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She also originally told me she had been single for over a year, but I found out she was still seeing her ex in December during that date You simply have some sort of existential problem as a male if you aren't viscerally disgusted by & averse to finding something like this out. Yet here you are asking us how to better pursue a girl like this. You can't 'regain' something you clearly never developed - GAIN some frame by plating this bitch. 99.99% of women are undateable by TRP standards. Get tha…
/r/TheRedPill18/02/24 11:39 AM
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OP wasn't wrong, adoration is foundational to the female sex drive. Their hypergamous nature and attraction to frame is evidence.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/24 12:47 AM
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Ok I can agree with the general point, but: Never Be the One Initiating Physical Contact Initiating touch, holding hands, kissing, sex, making out… ??? What kind of man refuses to touch his girlfriend unless touched first? That's submissive as fuck.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/24 09:39 PM
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He brought up autistic writing and I showed him an example.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/24 02:26 AM
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Thanks man, yeah it's silly. I didn't imagine anyone would get overwhelmed by this. Not surprised, a lot of guys on this sub are permanently stuck in the desperation/heartbroken phase and can't fathom advice geared towards people who only come on here to fine tune.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/24 02:23 AM
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I didn't write about attracting women, but I hope everyone here is attracting the best women they can find.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/24 01:53 AM
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🍻
/r/TheRedPill08/02/24 01:47 AM
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Best of luck to you.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/24 10:18 PM
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"The love I felt for my ex was like a burning flame of passion.i could absolutely feel myself burning for her, intoxicated completely engulfed. I remember seeing her after work laughing like an idiot because I was so happy to see her. Now after the dust is settled, I feel dead inside. Utterly dead, no desire to interact with people anymore then i have to. The concept of love to me seems cool ,but I'm past it. I have partner whom I care for, but at times I feel bad, because I just sometimes want …
/r/TheRedPill07/02/24 07:57 PM
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Not sure where your issue lies. If it's the fact that vortex is a kinda nerdy word, I just found it best to describe the nature of it. Other than that you're gonna have to elaborate.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/24 06:14 PM
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You took all of your presuppositions and grievances against your supposed enemies and plopped them on this subreddit—not even the place your grievances are stemming from!—for all of us to justify and apologize for. Let me put it this way: If a woman wants to debate about today's grooming culture, does she have to take it to some pedophile forum instead of PPD because she'd be preaching to the wrong choir on here? Stop arguing, breathe, and just think about how this subreddit (and debating in gen…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 11:27 PM
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"You slept with dogs, you woke up with fleas" Just... no. You're backing up against a wall and straying way off-topic on the principle that I can just look away if I want to. You can do that for everything ever, online or offline. It's a weak non-argument. I'm not asking you to look into your heart of hearts to personally justify or take accountability for anything. This is a debate forum. I'm asking you to have an ounce of cultural awareness towards the topic of debate and provide your own stan…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 11:01 PM
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It's easy to chalk it up to "the world sucks, deal with it" when a man is being violated. It's not like I went on some niche dark web gooncave forum - this is Twitter, one of the most widely used social platforms ever. Internet culture and standards is an entirely valid subject of debate - just weeks ago the discourse was on Taylor Swift AI nudes, and the Internet's response to it went far beyond just saying "eh, sucks to suck."
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 10:16 PM
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Well, let's do away with the old "I've never seen a woman trangress ever" excuse that plagues this sub: Now You Have I didn't have to search hard for this, you'd see it too if you checked out Twitter's trending like I suggested you do in the post, it's rife as we speak and there's plenty more where it came from. We all know it's wrong regardless of who does it, my question is where are the social and moral repercussions when non-straight men do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 09:56 PM
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I agree with everyone else: keep your mouth shut, smile and wave. But understand that you're willingly choosing to hang around people who accept you only because you've opted to enter their frame at the expense of your own (they'd call yours toxic masculinity, straight man syndrome or straight up homophobia). Are there no better people to associate with at your office? Some sports guys? NFL championships are tonight and the Superbowl is in two weeks. Maybe get into that if you aren't already tun…
/r/TheRedPill28/01/24 12:54 PM
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If you think that's even remotely desirable, then I give up. Don't bother replying. You're right, there's a vast market of women in 2024 with a primal, guttural desire for Bob the Builder. EDIT: ofc you're the same guy from the other awful post this week LOL.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/24 01:57 PM
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So either learn how to fix a car, wood carving(bitches really love this, throw up a handmade bassinet on your hinge profile and panties will be dropn), you should know how to do basic plumbing, etc. I stopped here and scrolled down to the comments for the expected shitshow. Building your entire identity and appeal around your utility as a man, is how you get saved in her phone as "Home Depot". That is why EVERYTIME another Man has to walk into your house to fix or do something as simple as chang…
/r/TheRedPill19/01/24 01:13 PM
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Good post. Unfortunately a lot of guys (on here and IRL) are trapped in the desperation phase - whether they are unattractive, unfit or too socially inept to successfully court women on a regular basis - and are mentally far away from the mindset and lifestyle needed to fully absorb your point. Design your life, down to the minutiae, to be your perfect concoction of pleasure, achievement and wealth. As is often said on here, women are the byproduct, not the goal.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/24 12:59 PM
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Bro you post (and eventually delete) some variation of this once a week and have gotten dozens of replies with personalized advice in the past. Several paragraphs from me included. Fuck off and do the work, or head over to the autism sub.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/24 04:43 PM
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Hilaruous of you to virtue signal by saying you know sex workers personally, yet go batshit crazy on this guy for asking if you happen to be one.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 06:34 PM
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Any anecdotal bias I may have is to be leveled through this debate. You can provide your anecdotal experience on the complete other end of the spectrum, but you aren't just in a debate with me; plenty of women in this thread can see my point and justify it (women are more communicative, helps avoid abusive scenarios, etc.) so maybe you're an outlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 12:41 PM
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The phrasing throughout your response sounds like this is something you hear about but haven't personally witnessed en masse.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 12:23 PM
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Yep. The only scenario i can think of is some third party coercing one's decision against other suitors, like arranged marriage, bisexuals marrying 'straight' to avoid homophobia, cultural pressure to marry within race etc. But saying it's settling just because you can't get what you want, how you want it? BS to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 03:29 AM
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As a RP man, I completely agree. A lot of people gets feelings of inadequacy just by hearing someone else's standards that they don't fit. Maybe they get flashbacks of exes who didn't think they were good enough, and project as a trauma response. I sure used to. And like you said at the end, if your partner has to be several standard deviations above the average person for you to be satisfied, you signed yourself up for the uphill climb.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 07:07 PM
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Pbskids.org Get as far as you can here, then get back to me. 👌🏽
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 03:16 PM
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“oh yeah, don’t treat your woman nicely, that’s weak beta activity” Never said that. In fact, pretty much ssid the opposite. You can't read.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 03:12 PM
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Define beta. Can you? Or did you just take it to be a synonym for gay? The jokes write themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 02:57 PM
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It largely is. Beta traits arent inherently bad or to be disregarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 02:42 PM
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You're adding glitter to it. Nothing suggests that meek, beta or submissive men behave so because of their unrelenting, overpowering commitment to love. Nor do dominant men behave thusly out of some bloodlust for it or to disguise their weaknesses. That's a very one dimensional read and women make this exact mistake in judgement all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 12:45 PM
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Well there's the word out of your mouth, "settle". It's obvious that women see submissiveness in men as a downside, so where did I go wrong in my original point?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 11:10 AM
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Unless she deeply relies on him financially, then I don't see why not. It's not men initiating 80% of divorces.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 10:57 AM
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I think this happens behind closed doors a lot more often than we see. The types of marriages that just quietly thrive and 50 years later the old guy's advice to young men is "she's the boss, whatever she says!' Nothing wrong with that, but in my experience most women feel that a submissive man might as well be her friend or little brother. It can start off favorable for her, but resentment will fester over his lack of masculine traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 10:43 AM
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Maybe some crazy exes or hookups after it's said and done with, but if he's serious about the woman, he keeps his mouth shut.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 02:09 AM
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If it's not for a business, it's a marketing/distribution platform for your lifestyle, looks and achievements. Log in, share one or the other, log out. If you have none of these to share, go out there and make it happen or just stay logged out. Songs on your story, memes, pictures of that awesome sunset etc are wastes of time. I'm not knocking social media, I've just grown against it being used 'for fun'. IMO it shouldn't even be in your Top 1000 things you do for fun.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/24 10:45 PM
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I agree (with room for exceptions), which is why I compare autists to slightly less competent/experienced guys rather than a whole different species like some people insist. I almost fell into the "everybody's a little autistic" trend until I really sat myself down and realized it was dumb cope. I was just super poorly socialized by my parents and had to start from square one at 16. I was never inept at social cues, just inexperienced.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/24 04:07 AM
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I'm neurotypical, but I have plenty of autistic friends and two brothers on the spectrum: If you're high-functioning, your biggest issue will be a lack of practice. A lot of moderately autistic men tend to lag at least 5-7 years behind neurotypical men in terms of relationship and sexual experience with neurotypical women. In essence, a 22 year old autistic guy approaches, escalates and maintains plates/LTRs with the same level of finesse as your typical 15-17 year old. This experience gap widen…
/r/TheRedPill06/01/24 03:08 AM
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I think this is what women experience when they try to have relationships with betas and nice guys. I don't think they start off opposed to sex and likely even want that to be an important part of the relationship, but quickly find it to be a terrible, if not painful, experience. These men have no access to them. And it isn't just an issue of "I'm not turned on" it's very much an issue of "this person is not supposed to be here." The alarms go off and the warning blare. If the man continues to p…
/r/TheRedPill04/01/24 08:02 PM
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Every time I make conversation with him in person he doesnt reply or just angrily closes the door on me. Once I confronted him and I accidentally scared him a little too much as I sperged out and out of fear The hell is going on here? "Scared him a little -too much-?" You trying to scare him into some money, pussy and a good life? Youwant him to have good habits, discipline etc. This is all meaningless without frame - you need to nurture his frame. If you two have a father, this was his job but …
/r/TheRedPill04/01/24 01:43 PM
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