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Men don't owe you anything. If you can't answer the question then just say that. You're not oppressed. Go to Afghanistan, India, Russia, etc. Women have every single right that men do. Whenever you press a woman on this issue they say something like gender pay gap, which is being addressed by the fact more women are in college today than men, or abuse or sexualization, which makes zero sense because criminals are criminals and women sexualize themselves. You're not oppressed. Grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 04:19 PM
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It's a legitimate question. At what point are women not oppressed?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 04:09 PM
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Right? Like holy shit - the modern woman wants nothing to do with a traditional lifestyle and are thriving in that desire and somehow they're still oppressed? What's the metric that ends oppression?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 04:01 PM
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Before echo chambers and ideology specific media sites, it was believed that a lack of desire to debate and defend your positions meant that you secretly didn't really believe what you were saying but instead enjoyed the advantages of assuming those positions. Most people outside of far left or far right ideology feel the same way - if you can't show up to the table you're just being manipulative.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 03:53 PM
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Getting married later and never getting married have nothing to do with each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 10:19 PM
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You really just ignored everything else I wrote and are saying that men are not getting married because they're waiting? Come on dude, let's just stop talking to each other. You have no interest in having an open mind or actually discussing the facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 10:07 PM
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That doesn't really make sense. Your vibe is kind of like "blah blah blah I don't care about the facts but if they're true it's men's fault so fuck you."
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 09:12 PM
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https://thebolditalic.com/the-two-worlds-of-tinder-f1c34e800db4 here's an article, googling "men and women tinder swipe statistics" will give you a lot of similar articles. If you yourself have a tinder profile you can request a data report that would compare your success on the app with men and women separately. The ones I've seen on r/tinder recently for this year share the 7% statistic of women right swiping, and then the data on dates/hook ups/relationships/marriages resulting from using the…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 02:38 AM
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I'm not going to argue the 7 cents on the dollar point, but will say that even Pew, which does not conduct a multivariate analysis on the gender pay gap (hours worked, same experience, education level) shows that the gap for adult women is trending towards equilibrium. There is literally zero point in arguing that men have a more difficult time finding dates when any online dating sites statistics will show how much easier it is for women to get a date than it is men. Tinder, on its own analytic…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 08:23 PM
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Don't really understand why this is a friction point for you. Women have the majority of power in the dating world. Men are not "generally making more money" and if they are it won't last long, more women are attending and graduating college than men are currently. If you're an attractive woman, and men are the pursuers and women are the ones who consent and select dating partners because of their abundance of options, it makes plain sense that women are going to shoot for the hottest guy who ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 08:10 PM
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Hypergamy is a concept that's been studied for almost 100 years. Both men and women can't be hypergamous, at least not in the same relationship. The essence of hypergamy is women dating men to obtain a higher social or economic class. Black pill concepts like "who is hotter than who" are kind of silly because that's subjective and difficult to quantify. But, the idea that most women want to date a guy who earns more than them, can offer them friendships and opportunities that they otherwise woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 08:02 PM
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You're assuming that a person cannot believe in hypergamy and also have sex. Just because men think things that you don't want them to doesn't mean that women are not sleeping with those men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 07:47 PM
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Ahem. Did you know that women have VAGINAS? They're like piggy banks for sperm cells, or something like that. I'm not a meteorologist.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 06:59 PM
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Like I said before, it's pretty apparent that you don't like the assertion that female dating behavior has general patterns. Whether or not there is truth to that, or discussing that topic in detail, is of no interest to you because it would take the magic out of dating for you. I've long said that a woman's dissent into recognizing the predictability of their own behavior is her decent into nihilism. Mystery is the spice of life for most women and waking up to the idea that not everyone is spec…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 06:31 PM
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Of course not, but if you sell East Coast, West Coast, and Canadian Oysters, and notice that the East Coast ones sell more/sell out first, you can make an assumption that people prefer those oysters, and doing so doesn't conclude that West Coast or Canadian Oysters are bad, it's just a general assumption that helps that business owner make better purchasing and pricing decisions. There, I fixed your analogy for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 06:18 PM
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🙄 I guess I'm not surprised that you doubled down. I'll take that as "yes I hate the men in this sub and yes the idea that women's dating behavior is predictable is repulsive to me."
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 06:08 PM
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I mean in these types of conversations I think anything from opinions, to representation of facts, to actual facts, can be criticized. I don't really like OP's question but something that I notice whenever men ask women what they can do to be more attractive, and a criticism I have personally; is that 80% of the women in this sub absolutely refuse to give a straight answer. Like - why insist so much on being incredibly blasé and saying "all women are different, go fuck yourself 💅" instead of jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 06:04 PM
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Sure, I think a lot of people assume that if a woman leaves a man for another man it's either for more money, better looks, or social improvement. Because hypergamy encompasses such a broad catalog you can kind of throw the word at anything like that and it will make some semblance of sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 05:52 PM
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No, hypergamy is women seeking out men who are more attractive, more financially stable, and/or have more friends and opportunities than themselves. It's also not a red pill concept. It's been studied far before the 2000s.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 05:44 PM
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It's a jab at woman's desire to not be predictable. All humans are predictable, men as well obviously, but because of the Disney Princess paradigm that most women are taught as children, the idea that their behavior is based on patterns and can be boiled down to a formula, infuriates most women. They even chisel each other about it, see words like "basic" or "Karen" or "pick me" in more specific contexts. Women, particularly younger women, tend to believe in things like fate, and when they exhib…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 05:17 PM
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It's kind of heartbreaking, telling, and validating how I can write all of that about how it gives young men a semblance of frame work as to how to transition to adult men, and how the world and specifically modern day women's treatment of modern men, lead to this natural conclusion, and how the one thing you focused on is how it might affect you. Women game men in 1,000 ways and have for decades, but when women play dating games on men that's acceptable and natural behavior, because they do it …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 06:23 AM
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Can I ask though, are woman not, in modern society, told to also prioritize their own self interest in every which way, especially when it comes to their relationships with men?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 05:17 AM
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I'll be honest, some of the best dating and life advice I've gotten has come from echelons around the red pill sphere. I don't think people should ever take advice to the letter, and I certainly don't care about a woman's sexual habits, but, and maybe I'm jaded or an asshole or whatever, I generally think women don't like the idea of men dating by a playbook because if their strategies work, it means they're predictable. Women hate the idea of being predictable, typical, basic, etc. Girls from d…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 04:59 AM
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🙌 completely agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 02:53 AM
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I don't get how you don't get it. The crown is a symbol of value of a relationship with someone who has had a large amount of them. If someone has been in a relationship with 10 people that means they easily enter into relationships. They have very low standards for boyfriends, and are very unlikely to stay committed for a long time. A woman of a similar age who has had 3 boyfriends is very selective about who she calls her partner, likely thinks of a boyfriend as something very significant, and…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 02:47 AM
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They are trying to become what most attractive women want. I don't agree with lying and being a pick up artist, but saying to allow fate to take place sounds really immature and idealistic. People have been calling dating a numbers game before the red pill and the majority of people will view it that way. People who believe in fate also strategize that but in frankly a much less healthy way - horoscopes, personality tests, all of that is someone's attempt to curate fate. Everyone has a strategy …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 02:37 AM
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This isn't the premise of what those guys believe. I'm not a red piller but labeling something as anti women because they don't want to deal with women that they feel manipulate them, basically makes the case that all women are the type to manipulate men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 02:34 AM
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I'm not triggered, I don't know you at all and have no problem finding dates or women to sleep with. You just don't make sense. Unless someone is asexual or both partners are castrated, I can't see a relationship where a man is truly happy dating a woman that will not sleep with him. The only way I can rationalize that is manipulation. What meaning is being your boyfriend if you've had 10? It's like wearing a crown at Burger King at that point. I'm not a "real" King and the likelihood our relati…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 02:11 AM
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Dating you sounds kind of wack. And yes, what the question implies is that relationships are basically meaningless if you've had more than 3. You're just calling people your boyfriend because you need someone to take care of you. I'd sooner adopt a child than get into a relationship with no physics intimacy. What the hell is the point of being committed to someone who you can't have a physical relationship with? Seems like, again, you just trick dudes into "dating" you for their resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 01:48 AM
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Or she had never had a chance to play the field in a casual way and wanted to. Post break up hoe phases are super common. I wouldn't knock a girl for that. Guys do the same shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 01:45 AM
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But by this logic, women should be the ones responsive for preventing getting the virus?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 01:44 AM
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How meaningful is a relationship to a person if they've had more than 3? If someone has had 10 relationships I would think they date people to justify having sex with them. I only date women I have a really strong connection with. Also, you expect someone to only sleep with 4 people mac but have been in committed relationships with more than 3 people? Your math just doesn't add up to me ngl.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 01:35 AM
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Damn I thought I was the only one
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 10:45 PM
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I get tested regularly and pay for the herpes test, but thanks for the source... and the lecture too I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 08:18 PM
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Is there a source for that? I'm 30+ and I have neither hsv 1 or 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 08:11 PM
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Fuck outta here. We demand proof. Chick looks like a ruler.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 07:33 PM
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Women have this problem when it's apparent that the only thing a man wants from them is sex and they are seeking a deeper connection with that man. A lot of guys in here are like "oh but the guy is attractive, if he's unattractive they won't care." Like - sure, but if the woman wants to date that attractive man his oversexualizing of her is still going to piss her off. If she's not attracted to you there isn't a compliment in the world that's gonna change that in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 03:46 PM
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Using 15 year olds seems weird since it's going to drag those numbers down. People don't start hoing it up until their late teens/early 20s, most men don't hit their stride until late 20s in modern times. This also has nothing to do with hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 12:50 PM
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FDS is a comfort strategy and not a practical lifestyle, just like incels. They aren't women with shitloads of real options, they're either women shooting way above their pay grade or just straight up thumbs. Women don't need a dating strategy, they invented the fucking dating game.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 03:58 AM
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Thanks for the honest answer and kind words. I'm on my way out so hopefully won't be dealing with it much longer.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 08:43 PM
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Cool, thanks for the thoughtful reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 07:25 PM
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Do you feel like women process rejection the same as men? Part of what drove this post is that someone on this sub was arguing with me back and forth that men should never cold approach women and that women should be the ones to select men, and that if men didn't approach women they would get rejected less. The inference here is that men should be "taking what they can get and be happy with it." I see you comment here a lot and am interested in your perspective on that. Would you be happier or l…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 07:07 PM
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Twice, holy hell haha. I think I've been rejected twice in the last 5 days.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 06:05 PM
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She's not my boss. I'm not being vague, and my concern with your comment is the you wouldn't give this same feedback to a woman if she presented you with the same information. She is an Office Manager. I'm a mid-level Director. I'm technically her superior. She will follow me out the door to get lunch with me and ask me for unnecessary favors. She has support. She will interrupt me in a meeting sometime to ask me what groceries she should buy, to help her move boxes, put stuff away. I have a pat…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 06:03 PM
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I have enforced them so many times. She is relentless. She will ask me to walk her home when she lives no where near me, I have on the instances where she has asked to borrow my computer told her that I can't do that and can't help her and that I'm busy. We literally have computers lying around that no one uses. She has straight up pulled the "but you're a man and I need help" card. I feel like if I went to HR I would be looked at as dramatic. Even my director, a mentor to me and someone I'm rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 04:06 PM
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I really don't have time to deal with an egomaniac trying so hard to pretend they're the epitome of female presence and at the same time a victim of the patriarchy. I also saw that you called me a pick up artist in some other random echo chamber sub. I'm not. What the hell is the point of having a conversation with you about this? You live in your own reality and just reframe whatever happens to you to for whatever is convenient to you. A guy could pick you up and ghost you tomorrow and you woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 07:20 AM
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This is exactly what I'm talking about. Women have absolutely no fucking clue how biology works at all and have no idea what an average man looks like. The World Health Organization literally calls a man with love handles and a modest gut athletic, and you think "muscle burns fat." It's these kind of crazy, science avoidant thought patterns that make men think women are crazy. You can tell a woman that a fit man making 100k a year at 6'3" is less than 1% of men and they would get offended that y…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 04:31 AM
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You're out of your mind. Men don't hit on you for "validation." They do it because they think you're attractive and want to sleep with you. You're saying it's only ok for women to hit on men? Should we wait for the world to freeze over? Get over yourself. You're not a mind reader and when a hot guy comes up to you you're talking to him, if they ever do.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 04:15 AM
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You sound like you're in denial. If a man approaching you and hitting on you is an alarm to you then you're probably one of those chicks who dates online and hands a dude a survey. Good luck dating a foot stool.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 04:10 AM
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I personally am attracted to women who have a career, are attractive, have a good sex of humor, and are sexually adventurous. There are a lot of things about traditional women, or even less liberal women, that I don't find attractive. The things about modern women that I find repulsive are actually the things that make them more traditional, not progressive. Their willingness to date 40+ year old men for money, desire a man who will eventually let them retire early to play house wife (oh but the…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 04:07 AM
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You're assuming that these guys hand over their phones and show their Reddit profile to women they meet. Red Pill dudes look and act like Andrew Schulz, not like Ben Shapiro. Successful red pill men work out and have careers, and know how to talk to women when they're around but are cynical about their dating habits and blow off steam about it when they're with their friends. They're not talking about hypergamy on dates and being rude to women they're attracted to. It goes against their entire i…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 03:48 AM
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This is so accurate. Most women don't even understand how lopsided the genetic shift is that they can't comprehend fat distribution. A man's stomach and lower back is the first place he will put on fat. This means a man at 16% body fat, in the athletic category of fitness, will not have abs and might even have love handles. Women put fat on their face and stomach last. A woman with a gut is frankly neglecting her health. The game of looks in this regard is totally slanted, especially for the maj…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 03:38 AM
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Lol you girls have literally no idea what you're talking about. I wouldn't call myself either of those things but the first two things those dating materials teach you is how to be a gentlemen to women and be rejected with grace. There's a significant chance that if you slept with a genuine man who ended up ghosting you at some point he was TRP. Not to spoil the bag but you have access to the internet anyway. Red pill guys philosophy revolves around "girls just want to have fun." The way a TRP m…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 03:15 AM
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Dude sounds like he's mgtow.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 03:11 AM
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I have attracted FDS women and no I wouldn't. Some of the shit they ask for is crazy. I had a girl tell me it was expected that I send ubers to and from her apartment for dates. That's something a prostitute would ask for. She told me the only reason she showed up to the date when I didn't offer is because I was "handsome and probably untrained." That girl stayed single for a while until she found a dude that lived in her own neighborhood lmao. The women that I've met that fit FDS characteristic…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 03:09 AM
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I mean I'm 5'9" on the button and regularly fuck women casually. I also live alone, have a great job, am very confident, dress nice, etc. Am I always banging Stacy? No. But I've rejected attractive women taller than me. What you notice at this height is that the pickiest women of all are short girls, rich girls, and/or overweight women. Women in the 5-7 attractive range between 5'5" and 5'10" are open minded as hell and down to fuck if you satisfy other requirements like being in shape, having a…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 03:04 AM
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Girls who think they're hot start the looks discussion all the time. A lot of girls that preach pink/black pill shit but dislike hypergamy also don't like the idea that their boyfriend could be hotter than them. Do you out earn your boyfriend, or are you of a similar income level? Are you younger than 25? You don't have to answer these questions obviously since you avoided them above but like I said, you're either coming from a family with mad money which is why money doesn't matter to you or yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 10:58 PM
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I honestly have a hard time believing even a shred of what you say. Would you date an extremely attractive man who was extremely poor? Does the neighborhood a man lives in change the way you feel about him, in your big city? Size of his apartment? Access/lack of vehicle? If we're talking about exclusively casual sex I would see your point, but if we're talking about the whole enchilada I'm pressed to think you're just posturing because you think you're hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 10:50 PM
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Move to Manhattan.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 10:43 PM
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This reads like a chick who doesn't want to believe in superficial hypergamy. The uncomfortable truth for most guys is not that they want girls who are hotter than them, it's that women who are as attractive as them want men who are more attractive than themselves. If looksmatching (black pill) was everything then you wouldn't see so many women with busted dudes. You wouldn't see 20 year olds dating 40 year olds. You wouldn't see so many mis-matched couples based on looks. The only place looksma…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 10:39 PM
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Those who left straight families at an older age did worse on standardized tests The families they left were poor. A family who can afford to adopt obviously has more money than one who has to abandon a child We're talking about a margin of 4.8 points on average. This study that your sharing does use a better method for removing any empirical biases from traditional social stigma, but it does not control for class mobility through the adoption. If you read the the study itself, it touches on thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 05:24 PM
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Almost all of them were raised by straight parents in their formative years, also. You should tell the whole truth and not just the parts that are convenient to confirm your bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 05:04 PM
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Not to be a dick but your blog post is certainly not a source. Psychological journals frankly almost unilaterally show that gay couples are more likely to raise troubled kids than straight couples, but less likely than single parents, so it's better than a single parent home but not as good as a straight home. These are widely researched topics, I'm sure you swam through all the articles stating that straight parents are the preferred archetype to find the bullshit you shared with us up there.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 05:01 PM
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It's a combination. Also, the percentage of women who advocate for fatherless homes is astonishing. A friend of mine, single mother, has a great relationship with the father of her son. The amount of people who consistently tell her that she should remove him from the picture is disgusting. Her mother, her sister, friends, like holy shit. There are a lot of dead beat dudes who walk out, but the amount of women who think they're equipped to do a fathers job, and that a fathers only job is to put …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 04:54 PM
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I mean that shit is just creepy as hell from a dude's perspective. You're kind of a black sheep for appreciating this approach, but given that your style is much more passive I can see how something like this would make more sense for you. I would only like 10 of a girls photos if she did it to me first, or if we were already chatting on Instagram. I, personally, absolutely detest needy women (not saying you are; I don't know you personally) but I would personally worry that someone that respons…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 04:27 PM
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Are you in the US? This sounds like something that would fly in other parts of the world but get you put on a watch list in the states.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 04:20 PM
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As an adult man reading your comments, that's honestly some what concerning. Based on how you view roles and discuss your interpretation of male issues, it doesn't sound like you can give men unbiased advice, if you're giving advice as some therapists don't really.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 05:55 AM
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I hate to say it but your subjective dispositions towards women make me think you would be too biased to counsel men. Like it's actually kind of wild to me how you can be in your field and not be aware of how much confirmation bias comes along with your train of thought. There's a lot to unpack here in what you wrote but I honestly don't really want to keep this going. To me it really sounds like you have a soft spot for the female experience and for women because you identify with women and you…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 05:09 AM
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Men often want to have sex that has nothing to do with emotions at all. Sure, it makes a big difference if you like the person you're sleeping with, even on a platonic level, but it isn't necessarily emotional for men. It's more primal and lustful. Women above a certain age must be aware of this - like I frankly refuse to believe a woman 25 years or older doesn't know this to be the case. I guess I'm curious - if a man told you that men often want to have sex and it's not tied to their emotions,…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 10:41 PM
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Look - I don't want to go back and forth all this all day either, and also want to be clear that I think is nothing malicious about what you're saying. To me though, it is difficult to believe a lot of what you wrote in this last post is sincere. We started with you saying it's ok for women to assume they're committed to man if he introduced to her friends, and that women have a biological response to sex and thus must be understood that sex with them needs to be viewed as significant and meanin…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 09:15 PM
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"Guys who don't treat sex like a blank check transaction with women are abusers"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 08:02 PM
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Augh. I honestly don't know where to begin. I'm not personally attacking you, for starters. You've taken every chance you've had to make your comments personal towards me by implying I'm socially inept and then sitting here and lecturing me on the drunk version of human ecology. I get it, but it doesn't change the premise of what we're talking about - you think women are owed something in exchange for sex. Believing in that on the surface is what makes you bias. You can sit here like Charlie fro…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 06:53 PM
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It's really obvious when someone leads in with a bias, and also doesn't understand the meaning of the words they're using. People not liking to be in relationships with people who maintain contact with their exes is not superficial. Nothing about that is based on a persons physical appearance. People stay in contact with their exes because there is still a connection there, people don't have to be ok with that, in fact making people think they do can come across as manipulative. I'm not talking …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 05:50 PM
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Yeah I don't know if you're running for office or if you're just a chick but I'm not being superficial in the slightest. Men are far less picky than women when it comes to relationships. Sexual satisfaction isn't superficial, in fact one of the main premises of my post was that men are not leaving women because they're unattractive, they're leaving because they're sexually dissatisfied, disrespected, and smothered.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 05:32 PM
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You're perfectly fine with women that put no effort into sex, violate your space and boundaries, and disrespect you?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 05:13 PM
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Sex = he owes me something (shuffles papers, throws out the word oxytocin) Women asking guys for favors, holding their hand, cuddling them on the couch, letting them pay for their meals, etc = things women do with eachother all the time. Look, I understand your premise, but you're also looking at this from an extremely biased point of view. Is sex intimate? Sure. But women don't live in a glass box. They know men don't instantly build emotional attachment from sex. You said before that women don…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 04:03 PM
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So basically you're saying it's ok to be biased because women are women and are allowed to assume things without clear communication, but men aren't. Look, if I like a girl I tell her. I don't get friendzoned. If a girl pulls that shit I just say hey, sorry for the miscommunication but we should probably stop seeing eachother. Haven't had to do that in years, and the girls that freaked out about it we're clearly manipulators. You're basically saying that women are not accountable to uncover thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 03:41 PM
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Look - I appreciate your perspective but I can't help but feel a bias here. I've introduced my fwbs to my friends, it had nothing to do with me wanting a relationship. Sometimes you'd just rather hang out in a group than alone with someone all night you have no real connection with. Here's why I think you're biased - you think it's ok to assume a relationship with no direct verbal communication in one instance but not in another. Assuming sex = I'm owed something is a transactional view around s…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 03:24 PM
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It's actually 4 pronged entitlement. Friendzone guy is entitled to a relationship because he spends time and money on a girl. Girl who friendzones is entitled thinking this man's time is owed to her just because he's given her time previously. She's entitled to this man's friendship. Girl who is fuckzoned is entitled by thinking sex = he owes me time/money/relationship. Guy who fucks a girl who clearly likes him thinks this shit won't blow up in his face, and is thus entitled to impunity despite…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 02:20 PM
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:/
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 02:18 PM
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I remember when I got into the kink community and thought it made me holier than thou. I miss being 22. Please get over yourself, you sound like a child. You literally started an argument in the body of your post and are bewildered that people will call you out. The only people who are coming to defend you are similarly naive and egotistical. You were free to add nuance to your post before you decided to posture and single out a group of people for subjective reasons, and calling them sexually i…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 10:32 PM
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I will say what most men who date a lot of women won't say. We don't leave because we think you're ugly or that we're hotter than you or have more options. Other women are better in bed than you and you underestimate how much of a priority that is for us. You can't just lay there and do jack shit nothing, make no sound, give no head, and think we should be honored to sleep with you just because you're a woman. I'll generalize further since I'm already on the hate train. The only other reasons we…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 10:28 PM
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It's directly relevant given your snide comment about how they would do it incorrectly or with uninformed consent. You can't make a beat around the bush comment like that and expect not to be called out. I'm not a red piller but the superiority complex shit was pretty apparent.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 10:06 PM
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It is a little fucking out there but you do you homie
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 12:33 AM
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For some people looks matter more and some less. I think everyone has one attribute that they care most about, maybe two that are like strong desires, but people are human and they aren't supposed to be perfect. In fact there are many songs about how a person's imperfections can be associated with quirks that are memorable and attractive about them. It doesn't surprise me that a presumably young girl felt insecure in the scenario you described, though I never know if anything on that sub is legi…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 12:31 AM
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Yeah, because that's what I said. Get a grip, dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 12:23 AM
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Laws don't prevent criminals from committing crimes that are already illegal. They only impact people who already follow laws. You're just going to make it harder for younger people who seek independence to obtain it because of your subjective ideas about age.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 10:32 PM
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Today on PPD - more weirdly conservative people pushing their weird ideas about sex on other people
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 10:16 PM
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I might be conflating nihilism with egoism just fyi.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 09:40 PM
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Given that nihilism is your justification for none of these behaviors being altruist - do you see any behaviors or any general human characteristics that stem from or lead to altruism at all? Again, just seems like your justification for a lack of altruism is nihilism.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 09:39 PM
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Lol for sure. I guess the differentiation for me is the difference between love and lust. A man who is sex minded and wants many partners is how I see your thoughts making sense. I think every guy knows at least one guy, or may have been this guy at some point in his life, that was so in love with a woman that he would have given an arm for her. There is a potential in all men (in my view) to put the life of a woman ahead of his own (though most stable minded women would probably not be attracte…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 09:29 PM
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Yeah I guess it's difficult to make assumptions about people based on text posts. I have lots of friendships male and female and am not starved for love in any way, really. I actually also am super critical about people not accepting nuance in discussions, although I do have hard lines on some issues. One thing I'll say is you can make the argument that anything and anyone is selfish - that people do good things for people because it makes them feel good is the founding principle of nihilism, af…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 09:17 PM
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Seems like you have a toxic shame mindset when it comes to men that was likely taught to you by women. I hate to assume but if you're a guy and I knew you in real life, the first thing I would think is that you didn't have access to a healthy male role model growing up.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 09:07 PM
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You and I have never spoken, but yes, in the specific instance where men fall in love with women, their love expresses itself in sacrifice and altruism. Women tend to view love itself in a selfish way as a transaction. This general premise, from a high level, is why and how it all works. The general red pill + alpha male mindset basically is to prevent a man from falling in love in order to prevent this level of altruism and sacrifice, where as in a blue pill scenario, selfishness can be maintai…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 08:57 PM
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It isn't rape. People having drunk sex is not rape, you're all mentally ill.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 08:44 PM
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A girl I went to college with serial raped a bunch of dudes while they were passed out drunk at parties and she is one of those Instagram activist/allies for women. Utterly disgusting misandrist who also has an only fans on the low.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 08:43 PM
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You need to get a grip. Argue his points, not his character. Saying it would also be rape if it happened to him is the argument, but saying that women have no accountability is actually just you proving his point. Fact of the matter is if a drunk woman is begging for a sex and a guy is also just as drunk and horny, that man's decision making is also inhibited but he is still the one at more risk. You're not making any arguments other than the classic "women are infants so treat them like infants…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 08:41 PM
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:/ 🧢🧢🧢🧢
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 08:36 PM
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They're talking about the drunk woman initiating sex and then rescinding consent the following morning, in this hypothetical scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 08:35 PM
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The news flash is they aren't going to give a fuck in either context, they never will. They are psychologically wired from a nature and nurture perspective to behave as selfishly and self-righteously as possible and men are psychologically wired in the same way to support them. The difference in our arguments is that I'm not telling women to go shit in the woods. There are actually some self-aware women in the world that choose - against their own instincts, to not be hypergamous (although this …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 07:54 PM
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The traditional argument here which I think is the ultimate essence of purple pill is that women criticize the patriarchy but enjoy and demand masculine and paternal behaviors and systems from men. Women want full-time work and equal pay, but will only marry men that out earn them. They gravitate towards jobs that fall in line with preconceived gender predispositions, like education, medicine, and child care, but stay away from and expect men to do more dangerous and blue color work like electri…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 07:24 PM
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Sigh OP had a great premise and title for a solid debate and he want full fucking neo-con in the body. Come on bro, that's like saying people shouldn't get laser eye surgery because it was invented by a dude who experimented on people against their will. What a shitty way to take the post. You make people with reasonable criticisms on this topic look like idiots.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 06:37 PM
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I mean, I feel like you're talking about me. The older a guy gets the more women want from him. If you're attractive enough you can have a variety of early stage/less committed relationships that offer the sex and comfort you're looking for, and marriage looks more and more like a shit show when you see women closer to your age wanting financial stability while not wanting to work themselves, kids sooner rather than later, and somehow still maintaining the same if not greater superficial standar…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 06:31 PM
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It's not about beta or alpha or familiarity. So much of these red pill philosophies ignore the common principles of attraction because it involves solving your insecurities and being more emotionally stable. The short answer is neediness. It's not that you're "familiar" it's that you're not letting these women breathe. Women want time to process their feelings apart from men they are getting to know. A man's willingness to give space and desire for his own space creates a healthy amount of tensi…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 05:05 PM
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Not for me. I slept with close to a dozen women the year I broke up with an ex I really liked and the sex didn't do anything. Dated with serious intentions 1 or 2 girls as well but it didn't help. Only thing that actually helped was me being comfortable being single first. Took a break from dating then went back into the game with a clear head.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 04:42 AM
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You make no sense and sound like a child. I don't even know if you're talking to me or just at me. If you've never talked to a woman in your life you don't really get to come into a conversation acting like you know a damn thing about them:
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 09:35 PM
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I really don't like it when girls ask because I don't care and at the same time don't want to go through my history. Younger girls especially just rattle them off - like hey - stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 09:34 PM
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Every time a message from you hits my inbox I feel stupider. You just wrote 1 sentence 4 times over. I hope to god you're in high school and not an adult man. Anyone as dumb as you shouldn't be allowed to drive a car or vote.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 09:26 PM
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No lol. Idk who hurt you guys but that aint it. I've had girls tell me that they didn't want to fuck me and I've flat out said to them "I'm not interested in dating you. We can fuck and have a good time or just stop talking" and have had girls come home with me. Sure maybe if you look like a total foot and have no personality, but most guys that are this combination of rich and totally busted aren't randomly surprised when women try to game them for their money. That's literally their dating gam…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 09:17 PM
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It's more like a checklist. If two people have an an amazing personality but one is in shape, who is more attractive? Add other elements. Great personality, in shape, stable income, tall stature, lots of friends, good family. It's not about having all of them but the more you have the better your setup is for success.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 08:50 PM
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The truth is that if you were willing to lower your standards you probably wouldn't be single. That's not just true for most men, it's true for most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 08:43 PM
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I am not even remotely close to offended. I'm getting to a place where I'm wondering if English is your second language or something. Your opinions are not facts. Please go outside for 10 minutes and get some fresh air.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 07:28 PM
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Same brother keep fighting the good fight.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 06:44 PM
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You don't know what a fact is. If you don't like me then stop talking to me. Your utterances come off like you're a teenager.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 06:40 PM
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I'm single because I'm picky. I think that's true for most men. Last relationship I was in was about 6 months ago. Girl checked all my boxes but was terrible in bed. Literally just laid there, I thought I was hurting her. After the fact that she would describe how good it was and etc. Never knew if she really meant it, all I knew is I wasn't feeling it. Guys have different dating preferences. I believe in a 2 income home so I stay away from chicks with part time jobs or overly religious women. L…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 06:40 PM
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Asking a woman out on a date is the thing you're looking for. If she says yes she's interested. If she says maybe she's on the fence/is more interested in another man than you, if she says no it means there is zero chance what so ever. Ask her out at a specific place and time on a specific day. Don't be the kind of idiot that takes 40 messages to get a date on the books. "I'd love to treat you to a cocktail. Let's go to (Bar) on Thursday at 7:30 pm. What do you say?" Get the plans done and get o…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 05:55 PM
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No it doesn't. Learn the importance of grammar, as well as the difference between an opinion and a fact. You and I are both sharing our opinions. My opinion of you is that you're an undersexed moron with shitty ideas of what women should and shouldn't do with their own bodies, who probably wishes he was born 60 years ago so that you wouldn't actually have to try to find a woman who might actually like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 05:44 PM
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Because of what? Not having a desire to control what women do with their own bodies? Half of you guys are serial masturbators and consumers of sex services, but somehow a woman who has slept with more than 10 men is beneath you. I have a high body count. I'm not a Chad, I'm just not dismissing my own sexual desires. Why should a woman dismiss hers? I'd rather date a woman with a sexual past she's satisfied with than a frustrated one who didn't have as much sex as she wanted as that would increas…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 05:42 PM
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You insulted that other person by calling them an idiot. Don't dish it out if you can't take it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 05:14 PM
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Yeah, as a guy I think this post is misguided. My understanding, as a man (your input on this would be cool to see since you seem like a reasonable person), is that Chad is attractive and thus is basically only good for sex, and boyfriend material guys can be as or less attractive but have more going for them, thus women go slower with them because they don't want to "fuck it up" and have more time to put him "under her spell" before taking his belt off and doing the nasty.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 04:57 PM
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Hmm I wonder if women view me in the same way because I work in Enterprise Software Sales. I'm very extroverted, and sexually "liberal" when I'm single, but I zero in and stay committed when I'm in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 04:54 PM
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Had a girl insist on getting the bill on a first date I went to last Friday just because I traveled to her town instead of having her come to the city. These old school women think they can verbally insist that feminism isn't real in hopes that it magically goes away.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 04:51 PM
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You're incredibly insecure and probably don't get a lot of attention from women, which is probably why you care about. I am a man if that's not clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 04:45 PM
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These conversations happened, I'm not a woman, but I believe it. Conservative guys sex/slut shame their friends and partners for sure, especially if they find out their own history is not as extensive as their partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 03:34 PM
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I gotta be honest - I know so few men who think like any of the men in this sub. You guys act like the only time you've seen a woman is in church. Yes, men who have sex with a lot of people are praised by men, and shallow, usually younger and more immature women. Obviously, the older that man gets the more people view his behavior as a mental illness.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 03:19 PM
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That just isn't true
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 03:13 PM
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She's 16 I'm surprised you guys are responding to her at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 03:12 PM
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Dudes with money and options are way more likely to cheat than dudes without it. As someone adjacent to the finance industry I can tell you many of those men are not loyal to their wives. In a world where money = attraction for most women, those men have options and they typically are not loyal.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 03:12 PM
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My very first girlfriend I kissed another woman maybe 2 weeks after we started dating. I wasn't sure how long the relationship was supposed to last so I kept it to myself for a while. It never sat well with me and I told my girlfriend a year into our relationship. She was upset for a while but we're able to move past it, though I'd be lying if things stayed the same. I consider doing this one of my bigger mistakes. I would never and could never have sex with another woman while I'm in a relation…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 03:10 PM
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That's not the point I'm making. You sound like a 9 year old because you think you need to explain to people that people commonly have strong friendships with their partners, and that sex isn't a critical component of a relationship. To be clear - sex is critical. Thinking it is not is immature.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 07:13 AM
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You sound like a 9 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 07:12 AM
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Come on bro are you serious?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 07:10 AM
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Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 07:08 AM
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I mean the kind of girls who think that way, namely those who come from places like FDS, think that because a woman has committed to a man, and because they are denying other male attention to honor that commitment, that a man's job is to make themselves constantly in tune with their woman's emotions, and to essentially be mind readers. When they obviously fail at that because people tend to stay the same people they were before and after a relationship begins, those women want to balance that e…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 04:56 AM
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I don't know if you live in Alaska or something but women go out and have casual sex frequently and often primarily based on a man's superficial appearance. Water is also wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 04:45 AM
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I've made some girls really mad talking about this. There's something about being placed in the boyfriend category early on that's a little too intense, and something manipulative about them making you wait for sex when it's obviously not coming from an authentic place. Having had this conversation multiple times, I've heard the following responses when I've said the above opinion. They do this for safety reasons - they've had bad and dangerous experiences being intimate with new people too soon…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 04:41 AM
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My frustration with sex is the opposite. I think women should have sex at whatever speed they want and find that women who really like you want to make you wait because of the shitty things men say about their normal sexual habits. Other times the desire to wait seems to come from a place of "building up tension"/"making men think about you" etc. I've really only ever heard it said from TRPs that they would like women to be more conservative and wait to sleep with them. Most men I know usually s…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 04:24 AM
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Some girls do walk up to people and just fuck them. We're calling bullshit because you're either a unique person who isn't capable of having superficial tendencies, or you're posturing that all women are this unique type of person. As a man, I've been lucky enough to have a woman come up to me and tell me I was good looking and make advances on me. It's just horse shit to think that women are not capable of being sexually impulsive in a superficial way.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 01:15 AM
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You keep acting like this isn't a contract which from anyone with a legal background makes you look like a dumbass. Do you disagree with every divorce attorney, Cornell University, the Federal Supreme Court of the United States, and any other legal research and adjudicating body that marriage isn't a contract? You guys are full blown stupid. Redditors and Uber liberals think they get to redefine reality for convenience. I don't get how you think you can jump in with an opinion when we're talking…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 07:08 AM
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You're the kind of person that does shitty things to dudes and then blames dudes about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 03:10 AM
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I wanted to do that but I used the cross post feature which didn't allow me to customize anything other than a title. Can I do it in a comment/have a mod pin it?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 02:22 AM
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The people around me are great sans the women I date. One of the last dates I went on was with a girl who told me how she was disgusted with her sister for telling her husband that he didn't have to work anymore because she could support the both of them while he raised their child, because she earns double his salary. Went on a date with another woman shortly after that ended in casual sex. She started asking me about my dating history and I told her about a girl I dated recently who would smac…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 02:20 AM
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Whoever that guy is from forgetting Sarah Marshall
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 02:01 AM
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Love of self and belief that if there is a will there is a way. I go on dates as much as my schedule will allow for and know that if I fail it's not for a lack of trying. I have a loving family, great friends, I live in a cool place and have a good career. If I end up alone it may be bitter sweet with me clutching onto my pride, but at least I'll know that I didn't settle for someone who only cared for me for the wrong reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 01:58 AM
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There are certainly women who embrace their ethereal and conceptual mind over that of their animal instincts and deterministic desires for low effort shelter and resources, but we know it's few and far between. I personally strive to find a partner that does not think this way, but the truth is that the majority of women do, the same way the majority of men have fragile egos and want to be with women who earn less than them and tell them they're sex gods. The argument I'm making is that most peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 01:51 AM
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:/ you're closing the doors and what might have been a fantastic shitshow my friend
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 01:46 AM
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Like - I get the practicality of what you're saying, but a hospital isn't allowed to share your DNA with the government. They already do share your medical records, blood tests, and other HIPPA compliance covered info with medical institutions and research facilities. If those facilities share your information with the government then they already have a lot of information about or adjacent to your DNA.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 01:24 AM
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They aren't having sex with someone they thought would betray them 🤦🏻‍♂️ some people are just great liars. Some people don't find out that they've been lied to about their paternity for decades after it happened. You act like everyone is a walking talking fucking mind reader.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 01:06 AM
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You act like this isn't exactly what someone would say if they were lying about paternity? "If you don't trust me then why are you with me?" Like dude, this is gaslighting 101. People don't date someone thinking "she might be a cheater but I'll take my chances." The fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 01:05 AM
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I mention in another comment that the license itself is not a contract. The act of agreeing to marry someone with an officiant/witness is the contract. It's a legally binding agreement. Anyone who thinks the IRS can get involved and shift your taxes around without the presence of a legal agreement either has a fundamental misunderstanding of how laws work or they're being intentionally misleading. Tit for tat, marriage is most often the most legally complicated and consequential contract a perso…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 01:01 AM
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You can legally make a case that lying about the paternity of a child is entrapment, coercion, and a form of financial fraud. We're also not even really talking about giving the government your DNA. We're talking about using a cotton swab at a hospital with you and your child to validate that you share the same DNA. Your DNA is more likely to make its way to Pfizer's hands than uncle Sam's, or towards a Medical University research lab. My comment against the government having access to your info…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 12:58 AM
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Definitely what it seems like
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 11:37 PM
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I guess that's fair, many states also require that you sign an antenuptial agreement after the ceremony, which is a form of contract. Contracts are legally binding agreements. They can be verbal, written, or ratified through actions. If I buy a car from you in as is condition, me giving you my money is "signing" that contract. Whether or not you physically sign a piece of paper or not does not mean that marriage is or isn't a contract. It's a legally binding agreement. It's a contract.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 07:44 PM
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:/ you clearly have no idea wtf a contract is. Google is your friend dude. Have a nice day.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 07:40 PM
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It is far more significant than either of those things. You don't have to provide a blood test to get a drivers license. You don't share access to your car with the DMV when you die or become forced to split up and disclose your financial assets upon request or separation in either of those situations. I am not a lawyer, but I work and am surrounded by lawyers. I'd rather take medical advice from a registered nurse than a dude who tells me that vaccines are dangerous. Going around and telling pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 07:32 PM
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Any type of written agreement is contract buddy. Not sure who told you it isn't. If you check a box when signing up for Netflix, or to play a video game, you've signed a EULA which is a contract. Antenuptial Agreements and Community of Property Agreements are contracts, whether you verbally commit in good faith or formally commit with a signature. I work in legal services fwiw.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 07:21 PM
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I think guys like that should pay child support and I also support the reverse circumstance of this. Nothing that you're saying would be crazy to ethical men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 07:13 PM
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I think that's fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 07:12 PM
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Manipulative thing to say
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 07:10 PM
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A marriage contract has more legal and financial implications than a mortgage.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 07:09 PM
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You're asking for a man to accuse his wife and challenge paternity. I'm asking for a 3rd party to validate it. You want the man to feel uncomfortable and for him not to ask. I want him to not feel that pressure and to have it be a part of the standard process. We're not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 07:04 PM
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You sound biased. I'm speaking from a place of data. If men have kids that aren't theirs and get pressured into raising those kids when finding out, and it's literally just a fucking cotton swab in the cheek, there is literally zero reason to not do it at birth other than to be sympathetic to manipulative mothers. It's not like men have babies coming out of their dicks and it's ethical or necessary for them to have eyes on their wives or be jealous of their interactions with others at all times.…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 06:58 PM
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Buying which part?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 06:49 PM
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I mean you're making a pretty clear argument as to why it should be cocktailed with opt-in procedures at birth. If a 3rd party offers it then you can both just say yeah sure, it's a fucking cotton swab. If my wife said "no we don't need that" then I would be suspicious. There's also a lot that can be learned from DNA testing your children, like predisposition to illness and likelihood that they develop certain eye color, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 06:49 PM
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Everyone keeps saying this - what does the government do with this data that is nefarious? Tell people that you're 1/8th Inuit? The government has your SS#, your location, access to your spending behavior, text messages, emails, this is so shifty. "Oh but the gubmint will have your DNA." If the government having access to your personal information was a problem for you then you wouldn't get the covid vaccine or own a cell phone.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 06:45 PM
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That's the problem, it isn't about suspicion. Why should this be something that is operated entirely on a persons word? If it were a standard part of the procedure it wouldn't be up to the man to trust his gut, it would be up to the woman to admit if she wasn't faithful. There are plenty of men not suspicious raising another man's child. The layers of guilt trips and burdens placed on the man to find this out, and then the guilt trips and burdens placed on a man who finds out years later and wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 06:42 PM
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Lol this is kind of a shit test of a post because anyone that says no will be viewed as suspicious. The common/manipulative argument is that asking for a DNA test is accusatory, but if it's standard practice that argument goes to shit. I have always approved of this, but similar to an argument where we rethink laws and practices around divorce, alimony, and child support, women have created a moratorium on these topics and no real change will ever be made.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 05:29 PM
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Separate google searches, about 21% of straight men searched for it. Women are 186% more likely according to similar statistics which means that around 80%~ of women search for lesbian porn. Again, the primary concept of what we're talking about is still somewhat similar. It's certainly possible that women search for lesbian porn more because it both focuses on the woman's pleasure and causes the female user to maybe be less concerned about the woman's safety. I'm not saying that women are inher…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 10:28 AM
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Look - I'm not going to deny the point you're making but I hope you understand it looks kind of like a stretch. Pornhub is certainly not an ethical website, but the supposition here is that they're controlling the content users put on their site and that companies and users create. The reason why gay porn statistics aren't included is because women watch lesbian porn at a 5x factor than men watching gay porn. It fetishized and gives credence to the idea that women are more likely to be bi-curiou…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 10:20 AM
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Having hard time understanding why pornhub would make that up, what exactly is the benefit? I've heard from women since before ph exploded that lesbian porn was more interesting because most other porn is written from a perverted man's perspective and desire. Why would they intentionally misrepresent their search data?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 09:42 AM
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"You people" jfc. Look things up before speaking out of your ass https://www.health.com/sex/why-women-watch-lesbian-porn
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 09:34 AM
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Every time BDSM has come up in sex for me it was a woman who suggested it. Fact of the matter is young women are the ones pushing a lot of those fetishes. I do agree with you that porn causes chemical addiction in some men. There are in fact studies that say so. I don't agree with the idea that dominate/submissive fetishes are man or even reinforced by men. As women become more independent in society they crave more high stakes masculine behavior in the bedroom. It's a psychological consequence …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 08:12 AM
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The tone of your post comes off as misogynistic. Sure, women are consumers and they buy shit that comes from sweatshops. We all do that. You probably typed that comment on an iPhone. Anyone that knows anything about the porn industry knows that more than 90% of porn content is made to appeal to male audience. It's actually the #1 reason why women, even exclusively straight women, only watch lesbian porn, because it's one of the few genres that focus on their pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 08:01 AM
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This 80% of men are not attracted by women shit needs to stop. The same group of people who criticize a victim Olympic society can't also be the main competitors. 80% of men are not viewed as unattractive by women just because of a bullshit swiping analysis by okcupid. More than 60% of men will be married in their lifetime, I'm not even sure where you got that made up stat, which also by your own math doesn't make sense. How are 80% of men unattractive but half of them are married? Use your brai…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 07:56 AM
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I mean this is what everyone says but what I actually feel like is happening is that men have stronger sexual desires and so do women, but men more so. The women who generally complain about porn do so because they liken it to cheating or because they themselves are not sexually adventurous. This does not mean bdsm or humiliation. There are plenty of women who don't like porn because they don't want to be pressured to do something vanilla like give their man a blow job. There's also the other si…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 09:06 PM
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:/ ok buddy didn't realize this was such a touchy subject for you
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 07:59 PM
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You sound extremely naive. If you think the oversexualization of women is a good thing for men or society as a whole in the long run you're honestly just trying to fool yourself. I'm not pretending like I don't watch porn. Making women into sexual objects and celebrating them as such in social and commercial ways gives them the power to be sexual selectors at a higher level than they are naturally. It's intuitive as hell and incredibly obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 07:56 PM
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There's a massive distinction between attraction and obsession. The obsession is what women receive. Men consistently being inundated with sexual acts and a desire to perform in real life is exacerbated by porn. Humans will always be attracted to each other. I'm not talking about creating attraction. I'm talking about reinforcing obsession.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 07:51 PM
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It's the epitome of doing so. We commoditize women and sex to such an extent that we either pay outright to see them naked or peruse the web to gain sexual satisfaction from them vicariously. The sexual objectification of women through porn contributes to the obsession men have around having sex with them. It's all part of the same picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 07:45 PM
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Right I understand your point but we're talking about the average man. The mean distribution for men is age 27, a 30-49 (want to emphasize this since you're saying 30, we don't have a view on whether or not most of these people are in their low thirties or upper forties) year old man is not the average man. There are also a significant number of more women on the planet than men. Beyond that; it isn't about the percentages as much as it's about the trend. 23% of men have not had sex in 12 or mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 07:24 PM
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Sexless implies an entire year of no sex. This means if we decrease that number to something like 6 months, which we can agree (I think) is a long time to go without having sex, that number would go up. This is also based on a trend. The premise of the article is that this is the highest it's been since these metrics have been tracked. I think it would be fair to assume that these numbers have gone up since Covid, and that it's bizarre how much they've gone up considering the rise of liberalism …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 06:52 PM
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I see. These age brackets are pretty wide, 30-49 for partnered people leaves a huge gap on what the average age of partnered people is. Also, more than half of adults from 20-29, a bracket half that size, is single, which is good indication of the scale. https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.sciencealert.com/the-percentage-of-americans-not-having-sex-has-reached-a-record-high/amp I don't know how good the original study is here but this "science" website is quoting the post, where it says the number …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 06:40 PM
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The only thing men can do, and this doesn't just have to be beta men, is literally what men have talked about for centuries. Stop putting pussy on pedestal. It's not about "protesting" as much as it is leveling the playing field out. Even guys who have sex frequently or infrequently but are not in relationships are irritated by the sense of entitlement and obligation projected to them on the opposite side of the dating game. The main things I think would make a significant impact to awakening wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 06:33 PM
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? Can you cite a source. The last study I saw is that close to have of both men and women over the age of 25 aren't having sex. More so men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 06:21 PM
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It's not a non-sequitur at all. You can't just look at a survey statistic and take it at face value. If I told you that I hate McDonalds, but you saw me eat it every day, would you think I really hated McDonalds? You guys try really hard to make yourselves depressed. If a woman says 80% of men are ugly, but she goes out on dates with most of the men she says that about, do you really think that she thinks those dudes are ugly? Do you think it's fair to say that looks are the most important thing…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 06:57 PM
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It means exactly what I said it does. That same study said that women were far more likely to speak to men they deemed physically unattractive than a man would be. I don't understand why that detail gets glossed over by all you mother fuckers. It means that women are more attracted to a man's secondary and tertiary traits than his looks. If looks are the only thing they have to go off of, they will only select the best looking men. As indicated by this sub, women are not thinking about the popul…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 05:33 PM
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The closest thing to an incel community I visit is this place. Calling people who criticize prototypical feminine behavior is a great way to create a moratorium on such behavior. If we're allowed to criticize things that men do in general, which I'm a proponent of and something I see that you seem to enjoy, then the opposite should also be allowed. My opinions don't come from the internet. I'm not some basement dweller who is starved for a hug. I shared a story in a previous comment. The first t…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 05:45 AM
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It does for most women, we can pretend it doesn't for the sake of being smug, under the guise of plausible deniability, but it certainly does.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 04:56 AM
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Not sure when and why you thought it was appropriate to give me a lecture. I date often, and don't care if a stranger on the internet likes my opinions or doesn't. Your comment also doesn't make sense, I'm talking about how I don't care to be with women who fixate on income. Nothing in the comment discusses sex at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 04:19 AM
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What if my grandmother was born with tires instead of legs? She would be a bicycle. I've seen this said about me before I had money and about my friends who had degrees in finance and engineering and the like. My ex from years ago was honest about it. She told me she was dating a man 20 years older than me before she met me who invented some fancy product and she "chose me" because she thought I had similar potential and was closer to her age. Women who say this shit, liberal, conservative, or o…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 01:08 AM
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I go into detail about what I think that means in another comment. Without belaboring the point as I did with the other guy; it means that women would only have sex with a small percentage of men based on looks alone. 80% of men who are not extremely good looking have to manifest attraction in some other way. It isn't them saying those guys are ugly, it's them saying those guys aren't "risk an STD or a potential murder to go spontaneously have sex with a stranger" hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 10:02 PM
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Everyone is dancing around it, but it means potential to be rich one day. He's a good looking and caring man but he lacks money. A woman says a guy has potential if he's younger than 30 and has good career prospects, but hasn't hit his stride. It's like betting on a horse, and it's one of the fakest and most fucked up things some women do. They hold onto a dude who they think will get rich, while keeping other logs burning in the fire in case he doesn't make good on that perceived promise.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 09:59 PM
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I guess that all depends on what level of the pill spectrum you're on, in reference to the hypergamy thing. My argument to that is that it will eventually make almost no sense for women to be hypergamous unless they want to be polygamous and marry the few men with significantly greater access to resources, when income and access to wealth will essentially be equalized in the next 20 years. But, no, I really doubt women perceive 7's as average seriously. They aren't blind, they know what men look…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 09:31 PM
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Women who do that are pontificating to feign some meager level of superiority :/
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 09:05 PM
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Then there is no point in using the scale at all. It's not a subjective 5, or a subjective 7. You having a stricter standard for a 5 is you pontificating with a desire to express some sort of exclusivity. It's one thing to say a person isn't your type and another thing to say "they're a 6." It would make more sense to say something like "I only date 7s or higher" than to say "this person is a 5 to me."
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 08:41 PM
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That's not what I said at all. What I said is that women will only sleep with men who are exceptionally good looking for casual sex, in a vacuum where they know nothing else about the man. The more they learn about a man, the more attracted they become. Women are far more interested in a man's presence than his looks. Women do not think 80% of men are ugly. They think that 80% of men are not extremely good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 07:25 PM
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Men outnumber women on the apps and would sleep with someone based on looks alone. A dating apps primary focus is to link people up for sex based on looks alone. For a woman, that is a scary thing to do, so if she is going to sleep with a man just based on looks, she is only going to do that with the most attractive man to maximize on the risk/reward. For men, if you asked them which women they would sleep with based only on looks, that answer would vary significantly based on how horny they are…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 07:15 PM
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I hate that shit too but it's not a real study. There are a lot of problems with the way the study was conducted. Primarily; it's based off of match and swipe data. We all know that women are far more opportunistic on a dating app than on real life. The thing nobody likes talking about or is quick to dismiss in this sub is how complicated attraction is for the average women and how men are significantly more superficial. The average woman seldom walks by a man who she thinks is attractive on the…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 07:02 PM
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:/ you guys cling onto that okcupid study like it's a verse from the Bible.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 06:49 PM
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Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 06:07 PM
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I don't know why you keep asking questions I've already answered for you. I want you to admit you don't know what you're talking about because it's toxic advice that people should not take.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 06:06 PM
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Bro, you're not Edgar Allen Poe. Stop acting like this is a masterpiece of literature. It isn't ironic, I'm not the guys you're talking about. You either have relationship experience or you don't. And if you don't and won't admit it, then I think everyone should know that your opinion on this subject is worthless.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 06:03 PM
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Because I want you to admit that you don't actually have any information or experience to make this claim. In my view, your opinion is harmful to the younger people who read and follow this sub. You posted it to share your jaded opinion, I want to challenge it so that others know that the vast majority of people, and that people who actually have been in LTRs, do not have this shitty world view of yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 05:57 PM
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I don't need to move on, you posted this in a public place. If you don't like people disagreeing with you then maybe you should avoid public discourse.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 05:55 PM
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Pot calling kettle black. Look up income statistics. Look up the rate of mental illness in children from single parents. Nothing about what you say comes from a legitimate source of information, it's just a pussy power rant you've invented in order to serve some weird sense of ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 05:53 PM
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A lot of what your post says just isn't true. Women don't earn more than men. "Extracting resources" like bro, I know this is a purple pill sub but this isn't female dating strategy. The way you talk about people makes me think you've never been in a serious relationship. The men here fall into 3 buckets. Dudes who play video games and never go outside and bitch about their lack of dating success, dudes who are objectively good looking and probably void of a personality and have success with wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 05:51 PM
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This is some femcel shit
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 05:45 PM
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I mean I'm old enough to tell you that for a certain fact. His roles in inception and the dark knight rises had everybody talking about him. Women were fawning and doing the typical "marry me" bullshit on the internet. Much like most celebrity attraction and female internet fawning, I'm sure most of it was a fad, but it happened and you can still find evidence of it online today.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 02:41 PM
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It does not. A scale of 1-10 is a generalization of people's attractiveness from the entire population. 1 being the most unappealing and unattractive and 10 being the highest echelon of people. 5 means average as hell. You could call JGL a 7, but calling him a 5 is comparing him to someone with unkempt hair and a minimum wage job.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 02:36 PM
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10 years ago everybody wanted to bang him. He's not a 5, then or now.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 02:27 PM
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Are you at all related to RimjobSteve?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 04:09 AM
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Some of you are wildin. Joseph Gordon Levitt - a 5? Who are you trying to impress lol. Someone being moderately attractive is not average. Average means average, the average person is relatively busted in my opinion. I guess I do appreciate this thread, through. I've constantly felt like the people in this sub are jaded romantically and I realize now that a lot of you are impossible to please. If an objectively attractive man is average to you there is little the world can do to impress you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 01:16 AM
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Amy Schumer is a straight up thumb
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 01:09 AM
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As a 30 year old man I can tell you you're wrong. Yes your generation generally appreciated women who stayed at home but that doesn't mean that reality is fixed. The real world changed, your fellow women deemed that level of existence to be an obsolete form of life. Do men your age and weird conservative young guys maybe appreciate that lifestyle? Sure, but that doesn't really solve the "I know what I'm worth" statement. You're a dependent in practical terms. A burden in plain terms. I wouldn't …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 08:10 PM
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The normal one? The one all people measure each other on? Like come on now, nobody just thinks someone is "worth a lot" for having a massive ego. The 1st question I ask a woman who says that shit to me is "ok what is your biggest accomplishment." If that question pisses you off then you ain't it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 07:56 PM
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We've heard it all before dude. If I'm wrong then tell me what your value is but I'm just being honest. This isn't the 60s, no one gives a fuck about your sense of self worth outside of the context of you having a good career and being a helpful partner. Got kids? Minus 10. No job? Minus 20. Divorced? Minus 15.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 07:53 PM
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You're just arrogant. There is nothing inherently valuable about being a woman the same way there isn't anything inherently valuable about being a man. People aren't threatened by you, they're annoyed with this Victorian idea that having a vagina and willing to clean a man's house is valuable. It isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 07:41 PM
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It's 2022 and I don't know wtf you're talking about. I am a solid 6, a 7 on a good day, and I go out and pick up girls all the time. Stop worrying about bullshit internet theories. Instead of giving yourself excuses not to try, give yourself reasons why you should try.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 10:56 AM
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Women do not work that way. Damn you guys are like that meme where Charlie from It's Always Sunny is losing his mind in front of a chalk board. Safety, comfort, humor, excitement, romance. A man can be extremely good looking and know jack shit about making a woman feel any of the above. Will he have an advantage? Sure, but women will generally gravitate towards men, for hook up and marriage situations, who make them feel those things rather than someone who sucks at dating and is just good looki…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 10:26 AM
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How so? The majority of women that are overweight are actual malnourished. This isn't me being ignorant as much as its me sharing a fact with you. Lots of women avoid carbs and eat insufficient amount of protein. So many women are actually at a caloric deficit, but because their macronutrients are so out of wack their body stores fat because it worries about not having access to food later. When you don't eat enough protein, your body pulls that nutrition from muscle. When your only source of pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 01:46 AM
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Women think about money differently than men do. Sure they like it when you buy them nice things, but who doesn't like that. Only the most superficial and vapid women think a man's value is placed on his ability to buy her gifts. Don't get me wrong, if you want the best blow job you've ever had in your life, I suggest buying your girlfriend/wife a diamond necklace. But that again isn't really what women are qualifying with income. Women focus money in on resources. Do you have a nice house/apart…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 11:52 PM
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Subcutaneous fat is easier to burn fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 04:56 PM
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Good shape has a different definition for women than it does for men. Women do not need to show abs to be considered in good shape. Yes the presence of testosterone helps build muscle faster, but nobody considers the jacked woman the epitome of female physique. Being at 18% body fat for a woman is pretty damn achievable. The biggest problem in general that women have maintaining a healthy body weight is that most women don't meet their daily protein requirements, which causes their body to starv…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 02:52 PM
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Women store more of what is known as subcutaneous fat, which is healthier fat. Men store more visceral fat. That's true, but fat storage patterns are different than fat balance. When men put on external/subcutaneous fat, it stores on the lower body, primarily the lower back and gut area, first. When women put on fat, it goes to their arms, butt, legs, and chest before it stores on the gut. This is why women show abs at higher body fat percentages than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 02:50 PM
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I guess I don't apply because I don't believe in this bullshit rule. I think most humans have the ability to be attractive as long as they invest time in their health and appearance. Most men who bitch about 80/20 don't understand that most women look like wombats in the morning and they literally spend 2 hours getting their shit together before letting the sunlight grace their skin. Most men role out of bed and spend 30 minutes or less pulling themselves together before getting their day starte…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 09:12 PM
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I actually aspired to be a doctor until I got cancer when I was 17. The doctors at my hospital were wildly dramatic and unprofessional, one would sexually harass the nurse practitioners, another was having an affair with the same doctor. I was forcibly given pain medication up the wazoo, had a nurse basically mainlining me with benadryl and dilauded outside of the drip machine because she had a hard on for making me high as fuck. On top of that just the being surrounded by death. Sarcoma patient…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 09:02 PM
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Sounds like you just like tall guys whether they're fat or not and short guys only if they're not fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 08:44 PM
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This is actually a scientific fact in terms of fat storage and actually somewhat of an embarrassing reason as to why it's easier for women to stay in shape than men. The lower back and gut are the first place a male body will store fat. For women, it is the last place. It's possible for a man with a gut to be perfectly healthy. A woman with a significant gut is much more likely to have moderate to severe underlying health issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 08:42 PM
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🤯 that is absolutely wild, to each their own I guess. When I was 27 I would not consider a 20 year old in my age group at all, the differences in maturity from being in college to 5 years out in the workforce is like night and day.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 10:15 PM
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Wait are you saying you'd more likely date a 47 year old man rather than a 27 year old man?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 10:03 PM
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Nothing you say makes sense. You're not inherently valuable by default, since value is a term that describes relative worth. If you've accomplished nothing in this life, aren't capable of supporting yourself, or don't/can't do anything that no other woman would do, then you're not "worth" a damn. The same way you don't owe a man sex, he doesn't owe you a comfortable lifestyle or emotional support.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 09:19 PM
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How exactly does a person calculate their "worth" in a relationship. If this is the FDS approach, all I've seen is that yelling at a man for his money and maybe having sex with him sometimes while promising nothing in return is somehow "queen material." I've never understood women who behave that way and think that they're viewed as valuable.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 07:45 PM
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Sex with you is not the same thing as it is for everyone lol. You're bitchy "if you think blah blah blah, you've gotta give me this to get that, I feel bad for you if" like get over yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 07:35 PM
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Your unnecessary desire to complicate and gate keep sex is exactly the kind of demand creation and extortion this dude is talking about. That's literally salesmanship around exclusivity.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 02:58 AM
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I think this is honestly a direct consequence of the incredibly detrimental amount of toxic dating advice available to both genders across Reddit, Instagram, and YouTube. The robotic standardization is a duopoly, it's not just men doing it. In life, that is. On this sub a lot of dudes fail to understand that their own social ineptness is their biggest cock block.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 02:55 AM
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I'm having a great time being single, so thanks for that, actually. Despite you being an absolute pest, I hope you have a good year, a successful career, and a pleasant relationship with your new boyfriend. If you're lucky maybe you'll outgrow some of these neurotic tendencies. Ciao.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 09:50 PM
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I'm definitely a little irritated. Your comments sound nasely in my head when I read them. It's crazy how your annoying qualities somehow translate via text.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 09:47 PM
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Bro you are literally just an insecure hater. All of the comments are supporting her and her growth. The top 5 comments are supportive and say the opposite of what you wrote. There's also nothing wrong with her body in the first place. I also never went out of my way to tell someone to get a dangerous surgery, you did. You're toxic as fuck and insecure as hell. You're a high schooler on Reddit pretending to be a nurse and you apparently see things that aren't there because nobody is telling that…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 09:45 PM
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That's not borne out in what you've shared and it just isn't true. They're even talking about doing hip aductors in the comments to change the shape of her hip muscles to round out her ass. I don't see a single comment telling this woman anything negative about her body, shape, or ability to alter any of it through hard work.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 09:40 PM
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Do you think that the average man knows the difference between a square ass and a heart shaped one? We were not talking about shape in isolation. You said that the shape of an ass impacts its size. I said it doesn't. The comments agree with that, you can have a big ass even if it's square.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 09:38 PM
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I mean based on that we either agree or were never talking about the same thing. Yes, she can't change the shape of her ass. Her ass can certainly become bigger and less flat with exercise. And honestly I feel bad for that woman. That's a great ass, I doubt a lot of men would have a problem with a girl having an ass like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 09:34 PM
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I mean according to your profile you're a virgin with no boyfriend, so I'm not sure why I would believe anything else you would say. There is no medical professional anywhere saying that the size of your ass is dependent on its shape. There's no scholar article that says that, and no logical reason why it would be true. Before I started my full time career I competed in amateur weight lifting events and personal trainer men and women part time. The shape of your glutes are way more about the ali…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 09:08 PM
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I'm not knocking the profession. I'm laughing at how you expect me to believe your story. If it's true I wonder why you sold yourself short. If you actually had the talent and the acumen, why not aim to be a doctor? It just seems like a weird decision and like a lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 09:00 PM
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Also still laughing at the part where you try to convince me that butt shape has an impact on glute size. You clearly have an ugly butt and are too lazy to work on it. Everybody knows your butt shape only impacts the actual shape but size is achieved through protein synthesis and caloric surplus. You don't need to be a doctor to know that building muscle is more about what you eat, and the shape of your ass is more about your muscle to fat ratio. But I'm sure despite having no ass, your extremel…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 08:56 PM
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I'm mostly still laughing at the part where you graduated high school early to become a nurse
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 08:52 PM
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"I'm not reading all that"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 08:50 PM
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Plastic surgery rarely results in death. You're a freshman in college, not a nurse, and nobody should be taking medical or dating advice from a superficial child. The square muscle thing is also a red herring argument pieced together by sour women who don't like working out. Different exercises work different parts of the glutes. In fact, butt squeezes, hamstring curls, and dead lifts do more to shape a persons bottom than squats. Regardless of all that, I've never suggested anyone get plastic s…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 08:38 PM
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I get that you're just having fun here but I would maybe reconsider participating in this conversation. You're in highschool talking to people in their 30s about shit you don't really understand. Height augmentation involves breaking your bones for several months in a row in hopes of growing 2 inches. It can have permanent side effects and almost every man that does it has impaired walking 10 years younger than the average man. Doing squats is an objectively great exercise for your body and, if …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 08:16 PM
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I'm gonna need to know how old you are before I waste my time on this conversation. You sound like you're a teenager.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 08:09 PM
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Meh idk about that. A lot of tall women may have a height preference but generally care less because they get preferenced out by height themselves. I see more tall women with sub 6' men than the opposite. Also, a lot of tall guys fetishize short girls. I think people think it's just the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 08:08 PM
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You're mentally ill
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 08:06 PM
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People are hornier when they're drunk and most men suck at marketing themselves. For women, who have shitloads of pictures taken for them at any given moment, their representations online are probably more accurate. Men either look way better or way worse in real life, catfishing is a bigger risk for women. Also, despite what you hear online, less than 25% of women have ever used a dating app. It lacks the Cinderella story that meeting someone in real life brings to them, and that a lot of women…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 07:41 PM
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Simping is not the same thing as treating you well. I would find it hard to believe that you could truly respect someone and call them your man if they literally treat you like a baby, spend all of their time chasing after you, and makes all of their decisions based around pleasing you. It just sounds so unattractive. I'm gonna take a wild guess that you're still in highschool or are in your late teens early 20s. The older you get, the more you'll realize that men that embody those simp qualitie…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 07:33 PM
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I just don't believe you at all. Like sure - if what you're saying is true than yes, but I doubt that a guy who is insanely physically attractive to you, and treats you normal, and is busy and gives you a modest amount of attention, is going to lose to a dude who is average looking and hits you up 10 times a day buying you shit. You're going to fuck that 1st guy, because sex is your bargaining chip for his time. You're not gonna fuck the other guy, because you're getting everything you want from…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 07:25 PM
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My only pushback on this, and I think the point OP is making, that when women have these kinds of insecurities about their looks, and they never let them go, a man who gets fed up and walks way from a woman who can't move past her insecurities is generally viewed as an asshole, where as a woman who walks away from a man who does the same is viewed as justified/empowered.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 06:02 PM
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It is so weird how many people on this sub have control issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 03:42 PM
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I'm not a consumer but for me it's more like stop violating clear cut lines and boundaries. So many subs on Reddit even like first impression or rate me are profiles looking to push people to their only fans. On dating apps there are women who nefariously pretend to be looking for dates when they're actually just looking for customers. On Instagram I get pushed so much porn adjacent content simply because I'm a guy in my late 20s. I hate both sides of it. It's clear that the workers in these sce…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/22 03:39 PM
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This is a really dumb and insecure theme I keep seeing repeated in here. The short answer is you're wrong. You sound so entitled and insecure. It's not childish to sleep around if you're single. You mtfs are so opinionated and entitled about what other people do with their bodies. You guys can't seriously be this starved for affection where you think the problem is uncommitted people behaving completely fucking normally. This isn't the 1800s, you're not going steady with someone just because you…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 10:55 PM
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It's ok to not agree but she is right. No sense shutting everyone out of the dating pool when come date 3 you sleep with eachother and it's awful or you find out something about them that makes you want to stop seeing them. People who rush into relationships are more attracted to the idea of not being single than the person they're dating. I focus less on milestones and more on my actual thoughts and feelings on my partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 10:50 PM
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Going through hoe phases makes me jaded. It makes me think that all women are exactly the same and the sex is rather unsatisfying at times. There are some great fucking stories though. I slept with this girl 2 weeks ago; she asked me to reconfigure the Roku app on her phone so we could watch tv after we did it. As I'm sorting through her WiFi settings, I noticed in her video history that she'd been watching Joel Osteen sermons, like the full length, real deal Holyfield 3+ hour long videos. I nev…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 09:00 PM
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I don't think there is anything wrong with casual sex. I also think that women who only work part time or want to be SAHM are not economically reasonable partners given the times, and that men that want women that are subservient in that way and just stay home have inferiority complexes. At the same time, no matter how progressive a woman is, I feel like women have a predisposition to be more materialistic and seeking of a man who makes more money and has nicer things than her, regardless of how…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 03:42 PM
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That's again, not how it works. Only boosting your profile impacts visibility. Profiles who pay are subject to the same algorithm. What a boost does is make it one of the first visible profiles in the time period paid for. Otherwise it's all the same shit. Organic impressions are based on your percentage of right swipes vs impressions. That's how the apps gauge how much to show your profile and how close to the top.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 07:18 PM
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Your profile doesn't get hidden because you aren't paying. Your profile gets hidden because there is a desirability score associated with your profile. Attractive people get more impressions whether they're paying or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 06:56 PM
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On today's episode of PPD - water is wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 06:06 PM
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I honestly think it's a few reasons, but definitely not the one you posted about. Women are not becoming sex workers in droves. Quite a few are flocking to things like OnlyFans, but that's because of the narcissistic shift in society as well as the supply/demand curve that shows that men are paying for that shit. Fewer women use dating apps because of the fact that they are inherently more unsafe than finding a partner in a different way. Many women also do not need an app to find a date. There'…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 05:13 PM
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I've made those comments but I was specific in stating "healthy physical shape." If you don't exercise or look malnourished, that is still unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 12:52 AM
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It's more nuanced than that. An 8 or higher will be approached by a man who either thinks he is as attractive or more attractive than that woman, or by a man who who thinks he has some sort of specific edge - social status or money usually - to impress that girl. There are several ways to figure out how attractive you are, roughly. Some are relative, like basing it on men who approach you or men you've dated. On average, a man will approach a woman he thinks is within his relative level of attra…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 12:07 AM
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You're like purposefully changing the definition of what the top 20% is. The top 20% cannot be the most attainable 20%. The most attainable 20% for anyone is you approaching and dating someone significantly less attractive than you. More attractive people are less attainable. The top 20% of women are the most attractive, that was obvious based on the context. While my statement is anecdotal it doesn't mean it's false. You can ask any guy you know in your life. Going up to a girl who is extremely…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 09:58 PM
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Yeah I mean I think all the guys in here have literally zero social skills and like most people who say this shit just want to invent excuses to justify their paralyzing fear of actually trying. I date a lot, I'm also the kind of guy a red piller would hate. I have a significant body count and could care less how many women have slept with. 18 year old women are maybe good for sex if you're a the son of pastor and need to date a virgin. Otherwise they lack experience and are incredibly awful to …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 09:43 PM
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So, just to correct you, you were trying to prove a point. The person you were replying to did not agree with you. 2nd, that's ridiculous across the board. You're not automatically an 8 if a guy goes up to talk to you. The vast majority of men are often petrified of walking up to a girl they think is that attractive. As a guy I say this from experience. I approach 5-7s literally all the time but an 8 or higher makes my insecurities come out. Fact of the matter is that the more guys approaching y…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 09:37 PM
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Seemed like you were trying to rationalize that women still somehow get forgone for the top 20%, despite men doing the approaching the vast majority of the time and women rejecting most men who approach them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 09:30 PM
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18 year old women? Dating? Have you tried talking to a girl this age? It's like watching the brain cells wash off your skull. Most men want to date women between the ages of 24-30, sure. Men do not want to be in a committed relationship with a superficial child.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 09:28 PM
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This proves the other persons point, not yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 09:26 PM
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I think women get hung up on this because they use it as an excuse to not work on themselves, similarly to men. The truth is, both sexes ideally want the top 20% but more often and more realistically they're chasing the top 40%. I would absolutely marry a 6/10 who was emotionally supportive, had great sexual chemistry with me, and brought joy to my life. Most men would. The real problem here is that most people think they're a 6 when they're actually a 4. If you don't take care of hygiene, menta…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 09:24 PM
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Meh I don't know about this one. I actually just don't think it's factually true unless you're isolating attraction from physical appearance. Women experience sexual urges, some women downright get super turned on by guys most of society would call objectively ugly. Everyone has different preferences and turn ons, and thus beauty is subjective. You also ignore a massive point which makes me wonder how well you know women - a ridiculously exorbitant amount of women routinely spend hours a day doc…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 09:03 PM
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I don't think that's true. Some men yes but that's also true for some women. Dating is much more cumbersome for men, most men do get exhausted with the process and want to settle down because dating tends to make men, and probably women too, pretty jaded. Most men are typically starved for comfort when they're single, women often get comfort from multiple sources and sometimes more often when they're single. I myself have two casual sexual relationships and would way prefer to just be committed …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 04:25 PM
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If I'm being honest, I don't think you sound ready for a real relationship. But if you want more specific advice, I'll give it to you. From a psychological standpoint, you're caught in a negative thought loop. You've predefined what a fair deal means, but it's illogical to do this because you're assuming other people will give your definition credibility when they pretty obviously won't. Consider that many women haven't done the things you've done in life but have ended up marrying men significa…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 11:39 PM
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You're projecting. I would argue that I'm not kicking you when you're down, I'm verbally slapping sense into you. Accusing me of being sociopathic and then lambasting women as a whole is you projecting your own sociopathic tendencies in a pretty masterful way, especially when you consider that you're doing so to get some sort of pity out of me. Whether you want to accept it or not, women have a physiological need for comfort. They fulfill this need by finding a partner that is more powerful than…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 09:23 PM
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You're a young kid with a sense of entitlement and a spoiled attitude. You can spend all your life lamenting about how women are selectors and man are selected or you can accept the reality, pivot, and actually enjoy yourself. You truly are purple pilled but in the worst way. You want a woman who works hard and is independent, but you want her to be sexually conservative and prototypical. You are a man, you don't exist in an array of options, having requirements like these will leave you alone a…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 09:08 PM
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Then you need to budge on your no or low sex body count requirement. You can't project scenarios in your head out into the real world. Girls who are young professionals share some level of masculinity or fluidity in their gender roles. They seek out and desire sex, as ambition is a trait closely influenced by testosterone. All of that aside, your lamentations and negative outlook are your biggest obstacle. You need to be more fun to be around and more apathetic towards female behavior if you wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 09:00 PM
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You're obsessive. Your desire to not let go of the past and unrelenting compulsion to control outcomes is not a masculine behavior. I don't believe in gender roles in this way, unless there is context that implies it. You want a housewife that doesn't sleep around. A girl like that wants a conservative, heteronormative, prototypical masculine man. You don't embody that, not in your words or actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 08:22 PM
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Reading this made my body pump testosterone.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 08:19 PM
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Reading this made my body pump testosterone.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 08:19 PM
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It seems like you're more bitter about being single than anything else. Just based on how you type it looks like you want something to hate on so you chose short men, because you've been rudely ridiculed for your superficial qualities yourself. Projecting out negativity isn't going to help you get what you want. It's just going to create more distance between you and suitable partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 03:06 PM
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I replied to the wrong person
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 03:06 PM
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This doesn't work this way lol. You don't get the average of the 2 heights. You either get your mother's height or your fathers height. If you have 3 kids one of them will be short, statistically, because it will get the mothers height. You should date whoever you want because they're attractive but your kid isn't going to average out your superficial qualities. It will pick one side from each person's genes. Tall people can have short genes - if everyone else in your tall man's family is short …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 03:05 PM
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