I came across a post about this the other day and I think it is spot on and I just got some perspective from a girl I was talking to. Everyone always comes on here giving advice “oh if she really wanted you she’d always respond and with enthusiasm” and other shit like that. Can that be useful advice? Absolutely but it is mind frame that combats neediness, but let’s be real you have to be at least a little needy or else you wouldn’t even be talking to girls in the first place.

I met a girl last night and she was talking about how she met a guy, had a good conversation, he got her Snapchat and he snapped her the next day and didn’t respond. So he unadded her and they never talked again. She told me that she was interested but once he “moved on because she didn’t answer” she obviously lost all interest.

Forget the dynamics and everything, doesnt that just make so much sense? All I read here is how if the girl isn’t doing majority of the work she doesn’t really want you, so why would she drop her life, just so you can feel wanted with a text back? I get it, and this was me, we don’t want to be needy but let’s use some logic and remember that sometimes that they won’t text back and sometimes it doesn’t even mean anything negative.

I’m also mostly talking about college/right out of college girls here I don’t know how it is with late 20’s+.