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I did actually talk to her quite a bit, made her laugh too. She even helped me climb the wall. Maybe the attraction just wasn't there from my side
/r/seduction22/10/22 04:25 AM
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I didn't think much about this but one girl at a club was literally all over me and when we were about to make out...she backed out and said, ' You're cute but I don't F with Indian guys' That was pretty disappointing to me because idk if that was just a way to get away from me or she meant it :/
/r/seduction21/10/22 11:20 PM
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Indian...lmao you made the correct guess
/r/seduction21/10/22 10:58 PM
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Yes man definitely! Although sometimes I worry if my race becomes an impediment for me and hinders my progress. Idk Trying not to think about it too much, but when people have some negative preconceived notions about a particular demographic, it doesn't help
/r/seduction21/10/22 10:52 PM
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Great going !
/r/seduction21/10/22 05:32 PM
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Not sure man... There's more girls out there, don't want to linger onto one perhaps. But if I see her next time, I'll treat her normally
/r/seduction21/10/22 05:32 PM
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Will definitely try all of those, with experience comes expertise, hopefully so !
/r/seduction21/10/22 03:09 PM
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Got you ;)
/r/seduction21/10/22 03:09 PM
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Yes sir ! Thank you for the motivational words, I'll be on it
/r/seduction21/10/22 12:59 PM
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Are you serious? Because I'm assuming that it was a blatant rejection. I'm not too experienced with this but... Unsure if that was sarcasm or not :/
/r/seduction21/10/22 12:58 PM
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Thanks G. Will be at it today as well !
/r/seduction21/10/22 12:57 PM
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This ! I can second this. The more you think, the more you fuck up. Better is to just walk up and do it. But I find myself often trying too hard and that is my problem. I'm a people pleaser and idk how to change that
/r/seduction21/10/22 12:56 PM
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Yes, definitely. I hope the Ws come soon tho :D
/r/seduction21/10/22 12:56 PM
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Yes sir, I'm not bothered at all. Just being positive and I'm seriously very ecstatic that I asked regardless. Instead of just wondering what could've happened
/r/seduction21/10/22 12:55 PM
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Actually we did do some activities before I asked her out. I was making jokes, asked about her, and said a few things about myself. I just think I looked needy and also she was super sweet. But you're right, I couldn't create attraction
/r/seduction21/10/22 12:54 PM
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Absolutely true. I quit online dating out of respect for myself. There's more to me than cute looking pictures that don't even depict how I actually look or am in real life. Fuck online dating. Grow a pair and deal with real stuff. Makes you more immune to rejection and also provides confidence and makes you better with women overall
/r/seduction20/10/22 07:06 PM
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I actually am. Just to clarify, I'm not talking about women in their 30s, 40s and so on. Just older than 25 in general
/r/seduction18/10/22 02:22 AM
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Lmao wtf
/r/seduction18/10/22 02:21 AM
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I'd recommend trying to interact with her group if you're confident enough and build a positive rapport. Also keep in mind...leave early and don't linger for too long. Introduce yourself and be brief and warm. After this, you will eventually get a chance to have some 1on1 time with her especially if she's impressed with your confidence.
/r/seduction18/10/22 02:18 AM
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They work for some and for some people they just don't (me included). For me I decided a long time ago that, since I just don't get any matches on the app, I better save my self esteem and leverage my changes through my confidence and personality in real life. Ofc easier said than done but dating apps are just not for me. I'd rather go to the bars around me and try to do something. I feel much more confident now that's all I have to say ;)
/r/seduction10/10/22 11:16 PM
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Thanks mate. Hopefully so!
/r/seduction29/09/22 03:23 AM
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This is solid advice. Although I would say that my confidence goes back and forth. I'm confident in a social setting but when I'm with a girl, I lack subtle games that you usually develop when you're around 16-19. That I feel stems from me having studied in an all boys school. I bend over backwards for women sometimes and try too hard to please them. I want control over it and I also want to know how to act manly and dominate. I know my weaknesses a bit.
/r/seduction29/09/22 02:30 AM
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I want a relationship because right now I'm needy yes. But also because I want something meaningful. Although I'm not going to say no to hookups ofc. I would love that, but if I like someone enough, I would like to be with them. What you said about getting with whosoever gives me attention first could be true man but I don't want to manage with anyone and compromise. So, I want to try out my luck
/r/seduction29/09/22 01:45 AM
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How do you do it bro? I don't even want to fuck around with multiple women. I want to date and be involved in a ltr right now. I feel lonely due to the circumstances and a ltr would make it so much better for me. At this point, it has become difficult for me to understand how people even instigate a relationship or get into one. It's beyond my comprehension as I've never been in one. Sucks! Big time But I'm willing to not give up for sure !
/r/seduction28/09/22 10:52 PM
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But do I assume that a girl will physically find me attractive? It's difficult also because my ethnicity is not something that's known for physical attractiveness
/r/seduction28/09/22 10:23 PM
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Way to go man ! I hope you find a lot of luck ;)
/r/seduction28/09/22 10:22 PM
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Can't say the best since there's always room for improvement. But, I'm pretty fit, 5'10(not tall, but wouldn't say that height becomes an impediment for me) and I do have some confidence while speaking. But when it comes to getting dates...meh. I also don't have a platform to interact much since I don't like anyone in my class and the ones that I do find attractive are in some other classes. This makes it more difficult.
/r/seduction28/09/22 10:21 PM
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I know what you're thinking. But I'm gradually moving forward and increasing my confidence and growing balls to talk to women. But I haven't seen a great improvement as of now in terms of being able to get dates. I have no idea how I state my intentions at the right time and how I make them feel comfortable about it to 'date close'. Rejection is not my fear, my fear is literally wasting my time without being able to achieve anything. More than advice, I need some motivation right now. I hope you…
/r/seduction28/09/22 10:04 PM
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But a lot of people say that college is the best platform to date and I have very little game as of now to capitalize on that. Also, it is said that men prefer women from 18-24 and I want to date women in this age range until it becomes inappropriate to date them in that range. That makes sense?
/r/seduction28/09/22 09:55 PM
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Honestly, I agree. One can only take rejection with positivity when that doesn't happen every fucking time. Maybe grooming/hygiene and some leadership role in an organization or company can definitely help. Confidence and at least an effort in looking good can go a long way.
/r/seduction27/09/22 09:09 PM
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I've been trying to at least talk to some and instigate something. I'd just say; don't go over the board and try too hard. Just stay calm, let her talk. Ask few interesting questions and sit back and relax. When you feel like it, just escalate. But remember one thing, never ever feel inferior to her for any reason ever. That ruins your confidence and confidence is the key. Also, take the rejection like a KING. I haven't been very successful tbh, but let's see if this works out for me :D
/r/seduction27/09/22 09:04 PM
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