Men,

My legs were shaking during the first time I talked to a random girl on the streets. I struggled to feel worthy to talk to them. I felt like i was bothering them, i wasn't enough for them and all that stuff that most go through. A couple of things helped me become A LOT more confident.

First, realizing that girls enjoy talking to the guy they like just as much as us guys like to talk to girls we like. I realized that I can try less when talking to girls because just as I am enjoying talking to her, she is enjoying talking to me. Just my presence alone with the girl is fun for her. I was underestimating myself. So, don't do that.

Second, I realized how stupid I was. I was trying to be this perfect guy for the girl. I had this idea that I am not good enough now and I have to be at some higher level. As I got older, i realized that i will always think i have to be better. I will never be this ideal self i have in my head. I will never be perfect and that is ok. Girls do NOT want a perfect guy. They want a guy with some confidence and leadership skills who can have fun. That's it. So, don't make my mistake. Realize girls standards are as low as your standards. You and the girl are just imperfect pieces of crap who are trying their best to be good. DO NOT WAIT UNTIL YOU ARE PERFECT or AMAZING.

I go over a few other things in a video I just uploaded. If you got a minute, check it out. I also have other videos on neediness/conversation skills and stuff.

Link: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ci5qVhbCwqg

Peace!