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| 161 | Go Red for Women | gkx | /r/MensRights | 28/10/13 03:56 AM |
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| 6 | Saw this at the mall, thoughts?I agree with your sentiment, but the context is very different. I think fifty-sixty years ago, this would be seen as uncomfortable, but pleasant. | /r/MensRights | 23/12/13 06:02 PM |
| 1 | 14 year old boys expelled for sex with 14-year-old girl. No punishment for the girl.There was a lot of disciplinary action a couple years ago at my old high school regarding some Facebook activity. :| | /r/MensRights | 12/12/13 01:05 PM |
| 4 | Okay? Thanks. (x-post from r/rage)Okay, this is totally not necessarily related or anything, but I just remember that I lost one of my baby dolls when I was younger. I have absolutely no memory of how (I vaguely remember it floating away on a balloon, but that's ridiculous obviously). I made my parents get another one, but I eventually lost that one too, with actually zero recollection of how. I don't think they just took it away one night... but maybe? On a possibly related note, I'm presently obsessed with babies and I might b… | /r/MensRights | 22/11/13 12:14 PM |
| 1 | Just something I've always found amusingly hypocritical about feminism: corporations are disgustingly sexist assholes when they cater to perceived desires of a female market segment AND when they don't.Note ii owner checking in. I have to take it out of my pocket when sitting down. I have to use two hands while using it, usually. Definitely geared for women. | /r/MensRights | 09/11/13 06:46 PM |
| 1 | (In reference to not drinking and driving) Just because she's had a few drinks... doesn't mean you should crash. Don't be That Car.Man none of these metaphors make any sense... EDIT: I'm an idiot. | /r/MensRights | 30/10/13 06:11 AM |
| 0 | Go Red for WomenI don't disagree. However, this reflects sexism as well, making it relevant as well. | /r/MensRights | 29/10/13 02:41 AM |
| 5 | Go Red for WomenYour point is not bad, but it isn't really good, either. Awareness would be "Women, you are at risk for heart attack. Get checked by..." Awareness is not "Wear red to support women who are fighting heart disease." | /r/MensRights | 28/10/13 06:58 AM |
| 1 | Go Red for WomenInteresting link. The difference between the link that you've found and the one that I've been referencing is that mine are age adjusted. see here | /r/MensRights | 28/10/13 06:32 AM |
| 1 | Go Red for WomenI guess my biggest problem is that I haven't seen many "men's only" heart disease causes. | /r/MensRights | 28/10/13 06:30 AM |
| 3 | Go Red for WomenIt's not a bad thing, for sure. I don't want women to die, obviously, by any cause. What I do see, however, is a cause being championed as "for women", when the problem primarily victimizes men. As for the cause itself, it may mention that women have slightly different symptoms, sometimes, but that isn't a good reason to have an entire cause directed towards a minority of victims. And the cause is very clearly not exactly geared towards the differences in genders. It's just saying "We don't want… | /r/MensRights | 28/10/13 06:14 AM |
| 8 | Go Red for WomenI would agree with you, and that's interesting, but looking at the actual page, it mentions very little about being aware of symptoms and more about curing heart disease (with an emphasis on women). more here | /r/MensRights | 28/10/13 05:15 AM |
| 66 | Go Red for WomenHey, let's ignore the following facts: Heart disease is a much bigger problem for men than it is for women. Heart disease is roughly the same as it is for men and women so Heart disease is not cured or treated, nor does it have any different symptoms, in men or women. and parade our campaign for women's health. | /r/MensRights | 28/10/13 03:58 AM |
| 3 | Infographic on how boys do in education [x-post from r/teachers]This is true as well. The problem is also actually very much physiological. Boys' hearing develops slower than girls', such that boys in elementary school hear a fraction of the amplitude that girls do. This results in girls getting pissed off at small things like foot tapping, boys being louder, and boys sitting in the back so they can barely hear the teacher at all so they can talk or focus on something else. A lot of experienced teachers have noticed this and make boys sit in the front and gi… | /r/MensRights | 08/10/13 05:45 PM |
| 1 | Infographic on how boys do in education [x-post from r/teachers]This is why I'm a huge proponent of same-sex schooling, particularly in elementary and middle school. It's not because I think the genders should be separated, but that they have different needs in and out of the classroom. | /r/MensRights | 08/10/13 03:56 PM |
| 2 | 27 Male Survivors Of Sexual Assault Quoting The People Who Attacked ThemWho doesn't? | /r/MensRights | 25/09/13 05:37 AM |
| 6 | 27 Male Survivors Of Sexual Assault Quoting The People Who Attacked ThemBut... they're not, though. | /r/MensRights | 25/09/13 02:36 AM |
| 1 | Intimate partner violence predictors according to United NationsInteresting. TIL. I just did some more research, though, and found that current research is not currently conclusive for primate study, but testosterone is shown to promote aggression in animals. | /r/MensRights | 05/09/13 04:08 AM |
| 2 | Intimate partner violence predictors according to United NationsI don't disagree with you. Sometimes it's hard to differentiate between what is genuinely known to biology, and what is conventional sexism. In this particular case, it is known biologically that testosterone, the hormone, tends to cause a person to be angrier or more aggressive (as well as build more muscle mass and a slew of other side affects). It is not sexist to say that testosterone has these effects. However, rather than talking about theory (testosterone->anger->domestic abuse = men abus… | /r/MensRights | 05/09/13 01:46 AM |
| 0 | She got 2 years.This article isn't exactly an example of good journalism anyway. I'm not terribly offended at the wording considering how poorly it words objective matters. | /r/MensRights | 21/07/13 04:09 PM |
| 10 | She got 2 years.I'd take six extra months in jail over being put on that list. Jesus... | /r/MensRights | 21/07/13 04:08 PM |
| 1 | Cosmopolitan (women's mag): How common is female on male DV?I feel like this applies to at least 50% of their tips. Reddit is very quick to hate on their tips without even trying it, when the list title is something like "100 things you wouldn't expect would turn him on." You wouldn't expect it for a reason! | /r/MensRights | 20/07/13 10:19 PM |
| 11 | All prison places for teenage girls axed to save moneyIt's the same bullshit that judges use when they say, "Your actions say you think you're an adult, so we're going to try you like an adult." | /r/MensRights | 08/07/13 05:57 AM |
| 8 | My friend and "rapist" gets sentenced today.This is a great example of the sex-related reality distortion field in which we live. It's the same kind of thing as the people who get offended at rape jokes but not murder jokes. | /r/MensRights | 02/07/13 10:25 PM |
| 15 | Men better not dare to define Womanhood - but of course everyone and their mother should define ManhoodI do agree with you, but it should be considered that the top quote is only geared towards men. She's criticizing men for something that women also do, while (seemingly) ignoring the alternate problem. | /r/MensRights | 23/06/13 05:29 AM |
| 4 | Men better not dare to define Womanhood - but of course everyone and their mother should define ManhoodYour point actually brings up an interesting philosophical question. | /r/MensRights | 23/06/13 05:27 AM |
| 4 | 36yo woman has a child with 11yo boy, won't be charged with rape because the rape laws "only apply to males"she could be charged with "sexual violation" which carries the same sentence as rape. Out of curiosity, does that mean that any sexual act with an unwilling partner is considered as bad as rape? For example, if person A forcefully masturbates person B, is that considered as bad as person A forcefully having sex with person B? | /r/MensRights | 21/06/13 06:35 AM |
| 1 | "The everyday sexism project exists to catalogue instances of sexism faced BY WOMEN on a day to day basis...By sharing you're story, you're showing that sexism around the world does exist, it is facedhttp://www.godaddy.com/domains/searchresults.aspx?ci=24122&isc=gofa040a | /r/MensRights | 19/06/13 11:18 PM |
| 1 | "The everyday sexism project exists to catalogue instances of sexism faced BY WOMEN on a day to day basis...By sharing you're story, you're showing that sexism around the world does exist, it is facedHi! Has it been two months already? Wanna work on it with me? I'm still down. | /r/MensRights | 19/06/13 11:16 PM |
| 34 | So alimony in Florida = slavery. Man has to pay 4k a mo/ FOR LIFE to ex wife who exploited the FL alimony system. He can't retire, he can't change jobs. It ends when his life does. (xpost from WTF)Oh. Well damn. | /r/MensRights | 10/06/13 09:56 PM |
| 35 | So alimony in Florida = slavery. Man has to pay 4k a mo/ FOR LIFE to ex wife who exploited the FL alimony system. He can't retire, he can't change jobs. It ends when his life does. (xpost from WTF)Is that a problem? That actually seems fine. | /r/MensRights | 10/06/13 09:31 PM |
| 3 | HOLY SHIT. Woman allegedly sends ricin letter to Obama, tells the FBI her husband did it. Why? To win at divorce.I agree with you. To say this is a men's rights issue is a big stretch. Just because one woman does something bad towards one (or, in this case, a few) men does not imply a societal problem. The societal problem that should be focused upon (which many comments do) is that she attempted assassination of multiple public officials and was sentenced to a maximum of ten years in prison, which is, of course, a ludicrously disproportionate amount of time to be sentenced. | /r/MensRights | 07/06/13 11:38 PM |
| 10 | The infographic about women purchasing power - which shows the reverse of the glass ceilingIn my family, both of my parents had cars. My dad had the same car for fourteen years, while my mom got new ones every 5-6. Obviously, I'm not saying that's necessarily a gender thing, but it might come down to frequency of purchase rather than anything else. | /r/MensRights | 31/05/13 03:21 AM |
| 14 | Congrats on 70 000 readers!Oh, God, that cake looks delicious. | /r/MensRights | 19/05/13 04:04 PM |
| 1 | Google's definition of "sexist" is sexist.I'm not sure I agree or disagree. Others may not have had my experience. However, I have heard it both ways. | /r/MensRights | 15/05/13 03:33 AM |
| 1 | Google's definition of "sexist" is sexist.I've heard it both ways. | /r/MensRights | 14/05/13 11:32 PM |
| 4 | Google's definition of "sexist" is sexist.The fact that it only acknowledges that women can be sluts. | /r/MensRights | 14/05/13 10:30 PM |
| 1 | Google's definition of "sexist" is sexist.Google's definition for slut is actually more sexist. "A slovenly or promiscuous woman." | /r/MensRights | 14/05/13 09:54 PM |
| 9 | Out with the trash: put on a high-visibility vest and you become invisible to the opposite sexI read an AMA about this over the past couple of months. As I understand it (particularly with construction work), physical labor will leave you unable to work in physical labor after a few years, as well as making you somewhat crippled for the rest of your life. You might make more per hour, but you can only work so many hours before your strength gives out. | /r/MensRights | 13/05/13 05:12 PM |
| 7 | Out with the trash: put on a high-visibility vest and you become invisible to the opposite sexAnd they clearly have transportation. | /r/MensRights | 13/05/13 05:10 PM |
| 13 | Gender equality. I had to say something.cutting a glans off FTFY | /r/MensRights | 03/05/13 09:34 AM |
| 12 | US: Military draft registration could end - or expand to women... because there's a zero percent chance that logic gets elected. | /r/MensRights | 03/05/13 04:31 AM |
| 2 | The fundamental flaw in reasoning with potential rapists...This isn't entirely true, and it's part of the reason rape is so common. I agree with your sentiment, in that this isn't the proper way to stop it, but many rapists are unaware that they are committing rape. It's a bad idea to say that all rapists are unreasonable people, because it helps people justify what they're doing as "not rape" because it isn't entirely unreasonable. | /r/MensRights | 24/04/13 02:50 PM |
| 3 | Another man's life ruined.To be fair, this isn't strictly a men's rights issue, because a woman having sex with an underaged boy is also technically illegal. But I've never seen an instance where an 18 year old woman had sex with a 15 year old boy and was imprisoned or put on a sex offender registry. | /r/MensRights | 20/04/13 09:26 PM |
| 2 | "The everyday sexism project exists to catalogue instances of sexism faced BY WOMEN on a day to day basis...By sharing you're story, you're showing that sexism around the world does exist, it is facedThis is not a hard thing to make using a standard template (Any blogging website). That said, if you want to make it more legit, I'm not doing terribly much this summer, and I know some web development, so remind me in a month or two. | /r/MensRights | 16/04/13 06:19 PM |
| 2 | Found this on a friend's FB post... apparently killing married guys is violence against womenIt's tangentially violence against men. Through that tangential violence, it's tangentially violence against women. To say it's violence against women is like knocking down a building (against the owners' wishes) and only suing on behalf of the people down the street for the noise complaints. | /r/MensRights | 01/04/13 05:53 AM |
| 1 | Why is the exclusionary "PyLadies" group allowed to hold ladies only meetings at PyCon. This seems to violate the Code of Conduct against exclusionary speech.I never said I opposed a men-only convention. I just don't understand what the point would be. | /r/MensRights | 31/03/13 01:45 AM |
| 0 | Why is the exclusionary "PyLadies" group allowed to hold ladies only meetings at PyCon. This seems to violate the Code of Conduct against exclusionary speech.What would be the point of a man-only programming convention? Women only accomplishes a number of things. | /r/MensRights | 31/03/13 01:02 AM |
| 0 | Why is the exclusionary "PyLadies" group allowed to hold ladies only meetings at PyCon. This seems to violate the Code of Conduct against exclusionary speech.I never said I know. I don't know. I do, however, know that it's not inherent in the subject matter itself (computer science), but something else. That's all I'm saying. | /r/MensRights | 31/03/13 12:18 AM |
| 0 | Why is the exclusionary "PyLadies" group allowed to hold ladies only meetings at PyCon. This seems to violate the Code of Conduct against exclusionary speech.Yes. They don't have good responses. "Maybe in a couple of years." is the most common response. | /r/MensRights | 30/03/13 11:46 PM |
| 0 | Why is the exclusionary "PyLadies" group allowed to hold ladies only meetings at PyCon. This seems to violate the Code of Conduct against exclusionary speech.... yeah, I would. Obviously. If it were a male-only knitting club, hell yeah, that's totally fine. | /r/MensRights | 30/03/13 09:46 PM |
| -1 | Why is the exclusionary "PyLadies" group allowed to hold ladies only meetings at PyCon. This seems to violate the Code of Conduct against exclusionary speech.What you're suggesting is an enforced inequality. Essentially, give up some rights for other rights. What I'm suggesting is equality. I have no problem if you want to complain about women avoiding dangerous fields. I, too, have a problem with this. But, given that women are not in dangerous fields, we are tasked with the issue of "Should more women be in programming?" My answer is "Yes." This is completely independent of whether women are involved in dangerous fields. If the question is, "Should… | /r/MensRights | 30/03/13 08:39 PM |
| 0 | Why is the exclusionary "PyLadies" group allowed to hold ladies only meetings at PyCon. This seems to violate the Code of Conduct against exclusionary speech.I don't think that's true. I often tell smart girls that they might be interested in it. I know girls who know they're interested in it. And yet they never actually pursue it as much as I think they should. | /r/MensRights | 30/03/13 08:26 PM |
| 1 | Why is the exclusionary "PyLadies" group allowed to hold ladies only meetings at PyCon. This seems to violate the Code of Conduct against exclusionary speech.Yup, and the inventor of the compiler, Grace Hopper. Fun little tidbit: Hopper was classically sexist in some interesting ways (this was the '50s, I believe). She actually believed that programming would be best for women because (again, her opinions) programs are like recipes and women enjoy cooking. | /r/MensRights | 30/03/13 07:02 PM |
| 3 | Why is the exclusionary "PyLadies" group allowed to hold ladies only meetings at PyCon. This seems to violate the Code of Conduct against exclusionary speech.I agree with you. I think engineering on the whole is actually very welcoming to women. The problem is that (in my experience), when men see an event that's 80% women, they might even want to go more. When women see an event that's 20% women, they think twice. I'm not sure why it is, and it bugs me, but I think the point of PyLadies is not to say "We should be offering more incentives" but "How can we get our friends who would like computer science to at least try it?" | /r/MensRights | 30/03/13 06:57 PM |
| 2 | Why is the exclusionary "PyLadies" group allowed to hold ladies only meetings at PyCon. This seems to violate the Code of Conduct against exclusionary speech.That may be, but the choice shouldn't be made because the current culture of the field doesn't appeal to her gender. The choice should be made because she actually prefers the practice and study of something else over computer science. | /r/MensRights | 30/03/13 06:43 PM |
| -2 | Why is the exclusionary "PyLadies" group allowed to hold ladies only meetings at PyCon. This seems to violate the Code of Conduct against exclusionary speech.I don't disagree with you, and I wouldn't be against those conventions (well, maybe the second one, just because we shouldn't encourage death for anyone...), but just because those don't exist doesn't mean that this one shouldn't. | /r/MensRights | 30/03/13 06:42 PM |
| 0 | Why is the exclusionary "PyLadies" group allowed to hold ladies only meetings at PyCon. This seems to violate the Code of Conduct against exclusionary speech.It'd be like complaining that there's a lack of women mechanics. If I were in the mechanics field, I would be complaining about that. Some of the best computer scientists I know are women. And I know first hand several girls who would be and/or are incredibly intelligent and have the best knack for computer science that I've ever seen, and yet they're not actively in the field. A good friend of mine took an online algorithms and data structures course, has dabbled in Android programming, and abs… | /r/MensRights | 30/03/13 06:40 PM |
| 2 | Why is the exclusionary "PyLadies" group allowed to hold ladies only meetings at PyCon. This seems to violate the Code of Conduct against exclusionary speech.I completely agree with you on all of your points. Literally every one of them. When companies and colleges give extra professional help to women, it's a problem. It's not a problem if they just want to talk about how to encourage women to come, which is what I think PyLadies is about. So please, tell me exactly how technical fields are pushing girls away? I never said that. The technical fields welcome girls with open arms, but girls still aren't coming. The problem is not that there aren't eno… | /r/MensRights | 30/03/13 06:37 PM |
| -7 | Why is the exclusionary "PyLadies" group allowed to hold ladies only meetings at PyCon. This seems to violate the Code of Conduct against exclusionary speech.Why, exactly, is women lacking interest in something a problem? Because women aren't conforming to your moral narrative? I explained this already. Programming is one of the most useful aspects to society, and any person that isn't programming is not contributing to it. If it were simply a lack of interest, that wouldn't be a problem, but it would seem as though the reason people don't get into it is because of their gender, which is a problem. | /r/MensRights | 30/03/13 06:13 PM |
| -5 | Why is the exclusionary "PyLadies" group allowed to hold ladies only meetings at PyCon. This seems to violate the Code of Conduct against exclusionary speech.It implies that there is a section of the population that is not programming that would otherwise be programming if not for gender. We could say that programming is an inherently male thing, in which case that statistic would be okay, but it's hard to actually say that. It's not that there are women who aren't participating; it's that there is a very large section of the population of would-be programmers that are not programmers. | /r/MensRights | 30/03/13 06:02 PM |
| -8 | Why is the exclusionary "PyLadies" group allowed to hold ladies only meetings at PyCon. This seems to violate the Code of Conduct against exclusionary speech.There is a problem, and it kind of needs addressing. I've seen the statistic that 80% of PyCon is male, and that's... not good. I mean, it's not the worst thing ever, obviously, but it could be better. One of the problems with this is that women are less likely to go to an event with 80% men, not because they're afraid or anything, but because they automatically assume it will be less interesting to them. The PyLadies event might be trying to combat this by considering ways to even out the field… | /r/MensRights | 30/03/13 05:36 PM |
| 3 | Saw this on Facebook. What?Thank you. I really just hate it when waiters try to chat me up. Seriously, I could do without them entirely. This is why I don't dine out often. | /r/MensRights | 06/03/13 10:15 AM |
| 3 | A tale of two snow penises, and two very different reactions: (1) feminists at Harvard (it's a 'menacing reminder' of women’s sexual vulnerability and male dominance), and (2) a mom in Rhode Island ('Exactly what I was thinking. "Anytime you point at anything, I think of a penis. THIS IS A SAFE PLACE FOR WOMEN." | /r/MensRights | 01/03/13 06:43 PM |
| 22 | Noticed this on T.V. this evening."Jeopardy suggests misogyny is the answer. When will this oppressive patriarchy end?" | /r/MensRights | 19/02/13 08:30 AM |
| -1 | When will this be unacceptable..They view the fact that they're nice to be good enough for any woman to date them. They actually treat women as though they're machines (insert niceness, receive romance). It's not that they're nice, it's that they expect women to reciprocate unconditionally with romance, and then complain when they don't. See this | /r/MensRights | 13/02/13 06:11 PM |
| 7 | When will this be unacceptable..For a long time, Reddit and 4chan (and other, similar social media aggregates) have portrayed the "nice guy" as the guy who is nice to a woman and then women start dating assholes (who are often "not nice" but also aren't typically depicted as rich or anything). Lots of stories in rage comic format etc. Now, that concept is no longer the FotM. It's now the opinion of Reddit in general that the reason women won't date the "nice guy" is because he's undesirable, not because he's nice. The hypothet… | /r/MensRights | 13/02/13 03:35 PM |
| 2 | When will this be unacceptable..I totally agree with you except for your very last point. That's not at all what the backlash against "nice guys" is about. | /r/MensRights | 13/02/13 03:28 PM |
| 3 | Bad grades for boys despite high test scores.There's a pretty good book about this called Why Gender Matters. A lot of people like to complain about the various stereotypes of genders in high school, and I went to a high school that had really big gender distinction in terms of personality. I started dating girls from the nearby all-girls school, and I realized that their education was far superior to mine simply because education needs to be tailored by gender. | /r/MensRights | 11/02/13 05:19 PM |
| 2 | Bad grades for boys despite high test scores.Not really true, necessarily. The school I go to cares a lot about your scores. It's a common belief that it's the only thing that really puts you on the radar. | /r/MensRights | 11/02/13 05:08 PM |
| 4 | This was in my local newspaper.But don't you understand? Molestation and rape is the worst thing that can ever happen to a person. <sup>/s</sup> | /r/MensRights | 04/02/13 04:11 PM |
| 8 | How to expose hypocritical feminists at my schoolI have trouble believing a male rights club would actually succeed. Going to a similar kind of school, I'd be willing to bet very few people would actually join the club, which means it would still be him vs. the world, even if other people wanted to join it. | /r/MensRights | 13/01/13 02:57 AM |
| -1 | We Can Do It!Yeah, but how much did his wife suffer? /s | /r/MensRights | 10/01/13 12:00 PM |
| 2 | Elementary School Bias Against Boys Sets Them Up For Failure: StudyI read a book a few years ago that outlined the difference in the development of boys and girls. The book strongly advocated the resegregation (sex-wise) of our education system, at least up to high school. I couldn't possibly agree more, both from a theoretical standpoint and from a personal standpoint. In elementary school, by some odd fluke (that self-perpetuated<sup>1),</sup> boys outnumbered girls about 10:1 in my grade (this was absolutely not true in other grades of the same school. My gr… | /r/MensRights | 10/01/13 11:41 AM |
| 8 | Elementary School Bias Against Boys Sets Them Up For Failure: StudyAbsolutely. When I grew up, I was absolutely under the impression (because of the people I'd been exposed to) that women were thought to be smarter than men. The faculty at my elementary school were all female for teachers and all male for janitorial staff. What kind of implications do you think I'm gonna take from that? | /r/MensRights | 10/01/13 11:32 AM |
| 3 | "Why?" is this even a serious question?I agree. I'm mostly just making a point as to why prostitution isn't necessarily the optimal solution to making sex more freely available to those who resort to rape to get their "fix". | /r/MensRights | 04/01/13 02:50 AM |
| 3 | "Why?" is this even a serious question?Agreed. However, this dynamic does not deconstruct the power that women hold innately in sex. It merely diverts it to a different form of power. That is to say, rapists would no longer have to trade physical/emotional power for sex. They could merely trade fiscal power for sex. This makes things better for the people they're having sex with (to the extent that it is consensual), but it doesn't really help to fix the sex = power issue for men. | /r/MensRights | 04/01/13 02:31 AM |
| 5 | "Why?" is this even a serious question?To some extent, I agree while, to some extent, I disagree. Yes, if sex were more free flowing, we would have more incidents. However, I've always found the practice of prostitution to be innately sexist. The idea is that, when two people have sex, the man owes the woman money for it. It's not mutually beneficial; it's a service provided by women. | /r/MensRights | 04/01/13 02:25 AM |
| 13 | Why I, as a female, am a men's rights advocate.Great post. I'd like to talk about the knitting episode further, as well. You describe being looked down upon as a woman for taking up domestic hobbies, and I'd just like to point out that, as a male, I have often felt that same derision from more mainstream culture. I got into a fight that ended up with my girlfriend breaking up with me (we were fifteen, but, now, five years later, I don't think she's exactly changed her mind on this) about the classic '50s gender roles. She was convinced that … | /r/MensRights | 01/01/13 04:04 PM |
| 2 | If a 30 year old man attacked a 60 year old woman he would probably go to prison, wonder what will happen here?Agreed. A lot of the posts here are simply strawmen with no followup. i.e. "This situation is ripe for feminism to show egregiously! It's not yet, though..." It's kind of dumb, if you ask me. | /r/MensRights | 01/01/13 01:41 PM |
| 3 | Could funding be lacking because this is a male only cancer?Every time I bring the discrepancy between prostate and breast cancer up, I get "So start your own foundations". Yeah, because there aren't foundations and people who are dying from this. The problem, very specifically, is actually people who support breast cancer research (instead of prostate cancer) for no other reason than that it affects women. Of course, personally, I think lung cancer is more important than either (high death rate; yes, they 'deserve it' slightly more the majority of the t… | /r/MensRights | 01/01/13 01:38 PM |
| 0 | "For safety we do NOT allow men"The problem (in this case) just isn't our legal system. It's society. Then again, our legal system also reflects society. | /r/MensRights | 25/12/12 07:18 PM |
| 1 | Women need to remember they are not the only gender vulnerable to "sexual predictors". Men are also victim to being taken advantage of. It happens more often than people realise, and men also need protection."sexual predictors"? | /r/MensRights | 23/12/12 07:59 AM |
| -2 | Found this on facebook, most comments saying how cute this was. Wonder if they would still think it was cute had the genders been reversed.For people saying this isn't a Men's Rights issue, I disagree. It's certainly not of the same magnitude as most of the stuff we generally care about, but it's still an issue of societal standards. If a woman is paranoid over her husband cheating, she's a jealous bitch. If a man does the same, he's abusive. | /r/MensRights | 20/12/12 08:01 AM |
| 4 | My Michigan divorce storyOn several occasions she violated the DA. The rules of the FOC say that they just talk to her, nothing ever happens legally If it's not in the DA, it is not enforceable. These two statements confuse me together. Does a violation of the DA ever really mean anything? | /r/MensRights | 19/12/12 06:28 PM |
| 1 | Dear Men's Rights. I'm a female blogger seeking some help.Jesus, you stayed with her? | /r/MensRights | 19/12/12 07:00 AM |
| 23 | Well, they did it again, they found a way to make it our fault...Did... did he just compare gun ownership to paganism? Is this real life? | /r/MensRights | 19/12/12 02:19 AM |
| 2 | Well, they did it again, they found a way to make it our fault...I watched God Bless America last night, and this is one of the topics it seeks to counter. Yes, he's shooting schoolchildren because he believes he deserves more as a man and privilege. It's not because he was crazy or because he's a sadist or anything like that. It's stupid to push an agenda by guessing what the motive of the killer is. | /r/MensRights | 19/12/12 02:17 AM |
| 6 | Dear Men's Rights. I'm a female blogger seeking some help.One of my biggest problems with the movement is that women fought very harshly against the '50s gender stereotypes, but the stereotype for men is still there and the same. While women can be strong and brave or emotional and motherly (or both), we're still wife-beating, criminal, alcoholic, privileged assholes who don't know how to raise kids, and are therefore useless to society and our families unless we're making money. | /r/MensRights | 19/12/12 12:00 AM |
| 2 | Dear Men's Rights. I'm a female blogger seeking some help.I agree with what you're saying, but sometimes ethos can matter way more than logos. Many of the most important people in any civil rights movement were people within the class of privilege, speaking out for the oppressed. While the borders aren't so clear cut here, a woman speaking in favor of Men's Rights is about ten times as effective as a man doing the same thing. (That said, the same is often true of the reverse) | /r/MensRights | 18/12/12 11:57 PM |
| 3 | Dear Men's Rights. I'm a female blogger seeking some help.This is going in my source folder. That's so messed up, dude. Did you try pressing charges? | /r/MensRights | 18/12/12 11:54 PM |
| 6 | 22 Stats That Prove That There Is Something Seriously Wrong With Young Men In AmericaCan we talk about the fact that the author randomly decided to include a picture of a dude drinking while taking a picture of himself at the camera? Seriously, what the hell is up with that? Also, a ton of these stats are just about young people in general, editorialized to be anti-men. | /r/MensRights | 18/12/12 07:43 PM |
| 42 | Jezebel: Fuck You Men's Rights Activists.Pretty much every genuine accusation [as opposed to just saying "Fuck you"] (and there are some, like that MRAs want to control women's bodies) are completely unfounded and nonsensical. It's hilarious how straw-man-y her entire perception is. | /r/MensRights | 13/12/12 08:45 PM |
| 1 | So my female friend just blew my mind...Once things get sexualized, everyone freaked out. You can't make logical arguments about sex and gender, because we all know sex and gender related issues are completely different than every other issues ever. I'm so glad my girlfriend is rational with this kind of thing. | /r/MensRights | 13/12/12 08:37 PM |
| 2 | So we were learning about domestic abuse... Notice where the blame is centered...Acting like the Master of the Castle? You bet. Who else is going to do it? Someone has to be a leader. Treating women like a servant - Hmm, this could probably be misconstrued. I'm just lazy and she's better at not fucking up the laundry. You're either an asshole/abuser, or you're misinterpreting the question. Taking partner's money?... Yeah... to help pay the fucking rent? Am I not supposed to do that? That's not what "Taking partner's money" means. Preventing a person from getting or keeping a… | /r/MensRights | 13/12/12 08:06 PM |
| 5 | So we were learning about domestic abuse... Notice where the blame is centered...So, in the end, what's going on is that you're saying that you don't fit the criteria listed, and then criticizing the list by saying you're not a bad person for fitting the criteria. Those who fit the criteria as intended are indeed performing abuse. However, it's not fair to direct the list at males in general, as the reverse occurs just as easily. | /r/MensRights | 13/12/12 02:31 PM |
| 1 | Apparently it's not discrimination that politicians only care about insurance covering women's health issuesI think the fair point is that both men and women are paying for care that is exclusively women's. That's a problem. I think a lot of the problem with healthcare legislation is that everyone who argues for broader coverage ignores that costs are forced upon people who might otherwise want to opt out of them. However, on the same token, one could argue that the "prior conditions" clause discriminates against those who do not have prior conditions. And then, on the other hand, one could argue that… | /r/MensRights | 13/12/12 01:57 PM |
| 18 | Feminist blames men after asking them to leave film festival: "It is clear that those making trouble and 'sabotaging' the festival are those who complained and demanded refunds.""I'd like to kindly invite all Muslims to leave the United States during the month of September in mourning and out of respect for the sanctity of the safety of our borders. Thank you." | /r/MensRights | 11/12/12 08:00 PM |
| 0 | Feminist blames men after asking them to leave film festival: "It is clear that those making trouble and 'sabotaging' the festival are those who complained and demanded refunds."It's a broader action taken in a good place. Advertisers aren't just going to stop advertising at these web tabloid places, but, yeah, eventually, they would probably stop advertising at these web tabloid places if everyone used AdBlock. | /r/MensRights | 11/12/12 07:58 PM |
| 9 | Feminist blames men after asking them to leave film festival: "It is clear that those making trouble and 'sabotaging' the festival are those who complained and demanded refunds."I think that's one of the biggest problems with feminism. Feminism sees violence against women and assumes that society commends it. It sees violence against men and assumes that society condemns it [more than it condemns violence against women, that is]. They paint sex lines like a warzone that women haven't participated in, which is why they're losing, which of course breeds the beliefs that sex is a warzone that women are losing. | /r/MensRights | 11/12/12 07:56 PM |
| 5 | 13-year-old boy subjected to six months of horror after being falsely accused of rapeI think the point is that they didn't have sex in the first place. | /r/MensRights | 10/12/12 11:14 PM |
| 1 | I just need to rantlolhey | /r/MensRights | 10/12/12 07:15 PM |
| 2 | TIL Senior women age 50 and older control net worth of $19 trillion and own more than three-fourths of the nation’s financial wealth. (Tried to post it over on r/feminism, but for some reason it was censored...)Yeah, I wouldn't expect the lifestyle changes would negatively affect women, but I'm also fairly certain there's a (more important) biological advantage. | /r/MensRights | 09/12/12 11:16 PM |
| 10 | TIL Senior women age 50 and older control net worth of $19 trillion and own more than three-fourths of the nation’s financial wealth. (Tried to post it over on r/feminism, but for some reason it was censored...)Women live longer than men because of life style choices Any sources on that? | /r/MensRights | 09/12/12 10:38 PM |
| 5 | Circumcised men are 4.5 times more likely to suffer from erectile dysfunction.Let's phrase this another way. If female circumcision of equivalent consequence were legal and commonly practiced, would male circumcision be a men's rights issue, or just a human rights issue? | /r/MensRights | 09/12/12 09:39 AM |
| -10 | Circumcised men are 4.5 times more likely to suffer from erectile dysfunction.Have you even thought about the issue before? Lol There are sexist laws in most of the developed world that protect only female infants from genital mutilation while this protection is deny to boys based solely on their sex. THAT I agree is a men's rights issue. The fact that the legality differs for the same thing between the genders is bad, and I agree with that. However, all I care about is that they're equal, not which way they are. And no, in case you're wondering, I really, really don't wa… | /r/MensRights | 09/12/12 06:22 AM |
| -13 | Circumcised men are 4.5 times more likely to suffer from erectile dysfunction.Seriously, I love almost every part of this subreddit except this one. I don't see the legality of male circumcision itself as a men's rights issue. We need a support group for men who actually prefer that they were circumcised as babies. | /r/MensRights | 09/12/12 06:11 AM |
| 3 | I just need to rantI've noticed with a lot of women, if they can't win an argument, they try to sabotage the argument. It annoys me because it's true with people I'm in love with, like my girlfriend and my mom. I understand sometimes it's hard to change your viewpoint, but you don't have to literally cry about it. | /r/MensRights | 08/12/12 12:20 PM |
| 32 | UPVOTE THIS - Man sits in jail while unable to pay alimony that exceeds his income | NJ.comA pious vulture of the law, Who, with a gesture of his claw, Removed the barber from his plate, Then there was nothing but to wait. | /r/MensRights | 07/12/12 07:52 PM |
| 3 | I'll just park this here: Germaine Greer published a book full of photos of naked underage boys. The boy on the cover said he didn't want it to happen. Germaine Greer said it was to take back for women the image of underage boys from gay men. Just so you know. Remember the name: Germaine GreerGood catch. Our society is so fucked up that even we on MensRights can mess that up sometimes. | /r/MensRights | 04/12/12 04:14 PM |
| 4 | Why do YOU need feminism?There are two flavors of masculism, and there are two flavors of feminism. One of these is generally looking for equality, and the other is seeking a gender hierarchy. There are definitely legitimate parts of feminism that avoid the gender hierarchy and that genuinely look for places in society that women are treated worse (if you don't see that there are places in society where women are treated worse, I don't know what to tell you). There are also sects of feminism that see women as better. Th… | /r/MensRights | 03/12/12 11:54 PM |
| 6 | Why do YOU need feminism?To start, I like this post. I just wish we didn't always pit masculism and feminism against each other. Can't these have just started off as "I need masculism because" and not been overly negative? I understand that oftentimes feminism can seem exclusionary with masculism, but it's really dumb to attack each other like this. | /r/MensRights | 03/12/12 11:31 PM |
| 5 | No Unos, husbands don't count.I don't think fighting fire with fire will work in this case, to be honest. I understand using this as a direct retaliation to mundane feminism, but it's not really a point to say "Hey, look how society hates us." Like if someone showed me an example of a poll that did this kind of discrimination against women, I'd respond with this poll, but I'm not going to pick a fight over this one. | /r/MensRights | 03/12/12 09:36 PM |
| 8 | No Unos, husbands don't count.Totally agreed. I hate when this mundane shit comes up with feminism. Why should I like it when it's masculism? | /r/MensRights | 03/12/12 08:58 PM |
| 2 | Female teacher convicted of having sex with teenage student. Gets probation.I'm having the time of my life, here. | /r/MensRights | 01/12/12 09:45 PM |
| 1 | Who here would want to be uncircumcised?Neither of these are subjective opinions. Genital mutilation is extremely painful and it does degrade genital function. Would you like to see some papers on the subject? There are papers that show that it decreases sensitivity, and there are papers that show that it decreases likelihood of STD contraction, so I guess it depends on what you consider "degrading genital function". As for being "subjective opinions", I think that's a load of baloney. The fact that there are negatives is unrefuted. T… | /r/MensRights | 01/12/12 06:25 PM |
| 1 | Who here would want to be uncircumcised?I wasn't. I've mentioned many types of genital mutilation so far. So for all intent and purposes you are advocating for the legalization of FGM. Should it stop there? According to you, it is acceptable for parents to remove all of their daughters' external genitals; is it also acceptable for parents to do the same to their sons? Say, if they wanted to cut off a testicle? This is unspeakable suffering and life-long disfigurement being inflicted on children we're talking about here This is what I'… | /r/MensRights | 01/12/12 04:50 PM |
| 1 | Who here would want to be uncircumcised?No it's not but FGM and MGM are equally terrible when compared to each other along the same spectrum. Sure, but don't pick the worst kinds of FGM and compare it to circumcision as it's currently practiced. So what are the benefits of torturing and disfiguring infants that make it defending? As my very first comment in this discussion said, I couldn't tell you. It's not really something that I can articulate or explain. It's not something I understand. I prefer it. It makes me feel connected to m… | /r/MensRights | 01/12/12 04:35 PM |
| 1 | Who here would want to be uncircumcised?Actually, we're talking about genital mutilation, period. Male circumcision, in this case the amputation of the foreskin is often the frenulum, is just one particular type of genital mutilation along the same spectrum. So all genital mutilation is equally terrible? That's a pretty bad standpoint to take. If you're telling me I don't like sex, then boy do I have news for you. If you're telling me I don't like sex as much as I would if I had my foreskin, that may be a valid point, but it's quite a… | /r/MensRights | 01/12/12 04:12 PM |
| 1 | Who here would want to be uncircumcised?First of all, female circumcision is already illegal in most of the developed world while male circumcision remains legal. So for all intent and purposes you are advocating for the legalization of FGM. Should it stop there? According to you, it is acceptable for parents to remove all of their daughters' external genitals; is it also acceptable for parents to do the same to their sons? Say, if they wanted to cut off a testicle? You're taking it to an extreme. We're just talking about male circumc… | /r/MensRights | 01/12/12 03:36 PM |
| 1 | Who here would want to be uncircumcised?You have still not provided an answer. Yeah I did. If this is true (I haven't done enough research), then it's probably for the same reason. I told you a million times; I don't think it's a rational position. But not every position has to be rational. If you abstract far enough, nothing is rational. Everything is a bit subjective. it is a parallel situation but not one that you are personally invested in This is precisely why I don't feel the need to add in laws that prohibit it. If it were curr… | /r/MensRights | 01/12/12 03:00 PM |
| 1 | Who here would want to be uncircumcised?I gave you an answer, or rather I tried to lead you see it for yourself. No, you tried to change my opinion. Completely different thing. Your logic, therefore, doesn't really seem much different than the logic of anti-gay protestors. Certainly better, but not much different in logic (I suppose you could say the vector is in a similar direction, but to a lesser magnitude). You believe that you know better than other people on how to handle their own family life, and you'd like to enforce your mor… | /r/MensRights | 01/12/12 02:43 PM |
| 1 | Who here would want to be uncircumcised?is that whether people are happy with what has been done to them or not is not relevant to the morality of the act What makes you think you're better at deciding what is moral than the people who have had it done to them? | /r/MensRights | 01/12/12 02:22 PM |
| 4 | Female teacher convicted of having sex with teenage student. Gets probation.You're arguing with someone over the internet over whether they should argue over the internet or in real life. You're not really in a position to talk. | /r/MensRights | 01/12/12 05:34 AM |
| 4 | Female teacher convicted of having sex with teenage student. Gets probation.I don't fight this kind of thing in the court of law. I typically argue with other people on the internet. | /r/MensRights | 01/12/12 05:01 AM |
| 12 | Female teacher convicted of having sex with teenage student. Gets probation.Personally, I use this subreddit as ammunition. When people ask me to provide evidence of sexism in the court system, I point to this. And, yeah, it does help convince people. | /r/MensRights | 30/11/12 11:00 PM |
| 1 | Who here would want to be uncircumcised?Anything can be made to seem morally objectionable depending on how you state it. Literally all of parenting can seem like bad parenting depending on how you decide to be a parent. If you think you were raised correctly, and you are happy, I believe your opinion on the way you were raised as proper parenting is as valid as any other opinion. Therefore, unless there's a situation where a person does not believe they were raised properly, or where they were not happy when they grew up, or if the p… | /r/MensRights | 30/11/12 06:55 PM |
| 1 | Who here would want to be uncircumcised?If this is true (I haven't done enough research), then it's probably for the same reason. And I don't mind it. If they don't think it's a problem, I have no problem with them doing it to their own children. | /r/MensRights | 30/11/12 06:41 PM |
| 1 | Who here would want to be uncircumcised?I don't follow. | /r/MensRights | 30/11/12 01:48 PM |
| 0 | Man kills himself due to having been circumcised as an infant.While I don't agree with intactivism in its whole, I definitely agree with your post. There's a whole lot of stupid pathos behind the whole thing. | /r/MensRights | 30/11/12 06:51 AM |
| 1 | Man exonerated in rape case, accuser admits she lied, yet man still rots in jail due to Attorney GeneralThis makes me happy. Thank you. | /r/MensRights | 30/11/12 06:45 AM |
| 1 | Who here would want to be uncircumcised?You know, I keep seeing this question, as someone who is glad he was circumcised. I'm not sure why I feel the need to answer it, but it bothers me that I can't answer it logically. I'm sorry. I can't explain it. I am glad that it happened. I can't compare the two experiences because I've only ever had one. I can't say girls find it more attractive, because I don't know. I feel somewhat connected to my tradition, and a hell of a lot of the Jewish tradition doesn't make sense, but all of a sudden … | /r/MensRights | 30/11/12 06:30 AM |
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