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Yeah, we are generally more miserable than chimps.
/r/seduction19/12/15 06:08 AM
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International marksmanship competition! Great idea -- when in doubt, measure. And those results can't be chalked up to some country's propaganda. Actually, you do find women doing well in international marksmanship competitions. They're graded in a women's only category -- and their scores are markedly lower than the men. But a very small number of women's scores are fairly close to the top men. Interestingly, women suck really bad with pistols. That's more or less what I expected (not the pisto…
/r/TheRedPill28/11/15 07:51 PM
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If you don't take a country's military awards or news outlets as anything other than propaganda, there has never been a successful sniper. It's possible that everything about Lyudmila Pavlichenko is bullshit -- she was certainly paraded around to further a feminist agenda. And propaganda isn't necessarily untrue -- in fact it's often true -- though biased in favor of whoever paid for it to be produced.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/15 07:18 PM
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Russia had some seriously badass female snipers in WWII.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/15 06:01 PM
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Optimists are weak people who can't handle the harshness of reality so pretend everything is fine and will go their way. No. Optimists are strong people who persevere in spite of the harshness of reality with no loss of enthusiasm.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/15 05:12 AM
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Viagra exists because middle-aged women exist.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/15 09:34 PM
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how do you keep a girl interested in the long run? Fuck her.
/r/seduction20/11/15 01:33 AM
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That's my mojo! I have no filter which would make me an asshole if I were mean. But I'm not mean -- I'm kind. I prefer to think of it as natural charm -- and when girls tell you to "just be yourself" it's precisely what they mean. But it's really just the state of having already used up all the humiliation your life had in it -- and realized that the world didn't end. Of having had your worst fears realized and waking up the next day in spite of it. I don't even know if you can get there without…
/r/seduction16/11/15 04:47 AM
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I think you're confusing party time with the real world. Two completely separate universes.
/r/seduction15/11/15 11:32 PM
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replace 'muslim' with 'jews' and we get hitler. What do you get when Jews use Muslims to replace Europeans?
/r/TheRedPill15/11/15 03:25 PM
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Nobody wants to talk about boring or depressing shit. Not women. Not men. Expand the number of things you're interested in and you'll find it easier to connect with people, and especially women. But you can't go wrong with Rhonda Rousey or puppies...
/r/seduction15/11/15 04:24 AM
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this assumes most men judge their life partner on looks alone, and first impressions are everything This assumes nothing. It is an actual measurement of the ages of MOTOS that men and women find most attractive. Of course, people are multidimensional and looks aren't everything. But looks are still important -- we've all got a biological mandate to, if given a choice, choose Sarah Hyland over Hillary Clinton every time. Are you really arguing men are a complete slave to their penis? Nope. I was …
/r/TheRedPill11/11/15 01:24 AM
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Many men don't settle down right away, and most want a woman similar to their age. Actual research (from a dating site created by mathematicians) suggests that while most women want a man similar to her own age, -- men of all ages prefer a woman who is between 20 and 22. Science, bitches!
/r/TheRedPill10/11/15 08:58 PM
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What horrifies me is that in all likelihood Hillary is going to be in charge for the next 8 years. No reason to be horrified -- the people who die mysteriously when a Clinton is in office are always people who directly interact with them. We random redditors are relatively safe.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/15 08:19 PM
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It doesn't matter who becomes president. Our owners will continue to march in the same direction they have for the past four decades. The President of the United States is just a fancy title for the primary spokesmodel of the military industrial complex. May as well have some entertainment while we're at it. And frankly, it'll be nice to have a spine in the whitehouse for once -- the last spine that inhabited the whitehouse was the evil I will not name.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/15 02:42 PM
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Nah, we just like that he pisses off the offenderati.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/15 04:52 AM
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Asian women outnumber tall men by a wide margin. I'd say evolutionarily, they've done rather well for themselves.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/15 04:07 PM
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I think you missed the second part of that -- I expected somebody to ask "so which one is it?": It's the easiest thing in the world. It's the hardest thing in the world. It's the easiest thing in the world while you're not trying -- perhaps lost in a girl's eyes. It's still the hardest thing in the world.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/15 12:11 AM
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You're projecting, friend. I assure you that some people, myself included, hear and feel the poetry in the subtleties of the human mating ritual. But you and I are coming at this from two completely different directions. I'm very likely at least twice your age. I never had any trouble in attracting women -- I just had a problem with them taking me to the cleaners. And even now with a third-trimester whisky belly, I can still charm the pants off cuties in their early twenties. TRP for me is about…
/r/TheRedPill06/11/15 08:24 PM
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Nah, sex is dessert. Opening is cocktails, and there's a full seven course meal to be had for anyone who cares to take the time to enjoy it. Life is what you make of it and I eat at 5-star restaurants whenever possible. Our bodies are wired such that we can feel pleasure from simple eye contact - lazy lightning. And if you're engaging in pickup for any reason other than personal amusement, you're missing the best part. Oh sure, sex is usually grand. But without the buildup, and that sweet sweet …
/r/TheRedPill06/11/15 07:36 PM
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You're there just for the sex, right? Why keep it longer than you have? I'm never there just for the sex. I enjoy the rest of the process as much, if not more. Just as I take my time with a nice steak and would never gulp down a fine wine -- primeval desire is best when slowly savored.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/15 04:32 PM
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No rush I like the cut of your jib. I think the number one thing a guy can do to cause a girl to be standing in a slippery little puddle, is simply to be present. Not thinking of how to get in her pants. Not thinking of how to impress her. Just being right there. Completely present in the moment with her. "If you're out with this girl and you're even thinking about getting laid, you're finished. Because women can smell an agenda like shit on a shoe." - Dex (in Tao of Steve) But if you're worried…
/r/TheRedPill06/11/15 04:18 PM
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I still find this issue to be taboo say when a woman is 30 and the man is say 50. Wait. You consider a 50 year old man with a 30 year old woman to be "preying" upon her??? Or is it that you perceive that society feels that way?
/r/TheRedPill03/11/15 06:54 PM
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It's almost like women have an expiration date or something.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/15 02:12 PM
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He may be of that age where a strong breeze can give you a hard on.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/15 01:38 PM
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You know how I know you're gay?
/r/TheRedPill03/11/15 01:37 PM
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That's why a woman hitting a man is so sinister: she knows the whole world has her back no matter how wrong she is. Therefore, she can be a bully if she wants to.
/r/PussyPassDenied02/11/15 12:42 AM
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It's both. The word for those species that haven't protected their womb owners is "extinct".
/r/PussyPassDenied02/11/15 12:39 AM
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It wasn't reflex, he had a few seconds then decided to smack her. From the time he gets hit till his hand begins to move is just short of 0.4 seconds. The average human reaction time is 0.25 seconds. So either it was a slightly slower than average reflex -- or the guy is the fastest thinker on planet earth.
/r/PussyPassDenied02/11/15 12:34 AM
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Alcoholics Anonymous. Hope you like coffee and cigarettes.
/r/seduction31/10/15 03:53 PM
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Can you say why you thought she was fat? I pictured /u/girlwriteswhat - and she's definitely not fat - moderately attractive, in fact.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 11:45 AM
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At all points you have nothing to lose.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/15 06:23 AM
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Money also equals motivation for someone to lay a claim on your future earnings. And as soon as someone has laid legal claim on your future earnings, you no longer have the freedom to earn less. Which means you no longer have the freedom to take business risks that could possibly reduce your earnings. Nor do you have the freedom to not earn at the rate at which you earned money when that claim was levied. And if your earnings increase, your obligation increases. And we have word for someone who …
/r/seduction21/10/15 03:35 PM
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the fake female Green Berets that just "graduated" from Ranger school last month You're confusing Army Rangers with Special Forces. Rangers are elite airborne light infantry while special forces are unconventional warfare. Rangers don't wear green berets -- Rangers wear tan berets (they used to have black berets). Special Forces wear green berets. And though a couple chix might have made it through RIP (after multiple attempts) -- none will ever make it through the Special Forces Q Course. Ever.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/15 12:07 AM
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It's reduction.
/r/seduction18/10/15 06:00 PM
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They have been humbled by realities that being young and female had previously protected them from.
/r/seduction18/10/15 01:49 AM
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Still is.
/r/MensRights17/10/15 08:14 PM
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My feminist ex-friend borrowed $250 from me to go to a music festival a few months ago. She kept dodging the issue of reimbursement until a couple weeks ago. She tried to pay me only $60 because she had been arrested and missed most of the festival. After a huge fight I managed to get it all -- but she was completely unable to understand why she should be held responsible for the time she was in jail. I even tried explaining to her that nobody had given me a partial refund for her ticket because…
/r/MensRights17/10/15 07:06 PM
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The centipede is a predator.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/15 12:30 AM
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Women are the gatekeepers of sex. Men are the gatekeepers of commitment. A man who has had 59 divorces at the age of 23 is equally untrustworthy.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/15 04:42 PM
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Never mind that I've quit 60 jobs at the age of 23 -- I promise I will be the best worker ever and stay here till retirement.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/15 04:37 PM
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Oh, I mean that I have not replied to your question.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/15 04:52 PM
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It is a fictional bit of entertainment that makes a very difficult philosophy book, Simulacra and Simulation, both accessible and enjoyable. Movies are modern myth. And if all you get from the word "myth" is that it is something that is not true, you need to be aware of two things: The opposite of a lie is truth. The opposite of truth is often another truth.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/15 04:19 PM
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The four noble truths and TRP: The Truth of Dukkha is that all conditional phenomena and experiences are not ultimately satisfying; You can't escape the fact that life ain't all sunshine and rainbows. It is human nature to be dissatisfied even when it is all sunshine and rainbows. Did you know that the first Matrix was designed to be a perfect human world? Where none suffered, where everyone would be happy. It was a disaster. No one would accept the program. Entire crops were lost. The Truth of …
/r/TheRedPill10/10/15 03:38 PM
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The anger is strong in this one. He was just explaining that our understanding of the word is a misunderstanding. I found it interesting without having to accept or believe any of it.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/15 02:59 PM
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Theories like karma are invented to keep losers in an illusion that some universal justice will happen to those people who have taken advantage of them. Karma is a concept meant to remind a person to be his best self.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/15 02:31 PM
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And because the real number is always at least three times the declared number -- she's bounced on at least 50 pelvii.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 07:47 PM
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I'd really like to know how this data was gained Sum of the lies divided by the number of lies.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 07:45 PM
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Welcome to Earth. That's how it works here.
/r/seduction09/10/15 03:53 AM
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What do you have against ancient roman concrete?
/r/TheRedPill02/10/15 03:06 AM
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Smart man? Caitlyn Jenner is stunning and brave.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/15 03:49 AM
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Probably. You have to accept that a Ferrari is more temperamental than a Toyota. The word "passion" originally meant suffering. Maybe it still does. To find what you're looking for, you have to become a man who will never lose her respect. They only turn on you when you've disappointed them. A man can never let down his guard. Ever. Never show weakness to a woman no matter how much she encourages you to do so. Never flinch. I'm searching for one that is deeply passionate without all the drama. C…
/r/seduction30/09/15 09:14 AM
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Do whatever you think is wise. Or don't. Your judgment will improve with every decision you make that bites you in the ass.
/r/seduction28/09/15 04:40 PM
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Impossible is too strong a word. Unlikely is closer to what I'm trying to convey. Actually most of what you're getting from my statement is more extreme than what I meant. If you'll just tone it down to about 10% of your current interpretation you'll be much closer to my meaning.
/r/seduction28/09/15 04:19 PM
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Put another way, a woman who is incapable of being mean is also incapable of being sweet. Please elaborate I think the actual point here is that when you first meet a girl she will show you how sweet she can be. And from that information you can easily extrapolate to predict the full range of her behavior towards people.
/r/seduction28/09/15 03:48 PM
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Whoosh! Nope. My advice is to understand that women are typically more complicated and way less innocent than they appear. Anna is someone who everybody is careful not to use 4-letter words around. When she's nearby, everybody is on their best behavior. But squeaky clean kindergarten teacher is only one aspect to her personality. There are others. Guys dreamily talk about her as someone they'd like to have an LTR with. Imagining a life with a younger, hotter, June Cleaver. But this girl is multi…
/r/seduction28/09/15 11:10 AM
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A monkey doesn't let go of the branch its on until it has another branch in hand.
/r/seduction28/09/15 02:30 AM
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There is no longer any benefit in marriage, for a man. This has very little to do with our relationships with women. To marry is to sign a legally binding contract with the state. A contract that gives you obligations but no reward. A contract that presents a continuous moral hazard to your beloved. As soon as the laws are changed, my advice will change.
/r/seduction28/09/15 12:01 AM
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I've had almost exclusively positive experiences with women. Little Anal Annie for example, is in my phone. I simply hold no illusions. Most of those warnings are actually warnings about the legal framework of the US. The rest are about not becoming too nice and therefore boring.
/r/seduction27/09/15 11:51 PM
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Anybody who actually knows me will tell you I'm the most positive person they know. You're mistaking pragmatism for bitterness. I am severely (physically) damaged, though -- results of a BASE jumping accident and a fiery car crash -- shit happens.
/r/seduction27/09/15 11:22 PM
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Nothing at all. I'm glad I didn't know then what I know now (at 50) -- because I did have some beautiful moments and periods of absolute bliss -- made possible only by youth and naïveté. If any of us old enough to really get it were to be brutally honest, you'd reject what you were told anyway. And we'd be hunted down and destroyed for daring speak the dark truth. So the best I can tell you: Lift Act boldly. Never give in to even the sweetest manipulations. Never marry. Don't bother becoming a f…
/r/seduction27/09/15 07:20 PM
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It had never occurred to me before -- but a false accusation of rape is a sex offense, huh?
/r/PussyPassDenied10/09/15 10:17 PM
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On the computer.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/09/15 10:16 PM
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no one is doing anything substantial to help us Nobody gives a shit about men. Never have.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/09/15 10:11 PM
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WWJ 950 AM radio first reported that he had died at the scene. Looks like they mixed up two stories -- because shortly after this incident, State Trooper Chad Wolf was killed on his motorcycle. A local TV station reported that evening that the man had not died. The reddit comment plus the other (later) news reports, combined with the fact that there had been a verified motorcycle fatality at about the same time seems credible to me. I linked the comment because it was expedient.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/09/15 05:27 AM
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Here's a later report that says he survived and a reddit post by his nephew that also says he survived.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/09/15 04:29 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/videos/comments/3j4k7e/drunk_woman_tries_to_flee_after_running_over_biker/cumhoze
/r/PussyPassDenied01/09/15 03:43 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/videos/comments/3j4k7e/drunk_woman_tries_to_flee_after_running_over_biker/cumhoze
/r/PussyPassDenied01/09/15 03:42 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/videos/comments/3j4k7e/drunk_woman_tries_to_flee_after_running_over_biker/cumhoze
/r/PussyPassDenied01/09/15 03:42 AM
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I thought the cameraman did good work (aside from the vertical video - grumble). He kept trying to encourage her to do the right thing and kept reminding her of the real person she was responsible for hurting.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/09/15 03:38 AM
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I was seriously injured in a car crash a few years ago (60% 3rd degree burns) -- and an old woman sat down beside me, held my hand and told me stories about the star constellations we could see (I was laying on my back). She never left me until the ambulance showed up. And when they were loading me onto the helicopter I saw her and she waved to me. I'm sure she thought I was going to die. She was very kind. If I'm ever in a position to do so, I too will comfort the injured.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/09/15 03:30 AM
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He's still alive.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/09/15 03:16 AM
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That article is wrong. He's alive and in intensive care.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/09/15 03:14 AM
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That's also the strategy of the cuckoo (it lays its egg in another bird's nest and bails).
/r/TheRedPill30/08/15 04:24 PM
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A doctor doesn't need to file for child support. Nor do they need to take bribes from pharmaceutical companies. And yet they do.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/15 06:20 PM
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male privilege military intelligence civil war business ethics government worker freedom fighter educational television fair and balanced
/r/PussyPassDenied25/08/15 04:22 PM
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I think nobody's bashing the woman for not being nurturing because so few women are nurturing -- to men.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/15 12:04 AM
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You're in the pussification phase right now. She's manipulated you into needing her -- and you're already circling the drain. How attractive do you think your neediness and lack of confidence is to your girlfriend? How about other women? I'll answer for you: it disgusts them. It disgusts them all. I've been in your shoes and each time it ended the same way -- she cheats and justifies it because she just doesn't feel it with you any more. You used to be this confident awesome guy and now you're i…
/r/seduction12/08/15 05:46 PM
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A market for lemons?
/r/TheRedPill08/08/15 01:54 AM
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Women know they can hit a man and the whole world will defend her against his self-defense. Of course they're surprised when a guy goes off-script.
/r/PussyPassDenied06/08/15 05:52 PM
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Systemic oppression of men.
/r/PussyPassDenied06/08/15 05:49 PM
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And everybody in the area will attack the man. if he defends himself. A very small woman who knows how, can throw quite a devastating punch -- and every woman know the entire world has her back if she decides to attack. apparently a woman punching a man does nothing but merely inconvenience the man A broken nose is rather inconvenient.
/r/PussyPassDenied06/08/15 05:46 PM
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You clearly don't understand redpill.
/r/PussyPassDenied30/07/15 02:56 AM
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Any disagreement is viewed by SJWs as an attack. Therefore, hate speech.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 05:27 PM
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I was banned from r/Feminism for saying Audrey Hepburn is mainly thought of as an accomplished actor rather than a sex object. I wish I had been banned for saying something more important.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 12:40 PM
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I had female roommates for a few years and every time one of their relationships would start winding down they'd start talking more and more shit about the guy. Invariably, they'd start saying the guy was particularly bad at sex or that he was rather small. I seriously doubt any of them ever said that to the guy. So you are not likely the exception to the rule -- rather, you're just not the person she said it to. It seems that women, in order to justify breaking up with a guy, rewrite history.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/15 02:52 PM
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Afterwards they'll remember you as bigger than you actually were ...until she gets ready to move on. Then it's remembered as being smaller.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/15 06:13 PM
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You said "there is no such thing as an upward spiral; only downward" and now you're saying that there is such a thing -- but because you consider upward spirals to be universally destructive /u/vs1 is not allowed to use 'upward spiral' as a metaphor for anything good. Do you also consider dust devils to be universally destructive? How about other vortices? Is a dyson vacuum cleaner's vortex necessarily a climb because upward spirals are universally bad -- whereas anything good that goes up must …
/r/TheRedPill17/07/15 02:38 PM
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Ever hear of a tornado or a dust devil?
/r/TheRedPill17/07/15 01:17 PM
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P.S. what were they boogeymen of the 70s/80s? Dietary fat Communists Labor unions Terrorists / hijackers Great white sharks Gangs Idi Amin, Muammar Gaddafi, and Ayatolla Khomeni Deadbeat dads Satanists Satanic messages recorded backwards on rock and roll albums Kidnapping Drugs OJ Simpson
/r/TheRedPill17/07/15 01:00 PM
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War is peace. Freedom is slavery. Ignorance is strength.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/15 06:08 PM
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Someone should tell Jake to file a false accusation. Turnabout is fair play.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/15 05:34 PM
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I have a correction for you: when she suddenly starts coming after you about cheating, invariably, she is definitely cheating. Without exception.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/15 03:27 PM
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Every woman is a whore. Except my mother. But she's still a woman.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/15 02:12 PM
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Perhaps in different countries -- but in the U.S., it's that way everywhere: accepting the role of father does in fact, put you on the hook -- even if you prove you're not the biological father.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/15 01:59 PM
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"accidentally"
/r/seduction30/06/15 04:14 PM
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Always good to see other Austinites How do you know from a mention of I-35 that he's from Austin? That road goes all the way to Minneapolis. And I-35 at rush hour is a nightmare in Minneapolis, Des Moines, KC, Wichita, and Oklahoma City as well as Texas.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/15 05:39 AM
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whether or not I should be rough with the guy and brush him off explaining she's my girlfriend If you do that you'll be signaling that you're insecure and more invested in the relationship than she is. And other sharks in the immediate vicinity will smell the blood in the water. I think the best way to play it is to give his approach a score from 1 to 10 and playfully critique his performance. I mean, if she's even moderately attractive she gets hit on all the time. What do you care? And if she'…
/r/seduction16/06/15 10:57 PM
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When I was in Ireland it was easy to spot the UK girls: they were the ones with pretty faces and gargantuan butts.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/15 05:57 PM
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As a country we started circling the drain on August 15, 1971. But the high point for the average person was probably somewhere between 1975 and 1980. And the giant sucking sound began somewhere around 1987 -- which is roughly when we first heard the term 'politically correct'. Younger people can't see the collapse of the US for the same reason fish are unaware of water.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 09:28 PM
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To any of the older members on here. Would you wish we were still like the 70's/80's? You mean back when we collectively valued bravery, strength, perseverance, pride, and healthy competition? Yeah, sometimes. But it is very interesting watching the death throes of the cold war play out. You see, the way I see it -- we won the cold war economically, and lost it culturally. What we're seeing here is nothing less than the Soviet Union kicking our ass from the grave.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 01:17 PM
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You mean honesty?
/r/seduction10/06/15 06:04 PM
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Creepy level: dahmer
/r/seduction10/06/15 04:42 PM
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It's different for everybody -- you've got to determine the things you like most in the world and do those things. Whatever it is for you. Motherfuck what others may think of the shit you like. And talk to everybody all the time. Everywhere. Many of my closest friends began as random people I met at places like convenience stores and DMV lines. And before you know it you'll find that when you go to do the things you love -- half the people there are your friends. And a certain number of those fr…
/r/seduction10/06/15 05:49 AM
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I love it when Latin girls start screaming in German!
/r/seduction10/06/15 01:18 AM
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9
/r/seduction10/06/15 01:16 AM
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Krautwickel ftw!
/r/seduction09/06/15 09:57 PM
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You may get a lot of traction by playfully making fun of their English. The night I met my (German) ex-wife, I told her I could never date a girl who couldn't properly pronounce "this, that and the other thing". She couldn't. But she could write her name and the 6 digits I needed to give her another chance (30 years ago, getting a girl's number involved an ancient form of communication called "pen and paper").
/r/seduction09/06/15 09:17 PM
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It's only a temporary purchase of freedom.
/r/PussyPassDenied05/06/15 12:03 AM
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TIL
/r/seduction03/06/15 02:31 AM
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You seem to be the only one who read: I'm a bit offended they thought I was hitting on them. It wouldn't have been irritating if I had been asking them out. It's only irritating because that was the furthest thing from my mind.
/r/seduction03/06/15 01:53 AM
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It's narcissistic that I don't do cold approaches? (sadly, I am forced to use different tactics that don't generally lead to any possibility of that sort of response) Or is it narcissistic that unattractive women who I've had innocent not-at-all-hitting-on-them interactions with have often mentioned having a boyfriend -- as if I actually were hitting on them? Or maybe you're using some definition of "narcissist" I was previously unaware of.
/r/seduction03/06/15 01:13 AM
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I'm not talking about girls I was asking out. I'm talking about chix I just said something to -- just as I might have said something to a random guy. Here's the most recent example: saturday night I stopped by a sandwich shop on my way home. I'd never been in there before and was looking over the menu. The only other customer was a very large and unattractive woman sitting at a table to my right. She appeared to have just finished eating. I turned to her and asked "what's good here?" and she rep…
/r/seduction03/06/15 01:04 AM
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I guess. It also calls her on her bullshit. Frankly, the only chix who ever give me the boyfriend line are fat ugly hairy things anyway -- so tbh, I'm a bit offended they thought I was hitting on them. As if. So no -- it would not come off as creepy/overly-aggressive because I wasn't showing any interest to begin with. To date, I've never had a woman I approached say anything of the sort. ymmv
/r/seduction02/06/15 09:22 PM
4

I thought we were talking about things that don't work.
/r/seduction02/06/15 08:19 PM
2

No. But it does frame her boyfriend as overly controlling -- which she either has to defend, or drop it as an objection.
/r/seduction02/06/15 08:17 PM
9

Yeah, I'm ugly, short, and old -- but in person I'm a wildly charismatic motherfucker. So I haven't even bothered with Tinder or even dating sites. I suspect Tinder, for me, would make suicide seem like a good idea.
/r/seduction02/06/15 02:49 PM
2

You can keep anybody talking by relaxing all the muscles of your face and raising both eyebrows as if to say "go on".
/r/seduction29/05/15 04:24 PM
5

Hi, Karen! I don't have a question. I just want to thank you with every fiber of my being for all that you have done -- and continue to do for us. It is sad that only women's voices will be listened to, but I've accepted that that is the reality of the matter. I'm just grateful that there are strong female voices willing to speak up.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 03:41 PM
1

An age gap that spans three generations is very likely unworkable. And an age gap that spans two generations may or may not be challenging -- depending on the individual people involved. Otherwise, age is pretty much a meaningless indicator of suitability. My most satisfying relationship to date was with a woman 22 years my senior -- and my worst was with a woman 3 weeks my junior.
/r/seduction28/05/15 01:59 PM
1

hen they're not as horny as men because men don't discriminate like this. When was the last time you fucked a fat, ugly, hairy chick?
/r/seduction20/05/15 08:13 PM
4

when I read on r/askwomen that they're sick of being approached, are they all just lying to each other? It's a little more complicated than that. You see, when they're approached by a guy they like, they don't consider it an approach. They consider it a lucky meeting -- being at the right place at the right time -- they consider it fate. But when they're approached by a guy they don't like -- that is what they consider an approach. And at best, they find it mildly annoying. So when they say that…
/r/seduction20/05/15 08:10 PM
1

Would you want to be seen leaving the club with this girl? I'm guessing you wouldn't. So perhaps you don't really like sex. But the thing is, you don't have to be Brad Pitt. You just have to find the women you like, who also like you -- and present yourself confidently and competently. And understand that women can smell feigned confidence like shit on a shoe.
/r/seduction20/05/15 05:50 PM
2

Excellent point.
/r/seduction20/05/15 05:23 PM
1

There are very likely many things you're doing wrong: You're possibly barking up the wrong skirts. Just as there are girls you wouldn't be interested in, you're not every girl's cup of tea. You're possibly using ineffective body language and/or vocal tone. Girls notice everything that's going on at the club -- and when they see one girl reject you, it's a cue that they should do the same. You may be missing indicators of interest. does that mean that the women are just so picky that they don't r…
/r/seduction20/05/15 05:22 PM
2

It would make sense to me that if women liked sex as much, then they would find a way to offset the stigmas you mentioned and provide safe avenues for guys to be successful in pursuing them. You mean something like this?
/r/seduction20/05/15 04:35 PM
2

I thought girls went to clubs to go dancing and have "fun". Plausible deniability. Wouldn't it be argued that girls get "talked into sex" Sweet summer child. Society dictates that they must keep up appearances of being innocent and pure. So they must have a narrative where they were just out having fun "and I don't know... one thing led to another... and. um you know" -- so we must provide such a narrative. To do otherwise would be very risky for her social standing.
/r/seduction20/05/15 04:20 PM
1

Everyone always blames culture/ Society. But culture and society evolved the way they did for a reason! Right. But who actually participates in most slut-shaming? Women. And why? Because anyone who inflates the supply (prostitutes, sluts, etc) decreases demand.
/r/seduction20/05/15 03:55 PM
1

I have this one friend who slaps me around every time I see him because I won't man up and do anything about it More than likely, your friend is trying to help you out by goading you to punch him. You see, the moment you take a stand -- your life will improve drastically. It doesn't matter if you get a broken nose out of the deal. It's vital that you learn to put your foot down. And really, even if your friend really is just a bully and you fight him and get your ass beat -- you'll find that whi…
/r/seduction17/05/15 03:32 PM
4

I can't explain it in psychological terms. I am not qualified for that sort of thing. I do however, have a theory: All kinds of baby animals play in a way that hints at the survival skills they'll need as an adult. Little lion cubs for example, play by fake hunting and fake fighting with each other. Puppies gnaw gently on each other while tumbling on the ground. And human children on the playground pick on each other. And make fun of each other. Little boys may push little girls -- you get the i…
/r/seduction15/05/15 12:57 PM
3

Limiting calorie intake is basically the ONLY diet choice that does work. /r/keto disagrees -- and I've lost 35lbs since Feb 1 by eating the same (or slightly more) calories per day but as close to 0 grams of carbohydrates as possible. The idea that a calorie is a calorie doesn't take insulin into account. Basically, it's sugars that we have been eating too much of. Remove those sugars and replace them with fats and you lose weight. In my case -- at a rate of about 10lbs per month.
/r/seduction14/05/15 03:49 PM
1

How?
/r/seduction14/05/15 12:39 PM
3

Get over it, brother. Just do your thing and let the chips fall where they may. No man laying on his death bed ever says "I sure wish I'd been more timid when I was young".
/r/seduction14/05/15 01:15 AM
2

Why not? Being more sexual is nothing to be ashamed of -- in fact, not being more sexual is what you should be ashamed of.
/r/seduction14/05/15 01:13 AM
2

In graphic detail.
/r/seduction13/05/15 10:51 PM
151

She's not interested in you.
/r/seduction13/05/15 10:36 PM
9

No. You're goofing on them because you don't give a fuck. Because right now, you'd need an olympic stadium to hold all the fucks you give.
/r/seduction13/05/15 07:00 PM
3

How do you deal with it? Girl: "Oh, that guy is hotter than hell!" Me: "yeah I'd hit it"
/r/seduction13/05/15 06:20 PM
4

Be advised that there are like three billion women. Find others.
/r/seduction13/05/15 04:54 PM
6

Finding your style, I think, is important. Finding somebody else's style (current fashion), less so.
/r/seduction08/05/15 12:25 PM
6

Women aren't that driven by sex to begin with Victorian belief. Now where are my smelling salts?
/r/TheRedPill07/05/15 01:01 PM
1

Touching. Kino is touching.
/r/seduction06/05/15 02:55 PM
6

Boldness is often rewarded and rarely punished. Timidity is rarely rewarded and always punished. The world will forgive almost anything you do unapologetically and with semi-naive enthusiasm. As long as you're not a dick about it.
/r/seduction06/05/15 02:53 PM
1

What are my options? Make friends.
/r/seduction05/05/15 05:16 PM
31

I know.
/r/seduction05/05/15 01:13 PM
11

To be more accurate -- we like the girl next door pornstar look.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/15 12:10 PM
1

Or enthusiasm. Enthusiasm makes it unnecessary to force yourself. If you have OA in your 50s you should force yourself to be more active, to slow progression of the disease. And CVD? Should have been keeping that weight down already (maybe I'm being unfair but I've yet to know anyone with either cvd or type 2 diabetes who isn't or wasn't obese). But it's probably still not too late to at least mitigate the damage. I'm 50 and I can tell you from experience that with age you do rack up little ache…
/r/TheRedPill05/05/15 11:28 AM
4

College students graduate and infiltrate.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/15 03:49 AM
1

Read it again. I said being quick-witted and spry in old age are the results of never slowing down. Those dotard old folk are the ones who were lazy and let the weeds overtake the garden. My grandfather was 86 when he died, his twin lived another four years. And grandfather was sharp as a 30 year old up till the end -- he even rode his motorcycle to the hospital after the first of the heart attacks that killed him. My granduncle otoh, now bear in mind they're genetically identical -- had been sh…
/r/TheRedPill05/05/15 02:49 AM
2

Nah, if you never slow down you'll be quick-witted and spry well into your 80s. Have you not noticed that the people who age poorly are lazy as hell?
/r/TheRedPill05/05/15 12:56 AM
3

It's all in how comfortable you are in your environment -- confidence. I'm not attractive at all but I get approached fairly often, so attractiveness can't be all that important. I am however, supremely confident -- which is all that important.
/r/seduction04/05/15 03:42 PM
0

Correct. No means no. Maybe I misunderstood the situation we're talking about. I was under the impression the woman never withdrew consent -- but later regretted decisions she had willingly and enthusiastically made while high on meth. And that having been high was used as a "she couldn't have given consent". And to that, it is my opinion that if I'm to be held responsible for my decisions for example to drive while drunk -- she should also be responsible for the decisions she made while high on…
/r/PussyPassDenied03/05/15 12:44 AM
0

The person initiating is by definition also consenting. It's not really all that complicated.
/r/PussyPassDenied02/05/15 11:24 PM
3

If you mean happy, no. His home was invaded.
/r/PussyPassDenied02/05/15 04:21 PM
3

Case dismissed.
/r/PussyPassDenied02/05/15 04:20 PM
2

While it is true that weed doesn't do this to people -- it doesn't necessarily follow that she had to be on something else. Some people are simply insane.
/r/PussyPassDenied02/05/15 04:19 PM
8

why does everyone on this sub think that every girl to have ever had sex says that they got raped afterwards? It happens sometimes. And this girl seems to be batshit insane, increasing the likelihood of regret for sex she willingly and enthusiastically pursued. And far too often regret, or buyer's remorse, does in fact, result in a rape accusation. I'd have called the cops too.
/r/PussyPassDenied02/05/15 04:17 PM
18

Standards: there are two of them.
/r/PussyPassDenied02/05/15 04:10 PM
7

PSA: never talk to the cops at all. Nothing you say to the police can ever help you (objection, hearsay!). Anything you say can be used against you.
/r/PussyPassDenied02/05/15 04:09 PM
13

I don't understand. She made advances on him and he's going to jail for it? If I drive drunk, am I the victim of the car? After all, I was under the influence -- even though I made the decision to drive. The car merely went along with it. Wait. Is that why they put my car in impound?
/r/PussyPassDenied02/05/15 04:06 PM
4

Bowling is all Walter cares about. It is his entire life. Walter also cares about Donny, who died face down in the muck in Vietnam. Note that Walter is the only one who ever directly addresses Donny.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/15 03:11 PM
1

Zazen.
/r/seduction30/04/15 09:26 PM
0

how can you make sure she is clear of your intentions? By making your intentions as clear as a freshly washed window.
/r/seduction29/04/15 08:31 PM
3

Being under the influence of the world's best social lubricant: MDMA.
/r/seduction29/04/15 04:09 PM
6

Yeah, but this news anchor is Earth's cutest lifeform.
/r/PussyPassDenied29/04/15 01:11 AM
1

Right. I did not care to answer your question, though I did have comments about something else you had said. Did I just get "lucky" so to speak with her that she orgasms easily or what? You see, your question was flawed because it was based on a flawed premise: that the girl you were with even had an orgasm in the first place. Fact is, your girl very likely faked it so you'd stop. There's no shame in that. It has happened to all of us at one time or other.
/r/seduction28/04/15 08:18 PM
2

I know she wasn't faking because she actually couldn't like stand up or walk since it was her first orgasm ever. Actually, you don't know she wasn't faking it. The changes you witnessed are changes that can be faked. But it is possible to tell that a woman has actually had an orgasm. It's different for each of them, but things to look for are: skin flushing voice timbre changes skin scent changes (if you can detect it. I can) skin texture changes Note that all these are things she cannot control…
/r/seduction28/04/15 01:32 PM
0

Yup. It takes a very negative person to misconstrue my uplifting message as if it were negative. Put another way: enjoy a cigarette if you want. It's not like you'll live forever if you don't. And in the meantime you get to hang out with all the interesting people outside the club. And when they talk about it shortening your life -- it's not like that part of your life gets removed from parties, dancing, concerts, and crazy sex. It gets removed from the part where all your friends are dead, your…
/r/seduction28/04/15 04:29 AM
-1

You know what's really sexy? Haters. Nothing turns people on more than a negative attitude!
/r/seduction28/04/15 03:51 AM
-1

It's not just the look/vibe. We smokers get the social benefits of having a reason to hang out outside with the other smokers. Many of whom are women who demonstrably already make bad decisions -- so double bonus, one of those bad decisions can be me. Can't really talk in the club -- but you can talk outside. TL;DR - just buy a pack of cigarettes. You're gonna die anyway.
/r/seduction27/04/15 10:38 PM
8

My question is, how do you move from cuddling etc to making out and sex? While talking, Slow. Down. Your. Speech. Look at her lips. Look back into her eyes. Then with the back of your fingers, touch her hair near her jawline and push the hair back towards her ear. If she doesn't pull back to avoid the kiss (which at this point, she knows is coming), you're golden. Kiss her already.
/r/seduction27/04/15 02:08 AM
1

Plausible deniability, brother. Plausible deniability. Of course they have a justification other than sex -- because they're just as concerned about being labeled a slut as we are about being labeled a creep. So they have a cover story. And that's all it is. Can you imagine how you'd react if a girl just walked up and said "hey, I just came over to get a closer look at you and to make sure you don't smell bad or have an annoying voice or visible nose hairs or any kind of shit like that -- before…
/r/seduction25/04/15 08:08 PM
1

Read "The Naked Ape" and "Peoplewatching", both by Desmond Morris. You'll find what you seek there.
/r/seduction25/04/15 03:54 PM
7

Because they want sex, of course.
/r/seduction25/04/15 12:13 AM
2

Don't get too drunk -- just have a good time and work the room like a full-on social butterfly. If you ever saw the movie Titanic, think of how awesomely Jack worked the room. Do that. Oh yeah, and have fun. Life's far too short to be overly serious.
/r/seduction24/04/15 01:50 AM
2

So how do I know which one she has an interest in? ¿Porque no los dos? Haven't you ever liked more than one girl at the same time? I certainly have. She's probably trying to get one of you to man up. She may not even care which one. how can I try to determine which one she has interested in to avoid wasting effort and pride by approaching Dude -- grow a pair and go talk to the girl! What's with this trying to be safe shit? Ain't a damn thing in this world that's safe -- so you're far better off …
/r/seduction23/04/15 11:41 PM
3

I think the person holding the camera was part of the gang of girls attacking the guy.
/r/PussyPassDenied23/04/15 08:00 PM
-1

in the club context Always pay when you're pretty sure you're not interested in her, but still want to behave politely. When a chick asks or demands a drink and it feels like the demanded payment for the supreme privilege of talking to her -- buy the drink and walk away. Don't even look at her again. Otherwise, buy a drink anytime you'd have done so for one of your male friends. I'm thinking of this more in the first date context The person who invites, pays. But you have to take reciprosity int…
/r/seduction23/04/15 04:52 PM
1

My vision is not so good. And probably, it looks like I look at people the whole way down the corridor. I can't make out face details until someone is pretty close. And I think my resting gaze falls just a little bit above people's heads so when we get close I guess I lower my point of focus to their eyes.
/r/seduction18/04/15 04:54 PM
8

Clearly you're doing it wrong.
/r/seduction17/04/15 11:27 PM
1

I bet you're a lot of fun at parties!
/r/seduction17/04/15 10:29 AM
6

The ones who keep randomly looking around or keep looking at a door or keep looking at a watch -- or who keep picking things up and putting them down -- are in need of rescue. All of them. Anybody who seems to be just people watching is probably game for meeting someone new. And it's not that those people on their phone don't want to be bothered -- it's that they don't want to feel awkward about being alone. So they're feigning being busy as a show of having an excuse for not being with someone.…
/r/seduction17/04/15 01:43 AM
6

The hunting analogy wasn't meant to be about waiting. Instead, it was meant to be about selecting for women who want to be approached and ignoring those who are not. Target selection. Not waiting.
/r/seduction16/04/15 09:54 PM
11

Perhaps I shouldn't have used a hunting analogy. Of course I didn't mean to lurk (which sounds creepy). But rather, to have situational awareness. Steamrolling girls who are busy may work sometimes -- but rescuing bored, distracted girls almost always results in a happy, responsive girl. In the first case, you more often get a certain amount of compliance because she doesn't want a confrontation. In the second case, you're doing her a favor.
/r/seduction16/04/15 09:05 PM
50

Bearing this in mind, how can I break the ice with girls without bothering them/appearing intrusive? By not bothering them until they want to be bothered. A good hunter doesn't just barge into the forest and start shooting. He studies the comings and goings of his prey and then positions himself where he can take one down with an easy shot. Do likewise.
/r/seduction16/04/15 07:56 PM
2

Your own expectations may be coloring the way you behave -- and the results you're getting serve to highlight the fact.
/r/seduction16/04/15 12:46 PM
3

So now can I go back and talk to her or what Do you want a restraining order? Because that's how you get a restraining order.
/r/seduction16/04/15 12:10 PM
1

Agreed.
/r/seduction11/04/15 01:51 AM
1

Maybe I'm kinda ugly I think you're just focusing on the wrong girls. Men tend to do that.
/r/seduction11/04/15 12:41 AM
1

I thought OP was specifically asking about seducing other gay men.
/r/seduction11/04/15 12:20 AM
1

What country?
/r/seduction10/04/15 11:46 PM
5

Like you look at a girl, shes catches you looking Nope. Women have a wider range of vision than we do and their brains are lightning fast at this sort of thing. Far faster than ours. She always sees you before you see her. When you even glance at a girl, she is acutely aware of it. Even when you think you're out of her field of vision. So all those girls who aren't making eye contact with you simply don't want to. Those aren't the girls for you. Probably only 1 out of 200-250 women you see will …
/r/seduction10/04/15 11:23 PM
1

Quite a lot of them turn off completely when they are in relationships. Sweet summer child.
/r/seduction10/04/15 11:01 PM
1

You can not hunt deer with it Actually, you can hunt deer with a slingshot.
/r/seduction10/04/15 12:36 PM
1

I think the reason for not taking it a step further is that you still kind of play it safe. Venus favors the bold.
/r/seduction08/04/15 07:07 PM
1

Wherever you are -- same as when you're younger. Only it get's much easier unless you're focused on girls in their 20s. Then it's only moderately easier.
/r/seduction08/04/15 06:34 PM
1

What are in your opinion the best places and methods to pickup women for men over 30 ? I'm perplexed. Was I supposed to change something after my 30th birthday? I didn't get the memo.
/r/seduction08/04/15 06:32 PM
4

Does anyone understand his technique? Definitely. Do not try and bend the spoon. That's impossible. Instead, only try to realize the truth. There is no spoon. Likewise, he could have used any technique and he'd have fared well because he has mastered himself. Subtle but powerful confidence with no sharp edges, and congruent presentation of himself is the true magic in that video.
/r/seduction08/04/15 03:12 AM
4

if she cheats with you then she will cheat on you 100% correct. Though you're not required to make a girlfriend out of every girl you sleep with.
/r/seduction03/04/15 11:23 AM
5

I'm just going to leave this here.
/r/seduction03/04/15 11:18 AM
2

Whats your favorite response to the classic "I have a boyfriend"? Congratulations. Here, put it in ::hands her my phone::
/r/seduction03/04/15 11:15 AM
1

It's not always true. Often, she does not actually have a boyfriend -- and if she does, she still may not actually be in a committed relationship. Women often have boyfriends simply because socially, she feels like a failure when she doesn't. So the boyfriend in that case is little more than a social placeholder. We've all been placeholders at one time or another. However, when a girl actually is in a committed relationship -- it's a dick move to try to break up that relationship just to get you…
/r/seduction03/04/15 11:08 AM
13

Anything will work for the right person or not work for the wrong person. Willie Nelson makes a piece of shit guitar sound good, and Futureman makes a fucking garbage can sound amazing. But I sound shitty on even the best guitar or drum kit.
/r/seduction02/04/15 05:57 PM
3

what's a guy supposed to do? I'm guessing you went in for that kiss in an environment where the girl's social value may have been diminished had she gone along with it. Don't embarrass the girl. Ever. Either that, or you completely misread friendliness as romantic interest.
/r/seduction02/04/15 04:09 PM
6

Governing dynamics: Ignore the blonde.
/r/seduction25/03/15 11:57 AM
12

Doesn't matter: never dip your pen in the company ink.
/r/seduction25/03/15 10:40 AM
1

It's no big deal, brother. There are already more than three billion women. And they keep making more.
/r/seduction16/03/15 02:45 PM
2

What have you got to lose?
/r/seduction16/03/15 12:23 PM
5

Picture a bell curve. A 5 is average: kinda cute but nothing special. Nothing wrong with a 5 at all.
/r/seduction05/03/15 06:02 AM
3

Remember, this is a fish.
/r/seduction04/03/15 06:32 PM
1

if you dont want brutality, you shouldn't fight the police FTFY
/r/PussyPassDenied03/03/15 05:31 PM
98

That's a woman man.
/r/PussyPassDenied03/03/15 04:18 AM
61

started working as a programmer, ... now I'm just lonely, depressed, and with very few friends to talk with. You work in an OO language? If so, you must realize that Girlfriend is a proper subclass of Friend. But it is more difficult to instantiate a Girlfriend object than a standard Friend object. So you'll need to instantiate several Friend objects before you attempt to directly instantiate a Girlfriend. The command to create a Friend object is usually something like "hey, I'm bosniako", thoug…
/r/seduction06/09/14 06:48 PM
19

Why not actually wear a cape?
/r/TheRedPill06/09/14 03:40 PM
2

Point being, tomorrow I'm going to try to talk to her alone, and lay out the facts, that I genuinely like her, but would like to take it somewhat slowly wat No dude. Kiss her, silly! That crazy idea about telling her how you feel is a certain way to deflate the sails.
/r/seduction05/09/14 06:00 AM
1

You didn't want her. She found somebody who did. Get over it.
/r/seduction03/09/14 08:33 PM
3

Actually, my first hint that past girlfriends were cheating -- was when they suddenly increased frequency and quality of sex. It seems that they'll make up for such an incident even if you don't know about it.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 02:28 PM
1

I don't think being blunt is the best strategy. And yet, a nobel prize winning scientist does (er, did). That is the whole point of that part of the book -- Feynman was surprised that what he thought he knew as the correct strategy, turned out to be a less effective strategy than the new strategy he learned. He ultimately chose not to use the new strategy because it didn't align with his personal values. But still, the strategy he chose not to use was surprisingly effective. And didn't require a…
/r/TheRedPill01/09/14 11:31 PM
1

Actually, you can directly increase your confidence in isolation from any domain of interest. That's because your body is connected to your brain -- and just like most other things in the physical universe, you can effect change in either direction. Your inner thoughts are linked to your body language. And the link goes both ways. So if you train your body to move confidently then your inner thoughts will follow because it's all connected. And don't forget your voice -- it needs to be trained to…
/r/seduction01/09/14 07:55 PM
2

Sometimes. Most shows cost between $10 and $20 but more often than not, people show up who bought tickets in advance for people who flaked. So with a finger raised skyward you hope for your daily miracle. Even if you have to pay to get in though, it's not the end of the world -- but you don't always have to pay. And showing up is 90% of getting in.
/r/seduction01/09/14 12:42 AM
2

I've been homeless three times. Always living out of my vehicle (a VW bus, then a truck with a topper). Eating, bathing and finding somewhere to use the bathroom are definitely challenging -- but many women are wonderful about adopting the occasional stray for a night or so. I don't know that I really did that much different -- I like live music so I meet most people at shows. And when you're loving life and dancing, nobody knows (or cares that) you're homeless. Once a woman finds you fascinatin…
/r/seduction01/09/14 12:07 AM
3

What would you like to know?
/r/seduction31/08/14 10:54 PM
2

finish HS at bare minimum. Otherwise it will be a major handicap in how others perceive and treat you Unless you make a success of yourself without a high school diploma -- in which case you are regarded very highly.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/14 07:57 PM
4

Before answering your question I'd like to point out that I was able to get laid just fine while I was homeless. So you really don't need either. But your own place is far more important than a car. And you have plenty of money to get a cheap car as well as a place to live.
/r/seduction31/08/14 07:28 PM
3

Maybe the question you should think about is "would I want to hang out with my 18yo self?" My 18yo self was pretty fucking awesome and I'd hang out with him any day of the week. Fact is, he and I aren't all that different -- oh sure, he looks way better than I do but I have better stories. And more scars. And to date the most satisfying relationship I ever had was with a woman 19 years my senior. So I reject the idea that an age gap says anything bad about its participants.
/r/seduction29/08/14 10:13 PM
3

For those people uninteresting enough that the only thing they know is pop culture references -- the only people they can connect with are other people who share those same pop culture references. Those people need to stick with people precisely the same age as they are. Of course, those are the people who peak early and settle into a horrid life of quiet desperation by the time they're 30 because they're boring people. For everybody else, all people are interesting.
/r/seduction29/08/14 10:05 PM
10

When I was that age I was issued an M-16 with live ammo. A kid? Nope. Just a very new adult.
/r/seduction29/08/14 09:58 PM
2

A "virgin" on tinder ;-)
/r/seduction29/08/14 08:55 PM
4

But I'm just now 11 years her elder. Anything in particular I should keep in mind about this? Yeah, keep in mind that she's an adult who likes you.
/r/seduction29/08/14 08:44 PM
1

but her previous boyfriend was also a short ugly dude, so clearly she enjoys the safety of a relationship with a beta Perhaps she actually prefers guys who look like that. I love what I usually call "beautiful ugly girls" -- those girls I know I'm not supposed to be attracted to, but who are still super cute. So why couldn't she like beautiful ugly dudes?
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 12:50 AM
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If you can find a slender woman who is built Ford Tough, we can talk. I'll happily take the skinny girly girls! They are all built Ford Tough.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 05:51 PM
3

Maybe the Red Queen Effect?
/r/seduction27/08/14 02:06 AM
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I do sometimes get a hanjob (or bj if I'm stronger than her and can push her head down) I hope you're not being serious. how does one turn the blade and critical hit a female with a shit test? critical hit? That's not how it works. That's not how any of this works.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 08:50 PM
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I did get some girls...but it never helped me get girls I really wanted You have to select the ones you want from the ones who want you. But they're not very obvious about whether they want you -- so you've very likely accidentally rejected many beautiful women, simply by missing their signals. And make no mistake -- women are the first to make a move in the natural human mating ritual. It's just that their first move is so subtle that it's easy to miss. After initial eye contact they place them…
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 06:07 PM
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Perhaps then, I'm far better looking than I thought. I do surprisingly well considering all my flaws -- and I'm convinced all I have going for me is confidence and charm. But maybe I'm just drop dead gorgeous instead.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 04:20 PM
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My point is that the league is not divided the way you think it is. A short and ugly guy is only doomed if his other signals are also bad.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 03:59 PM
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Only the shorter guy's league is (almost) the same as for the taller guy. Sure, there are girls who disqualify a guy under 6' -- but it's not even a majority. For the rest of them, the short confident guy astonishingly well. Women simply don't judge us on the same criteria we judge them on.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 03:42 PM
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Take a 5'5" guy with an ugly face and give him all the confidence in the world and then take a 6" guy with great facial aesthetics and barely any confidence... And though the taller guy will do better, the shorter guy will still do just fine.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/14 10:00 PM
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The most attractive friend gets the most positive female attention. Yeah but not by a very big margin.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/14 09:57 PM
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unless you are a burn victim you can go far with looks We prefer to be called burn survivors (I survived 3rd degree burns to 60% of my body eight years ago). And though I was seriously hung up on my burn scars for a very long time -- I've learned that chix dig 'em. I've been told that they add character. I've been told that they're positively manly. Almost anybody can improve their looks -- and even burn scars aren't the end of the world.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/14 06:45 PM
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It carries some weight, but not as much as you think. What you're missing is that those objectively good looking men have loads of confidence -- and that for the most part, it's the confidence the girls are attracted to. Have you never seen an ugly man with a beautiful woman? It's fairly common, actually. And whenever people see it they generally joke that he must have a big dick, or a fat wallet. But the reality is that women are attracted to different things than we are. Sure, looks is part of…
/r/TheRedPill23/08/14 05:07 PM
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I really like her and I don't want to mess this up Then you're already dead in the water. When you're talking to her you should be just talking to your new friend. Getting to know each other. If you're even thinking of romance, sex, or just how awesome a girlfriend she'd make -- you're toast. Because women can smell an agenda like shit on a shoe. Just hang out. Be yourself. Explore what she's all about. And relax - this is supposed to be fun.
/r/seduction23/08/14 04:45 PM
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It's all about where you place your consciousness as you speak. And by that, I mean just thinking about a part of your body places at least part of your consciousness there. Try this: Touch your nose and say "this is my nose". Your voice will sound pinched and nasally. Now do it while simply thinking of your nose. Your voice will still sound the same. Think of the bottom of your throat and say "this is my throat". Note the change in tone. Think about your balls and say "and these are my balls". …
/r/seduction23/08/14 04:35 PM
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I don't know about others -- but neither my stats nor picture look very good on paper (online). But I pretty much own any room I walk into. So online dating is completely worthless to me -- though I meet people naturally and easily everywhere in real life.
/r/seduction23/08/14 02:15 PM
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One of the amazing things about bars is that they serve non-alcoholic drinks too. Even on nights when I do drink -- I typically get one whisky drink and then drink ginger ale the rest of the night. Oh yeah, and in many bars the ginger ale is free.
/r/seduction23/08/14 02:10 PM
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Y'know maybe you just lack sufficient confidence. Because as a general rule, people are pretty friendly -- and I'll bet that you could just walk up to her before she got her lunch out and say "hey, I keep seeing you here and I really wanted to meet you. I'm CinnamoRolll". And that she'll be friendly and enjoy meeting you. Especially if you immediately excuse yourself to get back to your own lunch.
/r/seduction23/08/14 03:43 AM
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What if I never see her coworkers in line and have a chance to talk to them either? Then you sir, lack creativity.
/r/seduction23/08/14 03:29 AM
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Strike up a conversation with anybody in her crew who you end up in line with. When you're getting ready to pay, tell 'em that their crew seems like a lot of fun -- and ask if you can join them. Then introduce yourself to everyone at the table -- making sure to make good/strong eye contact with the girl you're interested in when you meet her. But don't get her number yet. Wait till you've talked to her a few times and there's a legit time when you can exchange numbers. Remember, you see her ofte…
/r/seduction23/08/14 02:08 AM
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Women on the other hand, usually won't even admit it after being caught. I literally walked in on my ex-wife fucking one of my friends. Since that day she has never admitted to any infidelity. My family is still convinced she's an angel.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 07:40 PM
3

Jody helped me get my life back together.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 07:19 PM
1

Contempt.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 06:55 PM
1

Or get your phone on the 'add contact' screen and hand it to her saying "I gotta run. Here. Put it in".
/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 11:32 PM
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WA, NV, CA, MT, FL, MI, PA, MD, DE, RI, MA and NH are all two-party consent states. All others are one-party.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 10:18 PM
3

Truth be told, Adam stood by like a dumb fuck and WATCHED Eve take a bite out of that apple. In fact, the reason they were banished from the garden is because Adam didn't man up -- but instead, tried to place all the blame on Eve.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 03:24 PM
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how do you deal with women who shit test you for being unemployed or when you were homeless? "And yet you're standing right here" <grin> Seriously, the world will respond to however you project yourself into the world. what can a 28yrold guy like me do to build confidence? ...in a short amount of time? In a short amount of time? You need to be excellent at something. It's best if you can be excellent at something that a lot of people can see you doing excellently. For example, I can flip jugglin…
/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 12:50 AM
2

Yeah, anything you do -- good or bad -- gets gossiped about: Feed it. Flirt with other girls in her presence. Just a little bit. When she's expecting to have a quiet night alone, surprise her with the fact that you're going out with the boys. "Wait. Where the hell are you going?" "Shit. I said out."
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 11:49 PM
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I honestly WANT to be loving, nurturing and actually care about girls I'm seeing/dating, but the evidence has proven time and time again that I need to be an arrogant, selfish asshole to even get a woman at all. Right. Men tend to want a comfortable, loving, nurturing relationship -- whereas chix dig drama. And if we don't give it to them they'll make some of their own. So in order to have a relationship with a woman we have to make the relationship uncomfortable for ourselves. We have to introd…
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 08:48 PM
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You really cannot be the older guy that tries to be the hip, "with it" guy that totally understands all the young people by dressing like them and acting like a guy in his early 20s. You cannot really get away with trying to be anything you're not. I am 48 and regularly get girls in the 20-26 age range. I'm unemployed and don't dress well by any stretch of the imagination -- in fact it's usually a t-shirt, shorts, and sandals. Standard hippie uniform, I guess. Including dreadlocks. And I get app…
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 06:33 PM
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He is brilliantly hitting on the woman the whole time! At 8:00 or so when he's talking about standup (yeah right) being great because of the spontaneity -- and says "why would you deny yourself that?" before locking eyes with her -- is solid gold.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 01:07 AM
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agreed
/r/seduction17/08/14 09:10 PM
2

I am disappointed that there was no parable.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/14 06:23 PM
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OP claims to have a problem with approach anxiety. If OP has an issue with approach anxiety, he'll be investing way too much emotion into his first approaches -- and it's going to be awkward. So why not encourage him to get comfortable with approaching random chix first? If he blows it with his one-chick-itis girl, he'll more likely stop going to the gym. Whereas if he gets comfortable with approach first, he (properly) won't give a shit when he flirts with the receptionist.
/r/seduction17/08/14 06:03 PM
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Let her work. It's not like she's the only girl there. And if you fuck things up (and OP shall surely deliver a fuckup his first time out the gate), then it may get weird any time he goes to the gym. Who needs that? There are plenty of other women. And they keep making more.
/r/seduction16/08/14 07:23 PM
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Don't.
/r/seduction16/08/14 06:29 PM
6

Touch her hair near where her jaw meets her ear, with the backside of your fingers. If she doesn't pull back or even tilts hear head up slightly -- you're golden.
/r/seduction15/08/14 10:33 PM
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That's my secret -- I'm always flirting. But how I behave is dependent on the girl. If it's a super hot girl and everybody is kissing her ass, agreeing with everything she says -- I'll semi-playfully argue with her. When any of the ass-kissers takes her side and tries to argue against me I give her a mischievous grin before answering her "protector". That way, fairly often she plays along and it feels like she and I are co-conspirators in fucking with the ass-kissers. But sometimes all that real…
/r/seduction15/08/14 08:11 PM
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If you're going to play and goof around, do it like an adult. I'll bet you're a blast to hang out with! Who wouldn't want to hang out with a disapproving guy who has a bunch of rules defining what is and is not adult behavior? I'd rather dance my way through life with a can of silly string in one hand while thumb-wrestling with the other. Playfulness is sexy.
/r/seduction14/08/14 09:27 PM
6

A thumb war? Really? Does that hold the interest of anyone over the age of 6? Yes. Of course it does. People who are twisted too tight to play and goof around are imo wholly unattractive.
/r/seduction14/08/14 07:19 PM
2

I'd take care of my sore throat/cold.
/r/seduction10/08/14 10:54 PM
1

Does getting angry help? My guess is that getting angry only hurts you -- and I'd strongly recommend against self harm. Just go with it.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/14 08:00 PM
1

And literally half the continent is on vacation.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/14 05:59 PM
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I wouldn't have! If I were feeling generous I might have told her to go to the local American Embassy for help getting home -- because I'm going to cash her return ticket in and blow it on a Eurosloot pass.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/14 05:38 PM
3

Or just grab your backpack and bail.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/14 05:34 PM
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I don't understand why he didn't just ditch the chick and have a blast in Europe. She wants space. She gets space. No problemo. There are some amazingly beautiful women in Europe and this time of year half of them are on vacation. He could have been swimming in le strange.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/14 05:30 PM
1

The military-industrial complex is not the same thing as military expenditures.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 09:57 PM
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A threesome is two women, one man. A train is two men, one woman --Patrice O'Neal
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 06:26 PM
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The military-industrial complex is not simply military expenditures. It's primarily banking/finance (which is what drives military expenditures and above all, wars) and large/powerful corporations. How much of our GDP is actually exotic financial instruments? How much is weapons systems that get sold abroad? When you remove those, what percentage of GDP goes to military expenditures and the vast ecosystem that are not military expenditures but nevertheless support military/war? All wars are bank…
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 04:02 PM
2

It is my personal theory on the matter. MDMA (Ecstasy) is similar to PEA. MDMA dispels feelings of distrust, suspicion and jealousy, and replaces those with a general sense of love. [side note: molly is different in that the emotional/love aspect is absent] And anyone who has rolled many times (on pressies) knows that MDMA loses a bit of its potency each time -- the first pill is memorable for a lifetime and it tapers off from there. Oh sure, it's still enjoyable every time -- but your 200th pil…
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 03:42 PM
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Phenylethylamine (PEA) loses a bit of its potency each time it's applied to a new man. So by the time a girl has bounced on a sufficient number of pelvises, she simply lacks the brain chemistry to bond with a man the way she would have otherwise.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 06:20 AM
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Government is the Entertainment division of the military-industrial complex. -Frank Zappa I assure you they've done their research and will have already incorporated whatever lies are needed into their rhetoric anyway, for whichever voters they think they'll need to maintain their parts in the show. It's all bullshit. It's professional wrestling. A show.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 03:43 AM
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I don't think we're saying different things -- all wars are bankers' wars so the term "military industrial complex" includes all of the above.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 12:12 AM
5

I used to vote Libertarian but they rarely even publish the third party results. So rather than throw away my vote (as if it mattered anyway because of the electoral college), I abstain.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 08:31 PM
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Don't bother voting. The whole thing is a scam and it doesn't matter who becomes the president spokesmodel for the military industrial complex.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 08:03 PM
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Actually, it's the top post because it's the only way to solve your problem.
/r/seduction04/08/14 09:37 PM
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Just start talking to everyone (Girls ⊂ Everyone). You need to become the sort of person who thinks nothing of striking up a conversation with anyone. Anywhere. Have you ever seen a person fluidly working a room? Well, be that guy and you'll know more honeys than you can shake a stick at.
/r/seduction04/08/14 06:58 PM
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You're not staring. You're making eye contact. It's the first step in the human mating ritual (source: Peoplewatching). And breaking eye contact by looking down is her first submissive gesture -- remember, we're apes. Never forget you're an ape. And so is every girl you'll ever meet. So when she holds strong eye contact then breaks it by looking down (especially if she reestablishes the eye contact) she is completing the first step of the human mating ritual. But you have to do your part too by …
/r/seduction04/08/14 04:18 PM
2

move on
/r/seduction04/08/14 01:52 AM
3

Sarcastic asshole talk? That makes it sound mean. So you and your friends don't goof on each other? It's just being silly with friends.
/r/seduction04/08/14 01:01 AM
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Hey, people get caught up in their busy lives all the time. Why would it look desperate to have only just remembered the girl from tinder?
/r/seduction04/08/14 12:41 AM
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Clearly your numbers are better. Laugh all you want -- I'm short, fat, old, and covered in horrific burn scars -- so that's what I get.
/r/seduction03/08/14 09:40 PM
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Ok, baby steps: Whenever you're on the street, on campus, whatever -- scan the people walking toward you for eye contact (girls do this all the time). About 1 out of every 300 girls will make and hold eye contact with you. These girls are showing interest in you. Smile and hold eye contact till they look away, and note which way they look when they break eye contact (down is good). Also note whether they reestablish eye contact. If you have the opportunity, say "hi" as you pass. Otherwise, wave.…
/r/seduction03/08/14 08:06 PM
2

I cannot hang out with her without feeling the desire to hook up. So you're falling in love with a girl who is only interested in your friendship. How do you think this story ends?
/r/seduction03/08/14 07:49 PM
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You have to give them options.
/r/seduction03/08/14 07:47 PM
1

Perhaps they thought she was a prostitute and then she refused?
/r/TheRedPill28/07/14 09:58 PM
1

We aren't the descendants of the guys who got cheated on Many of us are the descendants of the guys who got cheated on. For any given generation, it's at least 10%. See Sperm Wars.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 12:17 AM
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I was thinking the same thing.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/14 01:37 AM
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It's only widely accepted because people don't realize that it isn't an organic rule of thumb -- but rather something introduced by a movie a generation ago. It's not a social rule from our culture. It is from, and belongs to, a culture that is alien to most of us. Our culture came up with prescribed ages of consent.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/14 08:06 PM
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The 'half plus 7' rule entered our social consciousness through the 1992 Spike Lee movie "Malcolm X". It was in a scene in a restaurant where Malcolm was telling his future wife how a woman must behave according to Elijah Muhammed, the leader of the Nation of Islam. From the movie script: Malcolm: Women are deceitful. They are untrustworthy flesh. I've seen too many men ruined or tied down or messed up by women... Women talk too much. To tell a woman not to talk is like telling Jesse James not t…
/r/TheRedPill11/07/14 07:25 PM
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This isn't a goddamned Islamic country... Funny you should mention Islam, because the half-plus-7 rule originated from Elijah Muhammad of the Nation of Islam -- and made it into our current social fabric via the Spike Lee movie "Malcolm X".
/r/TheRedPill11/07/14 06:43 PM
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I loved this video! An aging but still slightly attractive woman spends a week walking around Minneapolis hoping to shame someone for catcalling -- but the closest she can get is a perfectly respectful compliment from an older man. one of the things on my scavenger hunt list is to get a picture with a guy that catcalled at me, and said I was pretty when I'm walking around trying to do my business Her business? Trolling for catcallers. Perhaps she'd have had better luck with better bait.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/14 04:58 AM
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