Protip for guys

2019-09-12T02:21:55+00:00

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MistaSkizzem · 2019-09-12T02:11:57+00:00

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recyclablebanthas · 2019-09-12T04:43:02+00:00

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.....when a girl is acting disinterested when she was interested before

.....flakes on you on a date......

.....If she ignores you.....

.....If she starts talking to another guy......

If she mentions it to say sorry, tell her it's no big deal because you just called up a buddy or friend and went with them instead.

One of the biggest problems we have here on Seddit is that too many guys treat abusive and/or manipulative behavior as if it's all just something to overcome, and that the guy still needs to get in there or "he fucked up"

Even if getting in there requires giving the girl a pass while she's acting foul.

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Now to play devil's advocate here, often a fragile ego will distort the following things:

A girl who has a life and things to do, as "disinterested" because she can't or won't drop everything for a date.
A girl who has to cancel for a real emergency, as "flaking."
A girl who didn't notice him right away or got busy online, as "ignoring him."
A girl who just started talking platonically with a dude, as "picking up on him," or "trying to make him jealous."

Insecurity will often lead to distrust and the assumption that the girl has some sort of angle when she might not.

All this said though, we have to make sure we are seeing as clearly as possible and not reading extra meaning into things, while also not giving up our self-respect and putting up with mistreatment.

It's more than just "how do I get in there?" It should also be, "should I even be trying to get in there?"

If a girl requires you to change yourself into a manipulative person just to get at her, she's not worth it.

2019-09-12T03:47:48+00:00

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sloanpal144 · 2019-09-12T04:09:01+00:00

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Sir8th · 2019-09-12T15:08:32+00:00

Real question is why do I have a notification for this thread why is it in my activity. Weird.

JIDeveroux · 2019-09-12T04:38:35+00:00

but why play these games tho? you can't expect anything serious from someone who plays this save yourself the trouble.

Title	Protip for guys
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	151
Comments	22
Date	September 11, 2019 11:35 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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