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| 4 | Would you approach two women at a coffee shop talking to each other loudly, laughing..Smiling and looking at you. They're both cute and how would chose?This has been discussed to death in seduction community already. Anyway, here is how: 1. Choose your target 2. Approach both of them 3. Build rapport with non-target first 4. Pay less attention to target until non-target accepts you 5. Tease and build attraction with target 6. Depending on compliance from both, choose direct or indirect close 7. Get contact of target | /r/seduction | 19/06/22 10:47 AM |
| -2 | What do I respond to a girl who rejected with: "Just cos I dance with you doesn't mean I'm interested"?Spergy? Ok | /r/askTRP | 09/05/21 11:16 PM |
| 1 | Six months not getting laid and it's starting to affect me negativelyNot sure why you got downvoted but it does make total sense | /r/seduction | 09/05/21 11:20 AM |
| 1 | What is your take on being empathetic in seduction?A good example is being friend-zoned. Lets say a girl says "I want to take it slow and would like to know you better before we do anything". Here, she may be right but attraction has an expiration date. So, if you don't want to empathise, you're pulling away until she falls into your frame | /r/seduction | 02/05/21 12:17 PM |
| 1 | How to respond to this comfort/shit test?"Why? You stink?" | /r/seduction | 02/05/21 11:56 AM |
| 1 | What is your take on being empathetic in seduction?So, do you mean to say, you only understand her point of view but won't act on it? Men and women don't feel the same. So from text book definition, either one of them is falling into the other's frame. So, if you're empathetic, you're in her frame | /r/seduction | 02/05/21 10:09 AM |
| 1 | Women will respect your courageSmile... with your eyes. You can learn this by approaching a lot | /r/seduction | 27/04/21 10:36 AM |
| -1 | Neighbor from down the street...Dude, she's just looking for a gay best friend | /r/seduction | 20/04/21 12:22 PM |
| 1 | Simp to pimpI don't get it... These mindsets are fine but who do you use them on if you're not getting any girls in the first place | /r/TheRedPill | 14/04/21 11:19 AM |
| 1 | How to get laid (18 M) if you don't have a lot of timeWhen I was 18 y.o I didn't know much about sex. Let alone having it. Frustration from 18 y.os here is beyond me | /r/seduction | 04/04/21 11:06 AM |
| 0 | My tinder date turned out to be taller than me."...but who cares how tall someone is when you're..." I think you cared enough to know he was precisely 1.5" shorter | /r/seduction | 07/03/21 02:54 AM |
| 1 | Don't take this subreddit seriously to alter your game planYou shouldn't NEXT a girl or anyone for that matter in life. World is too small and you never know when and how your paths cross. Of course, if she insulted or was rude to you, then it makes sense but if she doesn't go on a date with you, don't NEXT her. Just stop talking to her for now and you can re-engage at some point. | /r/seduction | 14/12/20 05:44 AM |
| 4 | How you flirt (escalate) on a person you just met?Bro, don't bother explaining. Half of the people here don't even know what they are talking about | /r/seduction | 12/12/20 10:46 AM |
| 29 | Is making out with people for the first time always so awkward?Don't forget to remove your mask | /r/seduction | 05/12/20 10:56 AM |
| 3 | how do I get "alone time" with this guy I have been texting. We typically only see each other in a small group of friends in the same apartment block that he lives in.Most people have said you're afraid to ask directly for the fear of rejection. But I think I know where you're coming from. I think it's cos you don't want to come across as easy and it kills attraction and I think I agree with you. How about you compliment him when you're with your friends but in their absence? Or like/comment on any of his posts on Instagram? This would make him ask you out or at least get the signal to take it forward. If he doesn't get your signal, you don't want to be fucki… | /r/seduction | 30/11/20 08:32 AM |
| 2 | Cold approach is the best method of dating more.Imagine you driving a car for the first time next to a cliff. Instead, if you learn slowly in a safe place and then practise for sometime, it'll not be hard to drive if you have to drive next to a cliff So, start approaching anyone and everyone. Talk to old lady at the supermarket, smile at that guy who's waiting with you at the traffic signal, compliment anyone not necessarily a girl etc | /r/seduction | 25/11/20 06:27 AM |
| 1 | Cold approach is the best method of dating more.Going up to a girl who is a stranger and starting up a conversation with the intent of knowing her which can lead to date, GF, FWB, Wife, friend or whatever | /r/seduction | 19/11/20 07:32 AM |
| 1 | Don’t decide for others that you are not good enough. Let the other person make that decision. Don’t disqualify yourself prior to even trying.Exactly! I don't understand how people just throw around motivation stuff. I've been on both sides. I've had good amount of success before covid and it gave me enough motivation to go out and approach and take rejections under the chin. But after covid, I'm really struggling and rejections only hurt your confidence even more. Success builds success. Equally failure builds failure | /r/seduction | 13/11/20 01:23 AM |
| 1 | I've been approaching women since 2009 and have yet to have any kind of success, hundreds of approaches later. I feel immense self-hate and need someone to talk to."What is it you think you'll get from women? Happiness? Love? Care? Intimacy? Connection? How can you develop more of that stuff on your own and give it to yourself?" How would one have intimacy and connection with oneself? Or to be precise if one craved for physical touch of a woman or sex etc | /r/seduction | 05/11/20 11:40 AM |
| 1 | Last two girls vibe feels off after I try to get sexual. Feels like they start to retract afterwards.Last minute resistance Don't be shameful about going for what you want as a man. Of course don't be too pushy and needy but from your post, I thought you were good | /r/seduction | 23/10/20 07:27 AM |
| 1 | Last two girls vibe feels off after I try to get sexual. Feels like they start to retract afterwards.You're good dude. Don't listen to people here saying you were fast in pursuing sex. I don't know which world they are living in. It's fucking 4 dates. I don't think you did anything wrong from what you described. Only think I'd guess is, your vibe was off. It happens to the best of us. Don't dwell on it. Just calibrate better NEXT time. There is something called LMR for a reason. Try to build comfort. Pm me if you like to discuss further | /r/seduction | 23/10/20 06:20 AM |
| 1 | Last two girls vibe feels off after I try to get sexual. Feels like they start to retract afterwards.Where do you meet these girls? | /r/seduction | 23/10/20 05:04 AM |
| 3 | What's your tinder bio?Lol | /r/seduction | 30/09/20 12:02 AM |
| 1 | For guys who are successful at online dating, do you still think cold approaching is better? Why?I find all kinds of BS posts everyday. I don't know what was wrong with this compared to them | /r/seduction | 29/09/20 07:47 PM |
| 1 | Finally breaking the approach anxiety barrierWhich part of the world are you in? Is it free from covid and lockdown shit? | /r/seduction | 20/09/20 03:59 AM |
| 1 | What are some good resources to learn social circle game?Ok man ;-) lol | /r/seduction | 16/09/20 10:29 PM |
| 0 | What are some good resources to learn social circle game?Lol.. good luck for you man | /r/seduction | 16/09/20 09:46 AM |
| 1 | What are some good resources to learn social circle game?Ok, I do have a social circle and people like to join my social circle since there are things always happening but I don't know how to pull a girl from there | /r/seduction | 16/09/20 04:15 AM |
| 0 | What are some good resources to learn social circle game?I don't know what you wanted to say but it wasn't helpful anyway | /r/seduction | 16/09/20 04:14 AM |
| 1 | Cold approach has changed my life in every way possibleWhat if the conversation can be carried out but it's just not interesting? If it turns out friendly? Then you're friendzoned? | /r/seduction | 15/09/20 10:52 AM |
| 3 | The difference between hot and cute...Lol | /r/seduction | 20/08/20 07:33 AM |
| 1 | M27 wants to chatWhat is this community upto? 😂 | /r/seduction | 31/07/20 11:42 AM |
| 2 | Is the point of pickup just to bang 100s of girls? What's the end of it?Just out of curiosity, where do you live? | /r/seduction | 26/06/20 03:32 AM |
| 6 | What’s a list of required items a seducer must have in their room?You can watch Netflix on your laptop and it's a good reason to sit closer | /r/seduction | 06/06/20 11:18 AM |
| 1 | Where to meet girls after universityCouch-surfing? | /r/seduction | 06/06/20 06:02 AM |
| 3 | A Story of RejectionI don't think you need to be ashamed she'd tell other girls. What's wrong in doing what you did? From here on, you need to stay away from her else it's a sure friendzone | /r/seduction | 02/06/20 07:00 AM |
| 1 | Ghosts but watches my feedShe just doesn't want you to forget her and likes you to crawl back in | /r/seduction | 30/05/20 01:14 PM |
| 1 | Is it a good approach?Don't introduce a girl to your friend/s until you've banged and if you have that in your mind | /r/seduction | 30/05/20 12:15 PM |
| 2 | If a girl says she'll think about whether she wants to meet up is that a shit test?IMO, If she knows you've got a lower back pain and she is inconsiderate then I think she's not worthy being pursued Unless she was disappointed that you couldn't bang her cos of your back pain 😁 | /r/seduction | 30/05/20 12:14 PM |
| 2 | Should I apologise?You didn't have to "apologise" but you could've softened the situation by giving it a day or two and sending something random as if nothing happened | /r/seduction | 30/05/20 12:11 PM |
| 1 | My first approach and Starting One Year Long Cold Approach Challenge with at least 5 approaches a dayOr maybe watches too much porn | /r/seduction | 29/05/20 11:19 AM |
| 2 | I just turned 32If OP thinks 32 is old, his confidence is the first thing he probably needs to work on | /r/seduction | 24/05/20 03:39 AM |
| 1 | How to think of yourself as a "prize" and yet not come across as an asshole/rude/impolite/egoistic?Your answer rings a bell but not quite. I know the kind of cockiness you're talking about and the chads. I'm neither a chad nor am I overtly cocky. There are girls who shut me off right from the beginning and I wouldn't be interested to pursue them either and I don't put anymore energy into them. But the girls who are attracted to me or are on the fence are who I fuck up with if I haven't kissed/fucked them. Generally my interactions begin cocky-funny but I don't know when/how I fuck it up and I… | /r/seduction | 22/05/20 05:54 AM |
| 1 | How to think of yourself as a "prize" and yet not come across as an asshole/rude/impolite/egoistic?Fortunately I live in a safe place in the world right now. So your advice can still be executed in live :) | /r/seduction | 21/05/20 05:17 AM |
| 1 | How to think of yourself as a "prize" and yet not come across as an asshole/rude/impolite/egoistic?Wouldn't I be friendzoning myself by doing this? | /r/seduction | 21/05/20 05:05 AM |
| 0 | What makes a woman have sex appeal from your perspective?Smile - this can change everything. I can write a book on this and why it matters so much specially for a woman. (You can PM me if you want to discuss this more) Dress well - it doesn't have to be revealing. But show off your curves if you have the right ones Be open - show your vulnerable side. As a man, he'll be eager to protect you and if you are closed off and if he tries to protect from your vulnerabilities, he'll come across as creepy and no mature man wants to come across as creepy Talk -… | /r/seduction | 15/05/20 10:53 PM |
| 2 | Are there any practical good/real sex education videos for demo and that's not porn?Not bad. However, I'd have liked the same with a guy and a girl without all that fake moaning. I watched it on pornhub. Is that the right place? | /r/seduction | 08/05/20 02:16 PM |
| 2 | Are there any practical good/real sex education videos for demo and that's not porn?Good stuff. Liked it. Specially his weird laughter. Although there are no practical videos, most of his info are insightful. | /r/seduction | 08/05/20 02:15 PM |
| 7 | Are there any practical good/real sex education videos for demo and that's not porn?Well it's not the kind of sex education to procreate I'm talking about. Not like, "Bam, Bam, thank you Ma'am". It's more about foreplay, positions, touching, seducing, increasing sexual tension, cunnilingus, stroking, blowjob, roleplay, multiple orgasms etc There are books about it but I want to see the body language, facial expressions, verbal and non-verbal communication etc Ex: I know how a cunnilingus is done but I want to see what are other parts of your body doing. Like, where are your han… | /r/seduction | 08/05/20 07:46 AM |
| 1 | Test me, ask any question about seduction...Where can I find girls when it's cold/raining/gets dark very early etc? | /r/seduction | 02/05/20 03:36 AM |
| 5 | Guys who made significant changes to their dating/social life, what were the main changes you made?Where did you find those 100 girls? | /r/seduction | 02/05/20 03:32 AM |
| 1 | Older men, how do you handle questions related to your age?Above 40 or even above 35 | /r/seduction | 24/04/20 03:14 AM |
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