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I have grown up in a home with addiction and emotional abuse, so I have definitely experienced a lot of what’s in your list, (alcohol abuse and future projecting are probably my biggest problems.) Whenever I start something with a girl I get absolutely lost emotionally. I have an extremely difficult time knowing what is too much/ or not enough. I’ve learned a lot as I’ve gone but it’s still tough. Good post.
/r/seduction06/06/20 11:27 PM
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He most likely means when you keep talking, you risk oversharing which can take away any mystery which has definitely happened to me when I get too comfortable. Its better to keep an edge and mystique
/r/seduction01/06/20 11:41 PM
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I’m always shocked to see girls actually ask this, but good shit bro
/r/seduction10/05/20 07:29 PM
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Ya welcome to 2020. Everyone wants to play hard to get because now everyone wants the power/options/not get hurt/success with dating but the irony is that it’s made it way more complicated and shallow. Imo I’ve had the most success when both sides “chase” and it’s almost a trade off. I’m sure it gets a little less complicated as you get older but I’m in college and it’s fucking pointless. If I could give advice to any guy about to go into college, I would say fuck as much as possible (without th…
/r/seduction26/04/20 09:25 PM
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I’m not sure I’d ever admit that I’ve been creeping on her insta. Value her character more than her looks, don’t just say “omg you’re so fuckin hot.” She probably knows and you saying it won’t help you.
/r/seduction20/04/20 05:01 PM
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its "there's" don't worry about it there's always one asshole who can't get over a spelling mistake
/r/seduction19/04/20 07:32 PM
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It’s honestly probably the opposite
/r/seduction14/04/20 08:06 PM
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Yes, the only reason I say idk is because a lot of girls my age (early 20s) are obsessed with texting/snapchatting and it’s almost like if you don’t keep up you’re being suspect. I’m sure it changes as you get older but it’s tough to navigate as of now
/r/seduction10/04/20 02:35 PM
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Ya I have the same problem. It’s like a damned if you do, damned if you don’t thing. I’ve lost girls by over texting, and also by barely texting because then they think I’m not interested. I don’t really have an answer, I just relate to it and think it’s just living in 2020. One thing I’ve noticed with me at least is that Snapchat is a dead end. Common advice I see is that texting should only be for logistics and I think it’s solid advice, but other than that idk.
/r/seduction09/04/20 11:53 PM
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I agree. People (me) sometime get so caught up with the pickup behavior that we forget how to act. When I stopped watching stupid pickup videos and removed all outcome dependence I had way more success. I ended up with more girl-friends and thus helped with pickup indirectly
/r/seduction08/04/20 07:02 PM
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How on earth would u think that’s too skinny
/r/seduction02/04/20 06:13 PM
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Ya I’m 22 right now too and have changed a ton since I was 18. Obviously it varies person to person but I remember generally women are at peak attraction between like 20-24 and men were like 28-32 or something around there so ya I think that’s about where it lands.
/r/seduction14/03/20 03:22 AM
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I agree. But I think it’s mostly about maximizing success while minimizing time wasting/getting hurt. I personally, can get caught up with the mind games cause I forget that you do have to be yourself with the people you want to keep around.
/r/seduction03/03/20 07:48 PM
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Don’t apologize, you took the risk, it didn’t work. It’ll be awkward but just leave it at that. You should be proud you even did it in the first place. It takes balls
/r/seduction12/01/20 04:46 PM
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I guess I didn't understand that when I was watching the PUA stuff, and I thought it took that stuff to get half decent at getting girls
/r/seduction04/01/20 12:24 AM
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The craziest thing that has ever worked for me was when I was at this party at school, there was this 9/10 who kept looking at me, and I walked right up to her and said “what are we still doing here?” She said “idk” and I said “ok let’s go” and we went back to my house and hooked up. Her friends were freaking tf out.
/r/seduction29/12/19 11:58 PM
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I’ve been working on this for a while and something I’ve started to realize that healthy relationships form when both sides do a little “chasing” if you wanna call it that. Does that mean endlessly pursue her, no but it involves being available but not too available. Which is a very tough balance to find and something that can always be improved. And remember girls read advice online and shit too, so nowadays it’s extremely complicated and I think part of the reason why very little gets done in …
/r/seduction23/12/19 04:04 PM
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Spot on
/r/seduction12/12/19 01:25 AM
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Perfect, I 100% know if I try to force it, it won’t happen. I can keep my cool
/r/seduction10/12/19 08:30 PM
2

Great thanks
/r/seduction10/12/19 08:30 PM
4

Love and hate are very close my friend
/r/seduction02/12/19 02:37 AM
6

I’m in the exact same boat. Have hooked up with this girl about 4-5 times now, and we have winter break coming up and we’ve barely texted at all. I think, personally more can go wrong than right when texting so I don’t do it, I just keep doing what I’m doing. Not trying to force anything or look needy,
/r/seduction01/12/19 02:01 AM
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That’s what I was expecting, after being in college I can tell that there are girls that are way more sensitive to chasing than others. Thanks
/r/seduction29/11/19 03:26 PM
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Just saved both of these responses, as I struggle a lot with this too. Thank you for sharing Im going to try and realize these things
/r/seduction21/11/19 03:22 AM
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Ya I thought the same for awhile but I realized you can’t blame girls, I think they want a relationship just as much as men, but I think it’s important to remember that relationships are hard, cause if it was easy none of us would be here on this sub
/r/seduction27/10/19 10:58 PM
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Ya thanks, I definitely think drinking less will solve a lot of problems lol
/r/seduction27/10/19 04:03 PM
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Ya I’m starting to not like hooking up and a steady partner sounds awesome, but if it were as easy as that I’d do it,
/r/seduction27/10/19 03:54 PM
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Dude if you stick with it, it will happen. I’ve gone from a 20 year old virgin to someone who is very good at the hookup/party scene. The key is to have fun. Go play beer pong, stand on a table and dance, talk to girls without the intention of getting laid. Rather let it just happen naturally. If you can get her in an interesting conversation for about 15 mins, that usually means she’s down. The hard part is getting it to (about 15 mins) and it won’t happen every time. Just stick with it, be fun…
/r/seduction02/10/19 11:26 PM
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Little harsh but seriously bro, I don’t think what you’re looking for exists.
/r/seduction30/09/19 09:38 PM
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Dude, stop watching porn. It’s not real life, you can’t even go to the bar yet, my advice is to gain some confidence and talk to girls your own age
/r/seduction30/09/19 09:37 PM
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it takes a lot of work
/r/seduction24/09/19 04:29 PM
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I go to a small school so I don't really cold approach strangers, tbh. I kind of just talk to people I have classes with, and meet girls through friends and at parties
/r/seduction24/09/19 04:28 PM
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Im in college.
/r/seduction24/09/19 04:27 PM
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Ya so I have learned a lot from AMS on Youtube, and while I don't love/agree with everything he says, there is a lot of truth. After reading the comments on this video it seems like everyone wants some black and white answer that will solve everything. Look everything has to be a balance. You have to chase but not chase too much. Be available but not too available. Let things happen naturally but take risks. Its hard to explain but it all comes down to showing her you're worth the chase. She WAN…
/r/seduction24/09/19 04:25 PM
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Exactly. It’s not about being perfect, it’s about being better. Can’t learn without doing.
/r/seduction22/09/19 01:05 PM
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I mean you kind of answered your own question. You were being really needy, so she ran. You definitely need to give her space if you want to have a chance to fix it. Buying her flowers and shit when you’re still in the dating stage as you said was the icing on the cake for her.
/r/seduction22/09/19 12:38 PM
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Do you really need to hit her DMs if you have class with her? You could just ask for her number in person.
/r/seduction16/09/19 01:19 AM
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Just say you don’t want a friendship.
/r/seduction13/09/19 01:00 PM
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I feel like OP was just making a point to say, your the only one who should be able to control your emotions. He’s not saying if she rejects you 2 times to just act unfazed and ask her out until she says yes, but rather treat it as something that wasn’t personal, and no big deal. It was more of a way to just control yourself and not get all pissed off when things don’t go your way.
/r/seduction12/09/19 12:37 PM
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I can't understand any of them lol. ill tread lightly I guess. Thanks for the reply bro
/r/seduction04/09/19 11:16 PM
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Its more so a snapchat thing I guess. Everyone at my school (and young people) generally see it as less serious, so when she didn't respond she didn't see it as a big deal. And who knows what he said in his message, maybe it was boring, doesn't mean she didn't wanna talk later. I don't know
/r/seduction04/09/19 10:45 PM
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I’m just saying give it time. Just saying some people are too quick to move on that they never even gave it a chance.
/r/seduction04/09/19 05:27 PM
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I’m just saying give it time. I wouldn’t double text but I also wouldn’t give up if she doesn’t respond in a day or two. Just saying some people are too quick to move on that they never even gave it a chance
/r/seduction04/09/19 05:25 PM
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dude I wish I read this earlier. I have been reading for years on here "oh if she wanted to hangout shed respond" so I would always just take the loss and move on but I always had suspicions some girls still liked me. Im going to use this advice bro next time I actually like a girl
/r/seduction03/09/19 03:13 AM
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I’m only 21 but I heard the tables were turned once Instagram became a thing, because it was so easy for them to get all the attention they needed without even trying. I heard it was the opposite like 15 years ago. If you’re interested I’d watch this video : https://youtu.be/FWBijc8x9Pg
/r/seduction02/09/19 03:12 PM
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You have to be worth someone going after. Be fit, eat healthy, make money, dress well, good social life, etc.
/r/seduction02/09/19 02:35 PM
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Dude, is this real. Just talk to her, tease her and she’ll slowly start to open up. She doesn’t suck at texting you’re just a stranger. And if you DMd her on Instagram calling her cute and shit, you’re already against the odds.
/r/seduction02/09/19 03:02 AM
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lift weights, eat healthy, keep reading and writing, look people in the eyes, dress well, keep yourself clean and you'll be fine. As for text game always try and keep it fun and flirty, don't ask boring "hey" what's up?" texts. Do all that and you'll be fine!
/r/seduction02/09/19 02:25 AM
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Ok so Im in college too and the girls approach a ton on the weekends when they're drunk and let me tell you it does not mean jackshit. I go to a small school so everyone knows everyone so if a girl shows interest she's probably showing interest to others as well. If it were me I would not do anything until she responds to your texts lol, that would be an indicator. Just remember she didn't just forget to respond, there was a reason, especially if even you think the conversation got boring.
/r/seduction02/09/19 02:20 AM
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I was a virgin after my freshman year as well and it is a little embarrassing because like you said, its when you're expected to let loose. Honestly Ive become kind of a big partier in college and have gotten laid a bunch just from going out, having some drinks and flirting my ass off. As far as I can tell nobody on my campus is having any sex or anything outside of being drunk on the weekends, since every one is so focused on school during the week, so Id recommend to try and go out, you don't …
/r/seduction02/09/19 02:15 AM
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definitely a weird situation. honestly anything couldve happened, maybe the original conversation was just too boring? and it was only like a couple minutes so who knows. Id also recommend not saying anything to her in person, because she might be uncomfortable. Im assuming you're in college or something? so id just try to get the next one
/r/seduction02/09/19 02:09 AM
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Wayyy to eager bro. You texted her like 3 times in a row and then went ahead and added her snap? All while talking about how you would love to talk to her shit? Be a little less eager and more natural. Don't text again btw, she probably lost interest after those moves
/r/seduction02/09/19 01:43 AM
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I was addicted for about 5 years and still kind of am I guess. I try to watch as little as possible and can go for a few weeks to a month but I always get sucked back in. It definitely fucks you up tho I feel like shit after I do it.
/r/seduction29/08/19 12:32 AM
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Dude if anything you’ll be disappointed, girls are way hotter in pics. And besides as long as your text game and charisma is good she won’t really care about looks at all.
/r/seduction27/08/19 07:51 PM
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Make sure you’re always working on your confidence first of all. And it’s hard to tell based on all that you’ve given but it seems like it’s going well! So just keep it going. Escalate when you feel like it’s appropriate but don’t wait too long
/r/seduction21/08/19 06:55 PM
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Yes. It really can open you up to what a girl goes through on a daily basis. If a girl calls me cute in the first message on tinder my immediate response is “ok wtf is wrong with you?” So don’t call girls cute and keep doing what you’re doing
/r/seduction21/08/19 05:47 PM
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Wow bro I thought I would’ve typed this, this is literally me. When I was at school I was in a different girls bed for the last like 2 months, but again I was either blacked out or very close. I don’t really have any advice cause I’m in the same boat, it’s to the point where girls want me to come up to them, because they’re staring at me I just can’t get the balls to do it. I think it’s just something that has to be worked on. But I pretty much just took the summer off of alcohol to try and deal…
/r/seduction08/08/19 04:42 PM
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This. Dude you said you're not exactly comfortable with female contact. I don't see this going well either, if you show any weakness it will probably go very poorly. But if you want to do it because you actually want to be a cheerleader then do it but there are better ways to get laid
/r/seduction08/08/19 01:38 AM
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One thing that’s has really helped me solve this problem is just always trying to be genuine. If you don’t like something, say you don’t like it. If you like something, say you like it. And say it in a way that isn’t looking for a reaction. It will all balance out, so don’t worry about being too positive or too negative, just speak your thoughts. But as a former nice guy I constantly have to remind myself this.
/r/seduction04/08/19 02:10 PM
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I practice too at the gym and stuff and let me tell you no one will think you’re a creep. Just hold it until she looks away and then don’t look again unless she does. Cause if you do it once she’ll probably just think you got lost in thought or something. It’s really not a big deal even though it will feel like it at first
/r/seduction02/08/19 11:48 PM
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I personally don’t think you should share your insecurities, especially with a girl you just started talking to. It might make you seem vulnerable which is a good thing or it might just make you look weak and needy
/r/seduction27/07/19 03:07 PM
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alright thanks
/r/seduction12/07/19 03:33 PM
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haha I was joking in the reply, but ya I know I've already thought about her too much so its probably over, was just wondering if someone else had a different perspective
/r/seduction12/07/19 03:26 PM
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So what I'm hearing is I should hit her DM's ASAP and try to set up a FWB right now? Blow up her phone for the next week until she replies?
/r/seduction12/07/19 03:20 PM
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Is it possible/a good idea if I tried to pursue her? I only got her Instagram, but I’m not sure if I’d be able to go in her DMs without seeming needy or something since i was already an asshole and kind of disrespected her.
/r/seduction07/07/19 11:46 PM
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But I would also agree I got a little too aggressive
/r/seduction07/07/19 12:28 PM
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Well then I would have no idea if I didn’t try, cause if you’re on the fence, I’m going to have to be the one to get you over. And I always respected her boundaries and stopped every time she said stop. And there would be glimpses where she seemed into it
/r/seduction07/07/19 12:23 PM
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Dude it’s so hard to read these college girls that I had to make sure she wasn’t bluffing. I obviously never pushed it past to the point where she was uncomfortable but I don’t even know. I’m probably never going to see her again anyway so fuck it
/r/seduction07/07/19 02:24 AM
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I don’t see the point in asking them out if the conversation isn’t going well. Even though you match with them you’re still a complete stranger
/r/seduction21/06/19 10:33 AM
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Text game is definitely my weakness. I’ve lost girls irl and on tinder because of it. Any recommendations for how I can just get the basics down for texting? I know it’s kind of a push/pull I just don’t know how to utilize it correctly
/r/seduction21/06/19 03:36 AM
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Let her approach you/let her bring it up. It’s only as awkward as you make it. And if neither of those happen. You have your answer
/r/seduction21/06/19 03:11 AM
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Don’t double text She does check the app, she’s just not very intrigued by you You should try to get her number or Snapchat first or something so she can feel more comfortable meeting up with a stranger
/r/seduction21/06/19 03:09 AM
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I agree, but as someone who hasn’t really approached much before it was a great experience to just get used to the action of going up and talking to someone! And outcome independence is something I will definitely take into consideration from here on out
/r/seduction10/06/19 03:43 PM
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I think this is true which is why women are attracted to a certain level of cockiness. Sometimes quiet confidence isn't enough
/r/seduction06/06/19 12:32 AM
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Having a good Instagram doesn’t make you superficial imo. You can just go through and follow people from your school and hopefully get some follow backs. Do some stuff with your friends/take some pics (everyone is always down to get an Instagram these days) and post them. Personally I’m private but it doesn’t really matter
/r/seduction03/06/19 07:33 PM
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Ya are you sure this chick goes to your school??
/r/seduction03/06/19 07:30 PM
1

I think Instagram is essential nowadays. As a college student I have been able to gain interest from girls simply by posting a couple pictures every month of me at a party with a bunch of different people (pictures with my girl friends are also key). I’ve also had girls who previously rejected me regain interest because I show my life is fun. I just follow as many people as possible from my school in order to gain followers. That being said I really try to limit my time on the app and interactio…
/r/seduction03/06/19 07:22 PM
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That’s definitely a personal thing, as long as you dress clean and well put together I feel like most girls won’t really give a shit if your shirt is $50 or $500 unless they’re into designer fashion obviously
/r/seduction02/06/19 10:56 PM
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You wanna pull a girl tonight? Go and be the guy who looks like he is having the most fun out of anyone
/r/seduction01/06/19 02:32 PM
1

This is a good point, now that our group project is over I can’t imagine how much I’ll be seeing her, so I might as well go for it when I do
/r/seduction16/05/19 02:51 PM
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No we live pretty far away from each other
/r/seduction16/05/19 02:50 PM
1

Absolutely. Life is feedback loops. Everyone gets depressed sometimes and if you just own it and then go hit the gym or hangout with some friends you’ll forget about it. Do some people actually have a serious mental illness. Absolutely. But for everyone else it’s all about habits
/r/seduction16/05/19 04:56 AM
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I personally think dating apps are a massive waste of time, but honestly just do whatever you feel like. If the conversation was originally going good, then send another one after a week or something, because as I said girls have a million messages at all times so she'll likely forget or you'll just fall to the bottom of the inbox
/r/seduction07/05/19 01:35 AM
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Hot girls have the ultimate abundance mindset, especially on dating apps. She didn't catch the sarcasm or really seem to make any attempt to. You took a chance and it didn't work. Not really much that can be analyzed
/r/seduction07/05/19 01:31 AM
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It’s not over, but every time that I’ve missed the chance, I’d get ghosted mostly because now the girl thinks you probably don’t like her. But who knows, just gotta take the next opportunity if it comes
/r/seduction17/04/19 12:15 PM
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Wow. This is my first time experiencing it and I’ve never been so confused. It’s tough knowing you completely fucked up but what can I do besides learn for next time. If she ever ends up replying, should I say anything specific or just keep moving on?
/r/seduction16/04/19 05:30 PM
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Damn, not what I wanted to hear but you’re right
/r/seduction16/04/19 04:22 PM
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Ya you’re right. I took your advice and apologized and she said lol don’t worry and ya it was fun. So I think it’s a good thing she doubled down on saying she had fun
/r/seduction29/03/19 06:48 PM
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ya you're probably right, I guess I was a little hesitant to even hook up in the first place, she did seem a little more excited than me at first, and then I waited a while to hit her up. It's weird though, now that she isn't really interested at all, makes me way more interested lmao
/r/seduction29/03/19 02:53 AM
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Is 5 days really that long for girls? I feel like if I hit her up the next day would seem needy?? I mean I am a little interested, so I’ll apologize and see where that takes me lol
/r/seduction29/03/19 02:07 AM
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I feel like a lot of this sub is about playing the mind games which honestly tricks me into thinking I need to ignore girls, and be a dick when in reality its not about that at all. Sadly its taken me a while to realize that that is all BS cause that's all I was reading on here, and now I'm still in the same place I was before
/r/seduction26/03/19 09:30 PM
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I feel like I’m good at flirting in person, but over text I have no idea what I’m doing
/r/seduction25/03/19 06:04 PM
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I’m not worried about that, I’ve been focusing for a long time on building a life, but in that time I’ve gotten laid a little but I’ve never really learned how to text them because I was never chasing whatsoever. And I think I’ve become a little too independent to the point where hitting girls up doesn’t feel right. But now I feel like I should be so I guess we’ll see what happens
/r/seduction25/03/19 06:03 PM
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About 2 weeks
/r/seduction12/02/19 11:22 PM
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stop watching porn and hit the gym. I no longer have any anxiety after doing those things
/r/seduction12/02/19 06:53 PM
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Lmaoo and yeah you're right I'm overthinking this one. Ill take your advice with Tess
/r/seduction11/02/19 03:37 AM
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Nothing more beta than watching another dude get laid
/r/TheRedPill10/01/19 03:54 PM
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When your in the moment or whatever just get really close and if she looks at your lips for even half a second that’s when u know. You don’t have to say anything in particular. And if she backs away just play it off smooth
/r/seduction10/12/18 01:38 AM
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the problem I have with this is I have no idea how to escalate anything with someone I sit next to in class. How do you take it from classwork interest into sexual/romatic interest?
/r/seduction05/12/18 08:12 PM
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haha I have no idea about numbers, just stick with it bro, btw I didn't do it by hitting up 100 girls I just worked on myself and my confidence and slowly but surely you start getting laid
/r/seduction05/12/18 08:10 PM
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Tory Lanez, Bryson Tiller, 6lack, Trey Songz
/r/seduction05/12/18 03:59 AM
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You gotta be you dude. Obviously certain situations call for certain actions and being an "overconfident retard" isn't always the right move, but if you think you need to tone it down cause you want to look smarter or so then it can just be something to work on. (Also what is this video, I don't really have any context for what you're referencing)
/r/seduction04/12/18 08:56 PM
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I have used this and never knew what it was and has worked almost every time. One time I was talking to this girl at a party, went in for the kiss and then invited her back to my place. She goes "ehhh I have to ask my friend first." At that point I said "you can literally just tell me you don't want to and we're all good" and she never even asked her friend and just left with me.
/r/seduction26/10/18 03:57 AM
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Same thing happened to me a few months ago. Hooked up with this girl from school and within week she was asking when we can hookup again and within the next 3-4 days she didn't even want to talk to me and was too far gone. Never found out. I guess shit just happens. I'd move on
/r/seduction25/09/18 03:37 AM
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you're overthinking it. it's tinder so its pretty much not serious for anyone especially being a 20 year old college kid where no one is looking for a relationship over the summer on tinder. Ive gotten like 3 girls to hookup with like 300+ matches. go quick use your jokes, get the snap, try to set something up.
/r/seduction02/07/18 01:05 AM
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As new as I am at this, I've never seen or heard of this working for anyone unless you have already have pulled the girl. Lmk if I'm wrong
/r/seduction13/05/18 07:29 PM
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I feel like your looking at this wrong. You shouldn’t have to manipulate someone’s emotions to get them to like you and why would you want to do that anyway. Girls like that can see right through the BS. Just my thoughts.
/r/seduction23/04/18 08:14 PM
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do you want to be friends with her? Cause you've kinda have come off in a weirdish way. You've gotta gage her interest (which seems low) based off what you said and then make a move
/r/seduction29/03/18 07:15 PM
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Disappear for a week or 2. Don’t respond to anything. Do some hobbies or something and see how she reacts. If she wants to hangout she will.
/r/seduction27/03/18 04:02 PM
2

Do you have to always start with acting interested? I feel like whenever I mess up I start with acting “distracted” which can come off as not interested and then I can’t save it
/r/seduction27/03/18 02:48 PM
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how has this become a problem about myself? I can't control what she does and I took it as her trying to get my attention not pettiness. I could be wrong or just as crazy as her so I don't know why I don't find it unattractive
/r/seduction26/03/18 11:06 PM
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Don’t send nudes, drunk texts or attempt to make vague “wanna hang out sometime” texts Do: be clear, and to the point, make specific plans and call her if you want to seriously stand out (since no one calls anymore)
/r/seduction16/03/18 03:07 PM
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yes, I have noticed that my tendency to overthink has definitely gone down. Got to make sure you just turn that shit all the way cold and jump in though. Only way it will work
/r/seduction14/03/18 03:26 PM
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They obviously won’t make you more charming or flirtatious just because you turned the water to cold but it’s a comfort zone thing and can push you to be more comfortable in stressful or nervous situations.
/r/seduction14/03/18 02:11 PM
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I’m literally asking...
/r/seduction13/03/18 01:33 AM
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I knew someone would say this. I don’t want to be like “hey man can I read all your texts between you and her”
/r/seduction12/03/18 02:12 PM
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Also in the same situation. No idea how to handle it because I think there is mutual attraction but I don't want to make it weird if she doesn't at all. Have had a couple conversations and it feels like they've killed attraction because I have a really hard time flirting at 830 am and I'm sure she's in no mood to deal with it that early either.
/r/seduction10/03/18 10:50 PM
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well, I want to keep seeing her, which probably comes with smashing since she let me first night and also just see where it goes
/r/seduction07/03/18 10:49 PM
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thanks so much bro. definitely going to use this
/r/seduction07/03/18 10:45 PM
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Grit. It’s a must read
/r/seduction09/02/18 07:33 PM
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I like this. I struggle with trying to just be nice all the time even in a bad mood. I'm gonna work on this
/r/seduction13/12/17 05:04 PM
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you are probably right and for the record, I have not texted/talked to her since this little 5-minute interaction, but the ice has been broken I guess and if she really was interested she will probably text me when she feels ready? So i think I'm just going to not pursue at all and if she is truely unhappy then she'll know where to find me. Let me know if I should make any moves in this situation or just play it cool and do nothing if she ever decides to (no expectations at this point)
/r/seduction12/12/17 01:52 AM
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