Seriously. I'm going thru Todd V's textgame product & I just find it frustrating af. Like is nearly 90 videos really necessary to become decent at textgame/not lose girls thru textgame?

I acknowledge we're quarantined right now but even before all this shit I always struggled mightily with textgame, I've always hated it. I much prefer either phone calls or in person communication (unfortunately it seems all women of my generation seem to hate both of those options; goes to show technology can be a curse too as it's clearly stifled communication).

I've been snapchatting this girl who I met back in January during a bar sarge (& madeout w/twice) so it's not too too bad but then I have other examples of girls who I hit it off with (& get makeouts from) yet I'm unable to get them to meet up for either a 2nd or 3rd time due to some silly BS thru textgame.

I met this one girl back in late February/early March before all this Corona shit happened, made out with her a bunch of times & went on a day 2 w/her (I hanged out with her & her friends at a fair) & I've not been able to get her out since (now due to Corona). She did text me last Friday & asked me how I was doing & the last few texts I sent her was about some anime series I just finished & about my cat getting along w/my family's dogs. Got no reply back.

I try to give value during my text exchanges & not ask many questions/take value, yet I have a hard time wrapping my head around this shit. Almost everytime I text a girl I feel like I have to write the next Hamlet or War & Peace (basically some Shakespearian shit to get their attention).

Isn't textgame like if you're having a quick normal convo w/someone (like a friend) & then you try to get them out?

I know someone'll probably mention abundance & I acknowledge that. My environment (Orlando) isn't conducive to easily acquiring abundance (not a major city, live far as hell from the University, don't live near the bars/clubs). I feel like when ppl mention abundance it's really disingenuous cuz your environment has to fall into one of those three criteria I mentioned but I already made a thread about that.

Maybe I'm missing something, maybe I'm overthinking this. I oftentimes hook girls instantly upon meeting them so since that's the case I shouldn't be losing any leads thru texting but I do & I've no idea why.

Idk,does textgame really require a large exertion of mental energy in order to not consistently lose girls thru it? How can I make this process less frustrating? I try to keep things as simple as possible. I thought the point of textgame was to get girls out on dates?