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I second the idea of dating older men. I too attended a well-known party school (graduated in May), but I ended up meeting a wonderful man on a dating website (OkCupid). I'm 22, and he is 35, and we actually just got married a few weeks ago! So I recommend going for older guys and trying out online dating.
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/14 12:52 AM
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My fiance and I follow the same diet, so whatever I make for dinner on a given night, we both eat. Our diet is a bit unconventional (i.e., there are many foods we avoid), so I can't just look up a recipe on Pinterest that looks yummy and serve that for dinner. Therefore, we tend to eat a rotation of the same meals every week (recipes that I've collected and/or modified), and if we get bored of a particular meal, then I'll just sub in a different pre-approved recipe for awhile. This works for us,…
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/14 11:36 PM
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Basically anything he asks me to do, lol. But things I do of my own accord include stopping by his office with snacks he likes, running errands for him, occasionally buying him small gifts, leaving him love notes and/or cute little drawings, preparing snacks and drinks for him whenever he asks, etc.
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/14 08:27 PM
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I have a variety of childlike attributes, including my voice. I used to hate it, but my fiance has told me that he likes it, so I don't worry about it anymore. I just figure that the things that make me seem younger than I am now will help me maintain a youthful appearance as I age, which certainly isn't a bad thing!
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/14 08:17 PM
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22, engaged (getting married in August), cohabiting. On weekdays, I wake up at 6:30, cook breakfast (scrambled eggs, orange juice, and coffee), then wake my fiance up. We then eat breakfast while watching a recorded episode of Judge Judy, LOL! I take him to work shortly after 8, and then, since I just graduated and it's summer, the rest of my day is pretty open. My current job is something I can do from home, so I work whenever I want. The rest of the day I clean, cook, work on wedding planning,…
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/14 10:32 PM
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We eat exactly the same thing, and I prepare all of the meals. We follow a somewhat unconventional diet, which he has researched extensively, so when he decided to subscribe to our current diet, I decided to try it as well, both because I trust him and because it is simply easier for us to eat the same things as a cohabiting couple.
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/14 09:06 PM
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I'll definitely give oxygen bleach a go. :)
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/14 01:13 PM
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Hmm, I may try that!
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/14 01:11 PM
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So do the magic erasers get rid of hard water stains and soap scum?
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/14 03:18 AM
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Yes, we are renting. My fiance spoke to the landlord today about cleaning the grout, and they just handed him a toilet cleaner that they use to clean it. However, we were a bit turned off by the fact that it can cause "irreversible eye damage", and we didn't want to have our bare feet come into contact with any residue that might remain in the grout, so we returned it to them. If they would be willing to regrout the floor, though, that would certainly be ideal! Sponge-wise, I'm use a scrub brush…
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/14 02:07 AM
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By harsh chemicals, I mean that I prefer not to use cleaning products that I couldn't directly consume. Is peroxycarbonate powder oxygen bleach? I read that oxygen bleach can be effective for cleaning grout, but that chlorine bleach should not be used because it will corrode the ground (and since I'm renting, I don't want to cause any damage).
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/14 02:02 AM
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I have a steamer on our wedding registry, and I hope someone gets it for us!
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/14 02:00 AM
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Haha, I just mean that I would prefer not to use any products that I couldn't directly consume.
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/14 02:00 AM
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I'm with you. I'm 22, but I prefer not to be completely bare. My SO doesn't care one way or the other, luckily. My skin is just so sensitive to withstand shaving down there. I do keep it trimmed nice and short though, and tend to my bikini line when it's visible. Edited to say that I do get my butt area waxed when I can afford it--the hair back there really irks me, and shaving that area can be tricky.
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/14 10:17 PM
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Has anyone read her book? I'm Jewish, so obviously the usage of scripture doesn't add any value for me, but I'm curious about the content. For $3.99, it wouldn't be a huge loss if I didn't like it, but still.
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/14 01:04 PM
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Definitely. Thank you, I appreciate the advice. :)
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/14 01:00 PM
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I gotcha. But does being uncomfortable mean that we should never do it? (Just in terms of the general RP viewpoint)
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/14 05:53 PM
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I definitely see what you're saying. It's certainly something I feel conflicted about. Wouldn't you say that the sense of jealousy it would create is healthy, though (at least to an extent)?
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/14 01:40 PM
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Right, I agree, and I know it's natural--I just meant irrational in the sense that we have a very good relationship and it would be very unlikely for those things to happen. However, it seems like many other women, including RP women, are more comfortable with the idea of threesomes than I am, and I would like to reach that point eventually, but right now the idea gives me great anxiety.
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/14 01:25 PM
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I definitely agree that telling your man about your lesbian sexual exploits and then denying it to him is completely unfair. However, when I think about the idea of having threesomes with my fiancee, I feel conflicted. As someone else said, I am probably on the "straight side of bi"--I am attracted to women, but I would never ever date one, and in regards to sex, I don't think I would feel completely satisfied if there wasn't a cock involved. I don't have that much sexual experience with women, …
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/14 01:09 PM
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Unfortunately, my wardrobe is pretty small right now, as I've lost 20+ pounds over the past several months. Not only that, but I'm rather frugal and very picky when it comes to clothing, so I only buy items that I really love and that I feel are worth the money. So with my current wardrobe, and since I'm a college student who does a good bit of walking, I normally wear something comfy but cute, like tight yoga pants or leggings, a fitted tank top or T-shirt, and maybe a fitted zip-up hoodie, or …
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/14 10:42 PM
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Thank you! And three months from now I'll be married! :) :) :)
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/14 10:58 PM
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I am young, attractive, and thin, but I very rarely get cat-called or openly hit on. I do catch guys looking at me, but that's a little different. Regardless, I have never been offended by male attention of this sort--it does make me blush, though! I also have a tendency to automatically avert my eyes when I make eye contact with a guy who is looking at me, for some reason. Not that that's a problem, as I am happily engaged to be married!
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/14 08:58 PM
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Next week is finals week, and because all of mine are at the end of the week, I will have a four-day weekend coming up. I plan on making a Spanish tortilla for dinner one night, which is a delicious, simple egg and potato dish (well, simple in terms of the ingredients--it can be tricky to make). I spent some time living with a family in Spain a couple summers ago, and they showed me how to make it--I've been meaning to do it myself ever since! I want to do it during the weekend so that if I scre…
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/14 04:17 PM
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He is kind of arrogant sometimes, but he seems alpha to me.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/14 12:37 AM
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I personally like Kim's face the best, though I acknowledge that a good bit of it has been professionally sculpted! Kourtney is very attractive, though, and I prefer her body to Kim's. Also love her husband--Scott seems like a classy guy!
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/14 04:27 PM
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I found my fiance at 20! Don't give up hope!
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/14 11:44 PM
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Haha, what a coincidence!
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/14 11:10 PM
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They were super good! My fiance raved about them. I used Alton Brown's recipe--highly rated and relatively easy.
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/14 04:18 PM
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Last weekend I made soft pretzels from scratch (a special treat, as my fiance and I don't normally eat flour): http://imgur.com/sIGO6Ik I apologize for the terrible quality of the photo--I assure you that the pretzels did not actually have a slightly green hue, lol. Blame it on the fluorescent lights in my crappy apartment kitchen. :P
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/14 04:08 PM
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Definitely. People my age are always surprised (and kind of weirded out!) when they find out how old my fiance is, or even just the fact that I'm engaged at this age.
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/14 11:34 AM
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We met on OkCupid, lol! Both of us were looking for something casual, but we ended up falling for each other, and I've never looked back!
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/14 11:31 AM
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Cute article. Perhaps I should write one about the benefits of being with an older man in your 20s, lol--I'm 22, my fiance is 35, and even though most people can't understand how we have anything in common, I couldn't imagine a more perfect match for me than him. I personally think college is the right time to search for a LTR. Fucking around makes very few women happy, and I would know, as I was rather promiscuous during high school and my early college years. Meeting my fiance was the best thi…
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/14 02:07 AM
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How many men do you see complaining about the "unrealistic" bodies of tall, muscular male models in advertisements? Zero. The whole "unrealistic standards" nonsense is due to the fact that many women love to complain, love to paint themselves as a victim, and would rather have everything (e.g., societal standards) modified to accomodate them and the extra 20 pounds they've been carrying around instead of actually taking the initiative to work on themselves (because that requires effort, somethin…
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/14 10:10 PM
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I will admit, I used to hook up a lot. I convinced myself that I was enjoying the casual sex and that I was perfectly happy with that kind of lifestyle. Now, though, after being turned onto TRP and finding a RP man who completes me (and who I will be marrying this summer!), I can see very clearly that I was using sex as a means to get attention and to temporarily boost my self-esteem. The average female is not cut out for a lifestyle of casual sex, because we naturally attach emotion to sex. So …
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/14 08:14 PM
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Like others have said, I don't think it's necessary to cook overly complex meals every night. Personally, I would save that kind of thing for the weekend. And then when you do cook fancy meals, it makes it more special if you're having that sort of thing every night. Additionally, meals don't have to be complicated to be healthy and delicious. Regarding getting ready: I may be in the minority here, but I have a very small wardrobe, and that is for a variety of reasons...1) I have lost a good amo…
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/14 03:43 PM
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My fiance and I also eat a very specific, highly regulated diet that involves avoiding most grains and eating mostly organic foods. We avoid a lot of other foods as well, which I won't go into, but like your situation, it means that I make most of our food myself and that we don't eat out very often. For us, one time saver is that we tend to eat the same things every week. We have found recipes that work for our diet and that aren't overly complicated (I'm attending school full time, so I don't …
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/14 03:34 PM
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I don't really like skirts, for some reason, but I do love dresses and prefer them to pants or shorts. Plus, I consider dresses to be economical--with a dress, you only need one item of clothing, but with a skirt, you also need a top.
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/14 01:49 PM
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Do you mean "no mess" in the sense that the blood just gets washed away? Still, I feel like my SO would not be into seeing my menstrual blood all over his man parts, even if the shower washed it away moments after. How exactly does this work? I've never tried it, obviously.
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/14 01:07 AM
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Getting new spring clothing, as I've lost a good bit of weight and nothing fits me anymore! Also, enjoying my recent engagement! :)
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/14 08:09 PM
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Yup, I just use it like a 2-in-1--I massage my scalp and distribute it along the length of my hair to the ends. I'm not sure, but perhaps the kind of conditioner you use could make a difference. I use Jason Fragrance Free Pure Natural Daily Conditioner (it's like $7 at Wegmans), because it doesn't contain any harsh chemicals or unnecessary ingredients.
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/14 12:38 PM
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I actually have oily hair as well! If I don't wash it, it usually looks gross by the end of the day (though as of late it has been improving slightly). Conditioner has been working very well for me! Shampoo contains detergents that strip your hair of its natural oils, and when you do that, your hair is going to try to compensate by producing more oil, so if you want your hair to become less oily, you have to stop getting rid of the oils you're already producing!
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/14 01:23 AM
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I agree with the point that /u/ddrluna made that the author is not considering that the ideals expressed in those ads were normal and acceptable during that time period. However, just because the ads' messages do not match the social norms that most people subscribe to currently doesn't make them inherently wrong, as the author so melodramatically suggests. Her exaggeration and obvious solipsistic tendencies are rather annoying. Personally, I think most of the ads are cute and are meant to be a …
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/14 04:54 PM
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Yes x 100.
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/14 11:50 PM
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Ah okay. That makes more sense.
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/14 03:11 PM
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Pretty good piece, though I don't necessarily agree that more education = a better woman. Perhaps I'm misinterpreting her message, but that idea just made me think of the women who make obtaining a doctorate and establishing a career their priority, then reach their mid-thirties and still think they deserve to have it all and that the quality men should be flocking to them and kissing their feet.
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/14 01:56 PM
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I don't necessarily use it every day--only when my legs feel dry (which is almost every day during the winter). I shower in the morning, and I just use a little bit, rub it into my hands until it melts, then pat it all over the length of my leg and rub it in. I've never had an issue getting my clothes or sheets dirty, so you may be using too much. You don't necessarily need to feel or see it on your legs for it to have absorbed. I use Spectrum organic refined coconut oil--perhaps the brand makes…
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/14 01:04 PM
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I have tried dry shampoo, but it doesn't seem to help that much. My hair stylist told me that I need to continue to periodically skip washing it, so that my hair "learns" to stop producing so much oil, and then after awhile I should be able to go longer and longer without washing it. Unfortunately, I'm only willing to sport slightly-gross hair on days where I'm not going anywhere/have nothing to do, which isn't that often, so I usually end up washing my hair every day. It's quite a predicament!
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/14 12:33 AM
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Agreed. How many gorgeous women do you see preaching feminist ideals? It's an attempt to make themselves feel more valuable, because they do not want to admit that a) they are not the most physically attractive individuals, and b) physical attractiveness is valued in our society.
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/14 10:31 PM
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I wash my hair with conditioner instead of shampoo, as it doesn't strip your hair's natural oils and is much gentler. I wish I didn't have to wash my hair every day, but by the end of the first day that I skip washing, it looks disgusting. :/ I use (refined) coconut oil to moisturize my legs, hands, lips, etc. I use it on my face occasionally, but if you use too much, it can cause breakouts for some people. A lot of people say to use the unrefined kind, but it can actually be allergenic for some…
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/14 07:59 PM
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When I mentioned this question to my boyfriend, he said that it would be silly for a guy to have a platonic relationship with a woman, because not only are you going to have to suppress your attraction to her, which can be annoying and stressful, but a platonic female friend just won't be as interesting or as enjoyable as a platonic male friend. And that's not supposed to be an insult--it's just the truth.
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/14 08:03 PM
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Even without having to explain the logical reasoning behind it, I think the answer lies in my visceral reaction to the thought of my man spending time with another woman: It makes me very uncomfortable. And the fact is, males and females who are taken should not hang out alone together simply as a preventative measure, because sometimes people make bad decisions!
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/14 05:24 PM
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Ah, well, if you have ample boobage, then by all means wear a sports bra!
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/14 05:56 PM
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Yoga pants sound good for all of the activities you mentioned. They are definitely my go-to item for doing something active. They really do wonders for the booty! As others have said, make sure your top and sneakers are in good condition. Unless I'm doing legitimate exercise, like going to the gym, I prefer not to wear sports bras, as they really flatten my breasts, so if I were you, I would wear a regular bra under a tank top or fitted t-shirt for this outing. Showing a little bit of cleavage c…
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/14 01:14 PM
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Maybe!
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/14 04:16 PM
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I will definitely have to check out some tutorials. And I was unaware that you're a hairstylist! Very cool. :)
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/14 10:45 PM
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I feel the opposite, actually! I am able to curl my hair with a flat iron, but they never look as good as when the hair stylist curls my hair. Maybe I should try it again, though--it has been awhile since I've attempted to style my hair that way.
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/14 08:43 PM
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I'm pretty awful at styling hair as well, so most days I just wear my hair down and let it air dry. My hair is slightly wavy, so it looks good that way. My hair, like yours, is also very fine, so if I straighten it, it lies very flat and looks awful. I don't really use any hair products, mainly because I'm very conscious of what I put on my skin. However, one thing that has helped me to have better volume is the fact that I don't use shampoo. I actually wash my hair with conditioner, which doesn…
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/14 05:35 PM
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My boyfriend and I rarely argue, and as someone else said, I try to be vigilant about regulating my own mood and behavior. However, when it comes to smaller transgressions, like leaving the cabinets open when he has reminded me not to do that, he will sometimes spank me! Mind you, this is intended to be playful, but he acts like he's legitimately upset with me, and I usually enjoy it, hehe...
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/14 05:24 PM
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My relationship seems to get better every day. Come March, we will have been together for a year and a half, and things are better than ever. We both acknowledge that we want to stay together as long as both parties continue to fulfill their role and obligations. I frequently fantasize about becoming his wife...it can't come soon enough!
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/14 05:11 PM
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Nice post. I love cooking for my man--it makes me feel good to see him enjoying something that I worked hard to create. I think people often insist that they don't have time to cook homemade meals, and so that's why they don't do it, but you simply have to make time. I am a busy college student, yet I cook dinner for my boyfriend and myself every night and prepare our breakfast each morning, in addition to our lunches on the weekends. There are plenty of other things I could be doing, but I prio…
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/14 04:42 PM
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I think she and Orlando have broken up, though, which makes me super sad!
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/14 11:16 PM
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Have you read the information linked to in the sidebar?
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/14 03:46 PM
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Interesting. I never thought of that. I assume you would have to use personal lubricant to lubricate yourself, though?
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/14 03:30 PM
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I always offer him blowjobs during that time, but I get anxious about the whole watching porn/masturbating thing that was discussed here recently.
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/14 12:36 PM
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I feel like there are so many couples these days who truly do not like each other and speak poorly of each other behind their SO's back, yet they stay together for some inexplicable reason. It's quite sad, really. Also, my boyfriend would not tolerate name-calling like that, nor would he think to speak of me that way.
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/14 10:35 PM
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I never thought of that. Unfortunately, my SO doesn't really like to have sex when I'm menstruating. :( I think it's a turn-off for him, and he figures that we can stand to wait, since we plan on being together indefinitely. I guess that's true, but unfortunately, I have the sex drive of a 16 year-old boy, LOL.
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/14 10:31 PM
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Oh wow! I don't like the cold, but that sounds super fun (and romantic)!
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/14 09:06 PM
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My boyfriend is a working man, while I'm still in college, so he didn't want me to spend any money on him for Valentine's Day. I agreed not to, which will make it a bit easier to get him an extra nice birthday present next month! He let me pick out a gift, and I selected an Italian moka pot (to make espresso-like coffee) and a steam wand, so now I can make lattes at home. Perfect gift, I think. I will be making a yummy dinner for us, consisting of filet mignon, mashed potatoes, champagne, and fl…
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/14 09:05 PM
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Same! Was hoping for hot sex and steak that day, but I think my lady parts will be unavailable, unfortunately. If both of us can't get off that day, then I will make sure that he does! ;)
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/14 08:59 PM
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No, that makes sense. Thanks. :)
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/14 03:00 AM
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This may be a stupid question, but are you asking that these questions be answered explicitly in the post, or just that they are considered while the person is composing their post?
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/14 02:23 AM
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Right. I don't think my SO or myself would ever let those things happen to us, so I don't worry about marriage changing things, but I think he might. :/
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/14 03:17 AM
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A question to consider: What do you ladies think of the notion that marriage can make a woman less attracted to her man? I've heard people say that the uncertainty of the boyfriend/girlfriend relationship can keep the female interested, but that when she knows she has the man to herself and he is no longer (technically) available to other women, that attraction wanes (i.e., a man with options is attractive).
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/14 03:03 AM
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I can totally relate to all of these feelings. Definitely creates an internal struggle.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/14 02:52 AM
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I long to marry my boyfriend. I used to be very into the idea of having a somewhat elaborate wedding with all the fixings, but as my relationship with my SO has developed, I've lost interest in the idea. Now, all I want is for my man to be my husband, wedding or no wedding. I'm pretty sure I think about it every day! He is reluctant to get married, as he was married once before, but his wife had an affair. I completely understand this, but I would hope that eventually he realizes that the last t…
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/14 02:48 AM
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I think it's true that most women do not know much about themselves. Self-awareness is a trait that your standard female does not possess inherently--it has to be cultivated. I think most of us RPW are more self-aware than your average woman, and we are always working on improving that aspect of ourselves. So I think those guys are assuming that you are just another standard women, because frankly, most women in our society do fall into that category. It makes more sense for them to assume that …
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/14 01:49 AM
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One thing that concerns and bothers me is when the woman on the right (the one in support of the fat princess) says that girls just want to have a role model that looks more "normal". I think that the general public's view of what is normal has been grossly distorted, and we now think that people who are actually overweight look perfectly fine. I would venture to say that that woman considers herself "curvy", when it's clear that she is overweight.
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/14 01:38 AM
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Whenever the topic of "fat acceptance" comes up, I always think about the fact that virtually no men complain about this--you don't see guys petitioning to have actors and models replaced with more "real" (i.e., overweight) versions. And furthermore, I can't imagine a woman saying that, based solely on physical appearance, she finds the man on the left more attractive than the man on the right, simply because the left is what "a real man looks like". And yet, many women try to force that idea on…
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/14 01:33 AM
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I agree with what /u/technologyneed said--that a lot of the men there have been screwed over by women, so their harsh generalizations are just part of them coping with their loss of illusions. With that said, though, I definitely understand your feelings. In fact, I was just over there reading a post from a guy about whether or not to marry his SO, and almost all of the comments were telling him not to get married, that even though he thinks this girl is special, she's not, he's only setting him…
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/14 01:18 AM
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I was just referring to the fact that you need both sperm and egg to make a baby, but what you said is true as well! :)
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/14 10:54 PM
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Well, I agree, but we need both parties to continue the species--all the more reason to try to live in harmony!
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/14 08:51 PM
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Agreed. Another problem is that many people refuse to accept that men and women are not unequal, just different, and there is nothing inherently wrong with that.
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/14 08:12 PM
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That is certainly a strange dichotomy...I just wish more people would accept that there's nothing wrong with men being men and women being women!
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/14 08:06 PM
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If he is interested in a LTR, he already knows it and will act accordingly. As for what you can do, I would suggest conveying to him that you don't plan on dating other people. Just a simple statement is sufficient: "Hey, I really like you, and I just want you to know that I don't plan on dating other people right now." That tells him that you want to be exclusive with him without making him feel pressured (i.e., "Where is this going?"). After you tell him that, if he wants you to be his girlfri…
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/14 01:59 PM
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I love how, when evidence is presented demonstrating that the wage gap is significantly influenced by males' and females' popular career choices, feminists feel compelled to refute that by asserting that they're being forced into those jobs because of sexist stereotypes. Do they ever admit when they're wrong??? It's exhausting. People need to acknowledge and accept their true nature as a man or a woman, and that said nature has a significant influence on their choices. Though there is nothing in…
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/14 02:31 AM
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Exactly.
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/14 10:04 PM
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Agreed. Your insurance analogy is spot-on.
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/14 08:36 PM
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I don't think the desire for a prenup equates to a lack of trust--it's about taking precautions.
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/14 08:27 PM
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Very well said.
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/14 08:18 PM
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My boyfriend was married for ten years--his wife had an affair and was still able to take a lot of their assets. I want to marry him, and though he believes in the idea of marriage, he is somewhat reluctant to marry again because of how his last relationship ended. We do plan on getting married, but only under the condition that we have an iron-clad prenup. I completely understand that desire, because he was screwed over in the past, and it's a fact that in our country, divorce laws favor women.…
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/14 08:16 PM
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I think an important part of a RP relationship is that the woman lets herself be a woman, the man lets himself be a man, and both individuals help to facilitate those roles for one another. One aspect of that idea, as others have said, is that the man leads the relationship. However, both individuals should be responsible for taking care of one another--but in ways that are appropriate for one's gender and resulting role in the relationship (i.e., captain vs. first mate). For the woman, this inc…
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/14 07:42 PM
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Agreed. Not to mention the fact that I have a significant case of "senioritis", which makes it difficult to motivate myself.
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/14 07:24 PM
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I would like to have a couple of female friends, but I attend school at one of the biggest party schools in the US, so the girls I'm surrounded by are not the kind of people I can relate to or want to spend my time with. It's rather unfortunate, but at the same time, my SO will always be my preferred companion.
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/14 04:41 PM
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I'm in my last semester of college, and though I'm only a few weeks in, I'm already feeling overwhelmed and stressed out by my workload. This week, I'm going to try to manage my time better so that I get everything done in a timely fashion and at a good pace. By doing this, I can avoid complaining to my SO and plaguing him with my stress-induced negative energy.
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/14 04:38 PM
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Obviously there are exceptions to the rule--you are good at being an engineer, but generally, women do not do well with traditionally male-oriented jobs, and when they do pursue them, they often end up unhappy. Because of this, when young girls are being exposed to conflicting messages about what their role as women should be, it may be helpful to try to steer them towards ideas that align with what is most likely their true nature.
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/14 09:03 PM
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My BF hates sports too. One of the many things I love about him! Although, both of us enjoy watching UFC, but we don't follow it religiously or anything.
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/14 05:15 PM
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Their lack of self-awareness is astounding--it's hard to believe that the women quoted in the article can't see their hypocracy. Well, actually, it's not hard to believe, since self-awareness appears to be a trait that women must cultivate in themselves, and clearly those women have not attempted to do so.
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/14 04:51 PM
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You're welcome. :) Sometimes you have to take the things they say there with a grain of salt.
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/14 03:51 PM
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I don't think they are literally saying that all women should be housewives and are only good for sex/household duties/rearing children. They are just using that "back to the kitchen" phrase to suggest that women need to stop trying to be men (because women and men are fundamentally different), and that women should focus on their strengths. For some, that means being a full-time housewife; for others, it's pursuing a more female-appropriate career (e.g., nursing, as opposed to engineering). I t…
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/14 03:47 PM
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No, it's not. You should read the FAQ that is currently posted on the main page. :)
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/14 02:47 PM
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Very good read that speaks the truth.
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/14 02:12 PM
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I'm 22 and my boyfriend is almost 35. Most people can't understand how we have anything in common, but we are highly compatible. I love the security and guidance that he is able to provide me, since he has already been through the stages of life that I'm going through. I hardly think about his age anymore, though--as they say, age is just a number!
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/14 04:24 AM
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Nope, no grill! I bring them to room temperature, season them with salt, pepper, and garlic powder, sear them over medium heat for four minutes per side (in a stainless steel skillet) with a little bit of coconut oil, then put them in the oven at 400 degrees for five minutes. After that, I use a meat thermometer to check the temperature (120-130 for medium). If they're not where I want them to be, I put them back in the oven for 2-3 minute intervals. Then when they've reached the desired tempera…
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/14 10:11 PM
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Solipsism is a new thing to me...I will have to look at the links listed in the FAQ that was posted recently.
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/14 08:36 PM
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Yummy! I make steaks once a week for me and my SO. I'm still working on perfecting my judgment of when they are done cooking, though. We are going to be having filet mignon for V-Day as a special treat, and I'm hoping I don't overcook them, because that's some pricey meat!
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/14 08:21 PM
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I'm super sensitive, too...I take things way too personally. I just read it because I want to understand the male perspective on various things--and I'm also just curious as to what they're discussing over there. But yeah, I usually end up feeling bad after!
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/14 08:17 PM
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You speak the truth. :)
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/14 08:14 PM
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I agree that it provides useful information, and that we are lucky to be able to read it. As I said in response to Margery, I tend to feel bad about myself when they speak poorly of women, even though I know I'm not one of the women of whom they are speaking. It's irrational, I know.
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/14 08:10 PM
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What are you trying to make, just out of curiosity?
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/14 08:08 PM
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Sounds like you will have a good time, too! Sexy outfit...ooh la la! ;)
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/14 08:07 PM
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It's not that I mind the honesty of it...I think it's more that when they speak negatively about women, it makes me feel bad, even though I know I'm not one of those women. Does that make sense?
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/14 08:07 PM
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Very true. I'm still working on trying not to take some of this stuff personally.
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/14 06:00 PM
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I'm aware of that. So I guess that's probably why it comes off as harsh, then.
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/14 05:49 PM
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I think making a special dinner is a great gift--that's what I'm doing for my SO. I know he appreciates the effort I put into cooking, and he loves my food, so it's a good gift for him. Plus, he understands that I am a college student on a budget, so he considers a home-cooked dinner to be a more reasonable gift from me than the virtual pinball machine on his wish list. :P
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/14 05:46 PM
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This will be the second Valentine's Day for me and my boyfriend. We are both frugal homebodies who dislike anything overly involved or excessive, so we avoid celebrating most holidays the way the general public does (e.g., staying in on New Year's Eve). However, Valentine's Day is a holiday I really like, because I love love, and I love my SO and demonstrating that to him. Even though I try to make my love for him known every day, I stil enjoy the premise of Valentine's Day, so I like to celebra…
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/14 05:41 PM
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I definitely agree with the ideas expressed in the article, but (and this is a bit off-topic, so I apologize) does anyone else sometimes find Return of Kings to be kind of...harsh? Not this article in particular, but some of the other stuff I have seen from them. Albeit, I am a bit new to this community, so maybe I'm just not fully adjusted and/or not adequately desensitized to the attitudes of some individuals in TRP community.
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/14 05:17 PM
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Aw, thanks. :) Yes, knowing he considers my best interest definitely facilitates trust, which makes it easier to comply with his wishes.
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/14 05:09 PM
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I feel like I would do just about anything my man asked me to, even if I didn't agree with it or it made me uncomfortable. Perhaps that is unhealthy, but that's my natural inclination--I strive to please him, and I know he always has my best interest in mind and wouldn't ask me to do anything that would impact me negatively.
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/14 04:31 PM
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Similar to what some other ladies have said, I love knowing that my man will always guide and protect me, and that I can count on him to make the best decisions for our life together. It gives me such peace of mind to know that I don't have to entirely fend for myself in this crazy world.
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/14 01:58 PM
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Sounds like we are in the same boat! It's nice to know I'm not the only one feeling this way. :)
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/14 02:30 AM
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I also struggle with these feelings in regards to my boyfriend. I understand that he has desires to look at other women, in addition to the fact that sometimes sexual urges just pop up, which he has described as more of a nuisance than anything, so he just has to take care of it by masturbating so he can return to whatever he was doing. It's just hard to deal with because I want to be the one pleasing him every time, and I hate the idea of him thinking about other women sexually, even though I k…
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/14 01:28 AM
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Thank you! :)
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/14 03:50 AM
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Me too. :) We are both looking forward to a wonderful future together.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/14 02:14 AM
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I'm 22 and consider myself to be a RP woman. I think I always had more traditional tendencies when it comes to a relationship, specifically a desire to please my man in all ways. However, during my first few years of college I was also wrapped up in feminist ideals and was set on becoming a "strong, independent woman" with plans to get a PhD in psychology and open my own practice. I didn't plan on getting married until my late twenties or early thirties, because I thought I wanted my career to b…
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/14 01:23 AM
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