So i just recently started lurking here on seddit hoping to pick up a few tips and what not. Im 19 y/o never been in a relationship never even had girlfriends, i started using tinder just to try and start somewhere (not going well at all) there was this one girl on tinder though, that i was talking to on and off since early december and since december i wanted to ask her out. I have never asked a girl if she wanted to go on a date or do something or anything for that matter. I have very low selfesteem, dont have any social skills with girls that i know cause i never tried talking to girls cause i assumed it would not go well so why bother? Finally i manned up and asked if she wanted to meet sometime. Because i was so slooow and waited to long she has a boyfriend and obviously said no. But to be honest i couldnt care less i was to busy being proud of myself for trying.. Now after reading this it does not seem like as big of a deal as i thought but still It's the little things. Need to read more if im gonna try and meet girls cause i dont even know how to talk to them in person or over the internet.