Help with push pull?

SwirlATL · 2018-03-27T10:56:30+00:00

From what I’ve observed, and I’m new at this so forgive me if I’m totally wrong, but the ‘push’ isn’t so much acting totally uninterested. It’s more about playfully teasing to give off a playful/fun/carefree/confident vibe. Girls are like guys in the mind, they’re just inside bodies that are both chemically hormonal and extremely desirable by gross fucked up dudes so they have to put up all these defenses and ‘shit tests’

Theozzierake · 2018-03-27T15:27:13+00:00

Push, negs= tease I'm assuming you tease your male friends. Playful stuff. Do not insult her.

SOI,Pull=compliment show ioi's. Basically indicate you like her. Because believe it or not girls are insecure and dont always know you think they are attractive.

Its a bit of a journey at first to get this stuff handled. But it is alot simpler than the community makes it seem. Otherwise how do guys that dont know this stuff get laid

qwexsugare · 2018-03-27T11:30:52+00:00

Last evening I did something unusual. I girl i've been texting for a short while wrote "Thanks!" to my genius compliment which I thought was short and lame. So I read the text (which indicates He has read it), but didn't reply. After 3 hours, she wrote something again. Huge win for me.

TruthSFree · 2018-03-27T13:48:14+00:00

You can't 'act' uninterested, you can only focus your attention on something else. So it's not like compliment, followed by insult. It's more like paying attention when you like her behavior and being distracted when you don't. www.truthrelationshipmanagement.com

sinbad2011 · 2018-03-27T19:18:06+00:00

Dude, be real. Push pull happens naturally when you're real. She mentions Kardashians and u say i hate that show. that is a push. When you're real, you are doing it naturally.

When you're using push pull as a technique, you're being a value sucker because you're spitting out words hoping you get her to like you. Focus on yourself instead. Focus on what makes you excited, what you find fun, and positive and then talk about that. That way, you're adding value instead of saying stuff to get a reaction of her getting to like you (which is taking).

think about it.

Date_Quality_Women · 2018-03-29T05:25:40+00:00

Like Swirl said, it isn't about acting uninterested. It's about:

1) Saying something that makes it seem like you won't work out together (ie. You like Katy Perry... we'll never work out)

then

2) Following it with something that implies there's a way you still can (ie. I guess if you dress like some of her cute outfits then I can deal with it...)

Any other questions about that?

x_digger · 2018-03-27T15:49:02+00:00

The way I do it is by becoming interested in other people and other activities, which makes me less interested in the girls that I’m not paying attention to - in other words, pushing.

I also lightly fuck and joke around with said girls in sheer boredom.

Then, if they hit me up I’ll respond when I have time and am a bit more interested. I’ll continue having fun with messing around and occasionally show some affection if there is any - aka pull.

I could be totally wrong with these terms as I don’t use “push” or “pull”. But, these seem appropriate and related to what I’ve been doing.

Cheers!

Title	Help with push pull?
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Date	March 27, 2018 8:50 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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