| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 142 | What do you do when your date cancels last minute? Go to a cafe anyways and get the number of the girl who works there | ginsengwarrior | /r/seduction | 20/03/18 03:45 AM | |
| 99 | fuck yeah! i actually got her number | ginsengwarrior | /r/seduction | 16/03/18 02:48 AM | |
| 76 | Finally did my first cold approach | ginsengwarrior | /r/seduction | 04/03/18 12:58 AM | |
| 19 | Getting numbers on the train while on the way to my date | ginsengwarrior | /r/seduction | 01/03/19 09:16 AM | |
| 4 | rebooting my game at a festival Showgrounds (field report) | ginsengwarrior | /r/seduction | 02/10/18 07:00 AM | |
| 3 | How to follow a public approach without coming off as creepy? | ginsengwarrior | /r/seduction | 01/02/19 11:41 PM | |
| 3 | On my way to solo a club, advice appreciated | ginsengwarrior | /r/seduction | 05/07/18 08:33 AM | |
| 0 | 2nd cold approach - trying day game | ginsengwarrior | /r/seduction | 06/03/18 01:33 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | [Success story] My first approach in many years worked 100%.Awesome work man. This has given me some inspiration to shoot my shot next time I see a good opening. | /r/seduction | 18/10/19 04:43 AM |
| 1 | Getting numbers on the train while on the way to my dateI live in a city in Australia. NYC is probably a whole different vibe though | /r/seduction | 02/03/19 06:07 AM |
| 2 | Getting numbers on the train while on the way to my date(Common tip) but on the station don’t approach from behind and usually try from the side. You have great openers in this environment (where are you off too; where are you leaving from, do you live around here, what’s happening at X). On the train I’ll usually walk down the carriage and if I see a cute girl I’ll ask her if it’s okay for me to sit with her (obviously I don’t need permission to sit next to someone on the train, but plenty of other free seats this is a good way of getting her to aff… | /r/seduction | 02/03/19 01:54 AM |
| 3 | Getting numbers on the train while on the way to my dateEveryone is usually on their phones cause nobody is talking to them. Chances are they are idly scrolling to fill the time and would love a chat. I feel you with the headphones one though, I finally broke this hesitation the other week with a girl who was so god damn cute. I sat and eyed her off for ages while she had headphones in, trying to catch her eyes to smile but it was very hard (so many people don’t welcome the idea of friendly eye contact cause it can come off as rude) but when we stopp… | /r/seduction | 01/03/19 02:49 PM |
| 2 | Just did my first approach ever last nightAwesome dude. This reminds me of my first cold approach when I was doing equally over analytical shit and kinda dumb moves and getting frustrated. I eyed off this girl dancing in a club for like an hour and tried to muster up so much courage to open to her (noisy dance floors are not my favourite place at all) and ended up sort of following her as she changed rooms and deliberately timed a delay in my walking so we would end up walking down the stairs to the smokers area at the same time so I co… | /r/seduction | 01/03/19 09:29 AM |
| 2 | What are some good free date ideas?A lot of animal sanctuaries where animals have been rescued from factory farms are open to the public and are usually free or just ask for a small donation - there’s one in my home town where you get to hang out with lamas and goats and rub pigs bellies and chill with cows and ducks and chickens and it’s awesome as fuck. Otherwise art galleries, museums, open mic nights, markets (fun to just hang out in and browse stuff), going to the beach or going on bush/trail walks (depends where you live th… | /r/seduction | 11/02/19 02:08 PM |
| 5 | Got rejected brutallyBro such solid advice where can I buy your book? | /r/seduction | 11/02/19 01:42 PM |
| 1 | rebooting my game at a festival Showgrounds (field report)Thanks man. She ended up replying and we've been chatting but I'm not sure if asking her out is too soon. Gonna try play some conversation for awhile until an opportunity rises. | /r/seduction | 03/10/18 07:36 AM |
| 3 | How you even get a date after college?With such a shit attitude I'm guessing your struggling in that area too | /r/seduction | 06/07/18 08:29 PM |
| 13 | How to talk to anybody (mindset)You think those "normal people" lurk seduction subreddits critiquing and discrediting other people's observations and writeups of things they have learned? | /r/seduction | 26/06/18 10:00 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Night Game SuccessWhenever I dance with girls at a club I feel super resistance to going in for a kiss. Don't wanna get my ass slapped. But i hear so many easy hookup stories of people at clubs that to me seems like TOO easy. Should I just stop overthinking things and go for it more when I feel the girl is interested? | /r/seduction | 01/06/18 01:20 AM |
| 1 | What do you do when your date cancels last minute? Go to a cafe anyways and get the number of the girl who works thereFuck her dad in the ass. | /r/seduction | 21/03/18 02:11 PM |
| 2 | What do you do when your date cancels last minute? Go to a cafe anyways and get the number of the girl who works thereYeah well sorry to break it to you man but from my point of view I really don't care. Granted I am pretty weird though, but I love it. Although I did describe my pickup of this girl to 4 other IRL male friends and none of them lifted an eyebrow of the use of the word ebony. So maybe it's not that uncommon? Or my friends are just as weird as me? You be the judge kiddo | /r/seduction | 21/03/18 12:44 AM |
| 2 | What do you do when your date cancels last minute? Go to a cafe anyways and get the number of the girl who works thereDifferent particulars ethnic races are exotic to me. That's not because porn told me so. It's out of an appreciation for their aesthetic and their culture. | /r/seduction | 21/03/18 12:40 AM |
| 1 | What do you do when your date cancels last minute? Go to a cafe anyways and get the number of the girl who works thereHow many black chicks opinions have you gotten on this? Lol | /r/seduction | 21/03/18 12:38 AM |
| 1 | What do you do when your date cancels last minute? Go to a cafe anyways and get the number of the girl who works thereYeah my post history and my kinks are lit asf dude. I'm not gonna apologise for having a very broad and awesome interest in sex, The girls i fuck definitely don't seem to mind it either. The only people that kink shame are the ones having boring sex | /r/seduction | 21/03/18 12:32 AM |
| 1 | What do you do when your date cancels last minute? Go to a cafe anyways and get the number of the girl who works thereShe's half Zimbabwean half kiwi and ebony just seemed like a fitting description. Don't know why you're all freaking out, it's a common description sometimes for girls with darker coloured skin where I'm from. Quit tripping | /r/seduction | 21/03/18 12:30 AM |
| 2 | fuck yeah! i actually got her numberUpdate; After messaging her my name after the interaction and sending a couple messages back and forth I waited for two days After some nervousness I searched high and low for my balls and called her out of the blue to organise a date. She didn't answer so i left it and she messaged later saying she was driving and what was up I replied asking if she was still driving and can I call her - to which she said she was busy but we can text I asked what days she have class and if she's be interested g… | /r/seduction | 18/03/18 08:54 AM |
| 2 | fuck yeah! i actually got her numberYeah nah that's pretty much the majority of what I've been celebrating. The small yet big milestone of my personal development and it paying off in the way that I hoped. Couldn't really care if she flakes at this point, just stoked as hell on finding another layer of my balls. | /r/seduction | 16/03/18 09:38 AM |
| 3 | fuck yeah! i actually got her numberYeah nah that's pretty much the majority of what I've been celebrating. The small yet big milestone of my personal development and it paying off in the way that I hoped. Couldn't really care if she flakes at this point, just stoked as hell on finding another layer of my balls. | /r/seduction | 16/03/18 09:38 AM |
| 4 | fuck yeah! i actually got her numberLmao I don't think it's that easy | /r/seduction | 16/03/18 08:28 AM |
| 8 | fuck yeah! i actually got her numberYou're right man. Thanks for that. Sometimes I feel like I gotta build more rapport before I lead up to that date stage. But the date is the rapport building, and I guess if she didn't want me hitting her up to hang out she wouldn't be giving me her number in the first place. | /r/seduction | 16/03/18 08:12 AM |
| 4 | fuck yeah! i actually got her number<never felt more high my life> clearly you haven't tried going on club penguin without your parents permission then Haha but seriously thanks bro. I will admit going in for that asking for the phone number part was definitely nerve wracking, but I felt confident after getting some good signs. And clearly I was right! To not misjudge a social interaction for once is a fucking great feeling, engineering it towards my benefit though? That was the peak | /r/seduction | 16/03/18 08:09 AM |
| 1 | fuck yeah! i actually got her numberThanks! | /r/seduction | 16/03/18 08:05 AM |
| 4 | fuck yeah! i actually got her numberI heard a good technique called the FORD technique. Family Occupation Recreation Dream Sometimes covering all of these things in one interaction can be overbearing. But it gives some good starting points. I also try make openers contextual to the environment I'm in, and then try lead that into personal stuff. Example today I used my school environment to ask about what she studies, which went into her family cause she talked about her parents being big on education, then I got to lead into what … | /r/seduction | 16/03/18 08:04 AM |
| 1 | Where could I meet up with a girl that only drinks/smokes when you dont?You don't have to engage in the same things she does to spend time together. Also ignore the comments saying she is a loser or to move on. Those seem super judgemental. Just do whatever you or she would normally do, just don't engage in it. I don't drink but I still go out and drink with girls, I just don't choose alcoholic options. If you feel you wanna meet more of her sober self. Just go out to places where you don't need to drink. Away from bars of clubs and more like art galleries and park … | /r/seduction | 15/03/18 02:33 AM |
| 1 | Finally did my first cold approachYeah I'm pretty lucky. I've been in 5-6 polyamorous type relationships with awesome women. Sometimes for 2-3 years - and I've been able to have a lot of freedom and even stay friends with them after I've usually ended the relationship. Still I'm fkn terrible at doing cold approaches when I want to. My relationships just sort "happen" | /r/seduction | 12/03/18 07:02 AM |
| 2 | 10 Must-Haves for a Bachelor Pad She'll LoveAll are pretty much the same from my experience. Just be sure to buy extra globes! They go out frequently | /r/seduction | 07/03/18 06:01 AM |
| 2 | 10 Must-Haves for a Bachelor Pad She'll LoveSalt lamps are the bomb for this. I have soft blue rgb lighting across my roof and two orange salt lamps in my room and it produces an amazing soft lighting effect that girls love. | /r/seduction | 06/03/18 10:04 PM |
| 1 | 2nd cold approach - trying day gameThanks. She was seriously so my type I would have kicked myself hard for not trying something. Haha don't think I'm quite ready to chat up a girl in front of her friends just yet. | /r/seduction | 06/03/18 05:21 AM |
| 5 | Finally did my first cold approachFunnily enough it's the lasting relationships I'm really good at acquiring and the 1 nighters I'm terrible at. At the moment I'm in a pretty wholesome relationship with a girl I love already, she's just super open and even encouraging of me fucking and seeing others girls (and even having threesomes) which I'm pretty stoked about 1 night picks ups attract me partly due to the obvious lust and sex, but mostly I just like the idea of harnessing the internal confidence and social skills in being ab… | /r/seduction | 04/03/18 02:27 AM |
| 8 | Your Favorite First Date Spots?Cafes and/or takeaway food on the beach. Botanical gardens, free art exhibitions, swimming at lakes, | /r/seduction | 04/03/18 02:13 AM |
| 8 | Finally did my first cold approachI surprisingly hadn't heard about the 3 second rule until last night when I was relaying this night to a friend and he told me about it. I like it haha. Definitely going to keep it in mind next time. Day game seems more my element, I definitely feel more open to approaching girls but it can feel strange at times like at least at clubs people are there to socialise and meet people. In day game I imagine some girls just wanna be left alone and not be hit on necessarily. Looking forward to trying t… | /r/seduction | 04/03/18 02:10 AM |
| 2 | Finally did my first cold approachThanks man! | /r/seduction | 04/03/18 01:02 AM |
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