Well I'll be pretty blunt, I feel like I'm failing as a man.

I'm 25. Have an N count of 3; have had probably 15-20 opportunities total to go past this number in my life. Feel like this number should be way way bigger but a lot of the women who offer me sex I have no interest in. I cant fake my attraction to them. Most are not my type and most are not what you would call "hot."

Anyways as far as backstory goes. I've been lifting for over 10 years. I'm around 225 lbs at 6'4" probably 11-12% bf. Without sounding like a humblebrag I'm pretty decently jacked. I'm probably the biggest guy at my gym and also one of the strongest. I've been told I have a "handsome" with variations of very handsome, been called model, sometimes movie star face. Again I dont want this to come across as bragging because obviously it hasn't paid off for me. My fashion is on point and I have my own sense of style, most shirts are tight on me. My hairstyle looks great and I've figured out what looks best on me. I make decent money, nothing crazy.

I have been on a mission to better myself. Reading every now and then, doing cold showers, walks every day, yoga, meditation, trying to explore some of my hobbies. I'm very driven if I believe that the things I do will someday pay off so I continue to work hard. Learning RP, and even game/pickup to try and better myself.

It's frustrating because I know someone who gets women throwing themselves at him. Comparatively hes shorter and not as muscular as me.

I've put in a lot of work and I'm confused why women dont do that for me? A part of being a man to me is being able to attract women, and also being able to seduce them. Everything I thought would attract them still is not paying off. All of the attractive women that I was actually interested in & approached have had no interest or I've been rejected.

I dont understand what it is I need to do?

If you need more backstory on things I'm happy to elaborate. Thanks