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Minor correction, never take it personally. Move on try again.
/r/seduction06/03/22 02:27 PM
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Don't. Never dip your pen in the company ink. It'll get messy and it doesn't clean up easily.
/r/seduction21/05/21 01:45 AM
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Then don't drink. There are other places besides bars to meet people.
/r/seduction03/04/21 04:39 PM
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Expectations? Assume she doesn't think you are a creep and act accordingly. Just like all the top advice says be real with yourself, be real with her and make a move (ASK FOR CONSENT).
/r/seduction12/02/21 09:23 PM
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To follow on, no need to bring it up. It's not a part of your core identity. I tell others, you are basically vampire bait, older virgins are rare, man you are seexy to them.
/r/seduction08/07/20 05:27 PM
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invadervie is out of my league, I don't have 5 bucks for a sub.
/r/seduction22/04/20 02:38 PM
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YES!!! Italy has been hit hard by not taking action soon enough. To prevent mass gatherings Easter services at the Vatican are cancelled. Don't worry Trump is lifting the federal closures Easter Sunday so everyone can go to church and pass the Corona around. Funny thing is the elderly are more likely to attend church and also the more likely to die from this. Make sure to get them all in close proximity with each other.
/r/seduction26/03/20 08:57 PM
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It's not going away, that whole flatten the curve thing means months not weeks. And just because you don't have 100's of cases is exactly why you should be doing the shelter in place thing. to prevent the curve from even starting. and if you look at the infection rates that curve sure doesn't look flat to me it looks just like an exponential growth curve, you know the one where millions die from overwhelming the healthcare system? You don't just recover from this, in Wuhan there were cases of re…
/r/seduction26/03/20 02:20 PM
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Uh does your partner know? If not, I think you are in the wrong sub. If they do, I also think you are in the wrong sub. But to answer your morally questionable question; Confidence, that is the magic sauce that attracts women. For advice beyond that go check the cheating subs and sites. I hear that even though they were busted sharing user data and blackmailing paying customers Ashley Madison is still around.
/r/seduction11/11/19 03:22 PM
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Like they said this is a test, and the best way to pass is agree and escalate. ABC, Always Be Closing.
/r/seduction04/11/19 07:29 PM
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And the key thing about what she said, "You will know when she's attracted to you." It's a window and you have to act before it closes. Her advise about romance being an add on not the only goal to have is also spot on. Be the best you you can be. Have adventures, have fun, take care of yourself. The rest will follow.
/r/seduction11/09/19 06:52 PM
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I used to say, "If my life ever looks like the plot of a soap opera, please let me know so I can kill myself." I'm going to change it to that, if my life ever looks like a porno plot please let me know so I can film it then kill myself.
/r/seduction30/08/19 07:03 PM
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Over there on the sidebar is a list of places to start with pickup. Seeing as you are a Jekyll and Hyde with the coke I suggest you leave it alone. Down the the coke hole is only burnout. If you want to feel good and content in the long term you better leave that alone. People after decades of coke addition struggle to feel anything. Don't let it happen to you. The difference between the sober you and the high you is one of inhibition. Of course you'd never grab a woman's ass in public. High on …
/r/seduction27/08/19 06:52 PM
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George Clooney, he's handsome right? ever seen not on the red carpet? He's not really that comely, but he sure AF is always attractive. Matthew McConaughey is down right ugly, but the chicks dig him, why? Because he's confident and constant, what you see is what you get. It helps that they are both rich and movie stars. They are just average looking at best. And merely mortal just like you.
/r/seduction22/08/19 03:14 PM
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Pizza is a liar. They cheat on everyone with everyone else. Pizza is a fatty maker to make you undesirable in the eyes of other. Don't Listen to Pizza! They lie!
/r/seduction22/08/19 01:38 PM
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Wow, just Wow. I'm not sure if it's the advice or the British Siri voice, that makes me madder. This is similar to "The Rules" mindset, it was yucky then it's not much better now.
/r/seduction21/08/19 04:45 PM
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Getting the girl is only the first step, keeping the lady is a different matter. As a lifer (been married over 20 years) the reason I'm here is to keep working on myself. And maybe help the shy guy out. Hint it's get over yourself and be the best you you can be. Staying married is easy, staying happily married is a bit more tricky and includes a bunch of the skills taught by pick up; confidence, figuring out what you want, going for it, being accountable for what you say and do, HIT THE GYM!, ta…
/r/seduction19/08/19 06:25 PM
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You noticed correctly this is a male centered sub. You might have better luck asking at r/relationship_advice even if the two of you are not dating. My opinion on your situation being a creepy old dude is: Don't let your emotions rule you, be a person of deliberate action. Tell them you like them, don't care what others think of you, do what you feel to be right be open and honest about your feelings. That, that is the most important thing offered here, get over your oneitis and be free. Be the …
/r/seduction13/08/19 04:11 PM
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The title and the top comment reply was enough for me.
/r/seduction12/08/19 07:34 PM
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Nope, not mutual respect. You're butthurt because he got the girl you didn't. You should respect that. You know what a high mark that was. Why didn't he tell you? because you are a baby who can't control his emotions. Look you're putting him on blast here on reddit. No sympathy from me. Grow up, get over your oneitus. Your neediness is unattractive. Let this be a learning lesson, be the best man you can be. Be confident and go forth and approach, not a guy who quietly longs for women who reject …
/r/seduction12/08/19 07:32 PM
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Yeah dude, this is on you. The self talk about how you don't blame her, you do though, is the right approach. How did the jock get the girl you've had your sights set on? He took action where you didn't. Be like that guy, take action. Ask and ye shall receive, not every time but more than if you never ask. Build boldness. There's no reason to be shitty to this girl, stay friends and build the social circle. Oneitis sucks and there is only one cure, get more women. Let the lesson sink in, you had…
/r/seduction24/07/19 01:36 PM
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Not all cutters are borderline, and not all borderline's cut. But there is no cure and they are a notoriously hard group to treat. First sudden flip of mood, like weeping and laughing in the same sentence get out. Borderlines tend, again not every person with borderline personality disorder does this, to latch onto new people and burn them out, see the cutter story below. They are hard to deal with and my best advice is to avoid BPD people at all costs, as my wife in the mental health field sing…
/r/seduction22/07/19 06:02 PM
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To follow on, if you post this in r/relationship_advice you will get this echoed loud and clear. How do you get you power back? You've always had it, now is the time to use it. If this isn't what you want make the changes you want to see. Don't like being control, stop complying. Want to communicate and he won't, talk to someone else. You're not married to this man but have been together for 7 years. Breaking up is going to suck for you, but it will probably be the best thing you could do for yo…
/r/seduction12/07/19 06:20 PM
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Colored as charged, half plus seven is where the creepy line is for Islam, modern standards are about a decade after twenty that increases the further we age. He may go for it, but know that means he doesn't have high personal standards.
/r/seduction11/07/19 04:33 PM
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you mean like match.com or a real matchmaking service?
/r/seduction27/06/19 05:26 PM
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Thanks for the warning, my life was spared because of you.
/r/seduction27/06/19 02:49 PM
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Did you mean to jump to the 2/3rds mark? I think you should fix you link to show the infield pull.
/r/seduction30/05/19 01:20 AM
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Except the makeup and pole, the same advice goes for men. Getting in an activity where they have to interact with people, speech, dance, public service, or whatever they feel driven by. That's the bit for men, getting them comfortable speaking with people about anything at all. Just so they can talk to the women they want to meet. Game is Game. If you come for the sex, the first they tell you is to get your shit together.
/r/seduction26/04/19 08:24 PM
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And there's the game, positive attitude, confidence, being a real person. Those are all the things this sub focuses on, then squashing expectations and delivering courage. For women, it's all about opening opportunity for exposure, for men it'a all about making the approach. And your not attractive comment is the same thing told here, "hey lard ass. Hit the gym and clean your room". Work on yourself, and that self worth will turn into outward confidence with practice.
/r/seduction26/04/19 03:51 PM
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Women also focus on looks, look at the whole nothing under 6 foot requirement. If you are not seen as pretty, then game is the only way a lady can get play.
/r/seduction26/04/19 03:27 PM
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And if you (the lady in question) are not in the top percentiles of good looks what then? You kind of have to develop game, which looks little different from the male version here, just to strike interest in men.
/r/seduction26/04/19 03:24 PM
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Not all girls want to settle down themselves. That's part of the cultural baggage thrust upon them.
/r/seduction26/04/19 03:21 PM
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I don't think this is the sub for this, I'm not sure what sub would be. That said, here we go. The same general advice applies here, oneitius is a terrible disease that ruins peoples lives. Don't overthink it and approach. You might just be surprised by the results. And if you are rebuffed it isn't the end of the world. There are plenty of other people to try approaching. Seduction is a numbers game. You don't get what you want every time, but you have fun. You make yourself an interesting perso…
/r/seduction05/01/19 04:05 AM
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So I'm not alone.
/r/seduction21/12/18 01:26 PM
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Self reported survey at carrerbuilder.com Anecdotally, dating websites report similar numbers. Ashley Madison users also report that most have had affairs or emotional entanglements with co workers.
/r/seduction19/12/18 06:44 PM
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Are you sure you are not getting 'catfished'?
/r/seduction19/12/18 06:39 PM
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Roll with it. You are not a 'loser' you're a fit attractive male who draws the eye. Older women seem to care less what others think of them. They might want to see if they still have 'it', being able to attract a younger man. Roll with it.
/r/seduction19/12/18 06:38 PM
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Stats say different. https://brandongaille.com/19-unbelievable-workplace-romance-statistics/
/r/seduction19/12/18 06:31 PM
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/r/relationships is over there. My two cents is if you are uncomfortable with this, you need to let her know. If it was just you are missing out on the vibe because you are not a part of the scene, maybe you should start watching the show and the conversation. Me, not my thing . Not OK with me, it's time to get out. But that's my boundary.
/r/seduction18/12/18 08:44 PM
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haha
/r/seduction10/11/17 04:52 PM
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lol
/r/seduction10/11/17 04:51 PM
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weeelllll, to a point. There's no reason to be a dick "just cuz I can". Remember, this relationship is unlikely to be forever, learn what you can.
/r/seduction03/08/17 06:29 PM
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Be blunt and upfront. Tell her that you want to be more intimate with her and you want to know if she feels the same way. Her reaction to the question is more important than the answer. You will know what's what from her body language. Eye contact. Be brave when asking
/r/seduction18/05/17 09:24 PM
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Yes and no, you triggered the bitch shield. What you implied is you will take her out based on your pleasure. Kinda like, prostitution for lunch. You see that right? How to save? You got to flip it, make it into how you will be going to lunch, and if she wants she can come or if she'd rather stay in that's ok with you. In 1 text that's smooth. My text game is broke but you get the idea. Also if this one doesn't work out. Try again. Hell even if this one does turn into something, try again tomorr…
/r/seduction18/05/17 09:14 PM
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Whoa, One can never know the mind of another. Know your own. Texting her tonight is fine, earlier might seem too needy, might. She didn't hesitate giving you her number and you see her regularly, she gave you her number for reals. Remember the rest of the stuff here: Relax. Have something to do that you invite her to come to. Be confident.
/r/seduction08/02/17 08:01 PM
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OP Read the side bar. Like /u/IWriteForGroupies said, it looks effortless because they took the time to practice. The magic sauce is confidence, part of "I gave up" attitude is sort of the place you need to be, it doesn't matter whether you get the girl or not because you'll be fine anyway.
/r/seduction15/12/16 07:25 PM
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get over your oneitus and ask another girl out. and another, and another, and another ...
/r/seduction28/09/16 07:37 PM
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Agree and escalate
/r/seduction19/05/16 07:47 PM
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She was already over for the movie, not the first time meeting her. But in general you are correct, smooth, casual, friendly, confident is what the goal is, NOT intense, creepy, pervert. You don't just grab ass in public, you gotta know your audience
/r/seduction03/03/16 11:19 PM
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Wait, Netflix and chill and you saw the end credits? I think that's the problem there kiddo. You were supposed to make a move during the movie, aka on screen kiss followed by a real life one. That was the movie about the STD ghost right? You picked the wrong movie for making a move. "How do I get her to see me sexually?" by acting sexual duh. Platonic hug? Grab her ass, peck on the cheek? Pull her close. Shakes your hand? don't let go and turn it into holding hands. Light kino? Escalate brother,…
/r/seduction03/03/16 08:17 PM
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No help required, if I'm understanding you. Always Be Closing. She has already given you lots of indicators that she wants you, Next step for you is to escalate.
/r/seduction02/03/16 03:30 PM
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We all have. Start on the sidebar New here section ->
/r/seduction12/02/16 08:36 PM
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"She's the One" type thinking. -itus means inflammation so you are suffering from an inflammation of the ONE. The most important thing to remember is the ladies are just people, take that pussy off the pedestal. They burp, fart, and poop just like everyone else. Get over that, "She's the one." thinking right now. You are most likely miss out on the ladies who are interested in you because you have blinders on. My advise is either don't go because you are gonna fuck it up or go and talk to every …
/r/seduction12/02/16 08:24 PM
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Wait a second. You were interested in her because she was into the things you were but you didn't make a move and now you'll be forever alone because she's the only one like that? Guess again, just like you are not the only guy who likes video games and comics, she isn't the only girl either. Go find another girl and try again. Your mistake was waiting too long to make you move. You can lead with your passions if that is the most important thing to you. Cuts the BS and you get to reject for a wh…
/r/seduction11/02/16 07:22 PM
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Good job! Remember this is the worst that can happen, she can say no. Now go do it again.
/r/seduction11/02/16 06:30 PM
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lol. Came for the feme, "Was this a player?" post. Received the macho version instead.
/r/seduction23/12/15 04:03 PM
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Like I told someone else here a while ago. Remember that's the worst that can happen. You are not dead or in the hospital or in jail. No one got hurt and it was kind of fun right? That, "Fuck it, I have to tell her," feeling is pretty powerful right? Being Honest and Authentic is an aphrodisiac, keep up the good work and do it again as soon as possible. There was a field report about a high school guy filming himself getting rejected, he just walked up to random people and asked them to criticiz…
/r/seduction10/11/15 08:04 PM
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Tom Cruise has a huge and crooked nose you are only allowed to see it from certain angles. He is in fact ugly. Especially on his right side.
/r/seduction13/08/15 04:09 PM
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Wrong, Clooney has bug eyes and Pitt has a case of the crazy eyes. Go look at Pitt in Interview with a Vampire or Troy, veinage is not attractive especially on your face. Clooney is average at best, look critically, he's totally got a dad bod and has been wrinkly since before he was Batman. What is it that's really attractive?
/r/seduction13/08/15 04:05 PM
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Not conventionally attractive? You know what women find attractive? Confidence! I mean really look at Clooney, Pitt, Vin Desil, Snipes, any male movie star. They are only really average looking. what makes them really attractive is the confidence.
/r/seduction13/08/15 02:22 PM
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It's pretty simple, ask a question. For instance, Where are you headed? (a little creepy) What are you listening to? (interest is good) or even When will I see you again? (she should see it as a joke) asking questions is the best opener there is. One of the best initial question is Can I ask you a question?
/r/seduction13/08/15 01:56 PM
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This, go out, there are more people in the world than the 30 at your school. Go meet some of them. Here's a hint about half will be female, but they are people first. Treat them as such and that oneitis will slip some, the more you are engaged outside of school the better it will be. Just don't forget to study.
/r/seduction11/08/15 07:09 PM
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No, Don't be a rules guy. That's for women. Be forward, be direct, be yourself. Next steps is to do that same thing again, with a stranger, maybe not the forcibly kissing them, but still. Oneitus is a very real and dangerous hangup. Get over it now. Go be flirty in public
/r/seduction20/07/15 07:36 PM
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Um, don't be creepy. Just saying that sounds creepy, in an abuse of power sort of way.
/r/seduction25/06/15 07:21 PM
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I have always told my sons since they were toddlers ogling at boobies, "Remember ALWAYS wrap that Rascal." now that they are approaching their teens I hope the message has sunk in. I still say it, especially in public.
/r/seduction27/05/15 11:11 PM
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Remember, this is the worst that can, most likely, happen. Are you dead? Are you bleeding? Has something irreversible happened? (you know prison stuff) Nope? Good, remember that. Give it a day or 2 and it might be funny. See if you can do worse. See if you can do better. This is the game. Get comfortable, that's the worst, do it again, you may still feel like an idiot, but that because you not comfortable being brave yet, keep it up.
/r/seduction26/05/15 07:26 PM
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Science study that I don't have the link for found that if people stared each other in the eye for 2 minutes straight, fell in love. Eye contact is critical for attraction.
/r/seduction15/04/15 02:50 PM
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Get over the oneitis. You are friendzoned. Be a buddy or leave her alone. Women don't need a "friend" who secretly wants more. Be real when you tell her, "I have had a crush on you for the longest time and I can't just be your friend," Like ripping a band aid off It'll sting, but it'll be over. And like most young Turks that's not what you want to hear so you won't do that.
/r/seduction09/04/15 07:09 PM
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Try, "Sorry, thought you had daddy issues,"the next time. Puts her on the defensive. Address why you seem so 'old', they might mean boring.
/r/seduction21/01/15 03:13 PM
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Wat? Fatherly advice, "Never shit where you eat." meaning Do Not "Date" a Coworker. Think endgame, How can this go badly? What's the best case scenario here? Sleeping around on the job is just poor form. Sexual Harassment is against the law, even light flirting can be seen as that. Ask, but no means no and yes means you shouldn't. EDIT: flirting with customers ... that is a little different. but not much.
/r/seduction06/01/15 07:20 PM
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Hmmm, well I'm glad to see the the same tips being applied double side windershins, maybe we can teach the next generation to ease up on themselves and try talking to people because stranger danger is bullshit?
/r/seduction17/12/14 07:52 PM
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Wow, that low self esteem is the first thing that needs work. Some of the biggest babe magnets were eh looking, but they all have that confidence that makes women go wow. Want to know more? read the sidebar links to get started. Now here's the most important part. Do what it says. Even if it feels stupid or weird, especially if you feel any fear. Do it and keep doing it like it was your job. Because it is, it's your job to create the conditions that make you feel happy. Good luck.
/r/seduction04/08/14 07:24 PM
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Over in the sidebar is a great post About inner game. Just reading doesn't do really do shit, you gotta practice. Get your shit together and you will have all the inner game you really need.
/r/seduction19/10/13 06:43 PM
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Dude ADD does not mean you can't stick to anything. It means you have a condition you have to cope with. Get back to the gym. Set an alarm. You are in school and not fucking that up because of your condition, apply those coping skills to ALL aspects of your life. Who are you, really? A fuckup, or a real man? Shit happens, keep practicing and you'll get there. Don't practice and you'll remain the Average Frustrated Chump you are today. Be better that that, you are worth it.
/r/seduction19/10/13 06:37 PM
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