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Congruence means you act parallel to however you are feeling. Early in the morning, firdt thing before a coffee, you are an old fart who is monotone and just wants his own time. Imagine you have this same mentality and walk into a room with your boss, and people you want to think very highly of you. Yu will urge a smile, force friendly eyes, and overthink and analyze everything before u say it because u want to become the person they know u to be. You wud be talking a lot and forcing urself to s…
/r/seduction26/06/16 11:11 PM
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I'm on my phone and seemingly I cannot edit. To add a few things: I realized when I spoke to people I was trying soo hard to make every interaction perfect instead of accepting it for the way it was. Furthermore, naturally I am a calm and relaxed dude, I was pretending to be a superly excited person always. Also, my voice of tonality would be VERY incongruent to how I actually am or how I felt, to try to please the other person. Remember people, it is effortless to be yourself, it doesn't take o…
/r/seduction26/06/16 11:05 PM
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To add on to this: you don't have to be blabbering ur mouth 2 million miles an hour or forcing facial expressions to seem excited or suprise or whatever u think will spice up the conversation. Be congruent to how you feel at that moment. And don't be the fucking nice guy that as the boring shit that he thinks other people want him to say, say whatever comes to ur mind and have fun
/r/seduction26/06/16 10:58 PM
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You and OP are on the same line of thinking. Inner-game is priority and matters above all; only after having a great self-image and a positive mindset can you attract women and lead a successful love life.
/r/seduction26/06/16 10:53 PM
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Underrated post of the year??! This is gold. Thank you greatly, on behalf of everyone. I know how much time it takes to do this, and secondly you could have kept this beautiful knowledge to yourself but you decide to share it. I love you and care about you, man. I just recently began recording myself and was in denial as to how I sounded and to how I am, as a person. It really opened my eyes as to how needy I was sounding, and how my voice sounded feminine as hell. It really makes a huuugeee dif…
/r/seduction26/06/16 10:38 PM
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It definetly matters if you have 'low-status' self image. No girl nor guy for that matter will want to be around you unless they are desperate. Be the guy people WANT to be around and go out of there way to be with. How? Be high-status, if your life at the moment is not what you want it to be, change your life-style. Chase your dreams, change your wardrobe, hit the gym, do what it takes for you to feel fucking great about yourself.
/r/seduction22/06/16 06:12 AM
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My brother, Aeon199; I too was coming off of such terrible insecurities and such a terrible self-image. I couldn't look people in the eyes when speaking to them. I would run under the table when I heard the knock at my door with legitmate fear. I would throw the phone as if it were a grenade when someone called home. How to combat these things? Throw away your books, you are running away from what you fear most, combating your fears straight on. Go out there and practise talking to strangers at …
/r/seduction22/06/16 06:04 AM
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People with high-status don't walk around with a badge on their chest claming this title, nor do people that are the life of the party have some type of special crown fitted for their head. People who are these things have it ingrained in their persona, and thus they radiate these things. It's the same concept as someone being confident, if truly he is confident he doesn't need to tell people other people can see it. So embody these characteristics that are attractive and you become attractive. …
/r/seduction22/06/16 05:59 AM
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Perhaps this answer is best thought of as 'relative god mode'. A snail becoming a wee bit quicker than before may be in 'God Mode' improvement, but objectively that snail is still slow :P I came from such deeply rooted insecurities that I thought I was literally mentally challenged. I had pitied people that had to speak with such a despicable monster (me), and felt shameful for my own existence and shameful for the people that had to lay eyes on me. So to go from this mentality to simply feeling…
/r/seduction22/06/16 04:06 AM
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A more practical answer is, college/univerdity campuses, malls/shopping center,
/r/seduction22/06/16 02:33 AM
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Literally anywhere. You can do anything you set your mind too. I came from crippling neediness and debilitating social anxiety to a God in a month.
/r/seduction22/06/16 02:31 AM
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Hey, I'm here for you man.
/r/seduction22/06/16 02:26 AM
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Thank you for the response. My honest intention was to find out whether people who are naturally good-looking are still into game. The reason being that having good looks leads usually to easy receptiveness and thus lack of needing these techniques. I would say that for me, even though I am naturally handsome, I too have benefited tremendously from game. Naturally handsome = receptiveness does not = lays or even numbers, you have to be CONFIDENT which is what the game is all about.
/r/seduction21/06/16 08:54 PM
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Firealarm.. hmmm let me just go to my spreadsheet and check what to do in that situation. Perfect! I've got exactly what you need. You need to say and do and..... DUDE, the situation never fucking matters all you need is confidence you can say w/e the fuck you want and it'll either stick or it doesn't. Say to her, 'are you deaf or crazy, do you not hear the alarms?' anything it doesn't matter, as long as you transition to stating ur intention and being a man about it. Personally, I wouldn't appr…
/r/seduction21/06/16 08:42 PM
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This post could not have come at a better time. I am so proud of you for just doing it and being brave. I am a university student and I have plans to go out for drinks with a Bulgarian girl who is drop dead stunning. I walked up to her, told her her accent is cute and she left me her number on my desk after class. I have lays and hookups (mostly from drunk girls) but never have I been on a legitimate date. I am fucking terrified but I know that I am just going to do it because I'm going to fucki…
/r/seduction21/06/16 08:36 PM
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Perhaps I can clarify, what don't you understand?
/r/seduction18/06/16 04:33 PM
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So I've been day-gaming seriously for about 1 month now, and I rack up consistently 3 number-closes per day. Make sure she knows your name, and let her know when you will call her (look her straight in the eyes when you say this) so she expects it. Also, make sure you have at-least briefly introduced yourself and what you do.
/r/seduction17/06/16 11:02 PM
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This is very inspiring to read. I myself am heading out my third nightout ever and will be with an experienced gamer, I myself have 1 month of experience. Although I can feel beta-thoughts such as living up to expectations and dissapointing and all of these pussy as shit, I know that I have nothing to prove and to just go out and have fun, like you did. I can't wait to write a field report when I come home. Thanks for the inspiration I will go out today and kill it. Do you have any TIPS? I feel …
/r/seduction17/06/16 10:57 PM
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Does OP or anyone have advice on destroying your EGO or letting go? Any techniques, tips?
/r/seduction15/06/16 12:26 AM
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OP, you are a greek goddess. This post is glittered with GOLD; thank you for the words of wisdom. It's easy to confuse high-ego with high confidence, but the truth is they are two completely separate realms. You can have a high-ego with low self-confidence or vice versa, low-ego with high-self-confidence, which is of course what we are all aiming for.
/r/seduction15/06/16 12:26 AM
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You said it perfectly, it is easier to talk to low-status girls. Well, OF COURSE IT IS, for everybody. If you can't seem to find the reasoning as to why, don't stress over it too much, it's good enough that you acknowledge it in the first place. What you have to do is break out of your zone of comfort. It makes you super-nervous to approach high-status woman, it does for all guys when we first start out. That doesn't mean don't do it, or find out why before you do. Just go out there and be comfo…
/r/seduction15/06/16 12:23 AM
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This post is gold. Thank you OP for taking the time to create this. Remember people, set the tone first; you are not there to make friends, if you have to blatantly say this then go ahead, but for sake of your success don't set the tone from friend-friend versus man-woman
/r/seduction15/06/16 12:19 AM
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Keep it real, to yourself and to her. Say what you feel. For example, ''Hey, I've seen you a couple of times around here, and I think to myself there's no way I'd go about my day without at-least saying Hi to you, SO HI!"
/r/seduction15/06/16 12:17 AM
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This is referring to some of the comfort-zone challenges I undertook. This is to work on my inner-game, to basically put myself in extremely uncomfortable situations, just for the sake of expanding my comfort zone. Try it, you really feel alive!
/r/seduction13/06/16 12:25 AM
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Good on you brother! We truly have been missing out, but you know what, it's never too late and we are gonna get on that horse and swing the biggest axes. Let's get out there and getem!
/r/seduction12/06/16 10:46 PM
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I sincerely appreciate this comment. Being self-aware of how I am feeling is important, you can then deal with it head-on. St.Paul has a quote, 'whatever you bring to the light, becomes the light,' or something cheesy like that. The point is, bring your emotions into awareness, if they are negative they will dissolve!
/r/seduction12/06/16 10:45 PM
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Momentum truly is very powerful. It's why PUA's in the community stress the importance of warming-up so much.
/r/seduction12/06/16 10:42 PM
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Thanks to my sheltered days I know the ins and outs of the university very well and I am aware of ways around locked buildings.
/r/seduction12/06/16 10:42 PM
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You got the right idea.
/r/seduction12/06/16 10:40 PM
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Thanks for that :), cheers!
/r/seduction12/06/16 10:40 PM
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This is referring to some of the comfort-zone challenges I undertook. This is to work on my inner-game, to basically put myself in extremely uncomfortable situations, just for the sake of expanding my comfort zone. Try it, you really feel alive!
/r/seduction12/06/16 10:40 PM
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No way to transition from beginner to whatever your goal is than to practise, practise, practise. Go out there and getem' tiger!
/r/seduction12/06/16 03:19 PM
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you are the real deal, my friend
/r/seduction12/06/16 03:18 PM
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exactly. I deleted my earlier comment. In retrospect I shouldn't be advocating rawdogging.
/r/seduction12/06/16 03:18 PM
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You are absolutely right. As Gandalph once said ''Life is not in your books Bilbo, it's out there!" Put your books away, throw away your pages of theory. Subconsciously you are trying to run away from what you fear most, actually going out infield. Moments when you are extremely nervous to do something, when tough through it and at the end you feel absolutely alive, this is times when you grow, and times when you most learn.
/r/seduction12/06/16 03:17 PM
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why the fuck do I overthink everything.
/r/seduction09/06/16 06:06 AM
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oh. wtf why do i look into everything. what would you respond to this? should I be like 'what constitutes earning' or should I be like 'you must be drunk'
/r/seduction09/06/16 04:46 AM
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