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I have had suicidal thoughts, but I wouldn't consider myself suicidal. I've also seen different psychologists in the past and none have had a lasting, profound impact that has actually solved any of this shit. I just need to own how fucked up I am and work on myself.
/r/askTRP13/06/18 12:28 AM
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Fuck you, I don't hate women. Your advice, while hard-hitting, was pretty shit. "Read the sidebar" can only take someone so far without someone to shed light and provide wisdom. Others in this thread have actually done that.
/r/askTRP12/06/18 06:34 AM
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Yeah 100% - This is why I love TRP. Honest advice, no bullshit, but from people who genuinely want the best for fellow men. I will keep chipping away at life and working towards my goals. Fuck it, women don't actually solve anything in the long run.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 07:15 AM
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I don't think she was DTF.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 06:56 AM
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I've been easing myself back into lifting cause of an injury, but have been doing 5x5 since the start of the year (last year was a write-off, I was smoking weed all the time). 1RMs: 310 deadlift 260 squat 200 press. I'm 5'10", 170 pounds
/r/askTRP31/05/18 06:55 AM
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She was busy with exams and work. On the date we went to a bar, then I venue changed. I let her do most of the talking, kept it light-hearted in conversation, made her laugh, made out, we made a lot of bedroom eyes. Then we went our own ways. I didn't try to escalate from making out - I don't necessarily like fucking chicks on the first date if I want to see them again, plus she had work early the next morning.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 06:44 AM
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You're almost 100% right I guess. I haven't texted her too much. I always waiting 1-2 hours between texts due to genuinely being busy. You're right though about my problems running deeper. How do you guys do it? I've been reading here for a year+ and doesn't seem like I've got this shit down on lock.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 06:42 AM
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Not all girls have morals that are this skewed and lie to that extent, although the vast, vast majority of girls lie to protect their reputation. Woman are not moral, they don't operate on truth as men do.
/r/askTRP26/04/18 12:38 AM
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I doubt she'll actually message me, even though she's told me shit like "you're the only guy I've been with that gives me orgasms" and "I really like hanging out with you", so responding slower is more of a question of being able to respond at all. A good lesson in AWALT.
/r/askTRP22/04/18 11:39 PM
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Don't worry, I've been lifting. Time to lift HARDER
/r/askTRP22/04/18 11:07 PM
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I can't help but feel butthurt about this. Time to lift I guess
/r/askTRP22/04/18 09:17 PM
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You're right - but do I explicitly tell her that she lied to me and that pissed me off? Or do I just not speak to her?
/r/askTRP22/04/18 11:13 AM
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Very true. One can never erase the past. But it can be used as motivation to build a better future self.
/r/askTRP30/03/18 07:31 AM
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Thanks man - I've blocked her on social media and have been fucking another girl... I'm also working on getting over approach anxiety and building up a pipeline. I think one key to getting over her will be meeting other girls that have the same qualities but better
/r/askTRP30/03/18 07:30 AM
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Thank you for this great advice. I think your point about focusing on myself is more pertinent than anything. It's definitely time for me to build a solid frame.
/r/askTRP15/03/18 10:49 PM
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Thanks - I'm going completely sober for at least a month. Even considering cutting out coffee.
/r/askTRP15/03/18 10:48 PM
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I know - I caved. I guess now I know for sure that it's over and there's no hope of reconciliation.
/r/askTRP15/03/18 10:48 PM
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This is good advice man, thanks a lot. I realised how much my emotional reaction to events can be too extreme. Humour would really help my situation. And not framing it with anger.
/r/askTRP15/03/18 08:11 AM
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I'm still having a really hard time getting past oneitis and getting back to focusing on me/my mission. I'm trying to set up dates as often as possible, hitting the gym, putting more effort into my job and hanging out with people as often as possible. Still, I think about her all the time, check her social media, think about hypothetical situations, what ifs... I'm pretty much depressed and can't get over her. I should have turned her into a gf when I had the chance. I know I sound like a bitch.…
/r/TheRedPill17/01/18 07:34 AM
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Thanks brother, will do
/r/askTRP29/12/17 06:29 AM
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I'm starting to think that I actually wanted to be in a committed relationship. She said she was fine with the arrangement but obviously wasn't... there was no reeling in attempt or ultimatum, just ghosting and then branch swinging... to someone who would obviously give commitment/is a beta. That's also really hard to come to terms with, that she values me less than this guy (skinny, ugly, dork).
/r/askTRP29/12/17 06:29 AM
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I know everyone says that spinning plates is failsafe way to not develop oneitis, but I'm just not sure it's that easy. I've had many FWB relationships before, but I never got along with any so well as this one. Hence the oneitis. I honestly can't even think about other women right now though, it's just not healthy for me.
/r/askTRP29/12/17 06:26 AM
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Thanks for that breakdown, I appreciate it. I've been lifting and will work on other things to increase my value. I kind of want to go monk mode for a bit though, I don't really feel like hitting up tinder as I've tried this and it didn't really work.
/r/askTRP29/12/17 05:17 AM
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I'll definitely cut contact completely, it's just beyond repair at this point. I never had multiple plates, just one, which was to my detriment. I started seeing someone immediately after but it didn't make me feel any better, probably worse even. Thank you
/r/askTRP29/12/17 05:15 AM
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This is why I will always advocate non-monogamous relationships: They keep both parties satisfied because guess what? Everybody wants to fuck each other. Never commit yourself to only fucking one girl, even if you are in a LTR, you should still be fucking other women. Claim your harem.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/17 02:27 AM
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Thank you for posting some useful content. Depression affects a great number of men and shouldnt be downplayed or ignored on this sub. I also went through a really bad breakup last year and after reading this sub, being selective with the lessons I take from it, getting over the anger phase, etc, I have somewhat regained my sense of self. I'm not fully realised, but I'm a lot further towards it. As a side note, I would like to add that if you are extremely depressed or suicidal, please seek help…
/r/TheRedPill28/05/17 11:15 PM
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An observation: Women do this all the time. In fact, it's seen as their right to be able to date around, double book and be non-exclusive. When men do the same, it is seen as somehow immoral, as is evidenced by the amount of people in this thread claiming it as such. There is absolutely nothing wrong with double booking and you should be doing it anyway.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/17 11:21 PM
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Ummm, what? Not friends to begin with? Evaluate myself better? I'm fine with my loyal friends and being a loyal friend back to them, thanks. I do take vacations by myself and do things without friends. Get some perspective, buddy.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/17 11:26 AM
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If you stop hanging out with your friends altogether because you are pursuing your own selfish interests, your friends will leave you and you will be sad. Most of the time this subreddit engenders selfish notions in people and disregards humans' natural proclivity to be social. And most of the time it pays off, but at what cost? I personally don't want to lose friends in order to get money or get laid.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/17 09:57 PM
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No hanging out with friends? C'mon, be realistic here. Humans are social animals and need friends to live a healthy life. Don't stop hanging out with your friends, that's just stupid.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/17 09:41 PM
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Sorry for the assumption, I agree with everything you've written.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/17 09:32 AM
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Using blanket statements like "the media lies" is really dangerous and you shouldn't succumb to the lowest common denominator. It has been going on in the US for the last few years (I'm not American) and it's destroying the rational, scientific basis of society across the globe. News stations like Fox and Breitbart lie, as well as CNN, MSNBC and others, SOMETIMES, but not as much as the first two. And people from the right definitely label leftists, I don't know what you're on about there... com…
/r/TheRedPill17/04/17 04:38 AM
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Why is it that on girls' profile pictures, other girls will comment "omg so hot" "babe!" etc etc? They are CLEARLY a 5, at best a 6. Talk about delusional.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/17 06:13 AM
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Well, I guess I mean I don't want to be in that position because I don't like sales and the ethics of it, especially in a city where housing prices are skyrocketing, leaving people like me with very little chance of entering the property market. I don't want to contribute to an already out of control problem.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/17 06:43 AM
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