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| 0 | Post College Experiences | georgiafisherman | /r/askTRP | 21/01/19 08:40 PM |
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| 1 | Plate I'm cutting off says she'd rather have me "check" her than leave her.Bingo. Something like that is absolutely NEVER worth it. Risk reward isn’t there | /r/askTRP | 01/06/19 05:55 AM |
| 1 | Girl says “What are we even gonna do?” after agreeing to hang out. How do you guys solve this?The best mindset you can have is you’re doing shit regardless. “I’m going to x for y, you should join me” “Why should I join?” “Because I’ll be there and it’s fun” Basically operate under the assumption she’ll want to come with you. No need to ask if she wants to | /r/askTRP | 29/05/19 12:24 AM |
| 1 | Girl says “What are we even gonna do?” after agreeing to hang out. How do you guys solve this?Well I’m gonna answer this in two parts. The first part isn’t your question but maybe some unsolicited advice. If someone asks you to go dancing it may not be a bad idea to step out of your comfort zone and try especially if you’re attracted to her. It could be fun, it could suck. But it’s a new experience with new people. But if you’re dead set on not, it might do you well to say something like “I can’t make it to dancing but let’s meet for (drinks/coffee/I don’t care) instead.” Anyways your qu… | /r/askTRP | 29/05/19 12:02 AM |
| 11 | Girl says “What are we even gonna do?” after agreeing to hang out. How do you guys solve this?Work on music with drinks at your place after. Unless this is your first rodeo you’ll know | /r/askTRP | 28/05/19 06:02 PM |
| 23 | Girl says “What are we even gonna do?” after agreeing to hang out. How do you guys solve this?When you invite her to hang out you should be inviting her to do something. Not, hey let’s hang out? Hey let’s go grab drinks at x bar at x time. Boom problem solved | /r/askTRP | 28/05/19 06:00 PM |
| 2 | You're input is appreciatedFirst off there’s no shame in being picky with who you sleep with. Not attracted to most? That’s fine, don’t. You’re allowed to and should be selective. As for you comparing yourself to your buddy, watch what he does, how he handles himself around women and compare to what you do. You might find drastic differences and can improve yourself from there. Also experience and failure. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/19 02:05 AM |
| 1 | Long Distance LTR allowing me to bang other womenShe’s probably fucking other guys as well, man. I know she says she’s not but I could never imagine her straight up telling you you can bang other girls unless to make her feel better about her actions. Sounds like an open LTR to me. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/19 01:18 AM |
| 1 | How do you guys handle conversations with friends when they are having relationship problems?This stuff comes up fairly often for me actually. I just tell them what I’d do in their situation and that’s all I can do. You really can’t do much more besides let them vent then say what you’d do in their shoes. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/19 12:58 AM |
| 1 | HELP. I made out with the friend group’s (mostly girls) most respected member. She had a boyfriend. People are starting to hate me but this group is full of 9’s and 10’s and are very resourceful.Yes. Stay committed to not talking to her and don’t find a dumb reason to contact | /r/askTRP | 21/05/19 11:56 PM |
| 1 | How do you compete with an ex bf?You’re just an easy rebound man. Quit being that. This dude probably has options and she fucking loves that. Do the same. And also forget about her you’re being used. | /r/askTRP | 21/05/19 08:26 AM |
| 3 | What are attention seeking behavior examples?Texting too much. Acting needy for validation in person. List goes on but if you’ve read the side bar this should be clear | /r/askTRP | 21/05/19 08:25 AM |
| 12 | I matched with a girl on tinder that i had sex with a little over a year go“I don’t know” might as well be the equivalent of “no”. It’s a no. Don’t answer. Leave the ball in her court and find other women | /r/askTRP | 21/05/19 08:24 AM |
| 5 | HELP. I made out with the friend group’s (mostly girls) most respected member. She had a boyfriend. People are starting to hate me but this group is full of 9’s and 10’s and are very resourceful.Exactly. Just stick to it though | /r/askTRP | 21/05/19 06:08 AM |
| 4 | Need some help with banter.If you want help with banter and being witty listen to comedians more. Especially before going out for a night or with a girl. Notably, listen to Bill Burr. | /r/askTRP | 21/05/19 06:02 AM |
| 13 | HELP. I made out with the friend group’s (mostly girls) most respected member. She had a boyfriend. People are starting to hate me but this group is full of 9’s and 10’s and are very resourceful.She’s upset he dumped her and in her eyes you’re the reason (blames you not herself because hamster). Don’t contact her. Whenever she can’t get her boyfriend back maybe she’ll hit you up. If not who cares | /r/askTRP | 21/05/19 05:59 AM |
| 10 | Keep instagram profile on private or public?Mines public. Who cares, why? | /r/askTRP | 21/05/19 05:57 AM |
| 3 | how to improve at high school american football as a complete beginner?Eat, and I mean a lot. Eat until you can’t anymore. Then eat some more. For the not being able to catch a ball thing, try to toss a baseball in the yard. Bounce a tennis ball off a wall and catch it when it comes back. Do this shit for hours. It’s actually fun too. | /r/askTRP | 21/05/19 05:50 AM |
| 8 | Matched on Bumble, setting up first date.She clearly wants a Netflix and chill, man. Don’t overcomplicate things. Don’t need any witty response. Just “Cool, I’ll text you then. What’s your address?” | /r/askTRP | 21/05/19 05:36 AM |
| 5 | Massive family fight - need guidanceMaybe you grew up in a better home than I did but I would hardly call this a “massive” fight. Playing the he said she said game is useless. If you’re under your parents roof still, be firm that you don’t believe you did wrong but be willing to apologize to simply make the situation right. If you live with your family still it’s not like you can “next them”. It’ll all pass over in a few days | /r/askTRP | 18/05/19 06:17 AM |
| 1 | Got called mysterious/creepy.Meh, I’m not here to disagree with your general sentiment but the “not fucking by x date” always kills me. I’ve had times where it took much longer than 2-3 dates to fuck just due to logistics beyond either of our control. Notably one is a plate I’ve had for a year and a half now. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/19 02:42 AM |
| 1 | My father is pretty blue pilled. Where do I find a strong male mentor?Jocko Willinck’s podcast. Thank me later. | /r/askTRP | 01/05/19 07:59 PM |
| 175 | Bill Burr nearly stumbles upon the idea of female solipsismRelevant video from Bill Burr discussing married women chasing after higher status males on Conan the other night: https://youtu.be/5jJ-x1-20ro It’s clear Conan didn’t even know how to react to what he was saying. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/05/19 08:07 AM |
| 3 | How the hell do you guys balance drinking and staying fit?For what it’s worth, at the most fit point in my life (sadly not there right now but close) I was at the gym EVERY day. Meeting my calories and protein requirements, and people noticed and commented as such. At this same time I was having quite a few drinks every single night watching sports, sometimes partying. So I don’t believe it really hindered me and is nothing to feel guilty about. For what it’s worth Im not in my 30’s yet and who knows if that’ll change as I age more. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/19 06:03 AM |
| 1 | Post College ExperiencesYeah, it’s tough for me to leave here because I absolutely love living where I do. But I love the availability of people to meet (men and women) in a bigger population area. Kind of a contradiction I suppose. | /r/askTRP | 22/01/19 04:05 AM |
| 1 | Post College ExperiencesI didn’t, I live on my own with a decent job offer to start when I graduate. That job offer also happens to be in the middle of nowhere and I really do like living out in the country... which is why I was wondering if anyone has had similar experiences | /r/askTRP | 22/01/19 03:54 AM |
| 1 | Post College ExperiencesI’d been thinking about that. Atlanta isn’t TOO far from me. Another issue is the cost of living is higher the closer you get to the city. At what point is something like that not worth it just to be meeting more people | /r/askTRP | 21/01/19 09:04 PM |
| 0 | Post College ExperiencesWell, I like living out in the country. I prefer it over big cities and was curious as to other people’s experiences with how that is post college if anyone’s experienced something similar. | /r/askTRP | 21/01/19 08:53 PM |
| 7 | Tell me to stop being a retard and ghostMan at your age you don’t want someone with a kid, no question about it. If you keep striving to be the best you can, there’s gonna be a million better women who don’t have a kid at your age. You don’t want that responsibility right now ESPECIALLY since it’s not yours. No way around it. | /r/askTRP | 18/01/19 04:22 AM |
| 4 | How do you guys conquer LOW days?Hey man, sometimes I feel like I’m in a similar situation and the most helpful thing for me was Jocko Willink’s podcast. I’d highly recommend it, you’ll gain so much it’s crazy. But if I had to give a too long, didn’t listen it’s this - Jocko says sometimes he doesn’t feel like working out or doing the stuff he has to. Whether it’s a low day or whatever. And what his answer to this is: He just does all the shit he has to anyway. He works out, does all the rest. Forces himself to do it that day a… | /r/askTRP | 16/01/19 05:50 AM |
| 3 | Breaking the RulesAgreed. I’m much more long-winded with anything I say (sometimes to a fault) but yes we’re on the same track there. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/11/18 05:25 AM |
| 4 | Breaking the RulesThe purpose of life is not to get laid. But part of the purpose is to make meaningful and useful connections. Don’t be taken advantage of and manage relations with women (and men for that matter) to at least not harm you and things will be looking good | /r/TheRedPill | 07/11/18 05:24 AM |
| 12 | Breaking the RulesThat’s fair. I do think it’s important for anyone (newbie or not) to learn to make the friend zone a non-issue per se. By that I mean anybody needs to identify and categorize females into about three categories. One being those you’d like to fuck/plate/date. Two being those that you’d like for friends (offer something, ideal fun and social proof). And three being those you want nothing to do with. Once someone can successfully do this and stick to it the benefits are boundless and have positivel… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/11/18 02:03 AM |
| 36 | Breaking the RulesI’m glad you mentioned that the rule of not making friends with females can be broken because I believe it is absolutely beneficial even for a more blue-pilled mindset. I cannot explain how many times a female friend has gotten me laid, helped me meet new female friends, or found some girl they’d love to set me up with. Plus honestly female friends can be fun to hang out with on a Friday night and listen to how they perceive the world. Want to truly watch red pill theory in work? Befriend a bunc… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/11/18 12:32 AM |
| 3 | Did I apply “dread” correctly?Well I think you got your answer more or less but I’ll chime in for a little extra: Probably didn’t apply dread correctly, she wasn’t really able to witness other women acting interested in you. She kind of sounds like the woman who may be put off by someone who is (in her mind) still hanging out with druggies. Based on her reaction, if y’all continue interacting it may be best to ‘accidentally’ forget to mention drugs when describing future interactions. If she comes back around, I would act li… | /r/askTRP | 04/09/18 05:49 AM |
| 1 | Girl who had boyfriends has gone coldAll three of your thoughts are entirely possible. Very good chance you were a rebound and nothing else, very good chance she just regretted it. You could hit her up again and find out the answer based on how she reacts, but what I would personally do is toss it up to a one night stand and not hit her up again. If you’re asking questions about her, it probably means you think a little too highly about her and would be better off not hitting her up at all. There’s too many women out there and it’s… | /r/askTRP | 03/09/18 06:20 AM |
| 1 | How do you get motivated to eat right?Check out Jocko Willink’s podcast. It has been a serious life changer for me. In there, he mentions about how sometimes he doesn’t have the drive to work out that day but tells himself he’ll workout that day and take the next day off. But he tells himself the same thing the next day. Apply that attitude towards eating healthy. You’ll eat healthy today but not tomorrow. And continue that attitude. So when tomorrow comes, you’ll eat healthy and say you won’t eat healthy the next day. Rinse & repea… | /r/askTRP | 03/09/18 06:10 AM |
| 3 | Is the entertainment industry becoming too bluepilled? How can you enjoy the shows after taking the trp?Please explain to me how a platform to watch movies and tv shows is in itself white knight ridden? It is nothing more than a platform | /r/askTRP | 03/09/18 01:44 AM |
| 1 | My SMV has gone through the roof in comparison to earlier and I have lost ALOT of friends. How do I go about making them?I’m not turning you into a bad guy. You have to be willing to step back, self reflect, and be honest with yourself. You think extremely highly of yourself (both a positive and a negative depending how you act). But if people are literally blowing you off after your ‘change/self improvement,’ something else might be at play here. If your old friend is blowing you off like that I fully believe something in your attitude has changed possibly in a negative way. I’ve never lost a friend due to being … | /r/askTRP | 02/09/18 05:21 PM |
| 1 | My SMV has gone through the roof in comparison to earlier and I have lost ALOT of friends. How do I go about making them?Honest truth? You might be acting like a douche bag. I’m saying this based on how you describe/view yourself through your post. I’ve always been in shape but since swallowing The Red Pill I have lost zero friends not by my own volition. I’ve cut several off for various reasons but it’s always been my choice. When you make such great personal improvements, it’s always important to watch how you act. You don’t want to act in an excessively cocky/not genuine way. You view every other person’s actio… | /r/askTRP | 02/09/18 06:04 AM |
| 1 | #BookShelfChallengeI haven’t read that short story by Hemingway but will be sure to check it out. I’ve been impressed with virtually everything I read by him and while I absolutely loved Old Man and The Sea I would have to agree he does have better work. I have always considered A Farewell To Arms to be his best, personally. If you liked those short stories by Faulkner, I’d highly recommend both A Rose For Emily and The Bear (or The Bear Hunt; something along those lines, I cannot recall). It is a story of men hun… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/08/18 06:43 PM |
| 1 | #BookShelfChallengeThat’s amazing. I’m glad someone else was impacted by Hemingway as much as I have been. I first read A Farewell To Arms in 10th grade in high school and I remember throwing the book across the room when I finished it. I just sat there thinking heavily for a solid half hour afterwards. Aside from A Farewell To Arms, The Old Man and The Sea really stuck with me. I had never really given his short stories a chance until I recently read Hills Like White Elephants and it was again incredibly impressi… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/08/18 04:36 AM |
| 2 | #BookShelfChallengeCame here to say this and A Farewell To Arms. Glad you beat me to it. Life changing books in my opinion. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/08/18 04:09 AM |
| 2 | First gf dumped me then slept with another guy the next nightI know this is a few days old but I think I can help you out a little bit. Fully engross yourself in the gym. Even when you’re not in the gym, focus on it. You play a lot of video games. Try to stop. Tell yourself that you can only play video games for an hour and a half today at the end of the day after you’ve fucking crushed the rest of your day. After you gave it your all at work, after you kicked ass in the gym, and after you ate a solid dinner and caught up on homework/work related emails/e… | /r/askTRP | 24/07/18 06:43 PM |
| 1 | Ghosting questionNo need to act needy in the slightest. If you and her wind up talking about homework and decide to get together to do the homework before spring break then cool. Otherwise who cares, it's just a week. If she never answers you, don't ever contact her again. Not worth it. Plenty of girls out there and one-itis is not a good thing. | /r/seduction | 08/03/18 06:24 AM |
| 2 | Ghosting questionSo, whenever I get a girl's number I'm a fan of handling it differently. I'll simply text her my name so she has my contact info. Then maybe sometime down the road (maybe a day later maybe several days later) I'll find a reason to text her again. Either inviting her somewhere or with something that pertains to whatever connection we had. If I met her in class, ask if she's done the homework. Maybe conversation flows naturally from there maybe we meet up to do the homework. You get the drift. But… | /r/seduction | 08/03/18 12:36 AM |
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