Feels like time is running out

Elbynerual · 2022-09-28T21:48:11+00:00

You're 22. You have literal decades ahead of you for dating. When you're 35, you're still gonna have the mindset of 26. This age thing is absolutely not something to stress about. Worry about getting a good job. Be social. Make friends.

gornad96 · 2022-09-29T02:12:48+00:00

i was exactly in your shoes at 22. As long as you keep working on it, it will get better. Trust me…things can change in an instant. One week you’re alone. The next you’re in bed with a dope girl. Relax.

Necrosaro_123 · 2022-09-28T22:10:18+00:00

I'm 37yo and i have no luck with dates. But from what i have learned, i need to invest more in fitness and fashion to attract the ladies. Also i need to be more social. I know i'm going to have a hard time trying to date, but giving up is not an option. I will keep on working.

Technical_Hawk8547 · 2022-09-28T22:44:56+00:00

Dude I’m 27 now and I currently have the best dating life I’ve ever had. Currently fooling around with 3 women and just having fun. Only did the LTR stuff when I was younger. Not bragging, but what I’m trying to say is time is only out when you let that be the case. Don’t put so much pressure on yourself dude. You’re only making matters worse. Every guy at that age obsesses with women, myself as well. It’s natural. This arbitrary time pressure is your own doing though, absolutely no one cares except for you, so let that pressure go.

pusillanimous303 · 2022-09-29T03:06:03+00:00

I wish you luck in your endeavor. But I assure you that time is not running out. You’re only 22, and sex also happens outside college.

5_7pickup · 2022-09-28T22:00:34+00:00

Ok so you’re unhappy with your dating life. What actions are you taking to improve your dating life then?

garrett786 · 2022-09-29T04:29:02+00:00

Mannn. There are literally millions of guys who would give their left nut to be 22 again.

acethecreatorOF · 2022-09-29T06:25:20+00:00

Lollllllll didn’t even read the post. Stopped when I read “running out of time at 22”

incognito3107 · 2022-09-29T08:03:43+00:00

You are focusing too much on the outcome that is hundred steps away from you. That is a good way to get chronical anxiety or depression. Be in the present moment and firstly make moves that are within your reach. Get simple social interactions with women, improve yourself step by step, enjoy time without responsibilities. Future you will mainly regret that you were worrying too much.

komasinski · 2022-09-29T13:59:25+00:00

Is it a typo or what? Maybe you're 52 or 62... Time running out at 22.

Just relax and enjoy life... you have so much stuff ahead of you.

revente · 2022-09-29T16:33:57+00:00

Lol what? I started at 21 but my biggest successes happened around 30. And frankly, i don't think that I've peaked yet now at 34. But I'm in a very happy relationship.

RideTheRim · 2022-09-29T02:28:10+00:00

Lol dude what. At 22 I has like 4 lays. By 28 I had 50.

zapadz · 2022-09-29T00:04:07+00:00

Here are videos on age and dating

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aaXcwqRZHfk

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6YHBylCxJSY

Here are some videos on how to quickly get better with women

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iCqSLeQGWCU

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bRx24sANgGU

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JPCU03Dp8Zw

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Odd-Letterhead-1633 · 2022-09-29T05:08:56+00:00

Women hit their prime from 20-25. Us men hit our prime in terms of dating from 30 onwards. That’s when you make the most money and have the highest social status. 22 is very young in terms of the dating market and it’s better to not get married at this age. If you’re under 25 you probably don’t even know what you want yet.

gideon1706 · 2022-09-28T22:15:45+00:00

Are you fit and also the best version of yourself? If you're not, then women should not be a priority at this time.

Neo-Rio · 2022-09-29T04:14:23+00:00

22 is stupidly young, and I wish I was 22 again knowing what I know now.

College life is the easiest time of your life to meet women.
Enjoy it. After this, meeting women becomes much harder.

Dorsiflexionkey · 2022-09-29T06:39:54+00:00

is this the "age" equivalent of "guys I have a 50 word essay due next week.. HELP" troll posts?

Competitive-Link-912 · 2022-09-29T07:43:57+00:00

Hahaha oh my dear lord, you are a baby.

I know a guy that was literally sexless between 18-29 minus hookers and is now a playboy at 30 with a bit of work.

jaypb182 · 2022-09-29T09:51:48+00:00

Bro I'm 32 and with zero success in dating. You have enough time but better get to it or you'll end up like me.

rumblingtummy29 · 2022-09-29T13:25:12+00:00

Same dawg same. Advice, go easy on yourself and focus on the bright side of life

MigasEnsopado · 2022-09-29T16:50:06+00:00

I lost my virginity at 24, if it makes you feel any better. I didn't feel any different after though.

SeaPen333 · 2022-09-29T16:56:08+00:00

What concrete steps have you taken to work on your general social skills?

savaj__ · 2022-09-29T20:27:10+00:00

Bro 22 is young asf chill out and live your life just make sure you’re making good choices for your future

Lonely_Man22 · 2022-09-30T07:36:12+00:00

There is no desperation worse than feeling like time is running out. You’re gonna repel people with that attitude. It’s ok man. At your age I was hopeless with women and destroyed from my first break up. I’m 30 now and it is easier than it’s ever been and most girls I go out with are 22-26. Chill, you’re good. You’re talking like a 33 year old single woman who wants kids.

Title	Feels like time is running out
Author	gideon1706
Upvotes	28
Comments	67
Date	September 28, 2022 9:25 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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