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I think its because as guys we’re more direct with our thoughts. Im not physically attracted to her, simple. Saying you expected a different energy is just a nice way of saying you didnt like their personality/thought their personality was different. Not feeling it/too nerdy is just nice way of saying not physically attracted to them. Its their way of giving a nice reaction without coming off as a bad person.
/r/seduction17/07/22 08:24 PM
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Dont have someone ask for you. I had a girl send a friend over and ask for my number. Given she wasnt the cutest girl but if she had at least talked to me or shown me a little of her personality I probably wouldnt have said no.
/r/seduction17/07/22 08:20 PM
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If youve had a couple girls say it then there’s probably more to the issue. One or two sure because ive never backed any of my stuff to the cloud. So if i lose my phone, I lose all my shit.
/r/seduction17/07/22 08:19 PM
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When I see my younger friends doing that I take it more as a way of them showing off/trying the method you explained. When it comes to girls always move in silence. Ive slept with girls and never told anyone else. Then theyll come back and sleep with me again because they know their reputation is safe.
/r/seduction17/07/22 08:17 PM
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I had a girl like that just a few month ago. They like you as an option and are attracted to you but not fully invested in you as a person. In my situation I felt like I was being used as a safe bet so I talked to her and kept her around but never got myself too involved.
/r/seduction17/07/22 08:11 PM
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I dont think doing anything falls under the category of being on a date unless its specified or its a typical date situation(ex: asking someone out to dinner). While asking out to a walk is more just hanging out.
/r/seduction17/07/22 08:09 PM
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The only thing I dont agree with is not asking her for her schedule and just setting up a date. You just dont know what someone has going on or if theyll be available. I was asked out by a girl on Sunday and felt like I had to go because she had done all this prep. Even tho normally I dont have Sundays off.
/r/seduction19/05/22 12:05 AM
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Are you trying to date her or just keep going out with her?
/r/seduction18/05/22 11:59 PM
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Starting with one is fine. Some people start off by just smiling at a handful of girls before even attempting to do approaches. Other guys dont even approach at all.
/r/seduction18/05/22 11:57 PM
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Dont do this. If I was really interested in a girl at the library I would approach her or wait until i see her around. I cant even think of anything good this letter would say and it completely ignores buiding rapport.
/r/seduction18/05/22 11:53 PM
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When people post made up conversations with responses, cringe. First thing is if you have known her before or if you found her online, and if theres a realistic chance you two could meet up. For example, a girl i used to work with is a flight attendant now. So even tho she travels alot we still live in the same city. Realistically theres a chance we could meet if i tried to get to know her.
/r/seduction08/03/22 09:45 AM
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It largely depends on what college you go to. I went to one that was a waste of time when it came to getting at girls. But there was 2 colleges about an hour away that would have constant block parties that even the riot cops had to get involved once.
/r/seduction08/03/22 09:41 AM
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Same as someone else said, 22 is so young. I know it doesnt feel like it at the moment for you but its young. You have a long time ahead of you. 5’10/5’11, is a good height. Im 5,9/5’10 and tell girls im 5’7 on a good day with boots. I definitely wouldnt mind being 6+ but as you get older and more experienced you realize it really doesnt matter. The main difference between your tall friends and short friends is that one is willing to take risk while the other isnt. The social anxiety is a tough …
/r/seduction08/03/22 09:40 AM
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I dont see it working if you’re not deliberately trying to escalate. Thats just being friends and hoping that at one point she falls for you. Then if she meets a guy who is willing to take that risk and escalate youll lose your chance.
/r/seduction08/03/22 09:33 AM
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Girls will only message you in Instagram if you built an exciting lifestyle page that they can potentially join you. Instagram is the same as real life when it comes to girls making the first move. A lot of the times they cant accept being rejected so they wont go for it.
/r/seduction08/03/22 09:27 AM
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I would go with the smoking approach if I wanted to talk to her. I wouldn’t apologize to her.
/r/seduction22/01/22 02:31 AM
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Female pick up artist, huh. Ill give them the one tip they need to seduce any man. Just smile at him. Then if they want to stay away from the fuck boys. Stop chasing after guys who are obviously more attractive and go after the normal looking people.
/r/seduction21/01/22 03:06 AM
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You took a wrong approach there and bordered a creepy route, depending on how close your dorm/house is. I would have waited until she was outside smoking and then asked her for a smoke. From there just introduce myself and talk.
/r/seduction21/01/22 01:19 AM
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I dont know much about celebrities kids but with rich girls, dont put them on a pedestal and theyll try to shit test you a lot/tougher. Like you said act nonchalant in the face of it all. Then its more about making them feel like an average person. Theyll be more used to being treated differently/special.
/r/seduction21/01/22 01:17 AM
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Continue with the date and see how it plays out
/r/seduction21/01/22 01:14 AM
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Honestly, she’s probably going to cheat. Ive been around the game long enough. A girl who has a bf wont show interest unless shes willing to cheat.
/r/seduction21/01/22 01:12 AM
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Women will always try to change you. It normally starts with little things and then keeps going. I’ll try and put up with but ive noticed its always they try to change you but dont want you say anything negative about them. Then i just show my way out.
/r/seduction21/01/22 01:10 AM
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Can we see your BIO as an example?
/r/seduction18/01/22 04:27 AM
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Reading books will help but also putting yourself out there and getting results. There’s a lot of good recommendations around this sub so look into those.
/r/seduction18/01/22 04:25 AM
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The thing about going out and letting it happen is advice that works for women. Men have to make something happen. Like the crude and uncharismatic guys you know. They might not be naturals but they are putting themselves out there and making things happen.
/r/seduction18/01/22 04:23 AM
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Typically a guy will land himself into the friendzone if he isn’t flirty or sexual. If you’re flirting then I dont think its at a sexual, man to women, and more teasing. I get this idea because you said talk to attractive women the same way you talk to anyone else but then follow it by saying you flirt well. So long story, and rant, short work in sexual tension.
/r/seduction18/01/22 04:19 AM
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It depends on how you want to proceed. Ive been in a similar situation but it was a girl mutual friend who had feelings for me while i liked her friend. He probably has feelings for her so hes getting jealous. If you want to get with her then make it about you and her and stop including that friend.
/r/seduction18/01/22 04:15 AM
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i try to not eat junk food or over indulge during the week. Especially if I know ill be drinking or going to a party on the weekend. Then at parties ill enjoy myself but not over do it either. Maybe I get drunk and order chicken fingers but at least the week was balanced and the upcoming week will be too.
/r/seduction18/01/22 04:12 AM
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I dont think women should be drafted. I know too many women, who if drafted, would just hold the rest back. I think men get drafted, not just because of bio difference, but they rise to the occasion. Theyll be strong for each other instead of being selfish and worrying about themselves.
/r/MensRights17/01/22 04:18 AM
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I wouldn't say its the root of the problem but it’s definitely different principles.
/r/seduction14/01/22 04:53 AM
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The part that is confusing to me is where you study game more than any one else but then ask we think you’d have a better chance with cold approach. Cold approach is the way to go. Ive been with girls from FB/ Tinder who I know if i had cold approached it would had been 10x easier. Then the best girls ive been with have all been through cold approach. Cold approach and online are two different skills.
/r/seduction14/01/22 04:18 AM
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It sounds like you need to read on the basics. Introduce, man to women convo, and escalating.
/r/seduction09/01/22 08:40 AM
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In a way it will yea. If they think you’re extremely attractive then theyll want to see you again.
/r/seduction09/01/22 08:38 AM
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Its kinda of a shit test. I would respond with something like well then youll make thing complicated. If a girl is flirting hard with me ill say something like are you trying to make me fall in love with me. Or ill say something like dont fall in love with me itll make things complicated, and its a way to say im not serious into the situation.
/r/seduction09/01/22 08:37 AM
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Porn hub actually has some tutorials you can look up. Main thing is not be hesitant.
/r/seduction09/01/22 08:32 AM
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Im kinda with the guy who said its a personality thing but not entirely. If you’re getting them on dates then you’re attractive enough to have them going with you. Then it goes to how you talk to them. I suggest keep hitting the gym and dont date down. So many guys i know have dated down and they have no clue. Dont be another.
/r/seduction09/01/22 08:25 AM
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Cutting her off completely is the best option even if it is nuclear. I would bet working out and studying is partly in hopes that she takes interest in you. Even if you continue to go out with her and started flirting with girls she would sabotage the situation.
/r/seduction06/01/22 05:52 AM
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Yea, its a way girls act. You didnt show enough interest at the party and she moved on. When a girl loses interest she’ll go cold quick.
/r/seduction06/01/22 05:49 AM
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Just look up observational or indirect openings. Also look up indicators of interest. If i were to go on a literal example it would be based off those two subjects.
/r/seduction06/01/22 05:48 AM
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I dont much about ted talks but ill give ya some pointers; Conversations have to go both ways or they dont work. The other person has to put some effort. Then dont ask short answered questions and ask questions based off what they are talking about. For flirting, I personally dont keep it going for long unless I know im close to closing. If im talking to a girl i might throw a flirty comment here or there but nothing to serious.
/r/seduction31/12/21 03:32 AM
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I understand how storytelling is good for building comfort and value but “storytelling” seems like a bad choice of words. You’ll say something/ have a convo that builds value/ comfort but not go on some crazy storytelling rant. Just make sure the story is relatable to the convo at had and either builds your value or builds comfort. As for tips to being able to tell a story is to read short stories. Every story has a start, events and an end. People who arent good at telling stories tend to skip …
/r/seduction29/12/21 08:13 AM
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Its 4 hour long video.
/r/seduction29/12/21 08:01 AM
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Haircut, as others have pointed, is the number one thing. Get a slick back or something you can comb. Thats the easiest thing you can fix.
/r/seduction27/12/21 09:49 AM
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Its hard to answer your post because there isnt much to work with. You get ghosted but there isnt any examples of whats going on. If a girl ghost you while texting, then she didnt feel a vibe or wasnt too attracted to you to start with. A girl who wants you will put in the effort. If she ghost you after sex then you, honestly, probably didnt do a good job. If you had she would text again for more of it. If its happening a lot then you probably aren’t connecting with them at a comfortable level. …
/r/seduction27/12/21 09:39 AM
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Hes doing to many things based off women and not for his own sake. If he doesnt like tinder game then go back to old fashion pickup.
/r/seduction27/12/21 09:28 AM
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Well to me, a girl who isnt approachable will avoid eye contact, have headphones in or sunglasses. Theyll have the resting bitch face as well.
/r/seduction21/12/21 10:16 PM
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Are you attractive by social standards or your own? Then do you look approachable.
/r/seduction21/12/21 09:59 PM
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with mask, ive noticed that eye contact is what girls seem to being do a lot now. Not just the simple look then look away stuff either. Thats how i judge my approach by strong eye contact or suddenly in my area.
/r/seduction17/12/21 11:32 PM
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Judging by the upvotes, people were hurt by your post lol. This should almost be pinned its so true tho.
/r/seduction17/12/21 11:27 PM
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The number one trait ive seen, that works, is learning how to socially interact. I have friends who are out of shape, other who have kids, and some who are gym rats. The number one trait i see them have is being able to have a conversation and lead with it. Then the ones ive seen struggle the most are socially retarded. They need to learn social norms before they can learn game.
/r/seduction16/12/21 06:15 AM
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It depends for me. A lunch date for me is building rapport/ getting to them and not really expecting anything else. Then a late night date is typically trying to get them home. I think girls know this to a certain extent as well.
/r/seduction16/12/21 06:10 AM
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I agree with you on asking for the HOW. So many comments saying to be confident or fake it till you make it but not enough saying how to do it.
/r/seduction15/12/21 11:13 PM
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It sounds like a body language and flirting problem. If you’re stiff than your not relaxed and comfortable. Then being relaxed will make you a “chill” dude and its the flirty mixed in that makes you sexual. You have to be relaxed and flirty to be sexual.
/r/seduction15/12/21 11:09 PM
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A couple law degrees, working for the city
/r/seduction15/12/21 11:04 PM
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Ima go with the unpopular opinion and say you dont have to be above average. People have an issue with being average but basically everyone is average. Unless they’re on the movies or modeling they’re basic. You’re putting people as above average because you’re ignoring their faults.
/r/seduction15/12/21 05:28 AM
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I think there is men who are sad, depressed and let themselves go. Theres also men who are doing their own thing. Thats more were i fit in. Im not big on the dating scene anymore but im still at the gym, still working on my career and if a girl comes around, well ill know how to approach/ talk to her.
/r/seduction15/12/21 05:25 AM
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A guy who’s tall, works out, and makes six figures is already a top percent guy. Especially when compared to an average 9-5 potato couch. At that level he should be looking at girls he wants in his life.
/r/seduction10/12/21 09:15 PM
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I did this myself last weekend but I was already hanging out with the girl. Just a fair warning, to who ever is reading, dont go texting every girl on your phone asking to fuck.
/r/seduction10/12/21 09:13 PM
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Maybe you dont have an interest in talking to them because you are unconsciously rejecting them before they can reject you. Youll keep that same mentality in college if you dont work on it. I suggest you talk to everyone. Boys, girls, ugly or beautiful. Its highschool. Have fun while you can and get some experience in life. Its not that serious. When you enter the job market nobodys going to ask anything about highschool.
/r/seduction08/12/21 04:30 AM
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You have to remember whos behind the accounts as well tho. I can only imagine all the teen age boys and girls in the advice subs.
/r/MensRights07/12/21 02:44 AM
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Like someone else said, damned if you do and damned if you dont. You shouldnt flat out say because of the me too movement but dont give in. If you have to work together than stay in the open were people can see you easily.
/r/MensRights07/12/21 02:41 AM
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They should take a page out of Alexanders book
/r/MensRights07/12/21 02:39 AM
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Society expects me to get married, have kids, work a nine to five until i retire and die. They can think whatever they want, im not doing that.
/r/seduction06/12/21 11:26 PM
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I almost feel like every guy should go on a dating spree and even have a FWB experience. Even if you get yourself together and look for a girl that compliments you, you might not notice the red flags.
/r/seduction04/12/21 10:22 PM
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I would try to see then if its not something else. Girls in the past have told me straight up when they think im too young.
/r/seduction04/12/21 07:57 PM
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Kinda sad he went with some other advice instead of this. You should always try to match the other persons vibe.
/r/seduction03/12/21 10:05 PM
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2-3 years older isn’t a lot. When they talk about you being younger make it more playful or dont pay much attention to it. Ive been with a few girls who are older than me and ive never taken it serious when they say they are older.
/r/seduction03/12/21 09:56 PM
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I wouldnt say mouthpiece is king but it’s definitely a big part of it. A handsome guy still needs to know how to talk to someone. But its your looks that are going to get her interested first.
/r/seduction30/11/21 12:34 AM
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I would say part of it is the vibes that you give off and the other part is having nice eyes/body.
/r/seduction20/11/21 03:04 AM
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It seems like a backwards step when it comes to seduction. Ask a girl out on a date and if she says no thats not her being “less hesitant to move forward”, thats her rejecting you.
/r/seduction15/11/21 10:19 PM
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I would go with How do you judge your Indicators of Interest. Did she laugh at your jokes and then you asked her out to eat or did she show signs she was interested. Also did you show her signs you were interested before asking her.
/r/seduction10/11/21 01:31 AM
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Now I even see theres a middle ground that a lot of girls wont bother trying to achieve. They want it there way or nothing. Gotta meet them preferences in the middle at least.
/r/seduction03/11/21 07:55 AM
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Something ive started to notice now is pointing out problems and blaming it on the guy. For example, of a guy has a problem with her going out or dressing to revealing its because hes insecure. Younger me always believed it but now if there’s something you dont like you gotta speak up. Dont be afraid to let her go.
/r/seduction03/11/21 04:36 AM
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Thats always been the case.
/r/seduction03/11/21 04:33 AM
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Once you go on a couple of dates you realize how much time and money actually go into them and then get over it real quick.
/r/seduction30/10/21 09:09 PM
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I just want to say as someone whos only a couple years older than you, 23/24 is not old. No where near the age of wanting to hook up less. Thats right about prime hooking up stage. Its not until late 20s and early 30s where girls really start to look into settling down. Then youll be able to tell by the questions they ask you.
/r/seduction30/10/21 12:42 AM
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Act indifferent and there might still be a chance of recovery. Dont let her think you’re growing desperate or aren’t emotionally strong.
/r/seduction30/10/21 12:38 AM
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I would suggest looking around at what other people are wearing and then asking yourself if you can pull it off. Also look at movie stars/ celebrities whos style you like and work something from there. For example, I liked James Dean red jacket so i bought a similar style one but in black.
/r/seduction30/10/21 12:36 AM
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I prefer to just burn the bridge. Looking back at times where I went after a girl and got rejected, i can see how she wasn’t interested in me. Last thing I would want to do is stuck around her. I think in a way it keeps that little bit of hope alive and its not a healthy thing.
/r/seduction30/10/21 12:32 AM
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You should draw the line when you feel disrespected. If a girl teases me about balding thats fine I can take it. A video of her getting fucked is way passed a shit test.
/r/seduction28/10/21 01:09 AM
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I actually agree with you. Ive read stories where people get screamed at, slapped, kicked out of clubs and in all reality its not because they were doing approaches. Its because they were being creepy. A lot of times you can read their post and pick out where the creepy shit is.
/r/seduction21/10/21 02:15 AM
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Its called a tribe mentality or something like that. I havent been to into the game for awhile now. You basically pointed it out tho, theres no social consequences. If you wanted to talk to them like a random guy then accept the consequences that might go your way.
/r/seduction21/10/21 02:11 AM
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If they tell me they have a bf then I normally just leave them alone. If she gave me her number then I would keep her in mind for showing interest. A loyal girl wouldnt give out her number.
/r/seduction21/10/21 02:09 AM
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Just talk to her. The longer you wait the worse itll be.
/r/seduction21/10/21 02:07 AM
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My experience with milfs, they want to feel young, sexy, wanted and to have crazy experiences.
/r/seduction20/10/21 04:26 AM
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Lack of social experience with women and from videos ive seen of mods, mental issues.
/r/seduction20/10/21 04:23 AM
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When I used to be more active on this subreddit, I would always get downvoted for trying to help guys just get laid. Now its morally wrong or bad advice. A couple years ago there was a good amount of underground pua that actually backed what they said. When lock Downs hit thats when I noticed all the shit post and brigades.
/r/seduction20/10/21 12:44 AM
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I think this is old advice that used to hold up. Now women can just ignore you back and find a new guy by the end of the night. I had an old friend tell me she never locks eyes with a guy because then they think she wants to be approached. They know they can replace you.
/r/seduction14/10/21 02:51 AM
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When I was younger I would try and work on my monotone voice but now i just work with it. Some girls will try and call me out on it but most dont care. Its normal to get nervous at the start or when doing an approach.
/r/seduction14/10/21 02:48 AM
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Definitely dont like the last pic. Doesnt really go well with the other ones.
/r/seduction14/10/21 02:44 AM
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Reddit sure is boring ever since MG got nuked off the site. Social media has always been more of a womens thing anyways.
/r/MensRights06/10/21 10:09 AM
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If you’re chubby and you walk funny, well at least you can get started by working on that. Todays dating market is just downhill for men. Being aesthetically pleasing barely works if your a man. You can be kinda cute as a women and still have better results. You should still work on yourself for yourself tho.
/r/seduction23/09/21 12:37 AM
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Yes but I wouldnt say it matter more than appearance. People are going to have a perception about you based off the people you hang out with.
/r/seduction16/09/21 07:34 AM
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If you got this idea from the Fake and Fraud show then forget about it. Sugar dating is just legal escorting. The dude got called out and tried playing it off.
/r/seduction08/09/21 11:48 PM
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Women smiling isnt something I see as often anymore but still works. If im walking and a girl smiles at me, then im pretty much always doing the opening. So in short try smiling at guys your interested in.
/r/seduction08/09/21 11:46 PM
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Its the same way you would any another person. By talking to them and getting to know them. It seems easier in those situations because you already have a common thing to talk about as an opener. The neighbor you have the place of living and the student you have school.
/r/seduction08/09/21 11:42 PM
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For me it depends on the level of hard to get. Right now ive been staying away from the dating scene because of girls acting hard. Twice ive been told that I dont chase enough or dont try hard enough. But to me it’s simple, i dont second text and if you dont offer plans to reschedule, if date day doesnt work, i move on.
/r/seduction07/09/21 09:10 AM
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The stop caring and theyll chase you works in certain situations. Its more experience based and knowing if you can pull it off or not. After helping friends and friends of friends, just be yourself is the worst. So many people “just being themselves” are naturally retarded/ socially retarded. I say be your cool self and show them that dumb you later.
/r/seduction07/09/21 09:06 AM
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Ground stories work if you can relate to the conversation at hand. Dont use it to one up a person or just shoot in one of your own.
/r/seduction07/09/21 09:03 AM
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Talk to everyone and be friends with everyone. Also read up on the basics of pick up.
/r/seduction01/09/21 03:15 AM
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The way you walk and your body language are a big one to me. Even as a man I can tell if someone is faking it or being confident. Some guys hold their heads up like their smelling the air. They’re faking it. A confident guy will walk talk and look at other. Chin up but not over exaggerating.
/r/seduction21/08/21 08:17 AM
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Women today are very different. As a guy who doest want to “try hard” or chase anymore, ive learned it the hard way.
/r/seduction21/08/21 08:15 AM
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You’re assuming its a hook up but dont go with that mentality. Itll make you slack off.
/r/seduction21/08/21 08:14 AM
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Good role models is what they need. I met a kid who was being raised by a single mother. It wasn't even during game or anything just a social gathering. Kid wasnt even a teenager yet and was talking about “weak minded women”. Hes being raised by youtube is what I thought. They need to find good role models that can teach them the basics of life.
/r/seduction21/08/21 08:12 AM
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I had a teacher who was retired law enforcement and he told us to always go with our gut because most the time its true.
/r/seduction20/08/21 02:37 AM
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I think the best advice is to start reading basics material and start practicing talking to women. You stop putting women on pedestals when you have more than one available or know that you could get another one.
/r/seduction20/08/21 02:35 AM
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Definitely shoot your shot if you want to.
/r/seduction18/08/21 09:32 PM
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The thing about women and attention is that they dont mind it. They love the validation. In her mind its like, yea all these guys hit on me at work and then I go to the casino and another guy approaches me. In her mind shes that pretty. A girl who isnt used to attention would have been more reserved because she doesnt know what your intentions are/ isnt used to just being hit on.
/r/seduction18/08/21 03:21 AM
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I learned from MM and never cared for RSD. I think beginners should start with MM. its a proven gameplay, techniques, and concepts that are easy to find and learn. A lot of Tylers stuff is crap. Even the pick up videos from back in the day were situation specific “breakdowns” with a bunch of fluff. Even now a lot of RSD gurus can simply say their techniques didnt work because the person practicing them had bad inner game or wasnt in the moment. Completely shifting the blame away.
/r/seduction17/08/21 11:42 PM
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I scanned through most of the post and its good that you did the approaches but you also need a closing plan. If you have a hotel near by or maybe staying near the strip. A reason to go back to the hotel for drinks or an after party.
/r/seduction17/08/21 11:37 PM
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In my experience 1 and 3 vary. Ive been with a few girls, who after sex, get dressed and tell me to message them later or on the weekend and then leave. Ive had less girls want to cuddle or be sweet after sex.
/r/seduction17/08/21 12:10 AM
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The basic advice get a good workout plan, i like combat sports they help with confidence, watch your diet. Then pay attention to yourself. Or you can ask yourfriends; what type of person do you come off as, what can you do to improve yourself. Im not a PUA but ive tried to help friends or friend of friends. A lot of times its not game they need its a social rework.
/r/seduction16/08/21 12:38 AM
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If you make eye contact with a guy you’re interested, smile at him. Its pretty much the universal indicator for attraction. Then he can make the approach or you can do it yourself.
/r/seduction14/08/21 07:55 PM
1

I dont think it comes off as needy or creepy. Ive been in situations where i put my number in her phone and she calls me to let me know thats her number. Or if she gives me her number ill call her so she has mine. If you think its a soft rejection or not interested then just let her have your number. If she’s interested shell message if not find another.
/r/seduction13/08/21 07:29 AM
1

Keep your distance and stop trying to get her. If shes not interested and you continue to pursue shes only going to be not interested even more. Give her space and time.
/r/seduction13/08/21 07:27 AM
12

Everyone’s brought up differently. I knew a natrual who said he was always encouraged to talk to girls. Even at a young age so by the time he was in high school it was natural. So in his case it was the exposure to it. I think its the case with a lot of naturals.
/r/seduction13/08/21 07:25 AM
1

They went from pick up to self help style content.
/r/seduction06/08/21 07:48 AM
14

Take her somewhere mysterious like a walk through the forest. Lol idk bout that one.
/r/seduction05/08/21 10:40 PM
3

I was scrolling through twitch once. There was a girl streamer bending over in front of the camera with her ass in full display. So like every other sucker I clicked on it. Turns out it was a yoga/stretch help stream. Then someone just drops 10k on that ass. Ive never seen such a high donation.
/r/MGTOW01/08/21 09:43 PM
1

I noticed the last two parties ive been to, its be girls who end up fighting or disrespecting guys to pick a fight.
/r/MGTOW01/08/21 09:38 PM
2

5k dislikes. A bunch of landwhales, “Ya I haTe WheN Men HaraSS mE”. 5k dislikes and I guarantee half is beta guys and the other half is women who’ve been approached once or twice.
/r/MGTOW01/08/21 09:37 PM
48

While girls post two pics and a bikini one.
/r/seduction01/08/21 09:34 PM
59

Guys like this ruined dating. Now that 6/10 will expect 10/10 guys and nothing else.
/r/MGTOW30/07/21 11:30 PM
8

Just tell her you thought she was cute and decided to go over. Not interested in flowers isnt really necessary.
/r/seduction30/07/21 10:10 PM
1

I wouldnt be surprised if she participates once, loses, and thats the end of that. She just wanted her minute of fame.
/r/MGTOW30/07/21 09:59 PM
3

I was out partying with dude who was 44. He has two girls and knows his way around pick up. Its never to late but you have to put yourself out there.
/r/seduction30/07/21 05:50 AM
1

I would say your opinion is subjective to you idea of what an Alpha and Beta truly are. To me a Beta is someone who is only working on getting there numbers up while an Alpha is someone who is improving themselves overall in different areas of their lives.
/r/seduction29/07/21 07:54 PM
1

I still approach girls, practice some pick up, and still go out to get laid, but, I’ve done it long enough to see how similar girls are. My experiences match those of others here so i stick around as a reminder to not fall for it.
/r/MGTOW29/07/21 07:41 PM
5

So much for celibate. Try flirting more and being more sexual.
/r/seduction29/07/21 07:34 PM
5

A dude can look like hercules but if he cant carry a conversation in the same way his sidekick can, then hes not getting the girl.
/r/seduction28/07/21 08:58 PM
9

I wouldn’t but I also wouldn’t be surprised if a lot of men went for it.
/r/MGTOW28/07/21 07:44 PM
6

So dont point at them. Just approach them. Go try to meet and dance with new girls instead of chasing ones you know feeding them validation.
/r/seduction28/07/21 07:42 PM
1

I think it would put you more at a disadvantage. Just gotta be yourself.
/r/seduction28/07/21 07:41 PM
17

Difference in mindset right there. Your boy is pointing at girls across the club while you chase the same women you already know for a dance. If you think you’re ugly then work on it. Be honest on what can be improved and do it.
/r/seduction28/07/21 07:28 PM
1

Part of game is having the girl attracted to you. If shes not attracted then your game wont work on her.
/r/seduction28/07/21 07:26 PM
23

Bet she didnt do all the things he saw in the movies. She went from gangbangs to starfishing.
/r/MGTOW27/07/21 04:03 PM
12

If joker was drove away then i dont see many others lasting long. He was low key and had a lot of patience.
/r/MGTOW27/07/21 02:14 AM
2

Men will get sent to hell while women lounge in the commander quarters.
/r/MGTOW23/07/21 05:26 PM
2

I have a timer for 30 min a day on instagram and I dont have FB. I use reddit more when im at home.
/r/seduction23/07/21 05:19 PM
19

I remember sleeping with a girl once. I left her house at like 4 in the morning. I got home couldnt sleep so i started scrolling FB. That same chick was having a convo on FB with her bf, on a thread, and ended with how much she loves him. After that I really couldn’t sleep. I had no idea about him or how easy she made it seem.
/r/MGTOW19/07/21 01:56 AM
1

Exactly this. Same post different poster.
/r/seduction17/07/21 04:28 AM
3

Not really. At this point even a lot of the members, in this sub, who knew game aren't around.
/r/seduction16/07/21 05:19 PM
4

They’re chameleons looking for simps. They destroy feminist while suppling the Lonley Fans
/r/MGTOW15/07/21 05:18 PM
3

The way you worded it was bad. You said nothing serious and no hookups but regularly have fun. Its sounds like you’re taking them on free dates or something.
/r/seduction14/07/21 06:46 PM
13

When she stops getting attention shell say how she didnt want the suit so sexual but was denied by a male.
/r/MGTOW14/07/21 12:59 AM
1

I would go with a direct date for drinks if shes leaving soon anyways then its better than wasting time.
/r/seduction12/07/21 10:30 PM
1

Gotta clarify on talent. Do you mean natural game or ability to learn and execute techniques.
/r/seduction12/07/21 10:27 PM
5

Did I know a hot pocket has 5 grams of sugar. No cuz i take care of myself and not eat that shit. If you eat some processed crap and dont feel full after then dont eat that food anymore. You wont feel full after so its not worth it.
/r/MGTOW12/07/21 07:55 PM
8

Thats roughly 166 us dollars. You go to a brothel out in certain states and girls are starting at about 843 euros for 30 min. Thats roughly 1k us dollars.
/r/MGTOW12/07/21 07:52 PM
2

I dont try to make eye contact with every cute girl I see unless im going for an approach. If I see a cute girl, but not plan on approaching, then ill just keep doing my thing. If a girl locks eyes and then looks away, an interested girl will look again right away and then Ill smile. If she holds the eye contact then ill just smile. If she doesnt smile back or looks away without showing interest then I go shiiiiittt and not approach.
/r/seduction10/07/21 05:29 AM
3

I pretty much always go for the eye contact first at least. Unless im doing a compliment as an opener then I might now do eye contact to start
/r/seduction10/07/21 03:40 AM
2

When you confirm the day before just ask her if the date is still on. That way you establish its a date and if its not what she wants shell say something.
/r/seduction10/07/21 03:39 AM
7

Thats what happens when you use old pictures and think the guy wont notice.
/r/MGTOW10/07/21 02:51 AM
1

Instagram game does work at times but the man pretty much always makes the first move. Girls will like a fee of your pics to let you know she’s interested and then you message her. Rarely will a girl message you tho.
/r/seduction09/07/21 06:39 AM
3

Gotta work on yourself then man
/r/seduction09/07/21 06:37 AM
1

Sum 41- fat lip
/r/MGTOW08/07/21 07:56 PM
1

Whats your plan now? Text her, wait for a text or ghost her?
/r/seduction08/07/21 07:52 PM
4

Idk for me if I get ghosted, even of I have back up plans, ill feel down. But i dont go with that mindset of Iam going to be ghosted.
/r/seduction08/07/21 04:38 AM
3

I have some experience with picking up strippers and the waitresses working at strip clubs. A lot of them have two phones for the job the same way they have two names. Then honestly speaking strippers are a mess. They dont want to go out for food but they want drinks and to party. Like I doubt the audio book stripper was into books and didnt care. I used to go with, “Hey, are you working tonight”, wait for a response then, “lets meet up at blank for drinks.” I dont do stripper game anymore so it…
/r/seduction08/07/21 04:37 AM
2

We work on ourselves every day so work on getting the girl as well.
/r/seduction08/07/21 04:31 AM
1

I used to watch infield footage breakdowns but they’re not as good as they seem. A lot of then are situational and wont work on every girls.
/r/seduction08/07/21 04:29 AM
1

Honestly that intro you gave there is fine. If she locks eyes with you then make the approach.
/r/seduction08/07/21 04:28 AM
10

Work on those negative thoughts they getting the best of you. Maybe she shows up or maybe she doesnt either Way fuck it. just go and see what happens.
/r/seduction08/07/21 04:27 AM
3

The ball is on her playing court so all you could do is wait. Sending a second message is too thirst. She definitely has other guys lined up or she would have responded to you.
/r/seduction08/07/21 04:25 AM
8

On the last one the girls were given a fish from a man on a boat. They then announced they had “caught” some fish.
/r/MGTOW07/07/21 08:19 PM
5

Even if her value isnt based off her sexual history a guy can prefer a women with a low count. Your value can be anything but he still wont want you.
/r/MGTOW07/07/21 08:17 PM
1

Theres going to be some fucked up porn in the future. Hardcore went from drilling/pounding to puke and bondage. I cant even imagine what comes after they get desensitized to it.
/r/MGTOW07/07/21 08:15 PM
2

He says he found purpose but as a man he should be creating his own purpose. A buddy said if his ex had supported him and given him the strength he need he would have done all this stuff. As men we have to create our own strength and purposes. Dont let a women control that.
/r/MGTOW07/07/21 07:15 AM
6

I love my black out curtains. Then I get the common “its too dark in here”.
/r/MGTOW07/07/21 07:13 AM
2

Try to make eye contact with a girl before the approach and even offer a smile to see of their receptive. Then for the most part just go for it. The first word is always the hardest.
/r/seduction07/07/21 07:08 AM
0

Ive done it a few time but rarely works unless i go for a quick meet up. I have a few buddies who supposedly do it on the regular with nothing to lose.
/r/seduction07/07/21 07:06 AM
4

I think you should do pick up while you work on yourself. You dont want to “work” on yourself as an excuse forever. Work on how you walk and how you talk to gain confidence. Dont be the guy who walks into a room and tries to disappear. You dont even have to be the guy who controls the room but be the guy who isnt fazed by it.
/r/seduction07/07/21 07:05 AM
4

I feel like everyday I get more and more redpilled. Everyday a girl does something that makes me push them away.
/r/MGTOW07/07/21 06:55 AM
14

If shes doing some type of delivery then its a good way for her to get pity tips.
/r/MGTOW06/07/21 05:58 PM
3

Ive worked inside jails and have seen the inside of plenty of prisons. Shes not the only shes just the one that got caught. Those places are under 24/7 surveillance with almost no blind spots.
/r/MGTOW03/07/21 04:45 AM
4

Nah, I guarantee the issue is men in her staff. A women will go along with her even if its a bad decision. If worst comes theyll just ditch that sinking ship. A man in her office who is actually trying to do his job will straight up go against a decision he thinks is wrong.
/r/MGTOW03/07/21 04:40 AM
5

Then she complains there is no good men but thats her description of a “good man”.
/r/MGTOW03/07/21 04:36 AM
12

Instagram accounts will post any quote on the face of anyone.
/r/MGTOW03/07/21 04:33 AM
4

This is interesting too that maybe the lowest paid female player should be paid as much as the highest paid female player. They want to fix the pay gap then maybe they should start on their home court.
/r/MGTOW02/07/21 08:11 PM
3

“Ill see you in the bathroom sometime then”, then youll see her in HR becuase you shouldnt use the bathroom if a women is in there. Or some dumb shit like that.
/r/MGTOW01/07/21 08:33 PM
3

When i first started working on my fashion i also went to that sub reddit and also didnt find it to be my style. Then I started picking clothe based off the store mannequins. Since they are generally styled by people with a fashion sense. Now im just a blue jean, t-shirt kinda guy. For fashion you really have to see what you like and feel comfortable with. At one point I even took a buddy with me to help pick out pants to make sure they werent to tight or too skinny. For a haircut, i found a bar…
/r/seduction01/07/21 09:02 AM
7

Not raisin the baby alone aka child support for her lifestyle.
/r/MGTOW30/06/21 11:48 PM
10

Im really not into politics, at the end of the day theyll say anything and do whatever they want. Everything from her throwing blacks in jail because of weed to the way she talks. You can tell working for her would be a nightmare.
/r/MGTOW30/06/21 11:48 PM
1

Get some candles in there too. A good smelling house is major points.
/r/seduction30/06/21 09:27 PM
6

Eventually itll stop when they realize it doesnt bring any money. The woke crowd always wants their agenda pushed but never supports things that do. Thats why movies and companies that go woke go broke.
/r/MGTOW30/06/21 03:13 AM
2

MGTOW doesn't recruit hell find his way here.
/r/MGTOW30/06/21 03:11 AM
2

Approach the 6/7s it sounds more like an excuse to not make approaches.
/r/seduction29/06/21 10:41 PM
9

For “the chance of sex”, if a girl isn't giving you sex then leave because shes getting it from some one else.
/r/MGTOW29/06/21 10:28 PM
4

A man should never go hostile just because a women rejects him. Stay frosty and move on. I think its because those guys already have low self esteem and then women rarely reject kindly.
/r/MGTOW29/06/21 10:25 PM
22

To many men have been broken in todays world to have low self worth.
/r/MGTOW29/06/21 10:23 PM
1

Women will get pregnant by pieces of shit guys and still put them above you because hes the baby daddy.
/r/MGTOW29/06/21 08:50 PM
2

Men of culture around here
/r/MGTOW29/06/21 08:46 PM
7

Its a little confusing tho if there was a girl involved or if the boys pretended to be a girl. I wouldn’t be surprised if its done to protect the girl tho.
/r/MGTOW28/06/21 10:12 PM
2

I think girls dont push child support when they know theres nothing there to take. They get pregnant from broke boys and let them off.
/r/MGTOW28/06/21 10:07 PM
8

If you stay in the dating game long enough you learn that every girl has a couple of guys in rotation. I had a FWB who was more on the quiet side but willing to do crazier stuff(should have been the first clue). One day she comes out pregnant and im thinking i should hit her up make sure its not me. She tells me she wasn't too sure whos it was but that it couldn't be me because we always wore a condom. She ended up testing some dude, came out it was his and now they’re together. I guarantee not …
/r/MGTOW28/06/21 12:53 AM
9

Ive been wanting to get a good massage but with my luck I know I’ll end up and some rub and tug place.
/r/MGTOW25/06/21 11:07 PM
9

Dirty harry. This scene is still relevant today, especially in SF.
/r/MGTOW25/06/21 11:05 PM
17

My buddy got into a text argument, for having preferences, with some girl. At one point she goes dont call me babe and then screenshots it. He goes ive never called you babe but she doesn’t respond. Women will set you up to get some validation. They dont care. Gurantee she posted it up on FB.
/r/MGTOW25/06/21 11:04 PM
1

1 bankok prostitute, anyone know how good that deal really is?
/r/MGTOW25/06/21 04:58 AM
5

The rings probably to keep away any disgusting man who wants to use her for a sex object- some feminist.
/r/MGTOW24/06/21 08:16 PM
1

Gotta flirt So they know you have sexual intentions and not just some bf gf stuff
/r/seduction24/06/21 08:09 PM
3

Gotta talk to girls to get girls. Go talk and flirt with girls.
/r/seduction24/06/21 05:31 AM
2

Itll go from its a workout to i want to show everyone how instagram how i good i am.
/r/MGTOW23/06/21 11:09 PM
2

Its becuase for women, especially in these times, things do just happen. A guy just apporached them and they fell in love. They went somewhere and where just offered a job. Even when they cheat it just happened. No accountability ever.
/r/MGTOW23/06/21 12:06 AM
8

“I believe he is a good person..” lmao he gave you herpes and blocked your ass.
/r/MGTOW23/06/21 12:02 AM
1

Im not against the idea. You’re obviously not going to learn pick up by going to strip clubs but you can learn to have a conversation with a girl or how to not be socially retarded. To a certain degree at least. Depending on your area there is going to be attractive ones who will go upto you at talk to you. If you’re thinking about it then give it a try.
/r/seduction22/06/21 11:59 PM
14

I had an ex message me and then found out she had a baby with some dude shea no longer with. Shes like you want to hangout we always have great conversations. Lol im not taking care of anything.
/r/MGTOW22/06/21 11:12 PM
10

Yea i would. I still do dating but i let be known early that I dont want kids and Im not into marriage.
/r/MGTOW22/06/21 12:44 AM
1

Ive been jobless for about a month and have been hesitant to start looking for a job. My field of work requires intense backgrounds that im not looking forward to. Then once I get hired I get back into the pattern. Work, eat, sleep for the next 30 plus years while taking a vacation every now and then.
/r/MGTOW21/06/21 09:11 PM
13

I was hoping this too until I realized, at the end he played himself. She might be a total bitch but hes married to her and gone to live with her.
/r/MGTOW21/06/21 09:02 PM
39

This is an example why the manosphere is needed. He knows he wants a wife and kid but was expecting it to just happen. As men nothing just happens for us we have to work for it. If he wants to marry then he needs to put in the work.
/r/MGTOW21/06/21 09:00 PM
1

Randoms off the CoD subreddit could have gave a better breakdown than those two.
/r/MGTOW20/06/21 06:43 PM
186

I get the concept but she can still flake or deny you. Then if you told her she’ll love the place shes going into this date with high expectations, so if she doesnt love it you’re most likely not getting another date.
/r/seduction20/06/21 03:33 AM
3

I think advice is interpreted in different ways. Im not looking for a girl at all. Im going my own way to build up and protect myself if i did start dating at some point.
/r/MGTOW20/06/21 02:16 AM
2

Eh ya could see it in her face she was going to get fat. Her head was too big for her body.
/r/MGTOW19/06/21 03:03 AM
8

If you guys haven’t seen Female Marines react to Omaha beach in youtube, look it up. Its great, we’re in great hands.
/r/MGTOW19/06/21 03:01 AM
4

I honestly was never the biggest fan of KS but after seeing how he handles this interview Im starting to like him.
/r/MGTOW18/06/21 10:58 PM
3

Theres people on here who claim to go out there and pick up chicks. I’ve seen a few YouTubers claiming to be in Columbia for nightgame but I personally wouldn’t. A cousin of mine had cold approached a girl, in mexico, and had been talking to her for a few days. Then an armed truck tried to scoop him up right outside his house. I guess one of the guys knew him and vouched for him that he’d leave her alone. After that im just like yea not going to do much besides social circle game in mexico.
/r/seduction18/06/21 07:35 PM
3

They should show the part were he puts the condom on her bf
/r/MGTOW18/06/21 07:29 PM
8

Yea go tell a subreddit around here that you dont want to date anymore and you’ll be labeled an “incel”. Tell a girl irl and its straight, “who hurt you”.
/r/MGTOW17/06/21 11:39 PM
10

Idk i remember my buddy bought a girls onlyfans for five bucks. It was some chick who used to work with us so her onlyfans was pretty low tier. Its funny to me becuase we used to try to date her and now for 5 bucks we got to see her naked. After that it kinda makes sense to me to pay 5 bucks, see her naked, and then the urge to want to date her/see more goes away.
/r/MGTOW17/06/21 11:36 PM
21

Little kid holding my moms a slut sign. His mom: Where have all the good men gone?
/r/MGTOW17/06/21 08:15 PM
2

The trend im seeing right now is the Bugs Bunny challenge. In short, girl lays on her tummy facing the camera, feet bent to duplicate bunny ears and then bends to show off her ass. Ive seen both your too young to be doing this and your way to old to be doing this. Dating for teenagers right now must be insane.
/r/MGTOW17/06/21 08:11 PM
2

“A beard is like make up for a man”- some chick once, not even close.
/r/MGTOW17/06/21 08:09 PM
2

Shes collecting souls alright.
/r/MGTOW17/06/21 08:06 PM
3

Its tough going into the dating scene especially when you start seeing what women are capable of and how they can destroy your life. Sometimes you ask yourself if its worse it. My tip would be to not let the fear hold you back. Talk to girls and trust your gut on how you feel about them. I’ve had a few FWB and its always been girls i dont think will go batshit on me later. Then the girls who start drama at the drop of a dime I ignore completely.
/r/seduction17/06/21 05:37 AM
1

Just approach taller women for starts i guess. Not really much else to it.
/r/seduction17/06/21 05:33 AM
9

It’s actually kinda funny because while VS is obviously aimed at women; they’ve always used skinny models and made business just fine. I would say its becuase VS is aimed at thinner women. Get ready for the obese models and go woke go broke to take affect. Those big girls aren’t shopping there but hey, its what women want.
/r/MGTOW17/06/21 05:27 AM
2

Ya imagine just sitting there with a big ass knife scar while the girl who did it is being posted online like a celebrity.
/r/MGTOW16/06/21 10:34 PM
1

I would honestly defuse the situation, go inside, and have the cops get her the hell out. I dont want to waste my time with any of her. No storied how i man handled a defenseless women or other stories she might start. God forbid the cops show up and start siding with her.
/r/MGTOW15/06/21 03:00 AM
9

Shes 43 posting videos on tik tok, has a kid, and just by this still frame looks like a bitch. She hit the wall and then obliterated herself.
/r/MGTOW15/06/21 12:51 AM
4

I told a girl once, “We use a condom or nothing”, because she was saying she was on birth control. At the time I was thinking it was going to be a sad fap but all of a sudden she had no problem with a condom.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/21 06:44 AM
1

Lol, guys who don’t have “average” genetics and move to south east Asia end up on 90 day fiancé.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/21 06:41 AM
2

Kinda random that she didnt mention anything about the relationship between her step dad and her older brother. Wonder what happen there.
/r/MGTOW13/06/21 05:28 AM
13

My buddy has been playing guitar for years and is working on becoming a music teacher. He used to say this all the time. Also with chicks doing live performances with basic skills getting all kinds of applause.
/r/MGTOW13/06/21 03:34 AM
122

Misery loves company. They become like women; they don't want solution just someone to complain with them.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/21 11:03 PM
17

Its the girls who aren’t lol.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/21 11:02 PM
2

In situations sure it could be hard to prove but I gurantee if an interviewer asked her for more details shed give it all up. She would do it for the attention while completely ignoring the consequences.
/r/MGTOW11/06/21 10:55 PM
2

I can already here it, “Theres no personality in this room”. Not enough live, love, and whatever else goes there bullshit.
/r/MGTOW11/06/21 10:48 PM
8

Its always good to work on yourself so nothing wrong with becoming financially stable but its not going to magically make girls stop rejecting you.
/r/seduction11/06/21 05:05 AM
22

There was actually a confession. The criminal Cardi B admitted to doing this but there was no consequences because women.
/r/MGTOW11/06/21 02:35 AM
5

Him: Doesnt like the daughter and cant accept her. Women: sorry I couldn’t be enough.
/r/MGTOW08/06/21 11:39 PM
17

Only women face unrealistic body standards in todays world, sure. You’ll look like 1,2,3,4 and 6 to have girls who look like 5 chasing you.
/r/MGTOW07/06/21 04:08 AM
17

Better Bachelor and Strong Successful Male are the two I watch
/r/MGTOW03/06/21 09:07 PM
2

The seduction/pick up subreddit was ruined by this too. You’ll have women making post with absurd “tips” getting massive upvotes. Lately its been about not approaching women in coffee shops, stores or even on the street. That subreddit is going down fast.
/r/MGTOW01/06/21 08:41 PM
4

“Killing themselves becuase they feel entitled to our bodies”, I can gurantee no one wants her body and fuck past trauma and mental health I guess.
/r/MGTOW01/06/21 08:35 PM
3

Thats women 101: Shame men. Thats what they always do and their simps back them up on it.
/r/MGTOW01/06/21 08:32 PM
1

Go for a situational observation.
/r/seduction31/05/21 08:22 PM
1

I didnt even read the whole story. I dont get how its his gf but shes going out with a customer to meer at a restaurant. Reverse the genders and she would be freaking out. Theres no way I would say ok to that.
/r/MGTOW31/05/21 07:36 AM
3

Go to a mall and approach every girl you think is cute. Either they are your age or older. As you get older mall approaches arent the same so take advantage whilw you can.
/r/seduction31/05/21 07:31 AM
6

It depends honestly. Ive been in situations where every guy is approaching one girl and ill keep my distance. That way she wonders why im bot approaching her while ever guy in the party is. Then in other situations ill approach the girl, while alone, and start working my routine. For me personally theres no solid answers without judging variables.
/r/seduction31/05/21 07:29 AM
2

Dude, higher rates do bot mean safer by any chance. I met a girl who was charging 1k for sex at a brothel but used to escort in New Jersey. I would not trust just hecuase the higher the prices the cleaner the girl.
/r/seduction31/05/21 07:22 AM
4

I go against the compliment stuff. Its overused. Go for an indirect opener. Its easier and smoother.
/r/seduction31/05/21 07:20 AM
1

I always go for an indirect opener. That way I dont have to go with the your cute routine and make ir seem more spontaneous. A lot of it though is learned through experience. Through experience you xan judge what to do next or what would work on her.
/r/seduction31/05/21 07:17 AM
0

I honest feel bad for him. Hes a nice guy no doubt but damn shes going to suck him dry while she fucks in her rent free house.
/r/MGTOW31/05/21 07:14 AM
94

Later on TwoXchromo: “ He’s not the babys daddy but has been letting me live rent free on his property. He acts like the babys father too, so can I get child support out of him?”
/r/MGTOW30/05/21 11:19 PM
21

Yea after reading one of those stories I was like, I aint changing shit. You figure it out.
/r/MGTOW30/05/21 11:16 PM
5

I matched with a girl on tinder who was saying she was 18 but I knew about her through another girl. She was really 16 but was going around high school and tinder apparently.
/r/MGTOW30/05/21 11:11 PM
1

I think there was one where Velma is a lesbian. My buddy was telling me about it.
/r/MGTOW30/05/21 07:57 PM
2

The walking in egg shells while having a conversation with a girl is low level simping. If they get offended by what I day then thats on them and they’re not going to shame me about it.
/r/MGTOW27/05/21 08:53 PM
3

“I blocked the door” thats called false imprisonment.
/r/MGTOW26/05/21 08:48 PM
8

What if hes not even married?
/r/MGTOW26/05/21 02:49 AM
4

Yea because if he decided to put his build there then that's pretty badass. Its when you put the idea that his wife made him that ruins it.
/r/MGTOW26/05/21 02:36 AM
2

Go after girls you’re attracted to and see if you vibe. You can vibe with a girl but if you’re not attracted to her its not going to work.
/r/seduction26/05/21 02:27 AM
1

Some girls are 12s after a 6 pack and others are 6s after a 12.
/r/seduction26/05/21 02:25 AM
1

For me its hard to answer because I just forget about the girls who’ve rejected me. I tried thinking of a quick number but I can remeber the times I landed a lot easier.
/r/seduction26/05/21 02:24 AM
2

Dont pop up in the DMs thats weirder. Just do a cold approach.
/r/seduction26/05/21 02:22 AM
9

Did he actually say that his wife had anything to do with it tho?
/r/MGTOW26/05/21 02:19 AM
5

I went to a strip club before corona. A buddy told me he would pay my entrance and get me a dance if i went with him so I did. It was the stupidest shit ever.
/r/MGTOW26/05/21 02:16 AM
2

It sounded like he got sex and ghosted but now it sounds like he had another person on the side that hes taking serious.
/r/seduction25/05/21 08:47 PM
1

according to her, so it could easily be a lie, she was making 15k a day off ad revenue and about 500k a year off ads alone.
/r/MGTOW25/05/21 08:05 PM
1

Did you guys have sex or is there another person he might be talking to.
/r/seduction25/05/21 08:04 PM
8

This is it right here. If a girl invited you over at night for a drink, its going down.
/r/seduction25/05/21 08:01 PM
4

I dont think things were going to great if they cut you off but the key is distance. Give them time and space and try later on.
/r/seduction25/05/21 07:58 PM
19

Exactly this. I moved to a new city with a bunch of ugly girls. I see guys at the gym on their hands and knees for them. Just a bunch of 3 and 4s. Ill go to my old gym whenever im visiting family and Its filled with multiple fit chicks. Those new girls would not stand out one bit there.
/r/MGTOW25/05/21 07:55 PM
2

If shes asking for a hall pass she plans on cheating.
/r/MGTOW25/05/21 07:49 PM
1

I dont get how someone has ten years gaming but doesnt have hobbies or interesting life stories. A big reason people learn game is to put themselves out more and get life stories. Hell I have interesting life storied from just living alone and nothing to do with game.
/r/seduction25/05/21 12:38 AM
1

Best advice is google it and read up on it. Put simple tho its doing something to escalate with the person you’re talking too and then calibration is judging their response to it.
/r/seduction25/05/21 12:31 AM
2

Ya came to get pick up advice on a gym approach and didnt get shit. Nice. Before you attempt an approach make sure she at least notices you. Look for eye contact at least more than once. Then like someone else said lowkey following you around or suddenly being in your area. Right now with mask girls will hold strong eye contact to signal an approach.
/r/seduction25/05/21 12:28 AM
2

None. Just trial and error in the outside world.
/r/seduction24/05/21 05:05 AM
4

Like everyone else is saying quiet and confident.
/r/seduction24/05/21 05:04 AM
2

Nah they repeat the same things over so much that they’re basically beating a dead horse. We get girls want high value men without being traditional women.
/r/seduction23/05/21 09:44 PM
2

Theres a video on youtube that claims they paid for fake business articles and more.
/r/seduction23/05/21 09:43 PM
2

I actually dont like that show. I dont think they’re dating advice is all that solid and they’re shows consist of the same repeating questions. They’re is also a lot of damaging videos of them on YouTube. I wouldnt suggest them for dating advice but more of a Oprah for dudes.
/r/seduction23/05/21 08:38 PM
5

What kinda simp cuck bullshit is that, we could even share medicines. Any guy who thinks about saying ok to this situation is mentally insane.
/r/MGTOW23/05/21 08:30 PM
3

Gotta take out the warriors to control a society
/r/MGTOW21/05/21 08:58 PM
5

This seems like Twitch doing something about the hottub meta but they’re really not. I gurantee she made almost nothing off ads. She’s on onlyfans, patreon, subs, and donations. That alone keeps her going just fine. This is twitch “taking” action without actually doing anything.
/r/MGTOW20/05/21 10:14 PM
1

If you’ve approached 50 girls and have hd no success then it might be you. You’re the common factor in those 50 approaches. I’ve met girls off apps who were not worth the intial chase. Most of them were girls I could have number closed easy on a cold approach.
/r/seduction20/05/21 01:35 AM
2

I honestly just looked into a mirror and practiced smiling. Then i just went with what I liked.
/r/seduction20/05/21 01:33 AM
14

I’m I suppose to feel happy or sad that she might never do anal again but thankfully did double anal and mandigo in ONE day.
/r/MGTOW20/05/21 01:27 AM
24

Plus you dont have to pay her bills or listen to her bitch
/r/MGTOW20/05/21 01:23 AM
10

“A brother might stab you in the back, a women always will, but a bike never will,”. My favorite quote from that game.
/r/MGTOW18/05/21 07:24 PM
1

Shes worth 15 for a month so im guessing like a quarter for an hour
/r/MGTOW18/05/21 07:22 PM
2

A girl with an “unbreakable” frame just isn't into you or it wouldnt be unbreakable
/r/seduction18/05/21 01:53 AM
0

Yea girls are going to be more down to fuck with the 5 percent guys. In other news the UTI percentage in Australia, i think it was, went up like 200 percent in women.
/r/seduction18/05/21 01:52 AM
4

Main difference between men and women. We see a guy who put the work in to look good and we’re motivated to do it too. A girl falls back on loving herself at all fat sizes
/r/MGTOW18/05/21 12:40 AM
12

Thats how my living room looked except I had taken a bucket racing seat out of one of my cars.
/r/MGTOW15/05/21 12:11 AM
1

Yea but just like it’s mentioned in that post, shes already seeing you in a sexual way and is open to sleeping with you. She was no longer thinking about her bf that night.
/r/seduction15/05/21 12:08 AM
1

I’ve noticed girls who are trying to hide their bfs will say things like, We, Friend or avoid using the word she. Shell talk about her friend but wont state she or he its just friend. Thats when I know its another guy. If it makes you feel better than sure ask her if shes still with her bf but I guarantee someone else is sleeping with her already. She told you she wasnt going to sleep with you TONIGHT.
/r/seduction15/05/21 12:01 AM
1

It does depend in the girl and the car. I went on a date not too long ago where the girl asked me what type of car I drive. I told her I drive an old Nissan and she laughed saying to stop playing. I used to drive an old lifted toyota tho and would tell girls I was straight country even tho Im clearly not. This seemed ti work pretty good. But ya a car does play a good part too,
/r/seduction14/05/21 08:01 AM
2

A girl told my buddy he doesnt know what its like to walk at night and have to look over your shoulder. I guess men are immune to beatings and stick ups
/r/MGTOW13/05/21 09:16 PM
1

I tell every guy I try to help, get blue jeans, solid color shirts that actually fit, and a pair of converse. Thats my basics right there. A majority of my approaches have been done in blue jeans and converse.
/r/seduction13/05/21 12:34 AM
1

So is the real qoute, “ A weak man will say she has an attitude”? A weak man will say he can handle and a strong man will say shes a bitch as he walks out.
/r/MGTOW12/05/21 01:04 AM
2

I try to help out as much as I can on here and on askseddit but sometimes people post the same situations or just stupid replys. I think a lot of guys in here, who gave good advice, are starting to leave.
/r/seduction12/05/21 12:58 AM
11

“Men need women”, I could get a prostitute and a maid and dont see any reason I would need a women.
/r/MGTOW12/05/21 12:56 AM
2

Notice she didnt mention anything about keeping her health up.
/r/MGTOW12/05/21 12:50 AM
3

Did you upvote a comment saying Men arent that bad. Edit: Reddit acts high and mighty for a random website. You need nothing to make a new account and Karma points are meaningless. Ban me I’ll make a new one until I decide to just stop using the site.
/r/MGTOW12/05/21 12:46 AM
1

It could be done but it would be harder. Women date up in the world and men date down. Women want someone who makes the same amount or more than they do. Keep your physical appearance good and you can definitely fuck a couple 20s but I wouldn’t say professional women in their 20s
/r/seduction11/05/21 01:32 AM
2

Ive tried watching some of his videos but they’re not for me either. People say hes a straight forward advice given type of guy but he just seems like an asshole to me. I saw a clip of him telling a guy he was fat and working a low level job so women would never want him and then starts asking if he has a big dick. Guy doesnt respond so Samuels starts going off on how the guy is low value with a small dick so girls will never want him and how he has a big dick so his life is good. I didnt see th…
/r/seduction11/05/21 01:28 AM
6

That was my biggest issue with the movie Drive. I would have really enjoyed it if it didnt go from single mom simping to wifes cool boyfriend. I didnt like that push.
/r/MGTOW10/05/21 05:52 AM
3

Like when Pokimane told her chat she only attracts beta men and they all agreed with her.
/r/MGTOW10/05/21 05:50 AM
4

A felon is not going to give a shit if its a women or a man standing in the way of his freedom.
/r/MGTOW08/05/21 09:53 PM
2

Can we please get a mod to ban these bots. Theyre on here all the time making back to back post.
/r/seduction08/05/21 09:41 PM
47

Do a combat sport. Learn that you can be dangerous and youll start respecting yourself and demanding that others respect you. I’ve been doing combat sports all my life. I did it seriously for awhile and then on and off after. At a young age I wasnt scared of confrontation because if it got physical I knew I could defend myself. Another thing to thats repetitive and almost cringe, at this point, is to never say you can’t. As soon as you say you cant you've planted the seed in your mind and have s…
/r/seduction08/05/21 09:40 PM
1

I think humor is a good thing. You should be able to make her laugh or be able to laugh at yourself. I don't think you have the same effect with your skill as someone who can bewitch and hypnotize with their humor. Ive seen the funny guys have a good success rate because they’re used to being the center of attention or the butt of a joke. A guy with good humor and game can captivate the audience and flirt with his target through the jokes he says. While you sit there looking serious.
/r/seduction07/05/21 09:16 PM
2

Its just that a lot of girls give advice that we know doesn't work. Some chick in youtube said if a guy really wants to know her hell pay for her kids babysitter. That it shows investment and his seriousness in her. Fuck them kids.
/r/seduction07/05/21 09:11 PM
1

I noticed the quality of post went to shit after covid hit. I’ve been saying it for awhile now its all the same shit different saying.
/r/seduction06/05/21 03:37 AM
1

Chances are shes going to bale after the date and say she was playing about hooking up after and why did you take it serious. Go out for coffee or drinks and keep it cheap.
/r/seduction06/05/21 03:35 AM
1

The most successful maybe did find ease in their actions but they also had to fail and build themselves back up. They’re not the same person that they were at the start. Through trial and error they’ve created a natural state that they are in now.
/r/seduction05/05/21 09:03 PM
0

I would go against being natural because a lot of guys who come here are probably socially retarded. Its the way they are naturally. Some people will even flat out say they are naturally cringe or weird and refuse to change because thats who they are
/r/seduction05/05/21 08:53 PM
18

A big mistake I see a lot of guys do with gym approaches is closing to early. The few ive seen are; Hey, my name, would you like to go out or some kind of variant. But theres no comfort stage there. She might have never seen you before in the gym and has no clue if you’re some psycho or not. Another thing too, if shes a hot blonde then she probably gets attention from multiple guys. Dont use hey red pants girl as an opener. It was honestly cringe to read and goofey to use for a girl who, at leas…
/r/seduction05/05/21 10:12 AM
2

Thats why people have to work on themselves more than anything. The hardest people to teach game to are the ones who think game alone is going to be enough. They wont be able to read social cues, judge interactions good and overall come off as weird.
/r/seduction05/05/21 09:59 AM
3

Their viking ancestors are rolling in their graves right now.
/r/MGTOW03/05/21 09:31 PM
1

What would these post spamming psychos be doing if reddit wasnt a thing
/r/seduction03/05/21 09:30 PM
1

As a latin man, the latin culture is riddled with single mothers. We constantly joke that they’re more fertile than your average women.
/r/seduction03/05/21 08:41 PM
1

You need percentages and statistics to see if its a minority of men or not. You can start with the percentage of men/women in jail who participated in same sex relations. I dont think peoples sexuality is based on availability but personal psychological preferences.
/r/seduction03/05/21 08:37 PM
10

He ended up hooking with a chick whos slightly bigger. He explained how if she hit the gym shed a solid 10 but she was never about the gym. Long story short he doesnt have his six pack anymore and the belly is starting to pop.
/r/seduction01/05/21 06:46 AM
3

So if im not religious will my life never have meaning? Is living a virtues life im proud of not enough anymore.
/r/seduction01/05/21 03:58 AM
38

I prefer to go after girls I think are 8-10s. Even if it means I might have a dry spell or only be talking to a single girl. i would rather have sex once with a 10 then multiple girls from the bottle of the barrel. I had a buddy who was a good looking guy. He was always in the gym, full beard, looked good but was always chasing bigger girls or just plain ugly girls. Dudes like him are what give those girls high standards they shouldnt have. Im also attracted to a specific characteristic of women…
/r/seduction01/05/21 03:55 AM
1

If its a hard eye contact or maybe even a flirty type, Ill go straight up to them. If its a quick double glance or I can tell shes shy then ill go for a compliment type approach or even an environmental approach. Aka find something around you that you can start a conversation with. If she wants to be approached she will go right along with it.
/r/seduction29/04/21 09:56 PM
3

Tldr: If she does not reciprocate by all means, then you’re chasing. If she’s reciprocating, then you’re pursuing
/r/seduction29/04/21 09:26 PM
1

If I’m making eye contact with someone then I’ll look at their pupils just to see the size of them. I don’t really try to get a good look tho or try to use it as a sign if she’s interested. Ill tend to watch the body language more.
/r/seduction29/04/21 09:25 PM
4

Something I learned, eye contact is basically a womens way of approaching. Combine that with her all of sudden being in your space and its s dead give away.
/r/seduction29/04/21 09:23 PM
1

Yea dating worlds a mess
/r/seduction29/04/21 09:20 PM
85

Nothing wrong with it. Its cheaper in the long run and you can really work on yourself.
/r/seduction28/04/21 09:00 AM
4

For me it comes down to social dynamics. Once you try to help people learn seduction you realize how socially retarded this generation is. A girl could pull a guys dick out and they would be here asking if its a sign.
/r/seduction27/04/21 08:51 PM
18

I dont think thats an unpopular opinion but more of a fact. Some examples, women dont date down, women want a guy who makes more than they do, they want a high value man. A lot of working on yourself is making yourself higher value.
/r/seduction26/04/21 11:59 PM
2

Go to a strip club or a brothel. Sure they’re out for your money but it gives you a chance to interact with women. Since they want your money theyll approach you.
/r/seduction26/04/21 11:57 PM
2

Dont pay for coaches just read online and practice. If you can find another guy who does cold approaches or a natural to teach you then thats even better
/r/seduction26/04/21 10:09 PM
3

Its just a wall of contradictions.
/r/seduction26/04/21 10:07 PM
5

Legally mandated payments for pregnancy, cook, clean, raising kids. Women would single handedly drive us to extinction.
/r/MGTOW26/04/21 09:56 PM
1

Same for me. Bars closed down for about a month but then just went full operational again.
/r/seduction26/04/21 08:47 AM
3

Theres a manga or korean written, idk, called Skill of Lure. It implements real techniques and in story format. Its good to learn basic concepts and I actually read about once a year at least.
/r/seduction26/04/21 08:45 AM
22

Then they blame men for social standards on women.
/r/MGTOW26/04/21 08:40 AM
4

Its pretty much what happen with all the NASA accomplishments. It seems like anything they do a “womens code” was used to do it.
/r/MGTOW26/04/21 08:38 AM
2

I was off social media for a few days because I busy with work. I went back on and literally nothing changed. Same people posting the same crap for validation.
/r/MGTOW26/04/21 08:36 AM
1

I’ve never read them but Dale Carnegie has a couple public speaking books that seem good.
/r/seduction23/04/21 04:41 AM
2

Judging off your past post, the harmonica one, you’re not a bad looking kid. I’ve tried to help worse. Basic advice i give them; get some converse, they look good with pretty much anything, start wearing shirts that fit you, and get some good fitting jeans as well. If you’re not feeling super confident then start hitting the gym or do some form of sport so you start to build some self worth. If you decide to go to college, go walk around the campus before and check out the girls. Unless you can …
/r/seduction23/04/21 04:38 AM
1

Its a preference any man can have. The same way a girl doesnt want to date a short guy, I dont want to date a girl who's nudes, and probably more, are plastered online.
/r/MGTOW23/04/21 04:26 AM
3

I saw one girl had a sub goal of 30 subs and she would unmute the stream. She also had over 200 viewers. She was just sitting there on her phone all quiet.
/r/MGTOW23/04/21 04:21 AM
3

She has 13,000 people watching her and a majority of them are handing her money. For example its 25 dollars to get your name on the whiteboard.
/r/MGTOW23/04/21 04:20 AM
7

I heard he was still posting pictures like he didn’t completely come out.
/r/MGTOW23/04/21 04:17 AM
2

I pretty much never take a wing and prefer to run solo. Most guys who take the roll of wing dont know what they’re doing but will try anyways. Ive lost a good amount of sets like that. Nd if you’re a dude who is often a wing, just watch and listen for the most part. Dont feel like you have to help carry the conversation.
/r/seduction22/04/21 01:28 AM
1

Then you should go ask her out then. The longer you wait for that the sooner shell lose interest.
/r/seduction22/04/21 01:19 AM
1

Honestly I would like at the interactions you’re having with them then. For the most part make sure you’re not coming off as weird or saying weird stuff.
/r/seduction22/04/21 01:19 AM
0

I dont really understand the part where shes looking for the man from last nights date or why shes searching for the lovey dovey guy who left in the morning. He might have been lovey dovey in the morning then had a stressful day at work and wants to unwind in front of the TV with a beer. Its not about her at that moment. She’s complaining that hes not being loving, like he was in the morning, and hes just trying to relax. You said shes waiting for him to revert back to that guy from the morning.…
/r/seduction22/04/21 01:01 AM
1

If you havent started talking to her and all you did was match then get ready for her to unmatch.
/r/seduction22/04/21 12:51 AM
6

Yea cold approach could be successful. Girls have more options and play harder online. I’ve met girls online and thought to myself how much easier it would have been if i cold approached them. Or they wont even be all that cute. Its like all that effort for this.
/r/seduction22/04/21 12:50 AM
2

I think it would have to do with making them feel comfortable with you. They’re more likely to not flake is they feel that it will be a fun experience. Some girls will just use you for validation tho. They love the attention but dont want to go out unless it completely benefits them.
/r/seduction22/04/21 12:48 AM
1

Well originally i started onlyfans for fitness advice but fitting things up my ass paid better. Thats the intended solution for that ad.
/r/MGTOW22/04/21 12:46 AM
3

I’ve seen big bitches in Nevada asking for 1000-1500 for one hour. Another wanted 200 for a lap dance. One wanted 600 for 15 min. These were 5 and 6s. I was surprised people even go to those anymore. This was also just before covid shut everything down.
/r/MGTOW22/04/21 12:43 AM
1

“What type of car do you drive.”
/r/MGTOW21/04/21 10:18 PM
8

10 years from now there’ll be an article written how a land whale learned to love herself due to toxic abuse of a man named Brian. But god forbid Brian starts gaining weight or she starts losing attraction.
/r/MGTOW21/04/21 10:18 PM
1

I would look more into the Mystery Method if you’re just starting for basics. I saw some of the RSD hotseat and thought it was cool but then I realized its very subjective to the set. Not really applicable in majority of set. Not talking random shit even with the right vibes is still random shit. Its not going to get you from A to B.
/r/seduction19/04/21 11:08 PM
3

With all the cuddling and arm stuff going on I would have tried to leave the party with her or try to isolate somewhere alone. Maybe even try to drop her off last to see if you get invited inside could have been another thing to do.
/r/seduction17/04/21 01:23 AM
3

If she can prove residency in that apartment, depending on the state, he cant kick her out.
/r/MGTOW16/04/21 05:37 AM
9

Y’all ever see Skippy on youtube. Hes the walking embodiment of number 1 and hes a creep. But ey if you want to be extremely bold just grab em by the pussy. That outta set the standard for how bad you want to have sex with them.
/r/seduction12/04/21 09:18 PM
1

Something I’ve noticed with RSD or even youtube pick up artist is they always claim to get hot chicks. Chicks that are easily 9/10 but they never prove it. Everyone has a different range when it comes to 9/10s. The girls they have could easily be the 9/10s they were bragging about earlier.
/r/seduction11/04/21 05:11 AM
35

This sub has turned into an information circle. Every post is practically the same but worded differently.
/r/seduction11/04/21 05:08 AM
1

I already forgot it.
/r/seduction11/04/21 05:06 AM
2

Whatd you do to scare her off or what did you say.
/r/seduction09/04/21 04:13 AM
1

I would just leave it. When shes ready to hang out or anything shell message you.
/r/seduction05/04/21 11:01 PM
2

I would pull away and just wait until she hits you up. You might be looking for different things. Sounds like shes getting ready to move on.
/r/seduction05/04/21 09:35 PM
1

I mean I would be freaked out if someone touched the back of my head at a party. Mostly if i didnt see them or it coming.
/r/seduction05/04/21 09:33 PM
1

Just talk and smash both girls without catching feelings
/r/seduction25/03/21 09:56 AM
1

I think the paragraph alone doesnt make much sense without the context of the question asked. It sounds like hes aiming towards men who want to do pick up but dont want to be labeled pua but true males.
/r/seduction14/03/21 01:02 AM
1

I have pretty bad depression and I understand what you mean about the good days having better results. I still try to do the most that I can when Im in a depressive state unless im really in the slump. I normally dont go for high energy game. I keep it low energy while work on keeping eye contact, a smile here and there, and overall make the best of it.
/r/seduction13/03/21 05:28 AM
4

Instead of going to another country why not check out a state with brothels like Nevada. Youll be more likely there to spend at least 300 but itll be safer than a hooker. My buddy visits hookers and spends 80-100 dollars. Ive never seen a hooker i thought was attractive and the thought of them sleeping with anyone who pays keeps me away.
/r/seduction07/03/21 04:22 AM
5

I dont know if i would say its outdated. A lot of pick up techniques i see now are modified Mystery techniques. I have noticed that girls more hesitant to talk to strangers now tho. Ive noticed tho that on cold approach girls need to feel comfortable with you before they give the number. Then on Tinder after like 3 messages theyll give you their number. So it is a changing system.
/r/seduction04/03/21 12:39 AM
1

I think you have to keep in mind that with most infield videos/Tinder lay convos is that they're showing you the times it has worked. I could approach 100 women and them post the 3 times my openers worked best and claim it as a secret opener. I cant think of many people who wouldn’t be creeped out is a stranger asked about their feet.
/r/seduction19/02/21 01:40 AM
2

In the old days pick up that was called amog, Alpha Male of the Group. You can google it for some old time info. If im really interested in the girl then I might not even acknowledge the other guy after a few words. Ill just keep the convo between me and her. If a guy started making fun of me I might call him out on it with something like, “well that was a random thing to say”. Or ask her if she knows him and if she says no then just stand there as if wondering whats he doing there. Depending on…
/r/seduction19/02/21 01:36 AM
5

Just make the first move. Ive always said the hardest part is the first hello. After awhile after the first hello its easier to get the convo going.
/r/seduction19/02/21 01:28 AM
0

Cowards who frequent this forum. Lmao honestly any advice around here that isnt “working” on yourself gets downvoted now.
/r/seduction12/02/21 09:50 PM
11

I feel like shy, mysterious and confident just dont mix well. Sure a shy person might come off as mysterious at first but then just too shy to be mysterious. We’ve all met a shy guy who doesn’t talk much and we don’t say hes mysterious but just shy. A mysterious confident guy is one of those guys who doesnt talk much but when he does its with complete confidence in himself. It makes you wonder where is he getting this confidence from.
/r/seduction12/02/21 09:48 PM
3

2 and 3 could probably be answered best through youtube and reading stuff online. For number 1 I just judge the environment . If everyone is masked up keeping their distance then I probably shouldn't try to open there.
/r/seduction12/02/21 09:43 PM
1

I think for most guys the hardest part is making the approach and saying hi. It was something i really struggled with but if you make it past that part then you might as well keep it going.
/r/seduction12/02/21 03:10 AM
1

You dont always have to be dominate or “hold frame” in every situation. If your girl ask for water then just get it for her. Shes your girl she’ll appreciate it. If she says i dont like your haircut then ask her why. Maybe it doesnt fit your face or head type or maybe shes just being a bitch.
/r/seduction12/02/21 12:38 AM
4

If you see a guy you like then approach him or make yourself easy for him to approach. When I pass on a girl its because I dont think she wants to be approached or I approached and she seemed uninterested.
/r/seduction12/02/21 12:35 AM
1

I think the first two steps are more bad than good. The hardest part for most people is the approach. If you’re already making the approach then just stay and learn from it.
/r/seduction12/02/21 12:31 AM
3

With the lockdowns a lot of reddit has changed including this subreddit. I had posted FR comments and been told im lying. Then theres no shit post being up voted. At the moment its really the blind leading the blind.
/r/seduction10/02/21 01:23 AM
2

I dont have any books but if you want to use social media to get girls then build an exciting profile.
/r/seduction10/02/21 01:20 AM
0

Flirt a lot throughout the night, keep the sexual tension going, and come off as a fun dude
/r/seduction02/02/21 07:34 AM
1

If the glasses bother you try getting contacts or asking for advice on good fitting glasses. When i got my glasses i asked the receptionist if she could help me pick some that compliment my face.
/r/seduction02/02/21 07:32 AM
1

I just hate the concept in dating apps. I need to have; a great bio, all great pictures, a great opening that stands out, and then go for an early close to try and get a meet up. All the while the girl does nothing. They know this because as soon as you stop responding to their short answer they try start to actually respond and a good looking girl doesnt even have to respond.
/r/seduction07/01/21 03:14 AM
2

That was the main reason I never got into RSD. A lot of their techniques or breakdowns were situation specific and didn’t actually have much going for it.
/r/seduction01/01/21 02:55 AM
19

Find a goal in life and chase after. No matter how big it may seem. Working a 9-5 with 2 days off because it pays the bills is worse than death.
/r/askTRP31/12/20 12:24 PM
3

You’re in the wrong subreddit. You need help with different issues.
/r/seduction31/12/20 07:27 AM
1

Don’t go into it expecting your dating life to blossom all of a sudden. The worlds a lot tougher on guys.
/r/seduction31/12/20 07:24 AM
6

I just want to add on the “he was a loser”. The way people carry themselves by walking or posture add to it. You can tell by the way people walk or stand that life fucked them and they took it. Carry yourself to higher standard. They’ll know that even if life is fucking you, you’re not just bending over taking it.
/r/seduction29/12/20 10:43 AM
3

Yea completely agree with your final statement there.
/r/seduction27/12/20 08:14 AM
3

I think advice from anyone could be good to a certain extent. My high school buddies used to crack jokes about not inviting me to parties because I’ll go after the beat girl or not to bring their girls around me cuz I’ll take them. They considered me an easy going ladies man but it wasn’t always like and it still isn’t. I think if they asked me for help they would surprised how much I know about pick up and how unnatural I really am.
/r/seduction27/12/20 05:29 AM
66

I’ve noticed that even if I don’t confirm it the day before she’ll text me to confirm it. I never looked to into it or thought of it as needy. I just took it as something people do.
/r/seduction27/12/20 05:25 AM
1

I think they like it when a man isn’t afraid to show his sexuality or isn’t afraid to be extra flirty but you can’t be coming off as a desperate horny virgin.
/r/seduction17/12/20 11:18 PM
1

So water is wet?
/r/seduction17/12/20 02:00 AM
1

This is the answer right here. No one wants to be approached by someone who’s socially retarded or awkward.
/r/seduction09/12/20 07:27 PM
1

I’m pretty sure if you get gold you can match with them. My buddy got gold during a discount run and he still didn’t get laid. He said it was basically the same thing as a hassle to cancel
/r/seduction23/11/20 10:47 AM
1

The only issue with what you’re saying is that you’re not going to be happy in the long run. As an introvert I used to go to clubs all the time when I was with a girl who loved clubbing. Some weekends, and most weekdays, I would stay and she would go out. If I ended up with her long term, there’s no way we would both be happy. You do things you enjoy and build circles based off that. If you like daily walks then keep doing daily walks.
/r/seduction23/11/20 10:46 AM
2

Free cheese is only found on a mouse trap
/r/seduction23/11/20 10:26 AM
1

So I should go to a sports bar and like for NFL chads screaming at the TV lol
/r/seduction06/11/20 05:58 AM
2

I guess I’m short just show confidence by owning your shit instead of covering up constantly for it
/r/seduction05/11/20 08:24 AM
4

It’s just a numbers game really. The broke guy has multiple women because he approaches/ talks to multiple women. You don’t need to be your best self with a house and a nice car to attract women. I used to have an old pick up truck and tell girls it’s because I’m big country, when I’m clearly not country at all. My one bedroom place, I called my crack shack. There’s going to be some girls who care about the materialistic but most wont and you can tell between the two. So I wouldn’t wait until yo…
/r/seduction05/11/20 08:00 AM
1

The basics; don’t drink any calories or keep it as low as you can. Cut out junk food and start watching calories on products. I try to weigh the options of will it get me full or is it a snack. If it’s a snack I look at the calories and decided if it’s worth it as a snack. The other day I saw a honey bun that looked kinda good and then saw it was 500 calories. I could easily eat a couple of those on a sitting. So kinda look at calories and ask yourself is 3 cookies worth 150 calories to you.
/r/seduction04/11/20 10:47 AM
4

If you’re not going out because of COVID then I would use this time to work on yourself. Start doing some home workouts even if it’s just 30 min or try to get a walking schedule going. Clean up the dirty calories and get your diet in check too
/r/seduction03/11/20 05:26 AM
1

I always say, when it comes to women, be your cool self. Leave all the other stuff for after attraction is built
/r/seduction03/11/20 03:42 AM
1

It’s really dependent on the guys taste of scent. I prefer the cheap stripper fruity lotion over the classy night out
/r/seduction01/11/20 03:40 AM
1

Increase approach numbers and try different openers. Can’t make it into the talking stage if you never talk to them
/r/seduction16/10/20 10:50 PM
7

I read about half the book and honestly didn’t like it. I really like the Nice Guy testimony’s but didn’t feel like I could relate to anything in it. Then started to feel like it was the same message said in different ways. Which isn’t necessary a bad thing I guess
/r/seduction11/10/20 12:56 AM
1

This is one of those depends on the guy question. Some guys will want you to be straight forward and other will be intimidated by that
/r/seduction09/10/20 09:47 AM
2

I did that for a few month and then went back and cleaned it up. I unfollowed all the girls I didn’t know, meme pages that were retarded/ ad pages for girls, and just kept friends or hobby related pages. I like this for now because I feel like I’m not consuming stupid shit or having my expectations altered by some fake insta model who looks nothing like her pics
/r/seduction09/10/20 09:42 AM
5

I go based off body language and IOI. If it seems good I’ll do the approach if not I won’t. Success rate is down tho
/r/seduction07/10/20 05:18 PM
2

I wouldn’t message her on Fb unless it was last resort. I would just do an approach at the school when she doesn’t look busy. Even just small talk to get her to notice you
/r/seduction07/10/20 05:17 PM
2

I think Instagram would do more bad for you. In a way it’s the validation from the comments and post that keep people posting. It sounds like you’ll be receptive to likes and comments more than just posting
/r/seduction07/10/20 05:12 PM
10

Look into using sleepy/bedroom eye style contact. My normal eye contact is more open eyed and serious, so my normal everyday eye contact. Women get the sleepy eyed with a smirk eye contact
/r/seduction07/10/20 05:06 PM
6

Just back off a bit and see if she reaches out to you
/r/seduction29/09/20 07:04 PM
2

If he has the same interest then start with one of those.
/r/seduction29/09/20 07:37 AM
1

I think there’s a lot of incels here now, who are living through the post or they find a reason in the post as to why it worked. It’s like they have to be convinced that it actually happened instead of taking information from the post itself
/r/seduction25/09/20 03:24 PM
1

Not even saying anything but work on facial expressions. There was a guy who would look at you like he wanted to kill you. He would have this same expression when approaching girls and then wonder why they rejected him
/r/seduction25/09/20 03:21 PM
5

Idk man, this just doesn’t sound like it’s it. If a girl says she’s not interested just take her word for it. She can approach you later if she wants or make herself approachable
/r/seduction25/09/20 03:19 PM
5

I started with the basic Mystery Method on YouTube. From there I pretty much only watch Todd Valentine on youtube. He’s quick to the point and he’s about picking up women without the self help fluff. I suggest watching and picking what you like. It’s not a master plan that always works but you can start building one
/r/seduction15/09/20 03:09 AM
1

That’s a good start.
/r/seduction15/09/20 03:07 AM
2

I think you should tell her if she wants to go out when you’re back in her area and then go based off her response. If she says yes, then text her when you’re back and if she says no, then don’t respond to her
/r/seduction15/09/20 03:05 AM
1

For the bf response you never know. They could have a bf or maybe seeing someone. I can’t say much since I don’t know the convo itself but right off the bat it should be man to women, so she knows you’re interested in her. Then get some comfort going so she knows you won’t stalk and kill her.
/r/seduction15/09/20 03:04 AM
2

Look up and study cold approach. I did tinder for like a month and went back to cold approach.
/r/seduction15/09/20 03:00 AM
2

But we can change are physical appearance by going to the gym and losing body fat while gaining muscle.
/r/seduction10/09/20 05:30 AM
1

Post a pic with your post.
/r/seduction10/09/20 05:29 AM
2

I think it’s true for guys who don’t have much experience with women or game. If a girl opens you then you’re practically in it already unless you mess it up good. The I like Japanese food isn’t being direct or obvious, it’s a just what they like.
/r/seduction10/09/20 05:28 AM
1

I really only do approaches to girls who show me IOI or if the opportunity just seems to good to pass up. I’ve seen people freak out for not keeping their distance and I’m not trying to end up in that situation
/r/seduction10/09/20 05:25 AM
3

I’d say it’s more difficult now with COVID than it was before. I’ve noticed some PUA on YouTube not uploading as frequently either. I’ve been more picky with who I approach and where now.
/r/seduction10/09/20 05:23 AM
3

Haven’t seen a post this good in awhile
/r/seduction08/09/20 10:08 PM
24

If a girl only has her social media or something like, I’m not active in here add me on—-, I always swipe left.
/r/seduction07/09/20 01:40 AM
1

I would just let it go and see what she wants. It could be a quick hookup
/r/seduction05/09/20 09:22 AM
4

The only thing I don’t like about this is that there has to be a connection and she has to be equally invested. Someone’s going to turn to this when the girl isn’t being responsive, when they should just be walking away.
/r/seduction04/09/20 03:19 AM
1

I don’t do cold approaches as common as I used to now with the whole corona thing. I mostly watch for IOI and then approach those that show it.
/r/seduction03/09/20 05:15 AM
1

I think if you want a gf you should be some what more active to get one. I remember a therapist asked me about my past relationships and I told him I really don’t date. I prefer to work on myself and he told me it was because I don’t put myself out there and expect to randomly meet a girl one day. So I started cold approach because he was right.
/r/seduction03/09/20 01:39 AM
1

I normally just find a reason to talk to them and then just approach before I even have time to think it over or hesitate.
/r/seduction01/09/20 09:45 AM
2

It’s suppose to be a sign of attraction but could just be the lighting of the room
/r/seduction01/09/20 04:29 AM
1

Like someone else said she’s not interested. She even said in the future hoping to be less busy in Friday but didn’t even say how long or nothing.
/r/seduction01/09/20 04:28 AM
0

I go against the be yourself advice and say be your cool self instead. You have a solid list of hobbies so nothing to worry about.
/r/seduction01/09/20 04:24 AM
46

This concept has been around for awhile already. It’s also in the way that women want guys to open up to them. Except guys aren’t used to opening up, so making themselves vulnerable also makes them grow attachments.
/r/seduction31/08/20 01:40 AM
6

I wouldn’t go to that bar anymore. I went to a bar where we had to be 6ft from the counter and then 6ft from each other. Place was lonely. Then there was a bar like a block down where people were all having a good time drinking beer. I opened a two set there after a guy striked out.
/r/seduction30/08/20 04:23 AM
2

I assume that 80% of the shit people say is made up unless they can back it up. It’s always the dudes who make move in silence who are genuine and the dudes boasting are full of shit. If they’re boasting tell them to setup a double date or get some girls for a night of drinks.
/r/seduction30/08/20 04:09 AM
1

Girls like it when it sex happens “spontaneously” or “it wasn’t planned it just happened”. Seems like it was more on her part that she ghosted you. I would suggest doing more approaches and seeing it as a numbers game.
/r/seduction30/08/20 03:54 AM
1

How’d the sex conversation come up on that date?
/r/seduction30/08/20 03:48 AM
1

I get sick of the chase when it’s a girl who kinda cute. If she plays too much tho I’ll just stop chasing. Is there a common issue that you notice? Have you ever taken a girl back home or gone to their place?
/r/seduction30/08/20 03:32 AM
3

I think seduction started in the days of Casanova and PUA started with a magician and a silly hat
/r/seduction30/08/20 02:36 AM
3

I honestly don’t know what happen when Harry met sally. I do know tho that if you don’t confess your feelings you will always be living with the thoughts of what could have been.
/r/seduction26/08/20 08:54 AM
1

FAQ is this??
/r/seduction26/08/20 08:44 AM
16

It just has to do with flirting for the most part. I wouldn’t go to wild with it because sexual tension is best used when you’re face to face.
/r/seduction26/08/20 08:43 AM
3

I don’t have much advice to offer. Except just go for it. If she has her life under control she won’t just move over to go see you but if she doesn’t she will. You’ve had a crush on her for years just tell her your feelings. Even if she says no you’ll get over it and find someone else
/r/seduction26/08/20 08:43 AM
0

I have a dating app but I despise it. It puts the ball in the women’s court no matter what she looks like. You have to have a good first pic, bio, opener, and convo while she just gets dragged along. Cold approach is a way better thing to do. It’s harder at first but easier on the long run.
/r/seduction25/08/20 02:02 AM
2

My main advice for anyone who wants help “getting a/the girl”, is read material online. There’s a bunch of post on here you can read or even just google for stuff. I rarely answer how to get girls post because a simple look up would give you an answer
/r/seduction25/08/20 01:59 AM
1

If she doesn’t want to drink she doesn’t have to or maybe she doesn’t feel comfortable drinking with you yet. Not texting anything back could be nothing also. I think you’re just looking to deep into it.
/r/seduction25/08/20 01:58 AM
1

Yea it’s best to work faster in that situation but it’ll be a little harder too. Going for a Snapchat/social media would be easier but wouldn’t be as good of a sign like getting her number. For the most part just talk to her and if she responds postitive, conversation going good, then ask her for the number
/r/seduction23/08/20 01:53 AM
1

I’ve done more cold approach then anything over text and I’ve just grown to not like text game even more. It’s so much easier to have a conversation flow when it’s face to face than over text. There’s more variables you can’t control over text game especially if she’s a shy girl. A lot of girls expect guys to hold a whole conversation over text while they put little effort. When it’s face to face it’s equal effort or I’m gone. Even during text if I’m short answered/one worded I’ll leave them on …
/r/seduction23/08/20 01:51 AM
-1

A win for a women could come in many forms. Being more attractive than her, a win, making more money than her, a win. The active social life and good money are easy examples of wining but girls also want someone they can depend on and who will their rock. So that’s also a win. Pretty much a win comes in many forms
/r/seduction23/08/20 01:45 AM
4

Just ask her what area she works in or how if she likes what she does there. Just talk to her with the intent of being friendly
/r/seduction23/08/20 01:42 AM
6

No one should buy any courses or books sold by PUA. They’re way to expensive when you could find all the general knowledge you need online.
/r/seduction23/08/20 01:41 AM
2

Best thing you can do is find yourself a new women. I would go and find a couple of them
/r/seduction21/08/20 11:57 PM
2

Like someone else said the first girl spuld have been last minute resisting or maybe needed more sexual tension. The second date you didn’t have her comfortable enough yet and tried getting straight to seduction. 3rd girl there just wasn’t a connection by the sounds of it and the 4th you needed more escalation
/r/seduction21/08/20 11:53 PM
2

Honestly it’s hard to give advice because it’s a broad area that you’re talking about. How has a date gone or do the girls ghost you or reject you. If I’m trying to just sleep with a girl I’ll be flirty and playful. If I want a gf I’ll be more caring and slow
/r/seduction21/08/20 04:49 AM
1

I would say for men it’s physical and for women it’s emotional. They want someone they can depend on and make them feel emotions
/r/seduction21/08/20 04:43 AM
3

They act like pickup makes people into psycho black magic seduction masters.
/r/seduction21/08/20 12:09 AM
3

It’s almost the same as opening a 2 set with one ugly girl and one hot girl.
/r/seduction19/08/20 07:49 AM
2

I try to judge her interest in me and how Comfortable she seems to be with me. If she messages and she’s reciprocating good to my flirting then I ask her on a date. Different methods for different people. I know one guy who’s first message is asking if they’re thicc.
/r/seduction19/08/20 07:47 AM
1

Like someone else said, women love talking about themselves so that’s a good start. I try not to go into anything deep but keep a flirty/playful attitude
/r/seduction19/08/20 01:08 AM
3

I can’t believe there’s a generation who doesn’t know what PYT means.
/r/seduction19/08/20 01:07 AM
5

Bangers a must. If she doesn’t feel happy knowing you’re not a psycho she won’t message back or meet up. You need that comfort level
/r/seduction19/08/20 01:06 AM
2

I think experience is what dictates a lot of this. You can tell when it’s someone who wishes a guy would do that for them, or they think that’s what a guy should do, or it’s actually something a guy did. I don’t think I’ve ever a girl give me real world experience that actually worked.
/r/seduction16/08/20 09:03 PM
1

Don’t be so dependent on the outcome of the date. Come to terms with the fact that you might be awkward for the first date since you’ve been out for so long.
/r/seduction13/08/20 08:20 AM
1

I think the housing in that area is pricey for even just a small shack of a home. It’s especially costly if you want it to be close enough to game at. LA you would find a bunch of different women. You should try planning a trip out there to see what the game life is like
/r/seduction13/08/20 08:19 AM
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I don’t know if I would consider your friend to be a successful guy. He seems like a creep who wanders that hostel until a girl decides to go home with him. I always say I prefer quality over quantity
/r/seduction13/08/20 08:17 AM
2

I think most guys would like being approached by girls. It’s definitely a confidence booster. I wouldn’t say it’s bad to approach an employee depending on the setting and what they are doing. For the most part everything is the same for the pick up. If a guy you like makes eye contact throw him a smile. That’s the easiest way to let them know your interested. If a guy looks and smiles at you that means he’s interested. I mean really a lot of the stuff here towards women can be used for guys as w…
/r/seduction13/08/20 08:12 AM
1

Idk maybe read the top post on here, maybe read around the about page. Find some videos on YouTube to watch and learn from.
/r/seduction12/08/20 09:27 PM
1

Honestly, any girl who locks eyes with me for more than a second will get a smile. Based off her reaction I decide if I will do the approach or not.
/r/seduction02/08/20 08:58 AM
4

The way to fix it is to talk to more girls. Being funny is a good thing but you also have to be flirt. If you’re not flirty then you won’t get passed the funny
/r/seduction02/08/20 08:55 AM
1

It could be an excuse. If you’re constantly putting yourself down or not doing approaches because you want to improve or be at 100 percent, then it’s an excuse. You should be working on yourself while also practicing game
/r/seduction02/08/20 08:53 AM
1

I think to a certain extent but not really. Women are more responsive to emotional stuff and it’s harder to set that up through text messages it without it running dry.
/r/seduction31/07/20 09:22 PM
1

I’ve been chased before but something I’ve noticed is I get chased by girls I don’t think are cute or they are cute but wouldn’t be someone I would chase. Even then it’s not like I get chased a couple times a month, it’s like once or twice a year
/r/seduction31/07/20 06:09 AM
3

A lot of the guys asking for tinder lines or DM openers don’t even need seduction. They need to improve their social skills in general. I try to help people out but there’s so many that just come off as retarded.
/r/seduction31/07/20 06:07 AM
1

You need to work on learning your own self value. No talking period because you didn’t walk fast enough into the store. She’d be walking right outta my life and it better be fast.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/20 11:44 PM
7

I was going through tinder with the same standards girls hold on guys. They have no clue how hard tinder is for guys.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/20 04:44 AM
17

I think it’s funny how guys first picture has to be good, the bio has to be good, the opening has to be good. Then girls just post a first bikini pic, some copy paste bio that every other girl has but she’ll get likes anyways.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/20 09:17 PM
1

Who was attacked right after? He says guys who domestically abused her?
/r/seduction26/07/20 02:40 AM
8

Honestly if a girls wearing a mask I wouldn’t do an approach unless she practically puts me in the spot for it.
/r/seduction26/07/20 02:26 AM
1

So you went up to her then she was attacked by a group of men??
/r/seduction26/07/20 02:25 AM
1

I don’t know why I never thought about my burner account and personal account being connected together. It wouldn’t even be that hard with the right data.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/20 08:32 AM
2

Try being more friendly and less flirty. You want to come off as a guy who is fun to talk to and isn’t some creep. It shouldn’t come off that your intention is to primarily have sex. It should be more to hang out, have a good time and if that leads to sex then that’s good too
/r/seduction21/07/20 07:44 AM
6

In a party situation it’s best to get her alone or at least away from the majority of the party. A girl is more likely to be defensive with a party group around since it could lead to slut shaming. To get a make out keep good eye contact, sexual tension, and get in her comfort zone. When I would talk to girls at parties I would lean in when they were talking to hear better but to also have them be more comfortable with me being closer. Or if I’m showing her something on my phone/her to me, I’ll …
/r/seduction21/07/20 07:38 AM
2

They don’t upvote threads like this because they don’t offer anything of value. A noob will read this and still feel scared to make the approach. I guarantee there’s a guy out there who got depressed after not making an approach thinking how that could have been the one. Then chances are she wasn’t anyways.
/r/seduction21/07/20 07:34 AM
1

Doesn’t really come off as bold confidence to me. If you had told them straight up that you wanted a date, then given a time and place, that’s confidence. On the first girl you kinda blew it the day she was all into you. A girl will be all into you one night and then if she thinks you’re rejecting her advance she’ll convince herself to reject you first. I’d almost say you’re not making the girls comfortable enough to want to hang out or even missing some attraction. In short you need both to get…
/r/seduction21/07/20 07:32 AM
4

No. She’s not that busy
/r/seduction21/07/20 01:27 AM
236

I’ve met some people so socially retarded that the chick could be blowing them and they would still be posting.
/r/seduction20/07/20 06:57 AM
1

Honestly any one who has experience with girls will be able to see what you’re doing. You could go for low energy game and keeP it simple but it’ll still be pretty obvious depending in the area. Try going to the club with her again and do some escalation there. You should try and keep in touch some so she doesn’t forget about you/lose interest
/r/seduction03/07/20 05:15 AM
1

Don’t believe the you tuber stuff. They could film 1k approaches and only show the ones that make em look like sex gods. I would say 5/10 times
/r/seduction01/07/20 09:20 AM
2

That’s simple his looks.
/r/seduction19/06/20 10:52 PM
2

Honestly it’ll probably be better to find the blog of a PUA or even a dating coach. Another pick up forum would just consist of more guys looking for advice on a girl or giving shit advice.
/r/seduction14/06/20 04:27 AM
18

Take it slow. I’ve had girls just slobber on my face while kissing and it’s like yo slow it down. Even during a make out session you shouldn’t be trying to swallow the persons face. It should be lips to lips not lips to face.
/r/seduction14/06/20 03:33 AM
1

The only thing I don’t like about mutual friends is that the privacy is kinda gone. Then you can only do it a couple times before you’re known as the person who keeps trying to hook up with friends
/r/seduction14/06/20 03:31 AM
2

Do a fighting sport and remember that your goal is to realize your worth for yourself and not women.
/r/seduction14/06/20 03:29 AM
1

Do a little of both. If you see a girl at the bar or on the dance floor make a move. Also switch it up on days and see which one gets you more results
/r/seduction14/06/20 03:28 AM
1

Yes it opens social opportunities and increases your social circle
/r/seduction14/06/20 03:27 AM
2

That was my issue with trying to help people learn game. Some people were so socially retarded that no game would ever help them.
/r/seduction06/06/20 10:23 PM
1

Get some blue jeans or black jeans, some converse and keep your t shirts. That’s a basic start to look good and create a style.
/r/seduction03/06/20 03:10 AM
2

I’m not as actively looking for opportunities to approach like before but if it presents it self or I think the girls a catch I’ll make the approach
/r/seduction02/06/20 08:50 AM
1

Start small with compliments. You can tell her she looks cute or something like, “wow talk about sexy”. Stuff that sexualizes the conversation
/r/seduction01/06/20 06:45 AM
5

I’ve tried online dating and I’m pretty against it. It’s demoralizing for men and great for women. After a few month I was feeling like I wasn’t the catch I was before and then getting off and looking for girls in the streets really brought me back
/r/seduction01/06/20 03:39 AM
1

Ask her out. It’s seems hard to do right now but in the long run you’ll regret not asking her.
/r/seduction01/06/20 03:37 AM
1

Start by flirting over messages and letting the girls know that you see them in a sexual way. The back and forth flirting is what leads to sexting.
/r/seduction01/06/20 03:36 AM
1

Find an area that has sugar daddies and then look attractive is really it. Act really happy when ever they buy you stuff so they keep trying to make you happy or get laid
/r/seduction01/06/20 03:35 AM
2

No contact won’t work if she can’t see how much your improving as a person but if it’s about “winning” her back I suggest you don’t do it. She’s not the lasting prize.
/r/seduction01/06/20 03:34 AM
2

Isn’t the age of consent in London 16 tho. So she’s only a minor in areas where the age of consent is over 16.
/r/seduction31/05/20 10:56 PM
2

The no contact rule would work if you have her on social media and she notices how much improvement you’re making to yourself. She’ll convince herself that your the one that got away
/r/seduction31/05/20 10:52 PM
1

B) your friend was getting shit tested he should have responded back with something playful. Then for A) you should keep the conversation going with an indirect opening or observation.
/r/seduction31/05/20 10:51 PM
46

You shouldn’t want to look good for a women. With that mentality of course it wouldn’t end good. Go to the gym because you want to look better and be in better shape not for a women. Then you won’t be doing for anyone but yourself
/r/seduction31/05/20 05:12 AM
2

I would say that not every relationship has to work out. A lot of people start dating and start to believe that they’ve found “the one”. You just started dating so you’ll have plenty of chances to meet other people. Don’t feel like you have to make it work to settle down if it isn’t
/r/seduction26/05/20 06:48 PM
1

Start by reading everything on the about page and really get an idea as to what game is.
/r/seduction23/05/20 12:49 AM
1

Try using a whole different opener and see if you get different answers to it. It could also be tho that you’re asking for the number/date too soon. If they a women doesn’t feel comfortable with you then she’ll go for the bf card(if she doesn’t have one).
/r/seduction23/05/20 12:47 AM
1

I’m waiting it out for a little bit longer. Unless a situation comes up where it’s an easy opener then I’ll go for it.
/r/seduction23/05/20 12:45 AM
3

I love his stuff but damn those videos are random. There like cut offs before the start of a porno.
/r/seduction10/05/20 03:24 AM
1

I read the whole article, I wouldn’t say you’re talking about an unpopular opinion. A lot of the points you presented are brought up anytime anyone argues why porn is bad. The first half of the article I thought was a feminists view on porn. I thought it was kinda strange then noticed you’re a girl and it made more sense.
/r/seduction07/05/20 03:28 AM
5

I was 19 maybe, I was in college when I first started. You can’t really be late to the game and you lose nothing from starting at any point. You might have missed some experiences but nothing wrong with 23
/r/seduction05/05/20 11:58 PM
1

The last compliment I got from a girl, “nice ass”. I was at a car dismantling sight
/r/seduction30/04/20 02:35 AM
1

Once it passes over then it’ll all be back to normal approaches. Yea there might be some changes or modifications to approaches but it won’t be to different. I’m willing to bet people thought the same thing when cell phones were introduced and then again with the rise of social networks.
/r/seduction30/04/20 02:30 AM
3

Just go with something like, “ I think you’re interesting I’d like to get to know you more.” Or something along those lines. That shows your interested but it does keep the man to women on the low.
/r/seduction08/04/20 05:13 AM
5

Pretty sure it’s a psychological issue at this point.
/r/seduction08/04/20 03:08 AM
2

He used to post it all over reddit on multiple accounts. Then he vanished for a couple month and came back
/r/seduction08/04/20 01:52 AM
3

While your here, I always wondered why didn’t have a stupid questions style thread/post. So people could post there unicorn love problems or whatever
/r/seduction07/04/20 04:37 AM
3

I would say by judging the sexual tension/flirting. If it’s non existent then you’re in the friend zone.
/r/seduction01/04/20 07:06 AM
5

I’ve used a few dating apps and i think it’s just all for self validation, especially for women.
/r/seduction01/04/20 07:03 AM
1

In a place like NYC you could approach 100 women, look weird in all situations, and they would forget about you by the next day. It would also have no social impact because of how big the place is.
/r/seduction29/03/20 08:54 PM
1

Definitely agree with you, no women is worth that trouble but every man should be confident on holding their own. People who know how to fight are less likely to fight and are better at remaining calm in tense situations.
/r/seduction29/03/20 05:55 AM
1

Do it just to show yourself that you can be dangerous and feel more confident in a fighting situation
/r/seduction29/03/20 05:34 AM
1

Do you honestly take a bio into consideration or are you swiping based of the first picture alone. Also would you say you’re using the app for validation purposes rather than to date/hookup, and if so do you think a majority of women have any intent to meet any men on there
/r/seduction27/03/20 10:03 PM
1

Oh. I just wanted some insight on the other side of stuff
/r/seduction27/03/20 09:10 PM
1

Only way any of these tips work is if you get a match and a response back
/r/seduction27/03/20 08:56 PM
1

Do you have tinder? And if so how many matches/ people Like you(?) do you have?
/r/seduction27/03/20 08:55 PM
4

Yes a lot fatter
/r/seduction26/03/20 11:03 PM
1

Even at 50 percent off its way to expensive. Read The Mystery Method online instead. Then use that money you saved to go out
/r/seduction26/03/20 10:56 PM
2

You got fat
/r/seduction26/03/20 10:53 PM
1

I either suggest or just say. I never really ask if she wants to
/r/seduction26/03/20 10:53 PM
1

This wouldn’t work. I’ve been in situations where they know more people, there better looking, and there bigger but still dominate the conversation. Someone with confidence and social skills will dominate the group by ignoring you. There not trying to seduce you but more likely a girl in the group. So just open the whole group, show your a cool guy, switch the convo between you and the girl you’re into, then make it about you and her.
/r/seduction25/03/20 01:03 AM
1

It sounds like a solid plan honestly. I would go and mention it as a date if your looking for that man to women relationship and not just friendship.
/r/seduction25/03/20 12:59 AM
1

I think under the right circumstances it might work but not really walking around. For example, at a store that has the 6ft markings for check out lines. Social distances would make since and be seen as normal. But on the street doing an approach from a distance would be kinda awkward and you’ll have to eventually close that distance to keep the convo going
/r/seduction25/03/20 12:57 AM
2

I think it has to do with the social stigma and the view of pick up now. It’s not as accepted and is viewed more as rapey. There’s too much controversy involved and I think they’d rather stay away
/r/seduction25/03/20 12:55 AM
1

He used to post this everyday in different account names, I was wondering what happen to you
/r/seduction25/03/20 12:53 AM
1

Exactly.
/r/seduction23/03/20 10:39 PM
1

19 years old is not your peak. It’s no where near it. Also don’t be afraid to get a job and hit the gym. A GF is going to magically knock on your door one day. You have to put yourself out there and make yourself available
/r/seduction23/03/20 10:38 PM
2

I won’t disqualify myself until I know for a fact she has a bf. She’s open game until she tells you she’s not.
/r/seduction23/03/20 10:36 PM
2

You’re not too off so I wouldn’t bring it up honestly. She might even be taller than she says and downed it to make herself seem shorter. I wouldn’t say anything unless she says something first. Then I would say something about her being over 5’11
/r/seduction23/03/20 10:31 PM
30

Just to kinda add on to your post as well; for younger people who play video games, get a mic. Talk to people in the lobbies.
/r/seduction23/03/20 10:29 PM
2

If anyone here is interested in comics or manga style art work. There’s one called Skill of Lure. It uses real game technique while telling the story of a guy who wants to be loved. I think it’s relatable to most young guys entering the dating scene and explains a lot of techniques pretty good. I always reread it
/r/seduction16/03/20 08:49 AM
6

Hotter girls are used to being hit on. If you talk to a 7+the same way to talk to a 5 it won’t work.
/r/askTRP13/03/20 03:56 AM
1

Nothing wrong with it in moderation. Also why’d you like cam girls for. Always seemed like a rip off to me
/r/askTRP13/03/20 03:52 AM
1

Outcome dependence is such a good mindset to have and could easily improve anyone’s game
/r/TheRedPill11/03/20 09:34 PM
1

I remember I went it a party once and it was a total sausage fest. It was all dudes and two girls. One of those girls was kinda ugly and pretty drunk so everybody was trying to hit in the second girl. Everyone was jumping at her with conversation, me included. Then I decided to take a step back and pretended like I wasn’t even interested in talking to her. I did this for about an hour and ended up number closing her later. Acting uninterested makes her wonder why you’re not and can bring her tow…
/r/seduction21/02/20 04:40 AM
1

If you’re still in school then make yourself known and talk to everybody. That’ll increase your chances instantly. Don’t bind down to one group.
/r/seduction21/02/20 04:33 AM
3

Like someone else said it about not caring and doing it fastest enough that your mind can’t cause you to back down
/r/seduction28/01/20 06:49 AM
2

That’s weird to me becuase I always felt like caffeine made me way more talkative
/r/seduction28/01/20 06:48 AM
1

Don’t they have those bar/club style things where you pay and talk to a certain girl? If they had those in america I would go to practice being talking and flirting with the girls there.
/r/seduction25/01/20 01:54 AM
2

I wouldn’t say everyone knows about game. I don’t think any of my close friends would be able to answer and multiple choice questions. I think older men know more about it due to is popularlity at one point but not now
/r/seduction25/01/20 01:52 AM
1

If you’re feeling overwhelmed in a nightclub then go outside and get some fresh air. Clear your mind, try to hype yourself up and go back in. If you approach while overwhelmed your going to mess up now matter how many approaches you do
/r/seduction25/01/20 01:50 AM
3

You might be shy in front of your mates. Next time you have a girl with you like that and your around other people. Isolate her so it’s only you and her alone. This way if you do make the wrong move it’ll be away from people. But if she’s that invested in you already you’d have to do something pretty dumb to have her walk away
/r/seduction22/01/20 02:29 AM
7

Sounds like your not showing sexual interest in the girls. If she’s jumping all over you and everyone is noticing it but your still not closing, then she’s probably feeling like your not interested in her. Like some else said create that physical contact and also create sexual tension
/r/seduction22/01/20 02:19 AM
1

It’s because one time stoppers come in looking for a magic pill that’ll teach them how to get laid with any girl. There not interested in reading and learning what works for them. So all these new coaches read the material and set there lures out to catch
/r/seduction21/01/20 11:49 PM
1

It’ll only hold you back if you let it. I’m the shorter side and like 20 pounds lighter than you. I’ll approach any girl that catches my interest and honestly my height and weight are the last things on my mind
/r/seduction28/12/19 08:21 PM
1

My buddy used to say that military girls go around. He always said to stay away from them. So I’m guessing you could
/r/seduction27/12/19 05:14 AM
3

Try different openers. Some girls have responded good when I just type hey and other don’t respond even if your picking something out from their bio
/r/seduction27/12/19 05:13 AM
1

Creepy. I don’t see how it would be faster and easier for a man. If I saw a girl attractive enough to make me want to drive up to her and game, I’d just park the car and approach
/r/seduction27/12/19 05:12 AM
3

I don’t think it’s needy. I think it becomes needy when your desperately going and practically begging the girls to talk to you
/r/seduction27/12/19 05:10 AM
2

Who’s infields do you watch
/r/seduction15/12/19 10:34 PM
6

I worked with a guy who literally did this. It worked well for him and he got a few numbers but was eventually fired for sexual harassment
/r/seduction27/11/19 02:08 AM
1

This is fucken retarded
/r/seduction22/11/19 04:56 AM
1

Honestly tho this sub has a lot of dumbass wanna be dating coaches. There’s so much stupid shit in post
/r/seduction22/11/19 04:52 AM
1

It’s completely up to you if you don’t or do
/r/seduction19/11/19 12:32 AM
3

You’re a good looking dude going off your previous post. Just have some confidence and go for it. If she’s with her friends and she looks at you then tell her, hey can I talk to you alone for a second. If you find her alone start with small talk and lead up to it
/r/seduction19/11/19 12:05 AM
2

If you don’t want to hookup with her just reject her when she ask to meet up. She’ll get the message after awhile and probably still be cool about it. I would try sleeping with her one more time and tell her what I like. If her head game sucks then tell her to try things you like. Same thing goes for the sex.
/r/seduction19/11/19 12:02 AM
1

I don’t think it’s be worth it. It would rarely work and when it doesn’t your whole rep could be ruined like that.
/r/seduction18/11/19 11:53 PM
8

I clicked on the link. It’s flufff, more fluff, more fluff, two openers that could be covered in a small post and more fluff.
/r/seduction18/11/19 11:52 PM
3

Move on man. She doesn’t seem interested from what you posted
/r/seduction18/11/19 11:50 PM
1

Why would you slip it in a piece of paper instead of just asking to exchange numbers
/r/seduction14/11/19 07:09 AM
2

Vulnerability isn’t the issue there, it’s them not knowing how to build off what’s being said and keeping the conversation interesting
/r/seduction11/11/19 08:00 PM
1

Your title reminds me of something I’d see on YouTube with a shit thumbnail for clicks
/r/seduction11/11/19 06:18 AM
4

The example you gave on being a date and answering short is just some one who doesn’t know how to keep a conversation interesting. Guys starting off will mistake vulnerability with complaining about their problems
/r/seduction11/11/19 06:15 AM
1

Create sexual tension and flirt with him so he understands that you’re interested in him sexually. Make a sexual remark regarding both of you but also mention how your not interested in dating. If your showing sexual interest but not interest in dating then it’s more obvious your only in it for the sex
/r/seduction03/11/19 03:29 AM
2

look for things like proximity. The girl dancing next to you is all of a sudden ordering a drink right next to you or she’s standing next to you off the dance floor. Kinda like she keeps getting attracted towards you. Eye contact is another good one you’ll most likely see with proximity.
/r/seduction03/11/19 03:23 AM
1

Talk with everyone at the party. Get your social gears moving and other opportunities will open to talk to girls. Also use environmental openers when you get the chance.
/r/seduction03/11/19 03:19 AM
1

I feel like for an opener like that you really have to be charismatic. Or at least have a good deal of experience with game because that’s a risky opening technique.
/r/seduction03/11/19 03:18 AM
1

It’s hard to describe but the wording comes off wrong. The pretty cute implying she’s kinda cute but not all there. The “but” as if it’s almost second guessing. The want to hang out soon but not setting a time or taking responsibility that you want to hang out. Then the where do we stand forcing the decision on her. I’d go with something like; Hey, I wanted to get straight to the point, I think you’re cute and I’d like to hang out with you. How bout we go for drinks, Friday or Saturday work for …
/r/seduction31/10/19 04:20 AM
6

Yea you should hold back more. I have told girls before that I’m not looking into dating them or want anything besides the hook up but you have to be prepared to lose her if it doesn’t work
/r/seduction29/10/19 07:10 AM
1

I wouldn’t necessarily setup as just a hookup unless you have your own place. You could go with the classic food and drinks at my place. I would suggest a bar and then go from there.
/r/seduction29/10/19 07:09 AM
2

It’s not manipulation. They’re there to help keep the convo going and in a way they do add social lubrication. But it’s not forcing the other person to do anything or manipulating them to do anything. Have they ever actually looked into seduction and the self improvement side of it. Or are they going off things based on what they read and hear. I wouldn’t call seduction tricks. I think at this point, at least for me, it’s about learning social interactions and not being socially retarded.
/r/seduction29/10/19 07:08 AM
1

A doctors robe
/r/seduction26/10/19 12:49 AM
1

The jack manly videos are stupid funny. I just watched about a minute of his videos. Something I keep in mind is that they’ll always use their best infields. I could spend all day getting rejected and then post the one time I wasn’t as a FR.
/r/seduction26/10/19 12:47 AM
7

Idk man I feel like at a beginner level this could be a little misleading. For example the whole demand respect and don’t let her disrespect you. High chance is she’s shit testing you and now you’re going to fail it. Fail it good enough and you’ll come off as low confidence. Then for the touching if she’s not ready for that stage don’t continue. If you get a negative response it’s time to re-evaluate the situation. I just feel like at a beginner level a lot of this is going to be done complete w…
/r/seduction14/10/19 07:11 AM
1

Go to a strip club. Those girls there will talk to you first, to get money of course, but it helps with taking to them. Just don’t spend to much time there you’ll get a bad mentality with women
/r/seduction13/10/19 10:49 PM
6

That’s why I got off the advice sub and don’t spend to much time on this one. It’s always the same thing, a guy with a girl who’s on a pedestal. The answer is always something simple like just talk to her and they never do
/r/seduction13/10/19 10:47 PM
1

It would be harder to do at work but keeping the conversation as a man to women conversation. Instead of platonic how’s the weather conversation you should be showing sexual intent/interest. I would keep practicing body language and eye contact. That’s a big part of it and if you already pretty good then it shouldn’t be that hard
/r/seduction07/10/19 09:17 PM
1

Just do the approach. I went to a small college and did approached frequently
/r/seduction07/10/19 09:13 PM
1

How much does he charge?
/r/seduction07/10/19 09:13 PM
1

good job going out there and even trying to do approaches. Don’t feel bad about the speaking fast/stuttering it happens more commonly. Try making small talk with other dudes in the area to get yourself in a more talkative state of mind as well
/r/seduction07/10/19 09:08 PM
2

I’d say this is spot on
/r/seduction07/10/19 09:05 PM
1

Next time you and your friends go out, find out ahead of time where you’ll be going. Then message her if she’s going/invite her to go with you. If you don’t have her number use this as the time to get. Then the next day text her you had a great time and keep going from there
/r/seduction07/10/19 09:04 PM
1

Play it cool like you don’t care. If he’s so awesome then why’s she with you
/r/seduction07/10/19 05:02 AM
1

I’ve noticed a lot of women who give dating advice rarely date men who can be described by the advice they gave. For example, the whole be yourself. Yea that’s true be yourself but be your cool self. Then as the attraction picks up you start to show them the rest of you. The reason you failed to attract was most likely no sexual intent/you came off as uninterested in her. That’s what commonly happens when you place a girl in a pedestal. You build an image where you can’t sexualize her. The best …
/r/seduction04/10/19 11:43 PM
1

I started off the Mystery Method and now any game related stuff I go to Todd Valentine. I just believe you can self help all you want but if you can’t do a proper opening or create sexual tension then you won’t improve in game
/r/seduction04/10/19 11:21 PM
1

Use it as an opportunity to raise your SMV. Describe her as hot but do it as if it’s no big deal to you. For example, I went on a double date awhile back. My date ask my wing what the girls I date tend to look like. I look at him like yep make them sound hot so it raises my value in their eyes. He goes, “there alright, normal I guess”. You should have seen my date, she sat back like it was uneventful.
/r/seduction04/10/19 11:18 PM
1

I actually never thought he was great. He is obviously good, can’t take that away from him, but his videos were always longer fluffed videos about self help.
/r/seduction04/10/19 11:14 PM
1

You’d have to make sure that it’s a good time every time they see you tho or else they’ll just lose attraction. They have to feel like it’s always a good time with you and miss the feeling of having a good time. If it’s a random hangout every time you see them then you become the random person who hangs out and then disappears
/r/seduction04/10/19 11:11 PM
248

I always thought about that when someone says, “let me show you something/this”, or “look at this”. I ask myself what are they trying to tell me from this
/r/seduction04/10/19 11:09 PM
3

He said she started showing some investment and then he tells her it’s time to leave. Pretty much ignored her investment and even gave a negative reaction too it. If she starts to invest then you reciprocate back. That’s way she gets the message that it’s something your okay with.
/r/seduction04/10/19 11:07 PM
3

Like someone else said the escalation was off but it also seems like you dragged it on for to long. She started flaking becuase the emotional roller coasters wasn’t as fun. I think more sexual tension would have improved your chances. More eye contact, more flirting, making it a man to women conversation.
/r/seduction04/10/19 11:06 PM
6

If you haven’t had sex with her and she’s taking your bread then she doesn’t want you. She wants your bread. That simple.
/r/seduction04/10/19 08:01 AM
1

Have you had sex with her
/r/seduction04/10/19 07:47 AM
3

Normally if it my first time hooking up with a girl I try to make the first night about her. If she leaves satisfied the first night then it’s more likely she’ll hit you up again for another round
/r/seduction04/10/19 07:46 AM
1

You mentioned forcing yourself to be funny/day something when it got awkwardly quiet. Next time resist that and own the awkward. Don’t try to be funny or start talking random. If anything look for an observation and go off that but don’t force something. Also you told her that it would be cool/alright if she didn’t want to see you again. All night she could have been thinking about seeing you again and then you went and planted doubt in her head. All of a sudden she starts thinking why would you…
/r/seduction01/10/19 03:32 AM
3

Get some converse. If your wearing jeans and a T-shirt then converse are the way to go. I die a little inside whenever I see a guy doing the t-shirt and jeans with some random running shoes. As for getting girls to like you, be your cool normal self. For example, if someone ask what game your playing and you bend it out of context for some laughs, they’ll see right through that. Especially if you do it often it’ll get to the point we’re people can’t ask you questions becomes you end up running w…
/r/seduction01/10/19 03:27 AM
9

Those are honestly hilarious. They talk about him like he was a mad psychopath. He’s a dude who picks up women.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/19 07:05 AM
4

I see this behavior all the time. Dude gets his one lay of the year and it’s all becuase Of his natural talent. Ignores everything and everyone that’s helped and claims it wasn’t useful just to fix a low ego issue. You’ll be back and then you’ll say the same thing all over again.
/r/seduction28/09/19 08:01 PM
1

Didn’t think this was actually going to get attention and don’t want to take anything from you. You did good work by going with the flow and keeping it with the text game
/r/seduction23/09/19 05:17 PM
113

This is good and all but how good looking would you rate yourself. Right off the bat she reacted to your joke and pretty much made you open her. Then she offers you to take a drink of her cup, it’s almost like she picked you up.
/r/seduction23/09/19 06:15 AM
1

I would say take a step back and really look at yourself. Are you dressing nice, do you take care of your hygiene, facial hair, are you socially retarded.
/r/seduction16/09/19 11:59 PM
0

A shoulder to cry on turns to a boner to ride on
/r/seduction14/09/19 07:02 PM
1

Practice. Make yourself feel comfortable talking to girls. It’ll be tough at first but that’s really it
/r/seduction14/09/19 07:01 PM
1

Spending 2-3 hours in a set is crazy. Open the set, if you land a makeout then good, leave the set, open other sets and before the club closes find original set to close
/r/seduction14/09/19 06:59 PM
2

Exactly this. Hold frame or she wins
/r/seduction14/09/19 06:57 PM
1

That one girl who dated your roommates and last about a week in relationships, you could so fuck her if you tried dude. The chemistry already sounds there just starting showing sexual attraction. Start the conversation with the hot girl with an observational opener based of anything around you two. Your best way to meet girls through them is to have them introduce you to others
/r/seduction14/09/19 06:56 PM
1

I think AA is triggered becuase people are going out of their comfort zone to make an approach that has the potential to give them a negative response. I don’t think most new guys are thinking of potential nut cases
/r/seduction12/09/19 03:14 AM
8

So all she has to offer is a used vagina, wow great deal
/r/TheRedPill07/09/19 11:35 PM
2

I would try going to a bar/for drinks after the movie. If she was more talkative when she was tipsy then maybe she is shy or has a harder time opening up to others. This would normally be a slow crawl until she begins to trust you more but it could help prove the theory.
/r/seduction05/09/19 08:19 PM
3

To me, you honestly seem confused about game. You say your an 8.5 but still need to hit the gym, buy new clothing, get surgery to make yourself a 10. It sounds like you’re still at a beginning phase and I honestly don’t think you sleep 6,7,8s easily. It sounds harsh I know but I’ve learned that looks matter but not as much as everyone thinks. I’ve looked like a total mess and still managed to pick up a high value girl. What I would do in your position is work my ass off but game on weekends/days…
/r/seduction05/09/19 08:16 PM
2

So if she doesn’t respond back, what’s your solution a double text?
/r/seduction04/09/19 05:20 PM
2

That was a pretty good read
/r/seduction02/09/19 08:53 PM
2

I tried getting into the RSD videos and stuff but I always felt like it was a scam. I remember watching some of Owens videos thinking what’s the take away from it. There long videos with a bunch of fluff in imporiving yourself first. Compared to Todd Valentine who makes the video long enough to give you something to practice without the fluff
/r/seduction29/08/19 08:14 PM
1

I honestly think there’s more too it than just saying you were a Virgin. I remember growing up still being a Virgin, I would go based off the girl and tell her if I was a Virgin or had at least one body.
/r/seduction29/08/19 08:09 PM
6

Yea I’d say that was a shit test. I’d also say he failed r since all he got was a smiley face.
/r/seduction27/08/19 03:38 AM
3

Find a canned opener/routine and use that until you get used to approach anxiety and overall conversations
/r/seduction27/08/19 03:34 AM
2

Any time I do game on a working girl it’s while they’re restocking. If you go for the counter approach you’ll be limiting yourself on time based on someone trying to check out. Then her answered might be different if there’s other co workers at the counter as well.
/r/seduction27/08/19 03:33 AM
3

One of my general rule of thumbs is; if you didn’t get a positive reaction after your kino technique, then you need to stop and go back a step. You’d be surprised how many guys aren’t sure if it’s positive and keep going just to come off as creeps
/r/seduction27/08/19 03:30 AM
1

You said you danced and lip sync some rap song. Your body language there could have been the high energy part. If it was like a crazy forgeiner dancing and lip sync a song towards them that may have caused it
/r/seduction16/08/19 08:13 PM
1

We need a little more information but it kinda sounds like you were a too high energy. They knew they couldn’t match that same energy and would avoid the convo. There more reserved, try some low energy game
/r/seduction16/08/19 05:35 PM
1

It sounds like you’re missing sexual intent or you’re not showing that your interested in them sexually. If you knew she wanted the D but ended up hooking up with another guy at a bar it’s becuase you took to long to show intent
/r/seduction14/08/19 10:37 PM
2

Good line take the shot
/r/seduction28/05/19 07:21 AM
1

Something I’ve noticed a few times while gaming, and I remember someone wrote an article in it, was third party intrusions. So I’ll be gaming a girl and then have one her friends jump in and take off with the conversation. In the past I’ve gave my input just to have it ignored or saying some witty line to keep control of the convo but doesn’t seem to work. Any advice on that?
/r/seduction28/05/19 07:20 AM
6

Being properly groomed, wearing clothe that fit are things you can do right away
/r/seduction28/05/19 07:18 AM
2

Read about the Mystery Method, Todd valentine, and learn how to make little conversation with strangers to help the anxiety.
/r/seduction27/05/19 01:51 AM
2

You don’t. You’re almost 100 percent without, if you try to start clean with her and it doesn’t work you’ll lose more than it’s worth.
/r/seduction27/05/19 01:49 AM
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I think it depends what your looking for in general. Most girls won’t give heavy eye contact. They’ll do the little glance once or twice and next thing you know are standing right next you. I also think that those guys aren’t use to looking directly at women. So they lift, lose wieght and get the confidence to look at women and notice the IOI
/r/seduction27/05/19 01:48 AM
2

Don’t emotionally give yourself up to hurry tonight. She wants to hang out because she’s jealous that now your preselected by other women. She’s inviting you over because she wants the validation that she could still have you if she wanted to. Even more though she wants the validation that you want her emotionally. Play it cool and a little distant, like your only hanging out because you got nothing else to do.
/r/seduction27/05/19 01:42 AM
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At what point does she put her part in. This sounds like it was written by a women looking for a fake alpha. This is retarded.
/r/seduction04/05/19 01:04 AM
2

I would message, test the waters, and then go straight for a date. I was in a similar situation once except the dude went to jail. So they broke up. Girl hits me up to hangout, I suggest a nearby bar, got laid. He gets out, they get back together.
/r/seduction14/03/19 11:44 PM
1

It’s still salvageable but it won’t be soon. Make the next step already, ask for her phone number/snapchat, or ask for a meet up. She doesn’t want to play this message back and forth game, that’s why she stops responding.
/r/seduction14/03/19 11:40 PM
1

Don’t stop talking to girls and don’t stop improving yourself. You always fail before you succeed. Even the masters(I’m not a master) failed before they had success, so don’t let failure hold you back. That’s the biggest tip I could give. Don’t be scared of failing.
/r/seduction20/02/19 07:28 AM
2

Just be honest. She might be turned off by your younger age or she might not be. She’ll diffenetly be turned off by the lying tho
/r/seduction20/02/19 07:25 AM
1

I would honestly just consult a friend, preferably a female friend, for help. They might not be as nice pictures but I’ve had girls take pictures of me where I look pretty good, the background looks good, overall good pictures. I don’t think tinder is worth the professional pictures and it can come off as tryhard
/r/seduction20/02/19 07:24 AM
3

I wouldn’t say proximity causes attraction. Proximity shows comfort towards you.
/r/seduction18/02/19 09:53 PM
5

It’s not an odd question necessarily but there’s better ways to gauge how she feels about you. She could think your 100% bullshit but still be into you or she could think your 0% bullshit and still not be into you. I had a girl lean in towards me once, like she was about to give me a kiss, and tell me I talk a lot of shit. I leaned in closer and said yea but it sounds right(remembered the line from some song). She laughed and went in for the kiss. So you could tak bullshit but still be interesti…
/r/seduction12/02/19 10:45 PM
4

This is why one of my personal rules is NEVER mess around with a girl who’s been drinking or if I’ve been drinking. I remember at a party me and a girl were drinking and the whole night she’s grabbing my dick, while I push her hand away, gettin on top of me, trying to pull me to a closed room and etc. so finally I decided to leave and push her off of me. The next day everyone was asking why I would push her off me, why I got mad, and how she didn’t remember anything except that I got mad and pus…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/19 12:06 AM
1

My take in the friend zone is that the person waited to long to show sexual interest. They build a friendship that never had any sexual tension and when sexual tension is introduced, it’s taken as a joke. You have to show sexual interest in the meeting phase, so she knows you motives
/r/seduction29/01/19 07:13 AM
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It’s funny because there’s a girl in class and she was talking to some guys. I was sitting in front of them just kinda eavesdropping, if I’m being honest, and the dudes are talking about how pick up girls. Then she goes I know you don’t pick up girls because you won’t even look at me in the eyes. I’ve learned that close proximity and strong eye contact are sometimes all you need to build sexual tension.
/r/seduction29/01/19 07:10 AM
6

Literally Todd valentine. He’s videos or straight and to the point, no random fluff for extra time. Plus RSD makes videos just saying not to be a beta and work in yourself, while Todd gives the straight up techniques you’ll need to pick up women. You could be 100 percent fine with yourself and still fail game without the proper technique.
/r/seduction14/01/19 10:07 PM
5

Looking forward to the club game article
/r/seduction14/01/19 10:04 PM
2

I wouldn’t send the email, I don’t think most men would reply to that email, honestly. I would assume it’s either spam or the start of a blackmailing case. Bat your eye leashes at him and start flirting. Then directly ask him to take you out for drinks
/r/seduction14/01/19 10:03 PM
5

When i first found him I thought he was one of the best dudes out there. Then as I learned more about game his YouTube videos seemed like 25-30 min of nonsense. All you need to learn game is the courage to go out and fail. I’ve been practicing game for a few years now and I’ve never spent on a penny on any game related stuff. People buy all this information but never go out and apply it.
/r/seduction14/01/19 10:01 PM
1

Don’t go straight for an invite without the proper rapport built before hand. A girl will accept your invite when she feels comfortable with you and comfortable that your not some creep. Talk to them, get to know them, let them know you, and then ask them for a meet up
/r/seduction06/01/19 04:47 AM
2

Just depends on the girl. Some girls will have had sex one time and others a lot more
/r/seduction06/01/19 04:44 AM
1

Well I would start off by showing interest on the other group member. That way other people in the social circle start picking up the idea that I’m interested in the specific person. Then I would take it slow so it doesn’t seem like I just woke up and went straight after them. As for number 2, just don’t be that guy. That’s the guy who will ask every girl in the group out. Ask one girl and your the guy who was interested in that one girl. Ask a few girls out and you’ll be that guy who ask all th…
/r/seduction31/12/18 07:19 AM
2

I don’t necessarily let it go and move on but I take the time to see what I did wrong. Was my opener awkward, did I escalate to soon or to late, I just take it as another learning experience
/r/seduction31/12/18 07:15 AM
2

I think it just varies from person to person. You mention the math vs the nature but if I grew up not talking to girls then it’s not in my nature. Compared to if I spent my school years with a bunch of girls, then my gut feeling would have a better understanding of social cues. As for being in your head, it’s not entirely like that. You start to gain experience and then your gut feeling, ability to pick up cues, all improves. You get a better understanding of social dynamics and it starts to bec…
/r/seduction31/12/18 07:14 AM
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Having an attitude of not caring shows a higher SMV. It puts you at a higher value than the others around especially when there’s cute girls. Someone with the don’t care attitude is someone who has confidence and doesn’t need the validation of others.
/r/seduction29/12/18 11:23 PM
2

Yes women are attracted to those kind of guys but it’s a pipe dream. It has, for the most part, no actual success. It’s the same way guys are attracted to models and pornstars. We can be attracted all we want but it doesn’t mean we’ll end up with one and it doesn’t mean we aren’t attracted to your average women.
/r/seduction28/12/18 07:33 AM
2

I think you have to understand to tho, that you don’t always have to be happy. It’s ok to not feel happy all the time. As I type this I don’t necessarily feel happy, but I don’t feel sad either. I think it’s ok to feel neutral and have happy moments in life and through the day. I think your issue stems more from not having a relationship during the holidays. Go out and make approach’s, try to have others introduce you as well
/r/seduction28/12/18 07:30 AM
5

Approach anxiety, happens to all of us. I either make the approach before anxiety gets to me or if there close enough I just start a convo. I’ve noticed that, for me at least, anxiety goes away as soon as I start talking. I always tel my buddies saying the first word is the hardest part but after you do it’s almost smooth sailing
/r/seduction28/12/18 07:28 AM
1

You should have done the approach. If the smile didn’t seem genuine it could have been a forced smile in the hopes that you made an approach. I’d forget about it for now and move one
/r/seduction28/12/18 07:25 AM
2

I didn’t go zero to hero and I still practice but my advice would be to start slow and have a line prepared. By starting slow I mean try smiling at the hotties first. Smile at a few girls, get comfortable with smiling, then start giving compliments. Take little steps first. If you insist on just going for the direct cold approach then have a line prepared. It can be a compliment or a direct statement but prepared to say it as soon as you see a hot girl. Don’t give yourself time to think about wh…
/r/seduction28/12/18 07:23 AM
1

This is funny to watch but I would not try this in the real world. I believe 9 out of 10 times this would not work. He was lucky he wasn’t flat out told to leave. While he was allowed to stay he can’t run proper game because there’s no comfort there. The second one of those girls mention how he’s not with them it’s downhill. Now he’s a weird dude who just sat down and there on alert and away from comfort. If he tries seduction without comfort he’ll be creeping them out.
/r/seduction28/12/18 07:05 AM
1

What’s 5:1, the number of guys vs girls in the club, or the ratio of guys who can and can’t dance
/r/seduction22/12/18 09:03 PM
44

Some thing to work on while your working on AA is your body language. I’ve seen some guys do approaches, talking smoothing and everything, but their body language is giving them all away. Don’t fidget back and forth, don’t close your body language, and don’t keep saying ummm or uhhh a lot
/r/seduction21/12/18 02:05 AM
1

When I talk to girls I’ll take a few steps closer as I am talking. This way I close the distance without being straight forward. If it’s a night club I’ll lean in to hear better while also getting into her comfort zone. A common thing girls do is grab a guys arm after he tells a joke. You can do a modify version of that.
/r/seduction12/12/18 12:36 AM
1

Ignore the 3 month girl and talk to her friend. If the nudes bother you enough then don’t talk to her.
/r/seduction10/12/18 11:21 PM
2

Take mysteries 3 second rule into account. As soon as you make eye contact, make the approach. Don’t give your mind time to second guess its self
/r/seduction10/12/18 11:18 PM
1

Ask her to hangout alone with out the other people would be my first step
/r/seduction10/12/18 11:17 PM
1

Eye contact and body positioning. Show your intrested by holding eye contact and flirting. Flirting and holding eye contact is a simple and good way to create sexual tension. Then for body positioning, if you want to advance you have to get in her comfortable with you. Get in her close to her and see how she reacts.
/r/seduction10/12/18 11:17 PM
4

The best way to approach at a those locations is by using an environment opener. So at a library or at grocery store you could comment on a specific item they have or item their looking at
/r/seduction10/12/18 08:45 AM
1

Before I go to sexual/ romantic interest, I show interest in genera by giving compliments and being flirty. One girl gave me her Instagram and I pretended to be shocked that I was sitting next to an actual model. Another time I was asked what picture she should post and I told her she looked pretty in all of them. Show sexual/romantic interest when you go on a date and can escalate the situation further.
/r/seduction06/12/18 12:39 AM
1

I saw one guy go up to a girl the other day; he told her he thought she was cute and if he could get her number. She said no that she had a boyfriend. Girls at the gym, for the most part, no they’re attractive. A lot of guys will give them stares and they’ll notice it. I’ve made a few gym approaches but nothing crazy. I normally look for IOI like someone else said. A common one is working out close to you. It’s like as soon as you pick a machine she’s right next to you. At least that’s one of th…
/r/seduction05/12/18 08:00 AM
1

I also go to a college that is relatively small. The best way I’ve done it is approaching girls in class and during passing periods. The college is small enough that those are the only moments you’ll really get. I’ll ask them about previous classes we took together or about classwork that’s due.
/r/seduction05/12/18 07:55 AM
0

I think most people who start game come from the same area as you do. Look up Todd Valentine on YouTube. Out of all the pickup artists on YouTube he comes off as the least who’s just talking shit, at least to me. Watch and learn his approach techniques video and go practice those.
/r/seduction05/12/18 07:52 AM
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I think this could go both ways. She was attracted to her ex boyfriend and then they broke up. The memories, good and bad, are anchored in her mind. If you remind her of her ex it’ll be both the good and bad times and might put her in a defensive or rejecting state of mind. Instead be someone new, different and mysterious who invoked emotions
/r/seduction04/12/18 01:21 AM
3

If you just got into game, I would practice approaching the low 5 and superficial 10 as well. When you first start it should be all about approaching and getting rid of that initial approach anxiety. Then when you find the gir your interested in you’ll be less likely to mess it up. I would also reach a little bit farther and say that the reason you only see 5s and 10s is becuase of approach anxiety. You go out to game and then decide that the girls around you aren’t what your looking for and dec…
/r/seduction01/12/18 02:33 AM
1

I haven’t dated a stripper but I’ve gotten free dances and phone numbers from strippers. The most recent one was a blonde russian. She’s petite with a pretty nice body, blonde hair with blue eyes. I games her a bit, got a few dances, she let me finger her, tried kissing me but I didn’t let it happen and then I moved on to another girl. Before I left tho she actually came back to talk to me and gave me her phone number. Told me we should hang out and talk outside the club. Then I got home and ins…
/r/seduction29/11/18 01:53 AM
3

I don’t think asking them to a winter fair would work becuase it’s be to sudden. They don’t know enough about you to want to go there with you. Then the part about not needing directions could be tough because your next move is dependent on the girl smiling and saying thank you. But what if she just point in the direction and keeps going. If you want to do approaches in the city look up Todd Valentine on YouTube. He has a series of different approaches and I think one of those would work better …
/r/seduction29/11/18 01:45 AM
1

Honestly, I recently cut off a few FWB and other girls who could have been potentially FWB. I took a good look at myself and the girls I was talking to and decided I could do better. I think after awhile it happens to most people, especially when you score occasional 9/10 or even 10/10. I started feeling like I’m was wasting time getting shit tested by 5/10 when I felt like I could do better.
/r/seduction25/11/18 09:49 PM
2

If you think your friend is pretty good at game then I would trust his opinion. But she could have already established a sexual rapport with the neighbor or simply be looking for attention. I could see it being not enough sexual build up/tension from your end.
/r/seduction25/11/18 09:46 PM
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Like someone else said, check out Todd valentine on YouTube. His videos are straight to the point and good. Rsd, to me at least, is always just 20 minutes worth of crap for their 2 minute tip
/r/seduction25/11/18 05:15 PM
4

Well nothing like you dreamed of and it’s nothing like you see in porn videos ever
/r/seduction16/11/18 06:27 AM
1

I really don’t have anything in the walls of my room. I have car parts under the bed and in the closet but that’s about it. Maybe some books on a drawer or laying around. Just make sure it’s a clean room and it smells good. If anything just say your a minimalist type of guy.
/r/seduction16/11/18 02:19 AM
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Don’t let it bother you dude. It’s a little to soon to tell tho. An IOI isn’t always an IOI, it could have been a number of reasons why she did that. Also if she’s a confident women then eye contact is nothing for her. If your playing the long game then start small. Just make conversations and get to know her.
/r/seduction16/11/18 02:11 AM
2

You should have been talking to both of them. Keep her friend just as interested in you, your already showing confidence and preselected by women, so it could have kept her around. I remember I was at a club once and one guy who was gaming two girls goes, hey you let me introduce you to my friends friend. He got lucky I wasn’t an awkward drunk and I helped the dude out. Might want to keep that in mind.
/r/seduction16/11/18 02:06 AM
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If your just starting out, copy other peoples styles, use mannequins to find complete outfits, but make sure it’s reasonable. Don’t go copying some celebrity with a flamboyant style.
/r/seduction15/11/18 05:25 AM
1

Moving over means you kept going after failure. Maybe you couldn’t figure why you failed but you kept trying. Giving up means you failed and just completely stopped.
/r/seduction20/10/18 05:16 AM
6

Your initial sentence of your cute as fuck and I’m me. Is pretty much saying, I’m only talking to becuase your cute as fuck and you should be talking to me becuase I’m me. When your messaging someone go for openers based of situations or environmental stuff. Remember that they’re not reading the message with the same attitude that you are. For example, “you seem interesting, I wanted to get to know you”. It shows confidence because it’s avoids the whole I’m only talking to you becuase of your lo…
/r/seduction20/10/18 01:32 AM
2

Find her in the common area “Hey not doing soccer anymore” And then let the coversation go from there, if she has to go to class ask if you can walk her to class. Then make your way to asking her out but I wouldn’t rush it. Shy girls are defensive and will close up. So start off by befriending her before going straight to dating
/r/seduction20/10/18 01:25 AM
7

Todd v dating The old tv series, The pickup artist is pretty entertaining
/r/seduction20/10/18 01:20 AM
10

Your being way to straight forward and coming off as to cocky. As for the whole want to send nudes again thing, she had no reason to send nudes to you. She’s not going to do anything for you unless she has an expected outcome. Next time don’t try so hard. Let the conversation be casual and then work your way up from there. You can’t seduce a girl if she’s not comfortable with you.
/r/seduction20/10/18 01:18 AM
1

You can’t really ask them how their nights going and then just expect them to sit there and talk to you, in some situations yes but not so much in a club. You have to go with their flow, if their dancing then you be dancing, keep the entertainment levels high on the initial meeting. Something I used to do while talking to girls in a loud environment was just standing closer. It’s already hard to hear them speak so I would close the distance and lean in. This makes them comfortable with you befor…
/r/seduction15/10/18 12:35 AM
3

If you wanted to use either platform to pick up girls then you would have to show off how high value you are. Pictures of you at social events, with other women, and living the good life. As soon as you send a girl a message she’s going to go through all your stuff and make sure your not some creep.
/r/seduction15/10/18 12:31 AM
2

Remember not to invest all your time in her and continue to learn and grow. Don’t be satisfied just yet
/r/seduction15/10/18 12:29 AM
7

It takes patience with shy girls and you can’t be as daring with them. Most shy girls seem to have a more defensive nature and will be pushed away by daring moves. It really just takes persistence and patience.
/r/seduction15/10/18 12:27 AM
2

It’s funny how old the Mystery Method is now and so many new theories still seem built around it
/r/seduction15/10/18 12:25 AM
1

“she thinks I look weird and just didn't want me to notice her looking at me.” Guarantee that ain’t it chief. I would smile at her during the next class and see how she reciprocates it. If she smiles back or seems inviting then I would maybe move to a closer seat depending on the class. In college I would normally talk to the girls I was interested in after class and then see how they respond the next time. Another thing too was to arrive early for class and talk to them before class. Or you cou…
/r/seduction13/10/18 05:44 AM
2

I would go with giving him a smile. I always try to make eye contact with girls I’m interested in and if they smile first then it’s approach time
/r/seduction13/10/18 05:40 AM
3

When I was younger I messed around with two older females. I was19-20 and the first one I messed with was “30”. She looked like she could have been 30 but she was also sexy. The second one said she was old enough to be my mom but I never got her age, we just messed around twice. Something I always did was act mature but not too mature. Not so mature where I was a boring dude but mature enough where I could be serious when I had to be. I never took my friends around them since I knew how immature…
/r/seduction13/10/18 05:38 AM
1

Even if it bothers you for the rest of the night don’t show it in that moment. AMOGS want a response especially if they know they can kick the shit out of you. Base your response on the situation.
/r/seduction05/10/18 11:50 PM
2

I think it could be like a Double edge sword sometimes. You might be so much into the mindset that you start missing obvious signs of interest from females. I think Instead have nights that are only for fun and others that are more about pick up
/r/seduction05/10/18 11:44 PM
1

To me signs of a weak frame are the same as having low self esteem. They try to make themselves smaller and avoid confrontation about anything. Then when they do end up in confrontation they can’t keep themselves composed. They start getting offended over little things and then respond with aggression but no one feels a bit of fear towards them.
/r/seduction05/10/18 11:42 PM
2

I looked at the eyes personally. Are her eyes looking passed me/ show no interest or is she doing a little head tilt looking directly at me
/r/seduction05/10/18 11:38 PM
7

Constant eye contact. Just make sure it’s not creepy and intense eye contact. Keep it natural but don’t break away. She should break away first.
/r/seduction23/07/18 05:37 AM
74

I would have had a better high school experience if I knew about this sub
/r/seduction23/07/18 05:36 AM
4

I actually don’t think it’s a bad idea. Sometimes you see dudes, myself included, and they have their own styles going on. Wearing what they want when they want. But sometimes this plays against us and can even make us look awkward, becuade we have no since in style. Following a stereotype is almost a guaranteed good look. You’ve seen the outfit on others, so make the outfit and add a little bit of yourself to it.
/r/seduction22/07/18 11:51 PM
1

I take a deep breath and just approach. Don’t even give myself enough time to think negative thoughts
/r/seduction21/07/18 05:19 AM
0

I like Todd’s videos and a lot of therories but I never believed in the aspect of programs. In one video he says one guy was laid 7 times in the 5 days he was with the program. I bet he hasn’t been laid once since leaving it. It’s a lot easier when you have a pro mentor practically holding your hand at clubs.
/r/seduction21/07/18 05:17 AM
2

It’s because you’ve came to end of the long road and realized that women can only do so much. It happens to a lot of guys because we all fall under the assumption and the “chad” is happy with all his women. Then we realize it’s not true and we’re still not happy. You need to work on your inner game now. Stop focusing so much on women and start doing things you enjoy and just working on yourself for yourself
/r/seduction21/07/18 05:15 AM
5

She just has to know the right information. If she knows things like; he’s a drug user with no future ambition then no. If she knows he’s motivated and will probably be a high value male in the future than yes
/r/seduction17/07/18 05:53 AM
1

I feel like true confidence is being able to go into room and owning it. You speak when you have something to say and not just to speak.
/r/seduction15/07/18 02:18 AM
3

I feel like I should put it out there, when he says he stop caring and posted whatever he wanted. He doesn’t mean stuff that could label him a creep or give off red flags. Sometimes I see things that just make me shake my head, but good job dude💪🏻
/r/seduction15/07/18 02:17 AM
-1

It honestly sounds like something only a chad would do. Obviously Tyler ain’t no chad but he clearly didn’t post every attempt, whether it failed or not. Just the thought of a girl doing that to me makes me not want to go.
/r/seduction08/07/18 04:07 AM
3

That’s how I feel too because if you don’t know how to lead a conversation to a more sexual route then you will never learn how. Yea you could wait for it to happen naturally but you might be waiting for awhile.
/r/seduction23/06/18 03:13 AM
1

I think this is a good place to start. I started off by wanting to fuck hundreds of girls and then just wanted to be able to interact with anyone. I think I’m more capable of that now even.
/r/seduction20/06/18 06:25 AM
7

I think it depends on the are but I’ve also noticed the ratio. Most times it seems like girls at clubs are already taken or are with a guy. I prefer not to approach those and have an ego fight.
/r/seduction20/06/18 06:21 AM
2

It’s good in today’s generation. Girls don’t cook as much so it’s good for a guy to cook. Also you can invite them over to show them how to cook or to prepare a certain meal
/r/seduction19/06/18 05:53 AM
1

Try to judge what their into and what statements he seems to be responsive to. Maybe you can even ask him if he likes dirty talking. I personally don’t like it.
/r/seduction19/06/18 05:52 AM
2

She just gets nervous around you. I met a girl similar to that, she would look me in the eyes for a second and then do a scan of the room. You just keep doing what your doing and as she gets comfortable she’ll start to keep eye contact
/r/seduction19/06/18 05:50 AM
7

Eye contact. Best move to use when at a distance. But next time stand up and make a comment about her being so far away and then sit next to her.
/r/seduction19/06/18 05:49 AM
2

I would suggest you fake it till you make it
/r/seduction17/06/18 03:38 AM
1

I’m not from that area but it sounds like you need to work on your self esteem more. When your confidence is high then you can handle big social situations easier. The nightclub is good practice if your not spending the night looking awkward.
/r/seduction17/06/18 02:18 AM
1

You need to show more sexual attraction/sexual tension. Next time your in this situation observe your friends and you’ll notice how flirty they are compared to you.
/r/seduction17/06/18 02:17 AM
2

I personally wouldn’t do that. It gives the friend a lot of power, which could be good and bad. She can hype you up or make you seem like a creep. Plus it would show more confidence for you to try and hookup with her on your own.
/r/seduction17/06/18 02:16 AM
2

I understand the feeling of running out of things to say. I like when I approach a girl and she does all the talking. But even that can drain me, depending on the girl and the convo. A quick tip, always try to make convos with cashiers. Even if the cashier is a guy or an old lady. It’s quick convos that help you work on your social skills. Plus it lets you work on being less introverted.
/r/seduction16/06/18 07:19 AM
1

I’ll honestly admit that I do that. I might go to mall and walk around with no intent on buying anything. Just walking around looking for a pretty girl to approach. All honestly, if I didn’t do that I wouldn’t know the girls I do now, plus it’s good practice. Even earlier I went to buy groceries and kept in mind that I would approach a pretty girl when I saw one. So I don’t see nothing bad in it.
/r/seduction16/06/18 06:43 AM
4

Big time introvert here👋. What I personally do is split my days up and pretty much schedule everything. For example Saturday I might go “dancing”, so I’ll keep social interactions minimal. Try not to drain myself if I got big plans. As for spitting game 2-3 times a week, I’ll do that a day if the opportunity presents itself and I don’t feel too drained. Especially if your starting out you have to take advantage of the opportunities. I also feel though, that the more you talk to people the more e…
/r/seduction16/06/18 06:40 AM
3

Tinder is a hard game to play, I always read successful stories from tinder but I’ve never experienced it. When I had one I was matched with girls who I considered ugly. My buddy said the famous “pussy is pussy”, but I’m more of a quality over quantity guy myself. Then DMing girls is similar to tinder. You have to make your pictures show your lavish lifestyle or at least seem interesting. It’s almost like having a fake resume online. She won’t be interested if your page isn’t interesting. Now me…
/r/seduction16/06/18 06:33 AM
1

I can relate 100% to you
/r/seduction12/06/18 01:52 AM
72

I always felt that seduction is something people have to want to learn. At least that seems to be the case around me. It’s like most guys are to prideful to admit that they suck with women, but that was a good call on your part
/r/seduction10/06/18 08:51 PM
3

Lately I feel like I’ve opened my eyes, AWALT everywhere you look, it’s crazy. Like you said hard to remain stoic with shit people
/r/TheRedPill27/05/18 03:43 AM
1

I’ve been making my boss treat me with respect, while reminding myself that I owe nothing to this job. My time is valued more than they pay me. If beta billy wants to volunteer and work unpaid hours good for him. I got shit to do.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/18 02:26 AM
1

How you keep yourself from not getting baby trapped by plates. I’ve noticed as I continue to advance in my job and get paid better money, all these exes or old plates want to have sex. At first I was into the idea but then a friend mentioned how it was funny that word gets around about my future and these girls come out the woods to “hang out”. So once again how do you keep yourself from getting trapped by a plate when you have money and looks?
/r/TheRedPill16/05/18 05:16 PM
2

What I like about giving girls my snapchat, is how easy you can block them if they start going bat shit. The other day I didn’t respond to a girl and she blew my phone up with snaps. I honestly think I’d be in a mess if she had my phone number.
/r/seduction12/05/18 08:24 PM
3

This is pretty much me. Once you own the fact that you watch anime and plays games, girls don’t even care. I’ve even been told the nerdy side makes me cuter.
/r/seduction24/04/18 07:17 PM
17

I have a legit question, if your method is done wrong and the attraction is lost, won’t you end up in the friend zone?
/r/seduction23/04/18 07:12 PM
19

Reading that post made me smile a little. I’m glad he didn’t turn into a loser and she realized what she lost
/r/TheRedPill22/04/18 08:59 PM
7

Probably get downvotes, but I think it has to do with society has a whole. Before it was easier because that was the role of the man. Now women have to be independent and have their own income. Then with the rise of social media, women aren’t happy with the simple validation they get from one man. They have to be constantly getting validated through different means. Then you have to know what to say and do because sex is easily accessible to women in today’s society. If you mess up she’ll easily…
/r/seduction17/04/18 09:00 PM
2

I always felt this way about it. I’m happy someone’s shedding some light to it
/r/seduction17/04/18 05:53 AM
2

Thing looks like it fell from the heavens
/r/seduction13/04/18 05:20 AM
1

Yea, I actually think I do better alone
/r/seduction13/04/18 05:19 AM
2

I might go out with a social circle but if I see a girl I’m interested in I approach alone. I pretty much game solo because I don’t have any good wingman.
/r/seduction12/04/18 08:14 PM
2

The thing about your friends who seem to always get hotgirls, is that they never showed the learning process. If you ask my buddies they’ll tell you I’m a natural with women because I’m smart. But they don’t see the constant trial and error. They see the pretty women but they don’t see the work I had to put in or the pretty girls that rejected me before I got the one I introduced. I think what helped me the most is working on a smile that I felt comfortable with. I looked at the mirror and pract…
/r/seduction08/04/18 05:57 AM
61

Actually, those species are called “nice guys”. They pretty much never mate but won’t go extinct.
/r/seduction06/04/18 06:19 AM
3

I don’t have a question, I just wanted to say that tonight I got a snapchat from girl I wasn’t interested in so I ignored it. One hour later she sends another one so I open this one and what it is it. Her in a small top showing A LOT of cleavage saying night. Right away she’s got my attention now. Then I think no remember RP, this is just a shit test to get my validation through a sexy photo. So I just write night back. Idk if it was the right move but it sure felt like it. Thanx to RP I think t…
/r/TheRedPill05/04/18 06:28 AM
1

But then what’s the follow up, if they say yes or no
/r/seduction02/04/18 06:20 AM
2

Keep long the conversation going, while showing interest and not just random convo
/r/seduction01/04/18 10:30 PM
1

If you can’t introduce yourself to the entire table just make sure you acknowledge the entire table. That situation tho, it could have been many possibilities. As for the second question, I think aslong as the girl hasn’t completely noticed you checking her out for 20 min then your good. Aslong as your not that creepy dude who kept staring and all of a sudden approached. It can ruin your social dynamic, especially if she noticed you staring. Approaching after 20 min gives the impression that you…
/r/seduction30/03/18 06:47 AM
1

When you say hey, do you completely stop moving and not just saying hey while passing by. Also, if you stop moving and they keep walking then just go back to walking. They probably weren’t interested, nothing you can do about it.
/r/seduction30/03/18 06:34 AM
1

I got head from a girl a few weeks ago. Then the next weeks I got together with a blonde 8/10 and got high. She gave me a Handjob, but I really don’t smoke so I couldn’t get it all the way up. Now I’m low key setting up a date to “hang out” with an ex. While I’m also talking to two other girls.
/r/seduction29/03/18 07:46 AM
10

Let your gf take control for the most part but don’t forget to make it seem like this is for their pleasure.
/r/seduction29/03/18 12:36 AM
1

When a guy goes upto you and tells you he thinks he’s cute, what are your initial thoughts? If you don’t mind me asking.
/r/seduction25/03/18 03:35 AM
1

i like your answer, it makes me motivated to go try that approach method. I’ll definitely check out your article.
/r/seduction25/03/18 03:30 AM
1

i like your answer, it makes me motivated to go try that approach method. I’ll definitely check out your article.
/r/seduction25/03/18 03:30 AM
2

I did a group approach the other day and what I did was talk to the group and asked questions about the nightclubs in the area. I spoke to the group and made them comfortable with time and then got the name of a nightclub. This whole time I had positioned myself towards the target, so then I pulled out my phone and let the convo die down a little. Then I asked for the name of the nightclub but I only made eye contact with the target. So she answers and switched the convo to her. Might have not b…
/r/seduction25/03/18 02:17 AM
3

But approaching a girl and telling her you think she’s cute, so you wanted to introduce yourself is double edge sword. Your basically telling her you only spoke to her because she’s cute and that’s it. While at the same time she now has to decide in a split second if she finds you attractive because you made your intentions clear. Then you can’t really banter either because she now knows your interested in her and can call your bluff with confidence. Those are my thoughts on that approach, I’m i…
/r/seduction25/03/18 02:11 AM
1

Something I noticed is when guys get IOI, they convince themselves that their over thinking it. But, no your by over thinking it, she’s actually into you.
/r/seduction16/03/18 09:46 PM
4

On a date with a girl and a guy ask, “is that your gf?”. What’s the appropriate response to not come off as needy/clingy but not come off as beta either, Also if she’s not your gf,
/r/TheRedPill01/03/18 12:07 AM
1

When I start to talk to a girl escalating with touch is hard for me. I don’t want to end up as some #metoo victim. What are simple ways to escalate touch beside the arm touch after a joke.
/r/seduction23/02/18 08:41 AM
2

I’ve had this same question on my mind for awhile now. I’ve had the same childhood friends but just like yours there not good wingman nor do they try to be. I’ve thought of cutting them off but I have to find a better group first or else I’ll be solo in everything.
/r/seduction22/02/18 12:00 AM
1

I’d suggest going for the kiss but before that you have to make sure she feels comfortable with your touch. So try escalating and getting into each other’s comfort zones.
/r/seduction17/02/18 06:42 AM
8

I think once she stops with the shit test and gets more invested with you, then you should get more invested in her. I also think there’s a difference between fighting for a girl because your a needy jealous guy and fighting in a sense that shows she’s yours. One would be through complaining and the other through dominant body language. Just my thoughts tho.
/r/seduction17/02/18 06:40 AM
2

Nah I heard on the radio that’s a double rejection. Apparently it’s a common thing for girls not to responds and then reject the guys again on social media.
/r/seduction15/02/18 08:20 AM
4

You can try to pull similarities between girls you’ve been attracted to in the past. For example mine are mostly short, light skinned, and black haired girls.
/r/seduction30/01/18 05:27 AM
2

I think your missing the comfort portion of seduction. Let them know more about you so they feel reassured that your not some creep. Before inviting them over make sure their not killers/robbers. It gives the impression that your just as nervous and makes you seem more normal. The attraction is there but the girls don’t feel comfortable enough about you as a person to go over.
/r/seduction11/01/18 08:54 AM
2

It’s a improper approach on your part. It was a good shot to be straight forward but you made a bunch of assumptions that could even be taken the wrong way. I don’t think girls want to be told they look like librarians. You should have also chose words that make her believe she benefits from the relationship.
/r/seduction11/01/18 08:48 AM
2

You said she sits down by herself, next time just sit down next to her take a deep breath and go for it. I always believe saying the first word is the hardest, After that it gets easier.
/r/seduction10/01/18 06:33 AM
2

I think the momentum is lost because at the time she was living in the moment. She was probably willing to go all the way but now that she’s out of the moment she has time to really consider what she wants. At the same time tho the phone call sounds like a quick text her best friend to get her out of there moment.
/r/seduction09/01/18 04:43 AM
9

Might get downvoted but I’m not a big fan of RSD. There’s a lot of rumors that it’s all fake but besides that it seems to vague for me. They preach how your inner game(self esteem) will get you laid but that doesn’t really help new guys who feel like losers. That’s just my opinion tho, the last RSD video I saw about an hour long. It was Tyler lecturing how you should lead with your dick, which is pretty vague and seems like a bad idea. Just my opinion tho.
/r/seduction09/01/18 04:39 AM
1

ill do it too
/r/seduction22/11/17 10:10 PM
2

In short he went to Japan and would force girls heads towards his crotch in a rapey fashion. Practically suggested others do it as well on foreign trips.
/r/seduction28/10/17 05:04 AM
3

Baldings not an option but being bald is, go full bald
/r/seduction25/10/17 11:24 PM
2

I really appreciate the detailed answer. It’s very helpful, thank you.
/r/seduction16/10/17 06:12 AM
1

Do the pros ever have bad nights or are they always good and what type of guy is mystery. A cool guy or kinda weird behind all the game.
/r/seduction14/10/17 11:35 PM
1

It’s crazy they get attached and avoid sex. They’ll let me touch but any further escalation and I’m normally met with a not yet or some form of rejection. So I take the no as a no and move on. But it happens real often it sucks.
/r/seduction14/10/17 04:52 AM
1

Go for the one that’s more active on post
/r/seduction01/10/17 02:31 AM
1

I’m planning on getting a Snapchat just for this
/r/seduction27/09/17 01:40 AM
2

you use game to approach girls then decide if she’s the one you want
/r/seduction26/09/17 05:31 AM
2

Especially if the people your with are AFC.
/r/seduction24/09/17 11:32 AM
15

I do a lot of my day game at the college. Just have to becareful your not seen approaching every girl in site.
/r/seduction20/09/17 08:47 PM
-1

She's just toxic dude.
/r/seduction19/09/17 05:41 AM
5

Just give her a break. If you came off as needy your only going to come off even needier.
/r/seduction19/09/17 03:50 AM
7

I think I'm a pretty small guy I stand bout 5'5/6. You just have to accept it or else girls can tell your insecure. Girls used to always say I'm small for guy requirements and it would always bug me but after I stopped caring girls stopped bringing it up. I like to think the confidence I have in myself make me appear bigger, if that makes any sense.
/r/seduction19/09/17 03:48 AM
2

That's a good story, Not only did disarm him but you avoided paying ha.
/r/seduction14/09/17 04:09 AM
2

Are you looking for a friendly response so you two can hangout or a friendly response to let her know you don't mind??
/r/seduction14/09/17 03:56 AM
2

i think you did pretty good. You did the approach and when the guy came you introduced yourself instead of cowering out.
/r/seduction14/09/17 03:30 AM
1

i would suggest not texting her and see if she ever sends you a message. If she doesn't then let it be over. At least this way you can see if she's trying to stay in contact.
/r/seduction13/09/17 11:20 PM
2

I wouldn't say it's all nonsense--- "A good rule is to always choose the option that produces the most tension. For example if you want to set up a meet it's better to call girls vs. text them. When you text girls you let them off the hook and make it easy for them to say NO. Of course it's even better if you ask her out face to face. Anytime a woman thinks you are doing something because you fear tension (ie. using a bet as an excuse to ask her out) she is going to lose attraction for you.""---…
/r/seduction13/09/17 11:16 PM
1

Your going to have to work your way out of the friend zone. Show sexual intrest through compliments and kino escalation.
/r/seduction13/09/17 11:13 PM
2

If she has a bf it might be best to wait it out. But if she does sit next to you just compliment something she's wearing as an opener.
/r/seduction13/09/17 09:38 PM
1

I get what you mean my brother says I chase 11 but date 7s.
/r/seduction11/09/17 12:09 AM
3

In a way I probably do. But it's mostly to get the girls that society labeled to pretty for a guy like me. At the same time though I like to be an example. Kinda like look I got a girl like this you can do it too. Those are kinda my thoughts.
/r/seduction10/09/17 11:30 PM
3

If your not a master at texting, ask her to hang out. Best to do it before the conversations getting boring.
/r/seduction10/09/17 11:28 PM
2

I think everyone gets nervous on cold approaches. For me, as soon as I start talking it goes away.
/r/seduction09/09/17 07:36 AM
1

You could also have asked her to present you to her friend. Then talk to both of them. Unless they where in a hurry.
/r/seduction08/09/17 06:04 AM
5

A little issue though is that he completely ignored the other two girls after meeting them. He could have gotten their approval and they would have encouraged the friend to go with him. Just my thoughts.
/r/seduction08/09/17 06:01 AM
4

Keep control of the conversation while engaging with him too. In order to stay on top tho you'll have to lower the guys value. Show that your in charge of that set. EDIT: don't stop talking either thinking about ive taken sets just by talking more than the other guys.
/r/seduction06/09/17 11:23 PM
2

Ima be waiting for an update
/r/seduction06/09/17 11:19 PM
4

read you other two post, they all have great info thanx
/r/seduction06/09/17 05:51 PM
3

Kino escalation on cold approaches
/r/seduction04/09/17 08:28 PM
1

Approach paralysis, exactly what happened. It's exciting though, I feel like I know what kind of women I want to approach now. I'm keeping those openers memorized. It's the little push I need to break the ice. After that i should be good. Thanks for the help.
/r/seduction04/09/17 06:29 AM
2

Some days I want one girl to settle down, other days I can't believe people wake up to the same girl everyday. Kinda the same situation minus the models and vacations.
/r/seduction04/09/17 03:20 AM
1

I didn't think it was that bad Ima have to read Models though
/r/seduction03/09/17 10:44 PM
3

When in doubt back out
/r/seduction03/09/17 07:36 AM
4

Good example of never to old. Happy for yea
/r/seduction02/09/17 08:52 PM
8

Nicely said
/r/seduction02/09/17 08:51 PM
1

If she's trying to make you buy her everything she's probably a gold digger. Or if she keeps asking about financial stuff
/r/seduction02/09/17 08:50 PM
2

I think it's a good way to motivate yourself just be careful with it
/r/seduction02/09/17 07:14 AM
2

The only thing about this,is that you might mentally condition yourself to the 5 dollars. Then you won't see a purpose on approaching women. Just a thought I had.
/r/seduction02/09/17 05:57 AM
2

I think you should play it safe. If you make it awkward it'll be one long year for you.
/r/seduction02/09/17 04:18 AM
1

You simply help her carry the convo. As a guy you know what it's like to approach a stranger. Taking that into consideration it's better to help her, instead of acting all high value.
/r/seduction02/09/17 01:50 AM
1

Neil Strauss- The Game
/r/seduction02/09/17 01:32 AM
1

If a girl comes up to you and says hi, a simple how you doing will get the convo going. Since she went up to you it's obvious she wants to know you. If you stand there and wait you messed your chance.
/r/seduction02/09/17 01:21 AM
-4

I wish I went to your college. But you could always just say hi and let the guy take it from there. If not go with the simple question route
/r/seduction01/09/17 07:43 PM
5

After picking up girls for awhile I stopped believing in the whole she's different or special stuff.
/r/seduction01/09/17 06:27 AM
2

Sometimes I will. I respect their relationship but when it's over it's over
/r/seduction01/09/17 06:25 AM
2

Looking forward to that update
/r/seduction01/09/17 06:24 AM
1

Be straight forward. Don't say hang out if you want a date. Also take the risk and work on physical contact that'll escalate the relationship.
/r/seduction30/08/17 04:22 AM
3

To approach in high numbers, you literally approach every girl you see. As for the people watching it's not as if they want you to fail. I saw a dude do an approach at the gym. I was staring hard, I never do gym approaches. I saw how he did it, took tips, and went on my way. But I never hated on him once.
/r/seduction30/08/17 02:42 AM
2

I don't think you become more desperate but more relaxed. If every girl you talk to shoots you down then talking to the next one and expecting the same should be easy.
/r/seduction30/08/17 02:38 AM
1

I think you should stop talking to her and see if she'll start the conversations. If she does then you have another chance. I honestly don't see how you blew it. going for a make out after a good morning seems sudden. Was there something else maybe???
/r/seduction30/08/17 02:36 AM
1

Stay cool, if you neg her she'll think she offended you.
/r/seduction29/08/17 11:29 PM
1

What I used to do while staying in NY, I used to sit close to the pretty girls and make a statement about anything. I'd look at them so they know I'm talking to them. But it would range from this seat hurts to I think I'm lost. Worked for me, sometimes better than others.
/r/seduction29/08/17 08:40 PM
1

It's tough but you know what you have to do, good luck.
/r/seduction29/08/17 08:35 PM
5

Cmon guys he's hot for teachers
/r/seduction29/08/17 08:32 PM
1

The guys your friends talk about probably were creeps. But that doesn't mean you'll come off as a creep. Aslong as you don't act awkward or strange.
/r/seduction29/08/17 05:12 PM
1

Ha thats pretty funny but could be too
/r/seduction29/08/17 05:08 PM
3

she seems like the kind. Don't really feel like spending so much time on her tho, thanks.
/r/seduction29/08/17 06:47 AM
1

I'll keep what you said in mind, thanks. IOI=indicators of interest. FR=field report.
/r/seduction29/08/17 06:46 AM
1

Are the results of no fap really that good. Been thinking of giving it a try myself.
/r/seduction29/08/17 05:46 AM
2

Try getting help, I had some friends kill themselves this year. Hurts more then they would believe.
/r/seduction29/08/17 05:36 AM
2

Numb the feeling of sadness. That's deep never thought of that
/r/seduction29/08/17 04:34 AM
1

I can't say I do. But if you make thousands go a strip club or a night club. Get drunk, find a women live a little.
/r/seduction29/08/17 01:48 AM
1

Just let it end there friend
/r/seduction29/08/17 01:46 AM
1

I would suggest being friendly with them first. Maybe after there's sexual tension you can pull one out. But I wouldn't do it towards a stranger.
/r/seduction28/08/17 11:57 PM
2

Just send her a message and ask her how she's been
/r/seduction28/08/17 11:09 PM
1

Your too nice so they take advantage of you
/r/seduction28/08/17 09:06 PM
1

It's better than forcing a conversation
/r/seduction28/08/17 06:10 PM
2

Until you settle down and get married I don't think there's an age limit. Go to the gym so you can build some muscle and self esteem. You'll get rejected when you first start but it's a natural thing. As for pick up taking time from your hobbies, you have to decide what you want.
/r/seduction28/08/17 05:52 AM
1

Maybe get her a towel as an opener.
/r/seduction28/08/17 05:49 AM
0

I mean if their canceling the date, they should at least have the respect to tell you why. Ask them why they changed their mind.
/r/seduction28/08/17 05:48 AM
1

For me it would be short answers or obviously not engaging in the convo. I don't try to force conversations then it'll be uncomfortable for both. Also if you get the she's not having it vibes.
/r/seduction28/08/17 05:10 AM
1

Yea it takes awhile plus it's a big leap. Pretty much showing people there she's yours.
/r/seduction28/08/17 03:40 AM
1

I spent a summer in NY and I liked it a lot. There's so many opportunities to talk to women. Plus there's so diverse.
/r/seduction28/08/17 03:35 AM
11

Just cut her off she doesn't respect your opinions or care about you.
/r/seduction27/08/17 11:22 PM
1

When they try to eliminate you just go right in. It's an alpha trait. You see what you want and your going for it.
/r/seduction27/08/17 11:16 PM
1

Ha I wish it's in cali.
/r/seduction27/08/17 11:14 PM
1

Don't get embarrassed so easily. When she bumped into you and they all started laughing, that was your way in.
/r/seduction27/08/17 07:59 PM
2

Talk to the parents first then when she comes around talk to her. The dad might know what's happening tho.
/r/seduction27/08/17 07:57 PM
1

According to mystery it's seven hours
/r/seduction27/08/17 07:55 PM
1

I doubt you looked like a creep. But honestly if you had a good time that's all that matters. It doesn't sound like a bad night. Just don't let the whole night ruin your confidence and go out again.
/r/seduction27/08/17 05:47 AM
2

If you want the 9 talk to the 7. The lack of attention will draw here attention. Some girls won't want to talk just find a new one. Anytime time it's going good like the girl at the bar go for the number.
/r/seduction27/08/17 12:03 AM
5

If I looked like that I'd be confident all the time
/r/seduction26/08/17 11:59 PM
1

Even if you get nervous don't show it. Look calm and confident
/r/seduction26/08/17 10:21 PM
1

make eye contact and then dance your way over there. If there's no eye contact just go over there and ask them to dance. A lot of times girls won't say no unless your drunk
/r/seduction26/08/17 06:13 PM
9

Good tip/read for the newbies.
/r/seduction26/08/17 05:12 PM
1

Blunt about what???
/r/seduction26/08/17 04:43 PM
5

You have to S-close a few times and then tell her your not looking for a relationship
/r/seduction26/08/17 04:43 PM
1

use your dance moves to build some rapport. Dance at least two songs with a girl before talking. That way you know she's interested a little. Also hi isn't the best choice at a club. Especially not if their dancing. Trying asking a question about the club itself.
/r/seduction26/08/17 04:40 PM
1

Damn that's crazy I didn't know
/r/seduction26/08/17 04:50 AM
1

Yea the dance floor isn't the best place to try talking. If you try you'll have to isolate them away from the dance floor which could be a challenge on its own.
/r/seduction26/08/17 03:20 AM
1

I like mystery because he has techniques anyone can learn and use. Even though some of infield seem forced. His techniques are universal. RSD is more about bettering yourself and just going for approaches. But these guys are real confident and pretty good looking. So it's easier for them.
/r/seduction25/08/17 11:40 PM
7

Well either you listen or no pussy. Ha joking aside just say no to her plans
/r/seduction25/08/17 11:32 PM
7

The problem is you made yourself to available and when Hercules came you backed down.
/r/seduction25/08/17 11:31 PM
2

Your worrying way to much just enjoy the night
/r/seduction25/08/17 09:20 AM
3

Don't book in advance. Just let the night play out, you got this
/r/seduction25/08/17 06:35 AM
1

Just keep an eye out for anything strange. Other then that good luck
/r/seduction25/08/17 05:15 AM
1

True good catch
/r/seduction25/08/17 05:12 AM
2

He means just approach. Stop waiting. Good luck
/r/seduction25/08/17 04:36 AM
1

Well first see if she wants to date and then you can worry about the dad's. You could also talk to your dad if your comfortable with that.
/r/seduction25/08/17 04:34 AM
2

No never make a move if she's drunk. I'm talking about the long run. When he sees her again
/r/seduction25/08/17 04:33 AM
1

Try nofap can't say I've tried it but makes sense. Another thing too is making sexual jokes nothing to obvious tho. Make a joke and see where it takes you
/r/seduction25/08/17 02:49 AM
1

I've honestly never tried a dating website, sorry
/r/seduction25/08/17 02:36 AM
1

A girl at work asked for my number but I left her on read. Once I saw her she acted normal, I acted normal. Now it's like nothing happened
/r/seduction25/08/17 02:34 AM
4

I think in this situation it's good to be called a nice guy. You took care of her and she'll remember that. Make a move on her tho. If she wanted to hold hands while drunk that's a good sign
/r/seduction25/08/17 02:32 AM
1

Put your self at the center and get used to being there
/r/seduction25/08/17 02:29 AM
0

If it's a fresh approach use banters lightly. If you use one and get a good response don't go for a second one. Also keep in mind the type of girl your talking to. Bantering works, for me, on the stick up girls.
/r/seduction24/08/17 10:07 PM
2

Yea I have this same struggle but a little bit worse. There's literally no pretty girls here. On a good day you'll see one 7-8. I still run game tho. I normally approach in the library or if there waiting outside a classroom. I've done a few approaches were the girls are walking to their cars.
/r/seduction24/08/17 10:03 PM
1

Good luck with that.
/r/seduction24/08/17 07:26 PM
2

Oneitis, just talk to her and you'll see she's not too special
/r/seduction24/08/17 05:27 PM
3

I wouldn't say your being a pussy just careful. I'd suggest some more kino so she's ok with your touch. But since she is inexperienced your gunna have to take the lead.
/r/seduction24/08/17 02:56 AM
8

That is a tricky situation but I don't think you could have done much. She was obviously thinking bout cheating but then she made up her mind. Kissing sooner could have gone either way.
/r/seduction24/08/17 02:14 AM
1

Acknowledge the fear, take a deep breath and ask her out.
/r/seduction24/08/17 02:12 AM
2

If your in the states, nah that's pedophilia.
/r/seduction24/08/17 02:10 AM
1

you ever try a dating website?? I feel that they work more for older gents who don't have a social circle.
/r/seduction23/08/17 11:53 PM
5

I think the thread concentrates on working on your self, because all these techniques and tips need to be backed up with confidence. You could have the best game plan but without confidence it won't work as good. At least that's what I think.
/r/seduction23/08/17 11:50 PM
1

But the thing is if your cuddling with a girl, on a bed especially, it means take the shot. When you don't take those shots you get friendzoned. I'd suggest you cuddle with her and suggest porn.
/r/seduction23/08/17 11:33 PM
2

I was so nervous then her hand touched mine and I froze up. It was bad ha
/r/seduction23/08/17 09:48 PM
3

I don't think she'll let just because it seems like she prefers you watching. She's probably into that type of stuff
/r/seduction23/08/17 09:47 PM
1

If you do the compliments don't give it then awkwardly walk away
/r/seduction23/08/17 06:03 PM
1

You could switch it up just have a good excuse as to why
/r/seduction23/08/17 08:18 AM
1

If you like the girl then don't next her. If she thinks it's to early respect her decision and wait for her. Yea you might be spending more time waiting but what's the rush, never know she might be worth it.
/r/seduction23/08/17 03:51 AM
1

The thing about rejection is that it'll always affect the mental. But I think you have more of a self confidence issue. Once you realize you don't need a steady gf or that it was nothing you did you'll be in a better position mentally.
/r/seduction23/08/17 03:49 AM
1

Can you send me some of those girls accounts. I just wanna ask them something ha
/r/seduction23/08/17 12:20 AM
1

The test part about her not wanting to date you because your two years younger. I thinking the passing response is, I wouldn't date you cuz your two years older.
/r/seduction23/08/17 12:19 AM
1

The other day I accidentally liked an old girls picture on Instagram. But I'm talking a few weeks old so I freaked a little. But then she went and liked a bunch of mine so I hit her with a dm. Idk if it'd work again probably wouldn't try it again ha.
/r/seduction23/08/17 12:17 AM
1

Show her your confidence. Women aren't attracted to bodies like men are, but they fall for confidence. Just a tip take gum and a codom.
/r/seduction23/08/17 12:14 AM
2

I walked into class today and took a look around. Saw a cute blonde so I sat down next to her and spoke magic. "Hi, I'm "twobithatter". I saw a brunette later pretty cute, I'd say a 9. So I went I approached her from the side and spoke magic. "Hi, I'm "twobithatter", are you waiting for someone"?
/r/seduction23/08/17 12:11 AM
1

It seems normal to me. I do it all the time even at parties with the red cups.
/r/seduction22/08/17 11:16 PM
3

Anytime you approach a group of girls always talk to the friends. The lack of attention will make the one you want interested. At the bar I always ask the girls, "so what are you drinking tonight".
/r/seduction22/08/17 09:29 PM
1

It's a little hard to explain because every approach is different. But it's best to approach from the front or the side never from the back. The awkward feeling should go away after starting a conversation.
/r/seduction22/08/17 09:28 PM
7

All I did was read and it hit me hard
/r/seduction22/08/17 09:25 PM
1

I'm actually surprised no one shared anything
/r/seduction22/08/17 03:27 PM
71

A success story, always makes me happy to read
/r/seduction22/08/17 06:30 AM
1

When she talks about doing some activity make a comment about taking her bf with her.
/r/seduction22/08/17 06:28 AM
1

Well either way I'm pretty sure it's not because your so ugly they can't turn away
/r/seduction22/08/17 02:45 AM
3

Something I do is look for scars or even rings on a girls hand. Then I simply ask them to get a closer look. Then hold her hand from underneath her fingers and bring it close to your face. Depending on the night I might just hold her hand and lean closer as if to listen or just let go and continue talking.
/r/seduction22/08/17 02:34 AM
1

Your just being self conscious there probably not even staring at you
/r/seduction21/08/17 11:28 PM
1

Nah better ask her sooner than later.
/r/seduction21/08/17 11:27 PM
39

This is the reason I'm always on pornhub for the comments ha.
/r/seduction21/08/17 04:06 PM
2

It takes practice just keep going at it.
/r/seduction21/08/17 02:17 PM
1

I do it all the time. I honestly think it's easier than tinder.
/r/seduction21/08/17 06:29 AM
2

If your soul says take a break, take a break.
/r/seduction21/08/17 05:59 AM
0

of you think your being too aggressive, chances are you were. At the club ask the guys to dance, attempt to hold his hand and see how he reacts. You can go from there. Keep in mind tho you also have to work on your posture and body language.
/r/seduction21/08/17 05:58 AM
1

Won't lie to you bein that timid will kill the attraction. But there will be girls, especially if your a 9, who think it's cute.
/r/seduction21/08/17 05:51 AM
1

There's nothing wrong with texting her first and letting her know you had a good time. If you don't she might think you didn't have fun.
/r/seduction21/08/17 05:49 AM
5

Just looking to get laid huh.... pm. Ha jk but yea don't appear to drunk or they'll reject you. After you do approach give them a challenge don't be too easy. Try to keep them guessing so they feel like their accomplishing something.
/r/seduction21/08/17 05:16 AM
0

I don't think you should worry about status but more about how you present yourself. Do you look like a snob who lives off of mom and dad. Or do you look like someone who's got there shit together but is still fun to be around. When I talk to girls I rarely tell them what I do for a living. Even when they ask I say stuff like stay at home drinker.
/r/seduction21/08/17 03:16 AM
4

That pictures not bad but your profile seems like your looking for a serious relationship. Try to update it to seem more outgoing and the party type. Since most girls are probably just looking to have a fun night.
/r/seduction21/08/17 03:12 AM
2

The thing about movie dates is, your sitting next to a stranger for an hour not talking or anything. On the first date you have to let them get comfortable with you. Then they'll be wanting a second date once they know your a fun, cool guy.
/r/seduction21/08/17 01:58 AM
1

Find out what she's passionate. Get her talking about herself and show interest. Also use some kino to create some tension
/r/seduction21/08/17 01:46 AM
6

Take pictures in social events too that way it seems like you can be a fun guy to talk to. You could also take a pic with friends but make sure you stand out as the center of attention.
/r/seduction21/08/17 01:42 AM
2

Keep going up to more pretty girls. Just like anything else your nervous at first until you get comfortable.
/r/seduction21/08/17 01:40 AM
1

Try to learn different IOI and look at other guys and see what subtle IOI girls do to them. I think if you really knew how to spot them it'd be easier.
/r/seduction20/08/17 11:31 PM
1

I never change my way appearance maybe my attitude but that's it. Personality can get you those more challenging girls.
/r/seduction20/08/17 11:29 PM
3

That doesn't seem realistic at all to me. Too much other info you have to take into account before giving a ratio.
/r/seduction20/08/17 11:27 PM
1

Best to be straight forward.
/r/seduction20/08/17 11:26 PM
2

Nah wouldn't be bad. When you see a cute one tell her your lost ha. That should get a response.
/r/seduction20/08/17 11:25 PM
2

Nail on the head. Like you said shit hits the fan you have the rest of your life ahead of you still. Nothing lose by talking to her.
/r/seduction20/08/17 08:15 AM
3

(Dumb question)Really off topic but something I always wondered. At night on a boat is it extremely dark out there. Also do the stars look nice out there? Just curious, don't even know if you work the nights.
/r/seduction20/08/17 06:21 AM
1

What kills me is when you don't have a chance to see her again and can't stop thinking about her.
/r/seduction20/08/17 06:18 AM
1

Send her a funny/playful message. If you want to have some risky fun tell her, "so my place or yours lol". It could work out good and if not just tell her it was a joke.
/r/seduction20/08/17 06:16 AM
3

Always be supportive and never make fun of them if they get rejected. As a wingman you have to take control when it's getting bad.
/r/seduction20/08/17 06:14 AM
1

I don't think your being level headed enough my friend. You have a lot of ideas of this girl and what she wants but you haven't spoken to her yet.
/r/seduction20/08/17 06:12 AM
3

Get off of Reddit and find another girl for the night
/r/seduction20/08/17 05:37 AM
1

your only dating girl A so that you could get back at girl B. Sounds really unhealthy. If you want to forget girl B then break up with girl A. Aslong as you date her everything you do will be for girl B.
/r/seduction19/08/17 04:56 AM
4

Stop living in the past. Forget about who you used to be that's person is a nobody now. Next time you go out drink one beer to loosen up but that's it. To make friends just start talking to everyone after awhile it'll get better.
/r/seduction19/08/17 04:51 AM
2

I actually prefer solo approaches. I feel like there's less pressure on closing. Plus you don't have a pair of eyes just staring at you from the distance.
/r/seduction18/08/17 04:18 AM
1

It means he wants to show you he's married. The way he draws attention to the ring. The fact that he's fidgeting with the ring means he's thinking about messing around. You can flirt with him or give him an obvious sign and see how he reacts. This of course is all an assumption.
/r/seduction17/08/17 11:56 PM
7

For sex advice always have a condom ready just in case. And if your nervous about your performance, tell her you like the girl on top. That way she does the work.
/r/seduction17/08/17 11:16 PM
1

That's tough dude. Make a move and risk it all or else your in that friend zone forever.
/r/seduction17/08/17 11:11 PM
2

I was going to suggest she points out girls for you. Now just don't leave the mall broke ha
/r/seduction17/08/17 06:56 PM
1

I bought a pair of pants at Ross for 10 bucks, S-closed 3 times in em already. Best deal ever ha
/r/seduction17/08/17 07:23 AM
1

Don't rely on her too much though or it might lower your value in the eyes of the girls.
/r/seduction17/08/17 06:05 AM
6

i highly suggest you don't just touch her. It'll be extremely awkward for her. Work your way up to touching her and do it at a different moment.
/r/seduction17/08/17 04:04 AM
1

It's risky, it might be a little awkward, but honestly what do you have to lose.
/r/seduction17/08/17 03:05 AM
1

I would not text her if I were you. That way if she text you it's a better sign she wants to advance. I think if you see her with the mentality you have right now, it'll be awkward.
/r/seduction17/08/17 02:24 AM
3

Baby steps is better than no steps, Good luck.
/r/seduction17/08/17 02:19 AM
1

Get one opener that works for you and make that your opener every time.
/r/seduction17/08/17 02:15 AM
2

You did pretty good but bartenders are harder. since they know guys, especially the ones drinking, are going to flirt with them. So don't let it get you down. I think you stayed for too long tho. When you employed her you should have asked for her number. Since employers need that kind of info. when you see it going good get the number and continue from there. Don't stay too long.
/r/seduction17/08/17 02:12 AM
1

It takes years. Just like any craft, you'll slowly start getting better and better. When it comes to women patience is key.
/r/seduction14/08/17 06:33 AM
1

I'm a guy who will approach girls in any given situation. Honestly it's helped it get my social skills up. you learn what works and what doesn't this way. A very simple way is to ask a question, like you suggested. If you see a girl you like try approaching her and then you can decide if that's what you want to do.
/r/seduction14/08/17 06:32 AM
3

if you want to become more positive stop concentrating on the negatives. For every negative think of a positive. To make your life more interesting join some sports teams or find some hobbies.
/r/seduction14/08/17 06:27 AM
2

I think you should stick around her. Kinda mean but at one point this divorce issue is going to come down on her hard. She'll need someone to cry on and that's where you come in.
/r/seduction14/08/17 06:20 AM
1

If you take your time you might end up getting one in the long run. If you go in hot and heavy you might get a few but you'll have a bad reputation. I'm in the same situation as you, what I do is mess around with the quiet ones. That way I can keep my rep in the office. It's not the hot and heavy approach though.
/r/seduction09/08/17 06:24 AM
8

Pics for proof 😂
/r/seduction08/08/17 03:58 AM
8

I suggest you just talk to her at the rehearsals. That way it won't be awkward if she's not interested but you could still be friends.
/r/seduction08/08/17 03:57 AM
1

I think there just messing with you. Can't have you leaving to confident after sex ha.
/r/seduction06/08/17 09:02 AM
1

When you and your buddies go up to girls pick the one you want and be persistent. I think what happens is you let your buddies get first pick forcing you to fall back.
/r/seduction06/08/17 09:00 AM
1

I don't know much about the military but you do what you wanna do. I suggest treating her like she's no different from the other girls. Once you get her off her pedestal she'll be easier to get.
/r/seduction06/08/17 08:57 AM
5

You have to meet new girls to replace those memories. After you start to mess around with new girls you'll forget all about this one.
/r/seduction06/08/17 08:53 AM
2

You ever see a pretty girl and not talk to her. Later you start thinking a bunch of "what if" scenarios. Well that's why I game so I don't live with "what if".
/r/seduction05/08/17 11:54 AM
8

Be straight up and till her you want to go on a date. That'll indicate you want more then just friends.
/r/seduction05/08/17 12:54 AM
49

I think your missing the part where you do what you want. If you want to be persistent then do it. If you want to ask once and never again then do it. just pick up tips here and there but at the end of the day your game is yours, use it how you like.
/r/seduction05/08/17 12:52 AM
1

Let me guess you never do cold approaches but your game is 10/10. You could get any girl you want right.
/r/seduction04/08/17 06:51 AM
2

I think girls using game is a good thing. It means we need to advance are game to play around theirs. To me that sounds more interesting than normal game.
/r/seduction04/08/17 05:33 AM
1

No point in roasting. It's what I like about this community people legitimately give advice. To me she sounds like an office flirt I've worked with them before. Their just seeing who they can get. I suggest not showing them attention. It makes them curious. While everyone else is flirting with her she's gunna be curious why your not interested. If your lucky she'll start throwing herself at you.
/r/seduction04/08/17 05:31 AM
1

I honestly think youtubers ruined the your cute opener. I seems to put people on edge now. I would suggest a different opener. And if they start to walk away walk with them but try to keep the conversation going,
/r/seduction04/08/17 05:23 AM
3

Drink until you feel comfortable, you like a good buzz going. Then stop. If you get caught up in the moment your going to black out. After you get buzzing start talking to everyone.
/r/seduction04/08/17 02:04 AM
1

That's a tough situation. I understand the whole not wanting to regret it but if you close on her it's going to be emotionally tough on both of you. That being said what I would do is go for a hug but don't let go. Instead go straight for the kiss right after. That way depending on how she acts you can move on to the next step. And if she acts bad we'll you won't be wasting your time trying.
/r/seduction04/08/17 02:03 AM
1

That comes with experience. Know your first approach won't go as you plan but after awhile you'll get the hang of it.
/r/seduction03/08/17 04:31 PM
2

I suggest you start by building up your confidence. Look in the mirror and practice a smile you like. Then start smiling at every girl you see until you feel comfortable making an approach. Once you get the approach down you can start working on keeping a convo going.
/r/seduction03/08/17 08:50 AM
3

If you a boy gives you hard time simply ask him can you do better. Then smile at him while he nervously hides and tries to convince himself that he can if he wanted to. The risk is always worth it what do you have to lose, a beta making jokes is nothing.
/r/seduction03/08/17 08:43 AM
3

I think most people look down on the girl. It's mean but when you see a girl reject a guy don't you think to yourself, what a b****. Rarely do people think LoL that guy sucks at picking up girls.
/r/seduction03/08/17 08:36 AM
2

Don't force yourself to meet new people just let it happen. Don't be scared to get hurt again. Life is full of hurt. Some people will hurt you others will help you. Trying opening up more to people you feel comfortable with. Once you do it'll help move the relationship forward.
/r/seduction03/08/17 08:15 AM
6

Gotta stop holding on to those memories and make new ones that you can enjoy. Don't forget about them they'll always be a part of you but star making better ones.
/r/seduction03/08/17 08:00 AM
4

You've gone through so many bad experiences what do you have to lose now. Be the person that makes you happy and don't don't stop until your happy.
/r/seduction03/08/17 07:32 AM
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