Men,

Many of us know that looks matter to guys A LOT. Guys like good looking girls because gr8 a$$ and tits = better equipped to reproduce. But, looks don't matter nearly as much to girls.

99% of guys end up in the friend-zone today because they do not trigger attraction switches in women. These attraction switches were programmed in her head to help her survive in tribal times. Many of you guys know this.

  1. One of them is being a better leader. This all starts with decision making muscles! Many of us, like me, start out shy AF! Couldn't make a decision with girls or in life. This has to be built. This applies with girls a lot! From the moment you ask her out, we are like...do you want to go out somewhere? where? Instead, make a suggestion...be like, we should go to this new coffee shop downtown and get some dairy free ice cream later. Are you down? This applies in clubs too. be like...Let's go get some water, instead of saying do you wanna get a drink.
  2. Another big attract switch is confidence. That means OWNING your insecurities. For example, i got big ears. when girls make fun of that, i make fun of that too and act like it is attractive. That fun, confident frame is usually absorbed by the girl and it then becomes an advantage. If you're balding, own that too. Own ANY insecurity. It makes u a lot more confident.
  3. Another is being able to share. Letting your guard down and not taking stuff seriously. This is so key because it makes girls know you are safe. Her mind is trained to be on the look out for psycho guys that could have raped her in tribal times. So, comfort is KEY to being more attractive. You have to learn how to make her feel comfortable around you. You can do that by sharing, treating her like an old friend instead of a stranger. Share your short stories with her. Let her know who you are. Tell her funny and embarrassing stories. If you flip out easily, that is a red flag to her. Anyways, comfort is KEY.

I go over a few other things in the video i just uploaded. I also go over these in more detail. Check it out if you got a few minutes.

Link: https://youtu.be/aH4uiXYW-Ro

Peace!