU That was in response to me saying "One of my gfs just came by to give me a bj. Lol" after not responding to her for 2 hours.
/r/askTRP05/07/14 01:59 PM
0

What bait? I'm curious what it is you think I'm trying to do here...
/r/askTRP05/07/14 01:49 PM
-5

Can whoever downvoted this please at least explain why?
/r/askTRP05/07/14 12:36 PM
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