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| 10 | Thoughts on Uber money?That's a "next" for me. If you can't even get to me on your own you're a hard pass. And honestly, even asking, huge red flag immediately. | /r/seduction | 24/07/26 03:20 PM |
| 6 | I asked her "whose P is this", she just stayed silentI usually let them lead when it comes to that particular statement..... Lol | /r/seduction | 22/07/26 09:42 PM |
| 3 | Best way to take your main dating-profile picOh I know. I hear about it from all my singke female friends.. And they all want to know why none of these guys have elbows. Lol | /r/seduction | 22/06/26 05:50 PM |
| 15 | Best way to take your main dating-profile picSo, no to the fish photos? 😂🐠🐟 | /r/seduction | 22/06/26 05:31 PM |
| 3 | How to maintain frame while gettimg shit tested?Different women doing this or the same one, or handful? Does every woman you meet do this? I don't know. You're way more patient than me. I'd graciously tell them that I'm sorry they just aren't a fit for me. I'm at the age where I don't need that kind of crap, and have a low tolerance for it. | /r/seduction | 22/06/26 03:51 PM |
| 0 | Asking out your waitress. Thoughts? Experiences?I wouldn't do it. They're just doing their jobs, and probably get hit on a lot. | /r/seduction | 22/06/26 02:41 PM |
| 1 | Why would a girl agree to a threesome?Pleasure. Fun. Enjoy seeing you getting the pleasure.uts taboo / extra naughty has the crazy intense vibe. Exploration. Something different. They enjoy contact with another woman or no contact and the excitement of sharing. Lots of valid reasons. | /r/seduction | 13/06/26 03:25 PM |
| 4 | How do you manage roaster and how to deal with being caughtNew lingo I'm not familiar with.... Roaster. Lol The women Ive seen always knew there were others I was seeing when I wasn't exclusive. When I was exclusive, I was exclusive. There were a couple that knew were the key is and had an open invite. But, they also knew to check for the sign of me not being alone.i did enjoy arriving home after a long day to find a nude blonde in my bed playing while waiting for me.... | /r/seduction | 28/05/26 12:59 AM |
| 1 | Do you think a relationship can be the same after a threesomeMaybe? What I can say is the couples I've done that with have all split up. So... | /r/seduction | 20/05/26 08:48 PM |
| 2 | How do you reach out to exes?Relationship exes. I don't. And won't. Ex fwbs. I just wait for them to reach out to me. A couple of them go through cycles of friends, sex, need to focus on finding a relationship, popping back up for friends or sex and repeat. | /r/seduction | 12/05/26 11:26 PM |
| 37 | Girl “likes” me but said she doesn’t want to have sex?I'd bail on that one. Youre a fun guy she likes flirting with. And that's what she sees you as. Plus. Do you like your job? | /r/seduction | 11/05/26 04:07 PM |
| 3 | How to politely ask a flakey girl to respect my time?So... How amazingly hot is this woman? I'm assuming here that if she was anything less than a 9 you wouldn't be working so hard to make it work. It's a simple conversation really. I understand your work situation, but, this has become something that's caused me grief and I'd like for you to try to consider my time and the commitment I make to see you. | /r/seduction | 22/04/26 07:41 PM |
| 3 | The Most Common Issue I See With Unnatural MenI often say I hate people. I don't. I've dedicated my adult life to saving them, so... But, give me the strength to drive anywhere or be in a Costco without wondering how doomed humanity is. It's no different for women "hating men". Take that as an opportunity for a conversation about what happened. | /r/seduction | 21/04/26 07:09 PM |
| 8 | How does a woman effectively entice other women into the bedroom for her man with a mostly straight orientation?Oh damn. That's painful. I suppose doing it in the room with your so and sending them photos of what they missed is out of the question. Lol | /r/seduction | 17/04/26 09:58 PM |
| 24 | How does a woman effectively entice other women into the bedroom for her man with a mostly straight orientation?I wish I knew. The times I've been lucky enough to do this. It was my female partner who made it happen. I've tried myself a couple times. Failed. Introduced two fwbs. We went for drinks. They hit it off. And then they both backed out. Their body types were the issue. The one with the big ass and no boobs was jealous of the one with big boobs but no ass and vice versa.... Sigh. | /r/seduction | 17/04/26 08:48 PM |
| 13 | Dating much youngerIn my late 40s I dated a couple women in their 30s, which eventually led to getting more serious, conversations about kids (I want no more) and that was that. I met a few in their 20s but just found too big a gap in terms of maturity and goals etc so never got past fling stage. To each their own I think. If it works for you, you get her. 😉 | /r/seduction | 15/04/26 03:27 PM |
| 1 | What to respond to a girl who asks u to fly her out as a half jokeFun once and a while I guess. But the cost difference between a one hour flight and a two hour one is nothing really. Inatead of trading who pays to come to the other, you just end up each paying the same amount and then add hotel... | /r/seduction | 13/04/26 03:21 PM |
| 14 | What to respond to a girl who asks u to fly her out as a half jokeOne advantage of being older. You can't afford to come to me sometimes? I'm not your sugar daddy. You want this to work.get yourself here. | /r/seduction | 13/04/26 04:34 AM |
| 1 | How do you handle being tested/challenged?Depends... If it's an off the cuff joke and a one time thing, laugh it off and carry on. If it becomes a trend, you can either call them out on it and ask why are you being so negative to me etc, or just move on. When I was younger I'd have cared a lot. Now that I'm in my fifties and, it feels like things have reversed with women being pretty easy, if a woman is doing that to me, call her out on it and if she digs in on it and won't acknowledge it was crappy I end things and move on. I'm too old… | /r/seduction | 13/04/26 12:06 AM |
| 3 | How important is having your own place?I found it was crucial. But that was post marriage and I was 48. Where and how I lived came up early and often. Interestingly enough. Having my own place was usually a requirement of women who had multiple room mates, and three who lived with their parents (in their fourties, one as a caregiver, two due to economic reasons, which, I do udneratdm. This is an obscenely expensive place to live ). Never understood why it was ok to telle I had to meet a standard they didn't meet themselves. Didn't ma… | /r/seduction | 08/04/26 01:49 AM |
| 4 | How much does being muscular actually help with attraction?I think it changes as we age. Im 6-2 and used to be an extremely powerful 400 pounds and had zero interest. Dropped to low 200s in late fourties, with excess skin to show for it. Still there mid fifties. Been grey for ten years. Balding is getting worse and I struggle with my self image. So, while I see myself as pretty average on my very best day, women 45+ or so, I seem to have no issues whatsoever. I just wish I knew why. So... Clearly something changes as we age. | /r/seduction | 20/03/26 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Did having a hot tub, help you with the ladies at all?It's done its job, but, has recently become the problem child. Presently undriveable while I try to track down a bad miss, while three German cars are purring like happy kittens. | /r/seduction | 16/03/26 08:24 PM |
| 0 | Did having a hot tub, help you with the ladies at all?Haha. That would be quite the thing! | /r/seduction | 16/03/26 06:55 PM |
| 7 | Did having a hot tub, help you with the ladies at all?Sigh.... No but I drive it to the dates and or pick them up in it. I deliberately don't bring out or even disclose the existence of nicer cars. | /r/seduction | 16/03/26 06:20 PM |
| 22 | Did having a hot tub, help you with the ladies at all?Get one for you not for a lure. I don't even tell women about having one. If we get to the stage of me having them over, they'll see it for themselves. Plus, I also use my old reliable Toyota for dates until I get to the point of wanting to invite them over. I love hot tub. And, it's fun for some sexy time too, just be sure you get good lube for that. Uberlube. | /r/seduction | 16/03/26 05:27 PM |
| 1 | Did my first fist approach while grocery shopping went badNot all people are kind, or interested in talking even. Oh well.... Move along! | /r/seduction | 07/03/26 08:27 PM |
| 5 | How do I ask a guy I went out with a few times a couple months ago if he wants to hook up?Not many guys would be bothered by the ask. Be direct. I'm assuming you've already told him you're not interested in a relationship so that's not ground breaking news. So. Ask him if he'd be interested in exploring being fwbs with you. I'd phrase it that way because, well you haven't fooled around and if it's not great sex, then there's no point and there's only one way to know.... (no, that's not true, but I'm also assuming you don't know anyone else whose been with him and raves about his skil… | /r/seduction | 03/03/26 07:13 PM |
| 1 | How often do girls hit you up/approach you?Lol. Well, any time my hands find their way to boobs they fit very well. Lol. In her case she was larger than expected but I held my own, or her own. Lol!! | /r/seduction | 09/01/26 05:45 PM |
| 2 | How often do girls hit you up/approach you?Well, apparently I am oblivious. So likely just an honest question. Lol!! | /r/seduction | 07/01/26 04:14 PM |
| 3 | How often do girls hit you up/approach you?Once. And I'm 53. She sat down beside me at a pub and said she wanted a closer look at my (very large) hands. Asked me if I was curious how they'd fit on her boobs and left me her number. Other than that, never. But. I've been told I'm clueless lol | /r/seduction | 07/01/26 04:57 AM |
| 7 | Girl that I like has genital herpes. Is it worth continuing?I've passed on two women who, to their credit told me about their status early on. I'm still friends with one, but that is all we will ever be.. Just not worth the risk of not someone who could be the one. | /r/seduction | 23/12/25 07:49 PM |
| 40 | End more dates after 10 minutesYikes. This just seems kinda no to me. But. Let me tell you there have been dates and interviews I should have ended before ten minutes. The guy who didn't tell me he was a guy, the woman who didn't tell me her husband was coming too, the woman who saw me come through the door and instead of a polite smile, flashed me, in a Starbucks, the woman who looked like she was maybe twenty years older than her pics, maybe even more, the woman who didn't have any idea about what we'd chatted about online … | /r/seduction | 16/12/25 08:29 PM |
| 1 | Benefits of being a short manThey don't typically lead with it though. And the part that I laugh about. Almost always been from a woman that I considered to be on the fringe already and was hoping she'd get more interesting. Lol | /r/seduction | 08/11/25 02:01 AM |
| 7 | Benefits of being a short manOr the 666 Queens... Always get a chuckle out of those. | /r/seduction | 08/11/25 12:11 AM |
| 1 | Do you ever feel like its too much pressure to be good in bed as a male?Listen and learn Laugh. Have fun. You'll be just fine. | /r/seduction | 04/10/22 03:39 AM |
| 1 | Developing depression due to being sexlessWell... I had more options than time or energy.... It was a massive who boost coming from two decades of complete rejection. | /r/seduction | 03/10/22 05:01 PM |
| 1 | Developing depression due to being sexlessHaha. 🤣 | /r/seduction | 03/10/22 02:23 PM |
| 1 | Developing depression due to being sexlessThat's my point. Sex isn't the solution. It wasn't for me. Got out of my twenty year sex mess marriage. Nearly drowned in sex and felt no better. About me. About life. About sex. And my back hurt like crazy. | /r/seduction | 03/10/22 02:22 PM |
| 4 | Developing depression due to being sexlessSex won't fill the hole man. Trust me. It's not about sex. Dig deeper. Get therapy. Get yourself you're you're happy being you living your life. Sex will happen. It comes and goes. Even in a relationship it comes and goes. You will be ok. | /r/seduction | 03/10/22 01:38 AM |
| 0 | Do people usually date the same level of attractiveness?More or less yes. But things can sway that. Money. Brains. Being great in bed. (the last two definitely helped me hit above my weight for a while within a couple of circles... Once one woman talked about it...) | /r/seduction | 27/09/22 08:16 PM |
| 1 | How can I take rejection graciously?It's life. Not just sex. Life. It's going to happen. Lots. Suck it up princess. | /r/seduction | 26/09/22 04:19 PM |
| 3 | Is it kind of late to the pickup game at the age of 50?Never too late. I became single at 46 and literally drowned in pussy until I settled down. And still have a handful that are still trying. And I'm thinking I'm pretty average overall. So if I can literally go from having been with one woman my whole life to having more sex in my first month of being single than my whole life before that, anyone could do it.... | /r/seduction | 01/09/22 03:23 PM |
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