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| 1 | Nervous Around Girls?Do you take care of yourself? The way you dress and all that? Your style? If not, hire a stylist to help you find a good look you like. For me, when i dress well, i def feel more confident. | /r/seduction | 24/01/21 05:13 AM |
| 3 | Nervous Around Girls?Men and women love spending time with each other. Money helps makes life better. So, why shouldn't men and women chase those things? :) | /r/seduction | 24/01/21 05:11 AM |
| 2 | Nervous Around Girls?lol. That's awesome. You def do feel like a badass after you do what you want to do. | /r/seduction | 24/01/21 05:10 AM |
| 3 | Nervous Around Girls?So what you're telling me is that you aren't nervous to talk to a stranger in a grocery store you're attracted to? You aren't a nervous in a loud club? At all? If so, good for you. You are an exception. But, it is normal for guys and girls to be nervous to talk to a guy/gal they like. There are evolutionary reasons why guys are nervous. The theory goes...in tribal times, men could get in trouble if they talked to the wrong man's wife. But, anyways...ya, it's normal. | /r/seduction | 24/01/21 05:10 AM |
| 1 | Don't talk about...I agree. The women was not interested in them at all. One should never try to make a girl like him. The focus of the video was not on the girl. I was trying to communicate the tips in an entertaining way. It would be much less entertaining if i just talked in front of the camera. But, "only approach women that show initial attraction to you through flirting." this part, i disagree with. Girls on the streets don't show any attraction to anyone. Girls shopping won't show initial attraction. Yet, w… | /r/seduction | 24/01/21 12:59 AM |
| 3 | Nervous Around Girls?Who is not kind of nervous before talking to a girl? That's never going to go away. It will just be reduced. Every guy that i know that talks to girls regularly is nervous before talking to a girl. But, they do it anyways. Here (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=evgG61wL1Es&t), before the pandemic, i talked to girls on the street and i was always a bit nervous but once you talk to girls and have fun, it goes away. | /r/seduction | 23/01/21 08:58 PM |
| 1 | Don't talk about...That would work since you're interested in the subject. If you're not though and the girl asks you...what do you do for work? For me, i don't wanna talk about that. Most guys don't either. For you, you love your job. :) That is amazing! | /r/seduction | 23/01/21 08:55 PM |
| 7 | Nervous Around Girls?Not if you own it. When you're talking to a girl you like, that shows confidence already. If you are a bit nervous, that don't affect you much. Especially if you chat and have fun...move on to other emotions. If you resist being nervous, you will stay nervous. :) | /r/seduction | 23/01/21 08:53 PM |
| 3 | Quick Conversation TIP (anxiety reducer)Thanks:) | /r/seduction | 15/11/20 10:19 PM |
| 2 | 1 Conversation Mistake Guys MakeThank you. Appreciate the positive feedback! | /r/seduction | 05/11/20 01:58 AM |
| 1 | 1 Conversation MISTAKE guys makeSorry for the late reply but here is some of my experience. I was on the same boat. I used to want girls to like me right away too. Like, i used to focus on them liking me and was always wondering, even on a date, does this women like me? That made me needy AND focus on the wrong thing. I learned to get rid of neediness. Then, i started focusing on HAVING FUN with the girl. When your focus is having fun and in a non needy way, you are able to treat everyone as friends and you do not WANT ANYTHIN… | /r/seduction | 27/10/20 07:05 PM |
| 1 | 1 Conversation MISTAKE guys make100%. This increases your confidence. See every place you go as its your house. Campus, Panera or anywhere...it's your house. This helped me so much when i was starting out. | /r/seduction | 23/10/20 04:49 PM |
| 1 | 1 Conversation MISTAKE guys makeThank you! Appreciate the positive feedback. | /r/seduction | 23/10/20 04:47 PM |
| 1 | 1 Conversation MISTAKE guys makeThank you. Appreciate the positive feedback! Also, glad the tip was useful. :) | /r/seduction | 23/10/20 12:09 AM |
| 12 | 1 Conversation MISTAKE guys makedef. You gotta respect everyone. Treat people how you want to be treated. But, that has nothing to do with my post. Maybe you misread what i wrote? Treating someone like an old friend = respectful and fun. When you are fun...girls get more comfortable around you. When you are both comfortable around each other...it is easier for you two to connect. | /r/seduction | 22/10/20 11:04 PM |
| 10 | 1 Conversation MISTAKE guys makeMy bad man. I'm not trying to be manipulative or anything. It's just a conversation mistake i used to make and i know lots of guys make it. The content does match the title, doesn't it? What else could i have made the title? I'm specifically talking about an old mistake. But, didn't mean to get you worked up man. even if it was clickbaity, as long as it helps guys a bit with their skills, it is ok. The more see it, the better. Many guys won't benefit it from this advice but many others will. | /r/seduction | 22/10/20 11:00 PM |
| 18 | 1 Conversation MISTAKE guys makelol. Is it cringey? My bad. I'm not a pro at thumbnails and i'm not a guru. Just a guy who loves improving his skills and i'm just sharing past mistakes to help other guys avoid them and save time. | /r/seduction | 22/10/20 10:55 PM |
| 1 | 1 Conversation MISTAKE guys makeWaaaa. are you crazy? no girl likes you. You are insane man. With that attitude, it is gonna be hard to have the confidence that is necessary to be attractive. Bro, work on your self worth. Know that you are attractive. There are a TON of girls out there and sure, a lot wont like us, but some will. Don't be affected by the girls that dont like you. Don't let them stop you from meeting the girls that do like you. You are going to add value to those girls lives. Just work on your confidence. I can… | /r/seduction | 22/10/20 07:18 PM |
| 2 | 1 Conversation MISTAKE guys makeThank you! | /r/seduction | 22/10/20 07:14 PM |
| 1 | 1 Conversation MISTAKE guys makelol | /r/seduction | 22/10/20 07:14 PM |
| 1 | 1 Conversation MISTAKE guys make:). It will for sure. | /r/seduction | 22/10/20 07:14 PM |
| 2 | 1 Conversation MISTAKE guys makenever too late.:) | /r/seduction | 22/10/20 07:13 PM |
| 0 | Women Won't Date You if...(VERY common Mistake!)Thank you. Appreciate the positive feedback brother. | /r/seduction | 07/09/20 03:46 AM |
| 2 | How to Talk to Girls - COSTLY MISTAKE!Don't worry about appearing cool or winning or anything like that. Focus on being positive and try to have fun as well as getting to know the other person's personality. what they're like. That way, you will realize that conversations with most people are a team effort. | /r/seduction | 04/09/20 12:25 AM |
| 1 | How to Talk to Girls - COSTLY MISTAKE!Make your goal to express, not impress. Don't worry about your reputation as much. You know? Like, i used to worry about making sure i appear cool or not saying things that are embarrassing. Focus on the expressing, sharing and listening/empathizing. Once you get in that flow, you will be less concerned about you. You will be more interested in them and just enjoying the interaction between you and the other person. | /r/seduction | 04/09/20 12:23 AM |
| 1 | How to Talk to Girls - COSTLY MISTAKE!Thank you! | /r/seduction | 04/09/20 12:20 AM |
| 2 | 1 Thing that makes guys NEEDY AFMy man! Glad to hear you learned from the mistake we make instead of getting bitter about it. Many guys just get butthurt/angry at women and end up in a really bad place. Awesome to hear you took another path! | /r/seduction | 28/08/20 05:11 PM |
| 2 | 1 Thing that makes guys NEEDY AFThank you. Appreciate it! | /r/seduction | 28/08/20 05:08 PM |
| 1 | 1 Thing that makes guys NEEDY AFYep. 100% agree. | /r/seduction | 28/08/20 05:07 PM |
| 1 | 1 Thing that makes guys NEEDY AFUr welcome. Glad it was helpful! | /r/seduction | 28/08/20 05:06 PM |
| 1 | Be Higher VALUE (Build more comfort)haha. does he? | /r/seduction | 15/08/20 03:04 AM |
| 4 | Race & Looks DO matter BUT...haha...yah, I am an arab. That's true. Lots of girls like Arabs. That was my point. There are a ton of girls with different preferences. It's useless to focus on the ones that don't like me. Those two realizations are empowering. Few smaller cities are too racist though. I heard places like Indiana are a big nono. So, if someone is living in one of those spots...move? Not just for meeting women. Just for a better life. | /r/seduction | 05/07/20 09:23 PM |
| 1 | Trigger ATTRACTION Switches to avoid friend-zoneNormally, when a guy is talking to a girl, he treats her like he does his buddy. Hides ANY interest in her as a girl. He either rejects himself or he has repressed feelings of shame about his sexuality. So, he hides the fact that he thinks the girl is cute. He dosen't show it nonverbally or verbal. If you are comfortable with being a man that likes this women, you will treat her like a potential girlfriend or a date. That means you add a bit of spice to the interaction. This is subtle stuff. Thi… | /r/seduction | 27/06/20 10:49 PM |
| 2 | Trigger ATTRACTION Switches to avoid friend-zoneNot insulting. But, you just gotta take more action. When i used talk to 20 girls, i got rejected by 19. That was great still. Now it is a bit better. But, all you need is to get like 3 dates. Do you take enough action? Do you take care of the way you look? Have you fixed your conversation skills? Make them dope? Do you reject yourself often? Idk what to tell you man. No offense but you seem to have a lot of beliefs that are not gonna serve you well. Start adopting empowering beliefs now. Know y… | /r/seduction | 27/06/20 10:35 PM |
| 1 | Trigger ATTRACTION Switches to avoid friend-zoneSome people like video format. I outlines 3 of the points from the video and provided a video link. This is normal practice in the blogging world. | /r/seduction | 27/06/20 09:02 PM |
| 1 | Trigger ATTRACTION Switches to avoid friend-zoneSafety concern is legit though. Idk about the origin but comfort is key. :) | /r/seduction | 27/06/20 09:00 PM |
| 2 | Trigger ATTRACTION Switches to avoid friend-zoneMy bad lol. | /r/seduction | 27/06/20 08:59 PM |
| 2 | Trigger ATTRACTION Switches to avoid friend-zoneCongrats on getting married! | /r/seduction | 27/06/20 08:58 PM |
| 1 | Trigger ATTRACTION Switches to avoid friend-zoneThank you! | /r/seduction | 27/06/20 08:58 PM |
| 1 | Trigger ATTRACTION Switches to avoid friend-zoneThank you! | /r/seduction | 27/06/20 08:58 PM |
| 1 | Trigger ATTRACTION Switches to avoid friend-zoneThank you. | /r/seduction | 27/06/20 08:57 PM |
| 1 | Trigger ATTRACTION Switches to avoid friend-zonehaha | /r/seduction | 27/06/20 08:57 PM |
| 1 | Trigger ATTRACTION Switches to avoid friend-zone50?! good god. that one hurt a bit lol. early 30s. Who cares about how someone types? | /r/seduction | 27/06/20 08:57 PM |
| 1 | Trigger ATTRACTION Switches to avoid friend-zonehaha | /r/seduction | 27/06/20 08:53 PM |
| 1 | Trigger ATTRACTION Switches to avoid friend-zonePUA? Having leadership skills is key in EVERY part of life. Owning your insecurities is key to success in everything. Flirting is key to now ending up in the friend zone and creating a spark between you and her. What are you talking about soyzillian? No offense bro, but, that is not garbage. | /r/seduction | 27/06/20 08:53 PM |
| 1 | Trigger ATTRACTION Switches to avoid friend-zoneFlirt. You can flirt without talking by the way you look at her for a bit. You can flirt by talking to her like a women, instead of friend. This can be as simple as we should take a road trip next week to chicago. It dont have to be real. Just riffing for fun. Fun is key. | /r/seduction | 27/06/20 08:51 PM |
| 1 | Trigger ATTRACTION Switches to avoid friend-zoneYou gotta be careful about competitiveness. Where are you coming from? Are you coming from the place of i got to put ppl down? Or are you coming from the place of people are amazing but i want to do my very best and be the best? If you do the first, your vibe suffers. | /r/seduction | 27/06/20 08:50 PM |
| 0 | Trigger ATTRACTION Switches to avoid friend-zoneYou don't have to tell her or you can. Don't make it a big deal. Just make sure you treat her like a potential gf. treat her like a women. Do not treat her like a friend. If you treat her like a women and you two are a good match, there will be that instant chemistry between you two. Even girsl who are NOT interested appreciate it because 99% of guys are trying to sneak in thru the friendzone. | /r/seduction | 27/06/20 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Trigger ATTRACTION Switches to avoid friend-zoneAgree. Always get her opinion as well since it has to be fun for both ppl. | /r/seduction | 27/06/20 08:46 PM |
| 0 | Trigger ATTRACTION Switches to avoid friend-zoneYou flirt. Treat her like a women. Instead of treating her like a friend. Flirting can be simple like the way you look at her or simple verbal stuff like we should go to cuba one day. | /r/seduction | 27/06/20 08:45 PM |
| 0 | Trigger ATTRACTION Switches to avoid friend-zoneYep. If you flirt, which is point 2 in the video, you will not end up in the friend zone. :) | /r/seduction | 27/06/20 08:44 PM |
| 2 | Should i talk to her for the 2nd time ?Bro, great job for taking action but talk to other girls also talk to her. even if she has a boyfriend, treat her as a sister. Be a cool guy and make friends with girls. REAL friendship. No sex ninja shit("id hit that if i could"). Make many many friends. You're already cool. So, Just be cool anddon't get in your own way. Makes things a lot more fun. | /r/seduction | 26/06/20 12:01 AM |
| 1 | [Chicago] Daygame Neighborhoods, logistics ?A lot more hot women in Chicago. I lived in both cities and NYC beats Chicago. You can't compare them. Macys water tower area was best if you're interested in attractive women. H&M as well. Have fun man. | /r/seduction | 25/06/20 11:57 PM |
| 1 | Question on flirtingYou can ask causally but it's not necessary. Often, the girl does not have a boyfriend but just has some bang buddy or not even that. Just don't make the question a big deal. Just ask her to come with you to salsa and have fun. That was my goto before corona. :/ | /r/seduction | 25/06/20 11:54 PM |
| 1 | What separates men who get laid, from men who rarely get laid?Emotional stability is a big trigger. If you get mad easily, girl's brain warns her. This is primal switch to help her survive. So, if you're a chill dude, you're more likely to make women comfortable around you. And i'm sure you know comfort is HUGE in game. Another thing is taking care of yourself. If you take care of yourself, it is showing that you respect yourself. if you don't, you don't respect yourself. Another thing is realizing that rejection happens and rejection is normal. Average gu… | /r/seduction | 25/06/20 11:52 PM |
| 1 | Can someone tell why a girl rejects him?Even if you got ur shit together, many girls are gonna reject us for many other reasons. Different values, different personality types and other stuff. Rejection is normal. Don't let it stop you. Don't sweat rejections. Just improve your social skills, not just for the girls, but for yourself. Girls, you can get them NOW. Girls got low standards. But, the cooler you become, the more girls will want you because u get hotter. | /r/seduction | 25/06/20 11:47 PM |
| 1 | Can someone please explain me how confidence can build attraction?Initial attraction is when the girl is already interested in you. You go talk to her and if you are insecure/lack confidence, she will be turned off. She is programmed to look for confident men to protect her. It all goes back to tribal times. If you don't have initial attraction, you go talk to a girl and then she notices you're confident, are comfortable around people, and other things women find attractive, you will be showing attractive qualities. Kind of like a girl showing you her ass. T… | /r/seduction | 25/06/20 11:44 PM |
| 2 | NEEDY/Creepy vibe with GIRLS?Thank you for the feedback! Always much appreciated!! | /r/seduction | 25/06/20 04:51 PM |
| 7 | NEEDY/Creepy vibe with GIRLS?yep. wanting someone is normal but feeling like you NEED someone is not cool. It becomes a problem. | /r/seduction | 19/06/20 10:55 PM |
| -10 | NEEDY/Creepy vibe with GIRLS?Are you against education? As a dude that was EXTREMELY shy, it is a must for me to empower guys to be able to improve their love life. Their life in general. So many guys end up watching porn and just doing nothing about their love life. UNACCEPTABLE! Idk if you know but the side effects of p orn are ED, more anxiety and more! This ain't my first channel. My old channel was shadow banned because of the pick up artist sh!t that went on. I had to start a new one. Anyways, wish you the best man. | /r/seduction | 19/06/20 10:53 PM |
| 9 | NEEDY/Creepy vibe with GIRLS?100%. Once we are good all by ourselves, it is much easier to attract the girls we are interested in. Being needy makes it almost a 100% that we will fail. | /r/seduction | 19/06/20 10:46 PM |
| 1 | Why TINDER Sucks BALLZ!Hilarious and true. | /r/seduction | 18/02/20 02:52 AM |
| 1 | Why TINDER Sucks BALLZ!Good. I thought you kept track of the number. The guys that do that have low self esteem and want to feel worthy because they don't like themselves inside. They got major validation issues. Real self esteem comes from within but you already know that. | /r/seduction | 16/02/20 07:47 PM |
| 3 | Why TINDER Sucks BALLZ!I think Tinder is dying too. But, last night i spotted another dating app on the top downloaded apps. So, its always good to see what works on there but, they are gonna be MUCH more superficial standards there. And for guys who are not considered traditionally good looking, cold approach is gonna be #1 because they can trigger other behavioral attraction switches. :) | /r/seduction | 16/02/20 05:00 PM |
| 1 | Why TINDER Sucks BALLZ!5 10- 5 11. I don't put my height on there. Dude, I am super shy and nervous. I just know i gotta grab my balls and do what is necessary. EVERYONE is insecure and nervous. But, some sh*t you just gotta do no matter what. Just don't fight the nervousness. let it be and it passes. Read power of now (only chapter 2) and start meditation. Not like sit down and meditate but like all the time....when you're walking around...be out of your head and be present. Those who only meditate for 10 minutes and… | /r/seduction | 16/02/20 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Why TINDER Sucks BALLZ!Record your conversations. Analyze them. See how you can improve. You're dope rn and awesome because you're doing your best but you can improve and be awesomer. | /r/seduction | 16/02/20 04:54 PM |
| 1 | Why TINDER Sucks BALLZ!Thanks man. Appreciate it. | /r/seduction | 16/02/20 04:53 PM |
| 1 | Why TINDER Sucks BALLZ!I agree | /r/seduction | 16/02/20 04:52 PM |
| 1 | Why TINDER Sucks BALLZ!Thank you. | /r/seduction | 16/02/20 04:52 PM |
| 3 | Why TINDER Sucks BALLZ!Don't keep a n count man lol. Why? Who cares about that? Just enjoy your life. Make valuable relationships. | /r/seduction | 16/02/20 04:52 PM |
| 1 | Why TINDER Sucks BALLZ!I said still work on Tinder/online dating. It is not going anywhere but in real life, you can improve your skills soooo much faster and have more control. Why would you give up on online dating. My point is don't make it your #1 and don't let it affect your self worth. | /r/seduction | 16/02/20 04:50 PM |
| 1 | Why TINDER Sucks BALLZ!thanks | /r/seduction | 16/02/20 04:49 PM |
| 3 | Why TINDER Sucks BALLZ!Def. work on both. I got nothing against Tinder. I just haven't figured it out yet. I like real life a lot more because you get instant feedback if you record yourself and you can keep adjusting. I had major validation issues when i started. Wanted every interaction to go well very bad and that affected my results, big time! | /r/seduction | 16/02/20 04:48 PM |
| 5 | Why TINDER Sucks BALLZ!You're right. I was desperate for a joke. My gut told me to cut it out but i left it. Messed up. Thanks. | /r/seduction | 15/02/20 09:50 PM |
| 4 | Why TINDER Sucks BALLZ!I'm just being honest. I get transexual matching with me. I got nothing against them. | /r/seduction | 15/02/20 09:10 PM |
| 4 | Things you do that make Girls HATE youagree. I was mainly talking about how some guys get all these romantic ideas and they have not even been dating for a week. | /r/seduction | 11/01/20 07:21 PM |
| 2 | Dope Conversation SKillZThank you! 🙏 Appreciate the positive feedback and the support. Happy new year! | /r/seduction | 05/01/20 03:56 PM |
| 1 | Taking good pictures of yourselfPractice. Get comfortable. NO selfies. | /r/seduction | 30/12/19 07:41 PM |
| 2 | If you suffer from Anxiety, you need this...hi I lick apple for breakfast and eat cookie for dinner :() Cookie for dinner? I hope you're messing with me lol. | /r/seduction | 23/12/19 03:43 PM |
| 0 | If you suffer from Anxiety, you need this...how is your diet? What do you eat for lunch? | /r/seduction | 22/12/19 05:42 PM |
| 1 | Why is it so hard to get a date with girls?Ya, don't drink. Man up and do sober approaches. | /r/seduction | 07/12/19 04:22 AM |
| 1 | Why is it so hard to get a date with girls?sub record yourself talking to girls. notice the subtle tone shifts in your voice. if its not right, your body language is not gonna be right too. What is your mindset? Seeking approval? Julien is a great mentor to fix these issues. | /r/seduction | 06/12/19 03:51 PM |
| 1 | Seduction is a numbers gameSeduction is a numbers game 📷 thats lazy general advice. Only partly true. I met some guys who asked for help that have been doing game for YEARS. got no results. If you don't take care of foundation issues, you can meet 10K girls and you will not have an effect on their vagaygay. Their vagaygay can't get wet. | /r/seduction | 06/12/19 03:54 AM |
| 2 | Just Got Out Of A 6 Year Relationship 6 Months Ago... How Do I Get Back In The Game?Go out. have fun. don't be needy. do as much as you can. Join social clubs. go salsa. make a ton of new friends. Look presentable. You an item on sale now. You don't wanna be picked up by some cheap mofo. you wanna be picked up by a person with money. Idk how this analogy is working lol. but, the rich is the girl with value. | /r/seduction | 06/12/19 03:52 AM |
| 2 | How to spot the reason you’re failing with women?record yourself. do you come off pathetic when you talk to girls in college? take out ur phone brother. i was very surprised at how i sounded when talking to girls after recording myself. I 10xed my whole presence. | /r/seduction | 06/12/19 03:49 AM |
| 2 | Can an average looking guy become attractive by using game?Model looks vs. take care of yourself attractive looks. BIG DIFF. model looks dont matter. attractive is a guy with confidence and takes care of himself. Mentally, phsycally and all that! So, wanna be high value and look hot to girls? do those things. We men are lucky. girls dont care about model looks but we men do. So, bad looking girls are F***ED but bad looking dudes can change thier lives. | /r/seduction | 06/12/19 03:46 AM |
| 1 | Are short answers a go to sign to ignore the message?connect her to your IG and show urself going out with other girls. Just go out more, you will meet these other girls. Then, she will beg you. Girls are followers of the guys who are harder to get. Then, you will start to develop standards. who do i wanna hang out with. The more value you have, the higher value you will want. higher value girls. High value girls want high value men. | /r/seduction | 06/12/19 03:44 AM |
| 0 | Why is it so hard to get a date with girls?Your subcommunications. Keep working on them. If you're not gonna play the game and complain, then you're not gonna win. Get out or stop b*tching. | /r/seduction | 06/12/19 03:41 AM |
| 3 | I finally did it!!# progress. Keep pushing your limits. Don't have conversations over text. Keep it simple. If girls just text and don't wanna meet in person, they using you for curing their boredome. | /r/seduction | 06/12/19 03:40 AM |
| 10 | If a girl looks back at you when you cross paths does it mean anything?Yes. next time don't wonder. just do it. You're gonna die one day. Make your life awesome. Make it a dope story. not some life filled with what ifs | /r/seduction | 06/12/19 03:39 AM |
| 1 | Girls Will NEVER like Nice Guys (Why it's IMPOSSIBLE)You're right. Trying to be spontaneous is bad because trying to be anything makes you not that thing. The thing is though...most guys are spontaneous but don't act on that instinct. Like, for example, i would get bored in a coffee shop after like 2 hours with a girl. If i was real, id be like...lets go get some ice cream or pizza or anything else. making me more spontaneous. If you are not spontaneous, being more spontaneous will help you because girls like adventure. And the randomness happens … | /r/seduction | 28/11/19 03:17 AM |
| 2 | Girls Will NEVER like Nice Guys (Why it's IMPOSSIBLE)You're right. Trying to be spontaneous is bad because trying to be anything makes you not that thing. The thing is though...most guys are spontaneous but don't act on that instinct. Like, for example, i would get bored in a coffee shop after like 2 hours with a girl. If i was real, id be like...lets go get some ice cream or pizza or anything else. making me more spontaneous. If you are not spontaneous, being more spontaneous will help you because girls like adventure. And the randomness happens … | /r/seduction | 28/11/19 03:17 AM |
| 2 | Approaching can get so... dullBad attitude. push it. push yourself in many other ways. your routine has become predictable. you desire unpredictability. | /r/seduction | 27/11/19 07:28 PM |
| 2 | What should I aim for?Do more cool activities like salsa and yoga and sh*t. you will meet more friends which will introduce you to hot girls. Go to a local college, study there. read a book. meet girls in the process. Work on your neediness. | /r/seduction | 15/11/19 04:40 PM |
| 3 | With the death of RSD, should we be having a funeral for PUA?Guys will always gather ideas on how to get p*ussy lol. We love it too much. Even if its not called PUA, there will always be sharing of ideas. | /r/seduction | 15/11/19 03:53 AM |
| 1 | looking for wingmen around UVA Charlottesvillefind non pua wings if none are here | /r/seduction | 15/11/19 03:50 AM |
| 0 | Trying to be "ALPHA" is BETAAppreciate the feedback. But, each person has their purpose. My goal is to help guys who were in my position. Help some people get on the right track. I'm not saying I'm better than those people. Those guys have much more knowledge in other fields than i do. But, i do wanna share what I know, share the ideas of what i am passionate about. Share what I have first hand experience in. My friend, this attitude is going to hurt you in the future. EVERYTHING has been done. If you have that attitude, y… | /r/seduction | 12/11/19 11:12 PM |
| 1 | Trying to be "ALPHA" is BETAI agree. What i meant was like...if you have a different opinion than the person you're talking to, you aren't afraid to state your opinion and respect theirs. In groups, you state your opinion, not go along. With girls, you don't agree with everything she says just for her to like you. I don't like the guys who are always trying to fight. they're insecure and are trying to prove themselves through violence. There are other reasons they fight but most reasons lead to insecurities. | /r/seduction | 12/11/19 08:51 PM |
| 2 | Why should you not tell a woman how many women you’ve slept with? How should you answer instead?tell her one billion and change the subject. | /r/seduction | 09/11/19 03:26 PM |
| 1 | Opinions on: Texting should ONLY be for setting up datestexting is to be brief. keep it simple and set up a time to hang out. Girls are dying to hang out. | /r/seduction | 09/11/19 03:25 PM |
| 1 | Pick up chellangesAsk 5 girls for they number and try not to care. Giving genuine compliments. really depends on where you are. There are so many fun exercises to get you warmed up. for example, You don't wanna be doing weird sh*t on small campuses. | /r/seduction | 09/11/19 03:25 PM |
| 1 | My First ApproachGreat job. Next, push urself another two steps forward.:) | /r/seduction | 09/11/19 03:22 PM |
| 1 | How to make intentions clear when getting her number?Your vibe should tell. Flirty vibe | /r/seduction | 09/11/19 03:21 PM |
| 2 | Taller WomanTaller girls are much easier to get along with. They appreciate cold approach much more too because most guys are intimidated by them and don't get approached as much. I found...the smaller the chick, the more she gets approached. | /r/seduction | 09/11/19 03:17 PM |
| 1 | Is kissing on a first date always a must if you sense attraction?Y not? dont make kissing a big deal. its just another way to touch n have fun. | /r/seduction | 09/11/19 03:11 PM |
| 1 | How can I break the touch barrier ?high five, then go from there. Here is a video. might be helpful. titled How to Touch a Girl Without Being Awkward (Build COMFORT) Link: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x2RgP-IFC4Y | /r/seduction | 09/11/19 03:10 PM |
| 2 | Advice on picking up in Japan?yea. do it everywhere, not just the main city, | /r/seduction | 09/11/19 03:07 PM |
| 1 | What do you think of RSD Madison?He's the real deal. Met him in Vegas an Encore. He was walking around with Sarah. Cool guy. | /r/seduction | 08/11/19 04:51 PM |
| 1 | Should i own the fact that I'm a virgin?People actually ask? Strange lol But why is it a big deal? You just haven't done something yet. big deal. I guess its a big deal to you. it was to me as well but it really is not a big deal. Focus on things you can control. Don't worry about people. What can you control? Your style, your body language, your behavior. All these things make you a leader. when you focus on these things, people will think you a pimp and girls will chase. Idk where you are in your journey but, please focus on what yo… | /r/seduction | 07/11/19 07:24 PM |
| 1 | Approach Anxiety PAINS (getting rid of AA)Btw, If you got any value from the video, please take a second to give me some feedback on my speaking skills. I have been trying to improve them. Anything would help. Always open to feedback. | /r/seduction | 07/11/19 03:18 PM |
| 1 | Should i own the fact that I'm a virgin?Just don't bring it up. Noone cares or asks. you know? | /r/seduction | 07/11/19 02:53 PM |
| 1 | Q about gaming in barsis there not more than one bar? | /r/seduction | 07/11/19 02:51 PM |
| 1 | How do I get over the nervousness of actually talking to women who show obvious interest?Push yourself and move it forward with them. keep it going even though you nervous. | /r/seduction | 07/11/19 02:47 PM |
| 1 | Do you think all girls prefer guys to not be nice to them?They want nice. but real nice, not fake nice. So, are you nice to everyone? are you nice for you or for them? are you nice because you want people to like you? big difference. | /r/seduction | 07/11/19 02:47 PM |
| 2 | 50 Cent and Robert Green - The 50th LawLove this book! | /r/seduction | 07/11/19 02:46 PM |
| 1 | Low energy vs. laidbackIts not about energy. Its about intensity. That masculine piercing presence. | /r/seduction | 07/11/19 02:44 PM |
| 1 | Who do you think is the best PUA coach?Honest signalz | /r/seduction | 07/11/19 02:42 PM |
| 1 | How can I do an indirect openerthen be like, i was jk. i actually thought you were cute, which is why i stopped u | /r/seduction | 07/11/19 02:40 PM |
| 1 | How to get in the social mood before going outI usually say hi to people walking. High five ppl. sing in the car or keep talking as if im doing a podcast. | /r/seduction | 07/11/19 01:04 AM |
| 2 | What do people do on a date?Everything? You asking 4 Too much.lol Some things to focus on dates focus on having fun yourself. if something is fun for you, its likely fun for her too. don't focus too much on what to do. Be curious about her. Very curious. in fact start being curious about eveyrone, not just girls. ask follow up questions. investigate further. Most ppl ask...what do u do? she answers nurse. they dont ask follow up questions which will lead to interesting convos. What made you go 2 nursing. did you wanna do t… | /r/seduction | 07/11/19 01:03 AM |
| 1 | Why do you guys care about having sex so much??Dooooood, come on man. Don't JUST masterbate. Sex increases testosterone and it is a basic need. DOn't go in denial and be one of those guys who say i dont need women. There are too many benefits to sex. Don't be obsessed with it but don't live without it. If you convince yourself you don't need it, you setting yourself up for failure. | /r/seduction | 07/11/19 12:57 AM |
| 1 | In your opinion, what are 3 things a good wing man does?Knows how to calibrate in the conversation. Makes you seem like the cooler guy when you talking to a girl you like. KEY! | /r/seduction | 07/11/19 12:56 AM |
| 1 | Are females in their late 20's the ones to look for?Dude, never settle. GIrls who are older...27+ start to look for provider but they eventually get divorced or cheat on them. Do you want to be that guy? I don't. SHIIIIII. So, focus on learning how to have fun and being a better conversationalist and all that. You are very attractive! Don't sell yourself short!!! I personally found older girls to be less fun. They're more serious. I focus on finding classy younger girls. 20-25. | /r/seduction | 07/11/19 12:55 AM |
| 1 | SIGNS a GIRL wants YOU to Approach HER (How to tell if she wants to TALK to you)haha my bad. Its gonna drive people mad when they click on it and see my ugly a*s. lol | /r/seduction | 06/11/19 04:19 AM |
| 1 | Making outWhat are you doing bro. Just have fun. why you making this work?!?! lol just sayin | /r/seduction | 06/11/19 03:15 AM |
| 1 | How do I stop being creepy.Your belief that you're creepy...get rid of it. You are not creepy as of NOW! Don't keep trying to not be creepy...just forget u are. Start recording your conversations and listen to em. hire coaches and get feedback from them. how is your body lanague? how is your neediness? How is your dress style? Do you take care of yourself? | /r/seduction | 05/11/19 10:47 PM |
| 1 | SIGNS a GIRL wants YOU to Approach HER (How to tell if she wants to TALK to you)any feedback would be awesome! | /r/seduction | 05/11/19 06:21 PM |
| 1 | SIGNS a GIRL wants YOU to Approach HER (How to tell if she wants to TALK to you)Would love to know what you guys think of this video as i am trying to improve my video creating skills. Thanks for your time! | /r/seduction | 05/11/19 06:21 PM |
| 1 | Tips to recognise indicators of interest in really packed/flashy clubs?They drunk. as long as they talking to you, its an indicator of interest. | /r/seduction | 05/11/19 03:32 PM |
| 1 | Snapchat response timeYou not supposed to have conversations over text. Keep it simple and set up a hang out. | /r/seduction | 05/11/19 03:29 PM |
| 1 | Seducing without alcohol?always. | /r/seduction | 05/11/19 03:26 PM |
| 2 | Who/what helped you learn/improve the most?Self reflection AFTER each night and day, not DURING. Recording yourself helps a TON. Voice recorder on your phone will change ur life. | /r/seduction | 05/11/19 03:25 PM |
| 2 | Went to a club for the first time last night. Went out solo as well.Keep at it for a while. make friends in the process. | /r/seduction | 05/11/19 03:25 PM |
| 1 | Making outWhat are you doing bro. Just have fun. why you making this work?!?! your post is disturbing. | /r/seduction | 05/11/19 03:23 PM |
| 1 | Overcoming Approach Anxiety Excuse?Here is what you do. Understand what is going on. The reason you don't approach is because you associate pain to it. Rejection, getting embarrassed and all those. You associate pleasure to not approaching...comfort. We, as people, would rather avoid pain than get pleasure. So, even though there is a possibility that you will meet cool girls and change your life, you don't care because the pain you associate with approaching. So, you need to associate good things with approaching, NOT pain. | /r/seduction | 05/11/19 03:22 PM |
| 2 | Looking for pickup content similar to rsdmaxA lot of the good ones have been taken down. Best one in my opinion is HonestSignalz | /r/seduction | 05/11/19 03:19 PM |
| 1 | Can you give us your sample of "texting" after getting her number until date request?keep it simple. don t overthink it. | /r/seduction | 05/11/19 03:18 PM |
| 1 | Does having a girl with you in a club add value to you?Ya but u can easily meet a lot in the club if you're in a good city | /r/seduction | 05/11/19 03:17 PM |
| 1 | I massively screwed up my first ever approach - SummarySee it as a learning experience. keep it up | /r/seduction | 05/11/19 03:15 PM |
| 1 | What are some signs that a girl wants to be left alone and not approached?Not paying any attention to you is a big one. | /r/seduction | 05/11/19 03:14 PM |
| 5 | Guys who couldn't get women, what changed?Push your buttons = know what you like to do, what you find fun and interesting. In a conversation, when you're talking about stuff you find interesting and fun, you're more loose and enthusiastic. For me, its always silly stuff like vampires and how they live 400+ yrs (one example) | /r/seduction | 05/10/19 03:39 AM |
| 1 | Unmatching on tinder?Don't rely on tinder. They are unattractive girls. Why would you settle man? | /r/seduction | 04/10/19 12:27 PM |
| 3 | Starting to approach, and staying accountable? Should I hire a coach?Ya, always invest in yourself. You can get ur money bak, you cant get ur time. So, even if the coach can't help you, you haven't really lost much. Money is shit compared to your time! | /r/seduction | 04/10/19 12:27 PM |
| 1 | Have my first date since my break up any advice?Focus on having an adventure. make it fun for you and her. Don't try to get anything out the date. just have fun. For me, after a relationship, im usually needy and that is why I give this advice to you ma man. | /r/seduction | 04/10/19 12:25 PM |
| 1 | Gaming in InstanbulHeard good things. Best of luck bro. | /r/seduction | 04/10/19 12:24 PM |
| 1 | Is she into me?Don't try to date your coworkers man. its a disaster! | /r/seduction | 04/10/19 12:24 PM |
| 1 | I don't know what I'm doing wrongIs your interaction with the girls like a man who is her friend only? or is ur vibe the leader who bangs a lot of girls and knows how to have fun? if its the latter, they should be chasing you. | /r/seduction | 04/10/19 12:23 PM |
| 2 | Loss of game after relationship?You didn't lose your game. You gained. Relationships improve your game big time. Getting girls comfortable shoudl be much easier for u. U just lost the initial skill of hooking girls. you can get that in a week. | /r/seduction | 04/10/19 12:21 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop having an ulterior motive?Try to focus on having fun in the moment and assume it is not going to go anywhere. If it does, cool. if not, cool. | /r/seduction | 04/10/19 12:20 PM |
| 1 | Im curious if anybody has propositioned multiple girls back to back in front of eachother?Make sure you're having fun regardless. You dont need the girls to have fun. Girls will join in on your fun. | /r/seduction | 04/10/19 12:18 PM |
| 1 | How to ask out my ex's earlier flatmate?Ya, just go for it. don't bring up the ex. | /r/seduction | 04/10/19 12:17 PM |
| 1 | Dance floor gameJust be cool. Be ok with not knowing dancing and just boogy. Girls dont care about ur dancing, they care about they dancing. They trying to show off for ppl, especially the guy they wanna bang. Just make eye contact with a girl while ur dancing and get closer and closer to dance. If she refuses, don't make it big deal. its a pond full of fish. Then, later, be like, lets go get a drink or something. lead. | /r/seduction | 04/10/19 12:16 PM |
| 55 | Guys who couldn't get women, what changed?Ya, Neediness. Get rid of all neediness. focus on just having fun and adventure with people rather than just having sex. Don't have an agenda. learn how to push ur buttons and have fun. if you can't do this, learn. know that you're enough. Don't try to be enough, trying makes you see urself as not enough yet and so u keep trying. (this don't mean stop improving) These are general but you got to put in the work. Apply the principles. | /r/seduction | 04/10/19 12:13 PM |
| 1 | When do I initiate contact again?Honestly, sounds like she is talking to another dude. I would hit her up the day be4 and just be like, yo we still on for tomorrow? She will probably cancel but don't hurt to try if you fancy her. In the meantime, go meet other girls. Don't get hung up on one girl. if she cancels and comes at u a week later, don't hang out with her. That means, she was more into the other dude and it didn't work out with him. I mean, unless u just wanna bang her and not make her ur gf. I would never make a gal w… | /r/seduction | 04/10/19 12:10 PM |
| 1 | Going clubbing with tinder date.sounds fun lol. In that case, ya, buy her drinks. if you were going out with her as a friend, helping each other get laid and have fun, then she buy her own drinks. | /r/seduction | 28/09/19 01:01 PM |
| 1 | What does this mean? Help I’m oblivious!!she got other guys. she leaving u as backup. | /r/seduction | 28/09/19 12:59 PM |
| 1 | What is the crossing line on touch escalation?girl already likes you. what you doing? why arent u asking her to go skating or some sh*t if you're into her? | /r/seduction | 28/09/19 12:58 PM |
| 2 | When to ignore a girl?I feel you bro. Its the nice guy syndrome. You don't wanna be disliked. been there. self awareness is first step. know that, you got issues with not wanting people to dislike you. You got to be ok with ppl not liking you. You got to like yourself | /r/seduction | 28/09/19 12:55 PM |
| 1 | Going clubbing with tinder date.up to you. You going on a date at a club? Weird choice. Unless you bringing her as your wing, what u gonna do? | /r/seduction | 28/09/19 12:54 PM |
| 1 | Got number after failed kiss attempt, not sure what to doyou gonna try to make someone who is not into you, into you? Good use of your time. NOT | /r/seduction | 28/09/19 12:52 PM |
| 1 | where can I go in a situation like this?she wanted to bang. Saturday AND at . night AND saying she thinks ur cute = girl saying to you ---> i want you now! If you don't deliver, tinder girls like this find the next d*ck. | /r/seduction | 28/09/19 12:50 PM |
| 1 | She made me wash my hands before sexshe met some other guy. Sorry bro. But, this happens often. Especially with girls who initiate the interaction. | /r/seduction | 28/09/19 12:48 PM |
| 1 | After how many dates do you kiss?First or second. as long as you're having fun on the first and you are touching in other ways, you can kiss on the second date. Fun and man to women interaction should be the focus. When you kiss is not as important. Kissing is just another way to touch and have fun. It's not a big deal. | /r/seduction | 28/09/19 12:45 PM |
| 1 | How to reframe negative thoughts?Gratitude. How about you imagine all your loved ones gone. Then, realize how lucky you are to be with them? How everything else means NOTHING. | /r/seduction | 28/09/19 12:43 PM |
| 1 | Was this my ex trying to get back together?Good job man. Most men would become a puppy dog on a leash. Idk what her intention is but you shouldn't give her another chance. Find others. | /r/seduction | 28/09/19 12:42 PM |
| 8 | Why is withdrawing attention always so effective?abundance. Backing away tells the girls you're not needy. You got a life and other priorities and other girls. I used to do the same thing you did. It's insane. Sometimes, i would be thinking about this girl im seeing and why she not contacting me. THen, i'd meet another girl in college and was into that girl. All of a sudden, the girl that was absent shows up via text. It's a wonder. | /r/seduction | 28/09/19 12:40 PM |
| 1 | PSA: Many Women Want Sex Immediatelylol. So true. Once women make an investment like that (is physical) and you don't move it forward, she gonna ignore the fudge out of you. Been there myself. | /r/seduction | 28/09/19 12:37 PM |
| 2 | Thoughts on Alpha Male StrategiesIdk them but whoever helps you is good. | /r/seduction | 22/09/19 11:42 PM |
| 2 | Guys HELP I’m trying to change my SELF IMAGE to a high status personyou're concerned about what people think of you. Start improving yourself for YOU. Don't give a fudge about ur reputation. | /r/seduction | 22/09/19 11:40 PM |
| 1 | I’m just trying to do betterstep 1 achieved: Self awareness. Now, kick that people pleasing habit's arse. | /r/seduction | 22/09/19 11:39 PM |
| 2 | Advice!What walrusman said | /r/seduction | 22/09/19 11:37 PM |
| 2 | Can I use Just money to attract women?HELL NO. Dude, i have seen it all. I've lived in Vegas and NYC. Ran into high roller promoters, DJ's and rich people there, a lot of them. If they lacked confidence and other things taught in pick up like being controlled, they usually could not attract ANY hot girl. All those positions gave them was the OPPORTUNITY TO MEET HOT GIRL, not attract them. So, if you have money, u will be around girls but they wont get wet, EVER. I used to think promoters got tons of pussy even if they dont have sk… | /r/seduction | 22/09/19 11:05 PM |
| 1 | Getting a Dating Coach a Good Idea?Johnny Cassell idk who that is but coaching is the best investment you can get. No matter what the issue is, women or nutrition or other sh*t. | /r/seduction | 22/09/19 11:01 PM |
| 1 | Getting a Dating Coach a Good Idea?Always. | /r/seduction | 22/09/19 11:00 PM |
| 1 | I've never touched a woman before, where do I start?Start off touchy. Make yourself the touchy guy. I did that. I started giving high fives to girls, arm wrestling, thumb wrestling, and telling them knuckle facts as i touched them. This helped me a lot in the start. Then, it becomes not a big deal. | /r/seduction | 22/09/19 11:00 PM |
| 2 | How do i pop up to this girl without looking creepy?Don't overthink it man. You in College!!! Get other girls in your life. so many girls there. THen, you wont take this one girl so seriously. What would a guy who has a lot of girls in his life do? Abundance mindset is key. Take more action, get more girls in your life. you will never care about risking losing one girl like this. In fact, one rule in pick up ppl dont talk about often is---> the riskier the move, the more attraction you get. You know? | /r/seduction | 22/09/19 10:56 PM |
| 2 | How to message a friend of a friend?Keep it simple. Say Hi and have fun. Mindset = she hasen't earned you yet. you're just curious about her. is she as cool as u think? Im sure you have standards, you know? Don't sell yourself short. The initiation doesn't matter, how u gonna do it. What matters is how u carry yourself. Are you a guy who is needy? or you looking for a cool girl, not just any girl. | /r/seduction | 22/09/19 10:52 PM |
| 1 | Looks do or do not matter?Unless you got major core confidence and are very charismatic, they do matter | /r/seduction | 22/09/19 10:49 PM |
| 1 | A girl cold approached me and motivated me to do the sameyep. being comfortable is key. Makes her comfortable as well. over 90% of communication is nonverbal. Thanks for elaborating | /r/seduction | 13/09/19 04:00 PM |
| 3 | I attempted to go for the kiss at the end of the date (5th date), she let me kiss her cheek insteadMaybe I was too soon, tho it was my first time kissing someone and I was happy soo..... You went for it. that was great! I think you should keep having fun with this girl. Don't take her seriously though. You don't know her well enough for you to take her seriously, you know? So, approach other girls in colleges near you. go on other dates. another thing is...if you're talking about stuff you find interesting, things will get a lot easier for both of you. she will get excited cuz you're enthusia… | /r/seduction | 13/09/19 03:21 PM |
| 1 | How to get laid in a college bar?go to college and approach in the day. much easier. | /r/seduction | 13/09/19 03:10 PM |
| 1 | Advice on how to ask a girl out where I work?I wouldnt if you like your job | /r/seduction | 13/09/19 03:10 PM |
| 5 | I attempted to go for the kiss at the end of the date (5th date), she let me kiss her cheek instead5th?!!!?! come on bro. she sees u as a weak guy. if u like the girl, make it happen on the first date. | /r/seduction | 13/09/19 03:09 PM |
| 2 | Tinder is a huge waste of time unless it is your only source for contact with womenevery way u can game is good | /r/seduction | 13/09/19 03:08 PM |
| 1 | What books would help me learn proper seduction?biographies and then reflecting on your own life...knowing yourself really well! | /r/seduction | 13/09/19 03:06 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with one word responses on tinder?get an emotional response by saying things that are kind of out there. thing about how comedians get ppl's attention. if u cant, move on. in my opinion, you should not try to make girls who are not into you like you. its too needy. dont try to make every girl like you. focus on the 10% who u click iwth | /r/seduction | 13/09/19 03:04 PM |
| 1 | So should I leave or ...depends on the girl | /r/seduction | 13/09/19 03:02 PM |
| 2 | Tomorrow I’m finally going to start day gameno big deal man. i didn't lose my virginity until i was 22 lol. | /r/seduction | 13/09/19 03:01 PM |
| 1 | Always rejected coz they don't wanna screw up the friendship.with the girls you're into. see how they respond back and adjust. | /r/seduction | 13/09/19 03:00 PM |
| 2 | Always rejected coz they don't wanna screw up the friendship.its ur non verbals. you have to flirt nonverbally with the girls you like. Create sexual tension using eye contact and other ways. | /r/seduction | 13/09/19 03:00 PM |
| 3 | I feel kinda lost.Def can do better. Record ur voice audio with them. see what ur doing wrong or hire a reliable coach to give you feedback. Couple of things i noticed you talk about they major and where they from adn its getting boring to you. do YOU wanna talk about those things? if its boring to yOU, don't u think its boring for them? so, find things u find fun to talk about. whatever it is, as long as its a bit relatable, it will be 100x better and will skyrocket ur results. messaging girls: dont have long co… | /r/seduction | 13/09/19 02:58 PM |
| 1 | help me pleaseget a coach | /r/seduction | 13/09/19 02:49 PM |
| 3 | help me pleaseStart by relaxing. Don't be so outcome driven. Have fun and just enjoy it day by day, don't think about the future. have fun! make things exciting for YOU, then she will get excited. | /r/seduction | 13/09/19 02:49 PM |
| 12 | A girl cold approached me and motivated me to do the sameYa, you have to make it communication of gf/bf possibility. you know? Like, there is potential you guys can be a couple but u dont know yet. She hasen't won you over . Im not saying be manupulative. Im just saying this SHOULD be your mindset. you dont know her. how did she win you over so quick? do you like any girl who is hot? anyways, when it comes to flirting... eye bang future projections hitting her jokingly, slapping her hand, whatever making it a bit sexual for a second and then going bak… | /r/seduction | 13/09/19 02:39 PM |
| 1 | Girl I like in collegeBig deal man. its gonna happen more and more. For me, i eventually learned not to invest so much in girls i haven't dated at least 3x, you know? Like, what was i doing investing so much in girls i dont even know? Girls are usually "talking" to a couple of guys at once. The uglier the girl, the more guys in her life that she considers for sex. Hot girls have less options because most guys are abnormal near them. they dont get to feel like women around many guys. anyways, dude, don't invest so muc… | /r/seduction | 10/09/19 09:08 PM |
| 1 | How could I get laid in a month?it will but for best quality...you know wa to do | /r/seduction | 09/09/19 03:48 AM |
| 1 | How could I get laid in a month?ya, if you got ur headphones on your chest or if you got the air pods...it should pick it up. | /r/seduction | 09/09/19 03:41 AM |
| 7 | One of my approach fears happened and it wasn’t as bad as I expected.Loving it! Focus on what you can control, which is your action. Keep taking action and learn from your action. | /r/seduction | 09/09/19 03:40 AM |
| 1 | How could I get laid in a month?Voice recorder only. hold your phone in your hand. | /r/seduction | 09/09/19 03:38 AM |
| 2 | Just broke up with my girlfriendGOod luck bro. you got this! | /r/seduction | 09/09/19 03:33 AM |
| 1 | I need advice getting a homecoming dateYa, why not man. Do it. take a lot of action. be social. | /r/seduction | 09/09/19 03:33 AM |
| 1 | How to hookup with a ton of girls as new college transfer studentbe social and invite people to do shit. | /r/seduction | 09/09/19 03:31 AM |
| 0 | How to get lesbian dates in rural areas?lesbians? Why. They usually look bad | /r/seduction | 09/09/19 03:29 AM |
| 1 | Any tips for a black guy(21 M)"you’re dark skin it’s like you don’t have any sexual market value unless you’re buff as heck or have amazing facial features" -this tells me you need to take more action. dress nice, workout and worry about what you can control. appraoch girls and have fun. Don't go in b*tch mode | /r/seduction | 09/09/19 03:27 AM |
| 2 | How to get girls in a community college?be social n non-needy | /r/seduction | 09/09/19 03:25 AM |
| 3 | Girl I like in collegedistracting/ annoying her? Would u say that if a hot girl came to you and talked to u? You got to change ur mindset. You are more than worthy of this gurl. is she worthy of your time? You making one girl that you never interacted with a big deal. Go talk to other girls. talk to 10 a day. u WILL get a date, guranteed. First weeks of college is uber easy | /r/seduction | 09/09/19 03:24 AM |
| 9 | First approachFocus on being super real: when you're super real, push pull happens naturally (if she says she likes dawson creek and you don't. you just say i dont like htat show) expressing, not impressing: when you expressing and not trying to impress/worry about ur reputation, you build comfort fast. just know you got good intentions any opener works. Hi is good. just be comfortable with talking to people. you not doing anything weird. if they're weirded out, relax and awcknoledge it might be odd, nonchala… | /r/seduction | 09/09/19 03:19 AM |
| 1 | How could I get laid in a month?Depends on where you are. Are you needy when talking to girls or can you have fun without being needy? Can you approach random girls and make them feel comfortable or do you make it a big deal/make it awckward? Are you a leader? Are you comfortable leading the girl? Or do you say idk often? Get an online coach. invest in one as soon as you can. They will guide you and look at your interactions and give feedback. If you want, i can look at your interactions (voice recorded). Just . let me know. | /r/seduction | 09/09/19 03:14 AM |
| 1 | Had bad sex how should I play it from here?Dude, she's gonna come back for more. Chicks are horney AF! | /r/seduction | 30/08/19 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Could I still have second chance with a girl who's decided she's not interested in me?plenty of girls there. | /r/seduction | 30/08/19 06:55 PM |
| 1 | Dating a girl long term but not being serious?Jus do it? Keep it light and fun. | /r/seduction | 30/08/19 06:53 PM |
| 3 | Just met a girl, asked for her number and need help about her responseDude, talk to other girls while ur on vacation to have fun. Don't take her too seriously. You sound pretty needy and asking when you're needy = major turn off for girls. go talk to other girls and ask then when you coming from a place of abundance and not giving a fudge. leaking desperation is a deal breaker. I been there so many times. Just does not go well. | /r/seduction | 30/08/19 06:53 PM |
| 1 | Advice on Approach Anxiety?Deal with the pain and you will get better at it. No way but to force . yourself to jump in the pool | /r/seduction | 30/08/19 05:20 PM |
| 1 | Glasses on apperanceeyeglasses can be dope but its So hard to find good ones | /r/seduction | 30/08/19 05:19 PM |
| 2 | Did I make the right call in this situation?Dude, u . got her respect now. Even is she pissed now, she will come to you later. Who makes plans for same day?!?!!?!!?!!!!?!!!!?! She would think you're a loser if you accepted her plan to meet same day and would disrespect yourself. People with class plan at . least a day ahead. If she a whore, she probably called another guy and went off with him. either way, you made the right call. | /r/seduction | 29/08/19 08:49 PM |
| 1 | First 2 day approachesNice going. inviting her to place you going = made you even more attractive. Now, find out if they meet ur standards. Meet with her and if u guys click, she earns a touch or a kiss. You know? Don't act like they already have you. They don't. If you think they do, thats just your insecurity of wanting people to like you. Fact is you don't know them. So, keep it light and simple, hang out and see if you click. If you do, BANG! lol | /r/seduction | 29/08/19 08:46 PM |
| 2 | 1st Successful Number CloseKISS (keep it simple stupid). Have fun and keep it short. set up a hang out session. next time, get their social media instead. Numbers = too old. | /r/seduction | 29/08/19 08:42 PM |
| 1 | What does a ”shit test” mean and what should I do if a girl does thatListen or read the way of superior man to understand it better. But the wya you pass em is by not taking them seriously and not reacting to them. Staying in your fun zone. Staying positive. Like if she says...you losing your hair. You can not react to it or take to a path where you are a winner in that reality and be like, ya, i know. i am getting ready to find a new hair style. Maybe ill shave it off, not really a big deal. | /r/seduction | 06/08/19 10:19 PM |
| 1 | How can I attract a girl I like over text?The more personal, the better. But dude, chicks are bored AF. Invite her to a salsa class. SHe will say HECK ya 100%. Nothing better than in person. CHICK R SUPER BORED brah. It's crazy. They just looking for a guy who dont make them feel weird by making them into goddesses and acting like the girl is special. | /r/seduction | 06/08/19 09:51 PM |
| 1 | How do i develop the mentality that I am enough?Take action towards your goals. | /r/seduction | 06/08/19 09:35 PM |
| 1 | Can this be salvaged?Dont try to hook up at work. Why would you want to ruin your work life? | /r/seduction | 06/08/19 09:34 PM |
| 2 | My first Cold ApproachKeep it up | /r/seduction | 06/08/19 09:33 PM |
| 2 | Where does one get started with the art of seduction?Go hire a good coach. They should point you in the right direction if they're any good. if you broke as F, get a skype call from them and they should point you in the right direction. Record your interactions via voice recorder and get feedback. see what u done right n wrong. | /r/seduction | 06/08/19 09:32 PM |
| 1 | Most of my daygame approach interactions only last like 30 seconds to three minutes.do you walk with them? record your interactions and see what u doing right and what you doing wrong. For me, a lot last 10 sec and some last an hour. It all depends on the girl you meet and how you two are together. Last thing you wanna do is make EVERY girl like you. if you doing that, you messing up. | /r/seduction | 06/08/19 09:30 PM |
| 1 | What does a ”shit test” mean and what should I do if a girl does thatIt's when the girl is not sure if you're the real deal or she wants to confirm you're the real deal so she throws some crap at u and she watches carefully how you react. If you react like a sissy, she will leave u instantly! If she sees you are a man, her attraction level spikes because you da real deal. She enjoys that dose of masculine energy. | /r/seduction | 06/08/19 09:28 PM |
| 1 | How do I become a ‘player’?You're asking for too much. | /r/seduction | 06/08/19 09:25 PM |
| 1 | How many girls/dates did it take till you found a girl who you connect with?Don't count the numbers. Just keep having fun. | /r/seduction | 06/08/19 09:23 PM |
| 1 | How to make a damn move? For someone late to the game...I was on the same boat. Start talking to the girls you like as man to women. Approach girls as man to women, meaning make it apparent you're into them. this don't have to be verbal. it can be nonverbal. Do not listen to the advice of practicing on uglies. You shouldn't be placing anyone in a category of ugly or not. you're just training yourself to be a desperate guy forever them. Your behavior should be the same with EVERYONE. do not make good looking girls special. Have fun with everyone. the … | /r/seduction | 06/08/19 09:23 PM |
| 6 | How can I attract a girl I like over text?Dont try to have a conversation over text. Have fun and keep it short. Use text to get yourself on a date. Use social media tools like snapchat n IG to follow up without directly contacting them since girls check ur stories like an addict. | /r/seduction | 06/08/19 09:18 PM |
| 1 | Any black PUA?Race is not relevant. Look for good PUAs | /r/seduction | 06/08/19 09:16 PM |
| 2 | Introvert Picks up Girl on NYC street - Daygame Infield BreakDOWNFirst thing you need to do is Commit. Make a decision to change NOW. Many people spend too much time deciding to make a change. Second, take action towards that commitment/decision. Go get a personal dating coach. Someone good. Also, invest in RSDJuien's products and Max's products. They are excellent. also, let go of bad beliefs. Ask yourself questions...what is this belief doign to me? how is it helping me? If it don't help your life, drop it and get a new one. Any belief can be made true … | /r/seduction | 04/08/19 05:55 PM |
| 1 | Introvert Picks up Girl on NYC street - Daygame Infield BreakDOWNYou think you're boring. Why? Do you not know what you like? what you find fun to talk about? how to engage the other person by talking about what you find fun passionately? What is that belief costing you? You can get girls as an introvert easily. Girls just want a guy who has the intensity they need. Eye contact and body language is key. Having those down, girls will never assume you are the boring quiet guy. They will assume you da man! Think about this...How is your nonverbals with girls… | /r/seduction | 04/08/19 05:09 PM |
| 1 | Introvert Picks up Girl on NYC street - Daygame Infield BreakDOWNI feel you. I'm an introvert too and i love talking one on one more than anything. One thing you might want to watch out for is personality fatigue. Idk if you have this problem but i sure as hell did. Whenever i used to hang out with people, id put pressure on myself to be entertaining and just be a different person. That would DRAIN my energy. It was sooooo much of a hassle trying to date girls. I'd come home and id fall asleep right away! But, once i figured out i was putting in a different p… | /r/seduction | 04/08/19 04:32 PM |
| 1 | Introvert Picks up Girl on NYC street - Daygame Infield BreakDOWNThat would make you result oriented. In my experience, the best thing to do if you want true abundance is to make a lot of friends. Girls are very competitive. with the very hot girls, the easiest way to make them chase is to have fun with other girls (not advising you use this as a technique. be genuine and hang with people you like). So, when you got friends who you truly find a good time to hang with and are not judging them, then you are having fun. Those girls will want you around. You will… | /r/seduction | 04/08/19 03:39 PM |
| 1 | Introvert Picks up Girl on NYC street - Daygame Infield BreakDOWNWill Smith is amazing at everything. And ya, i agree. You got to have standards. Its just that a lot of guys are not going out and you need to go out and talk to people 2 meet the girls that meet your standards, you know? | /r/seduction | 04/08/19 03:00 PM |
| 2 | How to combat boring texters?Hey, been there too many times. its annoying but don't take it personally. part of being in the field. | /r/seduction | 03/08/19 04:51 AM |
| 1 | How to approachDon't be so hard on urself. it will make you wrose. be the fun guy. . | /r/seduction | 03/08/19 04:49 AM |
| 2 | How to combat boring texters?Get another girl. She banging another guy. | /r/seduction | 03/08/19 04:47 AM |
| 1 | First date in a while tomorrowkeep it simple. | /r/seduction | 03/08/19 04:46 AM |
| 1 | So,I approached a girl for the first time in my lifeDo way more. Don't say sorry. First 2-3 are usully warm up for me. So, i dont count them. you know? Im usually in my head, especially on first one. Don't ask for #. TALK to them. get to know them. would you go out with ANYONE jus cuz they looks? Think bout it. | /r/seduction | 03/08/19 04:43 AM |
| 1 | Seduction so far for 201oDon't worry about what dont matter. All that matters is PROGRESS. | /r/seduction | 03/08/19 04:41 AM |
| 1 | what do guys think when staring at a girls boobs?Boobies. | /r/seduction | 03/08/19 04:41 AM |
| 1 | Night gameDon't game. Just have fun and lead. | /r/seduction | 03/08/19 04:40 AM |
| 2 | Tips on how to cold approach in public transportDon't make it black and white. All depends on the lady. | /r/seduction | 03/08/19 04:39 AM |
| 3 | Tips on how to cold approach in public transportYes, start with hi and go from there. Let her know that she looked interesting to you and that you wanted to see if she cool. | /r/seduction | 03/08/19 04:38 AM |
| 1 | Ive discovered that relationships are not what i need or want right now. How can i be with girls without catching feelings?You already decided, now take action. | /r/seduction | 03/08/19 04:37 AM |
| -1 | I’m giving upThose books suck. You need better mentors. Listen to awaken the giant within. Learn more about social dynamics. | /r/seduction | 03/08/19 04:36 AM |
| 1 | How do you guys just stop caring.You admit you care and accept it. Laugh at it. Don't take it seriously | /r/seduction | 03/08/19 04:33 AM |
| 1 | What fragrances do you use?armani code. So dope! Acqua di gio is disgusting. | /r/seduction | 27/07/19 11:21 PM |
| 1 | What Tinder opening lines work for you?KISS (keep it simple stupid) | /r/seduction | 27/07/19 11:13 PM |
| 1 | What Tinder opening lines work for you?Hi and go from there. have fun. | /r/seduction | 27/07/19 11:13 PM |
| 3 | Epic Tinder faildont rely . on tinder. | /r/seduction | 27/07/19 11:13 PM |
| 1 | why do we guys overthink ?cuz we wonder why all the time when the why does not matter. Why is poison. Changing how u feel is best. changing your pattern is best. thinking why does not change how we feel. we stuck in that state. so we have to snap out of that patttern and change how we feel. humans are not logical, we emotional. if u in ur head, do jumping jacks 2 get out of that patter. same iwth depressed. | /r/seduction | 27/07/19 11:12 PM |
| 1 | What fragrances do you use?Armani Black | /r/seduction | 27/07/19 11:10 PM |
| 5 | How to build sexual tension over text before first date?Dont have a conversation over text. | /r/seduction | 27/07/19 11:10 PM |
| 1 | Using cheesy pick up lines vs complimenting a girlI do find those pick up lines funny but it seems like people say it’s a bad idea to try them. Complimenting them genuinely seems more successful a lot of it depends on the girl's sense of humor too but i prefer not to use pick up lines. I just think they cheesy. :) lol | /r/seduction | 22/07/19 10:58 PM |
| 1 | How do i get hoes and then keep them?build a cool life that them want to stay. | /r/seduction | 22/07/19 04:40 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop waiting until the last minute to ask out a girl?Decide to do things differently from here on out | /r/seduction | 22/07/19 04:40 PM |
| 1 | Using cheesy pick up lines vs complimenting a girlall work if for #1: you find it funny. for #2, its genuine and not some canned line. when its genuine, it is coming from a present you, not guy in his head. Your energy is better then. for #3, 2 complicated. Just dont overthink opening. its not important. its your WHOLE interaction that matters. are u leading, having fun and other things that are important ot a girl | /r/seduction | 22/07/19 04:38 PM |
| 1 | What to do with a flake?You are not over reacting. You were right. He was careless. He should have apologized. Leave him alone. he will come to you. if he don't, not the end of the world. Move on. | /r/seduction | 22/07/19 04:36 PM |
| 1 | Should you always go for the kiss when she lets you have your arm around her?lead. feel the vibe. if she giving signals she cool with it, go for it. | /r/seduction | 22/07/19 04:33 PM |
| 1 | Tinder Shy Girl Problem (Need advice)You dealing with uglier girls. Uglier girls are more nondirect. They're not shy bro. They mess with many more guys than hot girls. So all these girls u see and are like, oh this girl dont get that much action. In reality, she banging at least 5x more guys than the hotter girl. They're usually more shallow. Its a whole diff game with them. | /r/seduction | 22/07/19 04:32 PM |
| 2 | cold feet?Give her space and follow up every couple days with value added (fun/funny/interesting content). Let her be like...i need this man in my life. You sound fun, so you're good. | /r/seduction | 22/07/19 04:28 PM |
| 1 | Advise on creating a sparkRSDMax RSDTyler | /r/seduction | 15/07/19 02:57 PM |
| 1 | I am very afraid of physically escalating. What are some tips/exercises you can throw my way to help overcome this?when i first started, i was scared too. this is not ideal but... what i did is find excuses to touch. for example, one of the things i would do is make up shit about finger length and while im . doing that, id be touching the her finger. i be like the index finger is associated with power and stuff. let me see ur fingers...see, yours is a bit small but its not as long as the ring finger. blah blah blah idea is come up with excuses to touch her Rule: just touch her hand when you're talking. d… | /r/seduction | 15/07/19 05:35 AM |
| 1 | Books Recommendation for getting back out there and Party+Abroad GameAction first. then books. Go out then next day read. | /r/seduction | 15/07/19 05:32 AM |
| 2 | What is the first thing you say to a girl?sounds like you don't know yourself well. Get to know yourself? | /r/seduction | 15/07/19 05:30 AM |
| 2 | Should you look at her boobs?Boobs are amazin | /r/seduction | 15/07/19 05:29 AM |
| 1 | Advise on creating a sparkforget david. Find other mentors. He's not a practitioner. Lets see...some basic sparkers. eye contact confidence leading fun and authentic | /r/seduction | 15/07/19 05:29 AM |
| 1 | Solid unexpected first date, how to follow up?Invite her somewhere cool. cool activity. have fun. salsa, skating, or pool. | /r/seduction | 15/07/19 05:26 AM |
| 1 | Is it wrong of me to reveal my feelings to my co-worker?yes. its not a good idea. | /r/seduction | 15/07/19 05:20 AM |
| 1 | Suggest some random questions I can ask a girl when approaching her.I would not go in hidey hidey seeky seeky. Girl already knows u want her. So, id suggest just saying hi and believe in y o u r s e l f. but if you still insist on questions...ask her if your shirt is too tight? fashion advice. MAKE THEM GENUINE question. DO not be a fake cu*t! good luck. | /r/seduction | 15/07/19 05:19 AM |
| 4 | What is the first thing you say to a girl?It don't matter what you start with. The whole interaction is what matters. So, you can open with HI. then calibrate and have fun from there. See if you two have chemistry. Don't try to make every girl like u. | /r/seduction | 15/07/19 05:15 AM |
| 1 | Need advice on what to do with this girlDon't take her so seriously and she will come 2 u. | /r/seduction | 15/07/19 05:14 AM |
| 10 | Why women gain (or seem to) interest in you when you are with someone else?preselection. girls want guys that others girls have already selected because it means he is fit. | /r/seduction | 15/07/19 05:12 AM |
| 1 | Based Zeus the godly texting guideWell, one of the biggest fears girls have is guy being a creep. Those eliminate it. Two, it takes out their bitch shield. With number, they thinking..oh i'm supposed to date this guy and tell ppl i have his number. Too much commitment. With IG and SNap, its just social and fun. Later, you hang out just for fun. THen, you end up banging and going out. It just happened. three, numbers are creepy now. so 1990's. Get out of ur comfort zone and get used to social media. Don't be 90 (years old). :) | /r/seduction | 27/06/19 05:39 PM |
| 1 | How can I get out of the mindset that girls are thinking negatively of me?assume your presence is giving value. | /r/seduction | 27/06/19 01:47 PM |
| 1 | Approach advice for someone who is otherwise confident with women?Go up and say hi. DO not overcomplicate it. assume familiarity. Assuem she an old friend and you just chatting. eye contact. lead. | /r/seduction | 27/06/19 01:45 PM |
| 1 | How to approach in a bus / subway?Direct is best then quickly turn it to talk about things u find fun. be empathetic. | /r/seduction | 27/06/19 01:43 PM |
| 1 | Going to ask a girl I'm into out, any tipsKick ass! | /r/seduction | 27/06/19 01:42 PM |
| 1 | What is the 1 skill I should focus on a first date?Listening and talking about topics you find interesting as well. Making them relatable at the same time. Focus on having fun rather than making people like you or hoping she likes u or messing it up. | /r/seduction | 27/06/19 01:42 PM |
| 1 | What do you do to turn a date sexual?Eye contact. vibe. | /r/seduction | 27/06/19 01:37 PM |
| 1 | When should I text her?make the text/ig conversations short. ask her to come with you to a yoga/dance/zumba or some other class. Tell her you should join. Or bowling. idk whatever u think is cool. | /r/seduction | 27/06/19 01:36 PM |
| 1 | Why so much emphasis on pulling difficult girls?people pleasing? | /r/seduction | 27/06/19 01:35 PM |
| 3 | Based Zeus the godly texting guideDude, texting is cool but.. its all in the instagram and snapchat now IF you want to reduce flakyness by over 90%. Even if you're not that active there, just have a couple of cool photos and it proves you're not a creep. Texting causes A LOT of girls to not respond even AFTER you had an amazing interaction with them. Ask for IG or snap. Don't ask for #. This is tested and proven. | /r/seduction | 27/06/19 01:35 PM |
| 2 | Ask a girl outAny action is better than no action. Id recommend asking her to a dance class or something like that. i mean, coffee and hanging out is cool but doing something new and cool is always a SUPER plus. Just go for it. if you don't play, you cant win. | /r/seduction | 27/06/19 01:33 PM |
| 2 | I don’t know if she is into meDude, don't ask. Just make her a friend. Don't cut her off. Having a girl who is a friend is a SUPER advantage. DOn't try to use her though. Just have fun with her. I mean, she sounds like she using you but, you can make it a win/win. When you go out with her to the movies and see a cute girl you like, just be like...come on, be my wing girl here (or at a club/bar). Makes life much easier. Girls love being wing girls. If she sees you're not needy with other women, she gonna want you then and C… | /r/seduction | 27/06/19 01:31 PM |
| 2 | Is having a reputation a good thing or a bad thing?She might try to fix you lol. I'll tame the player kinda thing | /r/seduction | 27/06/19 01:29 PM |
| 1 | I do Zumba classes but it just seems like FriendZone CityGet their social. Invite them to other classes and show that on ur stories. you having fun with them. its ok if they just friends but if you got multiple women around, they get competitive. Don't worry about that though cuz you will be doing it for the wrong reasons. Just be cool and friendly and fun and active. Then, new people come in and see you in the group and bam. your chances go higher for getting multiple dates. General advice here, but look into it. | /r/seduction | 14/06/19 01:11 PM |
| 1 | I feel undesirableDont compare yourself to others. Dont set how valuable you are based on the # of girls you banged. Don't look for girls acceptance on tinder to make you feel worthy. No shit you have trouble talking to girls, you got validation issues. Work on your mindset and start taking action. Stop being a ppl pleaser. RSDerek. You need him. | /r/seduction | 14/06/19 01:08 PM |
| 1 | AdviceTake action. Any action. go out with a friend and take action if you cant do it alone. Nothing, NOTHING will substitute action. Learn from that action = Then you get major confidence. | /r/seduction | 14/06/19 01:06 PM |
| 2 | How to slide in the DMsTreat it as you would getting a sale from a client. You warm her up to you first. Post a couple of cool/interesting stories and like one of her posts to make sure she sees it if she dont see it right away. Keep posting stories, then when u notice her watching, you can DM her. Cool ways to make boring things a story: you show something first then add a fact about that thing. For example, u go to yoga and u show yoga class and then u see a poster on the wall with yoga benefits, take a pic an… | /r/seduction | 14/06/19 01:05 PM |
| 0 | Advice for shy guys/nervous/anxious etc.?Sounds like you're uncomfortable with social pressure. Start small by talking to strangers. Maybe go up to strangers and give them compliments as a first step. Next day, go small talk with girls and have the intent to screen them if they cool or not. Make your intention clear and don't be apologetic for starting a conversation. Just let the ppl that dont like it F off. go to a college for this or something. THEN if you really wanna challenge yourself, go buy a selfie stick and walk around in the… | /r/seduction | 14/06/19 12:59 PM |
| -1 | Pickup booksFocus on being natural. Lines will only make you reactive to the girl because you are saying them to get a reaction. | /r/seduction | 14/06/19 12:54 PM |
| 2 | How to approach a woman at workDont. | /r/seduction | 11/06/19 04:31 AM |
| 2 | This stuff drives me crazyDude, find one or two RELIABLE mentors and stick to what they say. Make sure they got infield and they not just some guys who are not practitioners. Don't listen to random people. I swear, some people act like they know what they're talking about when they don't even have a date this week, let alone girlfriends. like if you look at their lives. Its the same with opening a business. People give u advice and their businesses are shit. | /r/seduction | 10/06/19 03:04 PM |
| 2 | How can I continue my journey with a girlfriend?You have fun with ur girl. Go out to social events. Salsa and other social activites with her. Improv classes. and everything social. Having a GF increases your social skills. You're interacting with a girl very often. | /r/seduction | 10/06/19 03:01 PM |
| 2 | I just approached a girl. What did I do wrong?Great job first of all! Big step. some feedback. Just go say Hi and be like, i just wanted to introduce myself. You caught my attention. If she seems weirded out, address that you know this is weird. Be cool with meeting people. its normal. two. DO NOT try to make everyone like you. You meet lots of guys and you only make a few your friends. Same with girls. You got to find people you click with. three.what to talk about. look up self amusement and being relatable. | /r/seduction | 10/06/19 02:58 PM |
| 2 | How do I implement/develop the ‘push and pull’ technique or similar?Be super real and authenric. if u talk 2 a girl and she likes cats and u hate cats. u say i don't like cats. bam. push. The natural way. then she likes Batman, you like batman. Bam. pull. | /r/seduction | 10/06/19 02:54 PM |
| 3 | How to cold approach in high school? 18MGet IG/snap of EVERYONE. add them. Ask them 2 salsa or bowling with ur friends or alone. show stories of you doing stuff with them. | /r/seduction | 10/06/19 02:53 PM |
| 1 | Getting more results on TinderDope Photos good profile descrip no selfies. | /r/seduction | 10/06/19 02:50 PM |
| 1 | No such thing as a perfect " 10 "No1 is purrfect | /r/seduction | 10/06/19 02:49 PM |
| 2 | QuestionInterested. Don't worry if it fails or not but just go for it. See what happens kind of attitude. Don't doubt yourself. Assume she's interested and ask her to salsa class or something you consider cool. Don't waste time texting and all that. | /r/seduction | 10/06/19 02:49 PM |
| 1 | Approach anxiety at bars/clubsHey man, i dealt with this too first couple going in to vegas clubs a while ago. Wasent used to nightgame. I was the standing guy. Go more often. Dont be hard on urself. focus on saying Hi and thats it. Don't worry about what the future hold. | /r/seduction | 09/06/19 01:56 PM |
| 2 | Tinder allows you to download your stats. What are yours?Tinder girls are so slutty and average looking at best though. So, who cares? | /r/seduction | 08/06/19 01:36 AM |
| 1 | Pick up girls MARATHON in NYC | 3 DATES in 2 hours (DAYGAME)I'm 27 and never had a woman consider me attractive looking enough to date or kiss, etc. Dude, you sound like you're in victim mode. feeling sorry for yourself is not gonna get you nowhere. You're 27. Find Julien Himself's channel Julien blanc and get to work. Get coaching from Max Berger. You got one life. you will find looks don't matter. My texts aren't gonna help you. | /r/seduction | 05/06/19 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Pick up girls MARATHON in NYC | 3 DATES in 2 hours (DAYGAME)had any woman consider me attractive enough Consider you? You are in scarcity. Everyone starts there. You know about people who can take you out of that hole though. Julien, Max, and others. Do something about it. Keep listening to books and videos that change that mindset. you need them if you want success in life. You need successful people mindset. Be open minded. Best of luck man. | /r/seduction | 05/06/19 06:01 PM |
| 1 | 5 approaches in the last 2 daysHell ya. | /r/seduction | 05/06/19 03:27 PM |
| 1 | Pick up girls MARATHON in NYC | 3 DATES in 2 hours (DAYGAME)27 is young as fu*k bro. You should start listening to Gary Vee. Start getting your Mindset right. Your operating system needs to change man. You're gonna end up with lots of regret and not many relationships this way. As far as looks go, unless you look like the brand (Zach Efron and Brad Pitt), you wont get girl's attention and your looks don't matter much. As long as you take care of yourself. What matters then? Its the sub communication. Your intensity with girl. Your fun vibe. Girls jus… | /r/seduction | 05/06/19 03:26 PM |
| 1 | 5 approaches in the last 2 daysYa but my goal was to save you time. Not to stay in the mindset of taking little action and then getting nowhere in the long run. You know? Hard to communicate a lot of information via small paragraph but for me, what worked was forcing myself to not take approaching seriously and just do a lot of it. The more action i took and learned from, the faster i grew. Didn't mean to put you down. | /r/seduction | 05/06/19 03:16 PM |
| 2 | Good game spot for a Friday night?But yeah closing is my weakest point mainly because I've never really gotten to that point. get to it now. You're right though. sex should not be your focus. My focus is usually fun and sex is just part of the fun that comes later. Girls see it that way too. So, it works for me. | /r/seduction | 05/06/19 03:12 PM |
| 1 | Went on a chill date with a girl, she tells me she needs a lot of space. What does this mean?Go find another girl. if you keep focusing on only one girl, you gonna have -0 girls in your life. you want that? or you want dates with multiple girls. | /r/seduction | 05/06/19 03:10 PM |
| 1 | What is beginner/intermediate/advanced game?Irrelevant. y do you care what those are? Get as good as u can. | /r/seduction | 05/06/19 03:09 PM |
| 1 | 5 approaches in the last 2 daysfive is nothing. imagine you were selling soap and you approached five houses. What now? you quit selling soap? How you gonna make a living. Don't end up alone with no relationships. Get the tough skin to handle rejections often. Be grateful for being able to take the leap. or be good with ending up ALONE forever. | /r/seduction | 05/06/19 03:06 PM |
| 1 | What happened to Simple Pickup.. and did Kong take Jesse's girl?Jesse broke up with his gf. He traveling the world to get diff girls and have fun. Kong is a business building addict. He building his businesses in LA and goes to Vegas sometimes. | /r/seduction | 05/06/19 03:05 PM |
| 1 | Being a fat guy fucking sucks for datingWork on ur weight but but but DO . NOT WAIT until you skinny. Get girls while u improving. Future = dont exist. you live in the now. | /r/seduction | 05/06/19 03:04 PM |
| 3 | Thoughts of Rsd Derek?Yes. Especially if you have problems with people pleasing, he is great. | /r/seduction | 05/06/19 03:03 PM |
| 3 | Good game spot for a Friday night?Downtown is good. If you want to just bang, go after 12:30 to 2 AM (depending on city) in front of a club and chat up girls there. At the end of the night, girls just want to bang. If you a good closer, you can easily get girls that way. Even meeting them that way would be good but you might end up with a club rat. Find those girls who go out to clubs occasionally i guess. | /r/seduction | 05/06/19 03:02 PM |
| 1 | Advice for first dateits not the end of the world. u no? | /r/seduction | 05/06/19 02:59 PM |
| 1 | Advice for first dateGive yourself permission to mess it up. Be like, its cool if i mess it up. no pressure. im jus gonna have fun. | /r/seduction | 05/06/19 02:59 PM |
| 1 | Pick up girls MARATHON in NYC | 3 DATES in 2 hours (DAYGAME)Thanks. Attractive? Dude, you seen my intro video? I got big ears, big nose, uneven face hidden by beard. I just buy HM shit that fits well on my body and work out. I get rejected a shit ton but i learned not to let those girls who dont like me affect my mood so i find the people who i do get along with. Looks are not what get you girls. They are like extra credit on a test. What matters is having right vibe, being comfortable around girls, eye contact (Which i had to work so hard on), and not… | /r/seduction | 04/06/19 06:35 PM |
| 1 | i have to seduce every girlknow that you're not gonna get along with everyone. Be ok with that. Stop kissing butt/ppl pleasing. | /r/seduction | 04/06/19 03:44 AM |
| 1 | What is a good first date spot?Depends which city you live in. If you live in LA or NY, coffee date with hot girl is jus not a great idea. Less chance of success. The fancier the city, the cooler date has to be. In places like DC and other mid town cities, pool can be a super cool date idea or bowling. in NY, you need something like salsa or other class. Bascially, if you want to increase your chances of not getting flaked, your idea has to be cooler than what she has going on. | /r/seduction | 04/06/19 03:38 AM |
| 1 | Don't bother picking up. Just ... talk.Knowing how to talk is def not enough. You need to know what makes you laugh, how to have fun, not be a people pleaser, have good tone, and more. | /r/seduction | 04/06/19 03:35 AM |
| 1 | How do you move past the idea that men are expected to bear a lot of the cost in a relationship?its really your choice to do what you want. | /r/seduction | 04/06/19 03:31 AM |
| 1 | Did anyone go from having horrible game to pulling 10s?What do you mean by your shit together, being mentally stable or things such as finances, health, and family? Main things: If you're not a people pleaser, are not trying too hard with the people (including the girl), ur comfortable with who you are and are self amused. | /r/seduction | 04/06/19 12:47 AM |
| 1 | Do you guys approach daygame, nightgame, and online dating all the same? How so?online is the worse. You get girls you are not attracted to. | /r/seduction | 03/06/19 04:49 PM |
| 1 | How do you avoid getting friendzoned?Don't worry about it and be talking to girls with intent. You end up friend zoned cuz you try to avoid rejection and are trying to sneak in women's panties. | /r/seduction | 03/06/19 03:27 PM |
| 1 | Should I wait till I am more fit to approach girls?Waiting for the future = loser activity. future is something u dont have. All you have is NOW. Be working on urself NOW and appraoch NOW. Girls dont give a fuck about looks anyways. They are like extra credit on a test, not the actual test question grade. | /r/seduction | 03/06/19 03:26 PM |
| 1 | M[25] , Next step advice with this girlGo find another girl to talk to. You should not be waiting two weeks for a girl you havent been dating. | /r/seduction | 03/06/19 03:24 PM |
| 2 | give me bounce activity ideas i.e.:bowling ectpizza. cool view. cool spot in town. sell anything as cool. | /r/seduction | 03/06/19 03:23 PM |
| 4 | Did anyone go from having horrible game to pulling 10s?If you have your shit together, the hotter girls are the easiest to get along with. | /r/seduction | 03/06/19 03:22 PM |
| 1 | Vacation in Vegas next month, what should I do there?What days? i live in vegas You want to go to Encore pool parties, XS, and Hakkasan. Best place to improve game or pull if you just want that. I personally came here to get rid of all the shit i was dealing with. I'm talkign desire for outcome desire for control & Approval. Been going great. | /r/seduction | 17/09/18 02:01 AM |
| 3 | How can I make myself WANT to go and talk to girls?Yea. think about the kind of life you want. do you want to have lots of friends and options in dating? if so, talk. | /r/seduction | 17/09/18 01:59 AM |
| 1 | Quick advice on inviting overDon't you wanna go on an adventure before you bang? Find another girl that is more fun. This sounds like a she-male. if she's unattractive, don't do it just cuz you're desperate. Rub one out and find a girl you actually like. one life. | /r/seduction | 17/09/18 01:56 AM |
| 1 | Some conversations get boring for me; is it my fault for not saying and asking the right things or is it the fact that the other person is just not my type?Just start a new thread that is interesting to you if u find it boring. lead dog. | /r/seduction | 17/09/18 01:54 AM |
| 1 | Can the situation be saved?Find a way to meet new people. If you're trying to make a good relationship with her, she will likely cheat on you. You don't share values. But, if u want to bang her in the future and be her friend, then stay friends only and bang her after she breaks up with her bf. | /r/seduction | 17/09/18 01:51 AM |
| 1 | How Do You Handle Constant Failure?https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vuzOWmqGevw | /r/seduction | 05/09/18 01:51 AM |
| -1 | I've lost the will to approachhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vuzOWmqGevw | /r/seduction | 05/09/18 01:51 AM |
| 1 | Just approached a girl in the mall and got totally ignoredIt's summer. go to pools, fairs, and other social settings. festival season is here. Malls are the WORSE from my experience. The worse place you can go. Streets are better. The only time malls are alright is when there is a holiday. | /r/seduction | 02/06/18 09:37 AM |
| 2 | Please help meHere is the thing with social media...it is social. Girls are social. This is how you're social nowadays. So, if your girl posts often, it is not a problem. WHY you worried about it is the issue. You're being insecure man. You're afraid that the girl will leave you for some dude? If she leaves, so what? Get the skills to have options in life. Worrying about it will only make you needy and she will see that you're being too controlling. That is very unattractive. But, if you have a problem with h… | /r/seduction | 08/05/18 06:58 PM |
| 1 | Improving conversationHello, this is a reply to #1 ... Talking about things you like = there has to be calibration of course. You talk about a topic you like and then if she's into it as well, you got a winner. If you see she is totally not into a topic, you calibrate and change the subject. We are supposed to be multithreading anyways. But, if you dont know yourself and your likes and dislikes, then you will be a question stacker. Been there done that. This might not be everyone's problem but it is a problem for … | /r/seduction | 07/05/18 09:07 PM |
| -1 | How should I follow up?Idk man. Is there a place to go to meet new people? Go to other places. Bars, clubs, dance classes to meet new women. Meeting girls at the job is possible but do you want to risk your job? I'd say stay away. There are too many girls out there. Unless you really reallly like this girl and you think its legit, you know? Why risk your job. Unless your job sucks and you can find another easily if it gets bad. That's my take. what do you think? | /r/seduction | 18/04/18 07:49 PM |
| 2 | People's opinions on gym pickups.Why are you debating it? Dude, it all depends on the person you meet. it dont matter where. If you connect with the person you talk to (assuming you're 100% yourself and not putting on a front for people to like you), then what does it matter where you meet? Always talk to people and see if you click with them. There are differnet types of guys out there and you cant be friends with all of them because they're too different than you. Same with girls. See who you click with. Do not try to get alo… | /r/seduction | 18/04/18 07:05 PM |
| 1 | Asked a girl out, didn't get a direct answer, how to proceed?Oh and if you find yourself worried about your reputation, take note of it and stop that shit. Just have good intentions (you're just a dude trying to meet cool people) and take action. | /r/seduction | 18/04/18 07:01 PM |
| 2 | Asked a girl out, didn't get a direct answer, how to proceed?Ask 4 other girls and persist without being needy. Persist because you're a guy who goes after what he wants, not a guy who needs her to say yes. Get the difference? Have the best time at prom mate! | /r/seduction | 18/04/18 07:00 PM |
| 1 | How are you direct in your intentions without getting blown out?How is your eye contact? (I have no clue what the problem is but I'm just asking you questions to see). Entitlement level? Do you screen girls? Genuinely screen for qualities you like? Do you qualify them based on those qualities that you're screening for? | /r/seduction | 14/04/18 01:07 AM |
| 1 | How are you direct in your intentions without getting blown out?You're doing this online? If so, i don't know much about online. When you interact with the girls or people, are you trying to get them to like you? Or are you just being expressive and having fun with people? | /r/seduction | 14/04/18 12:22 AM |
| 1 | How are you direct in your intentions without getting blown out?You might be too needy. | /r/seduction | 14/04/18 12:14 AM |
| 1 | Where to meet girls? (No college/clubs/bars)Very attractive women and its not like Vegas, which is still amazing, but you have to deal with the bullshit of table guys and a couple more things. Overall, they're not that big of a deal but you got to learn to deal with them. | /r/seduction | 09/04/18 06:37 PM |
| 2 | Help with push pull?Dude, be real. Push pull happens naturally when you're real. She mentions Kardashians and u say i hate that show. that is a push. When you're real, you are doing it naturally. When you're using push pull as a technique, you're being a value sucker because you're spitting out words hoping you get her to like you. Focus on yourself instead. Focus on what makes you excited, what you find fun, and positive and then talk about that. That way, you're adding value instead of saying stuff to get a react… | /r/seduction | 27/03/18 07:18 PM |
| 6 | Fuck tinder and all the bullshit dating apps. What’s the best way to go outside in the world and meet girlsVenues: - Local community colleges and universities = #1. If the local universities are filled with frat girls like it is in SDSU, a local community college will be better. Frat girls are not as open to game because of their activities. You still meet some people who are down though. -Mall go talk to the employees. they're bored as shit. Very easy to game. Just got to find good looking ones who have cool personality. -Starbucks. Don't go there to game but go there to chill with a friend and do s… | /r/seduction | 27/03/18 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Facebook game advice plzIf you want attractive women, i wouldn't rely on Facebook game. Create an account for an attractive female and you will see how many messages she will get. Idk how it works for unattractive females but being attractive is an important quality for me as I have found that attractive females have certain personality traits i like. | /r/seduction | 26/03/18 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Any other great autobiographies besides The Game by Neil Strauss?1 = Arnold's. Trever Noah!!!!! Omg amazing book. So many great stories! Shaq's book. Get the audiobook. It is read by him! Amazing! I loved it. Gandhi's book is good. Nelson Mendela | /r/seduction | 26/03/18 07:30 PM |
| 2 | My gf of four years just told me that she is with me because she doesn't want to hurt me by breaking up and she will stay with me forever for this reason ??life is too short. break up now. Get a solid program on how to improve your dating life. I can recommend some if you want. Be patient if you want a solid gf. But, move on!! | /r/seduction | 26/03/18 07:25 PM |
| 2 | How not to be ''that guy'' in the club?Don't make it about you. you're thinking too much about it. Do your thing. Focus on your actions. Don't look for positive or negative reactions from girls. Do what you want to do. Mingle with folks and screen for the energy you like. You arent one of those guys so dont worry about qualifying urself. You're gonna hurt your game if you qualify yourself or try to prove you're not one of them. | /r/seduction | 26/03/18 07:22 PM |
| 16 | How to establish attractionThis comes down to your subcomminitcation. When you talk to the girl, are you maintaining eye contact. Intense. Especially at the start? How is your body language? Are you talking to them as if they are better than you? Are you reacting to them? What you say does not matter much. You are supposed to talk and talk and talk about whatever you want. Take the load off the girl. The sub communications tell it all. Friend zone conversation will be a result of bad eye contact, bad toneality (talking up… | /r/seduction | 18/03/18 01:30 AM |
| 5 | Verbal escalation/turning the convo man to womanAre you keeping eye contact at least 90% of the time? Are you increasing the heat/intensity when you're talking to the girl via eye contact. Going from 9 intensity to a 6. Pay attention to the sub-communication. are you reacting to your enviornment? are you reacting to her? If you're reacting to her, she wont feel your masculine vibe which is required for man to women talk. The third thing to do is talk about shit you find fun/funny.things you're passionate about. general things to work on right… | /r/seduction | 15/03/18 07:28 PM |
| 11 | How the F do you get a girl to reply to your text after you get her numberWhen you get her number, are you leaving right away? You should stay for about 5 more min so you're not the number guy. When you get her number, text something funny as your with her. Just one like, like ahhh, there is a monster behind you! Or a super handsome man is infront of you gf. When you text her in a day, you already have a thread open. So, then you have fun for a bit but don't make it a long convo. just suggest you meet on a certain day and plan. | /r/seduction | 14/03/18 05:16 PM |
| 1 | Giving a girl your number?Girls do not take initiative. Even if they like you, they wont contact you. So, take their number and contact them once. If they do not reply, contact them again in two days with something fun like a fun meme. Repeat with all girls until you get the girl or get blocked. Do not react negatively just because they ignore sometimes. They don't really know you yet. | /r/seduction | 13/03/18 06:59 PM |
| 1 | A lot of women doing that "brush hair over ear" move right after eye contact or noticing me, IoI or natural feminine habit?irrelevant. That is reactive to them. You're waiting for an invitation? Just assume they're attracted to you since you're awesome. And be at the cause. Do not wait for a warm approach. | /r/seduction | 13/03/18 06:56 PM |
| 1 | Need help, being intimated and invisiblefocus on not being reactive to them or your environment. Be at the cause of things happening. start the conversation, lead, make the eye contact. vary the intensity of eye contact from 9 to 6 then 9 then 6. basically, you're too reactive to them and that will kill the attraction. so, just push urself to talk to them and focus on being at the cause. | /r/seduction | 13/03/18 06:54 PM |
| 1 | Is it really just a numbers game?It's not black and white like that. Some girls are not gonna be into you at all. Some girls are gonna be on the edge and curious. If your game is lacking. If you don't maintain eye contact (with pressure on and pressure off), Have fun, and know you're the shit, then you will lose. Some guys think that it is a pure number game and play the accept me plz frame without improving their lives as a whole. So, short answer is no. It's not JUST a numbers game but some girls you meet will hate you and so… | /r/seduction | 11/03/18 01:00 AM |
| 18 | Meeting girls in college librariesLibrary is a great place to meet. It is way more socially acceptable than on the street. So, you have the adv there. You should go sit next to them and talk to them. Whisper if you must in the quiet area but make sure what you talk about is fun to you. Some girls will be against it but some will be surprised you got the balls to do that and appreciate it. | /r/seduction | 09/03/18 12:05 AM |
| 2 | Can open but very hard to stay in set (blow myself out)Force yourself to stay in set and re-approach. | /r/seduction | 08/03/18 06:03 PM |
| 2 | How to do my first cold approach?Take your gay friend or girls with you. they will meet new people. that is super fun for them. They help you and they get fun. :) win/win. guys in relationship too. nothing wrong with them being just social. Right?:) | /r/seduction | 08/03/18 05:11 AM |
| 3 | First Cold Approach Since the Divorce. Thoughts?a way to stop interviewing girls is to talk about things you like. express, not impress. after you share a bit about yourself, then you can expect a return. | /r/seduction | 07/03/18 10:22 PM |
| -3 | First Cold Approach Since the Divorce. Thoughts?what i meant by being more man to women = you were friend zoning yourself. Not too sure about it but was your conversation too friend oriented. were you talking about those topics because YOU were interested in them? was the fact that you were talking to her obvious? was ur intent clear? Many guys fall in the friend zone because they are not too clear about their intent. They try to sneak into the girl's pants. Not enough man to women talk and so, they end up in the friend zone. You def gave up … | /r/seduction | 07/03/18 10:20 PM |
| 3 | First Cold Approach Since the Divorce. Thoughts?Great job. Start talking to every girl you see now that you're divorced. you need to get back into the dating game. So, have no expectations and approach. Do not focus on their negative reaction...that would be reactive. Focus on what you can improve. Couple of things I would improve... 1. I think being more man to women would have been good. 2. talk about things you find fun. do not be afraid to be random. 3.. Also, you gave up too easily. | /r/seduction | 07/03/18 06:25 PM |
| 1 | How to do my first cold approach?have NO expectations when you approach. Make your goal to go up to ppl first. then when you go up to ppl say hi. then... Def agree to go with someone. IF you're going alone, ur doing it hard mode. | /r/seduction | 04/03/18 10:53 PM |
| 1 | New to Reddit and in dire need of some advice.What's ur life situation? Is there a college near? Is there a cool bar scene in your area? I would recommend making an action plan. Not one where it is soft. You want to grow fast, so, do risky shit that will help u grow fast. Let me know what your situation is and I can make some recommendations. Reading books is good but taking action is much much better. General shit i would recommend: 1. watch talk show hosts like Conan and others. 2. watch stand up comedy. very informative and helpful. | /r/seduction | 04/03/18 10:44 PM |
| 3 | How to break my walls?how you open does not matter at all. You can go and be like, Hi or just nod ur head. Do you connect with the girl for the rest of the time. that is what matters. assume you two already know eachother/have known each other for a while. so talk to her as if she is a friend. do not treat her as a stranger. scared of approaching/rejections: you are gonna have to grow some balls and kick your own ass man. Power of Now book helps. I would recommend doing things that are very challenging/scary to you. … | /r/seduction | 04/03/18 09:07 AM |
| 2 | Extended text game advice?Personalized meme would make it too much. The idea is that you're not going out of your way to find stuff for her. But, you found this meme. You like it. You sent it to a few friends. Then, ur like, why not send it to her too. If you go out of your way to make the meme for her, she will be turned off. She will be like oh man, this guy is taking his time to make a meme for me and he barely knows me. that level of investment is not due because you do not know this girl. It would be kinda creepy in… | /r/seduction | 04/03/18 08:55 AM |
| 2 | Extended text game advice?I would send a funny meme every couple of days and have a very short text convo with her. Add to her day. Make her remember you. By the time she is back, she will remember you as the guy who gave her positive emotions. It can be a funny meme or anything fun u think u would share with a friend for a laugh. Def do not wait for her and make her the center of your day. Why would you invest that much into a girl you do not know. You probably are not. But, just making sure. | /r/seduction | 04/03/18 05:52 AM |
| 1 | A girlfriend...Being funny is hard. It is not needed to get girls. it is a plus. Being fun is what is needed and it is much easier. Anyone can be fun. You can learn to be even more fun. When you're talking to a girl and expressing yourself, that is fun. A girl talking to you and she is expressing herself, that is fun to her. You're most likely a good listener. So, another good value to add to your arsenal. | /r/seduction | 03/03/18 08:42 PM |
| 1 | A girlfriend...Agree! | /r/seduction | 03/03/18 08:34 PM |
| 1 | A girlfriend...Great book! One of those that is a must re-read. | /r/seduction | 03/03/18 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Question About Cold ApproachingBe clear on your intention. If you want to talk to her, tell her hold on, i want to talk to you for a lil bit. You seem cool. If we don't take these steps to make things happen, girls will leave. It is up to you to take things forward. In places like NYC, it is important to let them know what is happening. They know anyways, so just be cool and open with it. You don't have to give generic compliments. Just tell them you looked cool and wanted to know more or whatever. | /r/seduction | 02/03/18 07:00 PM |
| 12 | I get over attached to every girl I’m into.Think about what makes you so obsessive. Do you feel like you're not worthy for the girl to stay with? Do you feel like you don't have a lot to offer? If that is the case, then know that you have a lot to offer just by being positive and fun. You are worthy. Relationships are about sharing. You share ur personality with hers. People make their choices. If she's with you, she likes you. you dont need to worry about if you're good enough man. Just enjoy the time together. Let go of how you want th… | /r/seduction | 14/02/18 05:31 AM |
| 1 | Strange text from girl...shit test? how to reply?Dude, be real with her. Honesty. Do you want to hang with someone who is not honest and forward with you? I don't think so. Sounds like this girl is trying to keep you as a texting buddy to use to chat when bored. Tell her the truth...you seemed cool. kinda. would like to get to know you a little better. If she wants to be friends and you want to be just friends, then friends still hang out. If she just wants to keep you around for her validation, why would you waste your time/life. If she doesn… | /r/seduction | 28/01/18 08:44 PM |
| 0 | Should I bring this girl home on the 2nd date and try to fuck?Focus on having a great fun time with each other.having fun and escalating leads to sex naturally. | /r/seduction | 26/01/18 09:20 AM |
| 3 | ~50 Aproaches, No Phone NumberHow are you approaching the women? Needy vibe or fun vibe? Where are you approaching? Are you approaching them as you're da fun leader (like The Rock, for example)? positive, fun vibe? What are you talking about to girls? is it shit you're into? that excites you? or is it shit that makes you bored/monotoned? Those two things should be your focus imo. Focusing on the fun lead frame like The Rock and others like Jack Black. The second is conversation. Oh ya, empathy. are you being empathetic? Just… | /r/seduction | 26/01/18 09:17 AM |
| 2 | I need help!!! How do I approach this girl?I would recommend you go up to her and talk to her. Later invite her to something you're doing. Or, you can ask her out somewhere straight up. I would not ask her friends to ask you. Assume she is attracted to you. Do not doubt that for one second. Rejection = ur rejecting yourself when you don't talk to her. You're saying ur not good enough. She is not perfect and you are not perfect. Be positive and fun = then you're a 10/10. you wont come off creepy. if you do (slim chance), then so what. ppl… | /r/seduction | 20/01/18 02:06 AM |
| 4 | My First RejectionGreat job man! Keep it up... U didn't reject yourself. That is why it feels amazing. | /r/seduction | 20/01/18 02:00 AM |
| 1 | You propose a date and she says Okay let me see what’s going on. Do you even respond?Yes. I would. Maybe not right away. Depends on your relationship with her.But, don't take her shit so seriously. I would take it to fun angle. Why wouldn't you be a little more persistent and fun about it? Questions to ask yourself and think about: Are you being too needy in the conversation? Are you trying to please her too much? | /r/seduction | 20/01/18 01:55 AM |
| 2 | Today is the day.Good luck! | /r/seduction | 20/01/18 01:51 AM |
| 4 | How do I escalate the conversation sexually and get her to see me as a potential partner?Hey man! Here are some fun things you can include as part of your personality while having fun talking to each other. Aim to have fun together. Sex comes naturally as a result of genuine fun. Talk about doing bf/gf things in the future. Anything. Road trips, going to Scotland, or whatever. It does not have to be realistic. Talk about cooking together. Calibrate it with words like maybe/ We will see. This is one thing that helped me kino at the start with plausible deniability. Talk about hand si… | /r/seduction | 19/01/18 07:09 AM |
| 7 | How do you escalate physically on a coffee date?Take it slow. Have fun talking. at the same time, try these. Talk about nails. anyhting about nails. and examine hers. Talk about the size of your hands. trump had a thing there. or mention how people with larger hands tend to be perfectionists. ppl with Smaller hands tend to be more risk takers and trouble makers. After you get the initial touching done, now its normal. Keep talking and having fun and at the same time, take the tip of ur hand and rub it gently against her palm AS YOU are talkin… | /r/seduction | 17/01/18 11:58 PM |
| 3 | Is day game the key for finding quality women?Depends on how you define quality women. If you define quality women as girl with goals, takes care of her health and all that good stuff you might look for, then yes. Day time is so much better. Clubs attract a lot of party girls. There might be some girls who are the girls you define as quality girls. such as the girls who are out to celebrate their friends birthday. Those girls might be less of party girls. Where you are also matter a lot. In some cities, it is normal to go to clubs and bars.… | /r/seduction | 16/01/18 11:07 PM |
| 6 | Maximizing Club GameHey Man, Club game is a bit different because the girl's attention is all over the place. You could be running great game on her, then she notices something, her attention is gone. It is the guy with the most persistence, that fights for the girls to the end, that wins in the club. And i'm talking all the way to when they're getting a cab. So, approach lots and re approach the ones that left when you were talking to them. Sometimes girls leave on purpose to see if you're gonna chase right away. … | /r/seduction | 15/01/18 10:03 AM |
| 1 | How to ask for nudes?Yep CaliBboy is right, just ask her for nudes if you want them. She wants you to ask. Id make it exciting for you and her though. First ask for topless and go from there. Make it fun and exciting for both of you. Have fun TheCleanBubble! | /r/seduction | 15/01/18 09:14 AM |
| 4 | Fcking feelings man. Need adviceBeen there, done that. You got two options. Quick way and slow and painful way. Easiest way = find another girl you click with. I was in the same situation a couple of times and was super sad about it. Didn't do shit for a while until i got out and approached. Met this awesome girl and completely forgot about that other one. Slow and shitty way = time. PPL are gonna tell u to go with this but do not listen to them. ACTION is the way to get out of this hole. if its working on your career or findi… | /r/seduction | 15/01/18 05:02 AM |
| 5 | Clueless for what to do with tinder matches.This opener is great... Just message them their name. Like if her name is Lisa...type: Lisa! That will differentiate you from the guys who say Hi how u doing and all that. Good luck. | /r/seduction | 15/01/18 04:53 AM |
| 0 | My first dates keep failingGreat advice Conor_Niggregor! | /r/seduction | 14/01/18 11:11 PM |
| 1 | My first dates keep failingYou need to give more information. What are you doing on these dates? Is the conversation 50/50? One of the mistakes I made that fucked up my early dates is that i was just a listener. Girls would give stories and talk but i wouldn't. So, it fucked up the date. Later, i had issues with how to get them engaged in the conversation and stuff. But, to give proper advice, i would need to know what you're doing now. Some general advice: watch talk shows. Pay attention to how some guests such as Jonah … | /r/seduction | 14/01/18 10:08 PM |
| 1 | girl is really into me but I don't know how to take the next step as an awkward virginIf its a party that passed, that means you have to take her out like i mentioned in my original reply. :). How to talk about her apartment? Talk about stuff in the apartment. Talk about a painting you seen recently that is cool or fav painting. then ask her if she has a poster or painting in her apt. We all personalize our living space with shit we like and find unique. Talk about yours and ask about how she personalized her apt. Then if she mentions something cool, say i got to see that. I had … | /r/seduction | 13/01/18 09:18 PM |
| 4 | girl is really into me but I don't know how to take the next step as an awkward virginHey, It's good she initiated physical contact but you need to invest in her as well since she's investing. You know? It can't be just her initiating the physical contact. She will eventually think you're a sissy and go be interested in some other dude. How to get to her place? I would talk about her apartment. When she mentions something unique, like a cool poster or a cool item she has, just tell her i got to see that! Another way is if you're having fun then kiss her, the kiss later turns into… | /r/seduction | 13/01/18 09:05 PM |
| 9 | girl is really into me but I don't know how to take the next step as an awkward virginAgreed. Over complimenting her will be annoying to her and will not distinguish you from the other dudes that compliment her all day to get in her panties. Have fun together. Make a connection. Then its great for both of you. | /r/seduction | 13/01/18 08:35 PM |
| 14 | girl is really into me but I don't know how to take the next step as an awkward virginHey man, Sounds like this girl is already attracted to you. So, just ask her to join you somewhere. Don't label it as a date. Just take her out somewhere you think it would be fun. Stop focusing on banging her. Focus on enjoying your time together. Sex will come. Make sure you touch her hand on the date. Make up excuses like...do you have big hands? Let me see. then compare hands. After that, the touch barrier is broken. You can touch anytime. Dont try to be perfect. I know you're probably imagi… | /r/seduction | 13/01/18 08:31 PM |
| 1 | DO I look different in the side pic?You look the same bro. Different angle. lol | /r/seduction | 13/01/18 07:00 PM |
| 8 | I'm a beginner. The vast amount of information on the sidebar (and the internet) is overwhelming. Does anyone have a tl;dr?You can read all the info you want. Not much will change. Biggest lesson = Taking action. Execution. That is the biggest thing in game. 2nd = realizing your self worth. You're approaching girls and know you have a lot to offer just by being positive/smiling. 3rd = dont be afraid to move things forward. if you notice shes not comfortable, dont freak out. just take a step back, apologize and try again after 10 min of fun with her. These are the most important points i would have loved to know when… | /r/seduction | 13/01/18 09:47 AM |
| 1 | Logistics for a fitness girlIt's better to care more about what you think of yourself, than what others will think of you. What will you think of yourself if you dont go for it? I know i hated myself when i didn't go for it at places like bus stops and all those crowded places just because there was ppl there. Got so sick of it that I started to care about my opinion of myself than others. | /r/seduction | 13/01/18 04:54 AM |
| 12 | Approached for the first time!Great fucking job! Approach more. Don't let the BF thing stop you. Not sure about this one but most other girls will tell you they got a BF. Most of the tiem its not true. They test if you're persistent enough/man enough. So, if they say yes, just ask in a fun way...well, is it serious? And keep having fun. A girl will not want to miss out on a guy who she has a real connection with just because she's with some fuck buddy or a bf she dosen't like much. Girls settle because they don't want to get… | /r/seduction | 12/01/18 09:49 PM |
| 5 | Logistics for a fitness girlImagine if a girl who is a stunner and has a sense of humor and is family oriented (whatever you look for in a girl) approached you at the gym. What would you do? Would u say, hey this is me time? I wouldn't. I'd be thrilled to meet someone i might have a solid relationship with. Same with girls. If you don't think you are worthy enough for girls, start recognizing you're the fucking prize man. If you're positive and going in with a smile, you are offering so much value. You know? | /r/seduction | 12/01/18 07:41 PM |
| 5 | [Help] Night game is on par, until dancing comes into playHey Man, Lucky you're a dude. You don't have to dance much. Just put ur arms in the air like you just don't care and let her dance. it's not about you. its about HER. Girls try to show their value by dancing. If you're uncomfortable, she will get uncomfortable. So, own ur shitty dancing and just be there for her. make her comfortable. This is key = know that she is dancing to show you her value! She is qualifying herself to you. Be comfortable with it. Reward her sometimes. Be like that was good… | /r/seduction | 12/01/18 07:38 PM |
| 5 | Logistics for a fitness girlwho said it is frowned upon to hit on girls at the gym? R u crazyyyy. Idk anything about yoga classes but gym is fair game man. Dude, talk to girls at the gym if you like them. Do not expect to get along with 100% of the people you talk to. Focus on the 10% that you will click with. :) Brush off the rest all the while improving your fun/positive vibe. Whole foods is a big one btw. Grocery stores, if you got a busy one near you. Juice bars. Anywhere. | /r/seduction | 12/01/18 07:19 PM |
| 1 | Freezing at clubs and barsYou freeze after a rejection? Well, laugh it off. See the funny in it. Know that it is unavoidable. You're not going to run into people you get along with only. Also, write down 5 qualities you like in girls other than looks and start screening people for that. One of them can be friendly/positive. Going out is great but if you want to improve, you have to get proactive about it. Catch yourself being negatively affected by the rejection and don't identify with the feeling. Just know it is there … | /r/seduction | 12/01/18 07:16 PM |
| 2 | Building momentum (one approach a day)If you can go to a busy spot, then go. That way, you can go do more than one approach a day. I would recommend 10x your goals. One approach a day might be alright for the first week. But, do more. Life is short. | /r/seduction | 12/01/18 12:37 AM |
| 3 | What is the best way to approach, flirt with ask out girls in my computer science classes?Talk to them. Focus on having fun. Talk about what you think is fun/ funny but at the same time be a little relatable. How to ask them out? Just talk about something you want to do and invite them to come along. Flirt with them so you dont enter the friend-zone. You know what ive been craving? Some chipotle or juice. You should join me. lets go get some juice from whole foods. they got a great juice bar! Something like that. The best dates are the ones that dont make the girl the center of atten… | /r/seduction | 10/01/18 07:18 PM |
| 3 | Mindset adviceHey Man, Assume attraction: you're going to kill attraction by getting permission. you're waiting to see if the girl likes you. The girl is into you right now but she is losing attraction lil by lil because you're being a permission boy. do not wait to see if shes attracted to you. instead, assume attraction, make moves (lil by lil, touch hand, touch shoulder, hold hand/kiss), if you see the girl is not comfortable, then calibrate. If you notice the girl is not into your touch or you making move… | /r/seduction | 10/01/18 06:51 PM |
| 3 | How do I recover my lost game?Hey Man, Read The Power of Now if you haven't done so. You're making your identity as the guy who is afraid of rejection. Not a good idea. You're afraid of getting rejected. That is normal. You need to develop the skills to get numb to it. At the end of it all man, we are going to die. So, will it matter? close your eyes. Picture you're 70 right now. You're old. what regrets do you have now that you're 70. Think about all the regrets you're going to have if you don't stick yourself out there. re… | /r/seduction | 10/01/18 06:37 PM |
| 2 | Not sure what to do with this oneHey Man, I would be upfront about this. If you're catching feelings and she is leaving within an hour, i would bet she does not want the same. Odds are she has other guys if she's leaving so quick. Talk to her casually about taking it to the next level. Do not make it a big deal. Just let her know you think she's really cool and if she's up for taking it to the next level. Baby steps. If she's not, do not cut contact with her unless you think you will fall hard for her. You can still enjoy each … | /r/seduction | 10/01/18 06:14 PM |
| 11 | How to become confident in the moment?Hey Man, Couple of things. 1. Your brain is constantly thinking about the the perfect moments when you're thinking about stuff. Imagining the ideal scenario when you're picturing yourself doing something in the future. So, catch that. Get back to reality. Don't let your brain picture perfect moments. Don't be afraid to get into weird situations. They are part of life. Accept you're not perfect; she isen't either. You want the interaction to go well because you're too into the girl. The fact is y… | /r/seduction | 10/01/18 01:53 AM |
| 1 | Weeknights on the 9 to 5 grindWhy not challenge yourself and learn a new skill. Take classes such as martial arts/MMA, Salsa/dance, and other classes that will likely have people who value hard work and balanced life. Maybe a toast masters? :) First couple of weeks of getting a new skill suck, but after that, its dope! | /r/seduction | 10/01/18 12:22 AM |
| 1 | Lost momentum?Hey Man, How did you react when she didn't let you finger her? You can't start fingering a girl. Most hate it. Next time, try touching her arm a bit with the tip of your fingers. Kiss her neck. Rub her neck. Touch her back with the tip of your fingers. move down to her ass. rub it while u make out. Last thing you should be doing is fingering the girl. You can't start there. god damn. have some empathy. It's not over with her. Be a lil persistent and make her comfortable. Wait two days and be lik… | /r/seduction | 10/01/18 12:12 AM |
| 0 | Came on too strong??Hey man, Don't take it too seriously. Go meet other girls. Don't give up on this girl. Keep going after her while you find other girls because this one will likely not work out anymore (explaining why under). Next time you go out on a date, don't make it so not obvious you're interested in her. If you're on a date, touch her hands while talking. Flirt with her. Make it sexual somehow. Find ways to make it sexual at the same time keeping her comfort level good. This way, you don't ever have to sa… | /r/seduction | 09/01/18 11:47 PM |
| 9 | I get very nervous around very attractive girls, how to fight this?Here is my take brother: They're not perfect. Just because they're pretty don't mean they got their shit together. They can be toxic ppl. Do you want to hang out around someone who drinks daily, for example and sleeps until 3PM. Has no goals. Is shit to everyone in their lives? No. Realize that. Value shit more than looks. Value things like health, good sense of humor, positivity and good energy. Practice eye contact with people. Stranger. Start small. Keep eye contact with people around you dai… | /r/seduction | 09/01/18 11:32 PM |
| 4 | [FR]First cold approach!! I feel so goodGreat job man. Force yourself to stay in no matter what. Even if it gets super uncomfortable. This is huge to getting your game moving to the next level. Two weeks of not doing it made you want to do it for YOU. It wasn't about the girls anymore. It was about what you thought of yourself. I'd remember that. Good job! | /r/seduction | 09/01/18 11:22 PM |
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