I went from being a popular kid in elementary school, to a social outcast in middle school through high school. Towards end of junior year/senior year, I became super confident through working out and having a massive growth spurt (late bloomer), which carried me through college and now.

Problem is, I go through many slumps and periods of almost depression, even though I have a decent job and solid social circle. I’m on anti depressants, but I still don’t feel good enough for women even though I’ve hooked up with a decent amount (never had a lasting relationship though). I feel very disinterested at this point and don’t see the point in pursuing women at the moment...even though I should be at my best right now.

Is therapy the only answer for me? Has anyone experienced a similar timeline? I feel stuck and I’m stumped on what to do.