Men,

I am not sure if you ever went through this phase but i went through a phase of feeling down because some girls prefer good looking guys more and certain races more. I focused on those girls and my motivation to meet women went DOWN HILL!

I wanted to share what helped me get rid of that crappy place real quick. So that you can keep moving forward and stay confident!

  1. Focusing on what you can control. Looks and race matter ya, but why would you focus on things you can't control? Focusing on things we cant control is just making us feel helpless, destroys motivation, and wastes our life! We must focus on things we can control. That is, looking our best and taking action to change our situation.
  2. Realization that everyone is different. This is key!!! I remember talking to a few girls that literally rejected me instantly and some even said EW as they were rejecting me! This was the case especially in night clubs. I was so dumb to not realize that there are MANY different types of girls with DIFFERENT preferences. Some frat girls might prefer frat guys but a lot of other girls don't care for those kinds of looks. They look for something else. Some girls are into guys with big noses. Some girls like darker guys. Some girls like Arab features, Indian/Asian features, African American features. There are MANY girls with MANY different kinds of preferences. If you meet some women that don't like you, big deal...respect their preferences and move on. Do NOT let it stop you from taking action, achieving your relationships goals! Keep moving! Don't let it make you one of the bitter angry guys who dislike women.

These two things will help you become a BOSS that just takes action and does not see rejection as a big deal because he or she just realize that this is life. You win some, you lose many. Ya, its harder for guys who are not traditionally good looking, but what are you gonna do? Do those two things.

I made a vid going through this in more detail. Check it out if you got some time. Thanks!

Link: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7wXFAXzSIis

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Peace!