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| 1 | Does this sound like sex addiction?No man, this is a real addiction. From one addict to another, you need to get help. It will change your life for the better and you will lose the anxiety of always looking for more and more. Look up SLAA meetings before you ruin your life | /r/seduction | 25/10/22 12:22 AM |
| 1 | Turning my life around at 26Congratulations to you and you’re new life! 👏🏼 | /r/seduction | 18/10/22 08:19 PM |
| 6 | What's the best $100-$200 you've spent that helped you meet women/improve your odds?Do the salsa. You can pick up Latina women which is the best in my opinion lol and you will be exposed to even more and more people | /r/seduction | 16/10/22 06:07 AM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]Working on yourself means getting mental exercise. Get rid of your cognitive distortions and practice self compassion to become your best self | /r/seduction | 10/10/22 10:12 PM |
| 1 | Feels like time is running outBro, it’s not. Lol. Get some therapy trust me that will help your game. You’ll look and feel different. Youll attract women after that and it’ll probably only take a couple is sessions | /r/seduction | 29/09/22 05:29 PM |
| 2 | How do you guys deal with the depression of being an older virgin?As a 31 year old male, do yourself a favor and practice yoga now so that you will feel as nimble as you are now later. My body hurts and knee is all fucked up because of not stretching and not knowing about stretches. My buddy does it and gets laid on the reg just saying. Im going to do it soon. Not for women but for my body. Net my wife as she was doing a urine drug screen on me | /r/seduction | 27/09/22 06:11 PM |
| 0 | How can I take rejection graciously?Knowing you wouldn’t want to be with someone that rejects you because there will be that better someone that will take you as you are. Straight up | /r/seduction | 26/09/22 02:58 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]You sound like “I need girl. I handsome. No girl have sex. What do?” 😂 If you want to just bang and not have conversations like it seems like you do, go to a club and be fun. You will meet a girl and bang that night and won’t have to worry about talking to them. If you want a good relationship where you just have some to have sex with and talk to sometimes. You have to do a self assessment of who you really are and who you want to be. If you want a serious relationship with a girl of your dreams… | /r/seduction | 20/09/22 09:53 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Give us the update! | /r/seduction | 18/09/22 03:56 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Get ready for the next wave 🌊 | /r/seduction | 16/09/22 04:12 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]She’s just not into you like that. Haven’t you ever felt there was a pretty girl with such great qualities and almost everything you look for but you just are not attracted to her because something just isn’t there. You can’t put your finger on it but there’s just “no connection”? Lol that’s what it is | /r/seduction | 13/09/22 07:09 PM |
| 3 | How can we get lots of casual sex?Weights and cardio ever so often. Get a weight lift app | /r/seduction | 05/09/22 03:14 AM |
| 1 | How can we get lots of casual sex?Being a straight guy, yes to all of that. | /r/seduction | 05/09/22 03:13 AM |
| 2 | can you rate my dating profile picture 1-10It’s not bad man. I woulda got a hair cut lol but looks are subjective. What makes us attractive is our confidence, humor, and affection we have as well as courage to be who we are. That’s all you need haha | /r/seduction | 01/09/22 09:14 PM |
| 3 | Am I Undateable/Unf**kable?Dude, start walking around the block. I don’t want to sound mean or anything but how will you meet someone with confidence at the dog park when you will start running out of breath starting a sentence? 😕. I just gained weight back that I lost over a year and I want to lose it back so I’m starting with only drinking water today. Instead of the usual juice or sodas I’ve been skipping past me with the popsicles as well 😂 Tomorrow morning I’m going to hit the gym. Light elliptical and light weights … | /r/seduction | 01/09/22 02:57 AM |
| 2 | A girl who ghosted me reached out againShe’s 20 years old. She doesn’t know what she wants. For now she wants to know her options are still available while she figures it out and keeps talking to the guy she really wants to have sex or be with. Keep her on the same spot, an option and an opportunity if it ever arises. It most likely won’t but whatever don’t think noting of it and move on to the ones that are giving the attention you’re looking for. If she wanted to sleep with you or date you, she would. | /r/seduction | 29/08/22 10:11 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]You’re not separated or divorced. Shouldn’t be talking to her in the first place. Quit talking to her. It won’t burn a bridge | /r/seduction | 25/08/22 07:59 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Lol it’s not wrong to realize that you are insecure about a certain attribute of yourself. It’s okay to have those feelings. What’s not okay is fixating and ruminating on those feelings. Your height or any one thing doesn’t make you who you are. This might sound scary at first but there’s more to you than just your height, just like there’s more to a pretty girl than her face, we hope. If all the lights were turned off and you were to meet someone, they will get to know you for you. I don’t assu… | /r/seduction | 25/08/22 02:35 AM |
| 10 | Had sex with an attractive girl now i'm depressed.The fact that it’s only because of her being really attractive is a sinking hole. You were obsessed and not really in love. If you continue this way, you will always be depressed because you will forever be searching for the next attractive girl and there will always be one. What will help you is some cognitive behavioral therapy. Once you get sad, tell yourself that it wouldn’t have worked out because of her issues. It will always be worse than what it is now. Another thing to tell yourself is … | /r/seduction | 23/08/22 05:24 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]“Gosh you’re so attractive! I totally would make out with you right now 😆” that would work for any girl really 😂 | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 05:45 AM |
| 2 | [Field report] Finally able to talk the cute Latina at the gym.Lol I thought the same too. They sell those there too, go get one! I think close at 9 | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 03:46 AM |
| 1 | [Field report] Finally able to talk the cute Latina at the gym.I actually live in CA but glad I can help! I love that place. Me and my wife go there a few times. I like their lemon sherbets floats lol | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 01:01 AM |
| 1 | [Field report] Finally able to talk the cute Latina at the gym.There’s one in Detroit, Holland, and Wyoming lol | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 12:54 AM |
| 58 | [Field report] Finally able to talk the cute Latina at the gym.Ask her when her next cheat day is and if she’s down to go to La Michocana haha. I asked this gorgeous Latina that worked the front desk where I have to do urine drug screens and we ended up going to get boba 🧋 and then got married 😂 best decision of my life | /r/seduction | 19/08/22 10:45 PM |
| 1 | 7 Rejections since starting two weeks ago. How do I not let this get to me?I’m going to tell you some truth. Waves. You get shit waves, you get great waves, you sometimes get no waves and that’s okay. You feel rejected, it’s okay to feel that way. It won’t always be like this. This too shall pass. | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 04:37 AM |
| 1 | How can I learn to talk to women?Get a job at McDonald’s or a fast food restaurant. You will perfect the art | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 09:29 PM |
| 1 | If they overlook your question when you ask for their number, should I just not talk to themHonestly for me it was ask for their number if they’re 34 or older, if they were younger I don’t really ask. I make conversation and then get a date like “oh that place sounds fun we should go there tomorrow and they’re like yeah let’s do it!” Then I’d be like dope! How can I get a hold of you. If they dig it, they’ll give you their info | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 04:14 PM |
| 0 | Do you text a girl everyday until the date?Hell to the naw. Destroys the lure for her getting to know you. Unless you’re meeting up the next day lol | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 06:38 AM |
| 1 | Do women who smile at you want you to approach them?Sometimes. Best way to know is by just saying hi | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 10:55 PM |
| 3 | Missing the girlLol everyone here is saying “that’s why you don’t invest feelings in the first place” and doesn’t help OP original situation. To move on it takes some inner work. Write a letter to her and write down everything you feel about her and everything you want to say. THEN write a letter back to yourself from her perspective in everything you think she would say back to you. Read it all and throw it away. You deserve someone that wants you as bad as you want them and can see the greatness for who you a… | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 06:40 PM |
| 1 | Aproaching guys during collegeHonestly just smiling and then touching their shoulders will go really far lol | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 06:54 AM |
| 5 | Do girls get off on ghosting guys?I think it’s because women are afraid of confrontations and feeling uncomfortable. Do you blame them tho? They get harassed by men for any reason and upsetting them is a safety thing for them | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 07:59 AM |
| 11 | This could just be a coincidence but in my experience whenever I'm toxic a girl wants to be with me but when I'm genuinely nice and not toxic to girls they usually dump me. Why?Some toxicity come from commitment issues. Someone with commitment issues attracts people with commitment issues. Girls with commitment issues love toxic men because people with commitment issues purposely (subconsciously) go for those types of relationships where they really know it won’t work out long term but try to convince themselves that it could if only “something” happens but that something never comes because that something is their blindness to themselves Edit: Nothing will ever be eno… | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 02:20 AM |
| 3 | What made you fall in love?I felt comfortable around her and is the most beautiful woman in the world to me. She also accepts me for who I am and reciprocates her priorities to mine. | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 09:06 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Try a women 10 years older than you, they’re more likely to be just fwb consistently | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 04:04 PM |
| 1 | Is being Indirect and Hesitation a turnoff?I like how this user described hesitation to the opposite of confidence. If there is no confidence, there is only hesitation | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 02:37 AM |
| 1 | Want to ask out this barista. How often should I stop by?I married my wife two months ago and I met her at her work and asked her out for boba and she said yeah. My buddy also met his wife at where she works. So it’s really if you’re social skills are in order | /r/seduction | 02/08/22 05:42 AM |
| 1 | Want to ask out this barista. How often should I stop by?Yeah dude that’s a dumb rule, it’s usually only for people with shit social skills | /r/seduction | 02/08/22 05:40 AM |
| 0 | Want to ask out this barista. How often should I stop by?Really because that’s how I met my wife 😂 she worked the front desk where I do random drug tests. We just got married two months ago | /r/seduction | 02/08/22 05:39 AM |
| 0 | Got a girlfriend! Thanks r/seduction!You just say you met someone and that’s it. | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 05:49 AM |
| 0 | What should I do next?Idk if you’re trying to sleep with her just invite her over your place to talk about more whatever you guys start talking about. Or if you really like her, continue the small talk until you feel comfortable asking her to grab a drink somewhere or invite her somewhere where you’re doing something fun. | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 08:14 PM |
| 9 | [deleted by user]Be prepared to lose this connection and shoot your shot. Easier that way. No expectations brudduh | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 02:13 AM |
| 1 | What kind of girl do you think is the girl elaborated below?A girl you have a turn with 🤷🏻♂️ she’s immature. Let her savor your flavor and leave. No man or woman should get attached to such. If you’ve fallen for a girl like this, this is a you problem more than a her problem. SLAA helps with that. This happens when you don’t value yourself | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 12:04 AM |
| 1 | In being direct with your intentions what are best ways to get across that you are just trying to have sex?“I’m having fun right now with my life, shopping around before I make a big leap of commitment” “really figuring myself out” you’re going to get a lot of friend zones but if you drop sexual hints, they’ll look for you. I always liked to say “I’m a very sexual person” “I get myself into trouble when I start getting physically close” if you feel like they’re going to start likening you more than that say it again that I really don’t know what I’m looking for and still searching, for now I enjoy my… | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 07:43 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Lol I would say just go for it. You like what you like but I would suggest working on yourself a bit more. Do you like her because you just want to see what it’s like having sex with her or do you honestly like her so much you would feel proud having her next to you and you not feeling weird about it | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 12:30 AM |
| 1 | Women are visual creatures tooI been reading lately that women go for looks got me night stands but go for personality when it comes to long term relationships | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 09:34 PM |
| 0 | Women are visual creatures tooIt depends. Some women are used to called being females because that’s the environment they grew up in | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 09:33 PM |
| 2 | Women are visual creatures tooAmazing rebuttal | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 09:32 PM |
| 295 | Why so many rules when it comes to approaching girls? Like “oh don’t approach them at the gym” “don’t approach them in the streets” why so many rules?The shittier your social skills, the more rules | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 07:51 PM |
| 0 | How to ask if she has a BF without being weird?I was told never to ask from others that had hella game. Supposedly it gives women the chance to second guess you and just say yes just to be safe. (Not for men). What I did was just show hella interest by actually saying and annunciating the word ‘date’. Like I definitely need to take you out on a date because it shows your romantic interest right away and get straight to the point. That’s how I found my wife today | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 12:52 AM |
| 1 | Is it worth staying friends with a girl I dated?No because down the line he might be able to work it off as friends after he processes his emotions. Burning bridges is impulsive behavior | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 03:07 PM |
| 2 | Is it worth staying friends with a girl I dated?The way you do it is like this. Say that you’ll be friends but you won’t have to see or talk to her again. If she hits you up, take months to hit her up with the haha for sure. If she makes plans, say you can’t because you have something there and say that you will be the to make the plans there on and just don’t. She will get the hint | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 12:08 AM |
| -2 | Why does this subreddit say to never take dating advice from women?Have you ever asked a girl what she wanted to eat? Directions on how to arrive somewhere? She can only tell you how to attract herself anyway. | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 12:16 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Always say DATE, clear communication to your advantage for your romantic interests | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 06:50 AM |
| 1 | Girls dance with me then ignore meYep bingo | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 03:18 AM |
| 1 | What are some funny lines I can use when joking about my shory height?Lol I remember when Micaelas Scott tried doing this and it came out pathetic 😂 just use a couple jokes and leave it at that | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 11:37 PM |
| 3 | Went on a date with a coworker, and it went alright. She throws out mixed signals, and I talked to a few coworkers to get their opinion. What are the odds they told her?You must be pretty young? Never tell other coworkers about it, work is for gossip and they will eat that up with your dignity to spare. Also, figure out who you are and stop asking so many people for advice before you get imposter syndrome and lose a potentially good catch | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 03:42 PM |
| 1 | What's the best lesson you've learned on your seduction journey?Women are as nervous or anxious as you | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 04:00 AM |
| 4 | Things I can't tell my fwbJust know once you tell her how you feel, you either will gain a gf or lose the benifits. Personally I like to purchase and not lease. Leasing is wasting money down the drain for me | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 11:25 PM |
| 1 | why is it bad to be an emotional sponge?It’s bad when your needs arnt met | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 11:15 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Lmao I’m sorry idk why that sounds funny | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 08:09 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Maybe she wants you to approach her at the gym | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 12:32 AM |
| 1 | Made out with a girl, connected with her for 2 hours, the next few days she gives me half ass answers when I invite herNext time instead of ever saying “miss you already” just send a wink and leave it at that until she hits you up again. Move on from this wreck and don’t hit up her friend. Just move on | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 11:12 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]It’s more of them not getting your usual attention than intuition. They’re like where’s my attention? Gone lol | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Why do women say they don't like players yet they feel attracted to guys with options and a lot of experience in bed?They “say” they know what they want. Then when they get it they get depressed because what they ended up getting they didn’t really want it. | /r/seduction | 04/07/22 07:18 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]It might be that your seeking fulfillment in the wrong area. There will always be girls at any stage or year of your life. ALWAYS. When you’re single, when you’re in a relationship, shit, when you’re married, there will always be a girl there to take you away from what’s important. Seek out what really makes you happy and you’ll find a fulfilling girl there or girls to your liking and they will flock to you with your confidence in whatever passion you found | /r/seduction | 04/07/22 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Why do women say they don't like players yet they feel attracted to guys with options and a lot of experience in bed?Because they don’t know what they want. Their head says one thing and their body does another | /r/seduction | 04/07/22 02:38 AM |
| 1 | Is this cougar hitting on me?Don’t take her to a place where there are mostly younger people. | /r/seduction | 27/06/22 08:28 PM |
| 1 | Is this cougar hitting on me?I remember my fair share of cougars. The best! Don’t get attached. Take her out to talk about delicious food | /r/seduction | 27/06/22 08:28 PM |
| 14 | I left my number for the cute waitress and she texted me "Heyyy". What do I do?That’s kind of how I met my current wife lol. Be yourself and try to get a date with her soon. Learn from her interests and then get a date out of it. She obviously is attracted to you so there’s that. When it comes to texting, just text things that done require a reply from her. Like, if she said hey you can be like, can’t believe it worked! First timer. And leave it at that. It makes the conversation more fun for her to engage and you can gauge her interest in you from it | /r/seduction | 27/06/22 07:48 AM |
| 1 | She tried to reschedule then ghosted meLol would you really want to date someone with that sort of behavior? Think about what you deserve and shoot for that. Weeds a lot of duds out | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 05:04 PM |
| 2 | How did you end up with your current partner?She was the girl that did my drug screening. Hottest girl ever, took my shot. | /r/seduction | 19/06/22 08:28 PM |
| 1 | Women really don't respect guys if they aren't attracted to themThat’s not true either | /r/seduction | 17/06/22 12:50 AM |
| 1 | She (26) blocked me (27) for replying lateShe made your life easier. Do you really want to date some one like that? | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 03:46 AM |
| 1 | What’s a good response to ‘when was the last time you had sex’?(Last time you had sex) it’s bold to be honest and it’s also attractive. If you really like the person asking you, you wouldn’t want a foundation of lies. Even if it was last week so what it shows honesty and not many people like that. | /r/seduction | 13/06/22 02:53 AM |
| 7 | [deleted by user]I would personally keep having conversation going with her and bring up something fun you like to do, and then ask if she wants to go with you. That way it’s more organic and less “will you go out on a date with me?” I think after that first harmless meet I then ask for the formal “will you like to go on a date with me to so and so place? That way you affirm that there’s a greater interest in her than just a friend | /r/seduction | 10/06/22 03:43 AM |
| 2 | Flirting blueprintI’ve found that once you have them, affirming their physical beauty does wonders | /r/seduction | 09/06/22 12:58 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I think you’ve built an addiction to game friend. Time for some inner finding yourself and work. Why isn’t being yourself good enough without a girl to hook up with. Start with that question | /r/seduction | 07/06/22 11:56 PM |
| 1 | Where the hell can I meet girls?IG | /r/seduction | 05/06/22 05:58 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Yes look at my recent post on here | /r/seduction | 03/06/22 06:49 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Thursday afternoon/nights | /r/seduction | 02/06/22 07:25 PM |
| 1 | So someone told me to get good with everyone to get good with girls you're interested in. Now, I'm nervous around everyone. How do I fix this?Start with saying “hi how are you doing?” With your cashier anywhere. Gas station, grocery store, Sex shop. Any where | /r/seduction | 31/05/22 09:19 PM |
| 0 | Should I text her back?Just reply with, are you hungry? (Food place)? See what you can get out of it lol | /r/seduction | 27/05/22 07:59 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Because clingy is unhealthy and isn’t really who you were meant to be. I felt like this before too and I found that I was anxious abandoned type personality and needed conquer that before I ruined any future relationship. There is a way to work with that and it needs to be worked on before you date and become obsessive. SLAA on YouTube helped me a lot and inner child work which was just a day and changed my whole life. Then I met the girl of my dreams. Never settle, if it’s not a hell yeah, it’s… | /r/seduction | 25/05/22 10:08 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Lol take a break man. When I would get like that, I’d go to the bar and sit there and have a conversation with the bar tender. Girl or guy. That helps with just having small talk and getting somewhere. And then, when someone sit nexts to you, you can try with that person. Btw you don’t have to order alcohol at the bar, but just make sure you tip well even if you get a club soda with lime which is a good go to with me. It’s like reading and watching videos of snowboarding and then going out to do… | /r/seduction | 25/05/22 01:12 AM |
| 3 | How to approach girls confidently at bars, etc?I’ve totally been there like 3 times and alcohol helped with the confidence but as we know, it can go wrong and we can become not aware of our behavior or even our slurring haha. Anyways I found how to work on the confidence and it almost works after just a few days if not a week of practicing this. When I go and shower I like to meditate and I do what people call self affirmations. After I get my mind cleared I say “I am confident. I am attractive. I am gorgeous. I am hilarious. I am kind. I am… | /r/seduction | 24/05/22 08:28 PM |
| 11 | Can’t keep erection with new partner. Never had this problem before…I had this problem too as I got older and around your age as well. What helped was having them put it on for me and also what the other guy said, get to know them and their insecurities and share your own. Building more of a emotional intimacy rather than just a physical one. You’re brain doesn’t want to fuck it up and freaks out. Second date is pretty fast for me to fuck when I really like someone. It’s usually not a problem to fuck early if I don’t like them that much lol | /r/seduction | 23/05/22 07:24 PM |
| 1 | Girl of my dreamsI didn’t say that. And I don’t look at the whole “playing on another’s campaign” thing because I don’t play video games and it’s not like that to me. I feel like I’ve accepted that I might not be able to bear children and I’ve matured enough to care for others. I used to think I would never be able to be with someone with a child but a whole lot of shit changes when you hit rock bottom and you’re life crumbles and have to rebuild your life from the bottom. I find gratitude in the little things a… | /r/seduction | 21/05/22 07:51 AM |
| 1 | Girl of my dreamsLmao | /r/seduction | 21/05/22 04:53 AM |
| 1 | Why confidence and neediness are signals of your sexual value as a man (explained)Idk I feel like that makes it grounds for the girl to cheat and only sleeps with that type because of pitty and not actually attraction 🤔 idk could be wrong. | /r/seduction | 21/05/22 04:37 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Ask her what she’s looking for in this situation ship that you have going on and then tell her that you’re not looking for that and something in a more casual level. Nothing is forcing you to continue talking to her but find where she’s at with it so it’s clearer to her and yourself. And next time you get a date, say it in the first date that you’re looking to be causal and just wanting a good time. Dragging it to 3 dates feels like you’re conning them into sleeping with you. You’re 30 years old… | /r/seduction | 21/05/22 01:36 AM |
| 6 | Girl of my dreams@tortasytacos4life | /r/seduction | 20/05/22 01:09 PM |
| 1 | Girl of my dreamsYes daily. Sometimes 8 times a day 😂. Like I mentioned in another comment, I was fortunate to find someone as hyper sexual as myself. | /r/seduction | 20/05/22 12:52 PM |
| 6 | Girl of my dreamsShe does drink once in a while. When it comes to my sobriety I see it as my own. I don’t ever push my sobriety into others and it has nothing to do with others. I have an amazing support group, my best friends, my home AA community, my rehab community, my family, and now my gf. Initially making an effort to stay away from alcohol is one of the first things we do to make sure we don’t break sobriety. After some time it’s easier to be around it without even thinking about it. I obviously don’t pur… | /r/seduction | 20/05/22 12:48 PM |
| 3 | Girl of my dreamsLol good for you. | /r/seduction | 20/05/22 12:35 PM |
| 4 | Girl of my dreamsI sense you might hold some type of resentment or animosity. I suggest working on getting through that before you adapt controlling behaviors that push people away. Lol | /r/seduction | 20/05/22 12:30 PM |
| 6 | Girl of my dreamsLol that’s okay, you don’t have to. | /r/seduction | 20/05/22 12:22 PM |
| 3 | Girl of my dreamsThe hottest turning point of the story 🥵 | /r/seduction | 20/05/22 12:16 PM |
| 3 | Girl of my dreamsLol. She wasn’t always mean. It was in the beginning because I didn’t have my form and she works front desk at a busy workers comp clinic. I have empathy and understand what that’s like. To this day my woman respects me. I knew she enjoyed my company but it was questionable she liked me in a romantic way. I asked her out and we went out, I believe if she really wanted to see me in the romantic way, she would make the effort to ask me out. When a woman is interested in someone, she will literally… | /r/seduction | 20/05/22 12:14 PM |
| 7 | Girl of my dreamsFor me it’s a lot of fun and special. I’ve never had a child of my own and wanted one as I grew older. The laughs are louder, and the bonds are stronger and there’s a feeling of unity. I’ve done my fair share of doing adult things believe me where kids are just not a part of it and I got over it. For me it makes me feel like it’s where I’m supposed to be at and another way for myself to grow and know myself more if that makes any sense. Dating her gives me the opportunity to explore those qualit… | /r/seduction | 20/05/22 08:58 AM |
| 2 | Girl of my dreamsThank you 🙏🏼 | /r/seduction | 20/05/22 07:41 AM |
| 8 | Girl of my dreamsThank you for reading! | /r/seduction | 20/05/22 07:34 AM |
| 5 | Girl of my dreamsI can’t post pictures here. My IG is on my profile we’re on there if not you can PM me lol | /r/seduction | 20/05/22 07:14 AM |
| 28 | Girl of my dreamsLike for instance at the grocery store if there was a food right there that I was pointing towards saying “that’s something I would eat every day..”but then looking at her eyes with a flirtatious smile and ending it with “the (food) I mean haha” and laughing at it together. Something like that | /r/seduction | 20/05/22 06:57 AM |
| 2 | Girl of my dreamsThank you 🙏🏼 | /r/seduction | 20/05/22 05:33 AM |
| 3 | Girl of my dreamsThank you! I really really appreciate that. Sobriety has changed my life, esp how I receive it 💜 | /r/seduction | 20/05/22 05:02 AM |
| 15 | Girl of my dreamsIt’s okay to expect to be treated like human beings because c’mon we’re humans and we deserve it and we will have expectations. BUT we need to learn to be okay when expectations are not met. | /r/seduction | 20/05/22 04:57 AM |
| 7 | Girl of my dreamsOver the first few weeks we spent talking and going out we established that we really liked each other and saw where we stand in our lives aspects, emotionally, financially, and in maturity. We can spend months or years dating getting more in love with ourselves, but that would mean nothing if I couldn’t get a long with her son. It wouldn’t matter how much we loved each other, if her son won’t accept me, she will not pursue me. So we decided to go ahead and meet him like a friend of hers and saw… | /r/seduction | 20/05/22 03:53 AM |
| 2 | Girl of my dreamsExactly | /r/seduction | 20/05/22 03:14 AM |
| 6 | Girl of my dreamsThank you! I feel like women my age are more reserved with their bodies at this point since they hold themselves to higher values. As we all, should. Anyway, I didn’t feel it and I like to be respectful. I wanted to show her that I respect her so I can show that I’d love to and obviously want to kiss her but I also will hold back to show her that I’m disciplined and have power over my emotions and behavior. If she went in for a kiss, I would of. If you end up really liking her towards the end of… | /r/seduction | 20/05/22 03:13 AM |
| 63 | Girl of my dreamsLmao. Well at least you tried and now you can move on. Everytime I went to hit on a girl I knew she was going to reject me but I followed through because I would think to myself, what if they don’t? Also I would hate to ask another girl out wondering if I had a chance with the other girl I originally wanted. For me, it would make grounds for infidelity. | /r/seduction | 20/05/22 03:07 AM |
| 3 | Girl of my dreamsThanks man! I believe it’s true now. We attract who we are. I really didn’t like who I was before so I became a man I look up to. I feel like attracted this woman that I also look up to as well with the qualities I’ve always looked for in a girl. Legit | /r/seduction | 20/05/22 03:01 AM |
| 3 | Girl of my dreamsI tried cutting it up, is it better now? | /r/seduction | 20/05/22 02:56 AM |
| 26 | Girl of my dreamsLmao | /r/seduction | 20/05/22 02:56 AM |
| 7 | Girl of my dreamsThank you I wasn’t aware! First post haha. I just did, is this better? | /r/seduction | 20/05/22 02:55 AM |
| 2 | Girl of my dreamsYes EXACTLY! | /r/seduction | 20/05/22 02:54 AM |
| 4 | Girl of my dreamsI became happier for sure that I shot my shot and got a gf out of it. Otherwise I was grateful I had the opportunity to do it even if she said a hard no. I was content that I at least tried and then I could move on and wait for the next one that captivated me in a similar way. I feel like if I didn’t work on myself before hand I would be miserable or insecure if she turned me down or would have imposter syndrome if she said yes. | /r/seduction | 20/05/22 02:53 AM |
| 3 | Girl of my dreamsJust like a super high maintenance appearing type of woman | /r/seduction | 20/05/22 02:50 AM |
| 14 | Girl of my dreamsThat’s an old behavior I don’t engage in anymore. Sex is something that is learned and becomes open when someone feels comfortable being vulnerable. Building the emotional intimacy makes great for better sex anyway. We have sex at least 3 times a day, I got lucky that we are both hyper sexual individuals. | /r/seduction | 20/05/22 02:08 AM |
| 2 | Girl of my dreamsI thought it was copied on there better. Can I change it? | /r/seduction | 20/05/22 01:00 AM |
| 1 | why am I successful in online dating but can't get dates when approaching girls in person?Because the mystery of how you look in person is gone. There’s no longer a yearning. I feel they might feel preyed on if you just go quick to asking them out on a date so blatantly. Try showing some humor and a little of who you are and who she is before asking her out on a real date. | /r/seduction | 20/05/22 12:38 AM |
| 4 | How do I start a conversation with a girl in a bar while she is surrounded by her friends?I used to do one of two things. I would wait for her to go to the restroom and then walk out and catch her before she goes to her friends or I would just go up to the table and say “so I know this looks weird but I think your friend right there is super attractive 😬, my name is..” lol | /r/seduction | 20/05/22 12:32 AM |
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