| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 29 | Here we are again... drunk | globuleofshit | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/01/26 10:32 PM | |
| 3 | Going through Divorce and wondering how to prepare / protect my self financially. (UK) | globuleofshit | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/02/25 06:17 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 2 | When do you guys take off your ring?As soon as she failed to show up to the 4th marriage counselling session, I knew she was no longer invested in us. Why show a sign of loyalty and dedication when the other party doesn't. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/05/26 07:58 PM |
| 2 | Looking for advice - Photographs/memoriesMove forwards, if she wanted them she would have got them at the time. Sorry to hear about your issues fella its never fun. All I would say is draw a line with what you are comfortable with and stick to it. It took me 6 months post divorce before I could bring myself to sort photos without just hitting the delete button. If you are not sure, take all your photos and throw them on a portable hardrive and then clear everything else out. You can decide what to do at a later date | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/03/26 07:41 PM |
| 7 | Looking for advice - Photographs/memoriesDepends if you have kids or not? For me, I took all my old / archived stuff and blew it on to 2 x 1tb drives. Just because my relationship failed doesn't mean I shouldn't be able to show my kids the great time we did have as a family. If you have no kids, its easy... ctrl alt del | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/03/26 07:22 PM |
| 2 | Here we are again... drunkI took anti depressants years ago and they killed my mental ability to function at my job. What I need to do is grow up and not use alcohol to escape. For tonight I worked till 6pm, got some fizzy ginger beer (non alcoholic) and im going to head out for a run to stop me from sitting down and finding the situation me reaching for alcohol. I guess I need to stay more busy, well thats the aim! | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/01/26 06:29 PM |
| 1 | Here we are again... drunkI do 100 situps and pressups a day already | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/01/26 11:34 PM |
| 2 | Here we are again... drunkDid AA help? Im really lacking self control at the moment and unsure how it / the group could help | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/01/26 11:33 PM |
| 1 | Here we are again... drunkThanks fella, appreciate your input here | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/01/26 11:30 PM |
| 1 | Here we are again... drunkNot sure what this wanker posted but if its about suicide then hell no!. I already support suicidal men in my free hours. In the uk 70% of suicides are men, that horrific and there is so much more for us. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/01/26 11:29 PM |
| 4 | Here we are again... drunkI dont eat fast food, I cook everything I eat. I take that as a win. I make delicious food that take hours, but I and my kids enjoy every bite. I drink to the loneliness and to the self pity if im honest with myself. I hate it through and through. I used to be strong, fit and whilst I didnt know it, eye candy for the girls at work. Im not 4 inches bigger waistline and less muscular than ever ans I have 'lost my mojo' | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/01/26 11:25 PM |
| 4 | Here we are again... drunkNA beer & gin orderd for tomorrow. I have shit to do in the house, I can also exercise, but that means effort and at the end of a 10 hrs day its hard!. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/01/26 10:59 PM |
| 3 | Here we are again... drunkFucking legend, thanks man. Pretty much hit the nail on the head. However I don't want ant depressants as they just numb shit. I need to deal with this chaos 😩 | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/01/26 10:58 PM |
| 9 | Money and Narc WifeWow op! I genuinely thought I had written this myself. I called my wife out on her spending habits and I got tears, told 'why do I bother working when you take all my money away', accused of financial abuse etc. She has ended up asking for a divorce because I'm not refusing to bail her out £300 - £500 overspend each month. During our divorce meetings, our lawyer challenged me on financial abuse, I was prepared and showed her statements of: - me paying the mortgage for 18 years without support - … | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/05/25 08:53 AM |
| 2 | Should I be trembling my stbxw is shopping for this?My stbxw is hitting this phase so hard it's hilarious! She has fairy carrot cards, spell candles, higgi books, spiritual healing books etc etc. Funny as she wanted the divorce and didn't want to try and save our marriage / family life despite us having two kids | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/05/25 12:16 PM |
| 1 | Going through Divorce and wondering how to prepare / protect my self financially. (UK)Good call. Parent 1 has circa £100k pension pot, parent 2 has very little.. We are both amicable and hope the pension pot can be split 50/50. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/02/25 07:39 AM |
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