| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 119 | ✨How I realised if he wanted to he would is true ✨You are an amazing friend. I hope your cramps get better soon. Have a good day.💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 09:21 AM |
| 59 | Violence against women in movies and TV? Oh, it's just for the realism effect!Same here. For the past 1 year, I have only watched Kdramas. But there are so many dramas where they show women running after men who are clearly so not interested in them. And idk why they depict men as some hot shit where all the women around them are endlessly fawning over them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/21 06:03 AM |
| 464 | When you can’t handle rejection. Wait until the endOkay this is fucking scary. We can’t do mundane shit without getting harassed. More than dating, I worry about what to say when rejecting men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 03:17 PM |
| 23 | Conservative men can be so misogynistic that I can no longer tell the difference between reality and satire.The audacity from someone who looks like he’s growing pubes on his face. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 08:22 PM |
| 75 | A man who loves you should be able to explain what he loves about you SPECIFICALLY. It’s a red flag if he is generic about your qualitiesHis worse than lukewarm response has me dying here. Yes, dump him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 10:23 PM |
| 44 | Pickme actress assumes “dropped charges” = innocent man 🙄Ew ew ew I used to like Ed ages ago🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 08:40 PM |
| 185 | He still keeps sex vids of him and his ex but going through his phone is the bigger violation of trust... 🤡Can people stop taking advice from influencers😭 she can’t get it out of her head for the right reasons. I wish women would stop discounting their feelings. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 12:21 PM |
| 110 | Why are the comments saying this is cute?!I’ve literally seen so many pickmes thinking it is okay for their bf to call them “bitch” or any other curse words for fun. Yeah sure honey he totally doesn’t mean it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 06:07 PM |
| 85 | Always be on your guard around men, and learn to spot hidden cameras!Men will rather look at videos of women recorded without their consent, women they have no chance of meeting in real life. But God forbid if they have to work on themselves and actually love a woman. Looking forward to your post.💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 01:10 PM |
| 125 | Always be on your guard around men, and learn to spot hidden cameras!Oh man, the hidden cameras thing makes me so anxious. I’ll find myself randomly reevaluating past encounters to wonder if I’ve ever been recorded. Men really don’t know the kind of world we battle every single day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 12:56 PM |
| 5 | Ugh, expect?I nearly spat out my tea😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 12:30 PM |
| 9 | Reddit hates women who say size matters.You are absolutely right. No more coddling, only spitting facts and moving on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/21 05:19 AM |
| 52 | Reddit hates women who say size matters.Yasss go get it 👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/21 01:02 PM |
| 189 | Reddit hates women who say size matters.Absolutely. When I was a pickme I used to say size doesn’t matter even though I didn’t mean it. We’re taught to be always cautious about hurting men’s feelings. But men are brutal about nitpicking and tearing down women’s confidence so fuck em. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/21 12:56 PM |
| 821 | Reddit hates women who say size matters.Meanwhile I come across at least one “boobs or ass guy” comment on front page of reddit every day and nobody seems to downvote those🙄 because of course women can’t have standards or preferences | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/21 11:33 AM |
| 2 | Why do I have the feeling this story is incredibly common.. especially in quarantine?Let’s take a moment to weep for all these ladies putting up with raising man babies 👶 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 07:04 PM |
| 93 | Guys take exception when the girls fawn over pop/Kpop Idols and consider the same as detrimental to a relationship. Imagine how bad porn and only fans are - they know the stars by name and spend money on them.I’ve had this happen to me when I used to mention I liked Harry Styles. Men would lose their shit saying he’s “girly” meanwhile their “manly” ass can’t even be bothered to apply moisturizer to their flaking skin😒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 04:24 PM |
| 21 | In India, they have all female carriages on trains to protect women from scrotes. In this instance, scrotes infiltrated the ladies carriage. This was the result.EXACTLY 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 10:34 AM |
| 82 | In India, they have all female carriages on trains to protect women from scrotes. In this instance, scrotes infiltrated the ladies carriage. This was the result.That’s a kind of punishment that some teachers use on students in school😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 08:16 AM |
| 2 | The Most HVM character shown on TV! Captain Ri(Hyun Bin)❤️I finished it yesterday and it’s so good. It was refreshing to see a male lead that’s non problematic. Hope you have a great time watching it. 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 09:09 PM |
| 19 | The Most HVM character shown on TV! Captain Ri(Hyun Bin)❤️Crash Landing On You. It’s available on Netflix. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 06:10 AM |
| 5 | Imagine wanting to take multiple girls for coffee and not even being able to pay for it and then complaining about women using men in the comments. What a scrote. The pickmeishas in the comments are even woseI didn’t comply with what he asked. But yeah I did stick around for a week or two and then he ghosted me😂🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 04:56 PM |
| 21 | Imagine wanting to take multiple girls for coffee and not even being able to pay for it and then complaining about women using men in the comments. What a scrote. The pickmeishas in the comments are even woseOh yes. This one guy got me chocolates for my birthday and he insisted that I give him a hand job or a bj in the car WHILE driving to the restaurant. While driving. Can you imagine😭😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 01:13 PM |
| 150 | Imagine wanting to take multiple girls for coffee and not even being able to pay for it and then complaining about women using men in the comments. What a scrote. The pickmeishas in the comments are even woseThis whole 50/50 is such a big scam. Before I found FDS, I split the bill on ALL my dates. ALL. I was conditioned into thinking that if you don’t split the bill, men will think you’re a gold digger and won’t respect you. Funny how I had to learn the hard way that splitting the bill won’t make them respect you either 🤡 and let’s be real these men didn’t have any gold for me to dig anyway😂 I always told men to not spend too much money on gifts because I‘ll be happy getting just a box of chocolates… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 06:45 AM |
| 16 | Woman has ONS with ex. He totally asked for consent except when she woke up to him groping her. She acknowledges that he won’t date her but instead relives handing his hand.I just woke up and this is the first thing I see🤮🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 06:12 AM |
| 109 | Woman has ONS with ex. He totally asked for consent except when she woke up to him groping her. She acknowledges that he won’t date her but instead relives handing his hand.Oh boy this is a dumpster fire. Men will never pass up on free sex. I hope sis finds her way to us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 09:32 PM |
| 294 | Woman has ONS with ex. He totally asked for consent except when she woke up to him groping her. She acknowledges that he won’t date her but instead relives handing his hand.I wouldn’t want to be the one to break it to her that one night stands don’t mean you’re desirable. Don’t give men this much credit. They will fuck anything. They fuck sandwiches for crying out loud. Also it is so fucking sad that a guy asking for consent and making sure you’re okay is making her so grateful. I don’t blame her because yeah guys can’t be bothered to do the bare minimum. The whole thing is just sad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 09:27 PM |
| 2 | Even male porn stars lose their ability to have natural erections, to the point where first they begin injecting their dicks and then they have to have a surgical implant to have erections! (NSFW audio interview - subject matter begins around the 24 minute mark).Someone hold me please. Implants?? Injections?? I only knew about viagra😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 09:12 PM |
| 51 | Thoughts on changing your name when you get married?Same. I don’t want to have children so I don’t have to worry what name will they take. Don’t want the hassle of changing names on paperwork. Also if you get divorced, you gotta change it again. Doesn’t sound like a good deal to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 05:08 PM |
| 279 | We need more kink shamingThis is disgusting.🤮 On another note, I was browsing a sub and just came across this guy asking for tips about how to hire an escort. Heavily upvoted. Most men throwing around advise on how to go about it. There was just one person who asked this guy why did he want to do it. His reply was this his gf won’t participate in his kinks that’s why.🤡🤮 how demented are they?!? He said he can hire someone to fuck but not to love. If you really love your gf wtf are you doing paying for sex in the middle … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 07:30 PM |
| 2 | Let’s normalize calling scrote behavior for what it is! Manipulation, abuse, and liesI didn’t want to burden you by asking for sources but I’m so glad that you attached them. Thank you so much. I was thinking of getting my pubic hair lasered off once the pandemic dies down. Now I’m not so sure. Do you think using a trimmer would be a safe option? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 06:49 PM |
| 15 | Let’s normalize calling scrote behavior for what it is! Manipulation, abuse, and liesOh and I just learned you can catch MRSA and staph second hand from women who wax their assholes. I had no idea👀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 07:16 AM |
| 20 | Men and their hygiene, or lack of itAfter reading all those tweets about skidmarks and poop I am so glad that we use water to clean ourselves in India🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/21 07:00 PM |
| 36 | Peyronie's Disease (Permanently Bent Penis)Hahahahaha omg | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 02:07 PM |
| 66 | Peyronie's Disease (Permanently Bent Penis)...I thought that’s just how some dicks are shaped naturally😳 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 02:06 PM |
| 9 | /!\Ladies this situation right here, is why we need to cut toxic women out of our lives and vet our female friends too/!\Please tell me this is a troll because wtf. How do you stay friends with someone for 12 fucking years who doesn’t believe in labelling “friendship”. Wtf. This is the first time I’m hearing something like this. Ladies we have standards, and yes those standards apply to friends. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 09:22 AM |
| 60 | I said what I said.I agree. Imagine having kids with a guy who sexualises you as a little girl and probably other women too🤮 this is why I keep an eye out on men’s behaviour around children. Fuck pedos. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/21 08:56 AM |
| 33 | I said what I said.I love this space. Thank you.❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/21 07:25 AM |
| 94 | I said what I said.I didn’t know what is DDLG and I googled it. Just gonna go vomit real quick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/21 06:43 AM |
| 58 | Liberal feminism has turned women into doormatsOh man the “cool girl” trope. It has destroyed so many lives. I used to be a cool girl too. Very chill, easy going “non toxic”. What does it get ya? Lifetime worth of therapy🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 01:34 PM |
| 30 | Hi everyone I am new here.I feel one day humanity will look back to this period and wonder why the fuck were “what are you doing step bro” jokes so normalised. I know incest has been going on for a long long time but I don’t think it has ever been this trivialised that almost every top post on reddit has at least one highly awarded incest joke. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 06:06 PM |
| 42 | But if we say these porn-fried brained, repellent scrotes have absolutely lost it, we are wrong? (TW: necrophilia, rape)I feel sick to my stomach. This is the most depraved shit I’ve seen in a long time. I don’t have words. Besides the fact that those comments are absolute garbage, how the hell are they so heavily upvoted??! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 05:59 PM |
| 2 | I think we struck a scrote nerve 😈🤣THANK YOU❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 05:23 PM |
| 17 | I think we struck a scrote nerve 😈🤣The number of men that I have encountered who are a 0 but want a woman who is a 10 is astounding | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 03:49 PM |
| 26 | I think we struck a scrote nerve 😈🤣Notice how society keeps telling us to give unattractive men a chance because “pErSoNaLitY” even though they have neither. But any woman who does not meet the societal standards of what is attractive is supposed to be insulted. The whole thing is a scam. Edit: oh my fucking god i got a flair!!! I GOT A FLAIR!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 03:47 PM |
| 10 | Maybe I'm old, but I just don't understand. Why send nudes?I was 17. He was 18. I only sent them once (face was not visible). But I was coerced into it. He kept asking for nudes for weeks, if not months. One night when I was feeling low and he pressured again, I gave in. I am 22 now and it still haunts me. I will never do it again. Not even when I’m married. Any man who asks me for a nude, will be blocked and deleted in a second. Now coming to why it happens. In my case it was definitely low self esteem. I genuinely thought that’s what I deserved. Almos… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 06:17 AM |
| 13 | I dumped my HVM.Men are never called high maintenance for having standards in their relationships or for being career driven. You did nothing wrong. Your level of confidence is what I aspire to have. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 08:54 PM |
| 14 | Spin off: how to tell if a man has a small dickOkay, I have a question. I’ve never encountered a micropenis before. Most have been average or above average. But if I do encounter a small penis, mostly likely I would be turned off. So how do I approach this calmly? I don’t want to have pity sex but idk how would I turn the guy down | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 05:48 PM |
| 8 | Why comparing small dicks with small boobs is a massive false equivalenceHave big boobs and can confirm. Guys can’t wrap their heads around the fact that majority of natural big boobs eventually do sag. There’s no way around it. On some days I wish I had smaller boobs but then I realise that I still won’t have it any easier and would still get criticised for it. Just can’t win. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 05:33 PM |
| 32 | We all know it. If he wanted to, he WOULD.I think this post just restored my faith in humanity a little | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 02:57 PM |
| 11 | ‘Studies’ showing dad bods are more attractive to womenBeen there, done that. Huge mistake.🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 11:09 PM |
| 41 | I dated a Softboi so you don’t have to!Dated one of these. He was short and fat. Smoked a lot. But he was quite handsome, funny and said all the right things. I was so attracted to him because he really did seem like he cared about women in general. Was okayish in bed. But yeah few weeks in and I started noticing some mansplaining, him taking 2-3 days to text me. Me always asking him if he is free after work. Oh man, it was definitely a low point for me. I should have never went out with him. I was 19 and he was 26. But at that time … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 06:55 PM |
| 4 | The Empathetic i Am oN yOuR sIdE Male1000 bucks says the woman’s black and white thinking was probably calling out his cheating ass. And his grey thinking was “but babe I was drunk. I totally didn’t mean it.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 01:04 PM |
| 1 | Oh my, this just so terrible. He does not love her. She was doing all the child rearing and working 2 jobs, meanwhile he was hiding his luxuries. Always stay vetting.So we basically just gotta vet every man till the day we die. Got it. Sounds fun. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 05:50 PM |
| 63 | “I am a piece of sh*t, but it’s not *completely* intentional”Couple of years ago this guy that I really liked ended up treating me like shit. When I called him out on it he had the balls to say some shit like “babe I only did that because you are so good and I am so scared of falling in love with you. You are not the kind of girl that one just hooks up with. You are the kind that one marries.” I wanted to puke all over his face. Classic manipulation 101 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 05:48 PM |
| 40 | Woman asks men who are into exploiting their wives sexually for other men (wife sharing etc) why they enjoy it, gets this response. Imagine seeing your wife as a sex toy that’ll earn you brownie points with The Boys.Porn definitely destroys whatever limited brain cells they have. Imagine getting off of someone else having sex with your wife instead of having sex with her yourself. This is insanity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 05:43 PM |
| 8 | The first time a new guy takes 24H+ to text, call, or reach out in any form? Don't bother acting chill, move on.I am going to save this post. I left my pickme days behind me 2 years ago but I still have trouble with this one. Idk why but it’s been ingrained in me to see the good in people in the beginning to give them a chance. But this post has opened my eyes. I shouldn’t be making excuses for someone else’s behaviour. Thank you for this.❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 10:02 AM |
| 2 | Is always skipping foreplay a red flag?That is a big fucking red flag. A person who doesn’t care about your pleasure or you having a good time, doesn’t deserve a minute of your attention. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 02:19 PM |
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