| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 3 | Am I(18m) misinterpreting friendship with my coworker(45f)?Our boy about to smash | /r/seduction | 22/10/22 04:27 AM |
| 6 | How can I stop focusing on finding a girlfriend?I'd say adopt the vibe of a fuckboy and talk to numerous girls at once. Then instead of choosing one of one and pining after her, you'll be trying to narrow down from a bunch. This will make you less needy with one in particular and make your energy better. I wish I could find something less toxic that works but this has always been what works when i decide I'm ready for a relationship. I mentally say "I'm going to go on a rampage for the next while and smash everything i see" then i usually fin… | /r/seduction | 07/10/22 10:43 PM |
| 15 | Lost my virginity last night, here's some takeaways / after-thoughtsI'm a Canadian who has lived in Mexico for 4 years and if you aren't an idiot, you're going to be fine | /r/seduction | 19/08/22 01:53 AM |
| 1 | Should I take a girl who I know for less than a month to a UFC event?Hmm, not ideal. I probably wouldn't sell the ticket and buy cheaper ones; I feel that sends the wrong message. But yeah it's your call. At least you're set as man to woman already | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 12:29 AM |
| 1 | Should I take a girl who I know for less than a month to a UFC event?you've smashed or kissed? | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 11:55 PM |
| 1 | Should I take a girl who I know for less than a month to a UFC event?I would say just take her for coffee first. Maybe dinner. Hyped on the event for you though bro. | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 08:21 PM |
| 4 | How to politely tell girls that you don't want to stay in touch?yeh this one i like as well | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 07:26 PM |
| 13 | Why do some women tend to post IG stories of them at a fancy place or restaurant but don’t show the guy they’re with? Just something I was curious about.i give you props too. fair play to ya | /r/seduction | 04/08/22 10:18 PM |
| 1 | not sure how to go about wanting to tell someone i want to see them again?I would send memes | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 02:14 AM |
| 1 | Just had another ONS and I'm starting to doubt that the lifestyle is for meCongratulations -- you learned with 5 kills what took me multiple dozen kills. It's fun every now and then but ultimately meaningless. The benefit is getting good to the point your brain knows that if you need to you could get laid. Then your brain is in abundance and you can make decisions from that place instead of in the back of your mind making decisions on if you think you'll get some pussy for it. It allows you to be more authentic, nothing more. But if you're not getting fulfillment it's … | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 08:51 PM |
| 2 | I am tired of livingHey bro, fellow Jiu Jitsu guy here. Weird way to end your post. Your life doesn't really sound that bad tbh, just your perspective is a little fucky. If therapy is too expensive, I recommend you get a credit card and do it anyway, as your life is worth more than $100 for an hour or however much it is to talk to someone. Then if you still want to kill yourself after that, the $1000 in credit card debt won't be such a big deal. | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 05:12 AM |
| 1 | Do some guys really ask the girl if they can kiss her on a first date? And i also heard this girl who is a dating coach tell guys that one way they can be a good kisser is to ask her consent before you go for a kiss! How do you guys feel about that?There was a period of about 8 months where every date I went on, the way I'd escalate was by asking "Can I kiss you?" and then going for it. Closed a lot of deals like that. Also if you read "Becoming" by Michelle Obama that's the exact line Barack Obama used to make his first move | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 08:25 PM |
| 1 | After first approach in ages I was told to kill myself. Should I continue with seduction?Definitely do what you can about your body to not be overweight, but don't give weight to this one girls words. People are rude, kind, everything in between. We shouldn't place too much importance on either praise or insults. | /r/seduction | 20/07/22 03:47 PM |
| 24 | Am I a Simp for this?If you've smashed already its all good. Enjoy Miami gang. | /r/seduction | 19/07/22 09:13 PM |
| 1 | I still live at home, does that turn girls off?You're right, it does make it more difficult. However, there are any number of things that will make it harder to get laid. I think choosing to not get any pussy due to some random thing is a bigger obstacle to getting laid than living at your parents house | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 12:57 AM |
| 8 | I still live at home, does that turn girls off?Oh, I just told my parents that I was going to be a pimp. So I never hid anything. As a man you should be open with your parents | /r/seduction | 16/07/22 02:56 AM |
| 13 | I still live at home, does that turn girls off?lol I used to live at my parents house in the forest. I'd be pulling girls from the bar, driving 45 minutes until we're outside of civilization and there stops being streetlights, then we just drive in the shadows until we arrive at my mama house. Girls will literally risk their lives to go home with you, don't overthink and just pull to mom and dads. Also disclaimer, this usually wouldn't be first night pulls. I would usually meet girls at the bar then go on a date and then make the forest driv… | /r/seduction | 16/07/22 12:20 AM |
| 6 | I’m just so dang tired of nothing working out and always being the one to pursue and never the one to be pursuedHey bro, number one you're young and girls are going to be harder now than they will be when you're older. Number two get used to always being the one that pursues. That is just the name of the game, and that's how you'll get anything in this life. Nothing will be handed to you. Your ex girl doesn't have to get used to prospecting as she has inbound leads, you don't gett that luxury, and you'll be stronger for it. Also you're doing no night game or day game it looks like, just relying on online,… | /r/seduction | 02/07/22 04:52 AM |
| 28 | Roommate avoids me nowConfront isn't the right word. But yes, you should speak to her. Mention "hey, can we talk?" and then bring up that you want to just chat about what happened and you don't want to make things awkward etc etc. Clear the air. You're going to be there till August, you don't want to be living in a hostile environment. But whatever you do, I would recommend that you don't confront anyone | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 07:08 PM |
| 3 | I’m sitting here watching seinfeld and having this moment of realizationHappy to hear. Executing like a champion | /r/seduction | 24/06/22 07:25 PM |
| 13 | I’m sitting here watching seinfeld and having this moment of realizationWhile it's true, this also sounds like it's written by someone who doesn't approach a lot. How many have you opened since this realization? | /r/seduction | 24/06/22 06:23 AM |
| 1 | This Girl I’ve been talking to Posted about me on tik tok.Sounds like good news to me. | /r/seduction | 11/04/22 09:07 PM |
| 2 | Getting shamed for dating women younger than meI too, watched Malcolm X | /r/seduction | 31/03/22 09:20 PM |
| 2 | What’s your hobby?Yeah so 3-4 days ahead I send out a poster with the topic on it with 3-4 questions on the topic to think over and for direction. You can see some of our posters with here. Then yeah, when going over the rules I say it's fine to branch off and the questions are just guidelines and in case someone doesn't have direction. My breakout group literally never touches the questions. | /r/seduction | 21/03/22 02:54 AM |
| 2 | What’s your hobby?Not a school setting, no. Essentially I host them at my house every Tuesday, between 10-20 people, I buy snacks, have a topic we're discussing each day, with a few questions about the topic, then to start we network for 30-40 minutes, then cover the ground rules and topic of the day, then break into groups to discuss for an hour, then we meet up again at the main table and discuss what we learned. For organizing them, mostly i just announce it in entrepreneur groups in my city and then people us… | /r/seduction | 21/03/22 12:05 AM |
| 2 | What’s your hobby?I run a philosophy club, do bjj and read about the gang wars in Chicago and find a way to bring them into every conversation | /r/seduction | 20/03/22 04:37 AM |
| 3 | My new GF (4 months in) is perfect in every way except 1…..I agree with snowdude11. | /r/seduction | 10/03/22 09:12 PM |
| 1 | Never worry about how many IG followers she hasi think the issue is generalizing. Focus on you. I don't like to use this as an example as it's completely anecdotal, but I have a friend with 100k+ followers on Instagram and she is the nicest, most down to earth person. the real thing you should be doing is focusing on yourself and making yourself the best you can be. If you find a girl with a million followers, that's cool. You are going to be looking through the dumpster if you're looking for girls with less than 1000 followers lool | /r/seduction | 24/02/22 12:30 AM |
| 3 | Never worry about how many IG followers she hasHonestly this is such a wack take. 2k followers is nothing, and the level of followers a girl has doesn't really mean anything, just a generalization you're making. Every 6 at this point has 2k followers. | /r/seduction | 23/02/22 08:32 PM |
| 1 | How soon is too soon to buy gift for rotation piece?Just give her the gift bro. Don't be autistic | /r/TheRedPill | 12/12/20 02:08 AM |
| 1 | Holding your frame /standing up against bigger guys. What would you do in this case?Call him out by telling him factually that I stood there first, the entire right side of the room is empty so he can move over there Do NOT do this. Honestly the best thing to do is just ignore him. Anyone who tries to out alpha you, the best response is often to ignore them. People who get defensive and aggressive at things they perceive as sleights are low value individuals | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/20 11:02 PM |
| 5 | "My Boyfriend is Upset I've Destroyed My Ability To Pair Bond by 21, AITA?"This some pussy shit to worry about tbh. You are basing these numbers off what a girl will tell you. Why does it matter how many girls she’s been with? If you’re a champ, they still gonna love you. I’ve had girlfriends with way more kills than 20 who absolutely loved me. All this behavior is going to do is make women lie about their body count for fear of judgement. Why judge women on their body count while simultaneously trying to get yours up? You need women to do that. Unless you just stickin… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/07/20 04:00 AM |
| 3 | How to text girls [Guide + Personal tips]How do you text with someone you've had some meet-ups with but won't be able to see for 2-4 months due to quarantine? | /r/seduction | 02/04/20 04:42 AM |
| 2 | Abundance mentality will lead you to more sex — and successNice simple message. Thanks for sharing | /r/seduction | 20/06/19 06:47 AM |
| 1 | Summary of Chapter 1 of Laws of Human Nature by Robert Greene - Master Your Emotional Self. The Law of Irrationality (Long Post + Video)Yep that's no problem, you'll need to go through my post history though to find. Not as easily accessible. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/06/19 09:26 PM |
| 1 | Summary of Chapter 1 of Laws of Human Nature by Robert Greene - Master Your Emotional Self. The Law of Irrationality (Long Post + Video)Hello, yes I finished it then got through to Chapter 7 or 8 again as I was doing these summaries. The final chapter is amazing! You may as well just trudge through it as I don't remember what's good to skip and what's not. I did some videos on up to chapter 7 you can check out and see if you want to read them. (you can find them on the video summary above). If not then just skip to chapter 8 and go from there. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/06/19 06:27 PM |
| 1 | Summary of Chapter 7 of Laws of Human Nature by Robert Greene - Soften People's Resistance by Confirming Their Self Opinion. The Law of Defensiveness (Long Post + Video)Able to transition jobs? If that's the environment you're in, do what you can to switch it around but if it's negative you gotta get out of there. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/19 02:07 PM |
| 1 | Laws of Human Nature Summary - Chapter 6: The Law of Short-Sightedness.These are just hitting one thing at a time. There's a previous post where we discussed taking bold action and making moves without logic so that we can be creative and actually accomplish stuff. This one is simply our tendency to make quick decisions when we should stop and plot and let things play out further. I do know what you mean though about the problem keeping whole lifetime in perspective. I'm always thinking about my goals that I have for when I'm 55 or so and thinking damn, I need to a… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/02/19 12:10 AM |
| 2 | Laws of Human Nature Summary - Chapter 6: The Law of Short-Sightedness.This is a mistake I made recently haha You're right | /r/TheRedPill | 23/02/19 02:57 PM |
| 3 | The Law of Covetousness Summary - Laws of Human Nature - Robert Green - Chapter 5I think regardless of gender if you do presence absence it'll have an effect. To be honest with you there's a girl I liked a lot here in Mexico who then started being quite absent and it made me want to talk to her a lot more. Eventually we stopped speaking entirely so there's a limit to it but it definitely helps not making yourself too available. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/02/19 10:43 PM |
| 2 | The Law of Covetousness Summary - Laws of Human Nature - Robert Green - Chapter 5Oh yes. This is a very important thing to keep in mind with game and people in general. Cat-string theory | /r/TheRedPill | 09/02/19 08:17 PM |
| 2 | Laws of Human Nature Chapter 4 Summary: The Law of Compulsive BehaviourFully, fully agree we can change who we are and that our brains are plastic. Only thing is we need to consciously do it. Otherwise we are being molded by our circumstances which is never going to work out good for us. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/02/19 12:58 AM |
| 2 | Laws of Human Nature Chapter 4 Summary: The Law of Compulsive BehaviourMy pleasure. I think it's definitely something that we need to keep in mind consciously. It's so easy to just take words at face value and forget that to really look into past behaviours and what you can do to change yourself | /r/TheRedPill | 02/02/19 04:41 PM |
| 1 | Moved to LTR’s country, got treated like shit. Now announced I’m going back home and she worships me.This is highly relevant to me right now and I made this mistake. Except that I'm not leaving the country I'm in for another couple of months. I forgot about the mystery and not telling everything as well to keep her guessing. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/02/19 01:35 PM |
| 1 | Laws of Human Nature Chapter 3 Summary: The Law of Role PlayingJust read the Wikipedia entry. Looks great. I'll add it to the cart. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/19 02:27 PM |
| 1 | Laws of Human Nature Chapter 3 Summary: The Law of Role PlayingYes once per week. Looking forward to going over our notes together. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/19 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Laws of Human Nature Chapter 3 Summary: The Law of Role PlayingHey mate, the source of this is from Chapter 3 from the Laws of Human Nature. I didn't claim anything of my own here. These are all directly from the book. But if you want to let me know some things you'd like sources on I'll happily give information on what I've learned. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/19 02:24 PM |
| 3 | Laws of Human Nature Chapter 3 Summary: The Law of Role PlayingGreat points here all in all. I do want to put the caveat that all of this is from the book and I don't necessarily agree with it. In terms of leadership and alphaness.. I don't know I just live my life. The key lesson to take from this chapter is to embrace that you have a role that you're playing, play it well... and also remember to not take people's words at face value. pay attention to their behaviours and their subconscious movements because if you don't you're going to get fucked over. I … | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/19 12:23 AM |
| 5 | Laws of Human Nature Chapter 3 Summary: The Law of Role PlayingVery interesting post. I think it's a gigantic problem with social media that everyone has to recycle old pictures from vacations and things in order to seem like we're living our best life. Then you go into monk mode and you're forgotten about. So it's almost like the only time people seem like you're doing good is when you're posting and if you step away to actually better yourself it's assumed you're doing bad | /r/TheRedPill | 26/01/19 08:26 PM |
| 2 | Laws of Human Nature Chapter 3 Summary: The Law of Role PlayingI appreciate this feedback /u/BobbyPeru. I was thinking it may be too wordy. Will cut down to the most basic facts next time. Maybe just main lessons to take from the chapter. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/01/19 08:19 PM |
| 2 | Summary of Chapter 1 of Laws of Human Nature by Robert Greene - Master Your Emotional Self. The Law of Irrationality (Long Post + Video)My pleasure. Rereading it and summarizing it has really helped drill it in on my end as well. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/19 11:38 PM |
| 3 | Summary: Laws of Human Nature by Robert Greene. Chapter 2: Transform Self Love Into Empathy - The Law of NarcissismI think this just comes with a lot of time on the earth and a lot of self reflection. You can't just know yourself, you need to try things and discover what actually matters to you, find role models who inspire you and figure out what it is about them that you resonate so strongly with. Read a ton of books from all sorts of things and you can begin to carve out your true self. This is why switched on older guys have a strong frame, they've reflected a lot and discovered who they really are and w… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/19 01:30 AM |
| 2 | Summary: Laws of Human Nature by Robert Greene. Chapter 2: Transform Self Love Into Empathy - The Law of NarcissismWhat you talk about is actually in the next chapter of this book. We all wear masks to hide our ugly nature, it's completely natural and how society evolved. Being vulnerable is very, very important and one of the best things I've ever learned to do. communicate honestly, love yourself, and be open about your feelings to others. Ambition is fine. Although some people don't think about it as good. Just hide your ambitions from those people, only reveal amounts to specific people in your life. Not… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/19 01:28 AM |
| 2 | Summary: Laws of Human Nature by Robert Greene. Chapter 2: Transform Self Love Into Empathy - The Law of NarcissismThat's something I left out of this that's mentioned in the book. That there has been a gigantic rise in narcissism since the 1970's and a lot of it can be contributed to social media. I believe there was an absurd spike in 2011 if I'm remembering what I heard from Jonathan Haidt correctly when he was on JRE | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/19 01:22 AM |
| 1 | Summary of Chapter 1 of Laws of Human Nature by Robert Greene - Master Your Emotional Self. The Law of Irrationality (Long Post + Video)While I'm summarizing chapter 4 of this book I'm learning this actually. In terms of compulsive behavior, there are 3 ways we form our character... some of it's genetics, some of it's our upbringing when we are very young, and then the rest is habits. We think the way we do because we formed like that early on and if we aren't conscious of it that will direct our thoughts for our entire life/ | /r/TheRedPill | 18/01/19 10:20 PM |
| 2 | Summary of Chapter 1 of Laws of Human Nature by Robert Greene - Master Your Emotional Self. The Law of Irrationality (Long Post + Video)Glad you enjoyed it. I'll be posting chapter 2 this weekend :) I agree it's a masterpiece. I haven't enjoyed a book like this in a long time. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/01/19 05:51 PM |
| 1 | Your commitment is worthless if you have nothing to offer.Nice post. I have nothing of value to add so I'll just say thanks for the reminder. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/01/19 04:19 PM |
| 2 | Summary of Chapter 1 of Laws of Human Nature by Robert Greene - Master Your Emotional Self. The Law of Irrationality (Long Post + Video)I felt the beginning of it was a little soft due to the changing times, but it went back to 48 Laws form towards the middle and end. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/01/19 07:13 PM |
| 4 | Summary of Chapter 1 of Laws of Human Nature by Robert Greene - Master Your Emotional Self. The Law of Irrationality (Long Post + Video)Yep, went through it once. Now going through again and summarizing the important points. Great book | /r/TheRedPill | 13/01/19 08:09 AM |
| 1 | Summary of Chapter 1 of Laws of Human Nature by Robert Greene - Master Your Emotional Self. The Law of Irrationality (Long Post + Video)Yeah I have it on audio as well and missed so much just listening the first time through. Going through it and writing it all down though and summarizing the important points are really helping to retain the information. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/01/19 08:09 AM |
| 6 | Why Behavioral Addiction Will Destroy YouI was going to suggest the opposite. Have Reddit and social apps on the phone, but block everything on the computer. Then when you're on the computer, you're there to work. The set periods you allow yourself your cell phone, you can scroll. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/04/18 08:38 PM |
| 2 | The absolute BEST way to Day Approach a cute girlLimiting belief | /r/seduction | 17/04/18 04:02 AM |
| 2 | You've Got To Get These 3 Things Sorted Before Trying To Attract WomenWould have like a TL;DW in the description as I don't enjoy watching videos as much, but great advice nonetheless. Top quality post mate. | /r/seduction | 27/03/18 02:39 PM |
| 1 | First Ever Girlfriendbut I don’t want to end this and end up single, because I really like her and she says she likes me. This here is a horrible mindset. Abundance. Would you put up with this if you had a hundred other girls wanting to date you? no. Also girls will mention guys like she is to test you. If you are bothered by it she will lose attraction. However you're 19, you're still very, very young. Lots of lessons to learn. | /r/seduction | 25/03/18 06:19 PM |
| 0 | I fucking did it.Any updates? She call you? | /r/seduction | 17/10/17 03:19 AM |
| 11 | The Most Powerful Tool in Your Arsenal: The Ability to Walk AwayWas thinking about leaving my current girl today, because things aren't going how I want them to be going lately. And every time I decide it's time to let her go, she seems to act just how I wanted to begin with and we bring our relationship to another level | /r/TheRedPill | 11/01/17 02:39 AM |
| 1 | Seduction For Business, A Summary of Pitch Anything. Includes insights into Neurology, Frame Control, and Eliminating NeedinessI agree. Even just having it in your mind when you're encountering people is excellent for spotting different frames and how others react to certain situations. | /r/seduction | 25/03/16 07:13 PM |
| 1 | Seduction For Business, A Summary of Pitch Anything. Includes insights into Neurology, Frame Control, and Eliminating NeedinessIt's an excellent book, highly recommend. I think the key to most success in any field is high confidence that can relate back to others. When you approach a girl, she doesn't want a weak man, but she also doesn't want someone who can't stop talking about himself. And when you approach a business opportunity, potential investors don't want a weak man, but they don't want someone who doesn't realize he can make mistakes either. I have a mentor who has been doing consulting and negotiating deals f… | /r/seduction | 25/03/16 11:54 AM |
| 1 | Seduction For Business, A Summary of Pitch Anything. Includes insights into Neurology, Frame Control, and Eliminating NeedinessThat's what it talks about with the frame control. If you have to explain why you are more important, authoritative, advantageous, you do not have the stronger frame and are reacting to the girls, or the pitch committee. It also talks about how you should approach a pitch from the abundance mentality and how there will be more people to do business with in the future, which is also very deadly in pick up | /r/seduction | 25/03/16 11:50 AM |
| 2 | A few exercises for having stronger charismaNot bootcamp, just hotseat, but it was glorious. I've been to two of Julien's and one of Jeffy's. The Julien one is pretty crazy, definitely recommend. | /r/seduction | 18/02/16 06:05 PM |
| 1 | A few exercises for having stronger charismaDon't know if I conveyed this properly in the video but obviously you don't do this shit in the bar. You do it in the bathroom or at your house before you go do whatever it is you need charisma for. If you do the being the big gorilla exercise in front of people you're going to look like an idiot. | /r/seduction | 16/02/16 08:34 PM |
| 1 | A few exercises for having stronger charismaThis is an awesome exercise. I am all about self talk, which I don't do enough of and need to start. I'm going to steal your exercise for sure. I like the thoughts of delving into the emotions you're feeling and getting in to where your insecurities lie. Once you know what parts of you don't live up to social standards no one can hold it against you. Thanks for the great comment and yeah if people aren't liking the exercises that's all good, maybe it's just where they're at and they can come bac… | /r/seduction | 16/02/16 04:28 AM |
| 1 | A few exercises for having stronger charismaI know what you mean by your inner feelings when being called charismatic. Usually when people are calling me charismatic it's when I'm meeting people that my family wants me to meet, and I don't care to meet them but am just being charming and pleasant but not caring at all either. One example I will always remember about charisma: I'm not sure if you know Real Social Dynamics, but I went and saw Julien, an instructor through them, and talking to him he emanated this presence where he seemed bi… | /r/seduction | 16/02/16 02:40 AM |
| 1 | A few exercises for having stronger charismaSorry to hear lad | /r/seduction | 16/02/16 12:10 AM |
| 1 | A few exercises for having stronger charismaHopefully you don't live in England mate, it's always overcast there haha | /r/seduction | 15/02/16 08:37 PM |
| 2 | A few exercises for having stronger charismaIt's definitely not a healthy habit to get into, but it can be beneficial on occasion. I try to steer away from everything except for coffee, but goddamn are Red Bull's delicious. | /r/seduction | 15/02/16 08:27 PM |
| 1 | A few exercises for having stronger charismaDaily energy drink like Redbull or energy drink like green smoothies? | /r/seduction | 15/02/16 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Animated summary of one of the most important books in relation to developing personal magnetism: The Charisma MythAppreciate it lad. The book has some great things that contribute to game | /r/seduction | 15/01/16 05:13 PM |
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