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sounds like you're getting laid a lot more...no, wait. you're not.
/r/askMRP30/01/16 03:46 AM
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wow that was a bunch of shit that had nothing to do with what I said. I know I won't get anywhere "debating" with you but I'll leave my example up for guys who want to be "giving" in bed hoping that my cautionary tale will prevent them from getting too wrapped up in their own egos about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 02:41 PM
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Not at all. A guy is free to not perform cunnilingus but I am free not to date him if that's his take, same as a girl performing oral. However there is a certain kind of guy - mind you, I was agreeing with a terper's take on something - who does this "nice guy" thing in regards to going down where it's not really about the woman's pleasure at all, but solely his own ego in getting her off and trying to show what a great guy he is for doing something that really should be pretty normal now anyway…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 02:15 PM
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There is a distinct difference from the "I'm the best pussy eater ever" ego bullshit - which I have encountered, and hate - and a guy refusing to ever go down on you, which indicates someone who is selfish, sexually, and might have issues with pussy, which is not really an admirable trait in a heterosexual man. I would counsel (and have) male friends to break up with someone who won't go down on them, because it's an indicator of sexual selfishness and sometimes an issue with dick, which is not …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/16 12:16 PM
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I know you're a super logical STEM oriented guy and I'm just a female who doesn't get math, but let me try to sort this out for you. 1 in 5 women report having been sexually assaulted in their lifetime. Not 1 in 5 report being raped every year. Furthermore a very high number of sexual assault is not reported to the authorities for a host of reasons. But since we know that most of those rapes are clearly not even rapes anyway, I'm curious why you're even bothering with numbers when your point is …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/16 12:09 PM
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It has to do with the terminology of "survivor" versus "victim". Many people who suffer and survive traumatic attacks, sexual or no, prefer the term "survivor" because "victim" makes them seem powerless and weak. I'm agnostic on the issue. I describe myself both as a survivor or a victim of sexual abuse interchangeably, but the vocabulary matters to some people and is important for their sense of self worth after something like that happening. For me, I don't see the word "victim" as disempoweri…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/16 03:36 AM
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So you just told us that despite having a muscle car you still didn't pull women. So so alpha, the tingles, wow.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/01/16 12:59 AM
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Haha "if/when work hard enough." totes alpha!!
/r/MarriedRedPill16/01/16 12:56 AM
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I'd like to know why redpillers are using SJ concepts like "shaming" in the first place. Shouldn't a true alpha be immune to such "shaming"?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/15 03:52 PM
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I'm a Blue Piller and I think it's fake. I think it's written by someone who has some sympathy for Red Pill guys and wants BPers to lighten up on them, but who himself doesn't truly hold RP ideas either. It's a strange fantasy troll, really.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/15 03:47 PM
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No, the point of "privilege" is to be aware that you cannot perceive (or at least, will not initially perceive) disadvantages and issues that underprivileged people have in relation to yourself. It has nothing to do with shame. People who act like it does are misusing the concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/15 07:10 PM
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Regardless you're very wrong about sexual culture in Munich.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/14 07:49 AM
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Wut are you even talking about Munich btw has a huge libertine streak, because it's pretty much the only city in southern German with a serious college/international vibe, but it sits smack dab in the middle of otherwise conservative Southern Germany. Munich is where freaks from the region go to get their freak on. Until they wise up and just move to Berlin like anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/14 10:25 PM
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Yeah, I mean redpillers will call me delusional, but I've never dated a guy who's cared about my sexual history in any other sense than "I hope she likes sex/likes this particular sexual act/etc". I've dated lots of guys and been in long-term (i.e. Longer than 5 years) relationships and am married now. My partner count was definitely above average for my age at the time I got into those relationships, too. I mean, I guess conservative Christian guys might care or something but I've never dated t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/14 10:10 PM
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you basically asserted that women and men are the same in your original post here. what you describe as a "red pill man" and "a slut" are the same. i know my marriage ins't for everyone, i don't push open/poly relationships, i think they're quite hard to handle for most people. my husband and i are both sluts, but we know we'd happily go monogamous for the other if someone wanted to shut it all down. Celebrating our 10th anniversary in a few months, can't wait! I make him a real breakfast every …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/14 12:01 AM
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my doctor says i'm in great health, i walk 5 miles a day every day, sometimes 10, hike up mountains. but i like beer and cheese, so i'm fat. don't really care, guys seem ok with it enough for lots of awesome sex, and i doubt you are actually concerned with my cardiovascular health.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/14 11:54 PM
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nothing is wrong with that except your worldview. marriage isn't for everyone. me, i love being married. i adore my husband. the open relationship is cool but i'd be fine with not having it in a second. but redpillers say all women want to cheat. which isn't true, but you guys believe that. i'm saying IF you believe that, what is wrong with open relationships? it's not cheating if everyone knows about it and you're all cool with it. there are a million women out there who have no interest in eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/14 11:44 PM
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what's the downside? he can fuck whomever he wants, while having a wife who cooks, cleans, does the household shopping, and brings in some money herself, and is always sexually available. but you know, if he wants to, he can go fuck someone else. by redpill standards, that would be called 'living the dream' except for redpill insecurity around women fucking other guys. which you're all obsessed with anyway. if all women are always gonna fuck a guy with a higher SMV, wouldn't it make sense to say…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/14 11:26 PM
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Yeah he clocks in at 160, that huge fatty.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/14 11:24 PM
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he can have sex with skinnier women if he wants, though. and i make carnitas for him. sounds pretty win-win to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/14 01:38 AM
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I'm a fat 34 year old in a non-monogamous marriage. Definition of "the wall" right? It's working pretty great. Awesome relationship with my husband, but if some guy gives me the gina tingles, I can pursue it. And my husband gets all the sex he wants, within and outside the relationship as well. TBH it's win win, but Terpers can't see that because of their fundamental deep insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/14 12:31 AM
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Ok, good luck finding that virgin who is cool with your misogyny. Your unicorn is out there!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/14 11:54 PM
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From what I've witnessed, personally, many - if not most - couples who decide to try poly tend to be socially awkward nerdy types who were each other's "firsts" and either got together or married quite young. Several years - or even a decade - into the relationship (think "7 year itch") one or both start wondering about being with other people and they decide - or one decides and the other is forced to - open up the relationship. It usually goes poorly, btw. Sometimes it's the choice of the man,…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/14 11:39 PM
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I use hamstering because it's accurate. You didn't actually address any of my points in a substantial way, you just reiteriated your own solipsistic thinking. You want a virgin, ergo, all men want virgins. It doesn't matter to me if you or all men want virgins or not, I'm married to the guy I intend to stay married to my entire life. His opinion of my past exploits is all that matters. You're the person who has to justify your viewpoint. If you want to marry a virgin, go ahead. I'm just saying y…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/14 11:35 PM
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It's not a cross section - again, it's at least a slight majorty of couples who come to polyamory report marrying young, being each others' firsts, and deciding to try polyamory to make up for what they 'missed'.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/14 11:07 PM
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You're hamstering. Guys weren't saying they didn't want to fuck virgins because I asked point blank, they were just talking amongst themselves. I get that you're into virgins. But for the typical dude these days, at least in the circles I've run in for the last 15 years, that's an abberation. I could ask my husband to tell you his opinion (he thought deflowering a virgin would be hot when he was himself a virgin/sexually inexperienced in college, found the idea more and more distasteful as he ag…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/14 11:05 PM
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There's not much advice to give a dead bedroom situation except to leave, because in the vast majority of cases, the "LL" (low libido partner) is happy with the relationship and doesn't want to "fix" their sex drive. It's only the "HL" (high libido) partner who is in crisis. So most of the advice is "leave", "cheat", or "resign yourself to near chastity". What advice would you suggest? Despite TERPers like you recommending MMSL and lifting, I have yet to see one guy who reported long-term bedroo…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/14 10:58 PM
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Sure, but based on my anecdata from dead bedrooms, you are increasing your chance of having a DB by marrying a virgin. This doesn't mean that all virgins end up being "LLs" as we call them (low libido partners) or that "sluts" can't end up as LLs either, but there is a pattern and it's comical to ignore it. I don't get the idea that blue pillers are advocating for some slutty utopia. I'm married, the sluttiness of other people doesn't affect me in particular. I just see a lot of sad, disillusion…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/14 10:54 PM
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The other half are people of varying genders who came to dead bedrooms from a vast array of different experiences. Yet at least 50% came to a dead bedroom from marrying a virgin or someone extremely sexually inexperienced. So one hand you have this diverse group of people from all walks of life, and on the other you have this slight majority who all have stories that sound exactly the same. I think that's telling. It's not that marrying an experienced woman will prevent a dead bedroom, but marry…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/14 10:49 PM
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What does not being done with university have to do with being a virgin? College is where you're supposed to lose your virginity tbh. Someone who comes through that period of life a virgin probably has something wrong with them, in my view. They're not maturing in an age-appropriate way for our society. I hear Redpillers claiming that A LOT of guys want virgins, but I've been friends with LOTS of guys my entire life, and I've never know any guy IRL past the age of 18 who wanted a virgin. All the…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/14 10:46 PM
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Given that outside TRP no one wants to deal with a virgin over 20, because it's often a sign of undesirability, emotional stundtedness, extreme religious views, or a lack of interest in sex, I doubt very much many women 18+ are lying about being a virgin. Most guys don't find that a plus these days, just TERPers and insecure dudes who are inexperienced themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/14 07:44 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/14 07:38 PM
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I'm a mod at /r/deadbedrooms. I'd say fully half of the people there who are experiencing acute emotional pain and trauma due to lake of intimacy in their relationship are those that are each other's "firsts" or at least hooked up very young, with little relationship or sexual experience. There are a ton of things that lead to a dead bedroom. The factors are complex and they change. But over and over and over, the slight majority seem to share a similar story - were high school sweethearts (r ea…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/14 11:33 PM
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I live in Germany. I think most people here would raise their eyebrows at a 30 year old guy dating an 18 year old woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/14 04:35 PM
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Oh trust me, I don't think lifelong monogamy is a particularly viable solution. I'm in an open marriage myself. I think Capitalism and Communism make a good analogy for monogamy/non-monogamy. Both are just systems to deal with a fundamental human problem. Both are flawed. Depending on the individual, one system may work better than the other, but it's rare either is going to be perfect. There's plenty of evidence that humans did evolve to pair bond and be somewhat socially monogamous/polygynous …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/14 02:36 PM
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There are a lot of implied shoulds. The book is not just full of logical fallacies, but also a terrible representation of the very data that Ryan claims supports his basic thesis. "Sex at Dusk" is an excellent, if dull, examination of the studies Ryan uses to support his ideas.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/14 08:29 PM
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Bonobos also practice genital rubbing between related adults and juveniles. And most of their "sex" is non-orgasmic humping for a few minutes. Clearly sex has a social-bonding and soothing mechanism for bonobos that doesn't apply to human behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/14 10:56 AM
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Yeah, the "Sex at Dawn" argument claims that we are bonobos so we should have sex like them. Which would apparently involve genital rubbing between related adults and children? Christopher Ryan picks and chooses what he likes about bonobo behavior and a couple of Amazonian tribes and ignores the evidence that goes against his thesis.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/14 10:54 AM
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Um, go to any cuckholding sub? Or /r/hotwife? LOTS of couples make this fantasy a reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/14 01:52 PM
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I do enjoy me some Nate Silver. Like I said, I think it's hard to predict the presidential race this far out. A magical viable Republican candidate may emerge in the next two years. In 2006 I didn't think Obama was a viable candidate, that's for sure. But as things stand now, Chris Christie was the last hope for a Republican presidential win in 2016, and that's probably dead now. Even he might have not been able to get through the primaries, thanks to the significant money in the party that hate…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/14 12:58 AM
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How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/14 12:42 AM
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I agree that the midterms will matter, but the only person on the list you mention who is remotely electable is Jeb and I don't think he's running. Ryan hurt Romney. Old people vote, and old people like their social security. Ryan is out in the primaries. Rubio is too socially conservative for the mainstream. Scott Walker hates unions too much to be mainstream. Jindal makes Romney look charasmatic. The Republicans don't have a decent candiate for 2016. If they did, I'd be worried but they just d…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/14 12:31 AM
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It's 2014. Name a potential Republican candidate who can play to the mainstream. There was one, but his aspirations for 2016 are dead now thanks to bridgegate.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/14 12:14 AM
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Half of the people in SRS reject the label feminist because it's too 'privileged'. it's not representative. tbh privilege and intersectionatlity are real things that do matter, but the way they are applied by SJWs are simplistic and bullying.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/14 12:08 AM
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2016 will be a slam dunk for democrats because the republicans don't have a well known viable candidate. Every person who is popular on the right will have to appease the tea party and extreme social conservatives, which make them distasteful for moderates.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/14 05:29 PM
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I'm just a little bit older than you and I was shocked that the 2008 race went down to Clinton and Obama. I had a much more dim view of the American populace then and didn't think we were non-sexist or non-racist enough to elect either one of them. I was happy to be proven wrong. The 80s and to a lesser degree, the 90s were a time of cultural backlash against the second wave of feminism, (and the beginning of the third wave) and I think a lot of the sexist stuff flying around Hillary then had to…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/14 05:28 PM
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SRS does not represent feminism, it represents a tiny segmsent of SJW culture gone completely around the bend. Most of my real life friends are people who actually work in the fields of social justice and identify as feminists, queer or queer allies, etc and when I try to explain the weirdness of stuff I've seen on SRS they have no idea what I'm even talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/14 05:24 PM
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I don't see a lot of RPers in relationships. Some of them are having sex, which is good for them I guess, but it's not the same as a relationship. Y'all are kidding yourselves if you think your SMV keeps increasing forever, y'know.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/14 05:08 PM
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Sure. I don't buy that redpillers are having better relationships. More? Maybe. But better? Nah son.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/14 12:33 PM
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Well there is the new sub /r/letsgetlaid or whatever it is. I haven't read it yet but I who look forward to participating soon. I think most guys who end up in TRP are lonely and frustrated, sure. But externalizing that instead of dealing with your own issues is a piss poor way to go about having relationship success.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/14 01:15 AM
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Online? 2 in general. I don't think it's likely I'd change a redpiller's mind through internet debate. (lol why am I here?!) In real life? If a guy I didn't think was a jerk was getting involved in RP thinking, I'd try to debate with him because I think it's pretty damaging for men and their potential relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/14 11:48 AM
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This is great but you're wasting your effort here tbqh.
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/14 09:59 PM
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Lol value ends at 30. Good to know.
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/14 01:02 AM
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