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| 1 | I’m reading a book called men who hate women from incels to pickup artists the truth about extreme misogyny and how it affects us all by Laura bates.Models by Mark Manson. David Tian & Matthew Hussey provide great dating advice (Tian is a certified IFS therapist). Living in a walkable city which by definition makes socializing & dating easier. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/11/23 03:56 PM |
| 2 | The main talking point of The Right is how the Trans Idelogy is harmful to children. What if The Left had the same level of aggression towards the Catholic Church being harmful to children? Fight fire with fire kinda thing.Eh, more like Liberation Theology. True left-wing Christians | /r/ExRedPill | 26/08/23 12:51 AM |
| 3 | Imagine how much better the world would be if there was no gender wars.Yeah it’s basically due to neoliberalism. We’re in late stage capitalism as it’s called | /r/ExRedPill | 15/08/23 03:01 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone here signed up for David tians legendary program ? Does it really work ?Yeah he is. I don’t agree with everything he says but I do like him & find him to be one of the few genuine & honest people in this space that ACTUALLY wants to help men & his advice is healthy & positive for the most part (he uses psychotherapy & empirical evidence to support his advice/claims). | /r/ExRedPill | 01/08/23 03:24 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone here signed up for David tians legendary program ? Does it really work ?He’s actually a physicalist (the metaphysical position that everything in reality is physical/material & can be quantified, basically the default position for most scientists/philosophers), I asked him a metaphysics question on one of his YouTube vids & he commented directly. So he definitely doesn’t subscribe to any mysticism/spirituality that’s for sure. Anyway I agree that his dating advice is solid & healthy for the most part since he uses psychotherapy & empirical evidence to support his ad… | /r/ExRedPill | 01/08/23 03:22 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone here signed up for David tians legendary program ? Does it really work ?His PhD is in like Eastern Studies/Asian philosophy or something. He is legit a licensed IFS therapist though. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/08/23 03:18 PM |
| 3 | Is the youtuber teal swan a toxic manosphere/ red pill youtuber or not someone I should watch ?Look into David Tian. He’s a former PUA & a licensed IFS therapist. I don’t agree with everything he says, however, he’s one of the few people on YouTube/in the male dating advice space that goes into the root of why most men struggle with dating (it’s basically due to therapeutic/mental health problems). | /r/ExRedPill | 30/07/23 01:57 PM |
| 2 | another no girlfriend post100%!! Look I fully acknowledge that PUA/redpill is toxic, however, there’s some truth to some of the things they advocate/talk about & the importance of having good logistics (your own car & your own place) plays a HUGE FACTOR in whether you’ll have sex with the women you’re trying to date (ideally, assuming you’re not just looking for a random hookup but even that applies too) or not. Like you, I didn’t acquire my own car & my own place till later in life (24 for the car & 27 for my own place;… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/07/23 01:30 PM |
| 6 | another no girlfriend postIt is fucked up & I’m glad you mentioned it. These PUA/redpill people are toxic, however, one of them (Austen Summers) mentioned in a livestream that suburban sprawl (car dependent infrastructure) plays a HUGE FACTOR into why many men could be struggling with dating (cuz it’s legit harder to meet people when there’s very few areas that could be “third places). Very few public spaces in car dependent cities/towns. The men who can’t acquire a car or who can’t drive are fucked if they don’t live in… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/07/23 03:15 AM |
| 3 | suggestions for anti redpill books or podcast youtuberDavid Tian is decent (though I believe he does still refer to himself as a dating coach unfortunately). He’s a licensed Internal Family Systems therapist & does reference psychological research when relaying male development/dating advice. That said, many of these people in this space who have the credentials on paper do seem sketchy. Like that Shawn T. Smith man is a psychologist yet he’s associated with Anthony Johnson of the 21 convention. I wouldn’t take any of these people’s advice as gospe… | /r/ExRedPill | 11/07/23 07:34 PM |
| 2 | Are redpillers happy?I can’t imagine any of those clowns being happy. Always having to micromanage their behaviors so that they’re “in control & dominate” the relationship. Sounds pretty stressful. Love is a collaboration not a competition after all. None of them are in happy, healthy relationships anyway. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/07/23 06:58 PM |
| 2 | 1STMAN disses the entire manosphere and TRP, quits the male self help industryFor sure. It’s sad that men fall into that redpill bullshit when the solution boils down to being assertive & internally validated (coupled with therapy if necessary) & forming healthy communities/relationships with other men. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/07/23 02:17 PM |
| 3 | Courtney Ryan and Alex(playing with fire)are 2 of the few dating coaches that deserve credit.100%!! I don’t wanna make this political, however, a lot of this is due to fucking neoliberalism (privatizing everything in society, leaving nothing to the public sector, markets dominating all aspects of life basically). Commodifying our relationships basically. It’s a cancer upon humanity. Outside of that, like I mentioned in my post, most of these people who struggle with dating really have to focus on being assertive & being internally validated. Those are two key aspects for excelling at da… | /r/ExRedPill | 03/07/23 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Courtney Ryan and Alex(playing with fire)are 2 of the few dating coaches that deserve credit.It’s too bad David Tian isn’t more recognized in this space. He has a therapy background & goes deep into how men can improve their dating lives & why their dating lives are mediocre (one of the big reasons being poor mental health). He’s close to Mark Manson & quoted Mark saying “Most dating problems are therapeutic problems” which seems to be the case for the majority of men who get into PUA/redpill. Basically a lack of assertiveness & being internally validated. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/07/23 03:46 PM |
| 3 | Another big thing is incels don’t have anyone in real life guiding them.Bingo! That’s the biggest con regarding that community (well they are con artists after all). I did improve my communication & social skills from that community, however, it’s pretty much garbage. All they promote is how to get laid asap, not how to have happy, healthy relationships (which are far more important & fulfilling). | /r/ExRedPill | 23/06/23 07:57 PM |
| 5 | What do you think of this guy?Exactly. None of these redpill clowns are in happy, healthy relationships. So why should anyone take their advice seriously or literally? It boils down to being assertive, internally validated & screening for the type of relationship(s) you desire. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/06/23 07:38 PM |
| 10 | Any other exPUA here?Yeah was in PUA from around 2015-2020 (knew about it way back in 2007, but didn’t own a car till nearly a decade later, terrible American infrastructure). This sub is anti-cold approach, however, I genuinely like it & think when done respectfully & being aware of social cues it can be lead to positive interactions. That’s the only positive takeaway from that community I got; be a social person & integrate socializing/dating into your day to day life. When I saw the rise of redpill it always stru… | /r/ExRedPill | 21/06/23 06:31 PM |
| 1 | Anyone here read “Why Women Have Better Sex Under Socialism” by Kristen GhodseeLmaoo believe whatever you want buddy. In the end, real leftists understand the pros & cons of previous socialist regimes & uplift the positive aspects & critique the negatives instead of viewing it in juvenile black & white terms like you. The Marxist regimes have always been the most successful ones (there’s a reason why the Western Imperial powers have always felt threatened by them). No wonder the western “left” is a joke 😂 | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/06/23 02:19 AM |
| 2 | Let's get to the point: how do female attraction and sexuality actually work?Well said. In addition to the fact that these Redpill people view relationships from a black & white perspective, I’d say a lot of (most) these problems people encounter with relationships that lead them to redpill really boils down to being assertive & being internally validated. Clearly & assertively explaining what your boundaries are, what type of relationship you’re seeking, what you will & won’t tolerate & doing things that make you internally fulfilled. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/06/23 01:45 AM |
| 0 | Anyone here read “Why Women Have Better Sex Under Socialism” by Kristen Ghodsee*Yawn. Straight basura from a typical capitalist Ayn Rand kool-aid zombie. People like her wouldn't bother debating actual Marxian economists like Paul Cockshott, Richard Wolff, Anwar Shaikh or even a Soc-Dem like Ha-Joon Change etc. cuz they'd be embarrassed out the door. If neoliberalism was so great, then Chile (for example) wouldn't have plunged into an economic shithole once Pinochet & the Chicago Boys goons came into power. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/04/23 11:29 PM |
| 4 | Anyone here read “Why Women Have Better Sex Under Socialism” by Kristen GhodseeWhat’s your evidence for this? Capitalism commodifies everything in society & prevents everyone from reaching their highest potential. When the economic constraints are taken care of for everyone (both sexes) it’s hard to imagine social relations being any worse (let alone similar) to how it is currently. Capitalism inherently prevents everyone from reaching their highest potential & is very isolationist & individualistic. That plus the terrible urban planning of North America both contribute he… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/04/23 04:09 PM |
| 11 | Redpill success stories?Well said. None of those men are in happy, healthy relationships so why even entertain anything they say? Men who’re good with women, love women. The relationship should be collaborative, not adversarial (which is exactly what they promote). Just an indictment of how mental health services need to be available for everyone cuz these people would be outta business if that was the case. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/04/23 04:22 AM |
| -10 | Anyone here read “Why Women Have Better Sex Under Socialism” by Kristen GhodseeI dunno. After doing more research on this, it just screams of anti-communist propaganda. The “killed millions of its own people” line is always fabricated & exaggerated. Parenti, Hakim, Wolff & others have debunked that claim. I’m not romanticizing the USSR, it had its problems. At its peak specifically, they had a higher calorie count consumption than the US did, all citizens had living wage jobs, healthcare, housing & transportation & education. Plus they didn’t discriminate against colored p… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 20/04/23 01:26 AM |
| -9 | Anyone here read “Why Women Have Better Sex Under Socialism” by Kristen GhodseeExplain. Read Parenti’s Blackshirts & Reds | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/04/23 11:52 PM |
| -11 | Anyone here read “Why Women Have Better Sex Under Socialism” by Kristen GhodseeI’m reading it just now & in like the first two paragraphs she’s already shitting on the USSR. Did it have its problems? Yep! It wasn’t perfect, however, if one is considered a socialist, then the USSR shouldn’t be condemned. I mean Michael Parenti systematically debunked all the typical critiques of the USSR in his magnum opus Blackshirts & Reds. Why perpetuate the ignorant idea that the USSR was a hellscape compared to the Western World when (unlike in the capitalist countries) they ACTUALLY p… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 19/04/23 11:27 PM |
| 3 | LWMA Need to Fight & Address Suburban Sprawl/Car-Dependent Infrastructure to Significantly Mitigate/Resolve Male LonelinessThe American style single-family zoned suburbs & car-dependent cities are inherently isolating. Harriet Fraad commented in one of her podcasts that McCarthy (who was a part of the US housing committee post WW2 apparently) wanted American style housing to be the opposite of communal based (since it was analogous to the Soviet style housing which was exactly that). Of course, it was primarily GM & the oil manufacturers who destroyed the streetcar infrastructure & primarily contributed to the US be… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/01/23 07:05 PM |
| 2 | LWMA Need to Fight & Address Suburban Sprawl/Car-Dependent Infrastructure to Significantly Mitigate/Resolve Male LonelinessDunno about Europe. I’m mostly talking about North America here (which is obviously way less “communal” than Europe anyway). Read the article & provide empirical evidence then. Suburban sprawl/car dependent infrastructure absolutely contributes to loneliness for all, to say that it doesn’t is bullshit. Even Vaush has said the same thing (not that I’m a fan of his). Same with Adamsomething & the late great David Graeber. At least I provide my sources to support my claim. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/01/23 06:52 PM |
| 2 | LWMA Need to Fight & Address Suburban Sprawl/Car-Dependent Infrastructure to Significantly Mitigate/Resolve Male LonelinessI didn’t say dense city is an automatic cure for loneliness, it’s a major solution as the researchers from PNAS stated “people in walkable cities have more social connections than those in suburban/rural cities/towns” basically. Andrew Steir, one of the researchers for that study, was interviewed by Harriet Fraad & the therapist co-host for the Leftist mental health podcast It’s Not Just In Your Head (both Harriet & her cohosts being Marxian therapists). | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/01/23 06:46 PM |
| 15 | LWMA Need to Fight & Address Suburban Sprawl/Car-Dependent Infrastructure to Significantly Mitigate/Resolve Male LonelinessStudy: Evidence and theory for lower rates of depression in larger US urban areas: https://www.pnas.org/doi/10.1073/pnas.2022472118 Article by Andrew Stier, one of the researchers of the study: https://psyche.co/ideas/why-life-is-faster-but-depression-is-lower-in-bigger-cities Not Just Bikes - Why We Won’t Raise Our Kids In the Suburbs: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ul_xzyCDT98&ab_channel=NotJustBikes Eco Gecko - The Suburban Wasteland: How the 'Burbs Blight Childhoods: https://www.youtube.com… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/01/23 05:19 AM |
| 1 | Economic based virginity. Or how I still need to do everything as a man in a more expensive and demanding economy. Move out, become "independent," get a "good" job, become a supporter etc.Yeah I do believe that many men who struggle with dating is simply due to lack of access to being around women their age (in America at least & Canada to a lesser extent too). A big factor in this is due to car-dependent infrastructure which makes it incredibly difficult for people to meet others & cultivate any sense of community when places are far & spread out & the only walkable areas are very expensive. I really do believe that more men would succeed at dating if all cities were walkable (j… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/12/22 12:32 PM |
| 17 | Options for social life after collegeThis is the correct answer. The way to having a budding social life post college is to live in a dense/walkable city period. I don’t understand why this is hard for guys to understand | /r/seduction | 13/01/22 01:03 PM |
| 7 | What’s the best US City for a single man?For US cities, you should search by how dense a city is. https://www.walkscore.com is a great website for this. The denser a city is, the more pedestrian friendly it is which entails more people walking around & not commuting everywhere in their car. If you wanna truly excel at dating & gaining experience (especially if you’re very inexperienced) you absolutely need to live in a dense/walkable/bikeable city to do so. I truly believe that the car dependent/sprawling infrastructure of the US plays… | /r/seduction | 12/01/22 05:15 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]The Primal Method is a really good book on why so many young men these days feel lost. It’s written by a psychotherapist & tells the of the journey he endured to carve out his place in the world & has practical advice as well. | /r/seduction | 22/09/21 01:38 AM |
| 9 | So I am dating this girl for three days now and I really like her and I think she likes me as well. However, in the third day, she confessed her admiration to me and her words changed to more endearing ones like "my love", "darling", "baby", "I love you" etc.110%. Pickup teaches you how to get laid but not how to maintain a relationship | /r/seduction | 09/09/21 06:13 PM |
| 2 | I've decided the only way I will be able to meet girls is to move to a major cityJust saw this post. Do everything in your power to move to a dense/walkable/pedestrian-friendly city asap. Car dependent cities/burbs/towns are a nightmare for cultivating your social skills & developing a sense of community (dating, friends, etc.). They’re isolating & induce loneliness (talking from experience). Obviously living in a city won’t be a panacea but it’s preferable for cultivating social skills. | /r/seduction | 06/09/21 04:29 PM |
| 8 | Danny Trejo on toxic masculinityYou should watch the anime Fist of The North Star if you want a GREAT example of positive masculinity | /r/ExRedPill | 10/07/21 03:31 AM |
| 2 | Danny Trejo on toxic masculinityFunny enough, in the original stories by his creators he’s basically a socialist since he fights for blue-collar people & regularly battles & harasses crooked politicians & businessmen. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/07/21 03:30 AM |
| 1 | I hate the fact that men have to play games with women to get them interested. It's so exhaustingThey key to this is ensuring that you live somewhere that enables you to meet women everyday (i.e. a dense urban/suburban city). The more opportunities you have of encountering the type of women you’re genuinely interested in, the less needy or frustrated you’ll be/feel. I’m assuming you’re in America & live in a decent but urban/suburban sprawling city? If so, I think you can relate to what I’m saying. The infrastructure & the car-dependency of most American cities really make socializing & dat… | /r/seduction | 27/06/21 11:52 PM |
| 1 | The problem with dating coaches is the complete lack of standards in the coaching industryI’ve no idea if he provides actual one-on-one therapy sessions. I mostly follow him for his male self development advice & discussions since I enjoy his academic/therapeutic approach to it (I follow his YouTube channel & podcasts). He might have therapy sessions tho, not sure. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/02/21 03:28 AM |
| 3 | The problem with dating coaches is the complete lack of standards in the coaching industryI think more dating coaches should be licensed therapists imo. You should look up David Tian. As far as I know he’s not necessarily a licensed therapist (his PhD is in Philosophy I believe) but he’s mentioned he has experience in psychotherapy training. I’m a big fan of his as he’s not only a former MPUA but he approaches dating advice & self development from a therapeutic perspective & highly encourages his clients to take psychotherapy as most of the problems of these men in this community are… | /r/ExRedPill | 14/02/21 12:10 AM |
| 3 | Thoughts on Todd V?Damn, well said. These Redpill guys are just closeted white knights who’re in a lot of pain (due to trauma from bad female interactions). They legit need psychotherapy & need to learn to have unconditional love for themselves first. They also politicize mental health as a primarily male issue (bullshit obviously). A book, articles, community, etc. isn’t gonna resolve your mental health issues. Like you said, none of these guys will be successful with women & have loving relationships with women … | /r/ExRedPill | 30/01/21 05:06 PM |
| 2 | Thoughts on Todd V?Yeah I prefer the old school PUA guys. Ross Jeffries, Mystery & Neil Strauss. All of their advice & strategies are still practical to this day. None of them demonized women or blamed women for all their problems like those redpill idiots do. They genuinely wanted to help men improve their dating lives & social skills | /r/ExRedPill | 30/01/21 01:37 PM |
| 10 | I've been approaching women since 2009 and have yet to have any kind of success, hundreds of approaches later. I feel immense self-hate and need someone to talk to.I also agree that one’s location plays a big factor in one’s success (or lack of). The OP said he used to drive into NYC to do approaches. He should try to move into the city itself or find a cheaper city with foot traffic to move to. In my experience, if you’re very inexperienced with dating/seduction, you gotta live in a walkable city. It’s gonna be incredibly tough to see success at this shit if you live in the suburbs. I can relate to the OP as I’ve known about pickup since the ‘07 Mystery P… | /r/seduction | 05/11/20 03:51 PM |
| 1 | Does meeting and dating women post college become significantly tough?The answer to this (& with acquiring an abundance of women) is simple: you gotta live in a metropolitan/walkable city (a city with foot traffic; i.e. NYC, Chicago, Seattle, Portland, London, The Las Vegas strip, etc.). If you live in a suburban sprawling city, seduction is gonna be ridiculously tough to become proficient at (especially if you’re a hard case) unless you’re already intermediate or advanced (or are a natural) then it won’t be that difficult to meet & seduce women. | /r/seduction | 01/10/20 09:42 PM |
| 1 | There Are Too Many Women Out There To Be Stuck on One GirlFor sure but it also depends on the landscape of the city you’re in. I live in Orlando, FL & the population is 1.3 million or so. Is it a good city for dating? Sure if you’re intermediate, advanced, a natural or a woman but it’s insanely tough here for guys who’re hard cases/very inexperienced/socially autistic. Everything is spread out here & is like a 10-15 minute commute. Nightgame is great here & has plenty of abundance, trouble is that’s not sustainable if you have hobbies/lifestyle stuff g… | /r/seduction | 19/09/20 03:58 PM |
| 3 | There Are Too Many Women Out There To Be Stuck on One GirlYes this is true, however the only way you’re gonna experience abundance is if you’re constantly interacting with girls you’re attracted to (like 10-15 girls) on a weekly basis. Perception is reality. If you live in a suburban city or a rural town & you’re a hard case, there’s no way in hell you’re gonna experience abundance. That’s why all these dating coaches live in metropolitan/walkable cities. You’re not likely to get good at seduction/socializing in a suburban city or rural town unless you… | /r/seduction | 19/09/20 11:00 AM |
| 2 | Fear of texting, that my messages are not good enough and overthinking.Thanks man. I just ordered my copy last night. Hopefully I find it more effective for me than Todd’s textgame product. Todd isn’t a bad instructor by any means, I personally am not a fan of his game cuz I feel he makes pickup harder than needs be. He seems better suited for intermediate & advanced guys imo. James seems to make pickup simple & to the point. Seems like Todd is one of those coaches who like the “thrill of the hunt/chase” instead of going straight to the point. | /r/seduction | 09/09/20 03:55 PM |
| 5 | Does weed impair anyone else's charisma/out going vibe?I’m a naturally introverted guy & am not a big fan of nightgame personally (& where I live nightgame is the only option for abundance with women). Cannabis is like a cheat code for me whenever I approach in a bar & club setting (I feel more relaxed, outgoing & in-tune with myself whenever I approach high during nightgame sessions). The majority of my best interactions from nightgame have been when I’m high af outta my mind lol. So for me, cannabis is only suitable for nightgame sarging. Daygame,… | /r/seduction | 06/09/20 12:15 PM |
| 1 | Fear of texting, that my messages are not good enough and overthinking.Would you say it’s as good or better than Todd V’s text & dates machine product (from his RSD days). I have it & it’s not bad but I’m not a big fan of Todd tbh (feel like he overcomplicates pickup honestly & makes it harder than necessary). | /r/seduction | 06/09/20 12:14 AM |
| 2 | Can you date without the apps?For sure. That said, I’m personally trying my best to adapt to this new era of dating. I barely use dating apps (just deleted my OkCupid, will probably delete my Tinder too). I think it’s really sad society has come to this as dating apps & social media really can negatively affect ones mental health | /r/seduction | 21/06/20 08:12 PM |
| 7 | Can you date without the apps?God social media has really ruined social interactions. I think I look pretty good overall (style, facial hair, hair, taller than average, etc.) but I don’t take a lot of pics of myself (due to body image issues) & so it can oftentimes make it tough to keep girls these days interested if you’re not a social media whore who posts all the time & has an extravagant life | /r/seduction | 21/06/20 07:55 PM |
| 1 | Can you date without the apps?Preach bro, seriously nailed it. Cold approach will always be superior to online dating. Dating apps should be your last resort (or at least a supplement to your overall dating/seduction strategy) | /r/seduction | 21/06/20 07:49 PM |
| 2 | If you think it's too late to change (I'll prove you wrong)Hey bro thanks for the reply. I’ll shoot you a PM to elaborate further on my inner game issue. | /r/seduction | 09/05/20 08:46 PM |
| 1 | If you think it's too late to change (I'll prove you wrong)Hey man thanks for your post. I've been having some successes lately but have not been sleeping with or dating the type of girls I genuinely desire. Despite the things I have going for myself (6'2, looks, intellect, career job, my own place, car, etc.) I still have some inner game issues that've been plaguing me for some time. Still on the journey to reach my highest potential. This was a really inspiring post & I'm gonna read your blog posts. Hopefully I can acquire some knowledge to help me … | /r/seduction | 08/05/20 10:56 PM |
| 3 | OvercomplicateWell said. Become the best version of yourself, reach your highest potential & live a fulfilling life. Being in a high-volume environment that’s conducive to becoming proficient at pickup is very important as well (it’s importance is almost always overlooked) | /r/seduction | 01/05/20 06:03 PM |
| 1 | Lay low during this quarantineAgreed 100%. I have a bad tendency of doing this (procrastination + a lack of focus). A dopamine detox also helps with this. It’s basically making mundane/hard but fulfilling & productive tasks more enjoyable over time than instant pleasurable things that offer no productive benefit to you at all | /r/seduction | 18/04/20 04:47 PM |
| 1 | Is Textgame really this challenging & convoluted?!My bad it seems to be around 70+ videos (including a few that’re examples & 4 that’re webinars). It’s his Text & Dates Machine product (I believe this was released during his RSD days). It’s a good product but he definitely could’ve condensed it into at least 20 or 30 videos tops. I’m not a huge fan of Todd’s only cuz I feel like he overcomplicates pickup but he’s definitely legit. He was a part of Project Hollywood after all (he’s Xaenus, the guy whole lived in a tent, in The Game) | /r/seduction | 13/04/20 10:08 PM |
| 1 | Is Textgame really this challenging & convoluted?!Thanks for your reply bro. Yeah I’m still gonna finish Todd V’s textgame product & take notes on it. I’m not the most humorous/wittiest guy in the world & I’m not very fond of having long drawn out conversations thru text (which is the worst form of communication overall). So I find it frustrating when I have to study textgame but it’s important unfortunately so I have to bite the bullet. Like I said I try to keep things as simple as possible (especially pertaining to textgame) & it just doesn’t… | /r/seduction | 10/04/20 12:50 AM |
| 3 | Is Textgame really this challenging & convoluted?!Yeah that’s what I’ve been thinking this whole time, that it’s just a means to set up logistics & one shouldn’t overthink it at all. I’m just venting really. I do plan on finishing these Todd V textgame vids (I take notes when studying all this shit) but it just seems so ridiculous that one has to actually “study” textgame in order for it to not be an issue. I get that it largely depends on your in-person interaction with the girl but I’ve had great sets only for the girl to lose interest or sto… | /r/seduction | 10/04/20 12:09 AM |
| 3 | Do you agree with them that we should get over "pickup" behavior?“The Venusian Arts is supposed to enhance your life, not define it.” - Mystery Pickup artist skills & techniques are supposed to be training wheels for you to become a social butterfly. They’re a means to an end, not the end itself | /r/seduction | 08/04/20 09:30 PM |
| 1 | RSD deleted all their good content, they block comments, they use bot comments; And now this; how much more embarrasing can this company get?He has a lot of great material. One of the voices of reason in this community. Dude seems very genuine as well. | /r/seduction | 29/03/20 09:38 PM |
| 1 | RSD deleted all their good content, they block comments, they use bot comments; And now this; how much more embarrasing can this company get?100%. My buddy (who’s been in the game for a decade now) even said the same thing & it’s so true. I wasn’t able to practice pickup till a few years ago (didn’t have a car) but by then RSD had brainwashed the entire community (myself included) into thinking that for beginners you don’t need routines or canned openers, etc. & shitted on MM any chance they could get. When the reality is the fact that routines & canned material are all just training wheels to get you to the point where you don’t nee… | /r/seduction | 29/03/20 09:30 PM |
| 2 | RSD deleted all their good content, they block comments, they use bot comments; And now this; how much more embarrasing can this company get?You don’t need RSD, just stick with Mystery Method & then check out Todd V’s material if you feel like you’ve advanced beyond MM. I’ve known about pickup for the longest but never bothered to practice MM cuz of RSD’s marketing when in reality RSD made learning pickup harder to become proficient in & all of their instructors all started off with routines, canned openers, etc. Even Todd’s The System is just an updated version of MM. I’ve personally have had more success with MM than from studying … | /r/seduction | 29/03/20 03:51 PM |
| 3 | How do you get abundance when you don't live in a large city/near college campus?100% bro. Hmm, I wasn't aware of Portland being an Abundant/Daygame-friendly city (seems like only San Fran & Vegas are the only West Coast cities that fit that criteria). I'd have to check it out one of these days. I'm gonna send you a PM man. | /r/seduction | 24/02/20 10:17 PM |
| 2 | How do you get abundance when you don't live in a large city/near college campus?Thanks for the encouraging words man, means a lot. I've known about pickup for 13 years now but didn't start actively sarging till 2016 (bad logistics overall & didn't have a car till then). Yeah Orlando's not bad but I feel for certain guys, they really need that tangible/experiential abundance & you won't find that outside of major cities or if you live near a college campus. I know a few guys (2 of which took an RSD Derek bootcamp here & were told by Derek to move out to a bigger city) who mo… | /r/seduction | 21/02/20 08:56 PM |
| 2 | How do you get abundance when you don't live in a large city/near college campus?100%! I know it's not impossible to become proficient at this & get abundance in these scenarios, but I feel like to really get that, you gotta move somewhere there's an immediate & vast amount of opportunities both during the day & at night. I feel like certain guys who're more inclined to be naturals and/or don't have many (if at all) inner game issues can more easily get abundance in these situations compared to guys who lack experience and have some inner game issues. I know a few guys who m… | /r/seduction | 21/02/20 08:25 PM |
| 2 | How do you get abundance when you don't live in a large city/near college campus?8 lays overall & been doing pickup since 2016 (known about it since 07 due to Mystery's VH1 show, but had bad logistics all those years). | /r/seduction | 21/02/20 03:51 AM |
| 2 | How do you get abundance when you don't live in a large city/near college campus?Well I generally go indirect for nightgame. Tampa's like 2 hours away. Miami's like 3 hours or so. Gotta make due with what's available but I'm just pointing out the caveat of getting abundance, which is it largely depends on your environment. | /r/seduction | 21/02/20 03:48 AM |
| 2 | How do you get abundance when you don't live in a large city/near college campus?Yeah there is abundance for nightgame, just not daygame at all unless you live next to the University (which is a long commute). The women come from the local university & from Disney basically. Like I said, I've been doing better at nightgame but haven't had any closes & I prefer daygame but it's basically nonexistent here. Not complaining about Orlando as it could be worse, but I find it dishonest when ppl in the community say you gotta have abundance but that's not very realistic unless you'r… | /r/seduction | 21/02/20 03:45 AM |
| 5 | Orlando wingmenHey man I just stumbled across this. I game here everyday in Orlando as well (assuming you mean Orlando, FL?). I daygame by myself mostly & nightgame with a bunch of other guys who're in the community as well. I plan on doing nightgame tonight downtown with the other guys who game. Please respond either to this post or private message me & we'll link up. It's always a pleasure meeting new people in Orlando who're serious about game. | /r/seduction | 14/07/17 06:24 PM |
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