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gimmey/r/askTRP02/02/15 10:11 PM
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i like tortolz
/r/askTRP04/02/15 04:56 AM
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I wish you all the best and hope you find happiness eventually, but it's not likely. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yJj3mERrEgA
/r/askTRP04/02/15 04:29 AM
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I think I'm gonna go cry. Because you said I would not likely find happiness. ;'(
/r/askTRP04/02/15 03:12 AM
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Thanks, this was useful. I am often hypercritical of myself, and place ridiculously high standards on myself. I think I'm probably "over-gaming" a lot of the time, when I can just shut up, escalate and bring her home. Part of my problem is the idea that I actually have to "do something" to make her attracted, and not assuming attraction enough. My narcissism is my main weapon and my main flaw, there is a fine balance between healthy and unhealthy in that domain. I think I tiptoe the line but oft…
/r/askTRP03/02/15 11:56 PM
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First of all, I don't subscribe to any PUA materials, RSD included. Not interested in that shit. Second of all: I definitely attribute my worth from who I have become through my experiences, and in particular, what these experiences bring to the table. I think (maybe) what you were trying to say was not to attribute worth to the OUTCOME of any particular interaction. I need to maintain my sense of self-worth and value despite rejection, despite not getting what I want. "False image"? It's more c…
/r/askTRP03/02/15 11:53 PM
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fuck yeah! Are you retarded? Trying to force sex will get you nowhere. I showed her that I was okay either way, and then she wanted to have sex. Passed that test.
/r/askTRP03/02/15 11:47 PM
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you sound like a smart lad, tell me more please.
/r/askTRP03/02/15 09:40 PM
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Nicely said.
/r/askTRP03/02/15 05:46 AM
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I don't "demand" anything. I offer the option and if they refuse, that's fine. Often times they don't come back around.
/r/askTRP03/02/15 04:09 AM
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Absolutely there is. It took me a long time to figure that one out, and to call them out on it. It is still a work-in-progress, and may never reach a point where I am satisfied with how everyone is. I tend to try to solve everyone's problems and it is frustrating when so many things are out of your control. Yeah, it is hard to put a finger on how exactly it has affected me (and yourself). The one thing I must say is that it has motivated me to become the best that I can be in this domain so as t…
/r/askTRP03/02/15 04:08 AM
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No problem. My parents split when I was 14. It was bad. Fights, police, the whole deal. Within a year, my Dad moved to the West Coast with my sister, and I stayed home with my Mom until my senior year of college, when I moved downtown and lived with a friend. After that I moved to another city for grad school and have been here since. My mom is a loving person, but she is emotionally damaged. She is difficult to talk to sometimes, because she tends to harp on and on about her failed marriage and…
/r/askTRP03/02/15 03:50 AM
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Thanks for that. I have been told about the EGO. capital letters. I feel like if I can get that shit under control, it would set me up pretty nicely.
/r/askTRP03/02/15 03:38 AM
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I should work on driving the conversation to topics that are outside the realm of "let's get to know each other's life details".
/r/askTRP03/02/15 02:55 AM
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I realize the importance of not needing to impress. I should be able to pull solely based on my frame. It is difficult to remember sometimes, however, if asked "what do you do" or something related. I think that I get awestruck by beautiful girls and all my understanding of game,etc. gets tossed out the window during the interaction. And FYI I'm not wealthy, nor do I come from a wealthy family. I got through undergrad and grad school purely on scholarship, so I am starting at 0 once I graduate h…
/r/askTRP03/02/15 02:50 AM
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So you're saying-- become the captain of the co-ed volleyball team, organize a gathering where I'm DJing (or spin in clubs), host a wine & cheese party at my place, etc.? i.e., show leadership in areas where I am knowledgable and accomplished. Then perhaps what the problem is demographics-- finding the appropriate venue/activity/group to play with given my interests. So far, I have not "actively" participated in any activity that has a large number of good-looking & single females lurking around…
/r/askTRP03/02/15 02:47 AM
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so I should resign myself to a life of no pussy, if I listened to Wally.
/r/askTRP03/02/15 02:38 AM
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With the ones I don't really care about, I am patient. Usually they keep asking me to hang out, and sometimes I oblige them, until they basically make it very easy for me. My last girlfriend, the medical student, had been with only 5 guys before me and was a bit shy/prudish. But, we banged within a week of meeting (on the 3rd date). The date went as follows: we met and said we would get ice cream. She said, we can go to Baskin Robbins or we can go to my place and eat Haagen Daaz there. I said le…
/r/askTRP03/02/15 12:57 AM
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Yes, but this is so intangible. I don't even know where to start. There is an insecurity there that stops me from getting the ones I really want. You're right, I have no problem getting the ones I don't really care about-- in fact, my game is pretty tight in those cases. But I can tell you that practically every time a hot one has come along I have fucked it up. A few examples: (1) When I was 22, I dated this chick I met off OkCupid. Model. 19. Seemed very conservative, as I'm pretty sure she wa…
/r/askTRP03/02/15 12:54 AM
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I like this response. You're right, I do experience entitlement, and this is largely because I compare myself to others who may not have what I have in other domains, but still are able to pull model hot girls on the reg. I can't help but think, why not me? Can you explain what you mean by "demonstrating" my value? Should I really be trying to "impress" people or just go after what I want? I try to limit how much I talk about my accomplishments in conversation in order to reduce my tendency to w…
/r/askTRP03/02/15 12:45 AM
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To be honest, I haven't been approaching as much recently. More like 5 per week. But I'm not even exaggerating when I say that 95%+ of hot girls I meet have boyfriends. I approached a Ford Model on the street and walked 4 blocks with her until I found out she had a BF. She still wanted to hang out and suggested that I would get along with her BF and I told her that I wasn't interested. Last week I can think of 5 girls I approached and all of them had boyfriends. Where them single hot girls at? A…
/r/askTRP03/02/15 12:06 AM
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I think you're also right on the money with the games. As soon as they find out what I have accomplished professionally/academically, I'm guessing that they put me in the "relationship" category, and are willing to wait and withhold sex to ensure that I will stick around. It drives me NUTS. Should I be completely avoiding any discussions about what I do?
/r/askTRP03/02/15 12:04 AM
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In this case it would be hard for me to think that she wanted to just be friends. She was grinding on top of me, I was even slapping my dick on her pussy but she didn't want me to go inside. I reached for a condom and even put it on, but wouldn't go through with it. That being said, she for sure saw me as a "nice/safe guy" because for the most part, I am.
/r/askTRP02/02/15 11:58 PM
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That being said, I've had success with FAST escalation. I remember this one time in particular where I met a really good looking blonde, in law school, and made out with her within 2 minutes of meeting her. She may have been drunk, though. I've also had girls try to kiss me after a few minutes of flirting. I'd say my escalation game needs work, though...
/r/askTRP02/02/15 11:52 PM
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Sure, I can see that. I like dressing up tho and looking good. When I'm having a good time I tend to get very goofy/obnoxious but entertaining (at least to myself…). I was hoping my looks would get me easier pulls, but if anything it just allows me to OPEN easier. I think my verbal and seductive game needs work because it isn't easy for me to convert once I have opened.
/r/askTRP02/02/15 11:50 PM
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Yes, but not enough. This has been a sticking point but I've been on the other side as well. I had this smoking hot blonde (bartender that I picked up WHILE she was working) in my bed, naked, but she wouldn't sleep with me despite how much I pushed. Think she wanted some indication of commitment before it happened? She was probably the most beautiful girl I had seen naked in person. It fizzled after a while, though, and I never slept with her.
/r/askTRP02/02/15 11:48 PM
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I know I'm not the best (there is no such thing), but I know I should be better than where I am. I am still pushing myself to be better. Whether it's pushing to wrap up in grad school, networking hard to get the job I landed, lifting heavy and keeping track of food as I cut down to 10% BF, reading a variety of self-help/psychology/philosophy-oriented books and blogs… Thinking about it, my biggest disappointment is the ratio between how often I think or talk about this stuff to my successful expe…
/r/askTRP02/02/15 11:46 PM
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